Wednesdays - Ep 85: Too early for a Christmas present?!

Episode Date: November 30, 2022

Hi team! Christmas is coming and we are chatting christmas gifts for situationships, cheating best friends, and of course a return of the not-so-single diaries! We're back on the red this week, sipping on a lovely vintage from Tesco that could be worth the red wine lips... https://www.tesco.com/groceries/en-GB/products/274683934Sophie Rating: 8Melissa Rating: 8.5Lots of love, S&M! xx  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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you guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help what's up honeys hey hey hey what's up tiny whinies oh ho ho it's christmas we're very really hungry i'm not gonna lie to you uh i was actually fine when i woke up and then now i've got a headache mine's been a solid like it's been a 10 out of 10 and i can't like you know sometimes they hit you it's like almost like i haven't slept like it's that bad of a hangover oh god we dropped what what did you drink i can't so i started off a bit of a wine which by the way guys was all natural and unfiltered it was really interesting yeah what

i didn't taste it it was lovely you know she was having guys she was having dirty martinis and she goes the way to, extra dirty. And the way she goes, I got you, honey. And then, like, winked at you. I was like, this is so weird. What happened? I don't remember. It was quite funny. I basically like it to just be a glass of olive brine.

With a bit of vodka in it. Is that what the extra dirt is? Yeah. The olive? The dirt, yeah. Three olives. Oh, I see. Pop them in there.

It did look really cool. Very James Bond of you. And they're also so small but they really are like i like i think that's what's killed me i think it's that obviously i feel shaky today oh no there's nothing worse than the shakes i know exactly what i feel so sick that i don't want to eat but i want to yeah yeah yeah it's bad it's a real bad go after this and get a lovely like burger and some chips from where on my own you're i'm upset about this like crusty crusty i know guys right just to ask you all something when i was in bali i have i have

rings on i never really take off certain fingers right yeah and i it was almost like i'd been bitten under the rings and i would take them off an itch and i'd be like god what's going on with the skin underneath my rings and i think it might be the sun cream i was putting on then getting trapped under the ring or like chlorine from the pool i don't know i think it was chlorine from the pool made it go bright red and raw and now it's like really dry and i'm just letting it breathe and i'm not putting the rings on what it's going to do is it'll crust off and then you'll get new skin and then it'll be fine it's all right i've had the exact same thing allergic to bloody yellow gold slightly inconvenient yeah i got a new wearing the other day and it went really rusty and the brand said that it was me who was allergic i was like i don't

think it is sorry yeah i know quite well right what a silly silly thing for them to say to you that is just absurd you're allergic to gold like it could be possible but you'd rash up everywhere else though like that doesn't make any sense yeah it really doesn't make any sense does it okay okay okay should we talk about the wine just briefly yes it's a cabinet there's no yeast in it guys what the hell wait so does that mean hold on i don't think there's ever yeast in wine that's beer so why have they put that then it's a vintage i'm gonna take a little sippy sip this is either gonna help me or make me feel awful oh my god i really like that i really like that does anyone remember back in the the early days of potty? They all taste the same. Sophie would go, this one's 12.5%.

Like you would comment on the percentage as if it was like such an important factor of the wine. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm going to do it again. It's 12.5. I've just said it. Oh, it's a low red wine. And here we go. She goes talking about the percentage.

I wonder what that red wine was that we drank last night because that was punchy. It was lovely. Oh yeah, we had a really fun double date last night yeah toby's back in the business it was really fun um and we all got really really pissed i think the reason why we went back to yours to carry on the conversation toby and jamie were having a really good conversation they weren't finished yet i don't know closing the bar so then we went up to yours i because in my mind i just remember being downstairs in the bar and then i just remember waking up this morning i i fully don't know vaguely have a vision of you sat around my table and like looking really tight i was but i'm also jet lagged so for me to stay up that late it's like pretty good yeah what time did we go to bed i have no no idea. I'm sorry.

