Wednesdays - Ep 83: My bf has a secret insta account!

Episode Date: November 16, 2022

It’s our final episode before we're reunited and it's a goodie! We’re debriefing on the Selina Gomez documentary, planning our dream celebrity dinner parties and of course, catching up with ALL of your dilemmas- including more weird sexting stories!!This week Sophie is sipping on some delicious English wine from the Boloney wine estate- https://bolneywineestate.com/product/bolney-bubblySophie Rating: 8/10 xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly. Melissa, are you a doctor? I want to be, but I'm not. I'm not a doctor either. And we're not psychologists. We're not. We're not experts'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts in anything in fact we just chatted all the shit so and we love giving you guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help hey guys hello lovely what are we calling you tiny wh whinies? Is that,

is that the name? Hello tiny whinies. Yeah. We're coming from across the world, but we've only got one more week after this from across the world. And then we're back together. And boy, I can't wait.

Sophie's trying to convince me to come home early and I'm quite tempted. I'm done with it now. I'm over it. Get me home. Like I just, I need my, I need my pals. I need my routine. You know what I mean? I just I need my I need my pals I need my routine you know what I

mean I just yeah I need you back it's really felt like a lot's missing in my life right now it's not it's not fun to be fair me too and all of our gossip's so out of kilter but we're gonna just make up for it on here so out of kilter everything feels wonky it does my days are not the same horrible there's a lot there's a big hole in my heart but we are coming to you guys and we're drinking a wine and it's called bolney wine estate and it's an english wine it's an english sparkling wine and we're you know we're trying to get into the english sparkling wines and it's delicious what are you drinking a full fat coke so i'm having a full fat coke there's a lovely glass of red waiting for me downstairs before we head out for dinner.

You guys have been drinking a lot of red. Is that like a barley thing? No, I just think we all fancy it. And you know what? Because I think it rains quite a lot and it gets dark quite early. It's just that you're ready for the coziness. You have so much sun in the day. I've just been drinking beer and red wine the whole time.

Stop it. Yeah. That's gorgeous. No cocktails? No. But you know me, I'm not really a cocktail kind of gal I'm just not what red wine have you been drinking I think it's I think it's like an Australian one okay couldn't tell you which one Ollie Ollie and Gareth buy them all

and they're obviously like quite good with their wine so they just stock up that stock up that wine store and it's just constantly full delicious yeah I can't get over the fact you've only been drinking beer and wine bintang yeah is that what's cool yeah bintangs nice yeah lovely boozing a lot or not really no it's not been like that heavy but I guess because we're here for quite a long time we've had to like pace ourselves yeah and you know what I'm at the age where I'm like I'm not that obsessed with going out and going huge no I'm love lovely couple drinks at dinner bedtime my midnight midnight I mean I'm so here for it I couldn't agree more so we've not had any crazy nights out yet no and you haven't either have you god I've been so tame Melissa's gotten I've been I've

literally not gone out the house yeah I know it's because i'm i'm your only farm friend me and reaves go and save you just hibernate i've literally hibernated it's been so nice i feel very healthy and fresh do you i have had like drinks at dinners but again no i've not got drunk since you've gone perfect that's actually wild so i'll be ready for when you come back all right because guys i'm the day i land we've got a dinner booked we've got a late lunch i like got it in the diary sent her a calendar right can't fucking wait right lovely there's something that we have to discuss immediately yeah go on i haven't i haven't seen the selena gamers documentary but apparently we were talking about this this morning so apparently she doesn't mention her best friend that donated the kidney to

her no i didn't even know that i didn't even know that she hasn't even mentioned it once they were talking about it all this morning i was like i'm so shocked okay so two things yeah well loads of things i it's so intense and i feel so sorry for her and it's just so sad like she's ill like she's so sad in the eyes like it's horrible to what i like it's so brave of her but it's just really scary i think to watch and i think it's really good that she's done it because you know it draws attention all these things and like very brave but that's really weird is maybe like the friend didn't want to get mentioned because it just I don't feel like she's a bitch she's not the type of girl to do that and it's her best friend for like years and years and years and it was probably decided between the two of them that it's best it would have been at the forefront of her mind to have mentioned it surely but she was probably

also thinking you know this documentary is about me and my health it's not about my friend being noble and donating me a kidney maybe that was what they decided it wouldn't it would distract from the real problem which was her talking about her bipolar I don't know I haven't watched it but I don't know yeah I hear you I feel like it has to be something to do with that because I just don't feel like she would do that. You know, I'm really intrigued just to see what, because one of her best friends does feature in it a lot and I wonder whether it was her, but I don't know.

