Wednesdays - Ep 66: I found a love letter from my partner’s ex!

Episode Date: July 19, 2022

This week we are discussing siblings, single diaries and of course snooping through your other half's bedside table- we've ALL been there xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

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Starting point is 00:00:23 Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly. Melissa, are you a doctor? I want to be, but I'm not. I'm not a doctor either. And we're not psychologists. We're not. We're not experts'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts in anything in fact we just challenge all the shit so and we love giving you guys advice but we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help we're rolling down the river we're rolling
Starting point is 00:01:07 we're rolling that was actually really good sorry I had a dream what I had a dream I had the weirdest dream that I had to get up on stage
Starting point is 00:01:16 and sing and I thought I was really really good and everyone was like you were awful and I was so embarrassed sorry that's so irrelevant I had a
Starting point is 00:01:25 really weird experience on my house by the way which melissa's knows because she's calm as we've got a restaurant being built down below us and they've done something to the drains and it randomly just you'll get hit hit by the worst amount of sulfur your nose has ever witnessed like rotten eggs rotten eggs times 100 to the point where you're gagging anyway we went for dinner on tuesday with our friends and i text jamie before being like i think it's me who smells a rotten ice i think it got so much in my nostrils that i could smell it out and about and i was like sniffing myself and then jamie obviously showed people the messages i arrived and everyone was like can you smell kegs oh my god that's so funny and then last night my whole dream was that my skin smell of um gone off mold like you know when you put yeah yeah like
Starting point is 00:02:10 damp damp damp and you leave them in the washing machine you don't take them out inside when they stink yeah yeah and then i all day i was like why and everyone was like sophie we can't sit next to you you smell so bad oh my gosh sophie's also had this paranoia before she was taking like some probiotic drink was it sim proof and she convinced herself no it made my armpit smell it made i smell weird i smell of bacteria oh no it was like a very everyone that takes simply from like you must think jamie smell too we had the same smell yeah it's obviously too much like bacteria yeah like imbalance is the wrong way imbalance Imbalances something.
Starting point is 00:02:45 It was like a weird, a very, it wasn't necessarily a bad smell. It was a very peculiar smell. Strong smell. Well, not because I don't smell it that much, but I could just smell my own. Yeah, and you were like, this isn't me. Yeah, went off it, gone. Oh my God. But now every time Jamie and I walk down the street and smell that weird smell, because
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Starting point is 00:03:11 And we're not drinking wine today. Soz, guys. We're just too dehydrated. Okay, so we've got some listeners email. Should I read the first one? Okay, so somebody emailed us saying, I decided to have a garden day. Get a cute tan
Starting point is 00:03:25 you know how it goes caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and realized i was wearing crotchless pants this photo is killing me i purchased this set a year ago from fenty and forgot all about it at the time i thought it'd be a cute little surprise slit meanwhile my actual whole ass is out from my penchant of neighbors to see so angelic from the front freaking the sheets eh wait i can't see the crotch no no no that's the back of it so like you put it on so there's strings that go under her butt there but the whole of her ass it's not crotchless it's like backless so like it's a your whole butt and like crotch is out so guys this photo is so funny So she's basically gone for this really chic lacy crochet mesh. It's almost like a t-shirt long dress situation
Starting point is 00:04:11 Yeah, like a slit like a lovely like just it's almost like a caftan anything you wear a bikini, right? So it's a lovely bra and pants, but the pants have no bag I mean, it's quite slink. It is very slink. But it's like... That's one way to spice up, yeah. Yeah, get one of those. It's, yeah, it's not like... It's obviously crotchless, but it's also arseless.
Starting point is 00:04:34 Yeah, yeah, yeah. The whole butt part's out. Everything's out. There's no... God, Jamie'd love that if I were one of them. I know, if I ever see that. Never gonna happen. Oh my God, the Balenciaga show.
