Wednesdays - 99: Should my boyfriend have an Only Fans account??

Episode Date: March 8, 2023

Happy Wednesday and Happy International Women’s Day to our tiny wineys! Today we’re back in the studio and debriefing on Melissa’s ski holiday antics and answering your dilemmas on boyfriends & only fans, feeling behind in life and making a move on a best friend. Plus, we give our thoughts on the Hayley/ Selina beef!!This week we’re drinking a lovely merlot called Libby’s Pride.Melissa Rating- 8.5Sophie Rating- 7.5It’s from a brilliant wine collective called On Cloud Wine, which gives female winemakers in South Africa access to the UK market! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help hello hey guys we're back with a vengeance and back in the studio it's happy international women's day children women ladies boys everyone we've got a lovely you can tell it's from c5 yeah c5 libby's pride merlot so it's from a lovely company called cloud wine not cloud line cloud wine so it's a really cool company they set up to give female winemakers in south africa access to the uk market and we have been very kindly given a lovely bottle of merlot called libby's pride elizabeth is the lady who actually makes it her star sign is a leo and then there's a little lion on there stunning yum lovely it's quite a nice deep red color it's

a really nice merlot you know you get i had a wine the other day that was like really like it was almost like fuchsia see-through but it was actually delicious and the wine person was like don't be alarmed by the fact that it looks like it's blossom hill it's actually a delicious red wine oh wait hang on i'm confused we had a rosé that was really blossom hill vibe really but it was okay stunning yeah it's so it's so dependent I've had one like that as well from a really lovely vineyard and they were like there's we've got like a light it just depends on how much like I think the skin that they put in it skin of the grape I don't know what depends on the color her hand on Saturday and there was like a big magnet of it when we got back to her house and she was like honestly it's so

nice it was genuinely one of the nicest where did you get a photo of it didn't get a photo but I can ask her yeah she'll send me a photo exciting guys melissa's been away skiing for a week how much did you miss me so much how much did you miss it was honestly like i felt like i was away from you for like two weeks yeah because there was no speaking there was not a word i think we exchanged like two messages like miss you love you so much that was it not a peep not a peep not a voice note not a facetime zero not a voice yeah but i knew you were with like a group of 15 people. So I was like, must go. Oh God, it was very intense.

Drink, drink, drinking all day. Yeah, but you look fine. You don't feel too hungover. No, I think you just become accustomed to it. So like the day two, I was like, I'm dying. And then you just push through and then you're all right. So your body just like gets used to it. Are you not like, I'm so tired today, I need a nap?

I slept so much last night. From what time to what time? Honestly, 10 till 7. That's like a nice amount of time. And I slept on the whole transfer down from Val d'Azur and the whole flight. Yeah, you can sleep. She can sleep. Honestly, give that girl a wall or give her a pillow, give her anything.

She'll just close her little eyes and off she goes. Yeah, I don't know what it is. Did everyone else sleep? Did Toby sleep? Yeah. Toby, what happened with her? There was 18 of us in total. It was so much fun.

Did you all do lunches for 18 then? So you had to short? Yeah, pretty much. No, sometimes, because there was a few of us that were on different skiing labels, so there was a couple that were kind of learning still.

But most of the time we would meet up for lunch, long boozy lunch, ski down. Surely the couple who couldn't ski as well didn't have little boozy lunches on their own? They weren't a couple, but yeah. but yeah those two no they would join us so we would always make sure that we met up for lunch i think there was like one day that people had separate lunches oh and we would all meet up for a lovely boozy lunch and ski down the mountain go home drop off our skis take off our ski boots because it's nothing worse than trying to like party with

nothing then go out for apri and go until whatever time in the morning sometimes sometimes we would forget to eat dinner because we were that drunk terrible sounds like i lost my wallet so someone out there's got my id which is just fantastic i know that really upsets me no you can't they probably don't you probably just lost it in the snow and it's buried deep within the snow how do you know because i lost it i think in cocorico well there you go horrible if you're there now and you see someone using so i'm using toby's card and it's so funny he's like i feel like a sugar daddy because it's like it pops up on his like monzo on his phone everything i spend is like and it's like have you not applied for your new car yes i have but it takes three to five working days fantastic and Jamie's going out to Valdeser on his when is he going

in a few weeks in like two weeks oh my god that's so exciting that's not so exciting how many of them is there there's like 30

