Wednesdays - 95: GF crashing my lads holiday!

Episode Date: February 8, 2023

Is your GF deliberately crashing your lads holiday a dumpable offence? Today we are talking about lads holidays and investigating a boyfriend's midnight uber ride!Today we are drinking a non alcoholic wine called Wednesday’s Domaine-so you can drink wine guilt free on Wednesdays!Sophie Rating- 8.5Melissa Rating - 7 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Restrictions apply. See full terms at canada.casino.fandu.com. Please play responsibly. Melissa are you a doctor? I want to be but I'm not I'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts at anything in fact we just challenge all the shit and we love giving you guys advice

but as we said do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help hello can you hear me we're back it's february dry down's over but we are drinking a non-alcoholic wine we're just gonna try and carry on as much as we can right really until you get married yeah until the hen do but also this is um very apt because the wine is called wednesday's don't shut up yeah that's our point oh my god it's a very cool bottle i like it a lot um crisp clean and perfectly balanced our pecan has a hint of minerality and citrus notes and it's oh so refreshing it's wednesday only wednesday but you want to reach for a glass should you shouldn't you oh my god cue this perfect midweek

tipple saps up away with all the pleasure none of the regret just bright eyed and bushy tail for that's a clink okay i'm gonna try very very apt for us okay it's a white wine by the way i like it it's really nice it's very sweet very sweet but delicious quite floral floral no it's actually really nice it's it does taste quite wine it does wine it tastes like a very sweet wine and there's no like horrible aftertaste some of the um it doesn't taste yeah have like a weird kombuchery aftertaste like a cidery vinegar situation going on there's none of that yeah rate, rate that. That's very cool and I like the bottle a lot.

So, we have some topical stuff as always. Mm-hmm. Ben Affleck at the Grammys. Okay, we've just seen these bitches. They're so funny. He literally looks so... Miserable. So miserable.

And like, this is Ben Affleck's. All the memes are really quite funny that they put on. I read one and it was like, Ben Affleck has every husband dragged memes are really quite funny that they put on. I read one and it was like Ben Affleck has every husband dragged to a work thing by his wife. Ben Affleck looks like he'd rather be at

Dunkin Donuts. Ben Affleck checking the clock on the wall. No, it's so funny. Oh my God. He looks like he's 10 minutes. He just looks miserable. No, it's this first picture.

He looks like he's crying. Yeah, he doesn't look all the help. He's also sober as well, right? I don't know. He's so miserable because he must be having a shit time he's very bored watching everyone

having a load of fun what did you think of everyone's outfits I thought didn't really see them if I'm being honest but there's this one picture that we've got here

which is Lizzo Lizzo won the Grammy over Beyonce and Adele which is quite a big deal it's not Lizzo Lizzo it's Lizzo guys Melissa

I don't even know who Lizzo is I know I know the songs mic drop which is quite a big deal. It's not Lizzo, Lizzo. It's Lizzo. Guys, Melissa, do you know who Lizzo is? I know. I know the songs. Mic drop. Lizzo's a big dog. I know the songs. She's not big dog. Listen, you don't go to,

you don't go to, you know, whatever that place was where we always get our CDs from and you don't buy an album cover anymore. So you don't buy a CD and see their face.

What's that place called? H&M or something? Yeah, no, H&V? H&V? H&V. YeahV H&V yeah legendary days but you know what I mean we don't go in there

buy the album cover see what they look like maybe don't this is true it's all on Spotify now and I don't it's not their face I can't see anything

but like Lizzo's quite well known like she's a bit of an icon someone said I'm so sorry I live under a rock I don't listen to the radio I don't listen to really celebrity things

I don't know what would she be if she's not an actress don't you think the radio I don't listen to really celebrity things I don't know what would she be if she's not an actress don't you think a lot about Tom Cruise Tom Cruise oh yeah give myself some more credit