I'm really impressed with myself actually. Can you give me some inkling of what time you went to bed? I have no idea. Oh, you know what? I could look on my Uber receipts if you really wanted me to. Sorry guys. Could have been 9pm. Could have been 2am.

I really couldn't tell you. Toby must have done it. It wasn't me because it says 6.30pm and I'm like, surely not. That is so embarrassing imagine it's like 20 past nine god it's so what i'm upset about is i think i was drinking too much i didn't really enjoy the food and i feel like i'm the same i was too pissed i couldn't taste anything i can't really remember the octopus Yeah, that's like my only memory. I feel like the baba ganoush was a bit too flavoursome for me. The dip was lovely at the beginning.

The garlicky one. I feel like we didn't get much food. Also, they forgot the flipping tarama salata. I've just remembered that. No, they didn't. I've got a photo of it on my phone. I don't think, again, I don't think. Jamie would have taken it and had it all to himself.

I think that's what happened. Yeah. He didn't let me have any of it. Scoop that up into his mouth in a heartbeat right it was delicious guys dilemma one him alissa and sophie have recently become obsessed with the pod literally been listening at every opportunity super quick one less of a dilemma more of just wanting to know your opinion on this do i get the boy i've been seeing a christmas present i've been seeing him for about four months but we've only been exclusive for two months i'm

not sure if it's enough time to warrant a gift exchange i love the whole aspect of giving gifts at christmas so i think it would be a nice idea and it has just been my birthday and he was very generous with his gift oh yeah 100 100 100 if you think yes what are some lovely little loki presents i could give him situation ships always so awkward when it comes to this because i don't want to look like a weirdo okay look if you're going out i don't think you cannot get him a christmas 100 also if he's got you a birthday present that was like really generous then it's almost rude if you don't get him yeah yeah it's kind of savage i mean you must what what's a nice thing i always just think like go on to like browns or netta portrait and go on gifts for men god we're such cop-outs yeah go on or

alternatively you could like a framed like piece not a big piece of art but you know like a print and frame it you're such a mom no no no you know like the cool ones that's not that's not a lame present like a print no but you do know what i mean like a cool like i'm not saying go and spend like three grand on a painting i'm talking like a cool piece of art that's basically cheap you can get you know what not on the high street it's pretty good for stuff like that oh no no that's literally just me at school that reminds me of me at school that's where i get something small and fun and like silly that i used to get more of a gesture my first boyfriend every single thing i'd get from him would be not nice okay right so we're scrapping that idea you could maybe you can make him a hamper of fun stuff so lame after four months fuck me just go

get him some boxes no that's a bit boring isn't it oh no you know what no i would just get like a mini sack jumper do a sack like a really joke sack and just put jokes things in there and maybe put like a little voucher for you guys to go out for a nice meal no no socks no no i don't like that idea at all i would i would get him like a cool hoodie or something but that's expensive the shoe is small she gave him like a 60 quid one they have been going out four months and it's christmas a situation ship for one well you just got her a big birthday so here happy birthday here's some dominoes not gonna lie what i would do is i'd actually just take him out for dinner and be like i'm paying for this lovely lovely meal happy christmas no you would get him a present no not after four months i absolutely wouldn't i was in that situation i did not but if toby got you a birthday present that's right it's all

getting fucked up here he shouldn't have done that really the birthday it's really i would just take someone out for a lovely meal and be like happy I want to take you out for a nice meal for Christmas like it's chilled yeah

buying a gift and wrapping it up and give it to someone wrap up some lingerie no it's always giving me the ick for some reason yeah I would just do you know what I mean

it's just too much what did I do with Jamie get him a pack of cards and be like and a bottle of cards and be like, and a bottle of wine and be like, this is us for the evening. Lovely,

happy Christmas. You could get him a bottle of wine. Depends how old they are. Oh, you could get him like a nice, I used to always just get Jamie that beef jerky from Selfridges. Honestly.

