Wednesdays - Ep 84: The Bali Debrief...
Episode Date: November 23, 2022Guys! Melissa is BACK from Bali and finally addressing these MIC Miles rumours!! We are of course back in the studio and answering your dilemmas on commitment phobia, snakey housemates and whether big... dick energy is attractive. This week we're tucking into a wintery red wine. Sophie Rating 6.8Melissa Rating: 7 xxx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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I want to be, but I'm not.
I'm not a doctor either, and we're not psychologists.
We're not. We're not experts at anything anything in fact we just chatted all the shit so and we love giving you
guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do
feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help we're back i honestly could actually cry with happiness no i can feel it coming
i can feel it coming in my life she's like i will cry
i can cry then no no
she's also guys i'm not i genuinely have to stop now because i can't oh it's guys i can't even
explain i'm so happy to be home like i was walking around the power station last night and i was like
sorry is that christmas tree in your house no no no no i was like she got back and then i thought
maybe she set up a tree i thought maybe you'd got your mom to come home and set it all up for you
but when you arrived i was like god nicola is a really 10 out of 10 no no no absolutely not
i went out to the little pub that's like underneath me had a little glass of red it's lovely oh we
were meant to meet last night we were fresh off the plane but i was like pooped and i was to go
all the way to not to kill i was like i need to stay in my flat yeah yeah i'm not surprised also
when you called me i was in bed having an app because I was hellishly hungry yeah yeah yeah and I was like I bet she says you're so
happy I've cancelled no I actually wasn't so excited for a roast and a glass of bread and a
debrief let me tell you something guys it's been however long five weeks five and a half weeks
almost six weeks five and a half weeks bearing my Melissa and I see each other every day we speak
on FaceTime even when we've seen each other since today probably we've spoken on FaceTime twice twice and every time I've asked her what's going
on she's gone oh so drained can't bother to tell you and I'm like okay I can't even but you know
what it's like guys so I was obviously in Bali filming for me and Chelsea when you're in that
environment it's so draining it's all consuming it's so emotionally draining and like you're talking about it all fucking day then you're filming about it all fucking day
and all everyone talks about is like what did you film about what was the scene about and you're
like oh just someone talked to me about something else something else so when you were like tell me
everything i was like i can't there are no words i found out everything the emotional battery was
drained she went and
shut herself in a room
she was like
I just can't
me and Ruby
would shut ourselves away
in silence for hours
in the same room
or each other's
in the same room
lying on our beds
watching films
girl on the phone
guys
I had about 20 treatments
maybe more
since I was there
I had so many
massages
facials
like just just so many wonderful
treatments it's so cheap do you know how much it was for an hour and 45 minute massage like three
pounds and not quite 20 quid in a luxury place like it was wonderful show everyone your nails
so i got the hayley i just i fresh up the summer i know also like quite late on the track because
this was i know because i was thinking it's more summery but I actually think it's more wintery because
it's glittery and I'm a very nude nails kind of gal.
I feel you.
I just had the dark on so I was like I want to go back to the light but I want to be more
Christmassy so I went for the old glazed donut.
How did you say it then?
Were you like can I have Hailey Bieber's now?
Yeah, yeah.
The lady who does my nails knows it all.
She's like yeah, yeah.
The glazed donut nails.
I know the one.
I think I know who you have, Jessica.
Julie.
I think she has loads of different names no no she does because sometimes she calls herself like Sarah to me
sometimes it's Jessica it definitely is she's like this is in 88 this is in 88 on Cale Street
Cale Street yeah 88 nails it's not Chloe's nails that I used to go to. Wait, you go to 88, the one I go to, but in Chelsea?
Yes.
Mic drop.
What?
Why don't you go to the one in Notting Hill where I go?
Because it's like two minutes away from me in Chelsea
and Notting Hill's kind of far.
Yeah, but you could catch me on your way.
I could.
I'll do that.
Anyway, so I've got the Hailey Bieber nails.
And I'm loving them.
We're meant to have some rouge.
Oh, God, we have.
Where should we go, then?
It's right there.
I'm sorry, I can't talk fast.
Are you not even going to fast-find me?
No, I can't.
Oh, my God, it smells of my pop-up.
Chateau de Clarerie.
Clarerie.
What's the price on this one?
£18.
Oh, treat yourself.
