Wednesdays - Ep 53: HOT WEATHER = HOT GIRL SUMMER

Episode Date: April 19, 2022

There is one thing on the agenda this Wednesday- Hot Girl Summer. Listen for our take! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Fresh off the scene. What's that saying? I don't. You know when it's like. You're merging three. Fresh off. Fresh off the. Fresh off the prin.

Fresh off the bat. Fresh. Fresh. Fresh off the bat. Fresh off the bat. What? I don't know. Fresh off a duck's back it feels like.

Right. That's our new saying. Guys we just want to give you all a big shout out and a real big thank you for listening to us for one whole year crazy our year anniversary was on thursday i can't believe it's been even my mom was like surely not i know also like think back in the days when we first started we sat around my kitchen table we'd drink a whole bottle of wine god used to get really quite hammered we drink a whole bottle of wine every time it was getting a bit no matter how shit the wine was we were like woo it was getting a bit out of hand yeah but also like

lockdown we were still able to do because it was work but lockdown was still quite a thing so it was like it was our only our only love yeah you're right but then we'd like go home separately because you were like with your ex and like we never used to like chill and have a dinner together which is quite sad no it's quite sad actually no we did a couple times we did we did have a couple dinners and we went out a couple times for dinner actually yeah it was quite a nice little like we had a little bubble didn't we quite sweet yeah yeah yeah we had a bubble it was really fun really quite sweet those were the days and now these are the days look at us we're in a studio with proper microphones to be fair we don't have any wine in front of us right now but that is because it's pretty early in the morning yeah it's 10 30 a.m because um well we're fresh

out the east holidays guys we're fresh out the east holidays roll myself back to london melissa feels like she's eaten the world i feel like i've eaten the world in mexico oh stunning did you have loads of um what they call the mexican food tacos yeah tacos i had so many tacos i had but you know what so tacos are actually like the flat tortillas like they're not crispy and tostadas are the ones that we like like the crispy ones i like the flat ones oh no they smell i don't like the smell like that corn smell i like, I like them. I like them. It's like just a mini wrap. It's like a mini wrap, yeah. I didn't, I would scrape the meat

on all the rest of it. Meat, shit. Out of my self. Oh no. Guys, there happens to be three occasions a year where Sophie will just have some meat. It's always chicken.

No, so where we were staying, Chablis Maroma, I had three margaritas a day. Stunning. I had two at lunch sometimes and one just in the dinner. I don't know why at lunch it felt more fun. You know why?

It's because the sun's out and you're kind of like, I'm on holiday. It feels so right to have a drink in the day. It was Coachella this weekend. Oh yeah, and then we've got another weekend coming up. Quite excited for the next round of outfits, to be honest. What do you mean? Next weekend's Coachella. They do two weekends in a row so they do one weekend they have a week off because americans don't really get much holiday so they don't do it it's not like

glass room where they do wednesday to sunday it's like they do a weekend they have a week of nothing then another weekend so my brother's going to the last weekend sorry i beg your pardon that is weird yeah i would not be up for round two. But so civilised. Yeah, three drinks. You're only allowed three drinks. And you're not allowed to carry drinks around with you. You have to be in a bar area. I think that's also so bummer.

You're allowed more than three drinks. No one stops you from having drinks. Apparently it's three drink limit. Probably per bar, but you can't walk around with drinks. But you can go into another bar and just get more drinks. But you have to go to a beer tent

to have your sip. Exactly. I find that really boring exactly it's a very civilised clean looking right okay just to think about

the outfits yeah go on I get it's a fashion influencer event I get it I am all for it if I could be

an influencer that was dedicated to the cause and a sick one I would be but I'm so shit you are no but I'm so bad

at it you're not like I look what i wear every day look no makeup look at me yeah if you could see us we are honestly like just little scruff thoughts i know and like without being gross like my hair's just like really lovely i washed my hair yesterday but we do just look like we've rolled out of bed like we always do jimmy kit no makeup that's the vibe it's comfy we always do and like that's a disclaimer like instagram lives like that you you only see me on my one percent on my one

day when i've got makeup on same mind you on our vlog you'll see the full truth oh wow on my vlog and the angles i get out who i know same i'm like oh who who uses that word i don't know jamie back in the day or maybe sam oh god delete. How did that come into your brain? Yeah, I know. I agree. You'll see the full true us on the vlogging. But anyway, this is my point. So Coachella, wicked.