I know some stuff yeah a lot about the Illuminati oh yeah that's because I was fascinated by it when I was younger I used to read so much about it

because I was like what is this I don't understand it I didn't even hear about it until I was at uni I used to also be fascinated with Ouija boards shut up Ouija boards Ouija boards no Luigi Ouija boards a Ouija board yeah I've done one once

shut up wait what happened tell me everything well my one of my friends mums is like can see speak and see yeah what's that called that's that's that's Claire Boyer uh I thought it was something else anyway yeah carry on and she we all got drunk and she's like said some incredible stuff to me before like that no one would know and to my pet she she's also um she's like a healer and she like healed my grandma and stuff and all these different things and when she does it like she sees spirits whatever okay anyway she seemed like loads of amazing she came and visited me at uni I was not gonna say who she is and we went back to my ex-boyfriends my ex-ex-boyfriends house and we all like did it and it was really odd but I was quite drunk so I don't quite remember it but she was like only good spirits can come in okay fine so you were in a safe environment doing it yeah yeah I would

never do one because I think you can get like so you can get like a poltergeist that like follows you around like a ghost stays with you one of a girl that i knew her little cousin used to her hair used to just be pulled up like this when she was at her house she always said she called this guy johnny she was like johnny's writing in the window and then her little hair would go like this and my friend was like why is your hair signed up she was like johnny's playing with it i've got goosebumps all over my body yeah and she was like johnny's playing with it i've got goosebumps all over my body yeah and she was like johnny get out of the cupboard how fucked up i was like no my eyes my eyes have just filled up with tears can you see that that's really and then and then she went

johnny's writing on the window in jam and i read jam and i was like it's blood no one else could see it she's like what's he writing? Why am I getting so dramatic? Oh my God. Wait, I've got a weird ghost story. It's very short though. Go on. It's this boy I was dating once. He said that him and his brother,

when they were like six or something, their parents bought this new house. They moved into this new house. And there was this huge attic, which was like a playroom. And they would always go up there and play in the day or whatever. And they would come down and be like, Mom, why are we living with this other family like why is there other boys

upstairs no and they would say it all the time and they'd be like i was just playing with the other boys upstairs so fucking weird they're like why are we living with them it's hot yeah and they moved after like two years of being there because they were like that's spooky speaks that very very old house terrifying i know and both the kids were like yeah we've been playing with the boys upstairs like why are we living with them like no no no i really don't like that i know i know but i don't think they were this is my point like it wasn't scary to them they were just playing with the ghost because kids can see them and they didn't really think anything of it if my child turns around to me he goes bob says hi i will literally be like you have to sit outside

for a minute i can't be around you no i really we cleanse the area and then we probably need to move never even move immediately i can't be dealing with that i really feel like i'm gonna get chased by ghosts no you won't you won't my house is really new social there's no way you're gonna get a ghost it's fine i'm never moving into an old house that's me done now jamie once said that he went to look around a house and he walked the house that you looked at into an old house that's me done now jamie once said that he went to look around a house and he walked the house that you looked at was an old oh i know my mom said there was bad vibes in the house that's why she really she was like bad bad bad aura and jamie once went to look at a house and he saw people hanging excuse me he's eddie wharton it was like

a flash in his eyes and there were people hanging it's that house on the corner of fulham you know where that i know you'll know exactly where it is just off the king's new king's road you know there's that restaurant on the corner that lebanese thing yes yes yes and they went in it was the cheapest house ever for like this price they walked in and like georgie has who he was living with was like epic let's move in and he saw this flash of two people hanging on on the beam which there wasn't a beam and then it went and he was like we can's move in and he saw this flash of two people hanging on on the beam which there wasn't a beam and then it went and he was like we can't ever live there i was like right that's it you see guys oh my god wait i was like you sure you just found really hung over like is it that massive massive flat on the corner yeah my friend alice used to live there seriously just about to go on towards birthbridge road yeah

