Wednesdays - Ep 59: Stalking their socials before a first date

Episode Date: May 31, 2022

Happy Wednesday huniii’s. TODAY’S AGENDA: Is it bad luck to re-wear a wedding dress? Do you check their social media before a first date? Plus we have a big fat debrief on the Kravis wedding! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help hey everyone we're back in the room With a bunch in a box of red wine Box wine, just as you know it Sponsored by, no we're not sponsored by I wish we were because we love it, don't we? We love it, do you want to pour me some then, bitch? Okay

Oh god, it slid back in, I don't know why it does it It just kind of creeps back in It's the moment you have a drink but you haven't had a drink yet No, it's kind of when I'm tired, you know? It's like when I'm like, ugh, and I just say, I've not had red wine in ages.

It seems quite strange to have red wine in summer, but, oh, you've broken the seal. She's breaking the seal, everyone. Right, it's ranak grape. I think I'm saying that wrong, but. Okay, ready?

Cheers. Cheers. Mmm, quite like that. Quite dry. I was going to say but okay ready cheers cheers quite like that quite dry I was going to say it's quite fruity or is that just my bad description yeah but it's not like sweet it's like quite a dry

it's delightful really nice we love a bunch in a box we do I also they look so cool imagine that like a what's the set of handy

I'm not sure they look so cool speaking of handy I like a bottle I do prefer a bottle but that is like quite cool as far as a boxed wine goes it's a really and i like a bunch and a bunch i think it's really cool and also it's so much cheaper than bottles that's so cheap i know there's three bottles in that that's i might take it to a festival i'm going to wilderness i might just pack the car

full of that by the way guys sophie was meant to get me tickets for it. I just forgot. I haven't got myself tickets yet. I just got the accommodation, which you need to giddy up on and get. I don't think I'd rather to go. I know. I knew you would hate it when you're there, so I just knew it. Is it not fun?

Well, I just can't imagine it. You hate dirt. I hate dirt, but I love Glastonbury. You hate dirt. Yeah, but I can get stuck in yeah so can I to be fair we're both I was going to say

we're both like pretty bad when we complain about stuff but a festival when it's your own choice to be in a position you just get on with it yeah but if I was trapped

it's when you're being made to go there for work or something you're like oh no yeah yeah yeah that's when it's a different thing then we're like

we're cold cold guys we were known as the complainers and we used to film for Chelsea. It was really bad, wasn't it? Sass, sass, sass. To be fair, we were put in quite cold conditions sometimes. And we're cold girls.

We really were. We're cold girls. What can we do? Right, okay, guys. We've got loads to discuss before we dig into the dynamics because it's been a week full of a week and a half it's been a week and a half of content that we've all wanted and we've all needed like have we ever seen a kardashian wedding or any celebrity wedding in that matter

so up close and personal like uh kim got married fully on camera once actually both times she got married on camera no that almost felt like it's different to this this was like the inside like that social media like you could follow yeah like all of the guests there how many guests were there they're not very many but apparently word on the street is they're going to do another huge one in la and what did we think of her dress i didn't like it and you know i know that it's like each their own but I just did not like it it basically was like a Dolce & Gabbana old meant to look like a vintage uh lingerie I got it I I got it but I think for a wedding like it was her first wedding like she could have gone all out I like I like the veil though like I know it was really gothic and really religious but they are

really religious like Travis is a huge catholic and so are the Like, I know it was really gothic and really religious, but they are really religious. Like, Travis is a huge Catholic, and so are the Kardashians. I think it was more him. Like, I think if it was, like, her by herself without his influence, she would have a completely different thing. But I think she's so taken on his style, right? That's what bums me out about it all.

Like, I get it. I get everyone loves Travis, but Kourtney never used to dress like this. She was kind of, like, really clean and, like she wholesome and chic and like really mumsy and like I love her like her style now really suits her but I'm like is that you and I don't know whether it's her I'm like you're just trying to be this sort of like gothic like yeah Pam and Tommy vibe you know what I mean I do agree but, she did look banging and everyone looked really cute

and Penelope being the flower girl with her little red hair was so sweet. I didn't think I've actually seen, oh yeah, but she genuinely looked like she was going to a Halloween party. That was the whole vibe.

