Wednesdays - Ep.1: Our first ever episode!!! Hopefully we don't say anything too embarrassing x

Episode Date: April 13, 2021

Hey Guys,This is our first episode of our brand new podcast which we're super excited about. We chat wine, try to answer your dilemmas, chat boyfriend drama and hopefully make you smile. Let us know what you think and remember to subscribe as a new episode is available every Wednesday's xToday we drank Williams Chase En Provence Rosé!https://www.decantalo.com/uk/en/williams-chase-en-provence-rose.html#/1-volume-75_cl/114-year-2019Our ratings are:Sophie: 8Melissa: 8Follow us on social @wednesdayswedrinkwineJamPot Productions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Oh, should we have some of our wine go on there that's like the best sound ever isn't it oh it's just wonderful that and then like the champagne cork popping is also a great time cheers cheers my love My love. Mmm. Oh, I love that. Okay, so guys, this is my choice of wine this evening. No, I feel like it's always your choice of wine. I'm not a wine drinker, really, am I? No, I did choose this wine based off the bottle, though, if I'm being honest. It's a very pretty bottle. So, guys, is it Williams Chase or Chase Williams?

Oh, I don't know. En Provence. It's a Provence, and it's, is it Williams Chase or Chase Williams? Oh, I don't know. En Provence. It's a Provence and it's a beautiful bottle. You know, if you've seen this bottle, it's like the pretty, it's usually rosé. Usually. It's usually rosé and it's £14.99. That's quite spenny. I know.

You're really treating me well today. I know, I am. Only the best for you. Love you. I actually wanted a red. Melissa wanted a rosy. So we've kind of met in the middle. We've settled in the middle.

For a white. White's really underrated as well, don't you find? I actually, I know what you mean. Because either it's like summer, everyone goes mad on rosy. And then in the winter, everyone's like, oh, let's have a glass of red. I know what you mean. But then I do feel like when you're out for dinner, I always opt for a glass of white. Especially if I know I'm going to be drinking a lot because I don't want to risk the red wine lips.

The red wine. Oh, Jamie gets them bad. Those chap lips do not bode well. Does he just never wear lip balm? No, Melissa. Yes. Yes, he wears lip balm. Buckets of it.

But it never changes. I must be like a bit. It's you. It's what you have. Melissa does this thing to the listeners. She licks her lips like Little Lizard. Non-stop. Non-stop.

And I don't know how you don't have the chap lips. Like that's what Jamie does. It's not why he has a chap lip. Yeah. Maybe it's just like sort of like eczema. You know how someone has like a bit of eczema. Maybe it's just like. Whatever it is.

It's awful. He exposes my own lips when we kiss. I'm like ow. Sometimes it cuts them. Get away from me oh my god hello guys um so this is actually our first episode we're very excited we've been wanting to do this for quite some time haven't we? I know Soph came to me well you came to me I did didn't you and you were like we've got to do it we've got to do it. We've got to do it. But I'm also like, I'm not, let's be totally honest, I'm not the most proactive. I feel like Melissa's, Melissa, although not to look at, I don't think you think this about you, but you're really hardworking.

Oh, thank you. That was such a nice compliment. It is true. I try my best. You're a try-out best. Whereas I don't think I am. I feel like you just, this is like your calling, especially as like you're around. Oh my God, don't say that.

I mean, you chat all the time non-stop and i always listen to me like you and sophie just talk about nothing but you're always talking yeah it's so true don't tell them that we're gonna talk about we're not gonna just talk about nothing it's gonna be very valuable information coming from these so we thought basically what do we love we love talking and we love wine so yeah we thought we'd combine them together i love a bit of girl chat we love we love talking and we love wine so yeah we thought we'd combine them together i love a bit of girl chat we love a bit of girl chat i love listening to girl chats basically we're gonna have a gossip we're gonna try and answer some of your guys dilemmas yeah um help out think of ourselves as agony arts exactly sister sophie and sister melissa

and just see and hopefully you guys enjoy it and keep setting the same new dilemmas and we can really help you out become life coaches and it's also just quite nice just listening to two girls chat like having us two girls having to chat to you guys is always just quite a nice yeah we're basically just having an excuse to drink wine really having a nice chat and drinking wine yeah we're gonna also mix up and have a different wine every week so any recommendations on wine bring them in hit us up we are welcome to any suggestions we're not huge wine connoisseurs as i said i mean i basically stick to roseanne summer the same pinot noir in the winter what pinot noir do you drink it's this one that we have from my little general store downstairs. Harry buys it every time.

