Wednesdays - Ep 74: The Walking Red Flag

Episode Date: September 13, 2022

Anyone else obsessed with the Don’t Worry Darling drama?! Today we are debriefing on all things Harry Styles and discussing more stolen vibrators, foursomes and much more xToday we are drinking a lovely white from our Wine 52 subscription- https://www.tannico.com/puglia-malvasia-bianca-igp-serralto-2021-coppi.html Melissa: 7Sophie: 7 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly. Melissa, are you a doctor? I want to be, but I'm not. I'm not a doctor either. And we're not psychologists. We're not. We're not experts'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts in anything in fact we just challenge all the shit so and we love giving you guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help right guys hello we're starting the podcast with a light and crisp,

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Tastes like honey and jasmine. That's delicious. What? Really? A really different, I really like that. That would be gorgeous with some ice in it.

I was going to say, it is a nice summer wine but we are officially up summer now we're both sat here and i heard these are normally we're in like nothing sitting in this room aren't we i don't think summer's over because it's still like mild i'm quite excited for the first time ever for winter oh i don't have that that's because she's all she's all hunkered down no you've got you could hunker down no are we not ready to hunker down hello guys what up dogs okay right we got diving in of course so much gossip on here i'm quite excited my friend bella was about to tell me some really juicy gossip about harry styles and

she just forgot conveniently and i'm just desperate to see it because there's all these memes going around like what's going on with him i don't know well he's been in that film with olivia wilde you know the one that she which she she's she directed at you right what do you know what i find mad is how famous harry styles is harry styles was on x factor yeah and he's now genuinely an icon like think about it's like where is? Where did she disappear off to? She's still kicking him out. Yeah, but not like Harry Styles. No one's quite made it. He will be like

Rod Stewart. Yeah, he'll go down in history. Our kids will know about Harry Styles. We'll probably have a poster about him. But did you see his interview with Chris Pine? Is it Chris Pine? I love Chris Pine. Oh is it the blonde the blonde long hair he's stunning what movie was he in princess diaries princess diaries and also um

the one with reese with a spoon in it and tom hardy was in it and they like fight over her and then another one yeah yeah oh my god i keep like watching i go through stages of watching movies by just watch like a group of movies from whoever. One actress. I do that with Jennifer Aniston. I always do that with Jennifer Aniston. I'm now on Wee Switherspoon.

Really? So tell me your choice. Sweet Home Alabama. So I can kiss you any time I want. I've never seen that. Best movie. When I had cigars, I had norovirus over the weekend.

Oh my God, how was that? Fucking terrible. Oh, I know. But I mean like how was that fucking terrible oh I know but I mean like how long did it last 24 hours no 48 I got it on Friday when you were Adam our videographer was at my house and I really didn't feel that oh yeah because you were meant to be doing your content I did do it all but I felt really dodged whilst doing it and I was like I was like pull it together safe but then literally the minute Adam left I was like my cleaner was there and i was like i'm going to be sick anyway i think weirdly that might have been i just don't know what happened i then felt fine on saturday went to a

party then in the night both jamie and i got it again and we were wiped out sunday and monday dreadful dreadful anyway my point was i watched sweet home alabama and we were wiped out Sunday and Monday. Dreadful. Dreadful. Anyway, my point was I watched Sweet Home Alabama. Fancy the man in that. Lock me down and call me Sally. Like, he's the dream. Well, I'm not giving it right this time. No, but you won't get it because he's quite rugged, looks a bit like Bradley Cooper,

but they're just so in love and not the one from... Sweet Home Alabama. Let me have a looky-looky. You're going to think of the one from Grey's Anatomy, but let me have a looky looky you're gonna think of the one from gray's anatomy but i'm not talking about him i'm talking about the rugged yeah yeah i mean what else has he been in nothing but he looks like matthew mcconaughey and bradley cooper yeah what a lovely combination no he has been in something oh my god no he's so familiar what another he's with us sh guys what the hell has he been in