The Biltong. The Biltong, because it was so expensive, this waggy Biltong. I got that from him a couple of times. And then you ate it because you didn't see him. So you're like,

oh, I just ate it. It was it was disgusting so gross it's literally like eating fat it like melts in your mouth um but if he likes like a type of food get that get my pork pie i don't know sorry i would just take him out for dinner and be like happy christmas and like just take him out for a lovely evening like it's just more chilled wrapping up a gift and being like how many times do you think melissa and i say lovely because i probably say it 17 times a day and all of our chat is just lovely 70 of our vocabulary is lovely lovely okay let's go for a lovely lovely lunch it's the twice as well yeah it's very ruby as well yeah lovely lovely lad

okay right dilemma two hi girls i really love the podcast i always listen to it on my way up to uni on the train lovely i've been living with two of my closest friends since september and it's honestly been so amazing and fun we've recently become friendly with a group of boys who live across the hall and it started off as really nice and harmless from just occasionally visiting them to a play a card or drinking game and we would all get along so well however last week i left to go home a day earlier than i normally do and my roommates both went to visit the boys across the hall and they said we'd got involved one of my friends invited one of the boys to just snuggle with her and they ended up having

sex during the night and the next morning normally i wouldn't put much thought or care into my friend's sex life but she's been in a relationship for the past year and they seem so perfect to be the perfect pair they never argue and she has never seemed happier so i'm confused as to why she cheated on a boy with a boy she hardly knows what makes it worse is she does not seem guilty about it whatsoever oof the day after it happened she went and spent the whole weekend with her boyfriend and pretended like nothing happened no the morals and she's not in the right place here she blames the situation on weed but it would have basically been out of her system so i'm not buying it what's worse is she's still not talking she's still talking flirting and visiting the lad she slept with while also talking to her boyfriend as if nothing happened

nothing romantic has happened between them since but she seems to have no interest in telling her boyfriend what happened as the only time she mentioned confessing is when i asked her if she's going to tell him and she said she will when the time is right but she isn't very convincing my other roommate isn't saying much to her about it as she's worried about upsetting her as my friend often gets ahead of herself and normally gets very defensive and aggressive when anyone tries to set her straight over anything.

I've no idea what to do. I hate upsetting and confronting people, so trying to show her what she did was wrong or convince her to tell her boyfriend sounds like hell as I know she will start shouting and screaming. I feel terrible for her boyfriend and hate just sitting back and watching all this happen however if i went and told him what happened it would ruin my friendship with my roommate and would cause a huge strain on our living situation i don't know what to do help oh you can't go tell the boyfriend no absolutely not this isn't your place i know it's difficult when you

have good ethics and like good morals right but at the end of the day it's not your relationship and the truth always comes out he'll find out i hope i think you really just need to like not get involved i know it's so great but like it's kind of rank i also don't agree i think be like if you're gonna do if you're gonna cheat i would rather not know about it so can you please like not let it be anything that any of us that i'm aware of like don't like you're not even trying to hide it and it's quite hard for me to like sit and watch it happen you know i mean like it's fine it's your business but don't involve me in it i'd rather not know yeah and also um I wouldn't be

so scared of her it feels like you're already scared of her which isn't a good friend no sounds a bit toxic sounds a bit like you should be able to say to your friend like no no you've misbehaved like we tell each other all the time you misbehave you really misbehave don't do that like that's not good yeah yeah you should be able to say that yeah like that is misbehaving from this point of view i think for the sake of your living situation and blah blah you should just not say anything yeah try and stay out of it like also it's not your place it's just yeah it's not your place if you were the guy's best friend then different story different story and you knew she was getting cheated on but you're not

you're kind of your lord he's lying with her but i get where you're coming from it's really not cool it's really not sorry i think just say to her like look if it starts to happen again it's quite obvious be like look i'm actually finding it quite hard to be on, be on board with this kind of thing. So do you mind just like keeping it under wraps? Cause I just feel so bad for your boyfriend or whatever. Like morally, it doesn't sit that well with me. And like,

obviously it's your business, but don't, I don't want to know about it and I don't want to see it. Yeah. I think that's like quite a good way of going about it. One handy. FanDuel Casino Daily Jackpots. We'll be right back. 11pm every day. 19 plus and physically located in Ontario. Gambling problem? Call 1-866-531-2600 or visit connectsontario.ca. Select games only.

