Wednesdays - 98: GF struggling with sex drive!

Episode Date: March 1, 2023

Hey gang! Today’s chats include a deep-dive into partners who don’t believe in marriage, being a looong legged lady, and commitment-phobes. Today we’re drinking a rosé from the original pocket-rocket, Kylie Minogue!https://www.tesco.com/groceries/en-GB/products/306802015Sophie Rating: 7.5Melissa Rating: 8 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like what is this shania twain saying um that's like i'm a survivor isn't that her isn't that destiny's child also there's been some requests for me to speak slower so i'm gonna work on that i never think of you as a really fast speaker does she speak fast i think i speak i think i speak slowly i speak really slowly on your voice notes to me it's literally like 100 miles an hour and i'm like i cannot have to you probably have me on i don't that's what's wild sometimes you

voice note me and it's just the end of it like you'll just be like yes i'll see you out and i'm like what what did she say so see you where we did pilates this morning it was lovely it was really lovely we did a flow rather than like a signature which is the hardest one yeah can i also just add it was not easy it was not easy it was hard i was like but it went quickly yeah i did and my ass was in agony. And my arms. Oh no, Sophie's has like the smallest, like skinniest arms just by like complete genetics. I'm watching her like trying to do anything.

I'm like, surely they're going to snap. No, they are. There's like so long. Your limbs are so long. My arms are so long and they're so scrawny. Like nothing. I'm watching you in the, what is it? The cat cow?

I need to like do weights on them maybe. They're very toned though they're lovely shape but honestly it was absolute agony my arms i couldn't do the thing pulling back we get right we're drinking a cali minogue rose kylie minogue i was a fan of kylie minogue back in sorry she was my number one her and robbie robbie williams were my absolute idols Robbie Williams is so gorgeous spinning around Galazia she did a song

out recently didn't she I feel like yeah yeah to be fair she just oh my god she did that one

with Taya Cruz and it was like it's taking me higher oh yeah I didn't quite like it that was a quite good one she's also dinky dinky dinky

little lady oh my god I met her she's so tiny how have you met her at Glassman Festival once. Well, you went up to her and said, hey, guy. She was at the VIP bit, you know, with Molly Edgley, their thing.

She flew in. We went and met her and we were like these two tiny little girls from school. And then we stood next to her and I was like, we're giant. We were like 12. Next to Kylie Minogue. She had these huge heels on and she was shorter than us. Stop. How tall is she?

I think she's like 5'1". She's so tiny. That is minute. Maybe she's even smaller than that. I think she's 4'11". than that she's 411 yeah she might she's like a pocket rocket she is so this is nine pounds it's actually really and i've had this rosé before it's actually really good considering how cheap it is nice bottle nice color yeah nice color it's not pretty good it's not too bad this is if you're like going out like i've had this like one clap in common with my friends for like a picnic lovely lovely stuff thanks Kylie thank you Kylie talented in many

areas oh yeah so we did a pilates lesson then we went for a nice brunch at Granger and Co it was delicious then we went for a lovely brunch we had what do we have sourdough avocado eggs do you guys want to have some halimi i love halimi i'd actually wish i was watching it thinking i'm so jealous but it was honey halimi is the best no no no no salty salty halimi i like it with the honey yeah it's already so salty no i like it just salty i could eat halimi raw i don't need to grill it oh i don't love it that much i'd just prefer to have it grilled i never buy it at home no neither me ever also i've looked back at these videos and all we do is this i know but my hair i put a hair mask in last night my hair honestly feels like so yeah so mine feels really nice too but then i also have had my whole life a pretty bad habit

of like fiddling with my hair yeah so i think a lot of girls do it's just quite something to do really isn't it it's just like one of those twiddle rings you know you have like one of those oh i still do but it went a bit rusty even though it was silver don't know you need to clean silver all right all right okay we've got some topical stuff for you guys kendall jenner is dating someone called bad bunny who i'd never heard of you know you know what also kills me? Reportedly dating, the pair reportedly hanging out and having fun. I'm like, who the hell writes into the papers and says they're hanging out and having fun?

Who's saying that? I reckon it's one of someone from her PR, maybe. Okay, well, that makes sense. Right, I'm just going to look. Bad Bunny. Sick name, by the way. Bad Bunny. Googling immediately.