Starting point is 00:04:44 Yeah, Nicole Kidman, Kim Kardashian, Christine Quinn, I don't know how she's... I only, I didn't see Nicole Kidman walking. I just saw Kim and Christine. Yeah, this Balenciaga thing is like, ooh, like the rage at the moment, isn't it? Like all this like weird and wonderful, like sort of the sleeves carry on
Starting point is 00:05:00 all the way over your fingertips and like the same with your shoes. Kim's been wearing it for honestly a decade or so. I just don't like it. Like I'm old i'm over it now come on kimmy k get out yeah show us your feet oh my god yeah christina queen christina queen king i know quinn i'm so many questions about this christine queen same i don't understand how she's no offense because she was so mean how she's doing so well when she was so mean that's what i don't get i mean obviously some things aren't true people like a villain though don't they clearly um she looked pretty cool yeah she was
Starting point is 00:05:34 one question i've not seen harry styles in the gym for a while neither have i probably because guys i literally was seeing him like oh i saw him like twice once he walked past i was talking to my friend i'm just now her samira was like stood opposite me and um i could see her such she'd just done a climb right which is so sweaty guys and like she had a sweat towel in her hands like wiping her set away suddenly she starts biting the towel i'm like what are you doing and i look at what she's looking at to my right harry styles honestly walks so close to me basically like touches me as he walks past he's so close and she's like biting her towel and i was like she's like did i play that cool and i was like well no you didn't you were biting your sweat towel
Starting point is 00:06:12 it's disgusting he's probably looking at you like oh what's wrong with that that was not cool wait so when you walk past you just done the sweaty class i was about to go in and she'd just done one i know i was about to do pil and she'd just done one. I know, I was about to do Pilates. Yes, I look great. Stunning. Okay, right, let's go on to dilemmas. Okay. Please, please help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years.
Starting point is 00:06:38 We have a house together and a dog and are very happy. Lovely. He works away from Monday to Friday. The weekend is the only time we get to see each other. He claims that he is very tired from work, so our sex life is less frequent than I would like it to be whilst he's away I'll try and spice things up by sending him flirty photos to which he responds nice kiss oh no that's not the response we want how do I encourage him to be more flattering when I try to explore new avenues of our relationship. Sorry, that's so offensive.
Starting point is 00:07:05 I would be so upset. I would literally be like, fuck you. I've put so much effort into this like, What do you mean by a flirty photo? Do you mean like a sexy photo? Well, I imagine like, I don't know, like maybe she's just like got a bit of like a bra on, like she's like, morning, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:07:18 Or maybe she's fully naked. Either way. Even if it's just a picture of her face and she's like, you should reply something more than nice kiss that's an insult if anything insulting it's basically being like cool i don't really know what to say to this advice i don't know because i was just like oh sack him off but they've got a dog at a house i know what you mean like that would really piss me i would be like i'd be angry i would be angry i would be so angry and it would make me like unencouraged to not send a picture i would like start saying dicks which is not what you want to do but i start being like i say we've got a really romantic
Starting point is 00:07:52 relationship which is really bad you're so complimentary you make me feel so good about myself thanks i love it when i send you a photo and you apply nice god we sound psychopaths no no i'm sorry it's not okay you're doing like you do in, like, a more... That's not good advice. Okay, right. Let's be constructive with this. You're gonna have to just say to him, like, look, it makes me feel kind of shitty when I send you a picture and you say that.
Starting point is 00:08:12 Like, do you not want me to send you a picture? Like, I want us to start having more sex. Like, come on now. What's going on? Yeah, what's going on? Wait, see, I feel like we've got a bit stagnant. Like, we're not... We need to spice things up.
Starting point is 00:08:23 I always feel like it's quite difficult, though, when you get into these stagnant stages to get out of them. I also I feel like we've got a bit stagnant. Like, we're not, we need to spice things up. I always feel like it's quite difficult, though, when you get into these stagnant stages to get out of them. I also do feel like, yeah, it is, because it's almost embarrassing. I know, it's a really difficult one. Because you feel like they're going to be like, cringe, what's happened? Like, you feel embarrassed because you're so not sexy. Like, I'm so not sexy with Jamie. So I would never, like, if I sent, I'm sure he'd love one.
Starting point is 00:08:44 We've had this conversation so many times Jamie's desperate for Sophie Jamie died for me Sandy so I'm like no it's never gonna happen if you did it once you'd probably like knock his socks off knock his socks off what's the saying I might do it after this but I get it gets awkward like kudos to you in the first place for just even like having the courage to do it. Yeah. Maybe he's like nervous and he finds it like embarrassing almost. No, you can respond something like you're not like stupid. Like you can respond something better than nice to like a sexy picture from your girlfriend.
Starting point is 00:09:24 Yeah. Like, come on, mate. I think there's just a conversation that needs to be had and if you're not satisfied with that conversation things don't start to change then you're gonna have to make an a bigger decision about your relationship because if it was me I would it would almost make me not feel insecure but it would make me feel like I'm not being satisfied in ways that I want some people are okay with not having much sex and like they're okay with that. But some people, I'm guessing you're more of a sexual person than he is maybe.
