Wednesdays - Ep 12: Let’s talk about orgasms!

Episode Date: June 29, 2021

Golly! We have got a juicy little episode for you today. We’re talking orgasms ladies and gents - it’s about time!Today we are drinking a Rosé de Léoube!https://www.daylesford.com/shop/outdoor-living/picnic-barbecue/chateau-leoube-rose/Our ratings are:Melissa: 8Sophie: 8Love,S & M xSocials - @wednesdayswedrinkwineEmail - [e-mail] Productions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Cheers over the screen. I can't believe we're doing it again not together i know guys there's several reasons why we're not doing it together but we still have the same wine yeah but yeah well we did discuss it i'm really i've got so much ice in it but i so do i i only just got it so it's not very hot oh you're just not very cold i know i got mine this morning we discussed it this morning because i mean you must have had it before that's why you asked yeah yeah I've had it and I see it and I wanted it there was no there was no wavering in my mind this was why we're having taken you know he knows that I've had it

quite a lot before because she seemed based about it and she was like right we're gonna get the Dalesford organic very thin I was like oh stunning can you pronounce you can you pronounce it so when i ordered it on delivery it said la lube yeah i love okay fine on on here that's hard to read if i didn't have seen it like written down normally like i wouldn't have been able to read that writing it's very fancy schmancy isn't it yeah and it's a very pale deliciousness we organic street this is it this is a lovely rosé and it's not like overrated not expensive yeah it's really it's it's just it's absolutely divine but uh dale's food like are they local can a lot of people get it probably not i feel like you can

i mean you can order a lot of dale's food stuff on Ocado, I used to. Well, even if you don't live in London. I think you could probably get it on Ocado. Yeah, Ocado deliver everywhere, pretty much. And Dalesford deliver, so I'm sure you could get it online. I'm actually blocked from Ocado. Why? What did you do? What did you do to Ocado, say?

Oh, God. This is a really just terrible story. But basically, my mum gave me her card once and I, I like ordered to deliver it, God. This is a really just terrible story. But basically, my mum gave me her card once. And I, like, ordered a digital delivery, whatever. Did the same, put her card into Uber as well. This is when I was really young. Yeah, I was going to say, this is the same as the Uber. I remember as long as I've known Sophie, she's like, can't get an Uber.

Still can't get an Uber. So if anyone's out there listening to Uber, please sort me out. Oh, God. Anyway, I went off to uni age 18 and okay so and i thought oh sweet my mom obviously just doesn't care so i was doing all my car deliveries at uni anyway mom i don't i don't know what happened but she like called a car and was like what the hell is going on like Like, thinking somebody's forging her. They were like, oh, God save the baby.

The whole thing, they blocked me. And now, like, I swear they pinned me down to everything because literally, I can't eat anything. Probably. Yeah. And it's just that sort of thing. It's so funny. Where am I going to get all the nice food?

Well, I mean, you live in London and you live right next to a Whole Foods. I'm sure you're not deprived. Yeah, but our carding has, like, all the really good stuff, like, all the dairy-free ice creams. Yeah.'s a tough old it's very true although and they have they have yeah oh planet organic you're close to that yeah it's so close but jesus christ there's daylight robbery if you lived in the country you would be quite screwed you'd have to just make an account in jamie's name that's what you'd have to do oh yeah i have i've done that now but i still don't

order from it i don't know why i used to to. I mean, in the lockdown, I did. But then obviously the demand got really high from it. And I was like, okay, I'm not going to shop there now. So this is what our conversation was. So I fancy a bit of Dalesford. And I was like, damn, I can't obviously go there. Right now I'm kind of like isolating in my flat. And I was like, can't get to Dalesford.

So I'm going to have to order it on delivery. So I ordered this Boston wine 9am in the morning. The guy must have been like i've done that before it's really only for this podcast delivery is so dangerous it's just it really is just everything's on there now you can't pick mix on there which oh my god i don't think i can get that where i am but i can get churros nutella churros churros you mean churros no churros no churros? You mean churros? No, churros. No, churros. Churros, like the deep fried donut, like Kim Kardashian. Just shut up as if it's churros. Yeah, well, that's actually how you say it.

Not churros. It's not like cheerio, the ice cream. Oh my God, I've always just pronounced it churros. Yeah, but I think he probably pronounced it like paella. That's what Kimmy K says. Does she? She says churros. She freaking loves it.

