Wednesdays - Ep 70: The Love Island debrief, dropping the L bomb and moving in ft. Paige Thorne and Adam Collard

Episode Date: August 16, 2022

It’s not a drill - Love Island babe, Paige, is on the pod!We quizzed her on everything that’s happened after coming out of the villa, all about her new BOYFRIEND, and she helps us weigh in on your dilemmas!!We tried the Tiktok trend of Rosé and jalapeños today...our ratings for the Rosé and jalapeño combo:Sophie: 3Melissa: 3Paige: 1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly. Melissa, are you a doctor? I want to be, but I'm not. I'm not a doctor either. And we're not psychologists. We're not. We're not experts'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts in anything in fact we just challenge all the shit so and we love giving you guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help guys we have paise paise she needs no introduction we're so excited oh my gosh thanks fresh out

of the villa fresh fresh fresh fresh I wouldn't say fresh fresh literally went out last night and now I saw you in monkey house not that I'm talking honestly my feet have not touched the ground since I've been home I don't know what day it is I don't know if I'm coming or going

oh my god do you have someone like organising your life you're like right today you're doing this this and this you're like okay yeah literally

I need someone like over my shoulder like looking after me the whole time like hold my hand to all this please because honestly this is a lot

it's a whirlwind because you were paramedic before yeah little old paramedic me from sonsy do you know what i mean i'm like loving my life and then i come out and i'm just like okay what's going on but i'm not gonna i saw an ambulance the other day with sirens on and i had fomo i was like really i need to get in yeah i was like get me one of those again please somebody put me back in it you never go back to doing it oh my gosh 100 i've literally got me in next week to get my job yeah definitely that's so great oh my god i love that before we get into all the good stuff okay what we do on this podcast is we try a wine now we've been told that rosy chili is the new vibe like a spicy mug i'm just

not sure how it's going to go down but we've got some really attractive palettes yeah they look 10 out of 10 those they're gorgeous this is a cheapish wine from the co-op but it looks quite nice we thought we'd we try really expensive ones we try really cheap ones and we try and give a good rate trying out different things this is a quite nice color that smells strong it's quite early in the day for glass wine as well i'm gonna leave it there to like linger and i actually think that rose is quite pleasant i just need to be maybe a bit cold with some ice yeah with some ice straw yeah yeah yeah are you sure i am i love it everywhere a little metal in my bag yeah i love that you're

is that because of the whole lipstick situation? It's just easier to maintain it. Because I find that whenever I put lip liner on and I'm drinking, I'm like, it's literally gone within half an hour. Yeah, and I'm a gloss girl as well. So gloss just does not stay every time you touch it on the glass. So what is your summer drink? My summer drink? Okay, so I'm not really a cocktail kind of girl.

I literally just drink the Vodka Coke everywhere, any time of the day. That's my go-to. I know, I know. So basic. I hate myself of the day that's my go to I know so basic I hate myself for it too I love it I did that too much and now I can't it was such a yewdy drink for me

that now I'm like it's red bull for me if I smell red bull I just gag at the door do people still drink that? I can just smell it every now and then someone walks past me with a red ball and it's such a potent smell and I'm like oh my god no

yeah it stinks why don't you just give me a margarita you love a rosé I love a rosé but when you're out in like a bar and you can't just

keep drinking rosé it's almost just socially unacceptable like you've got to go to a bit of a like cocktail or something or a gin and tonic frozen strawberry daiquiri

I think yum for summer yum okay so so many questions for you we're just going to fire them at you but you can just tell us tell us to shut up with being too much we want to know

all about adam obviously you guys are now official congratulations no he's so lush honestly so you're kind of like in the villa after he did his date with natalia whatever he came back and he's like no just want to be exclusive and i was like i hate this word exclusive right because what is it like yeah is it seeing is it dating i don't really know what it is it's a stupid word what is it and also because you're in that environment it's also like obviously you're not going to go out and date girls on a night out so like what do you mean but i guess i can see everything that you do yeah honestly so i was just like right this word is like silly basically boyfriend and girlfriend anyway but yeah we didn't put a label on it we're like we'll wait till we get out we'll see how we go right and then obviously my mum came

and made the whole savage comment so he's like we need to win your mom over first. Yeah tell us has she has he managed to win her over? She has shares in this relationship now so she wasn't fine at first but now she's like. She's invested. Yeah, she's invested. She's like CEO of this relationship now. Oh my God. That's good.