So they were all dressed in Dolce & Gabbana, which obviously has caused a massive stir because I don't know whether it's Stefani or the other one, but one of them basically

has done like quite misogynistic i think like not been that they're not kind people i don't think to like one of them apparently is not like way worse than the other and he like selena gomez ugly or something on social media anyway that's why i think it's really bad and everyone's got mad about it but like the whole thing was literally just a doctrine granite it was like they they literally threw up all over the wedding it looked amazing but they were on dr ingrana yachts whoa they were in dr ingrana suites they were everything was dr ingrana like they literally but i'm like did they get paid for it i don't know how these things work it is all i'll say is it's very different to anything I've ever seen

from a celebrity wedding actually you know what kind of reminds me of do you remember Christine Quinn's celebrity wedding hers was all very gothic and black not in the same sense as this but it was she wore a black yeah but hers was like glitz

and glam and so new this was like old Dolce and gabbana italian top like portofino like it was so different apart from the black like gracine quinn was like oh no sorry sorry sorry she wore white to her wedding and she caught me yeah yeah yeah i don't know why i thought she wore black for a minute she wore white but it's just the gothic thing that's throwing me off i just saw one picture and i was like nah i also just thought that like they'd already done it so i was a bit confused because i thought they already got married like in the back garden

or something we know melissa's not up that up to scratch with her um celebrity gossip we we use these sessions i also know it sounds so bad but i'm so uninvested in the courtney and travis thing i'm so uninvested i know so am i guys don't care i'm like yeah sweet you got married again in a gothic outfit i just don't care either i way prefer Kylie I way yeah I don't want to give her the airtime sorry I feel bad saying that like she's so happy but I know yeah yeah that's lovely but I don't care for it I just don't I'm not that interested in it doesn't tickle my fancy at all yeah it's the sloppy sloppy kisses I think Kylie King Kylie's coming back though I think she's making taking a comeback you know her like she had's coming back though. I think she's taking a comeback.

You know how like she had her moment, she was all over TikTok. She's like, the Gen Z's love her and then she like dropped off the face for the Afro rare.

I think she's coming back. She's been TikTok-ing all over the shop. Has she? Yeah. She's like, she's like using memes from the Kardashians.

Stop. She used to be really funny back in the day, like on YouTube, like used to make really funny impression videos like when she was really young. Yeah, said that's what i mean she's coming back with her personality lovely stuff lovely stuff um right you've got to film me on this

whole christine podcast on call her danny call her daddy because i'm halfway through it right sounds like a different person on it so that's throwing me completely she update basically she says that the whole thing's fake like she didn't even selling sunset sunset she says the storyline about emma saying that she bribed is completely fake of course she would say that and then she also says she never even got asked to come but like can she lie surely they can sue her and she said that basically you know when she got asked to come in for the for a talk to get basically fired she was like i never even got the call time she basically said it's like completely it's a show and before all of it started like she's an actor on it that's what she's sort of saying

but her backstory is like she basically is all for sugar daddies which kind of threw me i get what she meant in a sense that why do the women who choose to be with the sugar daddy get all the shit rather than the man who was paying for a 20 year old i get that but she didn't word it in a way that i think was very responsible i think people listening at young children would be like oh great i'll go on a website and get an arrangement with an older man who's going to pay for my life that's basically what she was saying she was like go for it like i'm all for it but I don't think that's correct she should have worded it differently I know I'm really good at it she's really passionate and the accent was really quite good I know this really hurts my head today because I'm that swollen from tip time

oh yeah guys so we've just been in our first ever hendy and we were together and it was really fun we had the best time so we were very drunk on the second day me and sophie were down in our little bedroom i think ruby was there too not sure apparently so one of the girls is there she's a bit older than us and she's a mum so she's obviously like just a bit more caring and like motherly she wasn't a mum she's just pregnant no no andrea and she could hear like screaming crying coming from our room thought that i was crying and like i just smashed she thought i'd smash glass and like just cut my leg open or something apparently it was that traumatic comes down looks through the window apparently we're crying with laughter like pissing ourselves yes she came down to check

looked through the window and was like oh no they're fine they're just laughing and apparently i'm like like crying with laughter we were crying the whole time don't remember that at all right I don't have any recollection honestly I don't gosh um also I I drank the vitamin c oh my god guys so you know we got the sweetest little like goodie bags I can't go and there was all these like amazing treats so there was like um lots of skincare bits you know like little sampley bits too of skincare and like masks and there was this um vitamin c that was like in a little sachet so he was like oh yeah yeah it's a i'm in the bathroom brushing my teeth having a lovely time cleansing myself ready for the fly home so he's obviously like i need to give myself some vitamin c so she goes into this sachet sucks it all into her mouth and then i hear this screaming honestly it was blood

curdling from the other way i was like what and then she and i ran and she just spits all the stuff on the floor there's bright orange stuff so what the fuck she runs to the bathroom and she's like my insides are burning rinsing her mouth i'm like what and i'm always like you oh i was like you just drunk a skincare serum relax it's obviously not bad she's's like, Melissa. Honestly, like crying. And I look at it and it's actually a vitamin C tablet that you can take and she ate, it was an edible thing

and I was like. I don't believe it was because if you guys have ever tried. Well, I'm sorry, I don't know what brand that was but I've never tasted something so violent in my entire life.