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A boy's written this dilemma. And sorry, this is so exciting. Love this. Right, everybody, listen. Listen the hell up. Hi, ladies. Been listening to your podcast the past couple months now and as a guy i really love the fresh perspective you put on things lovely i love it much appreciated as it has been a difficult time for me my dilemma my girlfriend of five and a half years broke up with me around six weeks ago i have been able to accept the reasons for our breakup, but she recently told me she's seeing someone.

Though it hurts to hear I'm genuinely alright with it. She still has quite a few bits of stuff at my place. Though every time we arrange for her to pick it up, she flakes work drinks or dinners or something. I still love her and care for her and genuinely believe she is my person. No. But I know we can't be together right now i believe she feels the same but doesn't want to fully let go i'm unsure on the approach i should take with it in terms of trying to talk to her about it or let her figure it all out and give her time love what you guys are doing hashtag men have feelings oh my god you sweets are on this yes they do men are more sensitive than girls sometimes i actually think oh that boy is so lovely what baby you are

for writing that in baby or babe babe that's very encouraging no you big baby absolute babe very considerate he sounds just like such a love i think trust the process and i think if she's your person she's your person she'll come back like there's nothing worse than you chasing her although sometimes i do think people let people go too easily it's hard to say because unless she's got the ick doesn't sound like she does yeah so then i think if you like fought for her but it sounds like he also doesn't think they're right at this right time yeah I mean obviously you haven't explained which is fair enough because it's private the reasons behind the breakup so we don't know it

could be anything um but five and a half years is a long time to be with somebody and you do grow and change as people along the way and sometimes you still love each other but like the other components just don't match up right yeah i did see something really interesting the other day and it was saying sort of like exactly what you just said you can still love somebody but you're just not right for them anymore and you know just i i just really think trust the process like feel the feels like you're obviously careful you're obviously such a nice guy and if you're meant to be you probably will be i think maybe this isn't

the right time I agree and I think maybe having the conversation is too soon right now it's been even six weeks which in the grand scheme of things isn't a long time at all and I think for her to have ended the relationship is quite punchy but I think that you just have to let it be like she's taken the decision to leave the relationship yeah Yeah, you don't expect it. Yeah. Maybe don't go diving into having, like, deep, intense conversations about what you guys are going to do. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think just...

You have to let her just do her thing. Let the dust settle. And if she comes back, she comes back. Let her miss you a bit. Yeah. Try actually... Post some fit pictures on Instagram. No, no, that's not cool when a boy does that.

This is the toxic piece of me coming out. I think it's kind of lame-o when a boy does that i think it's kind of lame when a boy does that what just post school bitches yeah sorry i know toby's a model so he's like accepted like i accept him doing that i'm not talking like take your top off and take a selfie like i just mean like have fun with your friends and like document it and like when someone sees someone having fun it's like also kind of a bit obvious i'm like oh who they broke up now and they're like woo look at me on the night yeah you got to make it really low-key i so agree i actually didn't post i i think it's like even better just to be radio

silent and they're like what the fuck are they doing i didn't post anything for ages i never post that ever not sure who i'm trying to impress and i post all the time trying to be so mysterious i never post anything hashtag i am also an influencer for my job but i do think it's like way cooler when people don't post i so yeah not cooler but i'm always like oh wonder what they're up to don't know never showed me no insight into their life obviously don't do the whole like I'm going out clubbing

and like I'm out with the boys and like all that shit that is death like that's just 101 not acceptable for anyone to do any sort of even if you're in a relationship boomerang of cheersing