Yeah, and it's a 2018.of oof had some lovely red wine
out of barley you've been sipping red wine like it's going out of fashion it's my new favorite
thing red wine but cold in the heat yeah yeah yeah freaking love it always cold for me why
can't i do this properly okay ready yeah three two one Ready? Yeah. Three, two, one.
Whoa.
Got the taste buds.
Ooh, after hit.
I really like that.
I'm so bad because I like every red wine.
I'm like, nothing. Red wine's hard not to like.
I agree.
I love every red wine.
There is only very few that taste like absolute piss.
Oh my God, Olivia Wilde and Harry Styles broke up sorry guys sometimes this information is new for me so I've just read that I didn't know that did you yes oh my god I did
know that but I was never really into it and I must say same Harry oh I can't say it because
people are gonna hate on me oh god they're to come for me is he that good at acting
because um
I've never seen him
act
you're not missing
that
really
I mean
that's your opinion
you fucking
yeah don't come
for me One Direction
fans
look Harry Styles
stunning
stunning
such a cool bloke
stick to what you
know
stick to the old
watermelon sugar
but it's great
because he can sing
can't be good at
everything can't be good at everything
can't be good at everything he's so stunning probably the most fancied man on the planet
is harry yeah but watching this i was kind of like yeah not just noise force not a vibe yeah
no no not a vibe but anyway they broken up oh my god the new princess diaries i'm going with all
my girlfriends to watch it and i'm so excited we haven't got it's all my real friends fine i'm gonna go with you
it's really hard isn't it when you've got this set for ariel there's a new everyone i know but
no i'm gonna go i'm not like i'm not
that i that was my favorite one ever i loved the cartoon but the thought of like a real life film
of that i'm like how are they gonna do it i was also disappointed because i wanted it to be ariana
grande for some reason i thought it was her did you no but when i heard that i thought it was
gonna be emma stone don't know why but because she's naturally ginger yeah it makes sense isn't
it the crown the new crown have you watched no i haven't i've got a lot of tv to watch i want to
watch the new avatar have you seen the new avatar no see i got i invited to go to the premiere of
that that's just not my vibe that's really not my vibe like i'm laughing that you want to watch it
because i literally lulled being like no no i'm not going to that really why didn't you take me the new avatar to blue people yes
no that's not i would have had so much fun watching that with you we've got loads of fun
yeah we do now i'm back sophie's out of the web but she hibernated for five weeks i really did
i didn't see you post anything on instagram that you were out apart from i've not posted since
you've been gone like it's really bad right we've got loads more
to talk about pete davidson and rata pete davidson i need to meet him because i need to see it he
must have a massive dick or something like something i fancy him just through association
now just because i know you're fit i just know i know there's no way all those women would you've
got the biggest but that can that be that no apparently he does you have to have an initial
vibe to get bde yeah who do we know that's got bde no one
no what does big dick energy mean i would say like when you're an arsehole i would say
that um jamie's friend spencer
matthews kind of has big dick energy alpha big dick energy right so do you know what i mean
yes that's probably the only human i've never even met him but just through like looking at
the social media stuff i don't feel like pete davidson's like him i feel like pete davidson's
like the whisperer the tall guy who whispers down
and said funny funny joke in here
ha ha ha
oh the person
one of the boys I dated
I feel like kind of had
both dick energy
he's him
yeah yeah yeah
we'll move on
we're gonna be here for hours
got a haircut for
we got a crack on
all right
into the dilemmas
we really need to stick with the name
that we call everyone so teeny weenies
tiny whinies i feel a bit cringe thing little great tiny whinies no i think it's cute tiny
whinies yeah all right tiny whinies in we go first dilemma dilemma one so one night i went out with
my friends to a club and i met this guy he had always been in our circle in high school but we
both had girlfriends such boyfriends we hit it off immediately and chatted and flirted the whole night and ended up kissing
and he asked my number before he left the club.
The next morning he messaged me and we chatted the entire day and he invited me to come watch
movies at his friend's house later that night.
Lovely.
I went and it was so much fun and it was super fun, cuddling while watching the movie.