Oh, he looks quite cool to be fair i was imagining him being much older i don't know why let's have a look oh here we go oh no not how i expected him to look that's really really really blew my mind he is not how i expected him to look at all but i like him cool pretty cool quite her taste she always goes yeah that similar vibe to her last ex yeah yeah yeah i can see that i can see that oh my god he's got third eye chakra on his face that's like freaking me out why has he done that spooky we didn't get you didn't find anything else about the illuminati for me oh my god i know but we can research it i also don't really want to know too

much about it apparently michael jackson in it. Did I tell you this? No. Did you ever watch that documentary he did? No. I feel like I watched it with you. Well, we were abroad once in Canada. That's when I watched it, filming Beauty Chelsea. No, I don't watch it.

I must say, I actually really like the vibes in Canada. I hated Canada. It's very hippie, which is very like... Canada was my worst MIC trip that I've ever done. Oh no, mine was definitely Croatia. I quite like Croatia. It was so long. weeks i was like yeah and also you and harry hk baron were like really isolated oh my god he has a new girlfriend i don't know why i'm really disgusted oh yeah i've seen the girl she looks lovely she's so lovely who told you um someone met her an event the other day and was telling toby about it she have been really sweet. Apparently she's really sweet. No, she was... She had influenced her.

I don't know. What do you mean an event? What, like a birthday? No, it was an event. I don't know if she was working at the shop or something. I'm fascinated. But someone met her there and apparently she's very sweet.

I think she looks lovely. She does look lovely. He deserves that. So funny. I don't even know what I'm saying. But I walked into Toby's flat the other day. He's like, good news and bad news. Good news is Harry UK Barron's got a girlfriend

god I wish one of my answers would be a girlfriend right okay guys moving on swiftly to some listeners so this is the boy who wrote in about his girlfriend seeming less interested in having sex I think this is literally what we read out like the other day last week wait wait wait so this is you just this isn't from the guy but this is from a girl following up on that dilemma basically just i'm guessing commenting on it i got diagnosed with endometriosis off the back of having symptoms of painful sex you could also suggest a gynecologist in case her symptoms are linked to something down this avenue take the sex conversation out of it and say out

say out of general concern so that's very interesting it's endometriosis can make it painful to have sex yeah i think the polycystic ovaries all of these things there's so many things that make it painful to have endometriosis or however you say it is really hard to diagnose as well yeah i've heard that it's really painful and it's so common it's so common so many girls have it they never get diagnosed. And there's so many people that also have polycystic ovaries and like never really know about it

and then suddenly they get like a cyst that bursts and it's like the most horrendous pain. Oh my God, poor girl. Girls, we really have it tough, don't we? We really do have it tough. We have to carry a baby for a whole year. I know. Well, nine months.

But then also like... We just get on with it and we never complain. I know. Slash complain all the time, but... You know. Slash the time but you know okay there's another like listener who's emailing about this gonna read it okay so we have another reply to the boy i am someone who struggles with this with my sex drive different things impact on it tiredness stress ibs hormones health anxiety what i find helps you and i'm struggling to get into the mood is other forms

of intimacy kissing cuddling hair stroking or even warm-up activities that don't lead to full-on sex sometimes i find the pressure of knowing my boyfriend really wants sex makes it harder so try to stay in tune with her love language and see if you can naturally break back in the intimacy that is some really good advice yeah you've got to know someone's love language what's yours mine is definitely physical touch like if someone's not touching me 24 7 i'm like i physical touch people the whole time like that's mine yeah um and i like it to be on me too like i need a hand on my knee the whole time yeah same otherwise i'm like they don't like me they hate me no i just need it like i love touch like

touch yeah same and i also don't even think about it like if if someone's not touching me i'll just be touching them and i won't even think about it then i think you would notice it if you weren't getting touched back a lot i've never really had that so i've never like no i fully am like jamie put your hand on my leg or like on my shoulder like i just need i can't go to sleep unless like his hand is touching me somewhere has to be touching like touching my back or something. I'm not even joking. Toby has it where he wakes up in the middle of the night and I always roll over to wait for the time. He's like, she's fuming with me.