anyway he like they fall in love i mean guys you probably watch it because it's like the oldest but and then they have babies they don't actually oh you just gotta watch it i want to watch tonight get someone to hunker down with what is this saying to me why did i say that she's ready to hunker down i don't know it feels like a saying it's like a wind it is a saying but i think we're using it the wrong no no hunkering down for the night it's lovely like you know if it's raining outside you're like oh let's hunker down i've never heard that word before in my life is hunker down a word yeah okay i'm gonna also just kick start this um gossip that we've got here so apparently olivia wilde and harry stars as we were talking about him have broken up do you reckon that's true 100 really because they haven't been

seen together have they yeah they didn't do anything together and they didn't do any interviews together so oh shizer yeah i thought that was going to be in it for the long i heard there was rumors that she was pregnant stop there's always rumors though isn't there to be fair you're right but you never know what happened i just feel like they would have definitely done unless they're trying to do like a publicity stunt people watch a movie i don't know oh people do do that they do do that but what i mostly but like him and chris pine have some beef like no there's that i mean where he like throws a goat on him and then like there's just loads of me oh my god i need to like find out all this gossip i live for this stuff we're gonna get in a deep hole of this i do you know why i think it's we don't know too much about it because we're not

on tiktok and i think that is that we miss out on a lot of stuff i know but we are on tiktok our podcast is but melissa and i try and refrain from being personally i think i i don't need another platform to be so engrossed in normally i think when you do it as a job it's like hard to get away scroll anymore i tried from like scrolling scrolling scrolling you can get like repetitive strain it's like i like chanda when he plays out yeah his hands like the claw yeah it's actually really quite serious to be fair i do kind of have that sometimes like an achy yeah yeah yeah i think that's more from our bursa kind of god i haven't climbed guys i haven't worked out you have in some form wait what the fuck i slipped out okay all right right what we must talk about is kim kard two coming out. Is it not this month?

I think it's the 14th of September. Oh my God, I'm so excited. I dropped them. I can't. I am so excited for that. That's what we can hunker down with. Yeah, yeah, we can hunker down to the new Kardashians. Okay, so Pete apparently and Kim have been edited out of the advert.

That upsets me. Like, give us the lowdown. There must be a lot of drama if they've been edited out of the advert. This is big. Maybe they've been edited out because it's just weird because they're not together and they were together in the advert. But we still will find out about what happened. Hopefully from watching it. Yeah, I agree.

Also, someone talked to me about Kanye. What? What? What is going on? Why? Is something going on with him again? There's always something going on about him. I don't know if he talks in code. I just can't understand him is every am i missing out

like melissa he literally is like gap talk to me serena williams and the next thing he's like none of it makes sense really and he's getting fascinating 16 160 million likes and i'm like why are you liking this do you understand what he's saying what are you talking about his instagram is this yeah honestly i don't follow i don't see you um i mean i do actually like them all too because i'm just so fascinated i couldn't unfollow him if i tried sometimes if i'm just bored i'll just have to quick stalk really because he's that fascinating i try and encode it okay i will give that a look and uh fascinating read over this evening right so this beck and peltz thing

obviously we do you remember he said nicola had a weird thing with victoria no i don't know any of they so they had a fight or something happened yeah they had a feud and then now when i don't like recently like within the last like few weeks after the wedding and apparently victoria's pissed off because nicola didn't include her in any of the plans something like that for the wedding yeah yeah yeah big big drama anyway he's come out and been like i'm gonna back my wife no matter what it's that statement he's officially made and said publicly because the beckhams having a family feud is a big deal here we go online interactions became minimal off minimal after the wedding

nicola didn't share a single wedding photo of brooklyn's relatives no on instagram and even excluded them from the nine picture carousel that she posted along with the captain family is everything to me that's the statement oh god wow well that is a statement it was claimed the source of the tension between the two women was not was nicola not allowing victoria to sign her wedding dress instead instead opting for a valentino couture account i mean that's a bit petty of victoria if she's getting pissed off there for that yeah i agree but also like why wouldn't nicola do that i mean it's quite a nice gesture and also victoria's clothes are lovely and actually her dress was kind of you know a line and minimalistic victoria beckham i do agree and also she could have just fucking

got something like valentino to design and put it like do you know what i mean like or at least like had victoria like involved in it also just post a picture of their family like that's your family now like you're one big i really can't bear brides who like come in and then just steal the heart yeah yeah just steal the boy away they always say like a man is a child a boy is a child what's the first i don't know a boy is a child until he's a boy is a son until he's married and then he's a wife life oh i don't know that makes sense okay so a boy a man is a son no a boy is a son until he's married and then he's a husband no what's the saying, guys?