We always need a seal of approval from the parents. Like it's so important. Yeah, you do. Only some people don't care, but I'm like so big on that. I'm like, my family doesn't like it. Yeah, it just makes it harder, doesn't it? It does. And mum's always, honestly, mum's know best.

They do. Mum's know. And I can't deal with the hool. I told you so either so i was like right win her over and we will go from there how did he win her over so he came down to swansea and we met my family in a bar there's just typical welsh vibes isn't there he says he wasn't but honestly i've never seen him sweat so much in my life but no he literally like i'm like a pro like obviously they were all gonna fall in love with i didn't have a problem like i didn't have a doubt that they wouldn't love him when they

actually met him yeah obviously before my mom came in there was a lot of stuff going around social media that she was seeing that was all like kind of negative towards adam apparently i'll say i still haven't seen i live in a bubble but so she came in with like this like all these presumptions obviously she was gonna have a guard up But so she came in with like this, like all these presumptions. Obviously she was going to have a guard up. And then she came out. Adam was able to like be like, Sam, this isn't a thing.

He was like, put it all right. And she just fell in love with him. Like instantly, like my whole family did. He was on the table with my nan. My like, honestly, my nan's the kind of girl she's on the table dancing. I love the sound of your nan. Yeah. We need to get her on.

Oh, that's me. Getting Annabelle on the table. She's that with her yeah getting on a bed on the table she's a whole vibe she'd be loving this right now that is amazing how long did he come stay in swan so he was down for a whole like three days lovely we just did like all the normal stuff so we went paddle boarding we ate at restaurants just we even did netflix we did netflix for a bit and i was just so excited i was like to do something so normal yeah because you've not like had a time oh my god also watching tv is not even a thing yeah i was like what is this all moving on the screen right now this is insane do you find your attention spans actually really good when you've had such a break from all of the like technology

yeah you like i have such an appreciation for like normal stuff and I can really concentrate on it yeah definitely absolutely like we were sat there and like even like the adverts on like YouTube come up and stuff like haven't seen this have it before this is a nice one this is a good one oh my god it's so wild it's like a such a detour yes it is it was but also like not also not in another way I guess it's just such a different vibe but like to not have those normalities must be so strange to come back to them like oh yeah wow that's what like the sound of friends sounds like in the background and the radio stuff like that yeah oh that's what I miss the most what did you miss the most Alexa oh she has my back at home anything I need like Alexa let's go babe yeah and I just didn't

have it anywhere oh my god so many so with you and Adam you're obviously living quite far apart like how you've obviously spent oh yeah Wales and then when I see Newcastle yeah Newcastle I went to uni in Newcastle did you they're all great in Newcastle yeah they're the best what's it like because he keeps trying to sell Newcastle to me and i'm like it's so fun yeah i've never been to swansea but it was so fun best three years of my life okay such good night life i loved it i lived in jasmine and i just loved it oh that no it does sound good everything he says about it does sound really fun they've got like also there is like the seaside you can go to the beach there's a beach really close well that's the thing like i feel like swansea and newcastle are kind of similar because he literally said

swansea is just going to be another version of newcastle like we've got the whole like night we have nightlife but it's nowhere near as good as newcastle i mean you'll big it up that it is it's not it's not you'll be getting you'll be getting some good night yeah okay but we have like all the seaside stuff and all the cute stuff as well but we're we're gonna like take things slow like we're not gonna like rush into anything we're both older like you know we've got our own stuff going on so what we've said is like we'll just like rotate so like when he'll come down with Sons of Cup days we go up to Newcastle go to London yeah just keep it moving keep it interesting I agree yes there is a lot of people that come out and move in straight away

isn't there yeah is anyone else is anyone planning to do that yeah so I think Tash and Andrew are looking at houses already shut up

yeah no way where are they going to live oh my god that's amazing East London I think they're going

they broke London Londoners I think he went to my school I think really did he he's from Goonzy though