Right, I've been sucking on those Zuki things, they're frigging delightful. Those Zuki things are like jelly babies in a tube. I have to stop myself from having more than one. They're so yummy.

They're so yummy. They're so yummy. And that was the morning after. It was a very, very fun hen day. And we got home. We were very, but it was actually quite wholesome. Like it was really, it was very like busy. But I think because the second day we just did day drinking. That's why it was so nice.

Yeah. The first night we, we left, we left a dinner and we went and ate chicken nuggets and chips and burgers. From like a little van from a van and also guys sophie's like i want to ground my feet so she takes her shoes off and tries to walk out in the middle of the street in the middle of saint-tropez on this like grubby side street where we're getting fast food there's stuff all over the floor and i was like hun don't ground your feet here put the shoes back on i was like there's nice places we can ground your feet my heels are so destroyed

i don't know how mine were fine what the hell did you do i think i took them off low so they just I was like, there's nice places we can ground your feet. My heels are so destroyed. I don't know how. Mine were fine. What the hell did you do? I think I took them off low so they just, and then. Yeah, I got stumbled. What the hell did I do? I don't know. I think I like took them up upstairs and then like the owner must have like dragged them

through the manor. Oh, God, oh, gosh. Anywho, it was very, very fun. Right, guys. Also, we've had some juicy little piece of information from someone. So our sound engineer made eyes with someone on a tube and then they he asked like they'd made eyes so much on the tube that by the end of the tube journey he like went and asked her out and I just think that's so lovely I don't think things like that I have not heard of that ever happening and

I wish that that would happen to me have you ever had that where you've seen someone fit and you're like we're looking at each other there's something here and they just get off the tube you're like fuck yeah I have had it when I've seen someone fit and I'm like we're looking at each other there's something here and they just get off the tube you're like fuck yeah i have had it when i've seen someone fit and i'm like oh my god he's so fit yeah but i've never been like does he love me back but then they've never asked me yeah yes they obviously did but i have had it when i've like walked down the street and like men have been like excuse me where's the gym and i'm like that way and then they ran back and they're like oh sorry i just wanted to ask you on a date and i'm like no no no and they would shut up has that happened to you more than once or is it just the once no I've had it quite a lot of times and I

honestly about the gym not about the gym oh god no so you I usually walk around in gym kit I did actually have it twice about the gym I swear to god and I was like is this a no this girl looks hench as fuck I was in a gym kit so I once actually had it on Oxford Street. Yeah. And it was the same guy and he used the same chat up line. And I genuinely was like, he's from Taken. I genuinely, I called Jamie and I had an ex-boyfriend before and I think I called them at the time. So it happened two years in about, like, he was on Oxford Street. He literally was-

Did he ask you if you wanted a coffee? He was exactly looked like the guy from Taken, like same accent. And he said to me are you from london like he thought i was foreign and i think he and then he was like do you want to go for a coffee and i was like no and then it happened like a year later and i was like sorry i've had it on oxford super they've asked me if i wanted a latte before and they kept following me yeah yeah yeah i swear that he's a guy he's trying to steal girls it was weird he was like he was like can i get you a latte and i was like and it was like when COVID was a thing.

And I was like, stay away from me, two meters. And he was like, what? Stay away from me. I honestly just think I kept my headphones in. I was like, no. And he followed me, followed me, followed me. And I was like, no. Yeah, they followed.