just vomit now just no you're done any boomerang really delete delete delete 100 not a vibe any boomerang for a man it's a real no any boomerang for a girl just stop okay right really sorry we're really gunning for people the post boomerangs just turned into a session of us just telling people what they

can and can't post on instagram sorry we don't it's very like mumsy though isn't it i'm just saying it how i mean to be fair i've got no idea what's even cool anymore i don't even have tiktok we're all over tiktok you absolutely i know i don't have a personal account where i make things like neither we have a tiktok of our podcast different different thing and i never look on it and scroll scroll scroll so i don't know neither me but i think you like it's really i know but i think i would be then on my phone too much and i i don't need right now another platform that's sucking me into my phone i'm trying to minimize my screen time same how many hours a day do you look i don't know i don't i'm trying to i don't know and i really want to know i'm now leaving my phone for it's bad what when no no anyone if i'm going out for dinner and i'm really close to my house i'll like leave my phone no that's terrifying i just like lol i only did it at farmhouse but

that's melissa i would do it i was like how do you pay like i just pay all it huh no i don't take any cards no from a health and safety perspective i will take my phone okay fucking annoying though and they don't come and get their belongings i actually feel you on that i had that once especially if you live in like london it's like also if she's breaking up with you she should get her shit and get out because it's like quite annoying for you she's gotta look at her stuff every day oh yes do you know what i mean they've broken up with you and then they've just left all that stuff in your house like oh no i've never really had it i've never had it where i've broken up with someone they wouldn't get their stuff and i was like i will send you your shit it's weird that

that was a weird situation just get it out of my house like i don't want it now i will literally throw it away and take some space where is he gonna put it in a bin line with that so this is what i would do if i was you with this situation i'd be like look you can let me know when you're at home i'm gonna send you your things like no problem yeah it'd be like no stress I will just send it to you or I'll get your friend to drop it like I'll drop it at your mom's whatever like just get it out because I do think it's kind of leaving the door open it's a bit sober and like she's just thinking oh I can dip my toe back in if I want to she's seeing somebody else oh I'm sorry I know you know what these and, like, you'll be better from it.

Yeah, exactly. And you sound like such a nice guy. So, you know, the right person and the right situation is definitely going to come full force around the corner. Full force. Is that time of the week again? What time is it? Oh, I'm not so single, Darius. This is lovely that we get to do this again, isn't it?

Not so single diaries. Can I just say, just a quick update. You know, we use U-Tan. I can see it all. U-Tan, the lip liner on your lips. Does it look bad? It looks so good. And I've just realised my mum naturally has this,

like this darker outline. Right, you know who naturally had it as well? Who? Harry Barron. He was so lucky. Something happened to him when he went in the sun where he had this really nice dark and natural lip line around his lips and i remember always saying to him like i'm so jealous of this lovely lip yeah my mom had it too and i used to always be like

really across here she doesn't have a cupid's bow either so it's exactly what we like okay right yeah so we're also currently in my flat because we're just having our lashes done and we're doing our little yeah shout out emmy just um finishing off our um body and having our lashes done lovely um so not so single diaries not so single diary so oh no i've actually got something um people sent me um screenshots of toby on a dating app obviously it's not him someone impersonating him but they've written his name on the account so it looks like it's actually him and he's like normally they just change the name and use your pictures like that's

happened to him quite a few times he's like they're using my name so what did you say did you know straight away was there any part obviously no and he was like maybe if I try and re-download because I think he had Hinge like a few years ago so he's like maybe if I re-download it try and report it

but then when he downloaded it he was like you can't actually search for anyone you have to just they just have to pop up so he would never be able

to report it himself but you guys if anyone sees it you're going to have to report it basically right report the Toby on Hinge who likes Sunday roast yeah likes Sunday roast

I don't know what else they've got quite jokes really quite funny that is I want no that's so creepy that some girls are probably talking to him

thinking like is it him oh I'm dating Melissa Tatt yes this is that poor girl Melissa Tatt and this is her boyfriend and he's on Hinge

no no I can't bear it I cannot bear it right okay that's quite a not so single I was at the moment that's a good one that is do you have any other little Melissa Tatton thinks this is her boyfriend and he's on hinge. No. No, I can't bear it. I cannot bear it. Right, okay, that's quite a not-so-single that I raised at the moment. That's a good one. That is.