Yes. So fun. I'd obviously try and get a cool outfit. I'm not going to turn up in trackies, obviously. And like, yeah. But when people are getting their outfits made in september like fitted and they have one six hours for each day or like they have oh quite just i'm like surely is it a day for fun or is it a day to just parade around but you can easily just i also i think like um what would you yeah i would

have worn that i think it's a bit look very relaxed i would just do likeiley look very relaxed. I would just do like shorts, cowboy boots, and then, I don't know, a crop top. Why is it so hard to just do that? Yeah, I would just... What's wrong with everybody? What's the big deal? Well, yeah, this thing. I'm not going to tell you who I would star myself off.

Elsa Hosk. Oh, yeah, Elsa Hosk is so good. But she makes a big effort, so... I know, but it looks understated. Like, it's just a bit much when it's like... Yeah, let's have a little look at Elsa Hosk. A crop top that's been cut and tailored with a crop top jacket i don't know i'm not really sure about that outfit but yeah she does it no she wore a really sick one

with like gucci gucci crop jeans um cowboy boots that one loved it that is really cool so i'm being such a bitch because people really do dress up for it but like there has to be a limit where you're going for fun right and that these people seem to be just going, because they probably don't even go to the real festivals. There's always mini festivals within the festival. So they have Revolve Festival, like Bondi Sands. No, I feel really mean having said this. What I meant is like, surely-

Are you going for the festival? Are you going to have your picture taken now? I don't really get Coachella. Is it literally just to go and have photos taken of yourself? Like, I don't quite get the vibe. Can you imagine at Bass and Reed we just stand and pose like i just don't really i don't know if it would be for me no i know i wouldn't say no to going there slash i'd love to go yeah and look really cool outfits for months yeah slash i'm like really so that yeah i'm like so that influencer

i know on the surface but deep down I'm like is this really me? I'm confusing myself I do get what you mean it's a bizarre concept because it's a fashion show slash festival I like

but the Americans do things so differently Glastonbury we all wear wellies and we all don't we don't wear makeup wellies wellies oh yeah I actually didn't

and our hair hasn't been brushed in like five days you know what i mean like it's just a different vibe i don't think i would i don't think i've worn makeup when i went but that's just so hot and i was like oh god oh my god absolutely i put makeup on not like a full face but like a little bit i'm not looking at mascara bit of blush a bit of like cc cream i'm not gonna go with like my pigmentation but flaring out also like i need to wear a hat this year which is really bad i used to be able to but then it could rain this year so you know it could rain okay we're not fucking going so why are we moving on she said i need to wear a hat

this year it could rain not even go we're gonna go to wilderness anyway we think that's we think that's more ass we've just decided we've just had a conversation about it can we just quickly talk about harry sarsworth's nartway because i thought that was banging oh i i didn't see it what um That's more us. We've just decided 20 minutes ago. We've just had a conversation about it. Can we just quickly talk about Harry Styles' Wish Not To Ain't because I thought that was banging. Oh, I didn't see it. What? You're driving me crazy. Is that the song?

Go on. Short skirts, hot pants. What? Oh. Like, he nails it every time. I feel like a woman. Yeah. I thought that was cool. I need to watch that yeah all right where have you been i've been at toby's house just he had my phone off in my room

the whole time like all day yesterday it's lovely honestly just well done that's really good girlfriend follow-up dilemma we love a follow-up please can more of you do this yeah yeah this is so good okay so i think this dilemma is the one that we had where the girl was just a bit of backstory she was working um she was dating one of her colleagues that was um in another department her yeah and he sort of refused to acknowledge her around the workplace and wanted to keep it a secret basically that relationship right yeah i would never kiss her ignore her whatever okay hiya i submitted the workplace dilemma about dating my colleague and him wanting to keep it a secret thanks so much for your advice it cemented what i've been thinking for a while about needing some clarity about our relationship i told him that we needed to either make things official or to end it as i wasn't into

the secrecy anymore i agree he said that he had too much going on with work life to be in a serious relationship right now but he wanted us to carry on as we were question mark i said we obviously need we obviously needed to end things then and he didn't fight it i feel gutted as i really liked him and thought we were moving towards something real but i know it's better for this to happen now rather than further down the line so true i'm holding i'm holding strong and trying to think of it as a lucky escape feel free to share share it if you like but please keep an on love the pod oh my god i just want to say well you did the right thing. You did the right thing. 100%. You did the right thing and we're proud of you.