Like, does she? That's my question. Oh, guys, my question about the kardashians for a minute okay well i need to catch up on it but has everybody seen the preview of the interview with brian seacrest because boy oh boy no it's not brian seacrest it's whoever the other bloke is even better the guy from real housewives yes who does them oh my god he's really good at getting like the juicy goth yeah he's quite savage anyway we haven't said hi but hi everyone welcome hi guys we love you very much it feels like honestly forever because i haven't seen so for two weeks it feels really quite awful i really don't like this actually it's not two weeks i saw you last yes it is no way no sophie that was the week before because last week we did this remotely oh actually wait am I okay no you are no no no I am yeah you are no it's one week it is this is one week this is the

second week so okay well yeah it's been I didn't see the whole of last week and I'm not seeing the whole of this yeah it feels weird we've really like barely facetime this week is that it feels I know it's because we've both been here then everywhere so busy yeah i've been so busy in my flat i've been so busy guys oh my god but yeah i found out some goss about the kardashian so i was talking to my like doctor give it to me esho you know i know who you're gonna say is anise anise anyway i was like she has all the gossip i'm like i want to know how does how do they look like that tell me everything yeah she was like well they obviously all get my post action i was like do they the same to me she was like yeah yeah it's a full-time job like they're and then they get it pumped back into

their butt but then apparently they can't sit on their bum for like six weeks yeah see this is what i just don't understand that cannot be possible because they sit down all the time yeah but they obviously like have six weeks of filming at times like god no but they have children they've got four kids i'm like there's no way but that is that bum real like come on we're not all born on mars i don't know what i really like want to believe that it is real because stop you no only because the fact that it takes six weeks not to sit on your bum yeah but loads of people get bum implants now yeah the implants that's that's like quite i mean to have kimmy k's size bum you'd have to have pretty extreme implant

size wouldn't you yeah i don't think they're implants i think it's her fat pumped in from like her waist put into her tiny little waist i mean she does look incredible i think and also i'm not promoting surgery but at the same time it's like you do you i mean she does look incredible i think and also i'm not promoting surgery but at the same time it's like you do you i think she looks great oh yeah and i'm not promoting non-surgery like you do you harm whatever you want to do whatever makes you feel great but also yeah you've got to like flag it that's not real aspirate it's quite extremist yeah yeah i don't want people thinking that that's just like a natural way people look no no no yeah totally but yeah i'm really excited i just i i really i really can't wait i watched the latest episode and i'm now on

like the to be continued bit oh no i'm way behind i've got them all to go tonight and james is here so lucky thing you're in for a treat i'm it you are in for a treat i actually can't wait um guys we've had some really nice replies from all of you as well, like follow-ups, which is what we love to see because I'm getting a bit stressed that, you know, the dilemmas are too brief. We want a bit more information. We've actually been given some.

Yes, we need some more info. Ooh, ooh, ooh, why don't we have that? Yeah, you go on. Do you want to read it? Okay, okay. Thanks so much for your advice. We're super happy and i'm moving in wait hold on hold on so this is basically from the girl who we gave advice to about not moving in

with your boyfriend too early she's basically messaged us and then back and was she leaving uni or am i getting that i'm pretty sure she was leaving uni she wanted to live in london with her girls he lived in the country and we were like you don't need to move in with him straight away thanks so much for your advice we're super happy and I'm moving in with him for a few weeks before I head back to uni and then we'll live separately until I'm ready lovely happy days thanks still loving the podcast and all my friends are too oh my god that's so sweet and I also think such a sensible decision I also think so great because you're also gonna like have a little taste taste of it and then you'll go your separate ways and then you'll

come back together and you know what you're and either you'll be like you know what you worked really well together let's do it or thank god it was suggested because that didn't work and we're not ready for that you know yeah but they probably yeah yeah yeah yeah but few weeks it's always great don't you think yeah it's like the honeymoon phase i feel like it's after the two month mark when it's like shit starts to annoy you and you're like oh in my case with harry i just annoy him oh my case with jamie i think we both annoy each other but he just doesn't like ever show it i i like i'm so outwardly annoyed whereas i i just think he, actually, do you know what? I'm the most annoying person to live with,

but I just don't think he ever gets annoyed by anyone. No, do you want, not Sophie. What the hell are you talking about? No, I am. I'm like, I'm like Harry, which isn't annoying, but I'm like, oh my God, you've left the plates out. Like I am pretty OCD. I hate to think what it would be like

if I lived with someone that's quite messy. To be fair, I am much better than I was. Harry's admitted that I've made, I'm never messy with like clearing up plates and dishes and's admitted that i i have i've made i'm never messy with like clearing up plates and dishes and stuff like that oh yeah no i'm really good at that i go i clear up as i go along it's just the clothes on the floor which occasionally you know gets a bit yeah yeah yeah yeah i feel you and you know what it's because you're very into youtube and like that like filming oh my god so it's filming anything or taking a picture of an outfit trying on stuff game over it just yeah it just builds up you gotta move it's my job honey