yeah oh my fucking god sketchy okay she's moved out now so that's okay oh my god that's so some people feel oh my god that's so terrifying oh i'm getting really itchy all right god right we've got welly's follow-up can you please tell me about this okay so we when when you were away and toby stood in for you we had this dilemma well this girl like right and basically saying that she's been dating this guy and she's like really fond of him and he's now like asked her to like wear wellies when he next sees her what do you mean and he's gonna bring an umbrella it's a weird like sex fetish but on with jeans or like naked i think i think like naked just wearing like the welly boots and like i think that's quite sexy,

like Kate Morse at Glastonbury. No. I quite like a look when I'm in like denim shorts and welly boots. Yeah, all right, but this is, imagine Jamie on your second date going, can you wear some muddy,

and it was muddy wellies, can you wear some muddy wellies and I'm going to bring an umbrella. It's a weird like weather fetish. It's a thing. Anyway, so someone else has written in. Sorry, he has no shame. No, no, you have no idea.

My ex loved me wearing wellies. They had to be clean. Bro, he would polish them quite easy just to shag with wellies on. I am dead. I can't believe this isn't just me. I'm crying. I legit made a video about it not long ago. And I got lots of questions.

And the answer is it was more PVC he liked. As in like latex. Okay. But the answer is it was more pvc he liked as in like latex okay but the umbrella is not explained so this is obviously this is a separate girl um i don't know if they were muddy but anyway they were they were wellies and an umbrella the muddy so this must be a thing guys melissa i have found i said this on the news i have found hidden messages on my d like you know when you accept dms yeah you know there's like new three dms now at the top of your like updated instagram oh yeah it's very confusing i found this thing called hidden messages so i click on it thousands they're all men being like can i pay you to be my sugar baby wait wait thousands they're like your middle toe

is the sexiest thing i've ever seen um they're like you must be so experienced and they zoom into my toe and heels in my previous photos and send it to me what the fuck is hidden hidden message deleted messages or something and basically what's happened is instagram has been like inappropriate and it hides them from you but you can still read them i don't even know if i have that like oh i'm not sure i'll show you at lunch and we can come back to you guys because they're phenomenal they're all from like really fat old men with photos like this that is so spooky

that's a D out I know I still get some of those in the normal anyway that haven't been hidden by Instagram and I'm like I honestly also think

it must be a joke I'm like you must be joking I've looked at some of them they like literally have dogs and like some of them and they're quite normal no

looking they look like part of that yeah wanting me to send them a photo of their toe one of them and they're quite normal looking no they look like part of that because they obviously are yeah wanting me to send them a photo of their toe one of them was like

I'll pay you a monthly salary no sex no news just to see your toe I was like sounds like a deal I'll 100% do it

no judgement passed there they're going to pay me my monthly salary for sending a picture of my toe it could be anyone's toe for fucking crying out loud you could take a picture off Google and send it to him he'd still

pay you for it probably how many people are making a fortune off the toe stuff i know i also have that second longer toe which is like apparently means like you're a sex demon apparently means you're really clever i don't think it means you're sexy when my mum has that don't tell me that no it means that you're really sexual shut the fuck up sophie yeah your mom's obviously you're obviously you're also not sexual at all your mom's obviously pretended it means she's clapping no someone told me it means it's an intelligence thing it was like on instagram it was like what toe are you and it was like the short one or the longer one it means you're like oh i have two longer ones so it goes big toe two two and then two small i sound like i literally have to form

feet let's they look normal i've seen your feet. They look normal. You wouldn't look twice. Okay, right. So this is a follow-up dilemma. So for a bit of context, this is what happened when you were away and they followed up because it's like, we were like,

please tell me what happened. Oh yeah, you told me about this, right? Yeah, so just to tell you guys just a quick outline. It's basically the girl that wrote in with the boyfriend that she'd been with for like just under a year was just coming up to a year and he suddenly got this new job and like spending a lot of time at work and blah blah but has stopped having sex with her

and won't really kiss her that much and he keeps talking about these two new girls that he's met at work so she's like you know what's going on i love him blah blah so do you want to follow up i'll do it. Okay. I wanted to update you all on my situation from my previous dilemma. My boyfriend and I are back to our usual selves. Oh, thank God. It was just like what Toby had said. Great advice, by the way. Well done, Toby.