I know. I so agree. And also I feel like if it's meant to be and he really loves you, likes you, he will realize now losing you that you were serious.

Like, okay, I can't really take this girl for granted. Like I can't like just keep her as my like secret little side chick. And he really loves you. He'll come back to you. And also you'll see each other at work every day.

Exactly. It's not like he's, it's not like. It's not out of sight, out of mind. But you have to stay strong. If you're weak and crumble. You have to stay strong.

He'll be like, I'll never cement it. Exactly. It's under the thumb for him then. Yeah. Yeah. Well done. Well done.

Okay. So guys, we asked you for some funny bank holiday stories and these are the ones we got, which are so funny. So someone, I won't say their name, said, We asked you for some funny bank holiday stories and these are the ones we got, which are so funny. So someone, I won't say their name,

said, drunkenly slid into the guy I've had a crush on for years DM saying single now or question mark and spent my bank holiday in his bed. Wow. Can I get a hoorah? Done. That deserves a round of applause,

ladies and gentlemen. That's what we live for. That is what we live for. Spent bank holiday in his bed. Woo! Bank holiday with my uncles that's what we live for that is what we live for spent bank holiday in his bed woo bank holiday with my uncles with his girlfriend

and her son one year older slept with her son so she basically slept with her uncle's girlfriend's son lovely stuff

lovely stuff you'll be seeing them you would have to keep that a big secret can you please follow up with us with what happens with that

like is it awkward the next day we need we need further information for sure that's too funny okay dilemmas hot girls summer dilemmas what is the definition of hot girl summer i don't fucking know but surely it's the same as normal summer whatever it is it's gonna be the hot girl summer no i feel like it's just like you're feeling your best. You're going to have a sick summer. You're going to look your best. So this isn't a question.

Where do I start for a hot girl summer? Right over where you are, right today, this is where you start. I would start by planning a girl's holiday. I would start by getting out of bed and going moving. She's really talking. Like moving. Get and going moving. She's really talking. Like moving. Get those legs moving. If it's a walk,

if it's yoga, if you're doing 10 squats in the mirror. Guys. No. She's so serious. It goes, I,

I. But I would. You've got to get moving. You've got to get those endorphins going. I would start by getting out of bed that's what you do i thought you this was like more of a general thing no she's talking

you through her full routine of like that's like gonna get you get you in the zone and then a week of moving even if it's 10 minutes on a walking even if it's 15 minutes outside right we're listening to our podcast starting our hot girl summer by trying to get more steps in i think that's a good shout. Great for mental health. Great for toning your body. Great for moving. Great for moving.

Okay, that's how I rise. Get moving. You want 15 minutes of walking or something a day because it will help your mind and it will make you feel great. Yeah. And then whilst you're on those 15 minutes, you can even be mulling over, ooh, what's my next Hot Girl Summer move. Yeah. And then whilst you're on those 50 minutes, you can even be mulling over, ooh, what's my next hot girl summer move?

Yeah. And then... Fake tan. Spend some time with your girlfriends and start making plans with your girlfriends. There's nothing better than having plans ahead with the girls. Oh, yeah. It's such a great thing.

Even if it's just a brunch, even if it's a holiday. Find your hot girl summer drink. Oh, yeah. Is it a... What about that Paloma thing that you like? That's quite a nice hot girl summer drink. Right, guys.