I know but I think he went to boarding school in Somerset yes he did he did go to boarding school actually i remember him saying that look at this okay but he's older that's so sweet they're moving in together i know how cute is it oh my god that's such a big move to buy a house together like i don't know if they're buying i don't know if they're buying maybe renting i love that they're doing that and she's nailed it she's got that ebay oh my gosh how amazing amazing she really killed it she had the love really lovely outfits in there

like there was some was there a versace dress that she wore that was like was it the yellow one i think so yeah there was some really cool outfit and i was like whoa that's like killing it yeah she is the one to like pull it off like do you know i mean you know what I mean? Any cool outfits out there, Tash. Tash is a girl. We would all go be like, Tash, have you got anything going on? Please, because my wardrobe is, I'm on my knees. I'm on my knees. Did you guys get outfits in there, or did you have to bring your own stuff?

No, we would get drops, but it was all, like, eBay stuff, pre-loved stuff, and everything else. So you really had to have an eye to put it together? Yeah, I had to have an eye to put it together. And some of it was really, really nice, though. So I'm more of, like, a cargoes and, like, tops kind of girl. So anything that came in like that, I was, like, shocker. And I was like, girls yeah I had to have an eye to put it together and some of it was really really nice though so I'm more of like a cargos and like tops kind of girl so anything that came like that I was like shocker and I was like give it to me yeah I was like you don't have a chance like this one's mine respectfully shocking and with all the couples you obviously like got on with all you were best friends with like all of them in there yeah was there a favorite couple

that you wanted to win yeah of course i wanted damia to win i was team damia all the way through like honestly they were really cute right from the beginning they had like that i kind of thought they were gonna win and take it because we had antigone on she wanted them yeah yeah you guys like a threesome in that yeah sometimes i would definitely third wheel and get on their nerves um but no them two together are honestly just insane they just bounce off

each other and the connection is like you can just feel it do you know what I mean I love saying this like when you can just feel it

and they're all just relaxed what about Luca and Gemma Luca and Gemma yeah those guys there's been some shade thrown on Luca recently

hasn't there well I think so what shade is this because honestly when I say I live in a bubble I literally don't come out of the bubble stay in the bubble in my bubble like keep me in my bubble no i i do think that's a wise decision to stay in the bubble yeah yeah there's too much going on you've got enough on your plate we'll just we'll drip for you do what you need to know i don't really know i feel like there's mixed reviews on him like i really like kim i'm gonna be honest

because I went away on holiday and I went through my own breakup I was like I was didn't watch any tv so I missed when Adam came in and so I missed like so much of like the end part oh I got like the dribs and drabs from Instagram like the main bits and stuff like that but I didn't watch the details so when people started to like say things about like luca like that weren't that positive i thought in the beginning people really loved it yeah him and jem are really good and when you see them together as well honestly they do not keep apart they are all over each other and it is really lovely to see they they are literally together the whole time so it is nice and he makes her happy and obviously we see how much of a web ip is that's the main thing yeah that's the main

thing and what does it matter what anybody else thinks right i so agree they're happy it must be so hard having such a microscope on you and your relationship like every tiny little thing also guys little announcement adam is downstairs how sweet he's come with so sweet what can you talk us through your day i'm so nervous yeah yeah okay so we've just done oh under the duvet this morning and we did that with dami india and andrew so that was really fun that's nice you have each other to do that yeah honestly i'm so glad when i said i was like so glad that i came out with him like honestly i would be lost without him he's also done it before yeah he is so like he is literally like holding my hand for it all what we got today page like