I go, you just broke up with him. What did Toby say? Toby goes, I think you're jumping the gun. That's not how we should do this. Maybe you should have a conversation. I say, okay, yeah. He just hadn't been feeling up for it and he'd been stressed at work i love i let him know how i was feeling and he's been making such an effort to

tell me he loves me how how i look and is attracted to me he he's kissing me more and overall we're feeling pretty good right now i've also been making more of an effort with self-care going to the gym skincare alone time for myself rather just trying to look good for him yeah as i'd taken a bit of a hit to my self-esteem however i recently had an opportunity to snoop on his computer and i had no self-control so i went for it his emails were logged on in so i began looking through them i'd recently been away for a vacation and i felt he was frosty before i went and after i came back he didn't seem like he'd miss me at all i looked at the dates i was away and on the saturday night he got uber to a house address i don't recognize it oh my god and there was no receipt for an uber bring him home things are going really well right now we're back on track and normal i'm happier than ever but i do have an awful gut feeling i can't

even ask him i can't i can't tell him how i know any Any advice on if there's a reasonable explanation or if this is pretty suspicious? Also wondering if there's anything I can do since I have the address to figure out who lives there. Thank you for your help, tiny whiny. Drive to the address. Oh my God, right. So I got protective and I was like,

you need to break up with him because she was like, I'm questioning the way I look. Like I don't feel like, maybe I put on a bit of weight. Like maybe I don't make enough. And I was like, I don't like this. He's making you feel like that. Get out now. I was like maybe I don't make enough and I was like I don't like this he's making you feel like that get out now I was like I didn't have a good feeling about the whole situation your feeling seems right oh my god everything was right well not necessarily we how we we need to do some

investigation work my theory so let's talk about what a package in there like I sometimes like very true sister's top and then I have to put it in an uber to Wandsworth very true that does happen you know what I mean try and work out what you guys were talking about when you were away on that date and that night. Like, were you texting? Do you know what I mean? I'd go through that. See what he was doing.

If he was like chilling at home. Yeah. So I would go back to like the messages that you guys had and try and think if it makes sense that he was maybe there. So there's no Uber receipt to get home. How did he get home? Maybe he got the tube or the bus. He stayed there.

That's the whole point. I know. But in the morning. Surely there'd be a receipt of him going home in the morning then but maybe he got the tube or the bus because it's late at night you don't really get public transport i guess that late do you sometimes get an uber he would have stayed and then got on i personally i would i like how far's the house i would literally go yeah i'm picturing it in my mind it literally being a hundred percent i'm also i'd have to stroll there i'm also gonna tell you something that you can do which is a very very sneaky that i which i saw like a hat but this is like years

ago and i don't know if it's still something you can i can i know you can do it because toby has his whatsapp on his laptop so do you i think so does our producer has the whatsapp on the so okay apparently all you have to do is like do something with your phone so you could do that with his phone on your laptop then go through the messages what so like get the whatsapp thing whatever it is and like to get it on someone's laptop i think you don't need to have like their number or their phone all you can do is like you get their phone for a second scan it in and then it's just on the laptop so you could have jamie's live whatsapps on your laptop at all times and i get where you're coming from because you're like i don't want to recuse

him without knowing for sure because it looks bad so we've already done the bad thing we've already gone through his laptop we might as well go through his phone yeah why not i love how we just keep saying this to people i know but sorry girls gotta know we just girls gotta do sleeping with the enemy oh no and also i would drive to the house wait outside and see who lives there because if it's one of the girls from work or you know i don't know so this is that is what i would do i would do those two things okay for google how to do the whatsapp hat because we probably said it wrong yeah how to get whatsapp on your um computer there's probably a youtube tutorial on it it's very easy to the loo for a second just whoop with the put it on yeah you've

