Wednesdays - Returning to the dating game ft. Cecilie Fjellhøy

Episode Date: December 19, 2022

This is an extra special bonus episode with Cecilie Fjellhøy, from one of our favourite reality shows, E4’s Celebs Go Dating. You’ve probably also watched her on Net...flix's Tinder Swindler Documentary! We’re chatting all about dating and relationships (the good and the bad!), whether Cecilie has ventured back onto Tinder, and how she’s now finding love on Celebs Go Dating. Thanks so much to Cecilie and remember - you can stream Celebs Go Dating on All 4 or watch the series weeknights at 10pm on E4. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Melissa, are you a doctor? I want to be, but I'm not. I'm not a doctor either, and we're not psychologists. We're not. We're not experts at anything. In fact, we just chatted all the shit, so... And we love giving you guys advice, but as we said... We love giving you guys advice.
Starting point is 00:00:20 Do not take what we're saying as gospel. If you do feel like you need to speak to somebody, please seek professional help. Hello and welcome to this week's episode of Wednesdays Who Drink Wine sponsored by Celebs Go Dating. Guys if you've never watched Celebs Go Dating where have you been? Here's the premise. The show has a cast of single celebrities joined an exclusive dating agency in a bid to find true love. Matchmakers pair them up with a non-celebrity partner and the cameras capture every romantic and cringe-filled moment in previous years we've actually had quite a few of our friends go on celebrity dating shout out sam thompson we're
Starting point is 00:00:57 big fans over here and this series the cast includes pop queen sunita love islands laura anderson apprentice star navid soul geordie shaw's beth and kershaw and taui's pete wicks The cast includes pop queen Sunita, Love Island's Laura Anderson, Apprentice star Naveed Sol, Geordie Shore's Bethan Kershaw and Taui's Pete Wicks, all hoping to find love. Joining us for a glass of wine on the sofa this week, we have a very special guest who features in this season's of Slurps Go Dating, Cecilia, best known for sharing her story on the tinder swindler documentary welcome big round of applause we're so so excited to have you on yeah i mean obviously we're going to talk more about your current situation and stuff but just for the audience who didn't maybe watch tinder swindler and know your background yeah would be like useful to sort of give a bit of a debrief about it yeah it's kind of such a wild journey but i had just moved to london and uh i used tinder and swiped right on a guy i shouldn't have swiped
Starting point is 00:01:55 right on met him quite quickly and um he told me that he was the prince of diamonds and not directly oh my gosh i remember yeah he was the ceo of a prince of diamonds yeah he didn't say like hello he didn't say i'm the prince of diamonds so that's stupid but it's become a thing um but he said that my dad's the king of diamonds and then um he was the ceo of the diamonds as in basically was like i'm like the family like it's a it's the levi family he said he was from which is right he was trying to be uh part of a family he's not part of uh oh they were a real family yeah so when you looked it up was it legit yeah no the thing is that this type of family like it's not that they put out everything but
Starting point is 00:02:42 you were checking like he had his email from ld diamonds like so like no it's bizarre that they put out everything. No, it's very private. But you were checking, like, he had his email from LD Diamonds. No, it's bizarre. And kind of his Instagram account. Like, you were checking. He was tagged in pictures. Simon Levi, my friend Simon. Like, you go back and he had created this fake persona with a lot of people around him.
Starting point is 00:02:58 And then he came into danger, which, you know, red flag in fraud. But if they've hooked you in, made me really scared. And at that point in time, he was my boyfriend and I did love him. And he asked if he could use my card, my name as protection. Of course, that's money.
