Wednesdays - Ep 35: WFH Sex Drive Slump?

Episode Date: December 8, 2021

Heya guys, bit of a big weekend for us both celebrating Mel's 25 so sadly no wine drinking today! Back on it next week obviously. This week you sent us some really saucy dilemmas for us to sink our teeth into it- sex drive slumps, money, and dodgy housemates. We’re also getting the latest low down on Melissa’s single life or not so single life. S & M x Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I'm Melissa. And welcome to our new podcast. Wednesdays, we drink wine. Morning, guys. Morning, guys. It is morning, actually, for us us 9 a.m bright nanny and also clearly but we're not drinking wine clearly because it's yeah that'd be a bit more we're not that crazy do you know people sort of do do that though because you know like when you go to like rickstein's tasting like you know you go cook they drink wine at like whatever it's 7am

i was gonna say whenever i meet you and you're feeling in a bit of a rogue mood you're like a bloody mary like you'll have that early oh yeah not in a rogue mood when i'm hung over oh yeah oh no on a weekend when you're just like in for like you're like let's have a bloody mary you're just up for a bit of fun you know friday morning morning I yeah lovely I love a Bloody Mary so much I do you remember we tried to have one together and I just couldn't really get a grip on it and it's because that you said they forgot the Tabasco or something the Liam Perry like the Worcester sort yeah you got mimosa yeah so then I got it and I had about three sips of the um Bloody Mary and I was over and got mimosa mimosa is far more meat or a bellini whichever one is the peach and the orange they're they're both lovely and the most i think they're

both the same and a buck says is with orange orange yeah yeah nice i don't i don't like the orange one it's just not for me it's a bit too much but the peach is a bit lighter i'd rather just glass of champagne sauce just start the peach give me the champagne if you go to um the river cafe they do the best blinis it's like i've never been oh my god you'd love it the peach is like proper just blended peach and you pour it in lovely stuff stunning should we also have a little thing every time we say stunning and just count to the end like how many times we've said it, guys? I'm not sure if any of you have noticed that me and Sophie have developed saying this new,

like, thing every time we say stunning to everything. It's really actually not okay. Everything. I feel like... And now everyone that we're friends with says... There's so many, like, Tiny Tim. Now everyone calls Ruby Tiny Tim. Yeah, I know.

Yeah, but she calls me Tiny Tim and you Tiny Tim. Yeah, but she's all... She says it Tiny Tim. Yeah, but she's all... She says it to other people. No, she's like, she's not meant to. She was only meant to ever say it. She only meant to say it to me and now she says it to you. Oh, she's... Not everyone else.

I thought it was just a nickname that you had given her, like how mine is Presh, and then suddenly everyone's calling everyone the same thing. Yeah, it is actually, to be fair. I was like, you look like Tiny Tim. Little did I know that he was like a small boy with a wig. Is it really? Yeah, from Scoot. Oh my gosh, I didn't know that.

Yeah. It's actually very, very apt and very festive. He's such a sweet guy, though, so. Sweet little boy, sweet little Ruby. Right. We have a nice little message. We do have a lovely message you want to read out yeah hey guys never really reach out to people like this but wanted to tell you both that your podcast has really been helping me just going through a breakup and pretty shit month and

listening to you guys really does cheer me up and makes me feel better so i wanted to say thanks that's so sweet i also had um wait I'll finish this also thought it was fun fact for you guys to know that a bunch of us in Israel are listening to a podcast just a little fun fact for you oh my gosh that's mental that's really fun I actually weirdly really wanted to I looked into going to Israel the other day did you my dad um went there when he was younger he had um he has psoriasis and there's like a retreat there where you go because apparently it's like the best place for your skin in syria in israel yeah it's like it's closer to it's closest to like uh i don't know there's something about the sun filter level or something in israel it's going to be incredible for your skin like eczema anything like that

i'm on my neck i'm on my, incredible. Yeah, I had three little, three little, they weren't little, three little girls. Three little Tims in Selfridges spoke to me the other day about how much they love it and how much it's helped them. It's just so, it's very wholesome, isn't it? I know, I had someone in the gym come up to me and say it as well. It honestly is just the best.