already snooped look you've gone that far exactly we've gone that fast we might as well go the extra mile and just get all the information before we make an informed decision and look if you find nothing never do it again and be oh yeah yeah and just take it to the grave but like if you've got a gut feeling i don't know i just i think that you are it's fucking weird and surely he'd be like i don't know like when i'm away from toby like he'll facetime me when he like gets into bed so i don't know he's like i don't know like we speak before we go to sleep facetime the whole time yeah also you obviously had a gut feeling to even go through his emails because you don't just go through no i was willing nearly like you you knew something was off the energy when he was going away yeah yeah i'm very sorry to hear that

though because we love you tiny whiny and you deserve the fucking best go on tiny whiny show them what yeah and you please follow up with us on this because this i'm so invested in this i'm like hooked and ready to go i'm really ready to listen to i kind of i know it sounds weird but like i wanted like it to happen to me so i can like do it but i obviously don't but like i just yeah yeah i'm like oh my god i need your proper investigator i'd be like this yeah i'd be like jamie swap my phone to his if it's close by you'd have a stroll for sure yeah and then look at the mail if no one's there check them out oh yeah just see what the hat oh my god i just see what was names on the i know but your

mail gets put through the thing i was like you can just see what's on the front of the letter, but it gets put through the letterbox. Yeah, but sometimes there's like bits and bobs outside, right? Yeah, maybe. Interesting.

We just got, we just dig in. We just got to do some digging. Just some general investigation work. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh my God,

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another as you do when you get into a new relationship she recently split from her boyfriend and i'm finding it hard to split my time between her and my boyfriend every time i tell her i'm seeing him at the weekend she gets upset i try to make time for her and see her most weekends but i feel myself cancelling plans with my boyfriend to keep her happy which obviously upsets him too i am torn between wanting to be a good friend and not being with the girl not being the girl who ditches my friend for the boyfriend but i feel i'm spending less time with him due to not wanting to let her down my question is how do i keep them both happy without upsetting the other person please keep it on i would try to see her like breakfast time like i would do like saturday breakfast and then you've got the rest of

the day with him yeah just book it in every week and also like there's nothing wrong with doing things as a three like i do stuff with sophie and jamie all the time yeah especially when i was single like i used to join you guys all the time for like dinner there's nothing wrong with that um but i would definitely do breakfast i think breakfast is such a nice thing to do a workout class go for a lovely brunch see him in the afternoon go for a walk with her have a coffee go for a walk there's so much time in the day breakfast is like one of the like most times i really chat to someone same i love a breakfast and i also feel like my brain is slightly more clear because I've sorted out the problems in my head overnight so I can have like more of a frank clear conversation

and a debrief the next day. There's no stress like you that's the first thing and the breakfast is just so yummy. And it's just so light and lovely. Yeah gorgeous have a breakfast babe. Yeah just I know what you mean by it's hard but I think I think you're almost stressing yourself out too much with it just make sure that you see her a lot and you do you have your boyfriend in the evenings and you have your breakfast with her yeah or your lunch with her and a workout class lovely hit brunch with him this is what you need you can do breakfast with him the morning after you've seen him sweet see your girlfriend in the afternoon for like a late lunch a little walk coffee whatever dinner with him or whatever this you know there's three

meals a day we also don't have i love how we're so surrounded by food but it has to be done yeah but you've got pilates you could do that you could go to the cinema with her but you're not gonna want to do that with your boyfriend you can do some at all three of you like that's so legit i see i would say i see you maybe twice a week maybe three times a week which is quite a lot i guess we used to see each other more we see each other every day i know what's happened i think it's because it's we used to go to the gym as well together other every day i know what's happened i think it's because it's we used to go to the gym as well together and i don't go to that gym and also it's so cold now we're like not out yeah we're not right we're in summer we're like just out

yeah it's the whole time the whole time whereas i would like quite home by these now when it's so freezing i know it's just too cold i do my job and then i'm like i know same and also you've got a dog now so you're you're you're drawn to your home more you can't go out as much because she's a pup yeah she's getting bigger your home more. You can't go out as much because she's a pup. Yeah, she's getting bigger. We can take her everywhere, can't we? Okay, dilemma three. Hi, Sophie and Melissa.