you have to really and i live in a small place i'm an influencer just gotta be a bit more flexible exactly okay i'm gonna read is this one of our dilemmas no i think this is another little bit of feedback is it no this is just a lovely bit of feedback yeah and a bit of a question on friends because you guys know that we are friends number one fans we are it's from a lovely girl called hannah i'm not sure if these meant to be anonymous but anyway hannah we love you um ladies i am in love with the podcast i feel it is a window into girl chat that is just so honest oh thanks that's good we are very honest and brutal brutally honest her question for us you guys have mentioned you're fans of friends how did you feel about the reunion

specifically about the jen david love interest confession wow sorry if it's a spoiler that was a freaking big deal if you've not watched reunion by right now oh then you're not a fan yeah you're not so don't pretend to be being yourselves and you are smashing it damn oh thank you're not a fan yeah you're not so don't pretend to cry keep bringing yourselves and you are smashing it damn oh thank you hannah love you and um okay you go first so i mean we had the same views on it we both loved it really didn't i love the reunion the jen and david like weirded me out of it like i just don't yeah it did i'm sorry i just jamie's obsessed with ross and i love him on the show i don't know why jamie serves us with yeah he's so weird it's so like i don't get me wrong guys but he's just so greener to me i could not fancy him if i tried and jen is like just the best person in the world

that i'm like surely surely surely they didn't fancy each other like obviously david fancy jen right surely but you know what was super cute when it did the throwbacks and the behind the scenes footage of them like flirting I was like wow that's why the chemistry between them was so good on set like that's what they were all kind of saying you know like if you did if you did actually get together it might not have been as good because obviously there's all the anticipation and like that like butterfly feeling obviously there in real life so it really like showed isn't that funny because it's actually a reference to what happens in french you know when joey's like oh my god if the actors are actually screwing then there's no chemistry on it yeah

and that's that's literally what they said yeah you're probably what yeah yeah guys it's just such a nice well it's not a nice day but it it's warm. The rose is lovely. I'm talking about friends. It is a really nice day. Yeah. I was actually going to sit on my balcony, but it's a bloody great drill. And I was like, oof, the mic's going to pick it up and you guys are not going to be too pleased with us. No, no. You guys would get really angry with that.

Anyway, moving on. I feel like rounding that up, I bloody loved it. I thought it was great. I think if they tried to do an actual episode, it would have been a bit of a letdown. Yeah, I bloody loved it. It was a good way of doing it. I was very hungover when I watched it, so I thought it was great. I think if they'd tried to do an actual episode, it would have been a bit of a letdown. Yeah, I bloody loved it. It was a good way of doing it. I was very hungover when I watched it, so I was even more emotional.

And I kind of thought, oh, what really got me when they were like, where do you think your characters would be now? I was like, ah. Oh my God, I thought they nailed it, though. They nailed it. I thought each answer was very satisfying. I knew what, I loved that.

Joey's was 10 out of 10 when he said he'd have Atlantic City, some sandwich shop on the beach. I think also yeah you did that's where they they almost go yeah they always trip and then she gets and then she gives birth but i loved um monica's where she said like her she'd be still going to all the pta meetings and she'd be like i was like you are so that mom like it's constantly in the school like yeah even when your kids leave, like you're still on the board, you know? Who, if you had to relate to any of them,

who would you relate to? Like, are you a Monica? Are you a Rach? Are you a? You're a Monica with your tidiness. Do you think I would like to think of myself as a Rachel? I only think that I am because like, I'm always told that I'm a bit messy

and Monica's just like me, me, me. So I feel like you and Harry are a bit of a Monica. Wait, if I could relate to any of them, like, let's actually be serious now. I probably am a Monica, yeah. I am very, like, meh, meh, meh. But on the beginning, Monica was, like, one of my favourites. Like, I loved her in the early days. I loved her the whole way through.