And it's like, also just like, and it's like, that we're helpful. I'm like, I can't believe what we're actually saying. I guess it's because they can relate to And it's, like, also just, like, and it's, like, that we're helpful. I'm, like, I can't believe what we're actually saying. I guess it's because they can relate to other people's, like, problems, and it's, like, really nice. It's, like, oh, I'm not the only one going through something like that, you know? Yeah, and it is so true. Because sometimes you do, it has actually made me think,

God, everyone goes through the same thing. Yeah, thank God. Because you do, like, isolate yourself. And it's called, like, main character, not syndrome, but, like, main character something where you think that, like, you and your problems are, like, the only ones in the world. Yeah. And it's, like, actually, no but like main character something where you think that like you and your problems are like the only ones in the world yeah actually no no everyone's going through their own god i'm a bit like that myself but yeah i need her human nature everyone's the same um so should we talk about melissa's just had her birthday

oh yeah guys she's an old hag now 25 she's not bloody old how depressing no i'm still young for spring checking it's fine it's fine to pass no i'm still young for spring checking it's fine it's fine it's fine i just can't believe how quickly like birthdays like come about i'm like god i'm gonna blink and i'm gonna be 26 it's crazy no you really will blink you'll be 27 before you know it and then everything changes why you're having do you know what you're having the four years that you were going out with harry sorry to yeah sorry to mention he who shall not be named no joking blasphemy you you're living those years now like i lived them there but you weren't with me because you were you were in having dinner in every night oh god no don't even yeah but luckily you come out

of it and you're still such a spring chicken so you've actually had no time wasted yeah i need i do need a good three years of just going crazy and being simple yeah i've just got to live lift it in the same time because i can't i know i know no but you you do do it with yeah i join him but then i'm done i'm done for another two weeks yeah yeah yeah i take her out for two nights and she's like shit i'm done for two weeks like yeah yeah i literally you've joined me i've cancelled everything in the social character calendar unless it's like really wholesome really yeah i'm like i'm done i am done safe safe at least we only have we only have wholesome things in the diary anyway me and you yes that's right never anything but wholesome um also also also she met her um she met the boy she's dating

didn't she by the way um by the way we talk about ourselves when we say she is but i don't know why we do that i i met melissa's new guy tan at tan brady approved stunning you kind of knew him did you not meet him before though i've met him a couple times because he does know jamie but oh god i'd love to just out him so everyone could have a stop because really he is beautiful from the core it actually hurts me inside how fit he is it does hurt okay right moving on they're all they're also obviously at this level where she can speak about how fit he is without worrying that she's going to drive him away so that just gives you a little what you mean like if you were first first dating

like you felt you know like you didn't really know where you stood with each other you definitely wouldn't say he's so fit on on the pod just in case it hit but that's just oh but i don't that's true that's showing the listeners that you're a bit like yeah give a fuck we're still about that level not that your boyfriend and girlfriend are anything no no no but like there's a there's a lot of chilling together isn't there no for sure oh no no no she's still 100 110 single come on yeah 110 single not there is there is no there is a bizarre fine line where it's like am i allowed to like go out and date and like kiss all that like it's a bit yeah would you say you're allowed to now i don't well yeah i think i don't think i don't think you are sorry but why why wouldn't i be well technically you are so yeah yeah yeah yeah single, 100%. I'm sorry, we can't be doing...

I have not been single for long enough. I haven't. No, you haven't. Let's be honest. She's really put everyone to shame. We wanted a couple more single diaries. We need more single diaries. We need more wallets to say.

Yeah, it's so true. Although it's creeping up to Christmas, and as everyone said, it is cuffing season. Yeah, but I go away for Christmas. I don't get that. You're going away really soon, aren't you? Yeahmas i don't get that you're going away really soon aren't you yeah i don't get that like need to be with someone right okay right anyway we've got some bloody juicy ones today yeah go on okay hi girls i absolutely love your podcast and i look forward to every wednesday i have a dilemma i need your help.

Please keep it anonymous. I have had a horrible breakup last year and my best friend went through her own personal trauma. We decided to move in together and into a fun city to both have a fresh day. Wow, that's a big move. Yeah, that's bloody. I rate that.