Starting point is 00:09:49 Yeah. And if he's not giving it to you and it's not improving after you've had a nice conversation with him, then you maybe need to ask yourself a deeper question about your relationship. What do you think? You're not saying much over there.
Starting point is 00:10:02 Speak up, woman. I think the same. I think you've got to just sort of have an honest conversation and just like lay your cards on the table. You do live with each other. You've got a dog. You've got a house. You can't really hold this back.
Starting point is 00:10:14 I think give him the opportunity to change. I also think it's quite nice that you don't see each other in the week because it should keep it spicy for the weekend. So like try and maybe make things like a bit different and a bit more like special like go out for a nice dinner as soon as he gets back and stuff like that I don't know yeah or like watch um what was that program you told me that was like really like sexual oh there's another one there's a film as well like I don't know that's not very me but maybe I don't know I don't actually think that I think maybe start yes start by having the conversation I think the conversation but keep it light I wouldn't make
Starting point is 00:10:48 it too intense because you make it too intense I can like scare the situation just be like oh do you not like it when I send you pictures like I don't have to but like I thought you quite like it yeah or something like that yeah I agree dilemma two hey girls love you both and love the podcast you are a godsend on my long train journeys thank you i was wondering if you could help me out with the dilemma i've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now we are getting on so well and love each other so much throughout our relationship i've been quite open about my past and how my last relationship ended quite badly he has never mentioned his ex why they broke up or even her name
Starting point is 00:11:25 if the topic of exes comes up he quickly changes the subject last week i was on in his bedroom and went for a little snoop never a good idea you're always gonna find something you don't want to find yeah in his top bedside drawer i found an anniversary card from his ex saying how much she loved him and how he was the best thing that had happened to her they were meant they were also a handful of love notes she had written to him and ticket stubs from their dates to a zoo what do i do do i tell him i snooped and found this or just leave it alone i would go into jamie's bedside table anyway because it's just a bedside table just say you were looking for a charger like it's not like you went through this bloody like safe i would be like that's weird wait hold on
Starting point is 00:12:09 how long have they been together again six months let's have a look no almost here now sorry not cool not cool not cool but he might even remember that they're there i know that's true that he might not even know that they're there he might be like oh fuck sorry i actually did i never go in my bedside table like i've still probably got things of like my ex lying around the house. And I'm like, oh God, I find that. And I'm like, oh, throw that away. Like, I didn't even know that was there. Like, we can't jump to conclusions here.
Starting point is 00:12:34 I wouldn't bring it up because I do think it looks a little bit. I would, I would, I would. In fact, this exact thing happened to me. I, when we were packing up the house, but I did not care one bit. No, but you were living with him. It's different if you live together. I don't think they think they live together no even when i was staying at his once i found something but i really didn't care i like laughed about it it was like a letter or something what's this but i was like this he's clearly not keeping it as a story shit yeah yeah no
Starting point is 00:12:58 what happened to that it's also quite odd though that he's not he refuses to speak about that's why i'm like that's that it's why I'm like, that would give it. It's almost like, in my brain, that would make me think like, oh, is she the one that got away kind of thing.
Starting point is 00:13:09 That's why I feel, if he spoke about her and was chilled and she knew about her as in the girlfriend knew about her and like, who cares? Then I wouldn't bother bringing it up
Starting point is 00:13:18 or I'd like laugh about it and be like, oh no. Did we read the love notes? I want to know what the love notes, how intense they were. They obviously were like, really intense.
Starting point is 00:13:25 So I would then, I would bring up, I would be like, I found these. But then if they don't live together, he's going to be like, well, fuck you, go to the bedside drawer.
Starting point is 00:13:31 No, bedside table's fine. I would not go through. But bedside table, it's a drawer. You open the drawer. God, I used to do that all the time when I lived with him. Why?
Starting point is 00:13:40 I don't live with him so much. But what if he needed to charge it? I can't remember. He would go snooping in his bedside drawer. I think that's quite a personal place. Oh my God. On the other side. Like she's obviously.
Starting point is 00:13:50 On his side of the bed, precisely. Jamie has so much shit in his bedside drawer. Like packs of cards. I would never snoop through someone's bedside drawer. And if I found something, it would be very hard for me to not bring it out. I would like go through your bedside drawer. Is that really bad?