13 or 30 30 I have honestly no idea I couldn't tell you I don't ask too many questions because I don't want to

how long is it for for a week but he's only doing Wednesday to Sunday that's surely quite weird what are the others going to do when he's gone no like most people are only doing wednesday sunday that's surely quite weird what are the others gonna do when he's gone no like most people are only doing wednesday sunday but then there's like a few people who do i want to make it worth it and stay out for a bit longer well they've got

the chalets for a week i think so they're just like okay well and it sleeps 30 people i have honestly no idea no well i guess that's only well that's a 15 bedroom chalet isn't it that's quite big i have no idea it could be five people going i couldn't tell you haven't asked many questions all i want to know is is there going to be a stripper i mean i don't think that you're going to get a stripper i might be wrong i really don't want a stripper surprise surprise no i really would find that highly uncomfortable like honestly no no no to be fair i don't i'm I'm picturing them, like... I haven't heard of... What? Getting, like, in a handstand and, like, jiggling his balls in my face. Like, I would feel it's...

What if he was super fit? Well, then it'd be okay. But also, I'd probably be even more awkward. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. If you were Hammond, you'd just be like... Oh, my God, it's like if friends... And then this sweet little policeman comes

and they end up falling in love and having him choose a new career path oh what's his name what's his name he's the dad from Matilda I can't remember

oh yeah yeah he's super sweet Eva Longoria commented on my TikTok yeah we need to just talk about that because that's we're talking about

female icons right now obviously Eva Longoria we both have an obsession with Real Housewives but Sophie is on another level to me that's what house i should be sorry i'm real housewives but you're not so much with the real housewives i'm like i loved and i've watched it all through twice but sophie's watched it all through about 20 times well i just have it on as like my bathroom yeah same with me and friends yeah like it's always i've got off a bit friends it gives me like a weird i'm gonna start doing the housewives now

yeah the housewives is so much what i did in my most wholesome nicest feeling i'm so excited like susan i'm like and just gabby honestly from gorge honestly speaking of iconic women selena gomers and haley beaver very totally icons in their own right but i just don't know what's going on there's beef there's beef there's beef and this is the first time i think it's actually a bit like obvious okay tell me wait i thought they'd just make it up i don't think there was ever really an official fallout but there was basically like this video of selena doing something with her eyebrows i think she'd brushed them up like quite like like the yeah really brushed up then i think the same day kylie jenner was doing a makeup video and hers are

brushed up and she commented she put like the caption like didn't even mean to do this brushed up look or something like that about her eyebrows then everyone like jumped on the bandwagon like oh you're clearly taking the piss out of Selena what because Kylie Jenner's friends with Hayley it's so ridiculous and she then put out a tweet like no I'm not it's literally a coincidence like I didn't even see Selena's video Selena comments like I totally agree it's so silly i'm such a fan of yours kind of thing so that's fine that's nothing then there's this old video of hayley that's like resurfaced about like hayley's like taking the piss out of um taylor swift right years and years

years ago no no someone says something about taylor swift and hayley just rolls her eyes naturally she probably hates taylor swift because her husband and taylor swift do not get on so she's like backing up her man this is where my mind's going right wait why did you have to meet and then Selena Gomez

comments on this video going Taylor Swift is my best friend she's the best in the business or something like that what recently why is that literally like

the other day really recently but like why would she do that it's not even Hayley reposting this video it's like some random TikTok page

anyway then there was this post I think it was again on tiktok being like um selena i know hayley and kylie jenner and kendall jenner whatever that whole group of girls are mean girls selena comments on it going i love you yeah what's wrong with her i don't know and then she does like a tiktok live being like guys i'm 30 like i'm too old for this i can you just take a break from instagram and then she's just gone off you're off to do what she's gone off social media taking a break from it i'm like you're the one that's commenting on everything hayley hasn't done a thing no that's all weird why all these reset videos resurfacing none of it makes sense people have been but there's old videos on tiktok all the time but why is it all like jumping on the bandwagon like we hate Hayley?