Oh, she's got dark hair. No, it was a blonde. And dark eyes, big lips. Maybe it's her cousin. The best friend was on I'm a Pregnant Teenager or Teenager and Pregnant, whatever. Oh. The one that donated the kidney. She's an actress. She used to be quite big back in the day oh hello okay well that

that you definitely need to watch it it's really incredible but like be warned like it is intense heavy it's heavy um and rats got a new podcast out guys oh i sent it to jamie did you did you share as soon as she sent she sent out like the like the teaser for it or the advert whatever and i forwarded it to jamie like thoughts what do you think have you not listened i need to listen i haven't listened but i've listened to sort of like the concept behind it and like she's sort of doing three different streams so the first one is like she's going to have guests on they're going to talk about topics whatever then the second sort of one that she's going to do episode is going to be like a question so she will be by herself discussing a question and discussing like the avenues and like possibilities of this question and then the third one's going to be

subscription based only so you have to be subscribing to her podcast and paying monthly in order to listen to this one particular episode that she's putting out every week or every month and that's going to be her answering her listeners questions quite clever quite lucrative way of doing it very lucrative so she's getting in all the bits and bobs from that one i find her quite interesting if if you said to me who famous people who would you think would be a great time on a night out she would not be somebody i'd be inviting oh no she would not be on my dinner table no no i prefer someone like a bit more like do you know who i think would be give me blake lovey give me so great but also like someone like fucking rachel bilson jokes so funny oh courtney co, so funny. Courtney Cox, so funny.

Like these people who just don't take... Eva Longoria, hilarious. Oh, I so agree. You know what? Actually, give me Victoria Beckham. Oh, yeah. Apparently she loves a good tequila on the rocks. I can just imagine her being a laugh.

Same, same, same. So many people that we'd have. Okay, Lola asked being like, yeah, we've written about her. And Rat's like, who the fuck are you okay we have some lovely listener emails i think this is just one listening actually hey love the pod cry with laughter every time i drive listening to it just had to share this i've been talking to this boy recently and he keeps trying to send me sexy voice notes

saying who's your daddy now he's a good girl no he's a good girl i have no idea how to respond it just makes me think of my dad help such a turn off no no oh my god not the voice notes no you've got to tell him you've you've got to tell sorry no no i'm just imagining playing a voice note walking down the street or like me sat at breakfast with you and then, who's your daddy? You were like... No, sorry. Imagine I'm texting this boy and I play it out loud and it's just, who's your daddy?

You're a good girl. No, no. You know what I'm imagining? Have you seen the Inspired Unemployed, that video, and you say, who's your daddy? Who's a good girl? No. And they like say it.

You always talk like a baby voice. That's all I can imagine. Oh my God, that's death.'s death you're gonna have to tell him what are you replying i know this isn't a dilemma but you gotta tell him oh shit no i can't i would just reply please stop this immediately you must i would say you must stop with these voice notes i would just be blunt this has got to stop it's not sexy mate I've got a lovely relationship with my dad and it makes me think of him when you say it and then it makes me not fancy you stop if he said who's your daddy I'd be like Patrick Caboo not you yeah yeah yeah oh this whole daddy thing we once did that we we asked everyone didn't we we did it like what the weirdest thing you've ever been like called in the bedroom. So many people say daddy.

Like it's a common theme here. Yeah, like daddy. Do you like that daddy? Ooh, yeah, daddy. I love that. No. Sorry, but you can't think about it without actually impersonating it. Because it's just like I'm trying to get my head around how it's sexy.

I can't say it in my own voice. No, not me. Like daddy. No, no. No. needing it because it's just like i'm trying to get my head around how it's sexy i can't say it in my own voice yeah like daddy no no no so many thoughts so many questions i i really think you've got to like bite the bullet be like no no make a joke out of it i wouldn't even care if i was embarrassing him because he needs to stop you're doing him a favor he cannot continue with this it is not okay i agree i know you haven't asked for our opinion on it but i'm gonna give we need to give it anyway on this because this is quite a severe topic i just on this this um saying weird things jamie and i were on the moped the other day and we were like a crossroads and this guy drives up to us winds his window down we're so close and he looks me straight in the eye and goes meow meow meow and i went what like i was

so scared i was like what's that man doing and then i realized he must listen to the podcast and as he drove away he was going yeah and i was like oh that's that's funny that's quite but he did it so deadpan spit stared me straight in the eye and was like meow meow meow wow i bet he's been waiting his whole life for that moment he's gone i can't wait to bump into sophie habu and jamie lang so i can meow in her face and freak her out fucking terrified me right lol okay we've got somebody has written another email i'm gonna read it with a little problem i'm really bad at flirting i simply cannot do it and it's costing me an awful lot of grief since it means I cannot meet anyone romantically ever. I used to be so much better but I don't know what I was doing differently.