I've been seeing my girlfriend, let's call her Grace, for around nine months now, but we made it official on New Year's Eve. Lovely. My mates and I booked a lad's holiday to Ayia Napa a few months ago, and Grace was happy for me to go as I knew she would be. However, just last week, Grace and her friends have not only decided that they are also going to Ayia Napa, but they've decided to book the exact same dates as me and my friends. Oh, Grace. Grace, that's an error, mate.

Grace, Grace, Grace, not cool. I explained to her that she was crossing the line and this holiday was time for me to go away with my friends. She says that it shouldn't be an issue unless i was planning to be doing things i wouldn't want her to see i obviously will not cheat on her and that is not what i'm going on holiday to do i am not the only one of my group with a girlfriend either so it's not as if i'm will be peer pressured into doing anything she also says these were the only dates her friends could do which i find unbelievable lol she's just going in for girl my friends are equally annoyed as me as they feel that i will inevitably want to see her when i'm drunk and it

will take time away from them i agree yeah also my friends girlfriends are annoyed as they can't understand why they aren't allowed to come oh grace i am annoyed by this but grace doesn't seem to understand and it's too late for either of us to change plan now do i have a right to be annoyed and could this even be a sackable affair? Oh! I love it. I mean. Right, let's be honest. If you sack her off you're going to see her

in an INF anyway so I don't think we need to jump to that. That could give someone the ick though. I'm not going to lie. It would give me the ick. That would give me the ick.

I'd be like. Stop being so beggy for me. I'd be like, stop talking to me. Leave me alone. Grace, that probably wasn't the most chill thing to do if I'm totally honest.

Okay, right, so what do we do? Okay, right, listen. There's nothing you can do. She's going to go to Iron Affa. But also, isn't Iron Affa a big place? Not really. There's like a strip. It's like a real...

Is it like Magalufa? Yes, it's like a strip. They're going to be in all the same clubs. Fuck. It's tiny, in fact. She's going to be there. Not the end of the world. It's quite silly, Grace. It not the end quite quite silly grace it's

your girlfriend i get that it's really shit don't break up with her be like look it's fine that you're there but i'm not gonna see you like if we do see you in a bottle i'm not gonna read you're drunk they're gonna want to have sex together oh like you're not gonna be next door to your boyfriend when you're drunk be like night across the street this is really upset me for you i'm bummed out for your mates as well like if you if you, if Toby's having a joydark relationship, I'd be like, I'm fuming with you. No, no, no,

I don't know what we can do about this. I don't think it's necessarily a sackable affair. It depends how much you like her. The fact that you've gone is a sackable affair kind of tells you that you don't really like her that much

because it's in your considerations. If she's giving you the ick. You know what, fine if it was the only dates they could do, but then why do they have to choose Ayia Napa? Because you go somewhere else.

Choose another location. Yeah, we've got the whole world you got the whole world in your hands i thought it's at my fingertips but yeah so like i just i don't know i would assess how much you actually like her and if the if it would really bump and upset you to break up with her then you might end up don't even consider it you might get drunk and just be like you're so annoying yeah she'll be definitely at every, we're so like, not on the girl's side,

but sorry, I get like, she's obviously not a dick, but like, it's just so stupid. Like, it also kind of tells me that there's no level of respect.