Do you have any other little... You guys are just completely back in full swing. He's seen my family a few times since the rekindling and also we're calling to wake up.

Actually, I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say this. What? The gothic stage. What's wrong with the gothic stage it's just because it was all a bit dark and strange for us do you call it back to your family

yeah back in the gothic stage tonight will be the night so yeah he's lovely we've obviously spoken about our gorgeous gorgeous date I just saw him again

it's all it's all hunky-dory really isn't it yeah and we're gonna get him back on so we can really just dive into the depth of the breakup

so you guys listen here any questions you want fire them over because we let's put him on the spot yeah put him through the wringer oh sweet taste

oh sweet taste bride or bride settler I have been Pull him through the wringer. Oh, sweet taste. Oh, sweet taste. Bride or bridezilla? I have been. I realise in life I'm a bit of a bridezilla just anyway compared to Jamie because he's just so nice. And I, he's just. I don't think you're a bridezilla. No, but he's just nothing for, he's just so nice. Yeah, yeah.

Like, you know us girls, I'm in my period at the moment. I'm just a bit grumpy i'm a bit sure he's just so tolerant with me isn't he he's just the ride yeah you'll be shouting he'll be like okay i'm just gonna go have some sweets from the kitchen yeah not faced by anything that boy so i also found that for some reason he doesn't like to like involve me in like meetings to do with the wedding like he really does just like to control and take everything. Fine. Which I kind of don't mind.

But then like I'm kind of a bit like when he's stressed. You wouldn't know what's going on. I'm like, why have I not been to coffee dinner? But I did see that he's like literally sorted out all of our alcohol, which is crazy. And I didn't know any of it. So he just goes, he just gets the job done, that boy. He is a job done kind of guy. I don't know how he has has the energy take my hat off

so i'm a bit grateful for him this week that's my that's my that's lovely yeah that's my um bride of barzilla this week sweet and then should we rate the wine yeah this was actually quite a cheap one and it was flipping yeah where did we get it from again tesco seven pounds and it's mcqueegan reserve a cabernet sauvignon i love a cabernetvignon. We've had quite a few of those, actually, in the past. Yeah, I can't wait to have a glass of red wine this week. Oh, my God. You know what? I've just been loving red wine so much in the past.

It's my favourite wine. But what is it? I have a question. Sometimes red wine gives you red wine lips and teeth, and sometimes I'll drink it all night and it doesn't touch. I think it's the tannin, the level of tannin. Is that... Am I saying it right?

Can someone tell us? I'm pretty sure it's tannin. Is that, am I saying it right? Can someone tell us? I'm pretty sure it's tannin. And can someone tell us what type of wine, if we're looking at a menu, if we can avoid a certain type? Because it's death when I'm going out for dinner, and then I've got that horrible gammy red wine bit on the inner part of my lisp. It's an occurring, it's a chemical in the wine that's called tannin. If anyone has any tips.

Yeah, on how we avoid the old bread wine or if there's specific wines that we can avoid there obviously are specific ones because I agree sometimes I don't get

an ounce of it like I'm completely smooth sailing and then other times I do think it's like other times I'll have two glasses I'm like

a Melbeck I gather really yeah always with a Melbeck not with a Rioja maybe I'm literally just someone needs to

some professional please give us some advice on that and I'm literally. Just someone needs to, some professional please give us some advice on that and I'm also going to rate this one because it's delicious.

Oh I feel like it was only £7 but I've always rated £7. I'm actually going to go for an 8.5 just

because it was so cheap. For the price as well I'm going to go for an 8. Because I would buy that tonight.

Same. Lovely. I might have a gas tonight. Why the hell not? You deserve it. I deserve it.

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