Maybe it's the same guy. Maybe he just goes to Oxford Street. And it was the coffee why are we his prey i don't know i think i was offended he thought he could get a coffee with me like he didn't he was not my type i have that when you're like gosh how do you think that i'm gonna agree to that and it sounds really bizarre and weird but then if if he was my dream boy i'd be like yeah yeah yeah i'll go with you i know if a boy asked me for a coffee and he was really fit on the side of the street i'd be like that's just weird like yeah it's weird in

itself i know but then it shouldn't be this situation on the tube is because it's so unusual right we're not used to it back in the day this is how people used to meet guys i know maybe we shouldn't be such assholes but the creeps think about following someone down the street being like i want to buy you a coffee and then when you're like ignoring them they keep following that's different yeah it's different isn't it but making the eyes with someone like so much body language and eye contact I believe yeah because she was obviously giving back and that's what obviously made him want to go over it's very different to someone who's looking down and some weirdo yeah chasing them down the street yeah I agree and also like if

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See full terms at canada.casino.fandu.com. Please play responsibly. Right, I'm going to read out the first dilemma. Girls, I have a a wedding related dilemma i would love to hear your opinion on right this is gonna be your section i was engaged years ago and have bought a wedding dress dot dot dot i still have it not for sentimental reasons it's been in my mum's wardrobe so it's just been left there and the dress is my dream dress i've asked my husband to be would it be out of the question for me to wear the wedding dress I have already got? And it's been a flat-out no from him. Right, okay, so she's bought this wedding dress

for a previous, right. But he has never, ever seen the dress. Would it be massively rogue of me to wear the dress anyway as he wouldn't know? Or would it be too disrespectful? I would do that. I would just wear it. I would just wear it.

It's my dream dress. It's nothing to do with the man sorry this is my dress and like my day yeah and you're the dream dress you're not gonna get another dream dress you're gonna have to get the same dress made by a different woman and for her to like sew in another bead you know what i would do so so so in his initials yeah so it makes it makes it more personal and like maybe add some other little extra bits that changes it a little bit so in like change the veil maybe change the way your hair was going to be such yeah she might do but definitely the sewing in the initials is key and then it's his and then just show him that and he never needs to know in 10 years time when you're pregnant you or whatever in 10 years time when you're living the dream and you're married and

happy just laugh over it over a glass of wine or take it to the grave i would take it to the grave with you there's no point yeah i mean that's gonna do no no good at all okay so our advice is to lie to your husband to be especially you don't have to lie you just don't have to tell him the truth be like look at my lovely new dress like it technically would be yeah it would be no it would be different no get something on it and then you say no i've had this made expect i've had this personalized and then it just throws him straight off i understand why he's being weird about it but at the same time it's a bit small-minded like at the end of the day i wouldn't care like that's like that is like sleeping the same bed as jamie's ex like i'm leaving like you've

got to buy me you know what it is it's like you having a wedding planned at a certain venue that he loves and then wanting to get married at the same oh see i wouldn't like that yeah it's like that i do get it but at the same time it's the fit would you get different yeah and it's like that's her the venue's both two people the dress is just her it didn't have anything to do with the old fiance whereas the venue was both of them they'd looked around it together they chose it the old fiance never saw the dress because they never made it down the aisle you could sell that and then get someone to make you want very similar from scratch and show her and you know sell it and get the money and use it for the new dress i agree i think it depends on what the financial situation what the budget is for the dress so if it's like you need to say how

much time you go just wear the same dress and get some things added to it but if we're going to be really sensitive here towards your husband to be which i think is probably a good idea to all right so we've done a 360 we don't think you should lie i think you should wear exactly the same dress but if you can get it made exactly the same and sell this one yeah because you've got no sentimental reason to it if you don't have the budget to do that just wear the goddamn dress and so his initials on it and just take it to the grave harm right giving you two options there yeah let us know what you do okay dilemma two so i matched with a guy on tinder a couple of weeks ago and we started messaging on whatsapp then agreed to a date last friday he doesn't have a picture on whatsapp fair enough but also has his name as dash oh his name is literally a dash which is freaking odd and he's

right we think he's a tinder swindler he deleted tinder last week bit odd again and has sent pictures of videos of himself half naked no but never with his face oh my god you're getting catfish babe never used to a baby ever whatever he cancelled our date on friday last minute because but never with his face. Oh my God, you're getting catfished, babe. Never used to a baby ever. He cancelled our date on Friday last minute because his dad was ill and we rescheduled to this Friday. Both my best friends who don't know each other think he's giving off catfish rise.

What are your thoughts? There's something about him that I'm uncertain of, but I don't know if it's just he's crazy attractive and I'm kind of insecure. So I'm almost expecting there to be something wrong with it. And what are your thoughts, girls? Also,

you didn't have any social links to say, and I haven't asked him if he's on Insta, but I'm just wondering if you think, okay, I would never ever meet someone unless I could see their social media and who their friends were. Then I pitched to them with their friends and their family. I just think from like a safety point of view, that's just like what I would,

I would never, ever, ever, ever do that. Same. This is a red light to the extreme. You haven't met him. You don't like him. Sack this off right now. This is- You don't know who you like.