Starting point is 00:14:02 Like I'd open your bedside drawer. I don't see the problem. But what are you looking for? I don't know if i was like sleeping the night i'd like probably open i just remember doing it because i was trying to find a spare charger and i was like maybe they're in that there was loads of wires it was always kind of half open so it was so packed if you are genuine because she went in there snooping yeah it depends how small this bed what i think we need to do is we need to conjure up a plan of why we were snooping yeah it depends how small this bed what i think we need to do is we need to conjure up a plan of why we were snooping so you're gonna have to really realistically say you know i was looking at for the charger no you she's in the room she goes i've lost my necklace gone missing or he says so you my necklace gone missing and whilst he's in the room you go is it in here and
Starting point is 00:14:42 then like and then you're like who are these love notes from yeah yeah see the reaction see the reaction see his reaction don't be serious do not cry if he reacts and he's like oh god don't even wear have those are from my ex i'm embarrassing sorry throws them in the bin you are fine if he's like getting defensive goes red flag if he goes red flag divorce divorce he is because he's like still thinking about her maybe he like whips them out when you're not there reads through them
Starting point is 00:15:07 has a weep I'm sorry imagine no but we've made the perfect plan for you you've lost your necklace start wearing a necklace
Starting point is 00:15:15 if you don't wear one now or your earrings anything I've lost one of my earrings do you think maybe you put it in your bedside drawer or like your cleaner hat I think maybe I did it
Starting point is 00:15:22 or I tidied them up best if he's got a cleaner because I think the cleaner put them in the bedside drawer if he doesn't have a cleaner this is gonna be an nightmare she'll just he'll be like no i wouldn't put them in the drawer and as too late it's opened and you've seen them i was going straight to it you can say i was looking for my necklace everywhere because i've lost it i went under the bed i looked in all the drawers and like i saw this card and i thought it was, because I thought maybe it had been sent whilst we were together,
Starting point is 00:15:46 so naturally I opened it, and I'm really sorry, I shouldn't have done, but I couldn't help myself, and now I've seen these things, and I feel a bit icky about it. Or just be like, I don't really know much about your ex,
Starting point is 00:15:55 like, what happened? And also, why are you keeping these things? It's been all year. Yeah, but don't say that at first, because he might be like,
Starting point is 00:16:00 He might be like, oh, I didn't even know they were there. Yeah, yeah. And then, so let his reaction. But you know what,
Starting point is 00:16:04 some people are quite like momentum yeah they're sentimental like my mum keeps a lot of things from my ex-boyfriends in a little box I think she wants me to
Starting point is 00:16:12 your ex-boyfriend yeah like little things that like they've given like if they've written me love notes I think she like keeps because you know like when like I don't know
Starting point is 00:16:19 like my parents I guess are always like oh yeah like that wasn't like that was an ex-boyfriend like my ex-boyfriend gave this to me so my mum I think still has wasn't like that was an ex-boyfriend like my ex-boyfriend gave this to me so my mum I think still has like an old ring that an ex-boyfriend gave her or whatever she's like oh that was from an ex-boyfriend that I've got in my jewellery box like and it's not a big deal and I'm like yeah yeah I don't even think twice about it so she's obviously like from when you were like 15 like that's quite sweet to look back on and be
Starting point is 00:16:40 like oh yeah to be fair I've only had like one but you one but you know you know i think it's like quite sweet to look back on when you're like 30 like oh like that was when you're 16 like i really enjoyed reading the letter j i found from jamie i was like this is so sweet i literally did uh i think it was when jamie had actually gone to send one of his exes and he didn't and he never did it and it was so sweet i was like that made me see we've got to be okay with people like and the thought of like being in love with other people before you we've got to be okay with it the thing that's just weird to me is that he never speaks about it and changes the subject shady about it it just kind of seems like he's maybe not to me i might be wrong and i don't
Starting point is 00:17:17 want to be like raising things in your brain but like i would be like he's clearly not over it. Why is he keeping stuff from her? Like, what's going on? FanDuel Casino's exclusive live dealer studio has your chance at the number one feeling, winning, which beats even the 27th best feeling, saying I do. Who wants this last parachute? I do. Enjoy the number one feeling, winning, in an exciting live dealer studio, exclusively on FanDuel Casino, where winning is undefeated.