We moved in eight months ago and both been having the best time, enjoying life and being single without the stress of boys yeah i always said i wanted to go on acts when i feel ready and a month ago we both decided to take the plunge however my dates have been good and i've seen one of the guys a few times and she's never found many today had one bad day and then gave up quite easily the dynamic has changed and she's now become cold about me dating oh no oh god and when i addressed it with her she stated that she wanted that she could she wanted that and that she

couldn't relate so it's best to talk to my other friends and shut the convo down oh shit oh no this isn't good. No. I was shocked and confused. Recently, the guy I'd been seeing came to our flat, which I pre-warned her about, and we stayed in my room for a few hours, and I thought everything was okay. The next day, she said she didn't feel comfortable,

and that next time she needs more warning than a few hours so she can get out of the flat. Oh. Oh, I mean, come on. This is a bit pathetic at this point. Sorry. I apologized, but was also taken aback because she was fine all night, and when we went straight to my room, the flat oh oh i mean come on this is a bit pathetic at this point sorry i apologize but was also taken aback because she was fine all night and when we went straight to my room but appreciate everyone has their own boundaries saying that she can't avoid me and him forever

i then said nothing's changed between us just because he's around and she says has it has started to is it i've been cut i've become disengaged this is a bit pathetic jealousy written all over it yeah because i've been texting him she saw some of my message from him by side eyeing my phone oh god i said she feels i would rather hang out with him than her which is crazy oh well what were the messages let's be honest she probably said something like that no i'm joking we've been spending we've been spending so much time together since we moved so I'm just unsure if this is a reflection of her being scared of change I also make a massive effort with her life and after the awful breakup I went through I expected her to be supportive and it's a huge step for me instead it's bringing me down and making me feel like I'm doing something wrong

by dating luckily I have the most amazing friends and family for support but as my flatmate and best friend i'd like something from from her i know i'm not doing anything wrong and i'm not responsible for her happiness however i don't want to fall out with her or live in a hostile environment so please give me some advice love you both oh my god okay so to me this is just like off the bat i'm like just jealous she's just a jealous girl yeah she's just so jealous which is really she can't contain it and she's just being a dick. God, I find that, like, slightly odd. Like, calm down. There is people like this in this world, though, Soph.

Like, we're very lucky that... I've had one person in my life that's been, like, jealous to the point where they just can't be nice to me. Oh, that girl, and she cut you out? Yeah. We don't like her. We don't like her. But, like, I've never... And that was, like we don't like her but like i've never and that

that was like over bizarre things about things that i was achieving and like people the way i look like i'm also like i'm doing like stop being it was just bizarre like some people are just like that and you have to just accept that that's what it is you can't change the way they think you've done nothing wrong she's jealous because she can't find anyone to date clearly and um yeah i don't really i almost feel like just move out like you're gonna have to find a new flatmate without being yeah i would normally be like oh i feel really bad for her but like get a grip yeah okay it sucks for you you've not found someone to date but don't ostracize yourself and don't be a dick to your other person who's doing well yeah yeah yeah like i get that she could do you know what she could just say to you like oh this is actually really depressing like

i feel you know you found someone so quickly i like i feel a bit lonely and you'd probably be like oh my god no and take the day out take her out spend more time with her but the way she's acting is so wrong she's cutting her nose to spite herself yeah she's shooting herself in the foot whatever i i i would just carry on being obviously as lovely as you can be but like don't stop don't start making yourself less sparkly to like make her feel better that's what they said in gossip god you remember when blair was getting super jealous of everything serena did and she was like she was like dulling herself down to like make blair feel better about herself and in the end it's like actually no like i'm gonna be my best self and if you have a problem with that

screw you sorry damn right sister I like that I like that a lot yeah um do you want to read the second one sorry that's not much we haven't really been helpful okay I feel like you have to just carry on being lovely but ultimately I do think you're gonna have to move out if you want to save this friendship because clearly her seeing everything you're doing is just getting the better of her and she's not being nice exactly and it's a negative atmosphere i mean there is worth probably speaking to her sitting here down and she might like you know and being like look how do you actually feel because this is really unpleasant like making this your side and maybe give her the opportunity to cry and explain that she's

feeling low which by the sounds of it she seems quite unhappy because i don't think people behave that way unless they're they're you know having a really shit time themselves so there is that side of things give her the benefit of down talk to her don't just keep acting like nothing's wrong just because she is like just so she's being like no i'm fine i don't want to talk about it like it's pathetic don't Don't say talk to it. Talk to your other friends about it. Like, personally, I'm just not about that life. I just think you've got to grow a pair of balls at this point.

Mm-hmm. I so agree. God, I can really relate to that, though. Like, that would be my worst nightmare if I was living with someone that was happening. It's almost like being a boarding school and then it's like you just can't escape them. Have you lived with someone when it's happened? Yeah. When I was at school, there was a girl that was like,

it was fine, we got past it, but I ended up leaving the school. Stop. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I left. I left. You could see her face. For two years. And I was like, what on earth have I done?