It might be because more of my friends were single so on nights out we would all mingle and they'd do half the job for me. But now on nights out I will still have loads of fun and talk to boys but it's always just friendly. I think my biggest problem is being scared that I'm looking desperate or getting rejected. Any tips on breaching that gap between funny banter into romance without being too obvious or embarrassing myself? Right. I stare more on the side to, not that I would say I'm funny, but I stare more on the side to banter. Like I'm more rude to a boy, but then you touch them to make them know you're flirting. The tactileness. So like.

Looking into their eyes, looking into their lips, giving them the vibe that you might want to make them know you're flirting the tactileness so like looking into their eyes looking into their lips giving them the vibe that you might want to kiss them speak slowly as well this is another mistake I think girls have when they just talk if you're not that's like you're on high alert and it comes across as desperate to me if someone speaks quickly to me and it just like annoys me if you speak slowly it's just a bit more like sensual do you know what I mean like and it's just a bit more romantic talking slowly like ha ha ha touch them look at their lips just bits and bobs like that I think definitely don't talk too fast because it looks like you're nervous you want to look like you're in control yeah before you go into that situation like if you're overthinking it just breathe just take a breath

and you're totally fine I think being funny and like having banter with boys is flirty you know I always say it to Jamie it's the boys who whisper that get me the whisperers you can only be a whisperer if you're like six foot four though yeah you gotta be tall to be a whisperer sorry everyone sorry short boys sorry but that's always a great thing but that's more for a boy okay for a girl it's always I whisper too to boys because whenever you're in a great thing but that's more for a boy okay for a girl it's always i whisper too to boys because whenever you're in a club sorry i am engaged and getting married but don't try and stop me oh my god here she comes i'm joking here she comes you know what you do sophie's whispering whispering whispering away to a boy i was dating and then we come back from this night out and she's like yeah the whisper

jamie you just don't have the whisper it was me who was listening by the way jamie and i i'm very very loyal but this was jake melissa was i was better i was better than him it was very loud we all appreciate it was like 400 feet tall so i had to whisper in his ear we bent down to like yeah yeah you know what it's it's sort of like the come down here let me let me whisper in your ear kind of like you've got you're in a club take that your whisk you've got to go close so whisper and yeah and touch them like don't be afraid to put a hand on the leg or a hand wherever you want to or you, you know, I'm just a really tactile person anyway, although Jamie doesn't think I am. I am.

I just don't like to cuddle people 400 times a day. But I like to always be touching people. Same. So I think just let yourself touch people. English people are too, like, don't touch. Prude. Yeah, we are a bit. Let's just, like, be friends.

Just let loose and just do it and make sure your hair always smells nice because like when you're whispering whispering whispering your hair needs to smell nice oh yeah my biggest fear is like you know us girls we can't wash our hair every day but like my biggest fear is a boy because they're taller than you when they hug you and your hair's like from the gym and i oh a bit greasy it's like four days old grease smell like hair smell the oil do you remember i bumped into you and a boy once and on the street it was actually toby i think back in the day yeah and i had just come out of the gym and he's obviously a lot taller than me and he hugged me and his head was like right on my nose and i messaged him and it's like i'm

mortified because my hair must have stank like there's nothing worse need clean fresh air no he would not have spat a thing oh right i think we dive into the dilemmas fanduel casinos exclusive live dealer studio has your chance at the number one feeling winning which beats even the 27th best feeling, saying I do. Who wants this last parachute? I do. Enjoy the number one feeling, winning, in an exciting live dealer studio, exclusively on FanDuel Casino, where winning is undefeated. 19 plus and physically located in Ontario.