When I left, he walked me to my car and kissed me good night
oh love it the next day he messaged me saying that he didn't want to ruin what we had going
but he's not ready for a relationship why do boys do this they panic i think as he just got
because he's not even like you had sex with her so he's not yeah fucking chill out mate yeah calm
down uh as he just got out of a long term on but he'd still like to get to know me and hang out he said he didn't want to use the
term friends for benefits because it implies he was using me for sex which he said he isn't
expecting anything from me i agreed as i also just gotten out of a three-year relationship
since then we have seen each other multiple times a week we go to each other's houses watch movies
cuddle he always kisses me on the forehead cheeks and on my temples temple so specific so specific also such nice face
to get kiss eyelids as well the nice oh eyelid kiss is like the most special little thing yeah
it really is he asked me to go to breakfast with him we've slept together multiple times i've met
his parents and had dinner with them and he has met mine he also surprised me by cooking me a meal that I told him once that I've always wanted to try he is so caring and thoughtful with
me picking me up to get milkshakes when I'm sad and dropping off chocolate to make me feel better
what he's a happy boy what a little sweet piece since the beginning of our thing which has been
about five or six weeks now the friends with benefit has only come up once where I was
messaging my guy friend he saw me and I was messaging him and said oh james why are you jealous and i said it in a joking way and he got so defensive almost
like he was trying to convince me that he wasn't he also said that's the benefit of friends with
benefit no jealousy i'm so confused because there's actually say one thing his words say
another does he like me or is this how friends with benefits are supposed to act please help
he definitely likes you yeah but he's scared of commitment he's got a little bit
of commitment anxiety or relationship anxiety or whatever i think you might be like the alpha in
this situation he's like playing it hard to get for you because you've obviously like yes we we
can just chill call it whatever and then you're off texting other guys even if it was meant
innocently and he's probably testing you i personally just
keep going how you're going because i think it's gonna end up it will just end up there
yeah he's falling 100 he is falling heads over oh my god i guess i just have to say there's one
saying that gareth lock has introduced me to and it's one hundy have you never heard that
hundy p no he just didn't say hundy p just goes oh one hundy
wait that one hundy can you imagine i can't imagine that but that's been a saying for a
long time but you've heard of hundy p yeah i guess but no one's ever said it oh i think that
was the thing at my uni everyone used to be like oh no no it's just making me die so it doesn't
quite do it justice it's him guys he's so funny but
anyway i'm now gonna use it in the forecast so yeah 100 he likes you 100
okay so he does like you guys also i was in soho house the other night and some lovely girl came
out to me and told me a dilemma i just have to really briefly talk to you about this so she's
been dating this guy for two years seeing each other right literally i think it was like the night before that night she found out
that he'd slept with her best friend so like you to me i was like is she here let me out her and
is he here let me out him yeah we were very drunk chatting it but i said i'd read it out i really
hope she didn't want it to be anonymous but i've not named her what does she do sack them both off see you later both off and never speak to either either of them again that is that is the ultimate betrayal
the ultimate one hundred one hundred betrayal i really would be that helpful for dilemma one
so i reckon you just keep going with the flow on that one i think you could have one hand you
gave it the flow i don't know but seriously i don't think you should call him out on it i don't think you
should like be like oh should we have that conversation like he's falling for you he's
acting like your boyfriend actually what i'm gonna backtrack i would maybe message another guy
oh stop let it come up on the phone and then if he gets funny be like look like
no this is a problem for you then i don't really know what to do because like we are just friends with benefits no because he will then just be like okay
we're friends with benefits bye like he'll be what if he's more nervous what if he thinks he's
punching you can't always think the boys are so much more confident than the girls he might need
the little like reassurance too all right fine like if you thought that with another boy you
would be like well fuck you then yeah i would i wouldn saw that with another boy you would be like well
fuck you then yeah i would i wouldn't even have a conversation i'll be like yeah yeah yeah i'll
go get with a guy just keep how i was going sweet sweet sweet cuddles with chocolate and then hope
that just leaks out of his mouth one day like we my girlfriend it knows sometimes it does and
you're just like lying around like you're drunk and you're like oh i love you and you're just like fuck i was not there yeah yeah i watched the um the holiday on the way back on the plane and it's
when he goes i'm in love with you and she goes i wasn't expecting i love you and he's his little
face goes like oh my god jude law i love him so much in that that's that's the best he's ever
looked in that film i know stunning no no sorry him in
the talented mr ripley is my ultimate boy crush he is my dream dream dream man in talented mr
ripley stunning so i just had to have a moment thinking about it i i need a poster in my room
wasn't greneth poucher in that yeah it's like the whole thing just the whole thing is just
wonderful oh fuck Matt Damon
stabbing him
like that just ruins everything
I know
like that's just so weird
so unnecessary
it just bumps
it ruins the whole movie
it does but you know
I don't want to watch him
I just want to watch more of
Jude Law
montage of Jude Law films
coming up
him and Alfie's life
him and Contagious
is quite scary though
I've never seen it
he has a massive gap
in his teeth
and it really blows my mind
really
and he's got like warts all over
his face.