So do I. But in the beginning, she was probably my fave. I think she's honestly one of the most beautiful people there is so stunning especially when she was younger before she had the work done yeah it was before she did whatever she did i don't know what it was she was just incredible i was kind of like a megan fox vibe you know the smallest like most dainty little features there is yeah i mean they're all beautiful aren't they they're all so great they're all so great yeah okay we we need to move on we could talk about this all bloody day friends people who haven't watched friends like i don't think you're even gonna relate to this

podcast i'm joking so our first dilemma should i read it oh it's juicy safe orgasms oh love it okay great okay guys you ready for this orgasms oh i'm ready i get quite awkward when talking about things like this i don't know why because when you think about it like it happens or it doesn't for every female but for me i've never done it i've never been able to I feel like awkward and I don't know how to stop feeling like that and be more comfortable with it I know that not every woman can do it through penetration alone my boyfriend has tried and I have tried like how long does it take for you to have your first one does it get easier after that do you guys have any

oh my god Melissa oh Melissa I'm sorry I've never even my friends don't ask me like this I've never had someone like ask me like a question like this with you I guess I've had conversations about it but someone's never been like how do I oh I I've had one girl but she was very drunk at uni but like so the hell what I like so applaud that and i feel like it should be talked spoken about yeah it's something you know what it's so funny like i don't know like what well we always say oh down there but the vagina yeah okay we can say the bloody word like why is everyone so like it's so funny isn't it like everyone like even like me like us girls we all just kind of avoid the word it's funny and i'm like why i don't like the word vagina but I still don't know neither but what word can you say that's like sounds nice

oh yeah they all sound gross my friend they're all a bit you know there isn't anything that's nice they're all a bit funny I really feel for her because yeah you give me your your view I mean first of all I wonder like how old you are and like how many, I guess, guys you've been with. Because I guess in my first couple relationships, my first relationship, it wasn't ever really something that I experienced. And I was so young and like no one really knew what the hell they were doing back then anyway. And I actually weirdly think I learned, I obviously learned about it because everyone was talking about it like I mean and you see it in movies stuff like that like people talking about orgasms even in friends they talk about girls having multiple orgasms um I don't know I honestly

don't even remember when my first one was I mean I also don't think it's that unusual to not have an orgasm just from sex like i think it's quite spectacular to have an orgasm just from sex and if you find a guy that can do that to you then i applaud but i actually think it's more like like i'm more applauding how you're made right some girls can through penetration and some can't like i don't actually think that's um like that unusual that's quite normal yeah i don't think i know any't like i don't actually think that's um like that unusual that's quite yeah i don't think i know any girls like i literally know i could count on one hand out of all my friends and it's not even half my hand how many girls i know who can do it through yeah through penetration who can orgasm through penetration so firstly don't stress about that secondly you do really

have to be relaxed i think so he's getting some real good sex tips here guys but no but you do like i don't know as in like i think if you're i definitely i just think it's very good just get a couple get a couple bits and bob's nasty girl they always come up on my like um you basically mean a bullet you can say that yeah a bullet no but they they call it other things they have like a little bunny and a rampant rabbit rabbit yeah there's all sorts of bits and bobs that you can get you know just do a bit of research you know read cosmo pollington magazine they talk about all sorts of goodness in there oh yeah maybe tantric watch i i actually don't but

i actually think loads of girls find porn really good for that they actually watch it with their boyfriend yeah yeah but that wouldn't actually give you no it does it makes you really stop it it makes you horny but it wouldn't just give you an yeah but i feel like if you're if like you're not horny this is an interesting one do you think you know apparently it's possible for a woman to orgasm purely just for mentally nothing touching anything guys i've orgasmed in your dream in my dream but also in a gym class doing abs swear on my life so did my friend i've just asked her she won't mind but yes we did and we've both done it on separate occasions she told me at uni she was like really really my friend is he and she reminded me saying this i

really hope sorry if you do she knew that from uni and she was like oh my god something really odd just happened like i was at the gym doing abs and i orgasmed and i was like god can you tell me what ab class this was please no we were literally doing abs and then like a couple years later it happened to me in an ab class and it's like not like a full-on orgasm but it's like a snippet of one i was like sorry what the hell is this anyway we googled it back at uni and it is a thing i don't know what happens like your muscles are contracting bizarre but maybe you know what the human body as the female body is pretty incredible the fact that you can organize them in your dream in your sleep and i'm nothing seeing touch that has happened to me before i've woken up like golly what's happening like yeah i know we've said that

before on this podcast like it it's a real thing the dream sex dreams yeah so us girls you know we do have it good but you've got to just feel like the thing you know we have it best in the voice we 100% do yeah but do we but they always like guaranteed an orgasm we're not it's so true yeah like sometimes like let's be honest sometimes you just got to make it happen for yourself one of those bullet yeah we will say me and safe have this discussion like pretty much all my friends have got one of those little bullet things i actually have a little eye massager which is definitely not a bullet or would not work as a bullet but it's like something from um current body yeah and you see it's a foreo one i think oh yeah a little eye massager for eye cream and it

sits on the side of my bed it honestly looks like a full-on dildo. And whenever the, like, cleaning, she's so sweet. Whenever she comes over, Harry's like, flipping, put that thing on the side of your bed away because it honestly looks like a full-on dildo that you've just left on the side of your bed. Oh, my gosh. Oh, my God. I've got such a funny story. That was really sweet.