That's the vibe I'm getting. I need to dig a bit more into it because it sounds all a bit weird to me and doesn't really make sense. But I feel like surely Hayley's just like, ugh, can't be bothered. Seeps for this, yeah. Wealthsimple's Big Winter Bundle is our best match offer yet. Get a 2% match when you transfer over an eligible RRSP. For a $50,000 transfer, that's a $1,000 cash bonus. Enough to buy a fancy parka.

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See full terms at canada.casino.fandu.com. Please play responsibly. Right. We got some follow-ups. Moving on. To more important stuff. Really? Should I read the first follow-up moving on to the more important stuff really should i be the first right we had a email from a girl saying she had dreamt that her boyfriend was cheating on her do you guys remember this and then she was really angry about it yeah we've all had that we've all been there okay i dreamt my partner had a threesome with two random girls and actually enjoyed it a little oh made the bedroom a little more interesting as we explored him watching videos whilst we did stuff for a while until the effect it had on me wore off it was really weird it had that effect on me because i'm massively jealous psycho other times i am too

jealous and psycho to ever let have that in my relationship unfortunately yeah yeah not for me but each their own each their own i rate that from you that was that was one thing i was spinning a potential negative into a positive yeah i love that also like just go for it why not okay right now we're gonna move on to some dilemmas because i've missed this so much okay dilemma one my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly two years about a year ago i found that my boyfriend had messaged a girl on only fans whilst i was at his house no no no no i was so upset i went and cried to his mum she was really supportive hugged and reassured me etc and since

then my boyfriend and i have worked through it good lovely however his parents have decided that it was completely overreacting and that I'm really dramatic person and now dislike me to the extent that they said I'm not welcome to their house what it's been a year now since they've said this and nothing's changed I've spoken to my boyfriend so many times about how this upsets me but he hasn't spoken to them about it or stuck up for me i'm really unsure of what to do going forward as we don't have any other issues other than this situation but i also don't want to be in a relationship going forward where i have a bad relationship with his parents this is really tough personally i don't think you should ever go crying to the parents i just don't like even if like he cheated on you just cry to your own

parents just don't go to theirs because ultimately it can always spin back on you but then if you cry to your parents it's the same and they never accept them back into your life the parents in my view like unless you are set in stone you're breaking up with them yeah mind you know I've done it before when I was really young and I was I was in quite I mean you know this situation I was in I was like literally like trapped in a room, trapped in someone's flat, locked in the flat. And I had to call the dad and be like, he's done X, Y, and Z to me.

What do I do? Help me. Trapped in his flat? I told you this. No. Yes, I did. You know exactly what story I'm talking about. I just don't say too much detail right now.

No, I will know what story and I know who it is. Anyway, so I had to call the dad and I was like really close to him and I was like, he's done this. And he's like, Melissa, fuck him. Fuck him him fuck him get out there fuck him get on a flight home oh i know which flat now it's like you said flat i pitched i had that like relationship with the parents where i was actually really close and they were like always on my side and they loved me so much so it was like fine do you know what i mean yeah if anything they helped the situation because

they always helped me like come to a way of like forgiving the boyfriend at the time and like would speak to the boyfriend like you need to be nice x y and z to me this sounds like the parents are actually not rational at all and they're ourselves so i think this is quite a rare scenario yeah i also just think it depends how much you were crying like if you were stopping yeah yeah yeah they might be like come on like put yourself together but also what what like i need to know the extent of what the message was also kind of need to know like your age like maybe that's sort of like a porn thing i don't really understand it it's very odd that they've like gone to the extent of not allowing you yeah that's really strange okay if they're a bit like of course she's a bit of a you know a bit of a drama queen but like also surely it should be the other way around

well it depends surely if you were the one doing the bad things then they would be like she's not allowed back but it was their own son doing the bad thing so surely they'd be so grateful that you've forgiven their son for such i feel like there's more to it i feel like they're like maybe she calls like the mom a thousand times sobbing her eyeballs maybe i don't know i don't yeah we need more details did the boy just like reply like a heart face to some girl's tits? I don't really know what OnlyFans is either. But also don't get that involved in the relationship. You just need to be supportive of it and then move on, right?