She's fuming. She's rolled to the other side of the bed. She's fuming. We've had an argument and I can't remember. Do you guys go full to sleep really face to face? Yeah, we're smushed in each other's faces. No, stop. I swear, the wrinkles I wake up with all over my face.

Jamie and I used to do that full full of sleep literally nose to nose now we're literally like don't face me i just want his bat him far away and his hand has to be the other way touching me and like we're not facing each other if we are i get so upset and have to turn the other way like someone else's breath on me in the other night in the night is not okay guys when i slept with melissa the other day when was that tiff's thing she slept up the whole night she was like yeah it's okay we'll go grab that oh wait what are you talking about we were at tiff's head the other day it's like a year ago the entire night and i was just like sorry what's happening i slept with you in part night by next year ago he slept up the entire night and i was just like sorry what's happening i slept where the entire night right next to you no you slept talk you were like in the night you were

like yeah i agree it's okay if we do that yeah it's fine and it's full conversation there was not it was like yeah but it's all right if we go there doesn't really matter does it we'll turn up about two and i was like okay i okay. I do sleep talk so much. It's so weird. Also me and Sabie once slept, I never forget this, in the smallest single bed ever. This is at Liv Benny's house. Yeah.

Well, we literally like screening. We had so much space. I feel like we were like in full coats as well. We were so cold. We were in outside gear. We were in like, as poor as jackets.

We woke up and we were like, best night's sleep ever were like fully so much i know i was like i had so much rest also the ceiling was like sloped so the single bed was like in the like eve so sophie was like the wall was like right up her head and you were still like we woke up and we're like that was so lovely that was lovely okay so we've had someone email us about dreams okay hey girls i love the podcast keeps me sane in my pre-work 6am sessions my god last night i had a dream that my boyfriend of two years cheesed on me we've all had this oh we've all been there yeah in the dream he told me he

had slept with two girls at the beginning of our relationship but then i forgave him and then i found out he slept with this girl every month like clockwork i then got fuming and me and my friends were running around the city in t-shirts of his face scribbled down i woke him up at 5 a.m to check he hadn't been cheating on me don't think he was too pleased lol i can't seem to shake the trust issues this morning even though i 100% know he wouldn't have cheated on me am i the only psycho who does this after no i do it all the time i do it all the time like i physically hate him and i have to keep saying i keep i like walk down the street like why are you so upset with jamie why are we in an argument then i'm gonna oh it's the dream yeah and then i still can't shake it like two hours later i'll be like oh god i hate that boy and i'll be like sophie it's a dream and then it goes yeah it's totally i had loads of dreams that

he was cheating on his ex-girlfriend with me once well not loads but i had one dream and honestly i couldn't talk to him for two days i was like i can't and it was a dream what he cheated on you with the ex-girl yeah oh what a dick what what a dick. What a dick. What a dick. He deserves a whole day of silent treatment after that. How dare he do that in my dream? Honestly. How dare the Jamie that I made up in my dream do that? Do tell me, yeah.

Okay, dilemma one. Are you ready for this? Mm-hmm. Hi, Sophie and Melissa. I love listening to your podcast. It has me laughing all the way to and from work i'm six foot two and it's always been an insecurity of mine in general and especially when it comes to boys i feel most boys are put off by my height and the ones that aren't are shorter than me

this is a bit of an ick of mine because i don't even like wearing heels because i hate being so torn at my friends and the thought of a boy being a lot shorter than me makes me feel uncomfortable and i feel that people would look. And it would be the first thing they notice. My friends always tell me it doesn't matter and I'm being too picky. But am I? My dilemma is that I am currently talking to this boy. It's been a couple of months.

We've never met in person. He has previously mentioned doing something. But I have always put it off because I put off with him being 5'8". But we get on so well and have a lot in common. So a lot of green flags there. He's recently asked me to go to dinner with him and I just can't decide if I should go or not. Am I being silly saying I won't go

and making up an excuse because of how I feel about the height difference or am I being silly thinking the height difference is such an issue? I don't think it matters. It doesn't matter at all. JB's literally my height. Also, look at all the supermodels.