I love Pinot Noir. It's just such a smooth drinking wine, isn't it? And also, it's quite light. You don't feel that, like, heavy, sluggish. I feel you. Mermy. Do you know what I mean? I do.

And also, you can have it cold, so you can actually have it in the summer. Oh, yes. Yes, you've told me this before about you don't actually have to have wine red wine that's warm it can be cold so i'll explain it to you guys so basically back in the day obviously everyone's like oh red wine gotta have it room temperature but actually and obviously white wine and rose keep it in the fridge have it cool but actually when they discovered this or when whoever the wine person inventor yeah the wine inventor who just came up with this great fact back in the day they didn't actually have

general heating so their room temperature was a lot cooler than what our room temperature was in fact it was probably you know much cold yeah cool and they would have been kept in the wine cellar so it wouldn't actually like fridge temperature so we should actually be having our bread wine cool tastes nicer yeah i prefer it sometimes when it's too warm i'm like oh it it's not it's gravy right yeah it feels like a roast dinner going down your throat in bath water no yeah no get away from me we obviously don't take what we're saying as gospel we are not experts this is just our opinion we might be after this day

oh I'm sure actually we should probably get on a wine tasting course to be honest great excuse clue ourselves up a bit more um but also for any listeners

who don't know Melissa and I we have been friends for what four years now no it's a bit less is it

feels like a lifetime I think in no I think in January next year it would have been four, it's a bit less. Is it? A bit less. It feels like a lifetime, hasn't it? I think in, no, I think in January next year, it would have been four years. So it's been like three and a half. God, you really can't keep down the dates. The only reason I know is because Harry and I, when Harry and I met, it was like November, so that'll be our four years. And I met you in January because I started filming then. Here she is with her facts.

Oh my God. I have the best memory, guys. Long time ago. I have a really good memory as well. Do you? You don't remember the date we met though honey It's like a little anniversary in my mind I remember it was January

How did that happen to me? But Melissa and I met on a show called Made in Chelsea Reality show And we We hit it off from day one didn't we? We did We bonded from the moment we met I went home and I was like

Harry I found my soulmate. I'm meeting Chelsea. Yeah. I actually think I slid into your DM. You did. Yeah. And you asked me if I was going to an event day and you were really kind. And I remember being like, oh, Harry, Sophie's asking me if I'm going on what I'm wearing.

Yeah. An event day is actually just like an event. It's like going to a party. And I basically said, Melissa, what are you wearing? Yeah, you were really kind. You reached out. That was really sweet, actually. I actually I thought you know what I quite like her she's very sweet didn't really have any other friends I didn't have a choice didn't have a choice a bat into a corner no I thought we're gonna get on well and then we sort of hit it off from then

yeah been through ups and downs we've been through a lot of ups and downs to get through holidays we have I think that's also why our friendship has been so good because we've been through ups and downs we've been through a lot of ups and downs together holidays we have i think that's also why our friendship has been so good because we've been through everything any friendship could possibly ever go yeah we really have we've seen it all we have we have we've come out stronger um so yeah we just thought that we would chat to you guys and read your dilemmas i feel like we should read a dilemma yeah we actually had quite a few of you send in some so thank you so much yeah very actually to start this is really off topic this isn't really in in the the order but

did you have any dilemmas this week? Like, any small things that you were like, shit, that really shouldn't have happened? Oh. I feel like we should maybe do a weekly dilemma. I quite like that. What that we've had? Yeah. I'm trying to think. If I have anything, it's probably, it's like something really pathetic. Like, what am I going to, I don't know,

what am I going to have for dinner? Or what am I going to do next weekend? But there's just not much choice at the moment. So, like. Yeah, mine are quite dull. That is literally all my dilemma is. My relationship right now is very good, but you could say very boring because there's just no are you having sex because i i'm not i'm just i really off topic and super creepy we are not it has died down over

the years naturally no it's locked down locked down and then i was gonna say lockdown is added to that yeah as well and i'm like i'm not gonna I'm not gonna initiate it I'm the girl I'm like you should be coming I might be a bit awkward now like I'm almost a bit nervous I think I might have to I know what you mean like it's almost a bit it feels a bit weird like if you were like the other night I thought oh god are we gonna have sex I honestly thought that which is do I need to give myself a shave or a wax yeah and I And I honestly thought, oh my God, I have like a bit of fear, like,