Anywho, I know what you're trying to say. You guys know what I mean. I know what you're trying to say. Basically, us bitches steal the men from the wife. Us bad bitches. I just think it's so sad. Like, honestly, when I have a kid and then, like, their wife tries to steal them from me. Basically, essentially, the mum's meant to be, like, the child's son, the favourite person in the world until they get married and then the wife becomes

the most important woman in their life no, if I'm a mum I'm going to be a bit of a stressful mum that's what you're doing to Jamie, poor Penny I'm not stealing him, he's still mummy's boy no one needs to worry about that yeah, love a good mummy's boy don't we no, no we don't

as those words came out of my mouth just threw up a bit there all right okay we've had a listener as well should i read out yeah go on in regards to the friend stealing the vibrator story the same thing happened to me i had a vibrating bullet and my friend stayed over every other weekend months go by and i hadn't hadn't used it until I went to get it out of my drawer and it was gone. What the hell is going on with people? I genuinely thought I misplaced it or thought it was lost under my bed. It wasn't until I was helping said friend move house. When I was helping organize her wardrobe into baskets, I found it.

She snatched the basket off me. I just started. i just stared at her my mouth was on the floor she didn't utter a word about it and was like that's mine and i was like that's mine question mark i tried to take the basket back off her oh my god this is like they're having a full-on cat fight but she but she got up and left the room who does that i wish she stole my purse honestly my vibrator absolutely deceased me. The memory randomly pops into my head and makes me feel sick.

We don't speak anymore. It makes me sad sometimes because we were best friends for 10 years, but that is unhinged behavior. I'm sorry. What's going on with these girls? There's some fucking horny girls out here. Yeah, but it's really not that difficult

to buy your own one. Just pop into Ann Summers or Boots. Or just if you're so desperate, these girls i don't there's some fucking horny guys i i but it's really not that difficult to buy your own one like just pop into on summers or like boots or just like if you're so desperate like and you're that road to stay one ask shower head i mean um hot tub sophie loves when i was younger guys that makes it no matter when she's like three years old I used to always sit on the hot tub vibrating my mom used to be like come on away from me now and I'd be like no I have no idea what it was I used to honestly like swimming pools like swim and be like I didn't even know she said what's this well, it's this wonderful feeling. And you're all literally so young. She's not three, you're like seven. Mate, I was young.

God, it's just fascinating, isn't it? Fascinating. I wonder when like boys start like being like, ooh, this feels nice. I wonder when they can figure it out. It's funny, isn't it? When you first start having, I guess, sexual thoughts or whatever,

but you're not educated on it, but like your body has a weird instinct that it knows what to do it's so strange i was trying to think back to when i first i guess thought that there was like something that i wanted to do but like i didn't know what it was do you know i started from a young age because i was i started from young age not like that but i was introduced to it anyway moving on did you know that boys don't have cum for ages like they wank and no cum comes out until puberty i had no idea i thought that makes sense because they create it like as it like it's made as it goes right so like how unsatisfying but do they wank before

the cum comes or do they only start i don't't know. We need to ask a boy these questions. I think I asked Jamie and he was like, it's quite exciting when it first comes. I think for a while you just, and it's quite unsatisfying. Well, yeah, yeah, yeah, nothing comes out. But you still do do that maybe. Do they still have an orgasm if there's no cum? No, I don't think so. It's just quite unsatisfying. That surely can't happen because you'd be walking around all day like.

That sucks. Yeah, that can't happen, surely'd be walking around all day like that sucks yeah that can't happen sure poor poor boys fanduel casino's exclusive live dealer studio has your chance at the number one feeling winning which beats even the 27th best feeling saying i do who wants this last parachute i do enjoy the number one feeling winning in an exciting live dealer studio, exclusively on FanDuel Casino, where winning is undefeated. 19 plus and physically located in Ontario. Gambling problem?

Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly. Dilemma. Moving on to dilemmas okay dilemma one hi girls love the pod my dilemma is that recently me and my boyfriend of eight years have gotten close to a few of our couple friends that i've recently got together one couple over in their honeymoon phase and are absolutely sex crazy one night me and the other girlfriend got drunk and sent some tease pics to our boys on snap as they were on holiday together they loved it and it's just a bit of fun nothing too explicit since the other guy has suggested to my boyfriend we get drunk and have a four-star i knew this was coming i immediately laughed it off but my boyfriend

has now mentioned it a few times and to try to convince me it would be fun no the more he brings it up i'm starting to feel a bit sad that he is so up for it does he fancy the girl and now the couple does he want to have sex with her is our sex not good enough anymore do i go along with it to keep him happy or do i tell him how i feel how i feel i'm scared that what if they want to do it again or if it ruins our friendship as couples. Thank you so much. Not for me. Not for me at all. I'm too like possessive. So like, I don't want anyone else looking at my man and I don't want any other man or girl

coming close to me looking at me. No offense, that's like us. The whole thing is just... I'd rather die than see you having sex. I just can't even comprehend that stuff in my head. I've told a story about like two couples that have like had a foursome on this podcast before, right? it's something yeah yeah it just can't even comprehend that stuff in my head i know i told i've told a story about like two couples that have like had a foursome on this podcast before right two like good friends and like i'm like how can those blokes look each other in the eye

i think it's the girls i don't know why um it's not for me i just think you'd be completely honest but i wouldn't think think about it this way your friend's boyfriend also wants to have a foursome with you so don't be like oh it's all because of the other girl yeah and they both the boys do they're just horny fuckers yeah i also don't think it's that not unusual like i think foursomes and stuff like that people do them more than we think and they just don't tell anyone yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't think too deeply into it it's just if it's not for you which is not for me just put your foot down just be like no sorry see you later next conversation i do i do like understand how you're feeling though it would make me feel a bit like why do you want to do it so badly that would really upset me like imagine

jamie like banging on i would just be a bit icked out oh my god can you not yeah but it would it would make me feel slightly inadequate so i understand what you're feeling from that point of view i think you need to be honest with him about everything. Yeah, definitely. But also remind yourself that the other dude is wanting to have a foursome. Sex with you. So it's kind of both ways. Yeah.

The other girl's probably feeling the same thing. I reckon that your boyfriend probably just wants to try and have a foursome. Like, he just thinks it's quite funny and, like, interesting. And probably boys like that shit. Ugh, boys are gross. Don't ever be pressured into doing something like that. No, but I'm slandering this. Because I know a lot of, like, each their own whatever.

But, like, I'm so with this girl on this. Oh, God, same. So with you. I hope that was helpful. I think it is. Just, you've got to be completely honest. Put your foot down. And by no circumstances get pressured into doing this

yeah don't do it to make him happy if you don't want to do it no bad idea okay dilemma two i have a dilemma i have a friend that i really enjoy spending time with however i don't like her boyfriend at all he's not nice to me speaks down to me and is quite controlling of my friend she's really changed since being with him and i'm not sure i like the person she's becoming which is really sad and upset me she doesn't invite me to things as much anymore or speak to me like she used to and when i do see her it just feels awkward this is so sad i feel like this happens a lot with boyfriends i do have other friends but not many but my boyfriend has been so supportive which is a blessing my my friend's boyfriend has cheated on her many times and she always came to me for advice i told her

how i feel but she just went back to him each time what do i do i want to be supportive but equally i'm just getting more and more sad i will he obviously doesn't like you because he knows that you know what he's done and he's ashamed so he doesn't sound like a nice human and he wants to separate you guys because you obviously don't think she should be she can do better which sounds like she can i also just don't think he sounds like a nice solid bloke i my advice is i think in relationships it's really hard ultimately you end up giving your advice because they're your friend but you always end up being the one who gets fucked over i think i so agree with that

statement they love like it's sometimes just stronger or sexual attraction whatever and they end up getting together going back together and then they're like oh it's awkward you either know too much you've said too much yeah so i think you've got to just keep your nose out of it even though you're doing the right thing and i would do the same and wait for her to just come to her senses and maybe just take a bit of it love is blind at the end of the day and i feel like a lot of girls get so blinded by like their boyfriend you know and he sounds like if he talks down to you and stuff like that that's just horrible she'll get bored of that because he probably does the same thing to her and if he's

cheating on her all the time like she'll get pushed to a point where she just leaves him and then hopefully you guys will go back to being the same friend i feel like this is just a part of growing up like a lot of people go through this unfortunately there's just literally nothing you can do other than take a step back like whatever you do if you were to go to her and be like express your feelings she'll tell him. Oh yeah, it might make it worse. Yeah, you've got to just, you think how lucky you are. You've got a lovely boyfriend. She's the one in the shitty position.