You shouldn't then be like, no, you're not allowed in my house. Sorry, because you have one argument with my son. No, but yeah, it's peculiar. It's really odd. But also, I don't understand OnlyFans. Why has he got a subscription? Surely that's not okay anyway.

Oh my God, that's such a good point. You have to subscribe to the whole thing. Yeah, it's quite odd like i would not be okay this is a red flag that's una red flag for me like just having a subscription to only fans is a bit seedy and gross to me but it sounds like you guys have worked through it and there's no other problems in your relationship so if i were you i would literally say to your boyfriend like you need to stick up for me now and be a bit of a man take take the take the reins on this because it's ridiculous like we've worked through this it's been a year and they're not

allowing me back to your house like that's i feel like the mom's called the son of it like sorry what have you done and he's been like oh she's over exaggerated i haven't done this and then she's been like god what a nightmare and then the son doesn't want her to interact with the mom because he's like you'll find out the truth yeah because it's just not right otherwise it doesn't sound right to me either and also if the mom was like really nice and consoled her at the beginning why would she then do it this is what i'm not getting yeah no okay i think you should sit down and have a stern chat with the boyfriend and then if that doesn't lead anywhere if you really want this relationship to work and it's important for you to have a relationship with the parents maybe you should actually like suggest like can I go for

a coffee with the mum be like look I don't know what you think happened but we've worked through it like I love your son so much I want to have a nice relationship with you please can we leave this in the past like I don't can we just you know yeah I agree I agree okay dilemma two hi love your podcast I listen to it every week on my walk to uni and thought i'd stand in my dilemma i basically have a best guy friend who has been my closest mate since we were 15 i'm 22 now and throughout the years we've been in our own relationship but at odd times we're both single we end up getting the good tubber and sometimes going further this is why this is why sometimes relationships between boys and girls that are friendships are a little bit of a gray area because this happens a lot i've never had this i've never had it either but i've heard it This is why sometimes relationships between boys and girls that are friendships are a little bit of a grey area.

Because this happens a lot. I've never had this. I've never had it either, but I've heard it happen a lot. Okay, right. It's never been addressed and we're lucky enough to never have had a relationship. It's never been awkward. The next time I see him in group situation, no one will know, etc. However, I've recently been home and seen him again and

something feels different he's more tactile in public holding my leg under the table when we're at our mates and basically making me so confused as he's meant to be seeing someone else oh no someone again here is my dilemma do you think we're old enough for me to now address it and see where it goes seriously or shall i keep it quiet and let it be a mind fuck every time i go home wondering if we will get together each time I wouldn't want a friend with benefits kind of thing I would want to be taken on a date and see if anything serious can develop Sophie how did you move that friendship into a serious relationship with Jamie without laughing or worrying about how much you have to lose we did laugh a lot and you did worry about how much you did a lot um I kind

of held off and it would just always end up like he was quite persistent so I guess it's like if but also you didn't have like a deep friendship for years it was like a friendship that you had for like a few months and then like you both knew that you were instantly like no it was like a two-year friendship it was also I guess in more of a work case scenario it wasn't like every time you were going out with your mates on a Friday night he was always that do you know what I mean no and also it was always a friendship that you were always like he's got something with you exactly it was never like purely a friendship no no no it was always like there was always something obviously there but nothing ever