I feel like
we're really going off topic but I'm going to go into
Dilemma 2. We all think that's so me but I mean it's just
me being me. No he's beautiful.
Never say anything about my dude.
Not my dude.
Okay right Dilemma 2.
Hey so basically I've been sleeping
with this guy
at uni for a while
now and after
sleeping with each
other recently
he left his
pants at my
house
wait does that
mean he just
went pantsless
home
well yeah
probably
that's not
where they
should be
on
come on
day
bit uncomfy
anyway
sorry it's not
an important part
of the thing
dirty pants are
almost worse yeah i know but like don't leave them at my house you might thought your dirty
underwear on the floor like at least take them put them in your pocket do you know what i mean
that's rancid if some girls like to sleep in like underwear she might wash them and like kept them
no no no no i'm not dealing with your dirty underwear that you've left in my house sorry
no one evening when i was out he texted me to say he was coming around to get his pants that he left
surely not those lovely knickers he's not coming back he left his hair he's not coming back for
his yeah yeah he wants his breezes that's weird i came home as i wanted to see him only to find
him and my best friend who was also also my housemate, shagging.
They don't know I saw them, and he asked me to come around a few times since, but I haven't confronted either of them yet, as I don't want it to ruin the house dynamic.
The worst thing is, she is the one who set us up together, and he is best mates with her boyfriend.
Ew, ew, ew.
How should I deal with this?
Ew.
Fucking confront them
I'd have walked
straight in and been
like
here's your
dirty
dirty
grubby underwear
throw the underwear
at her
or if you want to
be really dark
wait till her
boyfriend's around
get him around
and then go and
throw the underwear
at her face
and be like
for your boyfriend
oh sorry
they might be your
underwear but they
also might be yours
because I did actually
see the two of you
shagging the other night
take that motherfuckers i just can't breathe seriously that's what you should do how are
you sleeping at night knowing this piece of information my blood would be like this is
how are you looking
at her face every day my excitement but i'd be like yeah that'd be exploding within my brain
i'm always like don't tell me a secret because i will tell people so like the fact that you're
keeping that i won't tell people i'll tell you yeah i'll tell you but maybe she's got a best
friend who you have to announce this that's a has me i would also like maybe write a little stick on the wind
mirror we're getting really creative um ran out of shampoo get any more shampoo p.s saw you shagging
jake or whatever the name is thumbs up why are you being so stupid oh my god or you wait for a
day and you go how many people have you shagged in this room
and when you're supposed to be like just one it's like that's a lie
has she given the other guy the underwear he must have gone into the room grabbed the underwear and
then and then gone and like seen the housemate on the way out and thought oh yeah give me some of
that i always just don't believe the story because it's too weird that they're just shagging in the
living room at uni is this at uni let me just rephrase. It doesn't. I went to uni.
I can't imagine any of my friends.
Imagine me walking in and Chrissy and Harvey
just having sex.
No.
You wouldn't be able to not say anything.
Obviously not.
So girl, listen to me.
I know you don't want to ruin the house dynamic
and that's very sweet of you,
but this is too much.
And also your housemate's boyfriend deserves to
know this is fucked up this is a lot this is a lot in this game is there this is a lot you need
to out you need to out them tell them that you know and be like you know what i know you've got
a boyfriend i'm not really one to tell him but you should tell him because it's really fucked up
you haven't i'm obviously never speaking to you again and i think you're a really shit mate yeah it's just immorally not right cheating on your boyfriend
and then screwing me over right i agree it's immoral in every sense of the word or you take
our first bit of advice or sophie's lipstick idea and you just get really dramatic or you just post
the boxes to the boyfriend and go do a dna test on this because your girlfriend's fingerprints
are all over it.
No, but wait, hold on.
We're getting confused
because the boxes were when she shagged him.
Yeah, but she probably ripped them off again.
We're getting way too...
I'm sorry, are we Sherlock Holmes?
Do a DNA test on this.
There's fingerprints all over it.
I think the boyfriend deserves to know
because...
One hundy.
One hundy.
That needs to be shut down.
Yeah.
Immediately.
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I hate my boyfriend's friends.
Hate is a strong word, I know.
But I hate them.
Oh, no.
My boyfriend has recently found a new group of friends.
They've all just got back off a lad's holiday.
Just as my boyfriend.