Exactly. And just take a step back and sort of wait for her to come back to you, I guess. And you haven't done anything wrong. Yeah. You're doing the right thing. Dilemma three. Hi girls, just wanted to write in after listening to the podcast from today after melissa opened up about her breakup a month ago i ended my relationship of five years we own a

house together and we have very integrated lives i'm 25 years old and it's been the hardest decision i've had to make because it changes your whole outlook and future thinking for your life and what you think will happen who you think you'll have children with but I think life is too short and it's so important to go with gut feeling if you have one it's really difficult and I'm definitely still having days of doubt about my decision and it's really hard not to reach out to my ex-partner Melissa do you find you're having that too thank you girls so much love listening to your part I think so going through a breakup is a grieving process so like you only remember good things and you almost you I've said this before you lose your identity right when you break up with somebody so like you're like who am I I was always a part of this like pair and now I'm just

like this wandering person by myself and it the whole thing is like very strange so it's very easy to just kind of like retreat back and I definitely had so many weak moments like in the first two weeks yeah three weeks which were really hard for me um and then you just kind of I promise you you'll wake up one day and you'll just be like oof done you just do and then you just stop wanting to do it and then I know that this is also harder because your lives are very integrated but like ignorance is bliss like don't even the moment you catch yourself thinking about them, thinking about the memories, just switch it off and just be like new memories.

And you have to create new things all the time. And then those memories are more significant than the past ones that you've had with your past partner or whatever. Yeah. It's so normal to feel weak and like to just try and cool them. And like, it's like, it's also a selfish thing, right? So like you're craving them and that you're like oh that'll make me feel better they'll just make me feel better even though it's the wrong thing to do it's a quick fix and it's selfish but like i've done it yeah and also i would unfollow on instagram yeah it's hard because they've got the house

i think once this transitional period of when you've like sold the house and like your lives aren't so integrated it's perhaps because maybe they've all the same friends but you know what you're still so flipping young you're my age yeah it's so fine you know i know what you think i know it's like a it is a scary thing because i'm like i guess i'm watching also a lot of my friends like sophie obviously is my best friend in the world and she's getting married so i'm like it kind of like puts you in a like a ah fuck i don't have that person you know so like it's a panic but i think you've made this decision for a reason and i think it's fine to have weak moments like everyone has the weak moments but you just got to keep powering through and then eventually it will all just drop away like all those feelings will just drop away

and then you'll be excited about new things again like turn it into excitement about something new yeah someone new someone new new butterflies like learning all about a new person like having new experiences with them like it will happen for you i promise or even like getting into a new hobby start going to the gym yeah get into a new podcast i started all new things with you didn't i so we started doing pilates together that was new cold showers have cold showers that will help you in the morning yeah why don't you that kicks I don't but we do cry a bit or kicks yeah I feel like that's probably I do I do more walks you walk a lot and I'm just new people yeah lovely dilemma four hey girls I love your podcast so much wondered if you can help so around eight months ago i met

this guy through mutual friends we started speaking and started meeting up every other every day after work this went on for about one or two months it was very flirty he seemed like the perfect guy turns out he has a girlfriend who he's been with for quite a few years we still talk every day but stopped meeting up because then i was seeing someone and didn't have time but now i have ended up getting a job in the same place he works as i really wanted to get into that career so he helped me now we talk every day and it's very flirty he seems to make jealous comments if he sees me speaking to other people he said he's not happy in his relationship but he said that six months ago and they are still together and i can't see them breaking up this is a red flag i can see myself becoming more and more attached and i can't just cut ties off as of work because they work together

right and now he's invited me out for work drinks and i'm not sure how to handle it as we get on so well as friends but we don't talk about his girlfriend a lot i've also noticed he seems to be quite friendly with a lot of girls but i can't help enjoying our friendship when i've tried to stop talking to him before he texts me all the time if i don't reply what do i do this is a red red red flag classic classic arsehole yeah see ya See ya. Get rid. This is just a no-go saying. He's just got you hook, line and sunken. And I don't think you're the only one. That sounds a bit...