As soon as I left I was like, God, this is hell. And then I went back, but yeah. Where did you leave to? Kingsburyton you just went and did you like that other school no it was death and then you came back and I went back to Millfield yeah I had no idea yeah it was like boys two years above me were just like giving me a lot of attention and it was like fun it was like funny but like she was making me feel so horrible about it like bullying would get pissed off but

she was my best best friend that is terrible see girls girls are terrible i also think that there is a stage in girls lives when they become so jealous like they just can't it's like that's 16 to sort of 19 not 19 18 i think 50 50 to 18 girls become jealous, jealous, jealous. Bizarre. FanDuel Casino Daily Jackpots. Guaranteed to hit by 11 PM with your chance at the number one feeling,

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and supply see full terms at canada.casino.fandu.com please play responsibly okay next dilemma hey girls i love the podcast honestly i live for melissa's new single diaries each week they're gonna finish soon i'm joking please keep me anonymous i wanted your thoughts on my dilemma i have been with my boyfriend now for four years and we have a house and a dog together and we're really happy one thing though dot dot we have sort of lost our sex drive oh we rarely have sex these days i think it is down to us both working from home so being around each other all day we used to spend our days apart then catch up on the evenings which was a lot more normal i just honestly cba which makes me worry is this normal or is it bad that we have lost the intimacy when we're still young in our late 20s?

Everything else in our relationship is perfect and I couldn't imagine life without him. But I do miss that time in our relationship where we couldn't keep our hands off each other. What do you think? Have you experienced this in a long-term relationship? Okay, so yes, I 100% have. Yeah, but yours was to an extreme like that was oh my god to an extreme and also like the partner like didn't have really any sex drive and i think that's down to a lot other issues but oh god i think it is normal when you

spend too much time with someone like you can maybe like you lose the sparkle like i remember in lockdown even like you and jamie like you were like i sparkle. Like, I remember in lockdown, even, like, you and Jamie were, like, you were, like, I've got to just get off me. Like, just... Yeah, yeah, yeah, that happens. You can just spend too much time with somebody. I honestly think if you'd ask around, it's almost rare for people in a really long relationship, long-term relationship, to be having sex every day.

And if they're spending all day every day with each other, you can't miss each other. You can't, like, build up any tension, like... And also, like, yeah, I get it. So many people see the end there's times when i come back i'm free like you know and i just want to get my pajamas get off me i'm like get off me or like when you're really full after a minute and you're like no no um i really don't think that's anything to worry about i think you just like as is it jamie always says this relationships are like a garden you've got to water them like relationships aren't easy i know they're not easy particularly long-term

relationships you've got to like make the effort like to be honest like that is so normal you just have to try you just actually have to force yourself to do it and then you'll get back into the same things and melissa you always say this the more sex you have the more you want it yeah yeah yeah yeah so just get back into the road of it and then you'll be like you'll want it yeah we always say it's i always say it's like sugar yeah the more you have it the more you want it lovely it's like sugar oh my god did you know watermelon sugar by harry stars is talking about the taste of a girl's vagina really yeah i Yeah, I heard it on Selling Sunset. It's Chrishell, thanks for that. Which, by the way...

Oh my God, I watched that episode. Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God. Can we just talk about Selling Sunset, the new series, for a minute? It's so good. I'm only in episode, like, four or something. Oh my God, oh my God. Get this off the TV.

It's brilliant. I'm just like, bring Chrishell back, because she's all I want to see. Who annoys you on it? Chrishell? No, Chrishell doesn't I want to see who annoys you on it? Chrishell? no Chrishell doesn't annoy me Davina annoys me oh I've not got into it

but yeah Davina's really Davina yeah but she's actually much better this season you'll see and also no no no you know who I by the end of it

I just hate Christine oh stop I can't wait I can't wait I actually rate Chrishell I think she's like, yeah, any, any negative person like pissed off out of my life. Like I'm not tolerating it. No, no, no. I like that. No, she's a bit much. I mean, she's a bit beggy. I'm like calm down, love. And then she dates. But that's typical American girl, I think. Like they're just all

a bit like over the top, lovely to people. Okay. Yeah. Fine. Okay. Fine. I'm not going to be, I'm not going to say no to someone who's nice you know i mean like they can't you can't allow someone nice and all you and it's not fake yeah yeah she's genuinely okay fine then i'll start like i'm gonna watch it today like in between this is how influenced me and sophie are by each other's opinion did you see that she was i don't like her and i was like no you have like she's like okay fine i also said to her the other day i was like okay she didn't like this guy I was dating I would just sack him off That's how much

I'm so influenced by your opinion it's a joke And I almost I found this really nice jumper and Sophie doesn't like the colour purple And I almost didn't buy it because purple Had to send her a picture like Can I buy this I'm like I really want something purple I also think I'd walk past you getting your nails done

Are you wearing a denim cap think I'd walk past you getting your nails done. You like a denim cap? Yeah. I thought it was you. Why didn't you come in? Yeah, look. That's why I got a little swiney on one pinky. I know. It's making eye-marking at myself.