You've seen some photos on Tinder. It is catfish. It's catfish. And also from a safety point of view, I don't like this. And also why the fuck has he not got a name and why is he like not got a whatsapp photo it's so creepy shady and bizarre please don't message him yeah please please please don't and please don't go and see him i really don't like this at all same it's giving me heebie-jeebies everywhere i really he's a catfish in a box in a box i don't know he's a catfish in a box

he's the box was a bunch of box and it just what i don't know he's a catfish in a box the box was a bunch of box and it just what right dilemma three one of my closest friends split up with her boyfriend of four years ish about a year and a half ago we always got on during their relationship they ended quite nastily and she can't stand him him and i have remained friends which she is okay okay with but has always been in a bit of an awkward situation i now feel like i have slight feelings for him and i know they are reciprocated i knew this was coming i knew she was gonna say that we have lots in common and get along so well and i do feel like i could see something with him but i feel like I would have I would be completely betraying my friend I was friends with her first and have been for years I don't know

whether to tell her how I feel and that we have spent quite a lot of time together or leave it for now to see if anything progresses as it's still very early days I think you need to tell her oh god right so walk me through it again. So one of her friends dated this guy for like two and a half years. Is that what she said? Boyfriend for four years. Oh. About a year and a half ago.

I'm really sorry. So they've been broken up for a year and a half. Their relationship was four years. But it was nasty. She hates him, doesn't like him. And she always remained friends with him. Because obviously they were four years. That's like you and breaking up now like i i don't know if i would not ever speak to jamie and we'd probably still be friendly do you know what i mean like that kind of vibe um and then a year and a half later she can't stand him if i hated jamie you'd have

to take my side so i don't get why she's not it depends what kind of situation they're in like a friendship group they're in a friendship group circle like right okay i'm okay i'm gonna put myself in my like school friendship group like all the ex-boyfriends are still friends with the friends because like they're in the same friendship group and see each other like most weekends whatever so they obviously still spend time together and now they're growing these feelings this sort of shit happens some people just fall in love and it's really unfortunate i I guess I can't really talk because I kind of... No, you fell in love with someone. I know, it's hard when there's...

And, you know, your friend Emily went through the same thing. You know, she fell in love with your ex-boyfriend. It happens all the time. This is actually more usual than you think it is. It just feels so awful. Right, before... Right, OK, because I've been through it with Emily and vice versa. How I would...

There's no right way, you don't know until it's happened to you what the right way, but I wish right from the get go, I had been told, even if there's feelings being caught, I wish that that had happened

and obviously Emily didn't know and we're literally best friends and that's all fine, but, but I wish that in hindsight, I reckon I would have found it way easier what I didn't like was not knowing

I felt like an idiot so I think for you I know it sounds premature but I would literally if you're best friends with her I don't think they're best friends I just think they're friends it's so awkward I don't blame anyone not wanting to tell them because who wants to go by the way what feelings do you have to who you hate

like it's literally death I think what you should do is be like oh my god I was actually drunk with him the other day and I actually kind of realised I quite fancy him

I'm sorry that I know that's so weird but I can't help it like I actually kind of feel myself being quite attracted to him yeah I would just take a cup of coffee

or like yeah just fucking say it and just be like I know it's really shit but like I just did I can't help it and just be like nothing's happened

I don't even know if it's reciprocated but this is how I feel and before anything goes any further i just wanted to let you know yeah but also if she turns around she's like i don't need to do it that's just gonna make you want to do it even more and i don't actually think it's right for someone to stop you from doing something sorry yeah no it isn't but we've all we all live and we learn um if she's a good person she'll be like look i respect you so much for telling me that obviously it's gonna be fucking awkward for me but like yeah you know you gotta do what you gotta do

it's really hard because it's like you're probably thinking is it worth doing this to a friendship when they've not even like kissed or anything like i think it's so different if she was still madly in love with him and it's like the one that got away and like she still can't get over him and she gets upset and she sleeps with him and she still goes out it's not that case she doesn't like him she thinks he's a pig obviously they don't get on anymore yeah and i don't really think she'll give a fuck yeah let's hope she doesn't give a fuck the only reason she'll give a fuck is because she doesn't like him and she probably won't yeah hang out with him and and if you're friends that will sort of change your yeah that's true like celavish it happens it happens in financial groups i just think whatever happens you're

gonna come full circle like even if you know time changes like you and her will make up if you do fall out like yeah you've got to just kind of follow your gut on this one i'm really sorry i'm not giving you the best advice but i really think you only you can decide either tell her i think you've got to tell her and just go for it i think you just tell her be like i know it's fucking weird be like i don't really want to but i actually kind of fancy him like nothing's happened but i just thought i'd let you know this is how i'm feeling and what she can do i think is though a lot of girls will turn around and be like you can't go out you can't do anything just don't ask her permission just be like i know i know you're not gonna care and i know this is probably silly me telling you this you've got to kind of play it like that. Yeah. But this is how I feel.