We were at an after-party at uni and there's this really sweet guy and he was just so quiet and he was, he just never got with girls. He's a lovely boy, but just not into that sort of thing. Anyway, we were all in this guy's room, as you are. And it was back in my wild party days. And I just saw he was playing. Oh, my God, I can't. He was just sat on the bed playing with this thing in his hand.

And I was like, I'm so observant. I was like, what the hell is he playing with? I looked, and and i was like i'm so observant i was like what the hell is he playing with i looked and in front of everyone he was just playing everyone was like what are you playing with to the boy and he was like i don't know and it was the boy's girlfriend's he's been playing with it for hours oh my god and he didn't realize oh very innocent but also really... in and a guaranteed winner by 11 p.m every day 19 plus and physically located in ontario gambling problem call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca select games only guarantee void of platform or game outages occur guarantee requires play by at least one customer until

jackpot is awarded or 11 p.m eastern restrictions apply see full terms at canada.casino.fando.com please play responsibly grace oh god also another note on this which i really hope you don't have but i have heard that girls some girls really actually physically cannot orgasm really yeah it's like a physical thing i remember in sex in the city when um what's her name samantha obviously has a lot of sex and um she's talking to her gals about it and they're like you know what they actually run out like orgasms run out what do you mean no that's not true like i think they were just taking the this but like if you have so many eventually they just stop they become really shit apparently if you have three orgasms the third's the best like you should keep going right okay i'm gonna read this

good tip from safe keep going it's not uncommon for a woman to never have experienced an orgasm during sexual activity right it is common for women not to have orgasms this does not mean they do not have a satisfying sex life if you've never had an orgasm don't worry right well i think you should google it and read up on it because there's a lot on there on that page about like what to do if you've never had one but obviously it still means you have a really nice sex i think that you can have an orgasm you just can't have an orgasm through sex which is you know really quite normal do you not worry about that there's so many other ways that you can just what is it the g-spot hit the g-spot and if you can't get it isn't the g-spot

in the butt oh what yeah it is didn't you have to when you were younger did you ever not like sit i remember being like super young and sitting on like the gc what on your bum yeah no like on a holiday like being so young and not knowing what the feeling was being like oh this feels nice but sitting on it sitting in it in like the hot tub oh sitting in it sorry i thought you were like sitting on like a thing i was like that's going up you're like i was like hitting your bum that would hurt so much well pretty much it was but i yeah that's like you know how big girls use the shower no no i know what you mean i know what you mean about the jacuzzi and then i remember being super young as well but it was coming out from the sides i wouldn't sit on top of it oh no no

mine was coming out from like the bottom oh god me'll make you swim around like but i remember like doing it and being so young doing it right in front of me like what on earth is this yeah yeah what on earth yeah and i remember my mom like trying to move me off it like and i was like running back swimming back no no no i want to be there like i think if my mom saw me do that she'd just pretend like she hadn't seen it like no no i don't know but we were i remember distinct god you must want to bury in a in our hot tub in my granddad's house in spain and all my cousins were in the hot tub and i remember so well my mom kept picking me up and putting me away from it. I must have been like seven. And she was like, no, no, no, no.

And I was like, obsessed, obsessed. Maybe you should try that like a shower head. What is that film where she sits on the washing machine and it's like going, it's like vibrating. She's just like, she's got to go and just satisfy myself. She goes and sits on the washing machine please tell me that film what film is that i mean there's just so much about it like it's very like i feel like in those like areas it's very like talked about in like films and stuff like that like people do talk about it but people don't most so british we're like oh my god like even i'm a bit like whoa talking about it

yeah we're very prude is that the right word yeah pr, prude. Prude. Prudish, yes. Also, I don't know whether you're like, again, this is really quite crude, but definitely try like the toys rather than yourself. I know that you've said that you feel like you've tried and so has your boyfriend, but I would definitely try toys. You know? Oh, God, yeah. I mean, because I've never.