I also think they obviously, they're going to iron app and they're probably about 18, right? I don't know, yeah, I'm guessing. I think so

because that's kind of like where you go after A levels. to have like a crazy place, yeah. I think that, you know, she's probably just really into you and bless her she might in her mind just be like oh we'll be so fun we'll all be a group together which i can so see why she would but just no it's like me being like i would have to be like no we can't do it it's like me insisting me do a step like i try to and jamie's like i want a stag well mostly his mates want a stag and

you want a hen it's like me just going no I'm gonna come on your set and bring all my girls with you oh yeah you just can't no just rein it back in Grace yeah let the league go a little bit I think maybe have a word with her be like look it's obviously booked now but I kind of think you should change it because it's like you've really upset me and like this makes me more so be like you've really put me in a difficult position with my friends because they're bummed out with me and I understand why they are because like we are going to see each other at night you are going to be in the same clubs as me and it's not like I'm going to be doing anything wrong but I am meant to be just

having time with the boys yeah it would bum me out that would really piss me off it would really piss me off. It would really annoy me. Oh, Grace. Grace, Grace, Grace. I mean, yeah. I think you've got to be honest with what I tell you about. I really appreciate you writing in as a boy and giving us that dilemma because I just,

I love the change up. I love it. And you know what? This is so different to the girls' dilemmas that we get. I love it. The girls,

I don't know, was writing, you know, about there's a problem with the boyfriend in the relationship and they haven't, I don't know, it's just so different.

I love it how it's like, she's booked the same lad's holiday as me. Should I sack her off? The girls would literally be like, my boyfriend's, I booked the same holiday as him and he's upset with me.

It's like just so. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like all the others. I love it. It's quite good getting both angles. I love it. Right.

That time of the week, girl. Not so single diaries. Why do I keep slapping my leg? You always do that to yourself. Not so single diaries why do i keep clapping my leg you always do that to yourself not so single diaries is i'm spending valentine's day because he's away for it with my girlfriend and we're going for a nice dinner there's only a few of us that are single i went out of our like little like girl group like all my other friends like literally married off

and then in my little like girl group from school most of us have boyfriends and then it just worked out well but it's sad that you know because most of my friends are in a relationship too and now jamie's doing the radio i'm a bit lonely at the weekend i know melissa bowden we're doing parties we're gonna do it this saturday that's because i had a lunch which i forgot about i thought it was a dinner uh yes this saturday no i can't i'm going to toby's house but i think we need to do see how she just like oh my god no i'm like that girl in the dilemma i am so sorry yeah don't worry i'll find someone else to go with but I think we need to do... See how she just, like... Oh, my God, no, I'm like that girl in The Dilemma. I am so sorry.

Yeah, don't worry, I'll find someone else to go with. Bridal by Zilla trying on the dress this week with you. Oh, my goodness! I'm so excited for that, fuck. I know. I haven't seen it yet either. I haven't either. This is my first time seeing... No, but you know roughly what it was...

I know the shape. That is it. And the, like, the fabric. I don't know anything anything a swatch of the fabric this thing is what i've seen so is this going to be like the mock the first mock-up the first fitting yeah i'm so excited template like it was so rough it was like carpet that i put on oh my god i'm so excited it was just to pin me in yeah yeah yeah i've seen that being done actually on that um in the fro plus and oh my god i'm so excited same so we've got that this week we've got that and then actually i think next week we've got one of your little hen lunches which i've been enjoying next week hold on is it am i getting myself carried away god i'm not sure i'm

ready for that melissa it's next week it's not next week next friday next saturday oh okay ladies and gentlemen she's strapping your seatbelts i I'm really excited. What are you saying, Nav? I am. It's just like, there's just so many nice things to look forward to now, isn't there? Yeah,

there really is. Right guys, I'm going to rate this delicious wine. It's alcohol free, but the bottle's gorgeous. It tastes very lovely. I'm going to give it an 8.5. I'm going to give it a 7.

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