So cute, isn't it? Oh, God. Right, okay. Next item. Because I was like, she doesn't own a denim cap. I got really confused. Yeah, it's the one that I bought with that purple jumper when I came over to yours you saw it straight after i bought it the one from sandro no oh i didn't i didn't and you went oh it's got you went oh it's got an s on it oh my god you're

okay right right right back to the dilemmas here we go hey love you both in the pod so i'm in a long-term relationship of eight years you've never had any trust issues however a couple of years ago i got in a really place bad place with depression after losing a close friend of mine oh that's awful anyway this led to a lot of retail therapy buying aimless crap just to fill some kind of void this got me into some financial debt i didn't disclose this to my partner. Whilst on furlough during lockdown, I found it hard to keep up with my repayments and ultimately had to come clean about my money issues.

My partner was very disappointed and it caused a lot of tension in the relationship. He was very kind and lent me the money to pay off the debt. I've been paying him back monthly ever since. Good for you for paying him back. Well done. That's, yeah. I think that's great.

Own up and then you're fixing the problem i think this is this is good now since then i've been in debt him i feel like i'm unable to go to any oh god i i yeah this is hard i feel like i'm unable to go to any social events with friends as this means i'll be spending money he also started to go through my mouth to keep an eye on me and my spending no no no i don't think that's too bad if it's a problem like and you're coming and you're going to your partner for help with it and they're deciding to pay you it's good that they're keeping an eye on helping you through it i think it's like someone with an addiction you know what i mean i would is there someone else you can go to because i think that will create a void that i'd go to my dad oh yeah my dad my dad

had to do that one stage for me because i just couldn't stop standing. I was like, I don't know where all my money's going. Yeah. Me. I want access to my payslips and bank statements whenever he requests to see them. Help, is he so good to me? Help, he is so good to me, but I just feel trapped inside living. My parents can't. There you go.

Right, okay, yeah. If you do need someone to keep you on the straight and narrow, I just think it is hard. Like, if Jamie, you know, like, there has been times when jamie's been like so when i've been like oh my god i've you know got a tax bill or whatever and i go i'm terrible at spending guys i have a proper problem i personally think if jamie was saying to me you know going i get it the boyfriend's doing nothing wrong he's being so great to you but you are you are gonna feel trapped because what if you want to go out with your friends, and then you can't back up at Waston, he's like, who bought your drinks, you know, it's just like, you will feel

trapped, smothered, and that isn't what, you know, there is a, that is sort of a parent's role, like, I guess when you get to one stage, but then you also have to learn and teach yourself how to grow up and manage your money better, but at this stage, if you can't, I don't think that is your partner's role. Yeah. Well, I don't know how, it depends how old they are. They've been together for eight years. They could be engaged to be married. Do you know what I mean?

Well, then maybe she needs to speak to a therapist if her spending is so out. Yeah, I know. Like, if this is a real issue, like, I would, if, okay, so let's say she can't go to her parents for help so her partner is her only option and she's paying him back I don't know if this is like a direct debit which would probably be a smart thing because you know he's getting the money no matter what so like he knows that like if you go out and you buy yourself I don't know like a lunch with your mates that you've still he's still going to get paid back but also like I'm just

thinking like if I was the partner who did that to me I would then get pissed off every time they go out like no no like you've effed yourself here and you've got yourself in a real shitter I'm helping you you're not going to make this worse for both of us by not being now being able to pay me back that means that I'm now in debt and you're making yourself more in debt yeah but then I also get it for her I get it from both sides it's really tricky yeah I know it's hard I think that you need to maybe just sit down with him and like understand like where the line is like can I how many times like budget like okay right this is how much I pay you this is how much I've got to spend on going out with my mates like we're all okay with this let's just both keep