what you doing like well literally he's like even chat with like my management like probably looking at oh my god i know oh my god you are very lucky no i feel like the luckiest girl did you when he walked in were you did you all know who he was i was on honestly the only girl the only person in the village to not know who adam carlo was the girls were like page us adam carl's like girls who is adam carl's why don't why do you all know this and not me and they were like are you actually having me on and i was like no girls i'm serious and they're like he was on series four he was this big massive player he was causing all yeah he was series four apparently my god yeah that was what we are now series eight now

yeah that's probably that makes sense yeah i literally had no idea i watched that series what was he really like give me the actual because i've still not watched it i've watched it either was he that bad he's bad everyone's making out i he was quite bad i'm like what does he do as in like just because he hopped from girl to girl but like i think as a human he wasn't like an asshole like he didn't like argue and was horrible to them he just hopped from girl to girl like he'd make his mind up yeah he seems like he's changed a lot it only takes one to keep him exactly how did he ask you to be officially your girlfriend okay so the story we actually

have to tell people because it's not pg otherwise okay okay yeah so the story we'll go with a muted story a muted story the watered down version is we were just at home because we didn't we're not really the couple that want to do things like for the show for the camera sure anything like that like i'm so like under a rock it's unreal so he and he gets that as well which is really nice and we literally sat on the sofa again muted down version sat on the sofa watching netflix and he was just like um so you know like the whole exclusive thing i was like yeah he's like we're boyfriend and girlfriend now like didn't even ask me i love that there's nothing worse than someone being like oh

do you want to be my girlfriend do you know what i mean like i get just say it just yeah do you want to be my friend no not now i don't you know i'm also like when you're like in conversation with someone they go and they introduce you oh yeah this is my girlfriend and you're like stunning yes yeah yeah yeah like they're so confident they just say it without even asking yeah we've got a very muted down version i'm feeling we need your advice yeah so girls just write in really sweet dilemmas about problems either with girlfriends boyfriends okay that kind of thing and we just help okay so dilemma one hey melissa and sophie as a single guy for a guy as a single guy for a long time now i've loved the last episode about giving girls dating advice and you were talking about how guys

have lost confidence these days what are your dating tips with guys that have been out of the game for a while yeah this is definitely a guy one guy's perspective should we actually get from a girl's perspective from a girl that's single what i want just fucking come up to me i just want confidence yeah yeah stop being not arrogant fine line difference yeah there's a difference between cocky and confidence and like just know it please yeah just just and have some chat you've got to be a bit funny but not overly funny god we're making it no it's so hard i'm trying to imagine what i would want someone to do without it's just like everything gives you the ick it's just so politeness it's also like if you don't fancy someone no matter what they do they're gonna gross you out so yeah no people can grow on you do you think i'm not a grower i'm not a grower it's there i promise you it happens it happens my first

boyfriend at uni i got with him and then i ignored it i pretended everyone was like did you get with so and so and i was like no and then we ended up going out i kept just going back to him but he wasn't my type are you still with him now no no that says it all like a grower doesn't work i so agree a grower does not yeah okay maybe okay let's just give a solid piece of advice you see a girl out in the club or in a bar whatever yeah okay i want to know like look at what she's drinking get that drink from the bar walk over over, bought you a drink, babe. And then go from there because you don't even need a chat up like then.