This, and it's not so calorific. This tequila soda and grapefruit juice stunning and it looks pretty it's pink it's pink find your hot girl summer drinks that you get excited now i'm gonna go out and get myself we are honestly wise old house okay right what's the next little thing okay not a dilemma but need tips for feeling confident on a holiday in a bikini i've never felt good enough mine would be to give yourself a really good exfoliation the night before you go and get some bare by vote i think it's a fab really good fake tan fake tan if you're pale you know like to me don't go too dark like whatever your skin type is and give yourself a fake tan lovely exfoliate and shave your body and then moisturize and also i've got some really good tips for fake tan if you're

using fake tan on your body i don't actually use fake tan on my body anymore but i used to use it quite a bit once you've put it on exfoliate your body every single day until you reapply it and then you avoid that weird sort of um dry like scaly sort of thing that happens it does it it gets off quicker but then you apply so i would maybe if i was fake tanning my whole body i would do it twice a week right and i would exfoliate my body every single day so the first day that you put it on you have it there all day right you shower then the next day it's there all day and then the next morning exfoliate and then also make sure you put moisturizer under your armpits on your elbows on your knees any dryers your feet you know knuckles yeah and i would also when you shave leave it enough time for your pores to close

up because you don't want it to go into the fake tan goes on i actually used to do the fake tan leave it on overnight shave the next morning so did i did that and also um you must moisturize under your armpits otherwise it stinks and also in between my boobs i always found like yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah um so do that um if you're not into fake tanning i would do the exfoliation you can get some lovely like the oily things with like coconut sugar and you know those sort of things you feel moisturized getting out the shower yeah you really scrub yourself and like it just makes your skin feel so nice shave lovely that silky silky venus shaver with like the gel around it and it like you silk your skin off um and get yourself a really really really good

bikini or swimsuit that you're confident in. Treat yourself to one. Get one that you feel like take the time and spend the time trying loads on and finding one that you think I look 10 out of 10 flattering in this lovely. And on that day when you go bikini shopping have a say to yourself in the mirror I'm gonna find amazing bikini I'm gonna feel amazing in it because I'm beautiful it may seem silly but say it and yeah and just change your mindset put the energy out there yeah but self-care really does get you in the mood i think okay newly single just out of a four-year relationship and had to be back in with parents parents moved whilst i was at uni so we don't have any friends in the area oh this is hard it's it's hard to just go out and make friends

right I don't know how far she lives from London or whatever her clip where all her friends are because I would just say maybe um you've got to just make the effort to travel in yeah and then you know when you're at home you take those as self-care days you work you do whatever you're doing yeah work out you join a workout class it's always oh gym to find um people that are in your area great idea i meet those people at the gym yeah i think gym join a gym um what other hot girl summer with a boyfriend how to live my best life hans you're preaching to the choir we're gonna live our best life with our boyfriends we are we're gonna do dinners just us then some with the boys then yeah hot girl summer doesn't have to be

single hot girl summer guys yeah you just want to feel your best so once again get up and move get up and move this is sophie's god i feel like we're like an i'm like an aerobic teacher you should be an aerobic or a motivational speaker that you have the top of it you know what i mean like the minute you start moving your body you feel better i agree even for 10 minutes go on that walk melissa and i sometimes walk up and down the king's road just for the sake of it yeah we do just to get our steps in you know what i would do okay so we're talking about with the boyfriend here what fun things do fun things with him alone do fun things with other couples and do fun things with just your girlfriends and he has things with just his guy friends yeah so important to have like a really healthy mix because if you do too much of one thing it upsets

the balance people yeah it's all about balance and then the last one's kind of the same thing oh this is hard i've been on experience a hot girl summer most of my friends are in a relationship i was really lucky when i was single i had quite a lot of single friends still and so it basically was a surrogate single yeah i think like you've got to just suck it up and like not get bogged down like not every boyfriend and girlfriend get off in front of you like that's really anti-social if they do and like you're not Courtney and Travis like just stop you know so like if they're doing that just like also you can still do like girly holidays and you think there's less competition for the other girl like for you yeah when you go out for a dinner and you're going girly holidays and you've got less competition for the other girl, like for you. Yeah.

When you go out for a dinner and you're going out clubbing and you're with your girlfriends, it's like, ooh, what guy can I have tonight? Yeah, and like they're all going to come over to you because you'll give off that single energy and like. Yeah. Yeah. So actually look at it as a positive. Embrace it as a positive. And also you're not going to have like any fallouts because again, there's no competition. You're not going to have like any fights over boys.