an eye on it because like I obviously do have a bit of a spending issue let's just both monitor this and have a budget yeah have a budget sheet know what you're allowed to spend every week and then you're both in the know and don't go over that and transfer that amount of money into your your card and put the rest in your savings yeah and you can't go over it and if you do then he has every right to get annoyed with you because like melissa said you're putting both of you in a situation yeah yeah and it's just annoyingly that is just how you're going to do and you're not going to be in debt forever like you'll come out of it if you stick to that budget sheet exactly you know try and manage and then hopefully it'll teach you how

to manage money better anyway maybe i should start doing that yeah we both need to start budgeting yeah we really do that was a really that was very adult adult adult life dilemma that was wasn't it moving on to single diaries okay single diaries um okay so I'm gonna talk about Sundays when you're dating and you see people on a Sunday yeah it makes you like lol it like lulls you into like this like relationship area like a lot quicker than it should do you know what i mean yeah like spending a sunday with someone like oh i think spending like the mornings how you know i think if you go on a date you sleep with them off you go in the morning you're like in that safe zone yeah you're fine if you're very much dating but if you go out for breakfast you

crossed over that line the same with a sunday if you ever have a sunday rose how much should we ask melissa the question you're done you're in i don't know it's very hard because melissa still needs to be single for a long time you don't really oh yes i do it's been like what three four months i want her to come over to this the relationship so she's not so fun because i get a foma and i just can't go out five times a piece because i literally my brain is about to explode oh yeah honestly we had we had such a big that we had a big night on thursday that thursday was a big old night it was a big old night we had so much fun so much dancing um yeah i i'm with you sundays what do we think we'll do a

sunday and i so agree a breakfast in the morning but it's like well yeah i so agree yeah i really it's also just because you know that you want to spend more time with each other because it's not like it's not just about sleeping with each other you can't quite leave each other so you like drag out let's have breakfast god it's actually the bath and it's actually so sad when you leave and get in the car and you're like oh no no i'll tell you when when you start facetiming which you're going away soon so we'll see where and says he actually no no no no no facetime definitely not at that stage 100 not i'm not so sure no no no so absolutely not well we'll see when you're both away and you'll get a bit hammered

and you can't back you have a face i think if anything it's good because it like sets it will take it back a few steps and then you can like drag out the single for a lot longer as soon as i was single and i was like talking about it sophie literally said in front of me like gosh maybe i should be single with you you know when people prank you out and they're like you're like oh god sorry joking joking joking i'm terribly terribly happy in my relationship no you are jamie's just cruising past the room listening like um okay my winch of the week is really weird and probably no one's gonna agree with this but i only drink decaf coffee and i asked for it decaf in a shopping place and they definitely give it to me

full of caffeine really that's really bad if someone has like so many people do this so in a restaurant night sometimes i'll be like does the vegetables have loads of butter on because i don't eat dairy they're like no it doesn't i'm like but it does i can taste it i know what butter tastes like like you know just people like that when they're just being lazy to be honest they're probably like fucking fussy bitch yeah yeah yeah just drunk the goddamn coffee yeah that's really bad though because someone could his caffeine isn't very good for people that have that are quite anxious so that's not good for me anxious little girl over here no not really it does it does give me anxiety that's why i can't yeah yeah yeah it makes my

heart race so much and then i'm like yeah that's not good at all they should really shouldn't do that but also pregnant people can't have lots oh my god exactly that's oh i reckon if i walked in with a big bump they'd probably be more careful about it yeah but so many but you can go like three months without having any bump whatsoever do you know what i know i'm really not good lit an incense stick the other morning and i physically this is that morning that it was no it was a saturday i threw up so much i was like sorry that's disgusting noise and we were both like god she's pregnant but i'm not don't worry but like that but that sounds like you're pregnant about something to you yeah yeah yeah my nose yeah yeah yeah that is like i ran to the bathroom i was like i feel so sick even the thought

of that smell right now i know you just said i'm not pregnant don't worry but like have you legit checked because that is really strange yeah we went throwing up throwing up the smell of something is unusual maybe you're a bit hungover as well because you had a big night on friday true true true maybe who knows anyway um guys that's all for this week we'll see you next week bye guys bye Hey, you're a Canadian podcast listener, and that makes you important to us. We'd like to know more about you, what you think of this podcast, and the other podcasts you'd like to hear. So we put together a super brief survey we'd like you to fill out. Complete it, and we'll give you a chance to win one of three $100 Amazon gift cards. That way we can say thanks for your opinion. Just go to mypodcastsurvey.ca

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