Confidence, not cocky. Love that. Yeah. Do you know what I mean? Love that. Or another thing, when another boy

is like trying to flirt with you and you're a bit like, ugh. And they come in and save the day. And this boy comes and saves you and you're like,

fuck your fit. Right, so the advice is basically you've got to get some of your friends to go up and flirt with you. Some real adjusting. And then you come in as the hero and save the day yeah right we've got adam coming in to join us and help us out with this little tree lucky us thank you hey adam hello thanks for coming okay the dilemma is hey minister sophie as a single guy for a long time

now i loved the last episode about giving girls dating advice and you were talking about how guys have lost confidence these days what are your dating tips for guys that have been out of the dating game for a while so is he at a bar is he at something like that let's just let's create a scenario let's create a scenario it's not a club i feel like what you've got to do is you've got to save that night and shine normal so when she's getting chatted up by someone she doesn't want you've got to go in all guns blazing maybe bring a little drink over and then it's just all about the eye contact isn't it i'd always say that's literally all of us you know you know how to play

the game page page breaks at first every time i get get nervous too. I buckle every time. It's a confidence thing though. Even if you are nervous, I feel like you've just got to own it. So even if the boy is a little bit apprehensive, you just got to go for it, you know? I feel like none of us are blinking. We're all like, how long are you going to stare at me for?

Mustn't blink. Amazing. Right guys, you heard it from the one and only. So there you go. Some good advice. Thank you, Adam. Thanking you. I feel the one and only so there you go yeah some good advice thank you adam thanking you i feel like one of the girls now what are the key chat up lines come on give us some insight key chat up lines what did i use of you i don't actually i feel like i'm i try and play it a little bit too cool sometimes

people can see straight through it but you know i'm not one to like give major compliments at first i'm like oh you're all right you and i feel like when i say it like that with a little bit of a cheeky sort of smile i feel like they get the point more right you know yeah it's a bit full on to go it's a bit too full on you know yeah hello gorgeous what's that all about oh no no no no no no you know are you 12 texting on your motorola for the first time oh my god i've got it guys apparently there's a book called the game the game have you read it no are you sure so apparently there's this book and it's all about like psychologically how you can like get a girl to fall in love with you and it's like you give them like a weird compliment that's kind of like pulls them down a few pegs but it's like a weird compliment so you so it's like you kind of

do it like so you go your hair looks much better up so it's a compliment i actually did say so it's a compliment but it's also like a bit horrified that you know i mean and it just makes you think it makes you like crave their approval and it's like a weird thing so boys go and buy this book the thing for me is i think you know you're doing well as a boy if they're playing with their hair. If they're not playing with their hair, just walk out because you've not done anything right. Whenever I'm talking to you, I'm like this. I play with my hair the whole time.

If she's playing with her hair in front of anyone else, I'm gone. Adam, it's been a pleasure. Thank you so much. Off you pop, though, because this is girls only for the rest. FanDuel Casino's exclusive live dealer studio has your chance at the number one feeling, winning, which beats even the 27th best feeling, saying I do. Who wants this last parachute? I do. Enjoy the number one feeling,

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Dilemma two. Hey, beauties. I'm having such dilemma. I went out last weekend and got very very drunk and i can hardly remember anything i ended up getting with a boy that i knew my friend used to like and has got with in the past she said she drove past us together together and was also told that i told people not to tell her we were together i have no recollection of any of this and she is one of my best friends and it isn't something I would ever normally do. I feel awful and have apologised loads

but she won't speak to me. Do you have any advice on what to do? Well, she just liked him. She used to like him and she's got with him in the past. I think you've apologised, there's literally nothing else you can do. If she's not going to accept the apology

then that's her problem. Yeah, move on. It's only a kiss. Oh my God kiss oh my god is that what it was oh come on savage i think yeah you apologize you feel bad but like you can't keep going and apologize yeah let's just get over it now she needs to get over it as long as you're not going i mean i guess then if you go and like follow it up with that guy then you probably are putting an end to that friendship but if you don't then hopefully she'll just get over it yeah i feel like this sort of thing probably happens a lot when you're younger right yeah and also it's not that deep there's also it's not that deep and also when you've got like a friendship group like there's only so many people i know why was she driving fast and you were so drunk in the car they um there's only so many people like if you think about towns like obviously london there's

so many people to get with but like in certain towns most people just like it's a small group eventually you're gonna lap over with somebody yeah you know and at school like eventually like someone goes out with someone at x and it's just like... It does always hurt a little bit. It hurts. I mean, it probably hurts a bit, but I don't think it's necessary for her to be ignoring you. It's clearly a mistake. You were drunk. You haven't done anything that wrong, I don't think. And you've already apologised.