Gambling problem? Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Please play responsibly hey guys love the pod i've been in a happy relationship for two and a half years i'm 25 and he's 31 recently i felt a real shift and can feel something's not right in my previous relationships i've always got a bit bored around the two and a half three year mark oh my god ended up cheating oh wait hold on is that normal getting bored after two and a half you told me this if that's happened to me actually has it no no well i think if you're bored you're bored yeah and i've ended up cheating i live she it's not happened to melissa she's not cheating no no no i haven't done that i live with my boyfriend and get on with his family really well and would say he's the best friend i've had so far he's the sweetest inside and out

however recently my best friend of 18 years and her boyfriend have been secretly orchestrating me and their best friend to get together sorry well that's a bit no surely not sneaky behavior that's a bit sneaky guys she likes my current boyfriend but has had a gut feeling me and this other boy would hit it off i mean you probably should break up with the current one you're having these weird thoughts your thoughts you're emotionally cheating by the sounds of it already yeah you're out you've checked out you checked out recently we've been hanging out as a four quite a lot no no no oh my god right this isn. We'll let her get to the end of the dilemma before we make any judgments.

Recently, we've been hanging out for quite a lot and I have suddenly become a bit obsessed with this boy. He's the loveliest person ever. We can't stop laughing and there's a massive undeniable connection. Oh shit. We've nearly kissed and had quite a few cozy cuddles. Uh-oh.

To make things worse, he's a dancer and my door literally falls to the floor every time I see him dance. I mean, that is quite cool. Yeah, quite fair. He's so so fit i also feel because we're closer in age we have more in common our double dates are also the most fun things ever to be honest lol please help do i leave my security and lovely boyfriend or do i bite the bullet and go out with this new boy i just can't stop thinking about how fun our couple's holidays would be please help girls love you right go on melissa right so i have something to say about this i've learned

that every boy gives you something different every man gives you something different that the other man cannot give you right right so this new boy he's something new for a start yeah he's young he's exciting he's a dancer he probably makes you feel like young and wild and free, right? Right. The novelty of that, I think, will wear off pretty fucking quickly. If I'm being honest. Same.

And you'll really regret fucking up your wonderful relationship. Sometimes we always think the grass is greener and it's just not. Take the dancer out of the situation, would you still be having yes because if you wouldn't then perhaps someone's just come in and and swayed you he's just gotten into your mind and your friend really should not be trying to set you up I know I mean you know what I do think I think if you're having these thoughts you should probably not be with your current boyfriend anyway because he's he's not satisfying you in a certain type of way right like if you're having these other thoughts but i kind

of don't think that this dancer boy is the one by the sounds of it it sounds like you just fancy him because it's new and exciting yeah everyone's gonna have temptation yeah and like whether you get swayed yeah like we're not all born to just not have eyes monogamy is hard monogamy is hard yeah um don't cheat i would think i would the cozy cuddles is enough for me you've already cheated you've got and you're thinking about it you need to break up with the current boyfriend because you've gone past the point i'd also and i think if you knew your current boyfriend was doing that how would you feel would you be devastated do you know what I mean yeah I also maybe would be honest with your current boyfriend because it's not actually that fair what you're doing to be honest with you but

I maybe wouldn't say that you've been having cozy cuddles with this other boy and maybe just be like I'm actually feeling there's something not quite right here I don't know like I'm not feeling yeah it doesn't sound like you're that in love with him it just sounds like you're there because he's nice yeah you're just um and you know what being yeah being comfortable and someone being nice isn't enough you need a lot more than that i agree so what's the ultimate advice that we're giving break up with the current boyfriend don't get with the dancer if you want to have sex with them just get it out your system but i wouldn't put all your eggs in that yeah but i think ultimately you'll just you need to you owe your current boyfriend he sounds like

a lovely guy you own the truth you know he is he needs some respect here doesn't sound um he's like been left in the dark slightly also where does your current boyfriend think you're going on all these double dates i agree like what the fuck if you were going out on all these double dates the whole time imagine me trying to set you up with another guy. Jamie would be like, where are you going? You need to break up with him. There's no two ways about it. You can't.