Like, look at Jason Statham, Rosie Hunter and Whiteley. I don't think it matters at all and most boys aren't that tall like most of my like most guys I know are like below six foot I think it's hard yeah it's uncommon to have like an above six foot boy it's like they get a lot of like kudos if they are yeah finding a boy over six foot like I mean Toby says he's six foot he's definitely not that's really got up like conflicted what i just said but like how it really doesn't matter like and it does not matter at all that's like being like oh i'm not gonna go with that boy because he's got blonde hair yeah no i think 100 go on the date see how it is don't even think about the height difference and just see how it flows and if you don't like him for other reasons then

fine but you really can't let it stop you from dating. That's just... No, you have to go on it. You have to. Like, who gives a crap about height? I feel... I also feel so bad for boys when it's like... It's because so many of my friends are like,

no, I'm not going to date him. He's like under five foot, whatever. I'm like, no, you can't think like that. That's so mean. I've never, ever, ever thought about... I'm worried about the height of how tall a boy is this is probably different because you're I guess quite quite a tall girl and I get that you've got your own like thing like I want someone to be taller than me because I'm especially like taller than my friends or whatever but I think that we've

I would own it like literally like you said look at Jason Statham and Rosie Hunter yeah it's sexy yeah like you look like a bot they're like proud to have like a super yeah yeah i think you just seriously own it i hope that was good advice fandu casino daily jackpots guaranteed to hit by 11 p.m with your chance at the number one feeling winning which beats even the 27th best feeling saying saying I do. Who wants this last parachute? I do. Daily Jackpots. A chance to win with every spin and a guaranteed winner by 11pm every day. 19 plus and physically located in Ontario. Gambling problem? Call 1-866-531-2600.

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you so much yay i'm 27 years old and i have been single for the past five and a half years just over a year ago i started dating a guy with whom for been single for the past five and a half years just over a year ago i started dating a guy with whom for the first time ever i had such a great connection with everything just felt right we laughed the sex was great he was very handsome and things were going swimmingly however he was giving off some commitment issue related red flags by making some comments and remarks such as yeah when you meet my family in 10 years and don't get too comfy in my bed which made me question his intentions why do guys do that so annoying lo and behold he called things off with me but my dilemma is that after the split he continued

slash continues to message me sending me memes responding to instas even sending me snapchat picture of the cinema ticket from one of our dates which he had bookmarked in his collection that's very confusing and very strange the problem is he's still the best person i've ever dated in terms of a connection the fact that he messages me intermittently even though i ignore him makes me wonder what he actually thinks of me even though i'm over it i can't help but still think of him way more than i should given the amount of time that we were actually dating. Have you ever been in a situation where, for whatever reason, you just can't fully get over someone and feel like you never will? Or how to best cope with it?

When he ended it with me, he was very vague in saying, maybe in the future, but not now. Which I know is a flaky as fuck way of just saying it's over, but I can't help but feel i won't meet someone else like him would you block slash meet on insta insta respond if he ever messages again or just leave it into his hands it seems like he might be the one that got away that i'll never get over dot dot dot any advice to be so appreciated i think you've got to leave it you've got to leave it and if i was you i would block get over it sack him off this is typical boys like you always want what you can't have i so agree and like some people are just like this is typical boys like you always want what you can't have i so agree and like some people are just like this they they're like magical beings they just float into our lives and they they like make us feel unbelievable and they might do this to a lot of people and then

they just float back out again they're like don't forget about me sending you those memes liking your instagram pictures do you know what i mean yeah just don't forget about me like it's like i want you when i can have you kind of thing like no fuck off sorry so much better i would block and go and just try your best to like get over it and then he's not letting you get over him because he keeps messaging you all these random yeah he's constantly being like don't forget about me don't get over me like it's classic classic boy boy classic boy to be fair i'm sure that girls do this too like we can't blame it all on guys but like this situation does happen a lot and we have to recognize it and back out it doesn't mean they want to be with you yeah if he wanted to be with you he would want to be with you you have to block him and you really can't be replied to his messages what a douche what a selfish boy

dilemma three so i have a dilemma me and my boyfriend have been together for over four years now over the past four years he's always made little hints about wanting to marry me we've talked several times about what kind of wedding we'd have he'd call me wifey all the time and he even told one of my best friends after a year bringing together that he thought he wanted to propose to me the following year a year went by and still no proposal which i thought nothing of early days then one day we had a chat about planning a trip to Canada as it's somewhere we've always wanted to visit during this chat he said I'm going to spoil you all the way there and all the way back and when we've got there I've got