God, is this coming off? Oh my God, that's quite nice. That's sort of, I know what you mean. Like when it, when it goes on,

I get the same, but then you get back in the groove and then it goes away again. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like once you've not had that vibe or that,

you know, that intimacy with somebody for a while, it then sort of just stays dormant for a while. Yeah, it really has. I actually feel like it's up to us girls in the relationship to spice it back up again, which is really not fair. I'm like, you should be doing this.

I'm a hot piece. Yeah, you tell him, honey. I'm serious. The boys should be doing all that. I so agree. My friend always says this, my friend Chrissy, I mean, she'll probably get angry,

I'm saying, she's like, why didn't you just like, my friend Chrissy, I mean, she'll probably get angry at me for saying, she's like, why didn't you just like, I actually asked her, I was like, she was like, linger, like,

kiss for longer. I was like, oh my God, I can't. It is so out of my nature. So. I mean, as you listen to this more,

you're going to realize why I'm like, we're both pretty prude. We're quite prude. Is it prude-ish? Yeah, prude-ish. I don't think we're so bad to the point that we can't talk about quite is it prudish yeah prudish i don't think we're so bad to the point we can't talk about sex with friends no i don't mind that but

i'm just not an overly i guess i'm not overly sexual human beings we're just not i just yeah i'm not really one to like if you had me to daddy talking i think oh no it would just never it would just never happen it'd be wrong like people would be wrong it would be wrong from the get-go i'm so with you i'd make the boyfriend uncomfortable it's like really weird so i just i don't know it's just not it's it's it's tricky one but i feel like you know we've got some dates now of when things are going to start opening up what so like we're going to plan it on the night we go to our first restaurant things start to just automatically feel different and more romantic when you go out for dinner and you have wine and then there's that like excitement getting ready for a date again whereas we just don't have that right now i think it's normal guys if any of you are going through this do

not worry it's me and safe know what you're going through yeah yeah i'm too i'm like two years in i'm like is this what happens when you're two years in sorry i thought you like two years in. I'm like, is this what happens when you're two years in? Sorry, I thought you meant two years in without sex. Oh, God, no. If you're two years in without sex, I'm really sorry. Write us in, because that's a bloody dilemma in itself. You've got to just cut that off. Yeah. You've got to question what's going on down there.

Oh. Sorry, it's all right. Anyway. Oh, my God. Anyway, we digress. That's my dilemma. My dilemma is I'm not having sex. Well, I mean, you we digress that's my dilemma my dilemma is i mean you know what that's my dilemma i like no neither do i love it i'm like

i'm like yes another week made it no i'm joking i'm awful but there's nothing worse than being pestered with like you know no there isn't, there isn't. I agree. I agree. We all know. You know what? Also, we have old boyfriends. That's something else we forget. I'm 33. I'm not sure he's, like, grey-haired. If this is what he's like now, what's he going to be like when we've got kids? Fully slowed down. I'll be literally like, yee-haw.

Yee-haw as in, like, yes, not like yee-haw. Oh, golly, what are we going to rub up? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm really digressing. Anyway. Okay, so we've chosen two dynamos. I'm excited about these. They're both anonymous.

Okay, ready? So my boyfriend used to see this girl. Should we not say names? So for the sake of ease, should we give the girl and the boy a name? Totally. For every podcast. So the girl is gonna be called

jenny yeah well i like jenny yeah and boy john john jenny and john right this is gonna be a reoccurring thing okay so my boyfriend used to see this girl jenny before me then i came into the picture and i know it for a fact she resented me that i won the boy who she apparently saw a future with but i was like who cares about her I won't see her anyway fast forward to now and Jenny is going out with my best guy mate and I don't know how to act around her she's sickly sweet to everyone and is always eyes to my face like it's clearly so fake and I'm not really into that I think there's some jealousy competitiveness between us but how do I not how do you recommend I act I hate being around her because the thought of her and my boyfriend makes me feel horrible

but I need to accept she'll be in my life now. Woof. Oh my god. She must be rotting. That is like the ultimate like worst scenario. Like you stole the boy from her and now she's stolen your best guy mate. And it's like you have to be around her all the time. What if she's just like really doing some master plan to get back the boyfriend.