You made a mistake and you apologised. Yeah. Okay, dilemma three. Hi, guys. Huge fan of the podcast. If you don't mind, could this one stay anonymous? As they think i would just about die of embarrassment every of my friends found out i was asking this i'm not

someone that's had many sexual experiences but i'm not a virgin but don't feel very confident in that department as i don't often sleep around and never have been in a relationship the last time i really fancied a boy and we tried to sleep together and it didn't work and now i'm in an absolute worst headspace about the whole thing. And being in that position makes me feel a tad anxious. I'm definitely getting myself worked up about nothing, but can't seem to help it and feel so unsexy. Do you have any tips on being more sexually confident?

Thank you. Oh, right. I feel like the whole, it's not working. It doesn't work because it could have been him. He could have got flustered. That's what I'm thinking it is. Because us as women, we just lie there. There's nothing really that we have to do. man has to provide yeah we've got the easy way

yeah we actually do there's a lot of pressure on boys yes um well i'm we're assuming that it's the boy who had the problem but it could have been maybe you weren't feeling it i honestly would not beat yourself up about this at all i think probably because you haven't had that many experiences you're kind of freaking out like oh yeah overthinking it yeah wake yourself up before it even happens and then you're just not in the right frame of mind before it maybe have like a whine before it like ease yourself like let loose yeah everything is gone start with the lights off that always helps as well and then yeah you'll be fine I like the lights off idea lights off idea it always then yeah you'll be fine i like the lights off idea lights off idea it always helps i also think there's lights on is really hectic at the beginning

i'm like fucking turn the light off the lights on is really quite like into it i mean i think i'm ever really ready for the lights on oh yeah i have to pretend i like it i'm secretly like turn the fucking lights all right not even a dim light like honestly just put the lights off no you need a dim light i want nothing to do i don't even want to know if you're having sex stop it's so horrible so basically break all the electricity in your house and have a drink you'll be fine no but honestly i think a lot of people go through this at the beginning of like yeah 100 you know particularly if you've not stuck with a lot of people or whatever just even if you have and you say you've got a boyfriend

sometimes it just maybe won't work one time and like that's just it like it's not that deep like don't as you said don't overthink it because it's only going to make yourself freak out about the next time. It's just not necessary. Yeah, and just remember that so many people are like, he's probably feeling the same. He'll probably be feeling worse. Yeah, he'll probably be dead. Yeah, exactly.

He's going to take a dent to his ego. Yeah, that really would have. One last dilemma for the day. God, okay. We've missed three of these we have hey girls love the pod it's the high low of my wednesday morning oh so sweet i've started dating someone new for about two months and it's going really well at the weekend he told me that he loved me but i wasn't ready to say it back now every time he says bye i feel added pressure help what to do am i overthinking it yes like just because he says it first doesn't mean you

have to say it and like you shouldn't feel pressure for it i get it it is awkward when someone says that it's just dating as well two months but if you don't love them you can't say it if you don't mean it do you know what i mean i so i'm so over you definitely can't it would just i'm just trying to think of the shoes on the other foot i've had it i've had it where i've someone said it to me and i've not felt it but said it back and then it gave me the ick because i was like oh i don't feel this and we're both being like love you bye and i was like oh no i really just don't i i think page's advice is you've got to just go with your own time you've got to be true to yourself yeah like you said it will give you the ick if you start saying stuff that you don't mean like have you ever like said it like accidentally you get out of the car to someone and you are literally all the time you're