It sorts the whole shebang out much faster much faster you'll be and give that a good old go and then you're probably finished before he does and then you just be like get off me yeah then you're like come on hurry up give him a taste your own medicine right shall we move on imagine can we just talk about actually for a split second imagine if it was that way around if we were like i'm done now that's that's what happens doesn't it let's be honest yeah no they find it quite hard to carry on afterwards don't they well they can't well i mean they can't unless it's truly like phenomenal no they really can't that's why toys are quite good i think you just got to find the balance experiment a little bit that's

what you know yeah you've got a boyfriend so do you know what you're in the best position to to be doing that yeah and we've all kind of been there you know with the old not getting an orgasm during sex i would not worry about that at all gotcha okay next dilemma i started dating a guy and we have been taking talking for a month and it's still early days and we haven't yet had any convo about where we are with each other he has now had to move away for work a three-hour drive god that's very far actually no you know what it's not that bad I've done long distance and he says he still wants to talk and come and visit me some of my friends are telling me it is too new and isn't worth me making the effort to do long distance so soon and he hasn't explicitly said to me where I stand just that he likes me that's difficult if he's not

telling me you're solid do I make the effort knowing we like each other but it's early days or are my friends right saying it's too much effort than it's worth should I still be dating around other people i think there's no harm in going up to see him spending a night with him meeting whatever but if i was there i would be like that this is pretty like hard and you know long distance and it's quite a lot of effort like where are where where are we at i would personally don't go down the route don't ask him where we're at he's the one that's moved away he could have made a big gesture and been like look I really like you I want you to

be my girlfriend I want to make this work rather than moving away being like oh I still like you can I just keep you there on the side I'm sorry I think let him come and visit you and you carry it on but I don't think that you should be going out of your way and like closing yourself off to other people and making the effort to go up and see him I think unless you're both unless he sort of shows a conscious effort to come down and visit you a couple times and shows that he is committed then I think it's fine for you to make a decision and see if you do want to not date other people and start going up to visit him but I would not shut off your options because as you were saying it is early days and i also think your friends will always have your best

interests at heart yeah friends you know and um if he sounds like a nice guy like it doesn't sound like anything bad's happened here he's just moving away in its early days and it's a bit difficult for him as well i just think you should let let him make the effort first and then you kind of gauge what direction you want to go with and end. But don't shut off other people.

Keep dating. Do you think? Yeah, 100%. Well, if she really likes him. He has not, but he hasn't said to her

like we're exclusive. So what she says to you, okay, I'll wait for you to come visit me even though you've moved away like we're not together. Yeah,

fair enough. Yeah, I wouldn't, I would definitely do what Melissa said and then just be also just chilled about it like if you want to go see him and you're happy to drive throughout then that's fine but if you don't that's a long way three hours is really quite long so I do think that's a really awkward time for, to start a long distance relationship. And to start a committed, to commit to that in early days is hard.

You know, like in early days, you want to be going out on the weekends with them and going on Sunday brunch dates spontaneously. You can't do any of that quite intense, quite quickly. And also it's like at the beginning, it's like you don't want to see them that often.

Like you don't have three nights with them. It's more like, oh, can I like you don't want to see them that often like you don't have three nights with them it's more like oh can i see you on tuesday and then on friday and then you bump into them on a night out on saturday yeah exactly it's like god you've got to make it worth the journey yeah and you've got to like a couple nights take your makeup off you've got to go to the loo in front of him all on the first oh god no yeah that whole shebang i would be panicking about what to pack my worst is like the teeth. But I have to get, I would, when I first started dating anyone, I'd like wake up at honestly 5am, go brush my teeth and get back to bed. Yeah, I think that everyone's been there.

Don't think Jamie was, but. Do boys do that? Boys just don't care. Oh, it's so rank. I'm sorry. Breakfast morning? Morning breath? No.

It will never, ever be okay. don't kiss me in the morning okay you're definitely not a morning sex kind of gal but you're like go brush your teeth then come back i'm so like that i just don't understand i don't i think nowadays i think when you're i think maybe three months into the relationship that's what happens but i feel like spontaneously if you wake up in the middle of the night we're like the middle of the night it's quite you don't want to be at all no no go brush your teeth the middle of the road is quite a rogue one that does happen though occasionally does happen on early on doesn't it it doesn't happen so much early on but i think it's because they're really like turned on by lying next to us but whereas whereas now I'm, like, head to toe in, like, a fluffy dressing gown

with, like, ranks, potpourri and all that. I used to sit there with my face light on at night, like, Darth Vader in bed. Yeah. Such a turn on. Oh, my God, it's true. That really hasn't happened for a long time. Oh, God, that hasn't happened to me in years.

I used to be like, oh, hello, what's going on? Yeah, that really hasn't happened in years. Those days were good those were the good old days those good old days you got all of those days to come because you're still single but perhaps yeah i would keep your i was gonna say keep your doors open your options keep your doors open i think don't that kind of sounds like... I know. I was like, how could you? Keep your options open.