I almost feel like there was probably a part of her that really enjoyed winning over this boy. Because she was like, you know what? That's a great sort of F you. What do you mean? Winning over the best friend? Yeah. So she was probably like, it's just a bonus. And there's probably a part of her that was almost, I't know I don't know we don't know but like maybe she was a part of her

that was doing it just for that reason yeah part of me thinks that she was like so fixated oh god why are we so dark like this is not sorry but like I also just know that girls can be so calculated like yeah we just have seen it so like I wouldn't be surprised if there was a part of her that was so what what I would think personally and I've been through we've all been through this we've all had crazy ex-girlfriends we really have um have I been one we've all had crazy ex-girlfriends yeah like you know oh my god yeah we both have we both have this mega yeah and like when they just really resent you and you're just like okay leave us be now and I do think they can go to some except like I could part you've actually had this you've actually had this almost exact scenario what do you mean with who where you've

gone out with someone yeah that was like you you basically stole the boy from somebody she got then got so I did not steal the boy but I've had an ex-girlfriend yeah yeah that then went after your ex no she didn't go after him did she get with the picture no she just became friends with him yeah okay but still like it's just like that was so like there was so a plan there I do think that that look why was she even hanging out with your best friend like your best guy friend like it's obviously

to get back at you we're not very good at hanging out so we're like staring the pot we're like go on if I was you in this scenario because you're not going to have a choice here you can't go to your

guy friend and be like look she's a psycho I think this this and this which is obviously not what you're thinking that's what we're thinking but you're just going to have to

just I almost think hold your tongue be you know be okay with her let her carry on being fake and making an over yeah the noise compensating for like this situation which she obviously is by trying to be so nice all the time I can't stand people like that I know what you mean when people are sickly sweet it really gets under my skin especially when you know that they obviously it's natural that if she if you are going out with her ex-boyfriend she wouldn't she would feel weird about you like you feel weird about her but obviously the fact she's being so sickly sweet it's obviously a bit unauthentic are we really negative no I don't think so we're just real and unless you know if you've got a serious commitment to this guy friend and you're going to be friends with him,

you're going to either have to sort of confront her and just have a chat with her about it and be like, look, girl to girl, this is what I'm feeling. I know there's like a vibe in the air, there's an animosity. Oh God, no, I wouldn't do that. No, neither would I. But some people just, like, it gets so bad where they have to have the conversation. When you're drunk, maybe just be like, look, I know it was a bit awkward at first, but I actually like you. Whatever.

Give her some of this Chase Wine. It's getting her swimmingly. I know. It's opening in Canawa. No, but I do think that if you have any opportunity where you have had a drink, I mean, not too many where you like literally wake up with beer for the next morning. But maybe it's that sort of environment is what I mean. Don't make it awkward and text and be like, oh, let's have a chat. Oh, definitely not.

Definitely not. I would probably then just be like, look, this is what I mean. Don't make it awkward in text when we're like, oh, let's have a chat. Oh, definitely not. Definitely not. I would probably then just be like, look, this is a bit weird. Like, obviously we went on a bit like, wiping the skate clean. You're going out with Brian or whatever he's called. Yeah. John. And I'm obviously going out with your ex. It is a bit awkward, but let's make the most of it.

You're really sweet and I'm sure that we can make this work. And you know what? You just have to also be like, I want whoever this boy is that she's now going out with john i just want john to be happy you clearly make that happen i think you're a really sweet girl play on that vibe i think that's what yeah just be like i love him and i think that you obviously make him happy and that makes me love you yeah yeah yeah what could she do with that then nothing you know and then as long as she's actually being sweet and nice, you don't want her being nasty.