like oh my god i love you bye you're like oh my god sophie and i say it to every human being i go to we like go to our dentist we're like i love you yeah honestly to everyone i'm like love you bye and i'm like i don't love you but i'm just saying it and then when they say it back it's like oh god now we've really created this relationship i think it's fine saying love you bye but saying i'm in love with you is such a big thing i love you in a text to a boy is full on yeah that's a lot that's a lot yeah can i ask if um yeah has the album been dropped yet no we're not dropping any albums just yet i mean he definitely wants to drop it he just hasn't thrown a pair of balls just to do it oh god it's such an exciting time can you let us know when it happens yeah of course you'll be the

first ones to know you know when you stare at each other and you're like are you gonna fucking say it yeah i can tell that you want to say it just say it i will not break first or when they're like um i really really really like yeah or i'm falling and then they leave it like two weeks you're like well surely you just say it at this point it's a good way to ease it in i'm falling yeah it's cute it's very intense but it's also just not saying it's you're like what does that mean yeah i'd be like let's put the dots together it's such an exciting time of life i miss all that excitement i know you're on a really fun

like ride at the moment it's the best time soak it all in soak it all up give us some inside gas on you and adam since you've left the villa has he done anything that you've been a bit like like toilet situation anything like that how is that all going down honestly you know the fact that he's sitting like right there yeah i know it's quite annoying no it's fine do you know like the annoying thing is like he actually hasn't done anything that's like giving me the ick yeah we actually made a pact in the villa we were like right because it was the talent show night and i was like dreading it i was like we're not allowed to give each other the ick anymore like we're past this point yeah yeah you do get past some point where you just like you could literally do anything and it would happen i want to know about your dancing situation because you fucking was so good oh yeah you

smashed like did you prepare a talk to me about that because i would have died and you nailed it no do you know what it was right i had to have an ulterior ego her name is mila right and only mila can do this dancing and she's never coming out again i think me did you have a drink me yeah so the girls would like put their drinks down because you're only allowed one drink right and the girls would put their drinks down if i knew that heart rate challenge was coming i was just picking up the glass i was like sorry girls but i'm gonna need this more than you and i was just throwing it back i wouldn't know tomorrow sorry producer i would have needed the confidence Did you also like practice?

No How the hell do they get in there like even 10 minutes To just put a little routine together No not a routine you don't get to know your music beforehand This is what I was going to say the music And also it's the music that we hear the same as the music That you get played I have no idea because I haven't watched it back

And I'm like do you know what I mean No come on let's just address this Why was I why did I have to wear the wig Oh no I thought you looked so fit I thought it was good slow motion and i'm like oh do you know what i mean no come on let's just address this why was i why would i have to wear the wig oh no i thought you looked so fit i thought it was good i thought you looked honestly amazing halloween you've got to go like who is it who wears that white wig like yeah yeah like shakira or something yes with the like oh my gosh no that's that's your halloween outfit so it's quite a vibe actually wait so they gave you the outfits yeah yeah so they choose that tasha's was banging oh my god yeah it was hers and jemma's i absolutely loved as well

i know yours was my second fate i think tasha's than yours no what was that year where they gave that girl that god awful like outfit where she was like a mermaid oh my god just yeah i was like that is honestly like the meanest thing i've ever seen like that producer was not you know i i know charlie really well he was best friends with my ex at uni i went to uni with him his dance was blasted that was the only one that came across as awkward was it that awkward i promise you it was that awkward like us girls like come on please shit it does not need to be this long no it was cute because he really it was just you just talked forever to get around the girls i was just like

charlie we do not need this much it was the most awkward thing in my life but he really tried and i was i said to him i was like are you okay like actually like you need to hug after that like are you okay because you look traumatized we were all traumatized after it never mind him you've got to appreciate the effort yeah 100 have you seen everyone apart from the reunion like have you been meeting oh give us some guts in the reunion come on oh my gosh so that reunion um it went off with coco and summer oh Oh, this one went off with you? No, not with me. Have they not said anything about you or no?