I wouldn't like cut off the thought of like dating somebody else because you could meet someone bloody great that you really, really like that lives two minutes away. And then you're like, for God's sake. Yeah. Thank God I didn't commit to this guy. You know, I would just keep it open. If he wants to come and visit you and take you out for a nice date

and stay the night wherever, that's fine. And then you can decide the more time you spend together, okay, I really like this guy and I want to keep it open. If he wants to come and visit you and take you out for a nice date and stay the night wherever, that's fine. And then you can decide the more time you spend together, okay, I really like this guy and I want to make it work. But until then, do not. Personally, I wouldn't shut off your other options.

Yeah, I agree. And just see where it goes. Be open-minded. But yeah, hot girl summer, you've got to remember that as well. Oh, God, it's hot girl summer. I wouldn't really want to be locking myself down for this summer play the field play the field

it's that time of the week guys this this happened this morning okay this is fresh it's the moan of fresh in the brain is it your moan about's my moan oh come on you moaned last week bring it okay so Harry was working and it was getting quite late into the morning it was like 10.30

and I was like you need to eat some breakfast should I make you some breakfast because he's just going to get angry he's like yes can I have some porridge and I was like yes of course you can he's like can I have milk

cow's milk this is I was like fine there was only a little bit left and the only time I ever have cow's milk is if I'm having a late night craving for my cereal which happens quite often Sophie knows or I'm having my cup of tea

anyway there was just about enough milk to do his porridge slash if I did cut it down a bit and I was like can I substitute a little bit of this milk for some oatly just so I have enough milk for my cup of tea I'm gonna have in about 10 minutes oh no no no just use all of it I'll go down and get you some milk I'll go down and get you some milk I'll go down I promise I was like please like you're not gonna taste the odour in this like just let me stop out no no no Prash I just want Kyle's milk okay fine fine he promised me to go get me some milk so anyway I mean like two hours go by I'm like there's no freaking milk I don't really want to keep like reminding him anyway it gets to 3 p.m and I'm like I've really fancy my cup of tea now it's like after lunch bit of choccy and a cup of tea I'm like Prash

there's no milk please can you go oh yeah I'll get it in a minute I should get in a minute and I'm like I knew that you wouldn't go and get the milk and I sacrificed my cup of tea this morning I'm obviously in isolation I can't go and get my own milk. The shop is honestly two minutes downstairs, isn't it, Soph? You go down the lift, it's right there. I still haven't got my milk. I still haven't got my milk. I had to put freaking Oatly in my tea.

It was not the same. Oatly is lovely in the tea. It's not the same, Soph. I know it's fine, but it's... The barista one is too creamy. And the normal one is like... Too watery. Too watery. A it's fine, but it's... It's not quite... The barista one is too creamy, and the normal one is, like... Too watery. Too watery.

A bit porrid. And it's... Yeah. So, yeah. You really tested him. I love... If you're going to fuse up... The milk.

You've got to commit to going and getting more. I'm like, I would never do this to you, Prash. I'm so selfless, you know? Yeah, you gave him all that milk. I would be like, don't worry, Prash. I'd be like don't worry I will sacrifice I'll make sure you've got enough for your coffee you know that's me no just shove it all in my pot just shove it all in there also so nice making him porridge I never

do you make him like breakfast lunch and dinner I feel like you do I actually to be fair kind of word I look I really enjoy dinner I always make because I'm a bit of a control freak. I love cooking. It's my time. I don't want anyone else in the kitchen. I'm like, you can do the veg. I'm like, you can do the crispy care. That's all you can do.

Breakfast, if I'm making myself a smoothie, I'll always make him one too. But he normally does himself like scrambled eggs and beans and stuff. And I don't have that in the morning. No, no. So he does that himself. But do you guys eat well? Lunch, we normally do delivery if i'm honest yeah banging bit of dalesford bit of dalesford i had a triple salad today from dalesford it was absolutely a triple yes they give you three different salads from their salad bar sophie it was heaven so i had

like some asian salad oh and i've had it with the cashew yeah yeah yeah i've had it there with the carrot and tomato yes tomato and onion salad and then their lovely kale salad with like roasted pecans and honey and like shaved apple oh my god it's all the nuts yeah and it's so good so that was my lunch really lovely harry had a turkey sandwich along with a pizza and a side of green beans sorry a pizza and a sandwich yes a whole piece not not like a huge pizza they're just like one of those small ones that A side of green beans. Sorry, a pizza and a sandwich? Yes. A whole pizza? Not like a huge pizza, just like one of those small ones that you get

from like Pizza Express very soon. God, I'd love to be able to pat that away on a lunchtime. Yeah, I know, quite annoying. Anyway, and then I was going to have my choccy after my lunch, you know, just to finish off the old sweetness and I was no cup of tea to go with it, so that's my thing. This is very selfish.