And then became friends.
So my boyfriend wasn't invited, thank God.
But I know and have seen proof of them all cheating on their girlfriends.
On this holiday.
And it makes me so nervous for my boyfriend's turn to join the holiday.
My boyfriend is the only one in the group who has a long time girlfriend.
We've been together nearly three years.
All of the other girlfriends are recent and get treated like shit.
In group situations I get ignored by the other boys.
And I find it so rude.
Whenever I tell my boyfriend he tries to defend them and it really grinds my gears he actually adores these boys and
they're not nice at all and sometimes he will act like them and it really puts the fear of god in
me as my boyfriend is so sweet and will always include other girls but i get exiled to add
context we are 18 turning 19 so we are still babies but helped will it wear off or am i being nuts
um you drop your phone with dramatic effect after everything you read i know she goes like this she
goes oh no didn't quite work out for you no it didn't it really worked it bounced off my water
bottle i think unfortunately that's so young and i think that to stay in a long-term relationship
from 18 19
is incredibly rare if i'm three years so we got together when i was 16 yeah wow you're still
growing up like you don't even know who you are as a human being i think if you push for him to
be like with you and not his lads and do not go on last holidays he's ultimately gonna just push
you away because he's gonna be like i'm literally 18 like let me live my life and it sounds like these boys their morals aren't in the right place and
he's got to learn that for himself if he's gonna go and do that like okay right what would i do if
i was you if i was your older sister i would just be like you have to give the situation the benefit
of the doubt until something happens where it's like okay that's crossed the line and you know
i can't actually be with you because this part of you and your life upsets me so much I dislike it so much I
don't want to be with you you have to wait until like either it bothers you so much that you can't
handle it or it doesn't I would yeah I would give the benefit of the doubt and try and just
you know he might either grow out of you or he might grow out of the friends so if you love him
enough I give him the benefit of
the doubt and try and find other groups of friends that you can both hang out with as a couple or
you really use that time alone like surely he's not going to be with these boys 24 7 yeah and you
know you just don't hang out with him when he's going out with these other guys but i don't think
you can try and control his life at this early stage i know it's after three years but i
just i don't really think you can ever try and control a boy's life i don't think i could ever
say to jamie i don't like your mates don't hang out with them he'd be like well f you and like
vice versa if jamie said to me that i don't like your friends i'd be like well they're my friends
i think if he suddenly started to get a new group of friends that all choose to own their girlfriends
you'd be like look i don't actually feel comfortable you're going to holler at them
because the way they act and regardless to me thinking that you might not you wouldn't do
it i don't it's just not like it doesn't feel right morally to hang out with boys that would
do that to their girlfriends like it's just not yes very you yeah it's a difficult one i do think
you need to give him the benefit of the doubt though yeah if it's a new group he might just be
like you know almost a bit infatuated with them they
sound quite laddy and boysy and he might be like oh this is quite sick and fun and then he might
be like they're not too well from here but they're actually their chat shit and they're not good
people yeah okay guys it's that time of the episode is it it or is it not, Melissa? Is it Single Diaries or Not So Single Diaries?
Drumroll.
Not So Single Diaries.
Can I get a woo woo?
Can I get a woo woo?
So I got the nails.
Celebration.
Say.
Okay, right.
Okay, so confession.
I have been. She's been having an affair on us no i've been in a relationship i guess not in secret but been keeping it under wraps not making it like official and like putting
it out into the universe until now with toby watkins we're gonna get him on the podcast to explain himself
because we have questions don't we guys i'm sure yeah you will probably have so many questions i
obviously have known yeah yeah so if you say we don't want to give a timeline on how long it's
been going on for but it's been a decent amount of time it's been as long as you guys may have
anticipated i know some of you guys saw them
yeah quite a lot of you saw us and wrote in we didn't want to comment on it but it wasn't like
they were like official because i don't think you wanted to keep going to the podcast i mean like
guys we're back together yeah and it not be like something i was very comfortable with telling you
guys or like in case something bad happened again and then you had to keep being like oh sorry we're
not exactly you just wanted to cement it was quite nice to just keep it also just quite private yeah for a while so yeah
that's my big news and we're going to oh obviously he was out in Bali so that's really nice
and then um we're going for a three-day little staycation that'll be lovely I can't wait for
that I'm so excited now what's going on with christmas oh and also he got a tattoo big news i don't know if i'm allowed to be saying it's like his first tattoo he feels like
a boy that's got more he doesn't last he's not getting any more he said he's like no it's just
tattoos he's like aren't for me but i wanted to get this one so go on next day i don't should i
let him say it when he comes on and he can show us can we know it's something to do with me it's
basically a saying that we always say to each other yes got it a very very very small sweet little
in a lovely lovely area it looks almost like melissa's written it as well yeah and i think
ideally he would have had me write it because i wanted it to be a surprise so i just had to
oh but we're all just very happy i for one am overjoyed and over the moon i knew it was
gonna happen it was only a matter of time yeah right now it's on to you
okay hot seat bridal brazilla so much shit is happening guys i've really let it slack
i think everything got tick tick ticked and i was like got ages and now she was like there's
nothing else yeah i was wrong it's now the invitations are like coming up the
thing is look this is i need a lot of pre-warning like i need people to say to you by december we
need all the you know the entire brief your invitations it needs to be signed still delivered
it needs to be booked but everyone just said to me like oh we don't have to do that yet but no one
gave me a date so when i need to do it right so now it's like nearly mid-december they're like
we need to do that next week. They're like,
have you done it?