Haven't they been, haven't, hasn't there been something said about you? Oh yeah, it has, but you know what? They've got to do what they've got to do, do you know what I mean? Right, they're trying to get it. So Coco actually, obviously she like dragged me a bit and then I came out on a Monday night

to the commercial party and I had flowers sent to my room from her and like a sorry note and everything so I was just like okay cool I really didn't think it was that deep anyway but cute thank you um and then obviously I've seen the bits with Summer but what it is with Summer like she'll just say how it is and yet I was standoffish with the girls at first like I'm not gonna be everyone's best friend and also they're coming in to steal the boys exactly what do you want me to do like roll out of the red carpet and kiss your ass as soon as you walk in like it's not my vibe sorry so it's not that i'm being a bitch i'm just keeping it real you're just not being

fake yeah yeah exactly um and yeah the whole thing with like me and dami and india honestly like me and india like day one's walked in together we literally get on so so well like best friends sort of thing anyway and everyone's just like oh my god the whole page and damning thing India I'm just like guys boys and girls can be friends grow up yeah like honestly please move on yeah that's just ridiculous yeah sorry but but everyone else seems yeah no okay well we've clarified that that's all a load of bullshit and the girls are just doing what they gotta do and you're just keeping it real yeah honestly but even summer like i've seen summer afterwards and be like is everything cool between us and she's like yeah there's no drama i'm like see it's all fine

i'm just not about any drama to be honest i'm just like no you say what you say cool you do you yeah um and one last thing before we've kept you far too long i'm sure i just want to know if you've got any like plans or anything you want to like do you have like a dream that you want to be doing or a dream that i want to be doing um honestly nothing too crazy but i know so i've said like when i come out i want to do something that is like true to me and like that i'm passionate about which is honestly I have the biggest like soft spot for elderly people I literally love them to pieces I think that's why I love my job so much I just get to see all like the nannies and the vampies everywhere so I've said that I definitely want to like you know at Christmas time you can

like go out with the elderly and you can like take them for dinners and stuff I kind of want to make that a thing like all through the year and like just bridge the gap between youngsters and the elderly and like you, get them involved, because some of them are so lonely and don't have family and stuff. I know, they're so sweet. And just get them more involved. Do you know what I mean? Paige, that is the sweetest thing I've ever...

I'm so here for that. I want to get involved, too. We'll get them on one of these. Try the wine, Doris. Yeah, I love it. I love that. I've also seen, weirdly, I don't know if you've ever seen it, there's this programme where they put people from, like,

what do you call them, nursing homes? Yeah. And then they put them with, like, toddlers and, like, eight-year-olds and five-year-olds. And it's so sweet and interesting, like, the dynamic between, like, how old and then how young. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it just brings both of them so much joy.

Yeah, exactly. And it's just so lovely. So we're going to try and do a bit of that hopefully i love that so nice before we go we rate our wine i don't think you're not gonna give it a rating i don't think we're gonna rate the let me try one more time and i can't taste any marinated in the house mine's marinated has it yeah mine literally smells like chili oh my god oh my god on my stick it's giving me cinema vibe yeah thoughts oh no no not for me it's also giving me a bit of a pepper vibe yeah well it is chili no but i mean like as in like a bell pepper like the big pepper oh yeah they are quite similar same sort of family why don't you mean i don't like it okay it's gonna be a strong three

i was gonna say three yeah i was giving that a one all day long really we're quite generous we try because i think the rose itself isn't that diet that bumps it up okay it's the the drink combination for me that's just one it's not giving three some will give us some tips maybe you're meant to put a bit of agave in or something um hey thank you so much for coming on the podcast it's been so fun and good luck with everything thank you so much for having me it's been lush bye Hey, you're a Canadian podcast listener, and that makes you important to us. We'd like to know more about you, what you think of this podcast, and the other podcasts you'd like to hear. So we put together a super brief survey we'd like you to fill out.

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