And be like, I know you don't give a shit. You probably think this is petty and you wouldn't care if I go with him or anything. But I just thought I'd let you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because I feel like it's the right thing to do. Yeah. Hopefully she responds in a nice way.

And if she doesn't, then ask us back for a dilemma then because we'll have to rethink. Yeah, follow up. Follow up. We need to know on that one because that's a really hard one. I feel like this sort of thing happens all the time yeah it really does

right so not so single diaries for me are I mean there's nothing that's really happened other than the fact this weekend me and you are going to a wedding Toby's not coming Toby's got his own wedding oh yeah Melissa's gonna stay at mine I. Can't wait for that. Going to have a lovely little family weekend. In this very, not in the same village. No, obviously. We're not swinging. And I always think,

when you go to weddings, like, you really think, like, oof, it makes you really think about the person you're with. Yeah, it does.

In a way where you're like, can I see myself marrying this person? I think it's kind of, like, it's a shame he can't come, because he has been invited to the after thing. Because I always think at weddings, like, you always, I always want to be with Jamie's kind of, like, it's a shame he can't come because he has been invited to the after thing because I always think at weddings, like,

you always, I always want to be with Jamie then. Like, you, I always, like, that's like my,

you're definitely marrying the right person. Well, you will want to be with Jamie. Well, I don't know. We have to wait

until after the wedding. Obviously, I'm still going to want to be with him. But like, do you know what I mean? Like, it's,

like, both of us going to separate weddings, you're kind of like, ooh, it made you think like, ooh, I remember with my ex,

we went to like his auntie or cousin's wedding or something. And I used to, when I was drunk, I really couldn't hold my alcohol and I was such an angry drunk. Still can't. No, but I was like, yes, sometimes I do get angry. I was a frigging nightmare.

Like poor boy, I was thinking about it. And I remember afterwards, I must have just got too drunk and had an argument with him. And I remember him being like, I watched them the way they are together. We are not like that. Like he basically in his mind was like, you're a psycho and I don't want to marry you.

And I remember just being like, uh oh. No. Fuck. Yeah, so it's true. You do think that. You do think that. So I'm obviously not going to change my mind, but it's kind of like, ooh. Exciting times. And on Sunday, is he coming back or no? No, it's kind of like, ooh, exciting times.

And on Sunday, is he coming back or no? No, it's a two-day wedding, so he's staying Sunday night again. Oh, Sunday. They're not doing it Friday and Saturday. No, because it's the day after, isn't it? It's like what you're doing. No, I'm going to have my wedding on Friday and do the pool party Saturday.

Well, yeah, so their wedding's on Saturday and they're doing the pool party on Sunday. Okay, so that's fun. We've got a wedding this weekend, Tiff's wedding. We're so excited. We cannot wait. I guess that's also my bride thing. I this weekend tiff's wedding we're so excited i guess that's also my bride thing like i'm just gonna take little notes from her oh good idea yeah and obviously i am going out on june 4th or something june to find my venue and i'm just gonna look it

down i'm trying to stay calm so other venue fell through so i'm trying to stay calm and we're gonna get one we're gonna go out i've seen a couple that i like i'm very optimistic about it and not not worried okay so that's that's the tea guys should we rate this wine then um i'm gonna rate it a 6.5 because it's really nice, but I prefer mine a bit more full-bodied. Yeah, I really liked it. It's quite light. I feel like you could have that with fish and it would actually be okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Like a Pinot Noir. What's the word? Not convenient. Easy. It goes with anything. Adaptable. Adaptable. You know the word that we're looking for.

It's not that. But yeah, anyway. It's a lovely, lovely wine. I think I'll rate mine the same, 6.5. I's not that but yeah anyway it's a lovely lovely wine I think I'll rate mine the same 6.5 I'm not gonna lie I haven't had very much of it but

it tasted delightful only because it's summer and it's a rad yeah but it's a lovely lovely summer wine if this is an evening meal with our fish

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