Starting point is 00:17:51 19 plus and physically located in Ontario. Gambling problem? Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly. I have a dilemma. Me and my sister are very close and she often has friends around. She's two years older. One of her friends kissed me two years ago and she found out and hasted us both for it but nothing came of us being together and we were very young at the time. Now one of the friends is texting me. I found him attractive for a while and he has the same about me. We haven't hung out or anything but I feel like we have good chemistry and would work well he's on holiday at the moment so that's why we haven't seen each other
Starting point is 00:18:31 my sister knows that we've been texting and hates it she's been so mad however I feel like it's because she's sad in herself I don't know what to do on the one hand I know I should stop texting him because she doesn't like it but also I get on with him so well and haven't found someone attractive like this in a while since my last bad breakup I just don't know what to do and whether it's worth worth it or will my sister just get over it's 100% worth it it's 100% worth it your sister's gay right now yes she's not like in love with him if she's in love with him you know it just sounds like a little bit of a jealousy thing which is just quite sad that that happens sometimes with sister relationships but it does happen i think you've got to be so honest with yourself yeah be like look i love you so much and i'm not going to
Starting point is 00:19:12 hurt you but like i fancy him i'm going to go for it surely you want me to be with one of your friends rather than someday happy yeah and also it's better like that means you can all hang out it's so much nicer you already like them i would that. I was desperate when my brother was single, obviously there's a big age gap, to go out with one of my friends. I was like, it would be my dream. I can hang out with my best friend all the time. Yeah, heaven.
Starting point is 00:19:31 Which girl? I don't know, but, like, there wasn't a specific one. But when he was single, I was like, who can I set him up with, like, out of my friends? Or at least someone that you know that you like. Exactly. Yeah. Your sister's got to get over it.
Starting point is 00:19:42 You're doing the right thing by being honest, but I don't think you need to, like back down not me so your sister doesn't even give you a reason she's just like i don't like it like what it's sad that you say she you think it's because she's sad in herself i think and you've just got to be really supportive and exactly have a really lovely warm conversation with her where you really put her mind at rest and be like i love you so much but i really like him like well and then give all the things melissa said like we can hang out all together like he might have a pal that you can date and then we'll double exactly and that sounds like it's like other issues that are to do with herself it's nothing to do with you and this guy so like
Starting point is 00:20:17 i think she'd maybe be sad anyway you can't yeah and like she can like be a third world happily because she likes you both. Do you know what I mean? Exactly. Guys, we're not going to do not so single diaries. So instead, we asked you guys to give a... Send in your single diaries. I can't wait for this.
Starting point is 00:20:40 I can't either. Right, go on. You kick off. When I was at uni, I was on a night out and saw a guy and i thought he was good looking went off with him to the bar and he bumped into his friends who i suddenly thought wait is this guy better looking okay fine so she thinks the friend's better than him after a few more drinks i took a selfie with me and both guys sent it to the group of girls chat which one's fitter the friend won the vote so i sneaked off home with
Starting point is 00:21:06 him oh my god that is absolutely savage but amazing amazing god that's what dreams made of like you find a fit boy and then they take you and there's an even better one so shady yeah but also like they've literally just met in a bar like there's there's no loyalty there really like come on she's bumped into this fit boy at a club like stunning they go to the bar and then he's like oh this is my friend she's like even more stunning fine that's what g was made of god how did you find that many fit men in one go julie was like that honestly i used to look around and i was like oh my god i missed out so much i went to an all-girls school i was like this is heaven i think that's what i had at my school unfortunately everyone was so fit so when
Starting point is 00:21:42 i left everyone was ugly everyone at my school was so good everyone was so fit. So when I left, everyone was ugly. Everyone at my school was so good looking. I was like, God, we were really spoiled for Joyce there. I still can't get over that Andrew. Oh, sorry, Andrew on Love Island. What is he doing? Guys, did anyone else see the ick when he was doing Always With You? He's giving me the biggest ick.