happened until it then happened and then it happened quickly yeah it wasn't like it happened then you had a year off and then nothing happened because you were dating other people but I was very much like I just did not I let him come to me sure so I think it's difficult it's a different scenario it really is but if you're if he's being really tactile about it there was a stage where Jamie started being really tactile do you not remember when we were like we'd go for dinner with like you Harry and Verity and I was like what are you doing like he was being very obvious about it was moving fully into relationship at this stage though no no no it wasn't you didn't even know yes i did you like semi told me you found out that night because we got a taxi hang together melissa come on okay so what advice are we going to give to this girl

right i would um if you it's i'm very unsure whether you like you actually want to see where this goes or whether you're just like should i because i feel obliged yeah maybe you're just intrigued i'll just be open to it i just go literally go with the flow yeah i wouldn't overthink it i don't think it's i'm excited for you because every time you go home it's like is it gonna happen is it not and also like if he's being that tactile he wants it to go somewhere if he's being that tactile, he wants it to go somewhere. If he's doing that in public as well, and he's seeing someone else, he's not holding back. Yeah, that's a bit shady, though. Like, maybe. But then that kind of keeps it a bit more spicy.

I know. We're terrible humans, but it does. It really shouldn't, but it does. No, no, he mustn't do that. But I guess you can see someone and see someone else. Like, if they're not as sweet of it as not doing anything wrong. Yeah. But he's obviously going to fall in love with you. It's very anything wrong yeah but he's obviously gonna fall in love with you it's very obvious to me he's obviously already i think it would be one

thing keeping it completely a secret but the fact that he's like holding your leg in public and like allowing other people to potentially see it it's a bit like what's going on there yeah that's the funnest bit there is i think just go with the flow see how it goes i agree with sophie don't ruin the magic yet don't ruin the magic don't try and have this conversation with him about it yet you know what i think if you end up hooking up at least twice more like in the stint that you're at home again then maybe you can kind of be like look if you're seeing someone else i feel bad that we're hooking up be like feel a bit bad like i don't really want to come between anything like we all my mate and i love you so much i don't want to lose our friendship otherwise just go with the flow i think you will

end up hooking up more than twice so I'm very intrigued can we have a follow up on this please because I don't feel like our advice has been that good but I feel like it was quite a vague dilemma I needed a bit more information how far has the extent of the hookups gone where's home from you

yeah you were at uni and then you were going back home Easter holidays, half term seven years there's a hell of a long time but he must be in love okay that's like genuinely that's franco benefit like no franco benefits but you know the movies and like yeah that's gonna become something for sure okay hi girls listen to the podcast religiously and just want some advice i'm nearly 21 and feel everyone around me has their lives set out. Boyfriends, jobs, homes, etc.

What? At 21? Bizarre. I feel like I'm being left behind and unsure what to do. I'm the only girl in the group without a boyfriend and just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I've never had a serious relationship and sometimes I feel like perhaps I'm just not meant to have someone special and just keep being independent. Should I have sorted this out by now? Absolutely fucking not. You're 21. What the hell's going on i know that's the time of your life oh

my god at 21 if i was you remain single for as long as you can same at four years in you until you even getting a boyfriend honey like you keep that single spree in your step i don't know what i'm talking about today guys i'm feeling that single spree in your step spring in your step i don't know what i'm talking about today guys i'm feeling that single spree in your step spring in your step spring in your step do you keep that little single step yeah you should 21 is like literally wow baby wild i was in a relationship from like 18 to 21 and i think i broke up with him when i was like 22 because i was like oh i've been in a relationship too long too long now i have like my thing and this is not your one like you need to just yeah yeah either you're just gonna set on the dead and relationship or you're just gonna sack it off now and have some wild fun i just sat down because i was literally i need to be saying yeah

do not worry this is the best this is the best time in your life to be single your early 20s i think you need to relax your friends will probably end up breaking up with those boyfriends they're not gonna be there oh my god no 21 is so young how do they have houses and everything already at the age of 21 what the fuck maybe they don't live in london yeah there is like people that live outside like some reason in london like everything's at a slower pace if you live in a smaller uh like i guess condensed area like my friend who lives in alderney slash guernsey in jersey like one of the channel islands she has already had a baby. Like she's been living with her boyfriend for like seven years.