a very important question to ask you with a big smile on his face and kiss me so I took this as though he's going to propose I share this with my mum and I was so excited sadly we didn't go to Canada as life went away slash covid another year went by last year we went to newcastle to celebrate our three-year anniversary when we were there he took me to the window of a jewelry shop and asked me what sort of ring i like to which i replied engagement ring and he said yes so i'm now on cloud nine anyway a year has gone by and he still hasn't popped the question oh my god and the mix of this we'd also spoke about starting a family and decided we would start trying once we got back from our

first holiday together before we went away on holiday he said to me i'm looking forward to our first holiday but i can't wait till we can get home and start doing life together he elaborated on this and we decided that we get a got home we'd start trying for a baby we're both 30 and brooding it just felt right however he'd always known i preferably liked to be engaged before trying so i assumed he was going to pop the question whilst in santorini one of the most romantic places ever so i got my nails done and all my friends and family were thinking the same thing anyway we're now on the last day of our holiday and he still hasn't popped the question so i turned to him whilst lying by the pool and

said you're taking your time to propose aren't you to which he replied well it's a very important question i thought this was a bit odd given that he'd always been the one hinting at marriage we get home and after a few days we had the talk about starting a family he said he wanted to start right away so i approached the conversation about marriage and he got quite awkward and standoffish he went on to explain that he doesn't actually view marriage the same way I do and never has and expressed that's why he hasn't asked me. He went on to say that he just sees it as a bit of paper

that everyone he ever known has got divorced so that his mum had told him that if she was ever married to his dad that he had taken everything from her when he left. They explained that his mum had taught him and his sister to always look after number one financially. This is the first time after four years I'm hearing this.

As you can imagine, I'm in utter shock. We're about to start trying for a baby and now he's telling me he doesn't know if he can commit to me in a marriage. To me, marriage is so important,

especially when bringing children into the world. My parents have remained married as have all of my friends, so I guess we've just been surrounded by different experience. We left the chat a bit open-ended. We've never tried for a baby the last six months I tried to talk him recently to see where his head stands in terms of marriage he just shut me down and told

me he's too stressed to talk about it at the moment I thought this was unfair I feel like he needs to be at least a conversation my dad said that we could meet him for a pint to chat but I'm not sure that's a good idea what would you do we really have a healthy healthy relationship it's just this that's really sad because it's obviously he's grown up with certain things that have scared him into it and you've had the opposite it's like I feel sad for him but also I wouldn't take it as like that he's scared about I mean a marriage is a scary thing like it is such a big deal and it's not it's not just like oh let's quickly just get married and that'll like be it like I guess it is like an important I guess they're like having a baby they're having a baby

so he's already taking that step but some people just like have different views of things and I think like if you love each other enough it might just be something that you just have to agree to disagree on and compromise like maybe there's a point that you can say to him like look can I at least have some sort of a ring or something that's like a symbol of our love we don't necessarily have to get married if that's something you really don't believe in like to me a baby is more of a commitment than a marriage yeah like for sure so I don't think that there's any form of commitment issue here because he's like i want to start like you guys are trying for a kid right like that's huge huge um so i would maybe just have the conversation be like i'm i'm willing to i don't know if it was me i'd be like i'm fine i'm actually okay not getting married but i would

want to have some sort of i just want the big diamond i don't know I just want to but also for like other people like when you're going out I know it's important someone being like oh she's married like they'll just always assume that you're not if you don't I guess have a ring on maybe I don't know and you want to maybe yeah you want to sign for your own yeah so maybe that's like your love yeah and you can always have like a ceremony it doesn't have to necessarily be like a marriage where you can just celebrate your love and like being a couple um there's so many i guess options i do think that it's not a deal breaker though at all no i don't i think if he's lovely to you and you guys have a healthy and happy relationship it's just you know one of those things i actually like know people that well my some of my parents friends that i didn't even know weren't married and weren't married and

then they got married so many years later after all their children. I always assumed they were and they always had rings. They just never actually got married. They just had a gauge of rings. And then when they were like 50, they got married.

What? After all their kids are like grown up, yeah. That's lovely. And they were like, oh, about time now, isn't it? Might as well now. But like they just didn't do it. It wasn't a priority.