You're not going to be fighting over the same boy. And also look at it as positive because your friends' boyfriends could introduce you to their mates and ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Exactly. I feel like there's so many positive avenues coming out of having friends and relationships. Yeah. Also Sundays you can go chill with them and just be like their surrogate child.

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filled in as a favor for another team, and this one is a different story. There's a guy on this team who is gorgeous. I know he's definitely single, as I had him mention Hinge. I filled in for his team a couple of times, so we've chatted and went to the pub with the team one time too, which was great, as his friends who also play are definitely my kind of people. Lovely.

This sounds great. My dilemma is the season ends this week and I'm in two minds about what to do next. Do I A, shoot my shot and just ask him out

but risk appearing too keen or B, offer to join his team permanently for next season and play the long game hoping he'll eventually ask me out. Please help.

Ask him out. Hot girl summer. Ask him out. Sod it. Sod it. But do it in such a way where it's like, oh, we're actually handing out some drinks if you want to come with us. Hot girl summer. Ask him out. Sod it. Sod it. But do it in such a way where it's like, oh, we're actually

handing out some drinks if you want to come with us. Something like that. Do it in a group scenario first. Yeah. And then... Put the feelers out there. Yeah, get a little bit

drunk with him. Dutch courage. Get a little bit touchy-feely. Play on your feminine... I don't know, like, if it's just a friend, like, I don't... Like Melissa in So You Know How Stitchy.

Oh, for God's sake! Great thing. So on. Why do we keep coming back to that? Okay, right. You just a friend, like, I don't... Like Melissa in Say Your House, bitch. Oh, for God's sake! Oh, for God's sake! Son! Why do we keep coming back to that? Okay, right. You just have to just get a bit touchy-feely. Like, when you touch someone, like, it really, like... Either you get tingles.

Either it speaks to them or it doesn't, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I feel like you can tell how their reaction's going to be if you're, like... And also, if you're so friendly, like, you don't touch them. Like, my best friend Jack, I don't just sit there, like... I don't know. Yeah, you touch him. I don't touch him. Oh, really? Because I'm like, just get off me like you don't touch them like my best friend Jack I don't just sit there like I don't know yeah you touch him I don't touch him oh really

because I'm like just get off me I don't know but like someone I would fancy I would want to touch them and I wouldn't be able to help it

and you just kind of do like quite touchy or you get really close to them that's what I would do I would sit very very close yeah like maybe like thrust your hips

oh god no sorry thrust your hips but you no sorry thrust your hips she's gonna she's gonna recommend that you start grinding on him soon yeah but you know you're in a bar and like ever it's so crowded and then you end up like you're like touching chest to chest yeah yeah yeah oh no that's essentially like grinding yeah yeah they're like oops can't help it i'm being pushed by you and you're like oh sorry that is okay that is a perfect that's like when you like share a bed with the boy and you like snake your bum out you know yeah yeah i know you're like i'm not gonna have sex with him yeah you're like you can have my booty i know exactly what you mean and then

they're like what the fuck i mean and you're like no no we're not having sex i'm gonna shove my mouth up against and you just gotta sit there with a boner oh god really dumb oh god um yeah that's our advice yeah go out for a drink for it and be casual about it and then when you get there yeah we need to follow up yeah for sure next dilemma hi guys just want to say first say love you both and the podcast so much thank you so much you give us such positive girl energy and it makes me so happy my ex-boyfriend is coming back from his year out we are both post-juni and we were not together for this year okay so when he went traveling they obviously split up for it we've said the whole time that we'd like to be together again and have maintained

communication in this way for most of the year saying i love you etc this is dangerous this is so me i am now conflicted where i feel half of me still loves him and wants to go back to the relationship and half has in part moved on and wants to explore new things oh my god i love this relationship and i've never met anyone who is as compatible with or have loved and felt loved by so so completely essentially i feel like i've met the right person way too soon i'm 22 and definitely don't feel like this could be my last relationship as i'm just not mature enough yet that's very sensible is there any way of saying this to someone i want this in the future but just not yet should i be