There is the other way, the other way of looking at it where you actually just think, do you know what? Maybe it is just a weird scenario and she actually... Is handling it really well. Yeah, she's actually just thinking, God, this girl must feel really uncomfortable around me, i.e. you. I'm going to be over nice to make her feel really uncomfortable. But obviously you're like, that's making me feel a bit weird.

Are we rambling or do you understand what I'm saying? No, I understand what you're saying. Yeah. I hope you guys do. Hey, you're a Canadian podcast listener and that makes you important to us. We'd like to know more about you, what you think of this podcast, and the other podcasts you'd like to hear. So we put together a super brief survey we'd like you to fill out. Complete it, and we'll give you a chance to win one of three

$100 Amazon gift cards. That way, we can say thanks for your opinion. Just go to mypodcastsurvey.ca and have your say. That's mypodcastsurvey.ca and have your say that's mypodcastsurvey.ca but you know what i mean she might actually might have to start looking at things in not such a cynical way not way yeah but i do yeah i feel like girls do this and that's because we know that us girls we do it to other girls almost yeah so it's like i do dark twisted characters we're from venus or wherever they say we're from oh it's from i know that's a little bongus um yeah i think that's your best move absolutely be kind be friendly speak about it maybe put put you know the ball in your court and like be the one to bring it up first and, like, really play it down and just be like,

look, it's fine, I'm chilled, so are you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, speak about it. Crush the elephant in the room, as they would say. And then you've been the bigger person and you've moved on from it and whatever. Yeah. Right.

Second one? Second down, Emma. This girl's beautiful. I'm not going to mention who she is. Oh, is she? Not a biggie, but my boyfriend of seven months won't post anything to do with me on social media. Oh. I'm a total secret.

He says he just forgets to tag me. It was my birthday, I think. He didn't even post anything then. Am I overreacting? Is he hiding me? Watch your opinion, please. Oh. Off the bat, I'm going to say no, no.

Something fishy's going on. Oh. Oh, my God. would I like to look through his phone not that I'm psycho or anything wow that

to me yeah what are your complete like initial reactions right my initial gut feeling is that's not right um he should be proud of you

yes fine if he's not somebody he posts on social media but have you brought it up to him that's fine, if he's not somebody who posts on social media. Posts on social media at all. But have you brought it up to him? That's the problem. If you've not flagged it, which she obviously says she has because she says that he's saying he forgets to tag her.

Yeah. Then it's an issue. If you've not brought it up, maybe he doesn't even know how Instagram works. But if you've addressed it with him and he's still not doing it, why would... There's something going on below the surface for sure why would you not just do it even if you don't care about it just to make your girlfriend happy

to reassure her yeah he should be proud of you like i just said you're really beautiful he should be showing you off like i don't understand why guys do this tell me your view i totally agree i think it's fully outrageous i would you know for the first couple months fair enough because it's new but seven months you're knocking on almost a year now and I think that he should be super proud like I've been quite I guess lucky in the respect that I feel like and same with Jamie like they're both very like open and proud of like the fact that like we're with them but I have friends that just boyfriends don't post about them and I'm like god like what is the reason like I think that there's always something odd going on beneath the surface so if I was you I would need to have a chat with him I'd just be like you know what what is going on here because you clearly do know how to work social media and you're sharing your life so why

wouldn't you share me I'm a part of your life now you know I share you that's what people do especially if it's like on purpose like nothing yeah there's no like a little bit here and there absolutely nothing that's like are you trying to appear like you're single I don't know these questions would just run through my head yeah I totally get that and also bless her she was like it's not a biggie at all I can live in that is. Yeah, you're also, don't put it down and don't let him. I can imagine a boy, I'm sorry to stereotype, but I can imagine a boy being like, oh my God, you're crazy. It doesn't matter about social media.