I was like, you are so selfish, taking all of that milk. I love that he laughs at 12 p.m. I would have been like, whoa, whoa, whoa, an hour in, like, go get me the milk. I'm actually so relaxed. I'm such a chill girl. I would not. Like, I would have been like, Jamie, go get me the milk. You said you would, that's a promise. Yeah, but he, like, laughs at me when I get unwoided,

and I'm like, it's not so fun. You're, like're like having a tantrum i bet you slammed your foot down as well he was probably like no no and then no and i sat down he didn't know this i sat well he didn't notice but he didn't know that so it's about he had his red cap on the dining table like in my spot and instead of me just moving i just picked up and threw it on the floor he was like press what was that for it's because you're both so blasé like I can't imagine ever having a

this is why you guys don't fight this is it's like you both you can evaluate him you're so like ah Sylvie

that's why I think it's because we forget and then I remember like two hours later when I go to have my cup of tea and I'm like you know

he must have gone out and got your your milk now I bet you we finish this podcast, there's no freaking milk. I bet you he's listened and he's on his way there. He's getting you your milk, you're going to be all right. He will have his noise-cancelling headphones on. He won't be able to hear anything.

I'm telling you that now. God. There will be no milk. But mark my words, for his coffee in the morning, there will be some milk for that. What, because he'll make it? For his own coffee. 100%.

He'll remember what it is slap him into life his priorities and i know i do i do i do so that's my main well i'd love to say i have the same but i don't i probably do the same to jamie save it for next week i'll save my main for next week sure there's a couple in the bank we're nearly at the end and we've got to rate our wine oh i'm giving it a solid a i'm sorry yes i might do you know why i think we've got rosé in a while and it's just really hitting the spot it's really hitting the spot and it's really like tickling those taste buds like in the right way it's not too citrusy like it's not giving me that you know that we've had before that i think the last rose we had yeah yeah that was like this is like really fruity but really

light like you can barely it's basically ice that's how i like my rose i also love the bottle it stuns the bottle like the bottle the writing and the little heart on the back it's just super cute a lot would anything baby pink is just divine I'm such a pink girl I always say this like on my if anyone watches my youtube you'll know I always say pink is my favorite color but I never buy it to wear and I never put it in my home but it's my favorite color in the world yeah and me it's my favorite color in the world blush pink but I would never ever nothing is pink candy canes are probably the only pink thing in this house and the house I am when I was younger my room I mean everything was pink everything was pink my

hockey stick was pink my mouth guard my shin pads no stop um when I paid golf I had pink golf boards I had a violin at school I had a pink violin no you did not have a pink that is beyond yeah i know what else no that's a bit criminal i mean my room was all pink no so honestly absolute full-on pink obsession i made mum buy all the pink kitchen aid stuff for the kitchen when we lived in america i'm sorry you had a pink violin does that even exist you must have had like you would have been that girl who had like the pink pony with the spray, the dyed pony mane. No. Oh. No.

As in, like, my little pony? Oh, we all, all of them were pink. They were all pink and purple. No, as in, like. I didn't have pink hair. I wasn't allowed to dye my hair when I was younger. What are you talking about? But as in, like, a pony's mane being pink.

And we were really digressing. Anyway, pink, pink is my vibe, so I'm really obviously enjoying this one. I'm going to start buying you a new pink. You should start wearing pink. It looks cute on you i very occasionally wear like a pale pink like dusky pink dress you know from reformation those ones i have those that's like it's kind of i feel like you do have like a bright pink so i've got quite a lot of pink we've actually had a pink to get we've had a photo together and i've been wearing a pale pink jumper next time we see each other

we've got to be wearing ages okay on wednesdays we wear pink, guys. Yeah. Where is that from? Is that what it's called? What is the real saying? Stop this now. I can't remember. On Wednesdays we wear pink. Is that it? I know that it is that, but I forgot. It sounds wrong.

Yeah. On Wednesdays we drink pink. Because I used to think on Wednesdays we drink wine. On Wednesdays we drink wine. Yeah. On Wednesdays we wear pink. Okay, guys. We need to get a pink picture and that's going to be the banner across on Wednesdays we wear pink okay guys we need to get a pink picture and that's going to be the banner across

on Wednesdays we wear pink yeah from now on we're going to wear pink every single Wednesday and you guys have to as well that's the new that's the new rule

send us in photos of you guys wearing pink send us in your dilemmas send us in your questions and I love all these replies they're so great so keep them coming yeah

we're loving the old follow ups and as always guys thank you so much for listening. We love you. Love you guys. See you next Wednesday.

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