grateful i found the person and just settle down or should i accept i'm not ready and i'll have to let him go and hope we'll come back together in the future oh my god oh my god this is so what happened to me this happens to a lot of people this is a classic uni situation yeah so same me went uni dated a boy the whole time left uni went traveling we were like let's break up but let's stay in contact texting the whole time didn't really fully enjoy you traveling because i was like my heart was with him which was a bit annoying actually looking back on it but not really because like would i have shagged some traveler probably not um but then got back from traveling we were like oh we're back together right and then i was like

actually hang on a minute i'm 22 i was 22 same age and i was like am i gonna marry this guy that's a bit lame if i do because i've not dated anyone else so i broke up with him and look at me now she's marrying jamie ling i'm engaged so my is, is you're very young. And I think you. I also think if you've got doubts, you can't be in the relationship and you can't be like, oh, you know what? I kind of want to keep you in there for two in two years time in case after my exploring, I've, you know, decided I want to go back to the safe zone. That's not how it works. And also if it's meant to be, you'll get back together.

It will just happen. You have to let him go. You don't. If you're having doubts, that's more than enough to not go back there yeah you have to be so 100% sure i mean there is people that last from uni and they get married so young and they still stay together forever that does happen but i'm sure those people don't have doubts like oh half he wants to be with you half me doesn't well that's where you're wrong i actually think they probably do but i think that that's where this is different you have to work out in your mind whether the doubts override it so picture

this you break up with him he is like heartbroken whatever because he has no idea and it's your choice and then he falls in love with someone else and like it is done there's no going back he is in love with somebody else you are single now trying to find your own way and be some single girl and explore. How do you feel about that? Put it back on and really think. And don't keep it out of selfishness. Like you've got to like weigh out how much. Yeah.

You know, weigh it all out. I would also kind of say to myself, like imagine if he was thinking 50% wants to be with her, 50% doesn't. I just don't think 50% is a lot. It is a lot. You should be like all 10% think 50 is a lot like it is a lot you should be like like a bit like oh i love him so much but should i be thinking that i need to explore more even though i don't really want to is it something i should do it's not that it's you're excited about the possibility of like other things and you were obviously fine without him and you're so young yeah i think that you 50 it's a lot personally

to be doubting it i think it's too much i think you know it's normal if you you've only been with one person you're like 10 of you's a bit like oh what's on the other is the grass greener i think 50 is too much for me and i think that you should you should break up yeah and i don't yeah i mean but it sounds like you're already broken up right yeah you should not yeah it's not um and you will always still like you know you probably it was your first love you're probably always like you know it's not it's not a weird thing that you love it and it's not a weird thing that it's hard for you to let go right because yeah when it is a first love you do think like oh my god is this the best thing that's ever happened to me blah blah but if it's

50 percent doubt then it's not right i don't think I so agree um don't be afraid of being single and finding somebody else you can't be afraid of that yeah and don't that can't be the reason why you um sort of keep somebody around because you're too scared about finding something else is good that should not be no I so agree with you the reason now we're going to scoot on over to my brides or brides and then we'll do your okay um so we've actually had some writing about the brides of brunette hey girls love the podcast just binging my way through following from sophie's bridezilla section about the wedding dress i had the same problem i got so overrun with other people's

opinions that made me crazy and questioned every dress so i went shopping on my own found the perfect draft without dress without anyone's opinion that made me feel incredible as long as you feel amazing that's all that counts as everyone says you look great anyway love the podcast thank you that's really called me i agree okay that's that's solidified with that statement. Thank you for that. Bride or Bridezilla. What's she been?

A bride. Yeah, you look like you've had a right old bride. We've had a romantic week in Mexico. We really have. We've ignited our love again. Well, we never fell out of love, but you know how life moves too quickly and he works a lot. So we really were romantic. Quality time.