Starting point is 00:03:16 But I viewed it as protection. And with time, you got into this ordeal of giving him more and more money. I took more and more loans. And in the end, I was £200 and more loans and in the end I was 200 000 pounds in debt by the end of it and that is an extreme number for one person an immense just think about like how life-changing I mean yeah and you you're young you're so young and you were so young at the time it has completely derailed my entire life both where I live you know um in my economy like I owned an apartment in Norway to ask this you haven't been able to manage to get the money I had to make
Starting point is 00:03:53 myself bankrupt here in the UK wow so I went through um that ordeal which was had to go and get my bank accounts shut down got my money in an envelope and I was just none of my bank cards were working think about all the direct debits that you needed to tell them it was it's it's so much practical stuff that you don't think about and this is why you know with the tv show I'm doing now it's so nice to actually focus on the relationship and the love you thought you had because everyone is like oh the money what are you going to do and then you have the love and the heartbreak on top of that kind of thing so you were obviously in love yeah and that is i think i don't care if people believe me or not like this is not something you do for someone that you're not in love with obviously i think everyone watching it
Starting point is 00:04:43 you know and that's why you know you're on an amazing show now celebs go dating it's so loved in the uk i mean i'm such a fan says melissa and it's also quite a light program which is probably quite nice a change for you to be for me having fun and for me i there is some tears there as well i've seen now but i i think it's just so wonderful for me to just have fun and smile and to show that throughout these years it hasn't been just pain you know but you become resilient and all the amazing people you met and um i met him in tel aviv in in the summer actually oh stop oh shit oh my god you give us the god tell me by mistake uh one time was not by mistake but that will come out i can't say much okay it's coming out soon something was it filmed obviously uh but
Starting point is 00:05:34 one other time was not i was just at a beach bar in tel aviv just enjoying myself and then one of the girls comes spring after me he's here look and she's taking a selfie with him and he comes just walking in and i see him and i'm like how are they even serving him and then when he walks out we lock eyes and then i just wink at him and then he just leaves and it's just to see him first of all he's gotten fat oh yippee calm as a bitch not that he was but it's even worse now and i think it's because you know he's stuck in Israel, just drinking and eating. Not being healthy. It was so, to see him and stand in front of him. And like, it was just such a weird, because I've never spoken to him.
Starting point is 00:06:18 I mean, of all the places and all the beach bars in the world, at that time, that is spooky. It's more, you're sad that he has the opportunity to go and be there i wouldn't wish there's no justice being served no i just wish that more kind of you know companies and stuff like that would say oh we don't want your service so that is wild that in this day and age that's not happening like it's public knowledge everyone knows why is he allowed into these places it's almost saying that you can he can carry on doing what he's doing it's always allowing it as he said to another victim no one cares as long as they get their money and as long as he continues to defraud people he have money and then the people who then they want
Starting point is 00:07:00 they take the money yeah so they take the money disgusting but i i feel we got the upper hand anyways he's stuck where he is and he's so i'm kind of very very happy that he can travel and his face is out there i don't care that is a win for me absolutely so um he can't hopefully do this to a lot of other people some people are still falling for it but it's it's wild yeah but moving on from that negative part of or negative and positive in many ways because i bet it's grown and like it's got you to where you are here yeah yeah i'm sitting here with you fine folks so i'm like who would have thought you know this is what i mean um but you know you've got like an amazing experience like celebs go dating and obviously that is all about finding love dating and i guess
Starting point is 00:07:51 we just like we're so intrigued like how have you found yourself throwing obviously you were so vulnerable and you know you let your guard down and you got you know screwed over massively how have you found it going back into the dating scene for me like just being on the show has been kind of like a relief it's been like finally someone can decide for me yes you're not having to do yourself and also i guess you don't want to be going on the dating apps again maybe i have actually but yeah uh that's just one one bad guy and i and another thing is that i love dating i love going on dates i love going on first dates so have you been dating did you jump back straight into the jump dating pool i jumped a bit too quick back because i was the kind of girl i didn't want him