Yeah, it actually does because girls are insecure. But it is boys, you know, it is just kind of the way, and I'm not, again, I don't mean to. It's the way the world works these days. I don't even mean to generalize things it's just like a thing girls do have insecurities I'm speaking from my own personal thing like I find you know another thing boys like in girls photos I've had this with Jamie he's like what's the issue loads of my girlfriends have it they're like he's like what's the issue I've like it's it's liking a picture I know and then I'm like

no because that girl will be like oh he's like and then the issue it's liking a picture I know I'm like no because that girl will be like oh he's liked my photo and then that girl's like oh I kind of feel sorry for the girlfriend because he's kind of disrespecting her

and then it sort of like it spirals from there and obviously liking photos is another thing and if like he knows them and like I like boys photos as well

but to me it literally is yeah but Jamie wouldn't give a flying monkey if i liked and i like loads of harry but it's like if she does it it's like how long and it's also like how often the light's happening but why is it different and why do boys do that interesting topic that one i think because i think we should go into it. Boys, unfortunately, they have dicks. And that is the problem. Yeah.

They're just arseholes. We hate boys. Should we change the name to this podcast as We Hate Boys? Oh, my God. No, but it is just a thing. There are, yes, I applaud girls who are literally, I couldn't care. But the reality is, and I am a massive girls' girl. All my friends, my closest friends are girls.

And the reality is, I'm not alone in thinking, I know all of my friends would be vastly upset if their boy wasn't posting them on social media. Secondly, if they were liking girls' photos, whether it be whatever, and they think it's so innocent that is just the way it is unless you're obviously friends with these people it's different if there's like obviously they're making b-lines for random girls on instagram but the reality is is that there are so many beautiful random girls on instagram that is so easy for them just to go

double double tap and in their mind they're like I'm doing anything are you crazy crazy girlfriend and we're like because you don't want to appear crazy you know what I almost think that Harry is so aware of the fact that I may be crazy so he just doesn't do it he almost has a thing in his head being like oh actually that me what's the point yeah i don't know rattle that cage with you and he's always just like the dragon the inner psycho will come out he hasn't actually seen that fully fully yet oh as the years are going on for like four years go on i get worse and worse and i feel myself getting we were really digressing here yeah i quite like it

i do find myself letting more of my like true self come out which is obviously like a bit more and I don't know maybe it's because of lockdown yeah and I'm like oh god it's bringing this beast out of me but I'm like I feel and he's like no you're fine and I'm like oh no I apologize all the time no I I'm exactly the same and I go back and I sort of like I don't know I have a go and then I go into the bedroom I'm like god I was such a bitch because he's always so nice back and I'm like I'm an awful human and so like I feel like as time goes on with people you definitely do like become I guess it's like your boundaries get a bit blurred especially in this time and you don't know where to I'm blaming it blaming it all on lockdown, but God forbid that we, like, are actually just that serious.

We're just like that. Please realise that I'm an absolute nutcase. Like, honestly, he's like... Actually, Jamie said to me the other day, I was like, well, OK, sorry, we're trying to... We obviously had a fight and he went, I think you just need to get anger management therapy. No.

No, don't take it seriously. No, I feel bad for him. I'm not actually serious. By the way, to the listeners, I'm not, like, coming at him with a bottle of, like, a bottle of crap over his head. Oh, my God. He irritates me.

It's just words, guys, obviously. Is it, like, scratching? We're really digressing, but I quite enjoy it. Oh, my God. But do you know what I mean? I'm going to blame it on podcasts. We'll come to... Podcasts? I'm going to blame it on podcasts. mean? I'm going to blame it on podcasts. We'll come to... Podcasts?

On podcasts. I'm going to blame it on podcasts. No, I'm going to blame it on lockdown. Totally. And we'll come back to this. This topic. Another day. I do feel like it's definitely needed to be covered.

Yeah, I do too. But coming back to social media, I think it is a really, really tricky thing between girls and boys. I think that girls have different morals. I think that we have, we're more sensitive. I do think we are. Also, I'm sorry, but boys aren't stupid.

If this boy knows what he's doing on social media, he knows that that's the thing that people do. I have people. Yeah, I'm not giving him any excuse. I have girlfriends that don't, that hate social media, that never post on it, but their only posts are of them and their girlfriends. So I actually don't think that this is okay. And I think that you need to. I think call them out on it. their only posts are of them and their girlfriends so i actually don't think that this is okay and i think that you need to i think call him out on it yeah totally just be like look

what's the reason and if he stutters be like well what if you don't know how to use social media what do you use it for like who are you liking yeah who do you follow it's about question that exactly it's about sharing your life honey and if he's sharing his life but he's like very obviously excluding you from it i don't think that's right definitely not i also just think that personally regardless of whether he i know i've already said this but regardless of whether he like knows how to use it or what if you have said to him yeah it makes me upset or like i feel insecure about it, whether he agrees with it or not, you do it.