And I'm like,
no.
Yeah.
And now I don't,
I don't know why,
but I've got this severe,
insane pressure.
Cause nowadays like invitations are like the big thing.
Are they?
Yes.
Everyone's like,
oh my God,
did you get a package with like 10 invites in it?
You know,
like something for the Friday night.
And I'm just like,
oh,
what do I do?
Do I do a chic classical?
Do I do it?
Also think of the environment. So much wastage goes on stuff like this what do I do do I do a chic classic or do I do a colourful also think of the environment
so much wastage
goes on stuff like this
this is true
I think keep it simple
the simpler the better
well the one I showed you
was not simple
and you said you like that
sorry yeah but it's not
like a package
with like loads of bits
coming out
like a fucking butterfly
flies out of it
and thinking of
ride things
you know and like
the invitation comes
yeah I would kind of
like that with like
a puppy to live with
yeah yeah
Rebecca's can't be jesus oh the next thing is i need to book and sort my uk you know the official
wedding i need to sort the lunch off that because i think that date is and i i think now that's
going to be a special day too because we've got some people who you know are coming to that and
it's just going to be made into a really special day i'm so excited so that's me and that's about it all i'm also planning and
i've been given a bridesmaid she's got she's got a big role i'm really excited about this
it's only at lunch you've already told me what it is oh shit am i meant to keep it a secret yes
fuck okay i kind of scrapped that i kind of thought i'm gonna i'm gonna change it up it's
gonna be completely different you've got no idea what i'm planning now i'm doing a hen
for your bridesmaids for my bridesmaids and then now we're gonna do a london hen for just a couple
other people who won't be on the the bridesmaids the bridesmaids yeah and melissa's in charge and
i'm yeah because your sister's doing the abroad with the bridesmaids the bridesmaids yeah and melissa's in charge and i'm yeah because your sister's doing
the abroad with the bridesmaids which is like nearest nearest and dearest basically like your
sisters right bridesmaids and then i'm in charge of the london one i'm really excited and i told
save you what it was this morning and i probably shouldn't have done that so she's like so i'm
gonna book this place okay i'm gonna brainstorm some ideas and we've got dinner on thursday so
we're gonna discuss the whole thing there yeah and we'll book also i've also booked my flights to the wedding i was so i'm so prepared i've booked
everything melissa said to me honestly three months ago if you got all your hair and nails
booked in i went not yet melissa she was like i would just get it booked in if i were you get it
all booked in eyebrows nails tan hair cuts fake tan wax i was like nine months away you're joking sophie's wedding is it the full
front of my mind every day it's not even my fucking i really need to sort it now come come
january boom like i need to get i'm going to parties every day like this is it for me
why am i so obsessed with your wedding and
obviously you know i'm getting a puppy so we need to ask people names oh yeah wait am i gonna go
with you to see the dog yeah okay lovely tapes can come too make a day all right guys i'm great
oh i loved it loved it i really i'm gonna give it a seven because like i feel like we need to try
some more reds and i'm not that explored with the whole red but that was absolutely wonderful I think if you give a 6.8
it was really nice
because it's specific
yeah because it wasn't
smooth smooth
but it was very drinkable
I loved it
it wasn't like a rich rich one
no it was quite light actually
light
mind you I just don't know
anything about it
I don't know anything
we need to hear on a wine tour
anyway we love you
bye guys
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bye
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