Starting point is 00:08:37 on me i felt like he was the last one i'd kissed done not a very good feeling so i jumped a bit too quickly back i wish i would have waited but i've been using it like it's been covid like what are you what a single girl to do like she's we were stuck like you're you're using them but i'm so much a vibrator congenial you need the company you need the chat yeah i just love a man as well i love men you know i sometimes i hate i love them but i i do love them you know they're so they're such they are such different creatures i know and as i say when people are wondering if you're straight or gay i was like okay i wouldn't be it by like i know i love a man you know like i just like i just like even though i can see that a woman is beautiful but like when i see a good looking man i'm like yeah why have people
Starting point is 00:09:29 asked you and been like do you just want to go over to women just because you got frauded by men is that what you're saying it's not the situation you know when it gets so bad that people are like i might just turn yeah yeah but that's no i think that just the deeper topics of like you know misogyny and insults with just bigger topics that i've been surrounded that it's just the deeper topics of like you know misogyny and insults just bigger topics that i've been surrounded myself in i just went straight away no no sorry the more like you can appreciate a good one sometimes you're just why can't i just like women you know it would be simpler in some ways but i but a man and a good man you know and i've been i have to say my previous dating history is not just bad i've had i feel so bad it was an ex-date that wrote to me on instagram like you haven't met
Starting point is 00:10:10 just bad people you know oh like give me some credit i know poor poor these men you know who are actually genuinely nice guys you know there's nothing bad with them and now they're just fitting in getting put into this bowl as cecilia is just dating bad people i saw that you were dating a lovely chat on the show yeah tell us about the show i want i want full debrief from you have you found it dating on camera camera yeah that's a spooky thing i i have to say like because i went on a blind date for the first time through celeb dating so the first with simon which is which is funny that's kind of funny but like also quite tricky wait so you didn't know what he looked like at all no simon the name
Starting point is 00:10:50 isn't that the name of the tinder yeah oh my what the hell so that has been but the thing it was so funny but on our first date when he comes to say simon i didn't hear it and it was the perfect example you know when you say hi to someone oh you don't hear their name always happens to me so when so when i was talking after the you know when you're on camera you talk about it's like do you remember his name i could remember his name it was so embarrassing so i was like what is it it's simon i was like i was like thank god you didn't know about the timing because it probably would have drained you off so much no like i have to say it's a common name yeah poor poor other simon i know we can't just bash every time and i had a simon i had a simon in kindergarten
Starting point is 00:11:30 as well it was my boyfriend so oh you know he's just a bad egg in a bun in a basket full of great yeah so but that first date was i i haven't been dating i've never done reality tv when people are saying you've done a documentary it's not the same no no but we've done reality so we know yeah and very different i so i walked in and i think i was more mostly just stressed about you know being on camera like how is that going to be like i was so stressed look at the crew was so amazing you know like just let me take the time but i have to say when simon walked in and you can see it like he's so chatty and i was so lucky to yeah and like to have someone that was on the same wavelength and he
Starting point is 00:12:15 was lovely he was just making me feel so at ease and you forgot about the cameras you know and the discussions about vegetables lasted for 20 minutes like no no i did no no so he didn't like the vegetables threw me off as well yeah i was like but we discussed more that it's not like we just had different what a vegetable is sorry but it's just like you know it's cut for time does he think that um vegetables like potato chips and like french fries and stuff like that i bet he did it's more that i said for example a paprika or a capsicum what is called here you know like and he said oh that's not vegetable i was like well i view that as a veg like a pepper like a bell pepper yeah bell pepper it's a hundred percent of it yeah and he was like he was thinking of the herb i'm sure he was thinking of like because you said
Starting point is 00:12:56 paprika i would love to see more of this from the states uh but yeah nobody's i know i wish we could get the full ad it's so sad i know it's like probably two hours or longer no it's one and a half cut down to like what five minutes but that's lovely that's a lot of that's that shows it's not editing going on that but what i loved about with him is that i could have just continued the date you know like if i could have had like just okay we're you don't need to go back to the world i don't know i still don't know how to pronounce it did you kiss on the first day no no no is that a no is that secede is no no oh my god i i think if this if it would have been not cameras there we