Starting point is 00:21:57 Me too. I just can't. And he's such a nice guy and he could be really cool. He's got the potential there, but he's just ruining it for himself. And it's so annoying because I don't think Tasha's done anything wrong and they're all like fueling his little brain with bad stuff i know
Starting point is 00:22:06 yeah neither she's just like taking it slow but she's clearly not as into him as that's the problem well yeah they're not gonna last on the outside no she's gonna be bad felicia the minute she's she's banging to be fair i think she's banging they're so fit all davide sorry davide is my dream i used to he felt so annoying at the beginning beyond irritating i i actually love him so much and now i love him it's the way he was the drink thing i was saying this morning yeah don't be so ridiculous i love him everything about him is excellent i know he's too funny he reminds me of gino di campe he reminds me of giovanni um from okay we've really gone off topic okay gone down the wrong i was out with the girls and had a few
Starting point is 00:22:45 too many gins my friends left me but i didn't want to end the night so continued on my own stop this is like a verity baldach thing this is something she would have done she does she's like i just went just went to the box on my own i'm like surely not you've got to be a serious this is verity from maiden chelsea this isn't her writing this in we're just saying she does this too. One of my old flings from school messaged me so I thought it was a good idea to go back to his house. Unfortunately, I don't remember much from that night
Starting point is 00:23:13 but woke up and felt something wasn't right. I went home and slept my hangover off to wake up to a message from my friend, one of the girls I was out with, asking if I'd gotten into bed with the guy's housemate last night. I was unaware of anything but apparently I got up in the middle of the night I was out with, asking if I'd gotten into bed with the guy's housemate last night. I was unaware of anything, but apparently I got up in the middle of the night
Starting point is 00:23:29 to go to the toilet and had made my way back to his bed, but got the wrong room and got into bed with his housemate. This was one of the worst nights of my life. Anxiety the next day was unreal. Oh my God, that's so funny. I'm happy I've never made an error like that.
Starting point is 00:23:42 I've actually got a story similar to this. Someone I know. Say I did. Someone I know. Say I dated. Someone I know. Been dating this guy. And like, I don't think he ever really puts out. So she went to the loo. And then like, bumped into the roommate in the middle of the night.
Starting point is 00:23:55 And then went and shagged him. And it's like, carried on. So she's like, fully dating one boy. But she's sleeping with the other one in the middle of the night. I've got a story. It's very similar. This is at uni uni you'll know one of the boys beep it out but jamie mace was one of the boys okay so anyway there were three boys i was like friendly with them yeah they were like kind of like we were in similar french group they went out with this girl one of them went out with
Starting point is 00:24:18 this girl they all lived together the three boys okay they've been the boyfriend and girlfriend been going out for ages one night she comes home sleeps with all three in the house i might have got that slightly wrong maybe she'd broken up with the boyfriend but she still slept with also how were they all okay with it like yeah yeah have you just shagged my mate i know they weren't they fell out badly but now their friends go how on earth did she manage to do it was she like just they must have been like she's been a long time in the toilet i don't know i still to this day can't get over it that's fascinating i also jamie was telling me we went for dinner the other night and um two brothers were there one of them was like my age so like six years younger than jamie and his older brother was there and he said
Starting point is 00:25:00 the first time he met jamie he they'd all been, he'd come back from Etsy out, he was like reading me, so it was like 13, lying in bed asleep in his London house. And Jamie came back from like a huge night out, got into bed with him, got in his boxes and laid into bed with him. This little 13 year old was like, hello?
Starting point is 00:25:15 And Jamie was like, hi, I'm Jamie, gonna sleep in here tonight. Jamie was like, the guy was like, what? This tiny little 13 year old, like, no, no.
Starting point is 00:25:22 Oh my God, crazy old Jamie Lattin getting into bed with me. everything it's really awful i didn't think he was famous then right pride of risella here we go okay we've got a venue i know that you guys know that but we until this day hadn't paid for it so now it's paid it's in the bank and we're thinking of doing a day it is a day three so we're gonna do a reception dinner and eat drinks and canapes then the the main day and then the day three will be a pool party we're thinking of just doing a stunning bbq paella vibe yeah oh my dream this is just like a holiday in itself isn't it i know i just thought why the fuck can i come on your honeymoon with you
Starting point is 00:26:02 one of tiff's friends actually joined her half with on your honeymoon with you yeah one of tiff's friends actually joined her half with you her honeymoon with you did you see did she actually i think it was a coincidence i never saw photos of them i did but they were in nam turkey look lovely i really want to do turkey and then also we did a photo shoot yesterday and it's just so funny doing a photo shoot with jamie because we're both so awkward and we're both no you're not soph Sophie thinks this is about herself and then she's in front of the camera she's actually like a supermodel you're such yes you are I've watched you on photo shoots before what photo shoot I'm never really dressed oh that is like clocking us back honestly seven years but it was really good I was like very great thanks uh no it was really funny it's just
Starting point is 00:26:46 jamie's fate he jamie's also so honestly like the photos come i'm like discussing each one he's like i look great don't i i would love to be confident love the confidence it's a lovely lovely world he lives in it is all right thanks that's it for today that's it for today that That's it for today. That went swimmingly fast. It did. Love you guys. Bye. Bye.
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