We had some quality time and um we think we've really nailed the venue so i'm feeling super positive so what's the point guys where i was gonna be like fuck it let's lope but nope i jimmy wouldn't have let you do that no he wouldn't have but now i now i'm very excited because it's venue i love and it's very stunning over to you um i mean there's nothing really to report on other than i had a stunning weekend in the country with toby's family how many days grandparents um friday saturday so i got there on friday and i left on monday evening lovely long weekend long weekend very very wholesome do you feel like super comfortable

would you walk into the kitchen with the family alone yeah yeah yeah so you're not like oh jay met some other friends of toby's met some like toby's oldest friends were they lovely really sweet they came over on easter sunday it was a lovely lovely school from his like prep school yeah that lived like a bit of neighbors it was a really really sweet weekend and we were so lucky with the weather oh my god gorgeous it was just wonderful i did roll back to london it's just non-stop you know when you're not full for your next meal so breakfast hot cross buns homemade granola no walk back walk down on easter sunday there's little easter eggs for everybody like a little cluster of mini eggs next to everyone's breakfast bowl so sweet and we all have an easter egg in the bowl like a big one oh my god i know mom sounds literally i know heaven on earth heaven on earth and then lunchtime lunchtime went to time which was lovely it's such a magical magical

magical place really really really beautiful how far away um like 45 minutes from where they are kate Moss got married in the church there people do weddings that's quite small they're 80 people venue but unbelievable like so so so so pretty and then dinners we did a lovely like there was like a lovely ham hock like sausages homemade baba ganoush which by the way was the best baba you would have died I honestly ate the whole thing it was so garlicky though. You ate your, you ate everyone's thing. I promise you, the babagani was the best thing.

What did you dip in it, Pitta? Ever. There was like all these lovely, it was like rye bread cut up, we could dip in it and then there was also like crisps that we dipped in it.

Sorry, my mouth's watering. And then what's that lovely lettuce thing, I can't remember what it's called. Oh, chicory, chicory,

chicory. yeah, dip that in it. Oh my God, she's a chef. She is a chef. There was lots of like Aperol spritzes

champagne wine and then for sunday lunch we had a lovely lamb with potatoes and vegetables and then we had dessert which was some like pump it was kind of like a i would say like a a very posh eat a mess it was a stunning meringue with um it's called a pavlova in it in it in it in it cream and then um a rhubarb oh my god that's called a pavlova isn't it i think you're right maybe that was it it was oh my god that's actually mouthwatering she makes it all from scratch yeah shout out to toby's mom what's her name shout out to jilly jilly she sounds like you've got a lot to live up to well don't you dare yeah i can't live up to that what are you talking about yeah stop it she's got a spider bite on her eye and this is something else this i obviously we're in the countries i write there was a couple spiders knocking about

that toby had to remove from the bedroom and got back to toby's flat last night in london and i was like going through my bag i was putting my perfume in my bag and trying to get my vitamins out or something no trying to get my perfume she's a whole bag just for her vitamins yeah and um it's a big old open tote bag situation which was an error I should have got a zip up bag anyway and I had some labels like reformation you know like you get a label it's like a black string and I was like did I just see a spider was that a label I was like what and I was am I seeing things and I just lift up something and this huge spider crawled so quickly and I went I honestly blood curdling screech blood killing me at the top of my lungs to the point where I give myself like a moment of anxiety

so like my heart starts racing to the point where I can literally hear it in my eardrums I've got hot hands I'm so scared I'm on the bed like at the other side of the room and I type it and he obviously runs in at the speed of light thinking that like some guys crawled through the window and like hit me over the head or something so he has then disposed of this spider and when he goes to lift up the bag again it crawls out the bag so quickly I scream again does he scream so loudly he turned around and looked at me like like no no shush like there was no need for me to scream this second time so loudly i think he was genuinely like shut up oh god anyway this boat the spider was disposed of but now i honestly have this thing next to my eyeball it looks like a spot but it's such an odd

place to get a spot and i don't really get spots and it hurts so much and And so you're going to have babies growing out of it. I know, this is what he said to Toby. I was like, they plant eggs inside you. He's like, what? Yeah, they do. They plant eggs in your skin.

Apparently you eat like a spider a night. Seven spiders a year I heard the statistic is. That's fucking right. Isn't that disgusting? Not in London though. Not in my flat.

All the way up those stairs. I get so many spiders in my flat and I don't know how they get in there. Oh God, yeah, he's looking back. Anyway, so there,

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