Yeah, don't be fooled. He's messaging loads of girls. He only likes you when you don't message him back. He's got a girlfriend. He will never break up with her. So ultimately, you're just hurting yourself. I so agree. Like, why?

Also, give a fuck if he works with you sounds like a piece of shit yeah just enjoy the friendship and that be it and you draw the line then you're not no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no yeah but if they're they're going like it sounds like she would then like almost make her life you would be missing out on fun stuff with other colleagues oh don't go one-on-one but if he's inviting you out or there's loads of other people there and someone invites you out sure don't not go just because he's there like make a big deal out of it just just say to yourself this is not going anywhere obviously he's got a girlfriend he sounds like he does

all this flirting stuff with a lot of girls and if he tries to have a silly flirty conversation with you shoot it down straight away be like look i'm fine to be your work colleague and for us to have some sort of a friendship in the workplace but that's it he'll try to get with us so much well you have to just be strong and then just be like i don't fancy you but i don't find you attractive say stuff like that yeah but he'll be then in love with her oh god so what you need to do just do that because it's quite nice he won't be in love with you because it doesn't sound like this bloke falls in love he's got a girlfriend he's been with forever and he's doing all this oh my god i literally can't stand i can't stand him i hate him he's been with forever and he's doing all this. Oh my God, I literally can't stand this boy. I can't stand him.

I hate him. He's gross. Get the ick already. He makes my skin. Yeah, I hate him. What an arsehole. Sick shit. Actual arsehole.

No, it makes me sick. We need to cut this boy out of our lives. Also, I have an offence. You're better than this. Oh, yeah. Don't be being like this to another girl. You wouldn't like this being done to you, would you? We don't approve

at all he's a red flag walking red flag walking red flag in the pits in the pits the return of the single diaries it's back single diaries is back melissa update update on orange okay oh let's just say there's some more orange wine being drunk it's all going it's all going in a direction that i didn't really expect to be honest with you and i'm a little bit confused in my own head but it's all good high fun gosh you're such a relationship girl aren't you what oh no i had another date oh did you i had that date after oh yeah i had the other date no i feel bad because i think you're gonna say something mean i feel no no it was a lovely day i honestly had a really good time but like i just don't like it wasn't that vibe for me but i've i've been very lucky i feel like i've had really fun dates

none of them have been a disaster it was was lovely. Really, really fun. Sweet boy. That was literally this time last week. It was. This time a week ago. Christ. Christ, a lot's happened in that week. A lot's happened in a week. Okay, Bride of Bridezilla.

We're bloody meant to be doing a statin and Jamie's just like literally not getting on with it. And I also saw his best man at the weekend and they did not seem like they were doing a stand. Uh-oh. So I'm like, well, what's happening? I need an answer one way or the other. Also, we need to bloody plan your hen do

if we're not doing a stand. Exactly, that's the point. So can we please have an answer by the end of today? Yeah. End of day today. Shall I give you the best man's number and you can like push for an answer? No.

Because Jane's not going to do it. Let your sister do it with that. She's the major, isn't it? Poor her, having to try and get an answer because jane's not gonna do it let your sister deal with that she's the maiden on it poor her having to try and get an answer i just don't i personally think stan's great idea but maybe we do just do a hen actually back to the drawing board right okay we'll come back to you guys with that i'll i'll give you an update i'll press on with that press on my worst saying ever that wine was delicious to me it tastes of honeysuckle

and sweet sweet jasmine lovely yeah I like it okay I'm going to rate it seven I'm going to rate that a seven because it's actually

a really unique wine and it's a lovely bottle the bottle's really nice it's very Italian it's a cool like mermaid on the front okay we love you guys

we're going to love you and Nivi. Promise me we will have more energy next week. I think we've had plenty of energy. I haven't. I could just feel it. I can feel the tiredness within me. So next week I'm going to bring it. Okay?

No, you brought it this week, honey. Love you. Okay, love you. Bye. We'll be right back. I do. Enjoy the number one feeling, winning, in an exciting live dealer studio, exclusively on FanDuel Casino, where winning is undefeated. 19 plus and physically located in Ontario. Gambling problem?

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