He just makes your girlfriend happy. Yeah. Totally agree with you. So I don't think you're over-exaggerating at all. I think it's so valid. And I'd be really upset if on my birthday, Jamie didn't post anything. I'd actually be like, has your phone broken? I would be so upset.

So upset. It's almost sad that we come to this with social media, but it's just the way the world is. But it's just the way the world is. And if if he's posting anyway then why wouldn't he post you if he's posting himself and his friends that's the same thing isn't it yeah well it does sort of make you think is he trying to come across single that's like like red red flags are happening for me right now what else is he using it for? I do know exactly what you mean. God, I wish we could just read more, darling.

I know. I love them. These are amazing, guys. Also, like, it's so great because we can so relate to these. Yeah. I'm like, God, I totally feel you. And we've all had friends that have gone through this. Or we've gone through it ourselves.

Yeah. Yeah, I can really relate to that one. Not speaking from experience, but we do have a friend who's gone through very or we've gone through ourselves like yeah yeah I can really relate to that one not speaking from experience but we do have a friend who's gone through very similar we do um

right well we've spoken about our dilemmas shall we listen to our boyfriend question

go on there so this is something that we're going to do we're going to have a question from Melissa we can't break up with them because then the whole podcast structure is completely yeah go on there so this is something that we're going to do we're going to have a question from melissa we can't break up with them because then the whole podcast structure is completely yeah um we're gonna have a question from harry and jamie harry is melissa's boyfriend and

jamie is mine we're gonna have one from either of them each week we don't know who it's from and we don't know what the question is ultimately Ultimately, they're moaning about us, let's be honest. Yeah, bring it on. I'm perverse. I don't know what they're going to say. Oh, so am I. They have nothing to moan about. Okay, right, let's play Harry's. I got him to send me this voice note.

So fresh. And it's Harry. I love you more than anything, but you are the messiest person I think I've ever, ever known. And I just want to know, why are you the messiest person ever? Why does he, he hurts my heart. You've got to explain why he calls you Prashbaz, because else everyone's going to know what the hell.

This is actually quite relevant, because we have our dog with us right now, one of my family dogs. So, a while ago, my family pooch, this is way prior lockdown, prior COVID, she was staying with Harryry and i for a couple of weeks and we had to go and actually we had to go to do to filming for the day and we were like right we need the pooch to stay with somebody um so harry's friend looked after her and my mum

messaged us like make sure that he takes really good care of her she is precious and we just i don't know why it just was so funny to us that he that my mum had said that about boppy which is our dog and we started saying it to one another and her when she was staying with us it's like a joke and then just shortened to prash and it's just stuck ever since and now actually all of our friends call us both prash as well yeah I call melissa prash actually not anyone and everyone in the world you keep calling everyone prash it's no i didn't i did that for space melissa honestly i called like emily my friend prash or like somebody you know pressure she was like why are you calling him precious just mine and harry's thing you can't then go using that nickname on everybody you know so basically she's

prash forever so i'm prash and harry's and you're very messy. Okay, so my... I've been at boarding school my, like, a lot of my, like, childhood life from the age of, like, 10 to boarding school. 10! Tiny, tiny 10. 10, 11, yeah. Being a... Loved it. It was my choice, totally. My parents lived close. I could have been a day pupil, but... I was never messy.