Yeah, like things, but she's like, people just move at a faster pace here. There's always, I guess, less opportunity. Yeah, you're not going to go out all the time, are you? To do other things. So like your life just gets sped up a bit. And like there's nothing wrong with being single at 21, seriously. That's like honestly strange if you weren't single. It's quite hard when all your friends have boyfriends i just date no but maybe like there isn't anyone today and maybe she just wants to hang out with her friends

but they're all busy at the weekend i get that because jamie was doing radio and all of you guys have boyfriends so i was like guys who wants to spend weekend oh busy and i was like i see you every weekend pretty much not weekends not weekends weekdays we do weekends no um i think what you've got to do is get into the gym have a lovely day on yourself have a bit of you time pamper yourself i got really into like the hair mask the facials like i did all of that the weekend myself yeah and then go out in the evening with also there's nothing wrong with hanging out with couples nothing wrong wrong. Gorgeous, in fact. Hanging out with couples is a really lovely thing to do. I would just do that.

Yeah, but in the day, just make time for yourself. Yeah, in the day. Also, don't be afraid to go out and date. Get on those dating apps. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Have some fun. Go loose. Also, you'll probably meet some more, like,

I think when you get into the right mindset, you'll probably find some more single people. And as Sophie said, like, the people that have boyfriends now probably wouldn't have them for very long, trust me. Right, should we move on to not-so-single diaries? Yeah, go on, Melissa. Okay, so obviously I've been away with Toby and all my friends. Oh my god, there was one day, I've told Sophie about this before we came up,

where, for some reason, these group of people thought, group of boys, thought that Toby was, like, famous, and they kept giving him, like, loads of, like, free Jager bombs. I'm sorry, but how boys, thought that Toby was like famous and they kept giving him like loads of like free Jager bars. I'm sorry, but how old were they? Because it sounds quite... They were like in their 40s, they weren't boys. I think they were,

they maybe fancied him. I don't know. It's the most... And all of our friends were like, what's going on? Toby was like, why are they giving me... He was like,

are they like, is there like something in these drinks? Like what's going on? Maybe. Did he... No, he was fine. But it was like spooky. It was like kind of weird.

Maybe they think he's Justin Bieber bieber or something i don't know he was very chuffed himself to say the least did they come and chat to him afterwards no they couldn't actually get to us so they were like on a mezzanine bit and they kept like passing the booze up it was like very odd very odd what just it just it. Just it. And he was like, thanks, wink wink. Very odd. I think he was just sort of like, why are you giving this to me? Lovely, I mean. Anywho, we had a blast.

It was very fun. Toby's a good sport. Obviously, everyone loved Toby. Well, well, well. Okay, Bride or Brizilla, the invites have gone out. We've had really nice reviews for everyone i forgot to say this what i got my invite when i got back from valenzuela it almost made me cry it's the most beautiful thing i've ever fucking seen yeah everyone's really in my life in my

bobby yes in the little thing and we saw the sausage and we were like do you think that's bob's they probably put her in at the last minute didn't they so cute guys this invitation is like nothing i've ever seen before in my life so yeah i was really happy with that because like i think it's really set the tone and everyone's message like being like oh nicest invitation ever i'm so i've never seen anything like it it was like a fucking like storybook i'm gonna get it framed genuinely no the artwork who did them like amazing unbelievable yeah the little map i know the shell i know the shell i know when you get to the venue it all makes sense why it's all like the terracotta color is gorgeous also the writing on the front of the envelope i was like toby this is it this is it this is it so exciting so that happened which i'm really

excited about and that's really like giving us like a little pep in my step like everyone's really excited this is the first official step this is the first official step the real wedding is in six weeks can we just oh my god i don't know the april one yeah okay okay six weeks six weeks is this bitch has got to get in shape in six weeks so i started with jamie's pte sean safford he is pumping me full of iron and my hands feel a little bit shaky today because i did it this morning doing it how many times a week three times three times anyway that's my update kids and oh we're gonna break the wine libby's pride i think you have a lovely 7.5 because that's just a wholesome

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