Or, or be honest and be like, look, I'm having these doubts and I've done this. And if he wants to continue to be with you and you work through it, that's up to him. But I think at this stage you owe him the truth. Yeah. And be yeah and be honest and be like look I am you know maybe you're feeling a bit bored or whatever you can't stay with someone just because they're nice but equally I don't think that you should think like oh the honeymoon phase has run out because it's been three years I'm not getting the butterflies anymore

therefore I need to be with someone who gives me the butterflies again otherwise you're going to be hopping the rest of your life you You're going to be doing that. Butterflies do fade. Like, that stuff does go naturally. Yeah. It's like the first time you put on a bit of fake tan, like, the novelty wears off, right? It's just that there should, I don't know,

there should just be enough, like, it should grow into a deeper love. And if it's not, which it doesn't sound like it is, then you should probably not be in that relationship anyway. But I don't think you should be chasing the butterflies. Do you know what I mean? And I just don't think you should be chasing the butterflies do you know what I mean I just don't think you should be unloyal you've oh yeah I don't know you you know in the long run you're just not going to feel good about doing that and it's just it's confusing for everyone and you will confuse your real emotions

to your lust emotions and like the excitement of like doing it behind his back like just be honest with him tell him what's going on tell him what's happened and go from there and just follow your heart. Dynamity my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for five months I thought it was going great but this last month I started worrying when he was on his phone because he's sometimes suspicious what do you think of guys slash boyfriends that have several girl accounts on their search section on their Insta? Should I be worried? Yeah, I wouldn't like that. It's just that we follow each other's private accounts on Instagram, but he doesn't follow my main account.

And I know that he checks my Insta stories. So my guess is that he checks other girls' Insta stories like this too. The reason why he doesn't follow me on my main account is that he doesn't want others to know that we are dating because of his job as he does acting in japan maybe he has to be single for his japan acting but why would him following a girl make that seem like he probably sounds like he follows loads of girls but also like who if he is like cheating on her with all these girls like how would they even know he's following his girlfriend do you know what i mean they're not this all sounds a bit fishy to me this sounds suspect i think i'm just going to be pessimistic about the situation i think he's lying and saying that that's the reason he can't follow you and i actually think it's because he wants to appear

single to other girls i'd also call him out and be like why are you searching other girls sorry if i was with someone for five months five months is actually a longer time i know you're not necessarily i just hate the instagram searching i just picture boys yeah yeah what the fuck are you doing looking at them i never in all of my single time which has not been that long old granted but like i've never looked at boys on Instagram and just gone through and stared at boys' Instagram accounts. It's fucking weird. Boys wank over girls on Instagram. Oh, you make me feel sick.

If you've been in a relationship for five months, you absolutely should not be doing that for a start. What are these girls doing? Are they bikini girls? I know it sounds weird, but at this stage in a relationship, to me, that's a dumbful offence. Five months. If you're stalking girls all the fucking time on instagram she's pervy and creepy and it's just not i just don't like the behavior and i think that he's lying to

you about the fact that it's because of his acting job in japan i don't think the japanese are going to be checking who he's following i don't think they would know oh this random girl that must be his girlfriend out of all the thousands of girls he must follow like why wouldn't he why is he following Sandra then like how could they not say she's his girlfriend

I'm not liking this none of it makes out poor poor excuse from him call him out call him out and assess from there is what I would do same I think you need to

I don't like that one little bit I feel like he's pulling the wool over your eyes. Yeah, same. Right, okay, dilemma three. Hey girls, love and adore you

and definitely need your help with my dilemma. It's a bit of a sneaky situation. What is really sneaky? Sneaky, we're here to help. And I feel like at age 29 I shouldn't be bothering drama like this

but here we go. Oh, I love it. So I have a large group of girlfriends. There's about 10 of us, and we do everything together. Within our group, there are two guys who are basically one of the girls. I've been secretly hooking up with one of them. Oh, my God. And it's been going on for a couple of months now.

Wow. Now, the reason that it's a secret, which we both decided on, was so that it wouldn't cause drama within the group. And not everyone needs to know but my it's my business i'd rather ask figure out what's happening between us before the group gets involved sure now some of the issues i've had with him though is he has quite a very flirty personality he's also very good looking another friend of mine in the group has just recently admitted to me that she's interested in him and that she thinks he likes her back oh oh no then

on top of all of that i recently got into a stupid argument with him over nothing and now he barely acknowledges me in the group setting and is completely ignoring me and has stopped talking to me in messages it's super weird now between us whenever we catch up with the group and i just want us to go back to being friends without this awkwardness what do i do do i just ignore him as well and hope everything eventually goes back to normal right you obviously had fun with that and you want to go back as friends you have to make a joke out of it like oh my god i was psycho lol i don't fancy you can we go back to being friends you're being bizarre and not ignoring you're bumming me out you're making yeah just like why are you making it so make him feel stupid