Like, I was always quite normal. Like, slightly on the side of being tidy. No one ever complained about me. I've lived with people my whole life. But sometimes when you're, I think it's being a girl, when you're getting changed, you're taking an Instagram photo,

like if you're in this industry, you try on a lot of outfits and then just stuff ends up on the floor. It doesn't get tidied up straight away because who lives like that? Only Harry, obviously. So he doesn't tidy. And then like, like today, for example, today for example like he's on the bed like thanks for leaving this here for me oh my god

just he tied you up for you though that's the question no he would never tidy up my clothes the only thing he will tidy up is like if i've cooked he does the tidying and i'm like that's so fair jamie does but sometimes i will make myself something and not for him and I leave it out on the side and he'll do it and I don't know if it's like a default thing is that I know he's gonna clear it up now which is really oh god you're like Jamie to me so is Jamie the messy one no Jamie thinks I am which is so oh my god I'm so happy because I'm like I'm not that messy I know girls are so messy I'm so clean like I really am the cleanest person ever like I wipe the sides everything's spotless but messy yeah I am different yeah same I'm clean it's organized mess like I won't leave

out for the whole day like before dinner it's all tidied away does that make sense like I never have like cleaner than me I know I'm quite good like I'd never have dinner with I've got stuff on the table right now and I would never have dinner with that on the table. Right. But Jamie comes in, takes his trousers off, sits in his boxers, socks over his head, jumps on the floor. Wait, wait, wait, let's rewind for a second. Yeah, he comes in and gets naked every day. What, he takes his trousers off to sit on the sofa?

Yes, that's fine. I don't know. I've sat on that sofa. Yeah. He has so many gross habits. No. Welcome to my house. But what's the point in taking off your trousers

because he likes to sit naked not naked he's in his boxer i don't know melissa it's disgusting like you know what it doesn't even surprise me because jamie's so that human being he's right i don't know the logic behind it though. Like trousers are so comfortable. No. Yeah, he was in his tracksuit. Is that on the... I come down in the morning, like, because obviously when we go to bed,

I'm like quite tired. I'm like, I'll tackle it in the morning. Come down in the morning, it's like a trail of his clothes around the house. I'm like, why? Okay, but he still has to get you

for being messy. Interesting. Yeah. Never. I don't think he knows how to make... Does Harry make the bed? Because making a bed... Yeah. If I get make have it does harry make the bed because making a bed if i get up first he'll just make it jamie making a bed is like i it's so funny like he'll

put the pillows like back to front like it is it looks like a bike oh my god no stop that's like my dad not a clue not a clue not a clue harry's quite actually domesticated he's quite good yeah harry's very he's not bad he is very untouched his feminine features features yes like poofing a pillow so he doesn't know how to poof a pillow well i always like to do a karate chop he doesn't quite do it as well oh i can't do that you gotta have really nice goose pillows for that yeah you do you can't have the old fake foamy i don't have those i still can't quite work it out anyway i'm getting slightly slightly drunk so i mean this wine by the way massive recommendation it's very let's just talk about the wine for a second actually it's very light yeah it's very like it's dry drinkable dry right i hate this oh my god so do i

i'm not actually a fan of some serving Mignon Blancs fine but quite a lot whenever anyone's ordered them Gavi de Gavi is that Gavi

that's my favourite I've only really I'm going to be totally honest I don't drink wine at all I drink Pinot Noir and a

you like good gin and tonic I know like I'm more of like a margarita cocktail kind of gal but Melissa gets so irritated with me so I'm like

every time I'm with Melissa I go into the wines I'm like order whatever no no this is what Sophie does okay so we'll be at dinner

and she'll be like can I have a glass of Prosecco please and I'm like okay great and then if we're with other people me and the other person

will order a bottle of wine and we'll drink and then Sophie then orders can I have another glass of Prosecco please and this goes on for like the two hour dinner

by which point she's ordered glass by glass over two bottles of two hours i'm like you have honestly just spent so much money when you might as well just had a bottle and then i'm like should we split the bill at one point i was like you need to get a bottle now do you remember yeah get a bottle so all for myself because we're really not alcoholics, I promise. Oh my God, it's because you're so like confident at the beginning of the meal that you're not going to drink that much. So you're like,

let's do it by the glass and it just never ends that way. So it just doesn't. It really doesn't, does it? Okay. Well, look, here I am. I'm going to come out of this. Well done.

Being able to drink wine. Yes. Next week, can we have a gavvy to gavvy? Oh my God, I'm going to leave. Next week is up to you. You buy the wine. I feel like that's really expensive. Well, you know, I treated you, honey.

Yeah, you did me? All right. Anyway, guys, thank you so, so much. This has been so much fun. This has been so great. I can't wait to do this every week. I can't either. Please remember to send us your dilemmas, problems,

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