Yeah. I think, yeah, it's not a deal breaker. I think sometimes in life, like people just just didn't do it wasn't a priority yeah i think yeah it's not a deal breaker i think sometimes in life like people just have really strong opinions on different things but ultimately it is a bit of paper like i so understand what you're saying ultimately people can get divorced nowadays very easily anyway so like the marriage thing is still lovely and it is such a big deal i'm not trying to put it down but like the fact if they want to leave you and like live with you exactly like definitely loves you yeah and he like is committed to sharing the rest of his life with you exactly but maybe it's just something to like lay off for

the minute i won't put pressure on him and then like you know just try and work out different avenues that you can sort of cut both meet in the middle with a compromise yeah i also think there's an element where i would look at it also this is like not the psycho in me that's the wrong way but i'd be like why are you so afraid of getting married because because it's clearly that he's worried about the divorce element of the marriage so i would be like well why do you ever think we're ever going to get divorced it's very hard to look at there's two ways you can look at it i think go down the positive route first yeah you know he's obviously been scarred by his parents and staff and his mom has maybe laid in like laid out his kids like some strong advice um which he's maybe obviously i mean he's sticking with it for a while but it's strange that he would

make the comments about it all before yeah that's quite annoying it's like i wish i kind of knew where i stood with the whole thing from the beginning yeah that you've been expecting it now and now he's suddenly like oh this friend fresh information like I don't want to ever get married like sick well thanks for telling me when we first got together why are you joking about stop showing me a wedding ring that's annoying that's very annoying like you really led me up the garden path here yeah that you could definitely say you should maybe lay down the law and be like I'm actually fine like if you are fine we're not getting married you know I am fine with it but like also x y and z has led me to believe that we were going to

now we're suddenly not like I kind of need to understand it's like the ball's all in your cup like oh we're gonna get married we're gonna get married no don't want to get right now I'm actually too afraid of divorce sorry okay then I'll just be okay with it yeah there has to be some sort of like yeah that's unfair we forgot about that yeah there has to be some sort of like conversation to have where it feels fair on you because right now it kind of feels like he's making all the decisions. You can propose to him. Yeah, but he obviously just doesn't want to get married.

Well, I know, but like... Yeah, see what he says. See what he fucking says. We've given you quite a few answers there. Please follow up on this one. Yeah, please follow up with how it goes. Okay, not so single diaries for me. Hit me.

I've been staying with my baby every night this week, and then we're going together on holiday every night for a whole other week. So this is the longest time we've ever really spent together. Like, oh my God. Oh my God, why are you safe every night? You just had things on the whole time, like near here, so it just makes sense. Stunning. Yeah, quite nice.

Oh, also, there's a period where my house is um going to be semi done so I won't be able to stay there that much because it's still going to be building work and stuff going on but my flat will not be livable because my brother's going to be in my flat so I'm going to have to be staying at Toby's and Sophie's yeah because we live very close to each other lovely so that's really exciting that's going to be a big test for the relationship. Not really absolutely. But it's a step up. Oh, yeah.

I tried on my wedding dress. That's my bridal bridal. So exciting. I was so hungover after the hen. It was literally on the Sunday afterwards. But we went to a lovely little shop. Emma came all the way from Cheshire to see me. My dog peed.

My dog pooped in the wedding shop. Oh, my God. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, my God. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Shit. She'd just been coming all the way from Ballas, and it was like an hour and a half journey,

and I think she just got so over excited. She obviously just had her lunch as well. Oh, sweet angel. I know, I know, I know. But me and my white wedding dress, just trying to, like, clean up. Unacceptable. Oh, my God.

But, yeah, happy, excited. Melissa's going to come to the next one. Well, because I was meant to go to this one, and then it changed days, and I was... white wedding dress just trying to like clean up unacceptable oh my god but yeah happy excited melissa's gonna come to the next one because i was meant to go to this one and then it changed days and i was yeah it kept changing um so i'm gonna see the next one i'm really excited and then we've got the head coming up the outfits for the hen so i mean sophie already knows what she's wearing right you already you've got that i think the guests i don't know we've got some themes i don't know if i'm allowed to say i don't know if i want to say i think maybe we'll leave it as a surprise i don't okay we'll come back to you next week with but yeah we'll decide i think being discussed for everyone i don't want exciting

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