it's not that deep like yeah he sounds like his start everyone fancies i know who is this boy send us his instagram yeah we need to her face in the name we really do i love it if you guys were to send like some photos we had some photos back in the very beginning our early days maybe some voice notes i know your voices could be like identified but yeah we can maybe tune them out put like a bane voice over or maybe we just listen to voice notes and then we put it i don't know but i just like to feel more i just like pictures i'm a very visual person same sanders the pics with like a diagram okay so this is this person in the situation i want to know what the other girl in the friendship because he fancies him i need to see the whole

thing i need to see the whole thing it looks better suited ideally we have a picture of the whole friendship group with like name tags above and then you know what i mean yeah yeah maybe even just a quick story when you're like hanging out just to see the dilemma what his body language is like maybe just a quick facetime call when you're all out just really get us involved just whilst you're sleeping video him okay go next time all right next dilemma hi guys first of all love the podcast and you girls could you help me figure this dilemma out i'm sure we can a few weeks ago i went to amsterdam with two of my best friends we went out clubbing and long story short i got with a guy he was there with his sports team and i met a couple of his friends i really wanted him to come back to our airbnb but my

friends didn't want him coming over fair enough enough, yeah, fair enough. He said on the night that he would message me the next day. I didn't really expect anything as this was supposed to be a club hookup and I live in London and he is in Paris. The next day he messaged me and we've been talking ever since which is very unusual for me as I typically hate messaging. I mentioned that he should come to London to visit me and he said that he would love that here is my dilemma am i completely crazy to host a guy i've only met once for a whole weekend i checked his socials and he looks completely normal in the last few months i have realized that i haven't put myself out there enough and really want to start taking some

more risks in my dating life i don't want to ask my friends for advice as i'm scared they would think i'm reckless please help i wouldn't have them in your house i wouldn't either i would just be like i would be like yeah when you come over to london and then we can do this and this and this but he needs to stay by himself like he needs to get himself an airbnb or stay in a hotel i don't think he should be staying with you imagine you date him and then you're like what if you're like and you've got him for the i actually know people who've done this and they also i know people who've like just facetimed boys like whatever like they meet in real life and he was like kind of famous so she was like i'm sure i've seen him but then he came and he was full catfish and she was like sorry oh my god also someone's

like personality the way they walk the way they move is a lot about them that you don't think and us as humans notice more of that stuff like body language is so important you might just be like really gross and smelly and you're just you met him drunk in a nightclub it's dark you're pissed you can't have this guy fly across the country to come and stay in your house for a whole weekend i would say i'd love you to come to london if you book an airbnb i'll come stay with you something like that yeah he has to be staying on his own accord you can't have him in your house i also don't think it's safe like i just don't i think from a safety

aspect like you don't know this guy like he could seem normal from instagram but a lot of people seem normal from instagram you've met him once in a nightclub i think it's better and you do the whole dating you got for a lovely dinner. Yeah. You know where he's staying. And I would go back there if you feel like it's something that you really want to do after having a proper date in the daylight or like in the real life. Do you know what I mean?

Yeah. And if you feel like awkward, like if he's assuming he's staying yours, just be like my housemate has got friends over. Like we can't just make an excuse. My mom's staying in my flat. Just, you know, give a reason. You shouldn't even have to say that. say that she should be like oh it's a bit much if you stay in my flat for like it's better you get an airbnb more fun yeah but if he she does there's all you can always just make up a lie you know yeah okay good luck with the date can we have a follow-up please i'm quite excited to be on this one yeah same

okay i'm gonna rate the wine that I've been drinking because it's been the same red wine that I've been having every day. And I'm going to rate it a solid 8 out of 10 because it's flipping delicious. And I've forgotten what all other red wine tastes like. I love it. Can you, you must let us know so we can get the name out.

And then... Yeah, you know what? I will. I'll take a picture. This sparkling wine. Do you know what? For me, I've turned into a real sparkling wine girl just sparkles any champagne sparkles it's christmas season it's it's fizzy for me and this is delicious i really like it it's english wine

it's balmy wine estates it's it's really bloody good that's what i'm gonna tell you all lovely i'm gonna rate it i'm gonna rate it an 8 because it's the first sparkling wine that I've had in the day for a while. Stunning. And then the bottle's lovely. It kind of looks like a champagne bottle but it's really nice.

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