Starting point is 00:13:39 we would have kissed i think but it's just what the cameras brought in it's more that as i said it like you what I loved about is that you have to follow kind of their rules you know you're going to dinner a dinner is and to sit opposite someone I hate you know like I love sitting right next to someone or and then touchy touchy touch my hand touch my leg lovely stuff Melissa what are you doing like literally footsie under the table sorry I'm kissing them Within half an hour She really is I just I am just
Starting point is 00:14:07 I love I just love dating And first dates you know And I love the kind of energy I've only been on like Two fast dates Oh you're missing out I know
Starting point is 00:14:14 I've been in a relationship You're missing out I know But that's really nice as well though It's another type of It's another You know I don't know Whether dating would have been for me
Starting point is 00:14:23 No it's so fun And you did date Jamie In the beginning And how fun was that oh that was so fun but we were already best friends but yeah but before jamie i didn't really date right anyway but back to you but yeah but people are different and this is what i mean is that i've always been the kind of the friend who people ask for you know advice when it comes to dating and stuff like why are you going on so many dates and i was like because i utterly enjoy it was one guy who wrote to me lovely dinner lovely glass of wine what's not to laugh i know and he said to me can we please talk more before we meet because i went on a
Starting point is 00:14:56 a date that didn't wasn't good so i don't want to waste my time but then i was like but if you expect that every date that you go on will be mrs or mr right of course you're going to be disappointed you're setting yourself up it has always been my thing i never gone on a on a first date with the invasion yeah of course you always like but i always like okay if you're super different than me and that was simon you know we are very different but that's the yin and the yang but it's super fun like let me get to know about this guy like for for example like his looks is yeah i heard you saying i don't go for blondes i don't i told them that my type is like more you know
Starting point is 00:15:39 spanish you know italian brazil. And then he comes walking in. Like a Swedish. Yeah, with the curly blonde hair and the blue eyes. But he, I think the energy of the person. It's just a connection. And then he, yeah, he just became, you know, yeah. Surprising. You said that you like prefer the Brazilian Spanish.
Starting point is 00:16:04 What have you found? Because obviously you're new to London spanish what have you found because obviously you're new to london so what have you found dating london guys in general because i know you're on dating apps british guys yeah british guys because we're quite an interesting breed our sense of humor is very different we say sorry about 400 times in a sentence why do we do that i say sorry 800 times a day i'm like i'm so sorry and everyone's like just stop i've started doing it as well though you become like you've started doing it as well, though. You become like, you need to do it as well, you know?
Starting point is 00:16:28 Yeah. It's not people who look at you. Also, you need to talk back. I'm just saying sorry. Oh, I'm so sorry. Yeah. You just walk in and you're like, oh, I'm so sorry. There you go.
Starting point is 00:16:35 You're British then. I have to say to me, like, I think this is the one with celebs really has made me have to date British men. Because normally I haven't't i've been on some dates yeah uh with british men i don't want to pour i don't want to because they're not that many of them but i i think you're like they might they're gonna definitely know it's it's yeah i think it ends up for me personally that i connect more with someone that has the same type of background as i have okay interesting moving from another country you're the same type of person that you're taking more of a risk you
Starting point is 00:17:08 know how it is to be without your family and yeah friends and you have to create your a new life it's a lot of that in that I connect a bit more with so the other girls like celebs and stuff that were on the show with you did you like get close to them have you stayed in touch yeah some of them I have me and Sunita and Navid, we watched one episode together and it was just so, so fun. Sunita is in from Simon Cowell's Sunita. Yeah. For me, it's almost like I'm looking into their world.
Starting point is 00:17:36 I'm not a reality TV star, you know. They know much more about me. Oh, you are now. Yeah. I watch this thing. It's like imposter syndrome because it's like you've got it's just such a completely different world like overnight and from something that was so real for you like it wasn't something you ever initially thought oh i want to go out and be like reality tv
Starting point is 00:17:56 i want to be in the media or tv you just wanted to fall in love i now you find yourself here yeah i heard someone say oh you're going to the media in the media and you're like but i'm the reason why i meant to the media was to get justice that was the bare backbone of what i wanted you know thank god yeah and yeah i'm so proud of it and then i was like well when you have all these opportunities and people why would you find you interesting or like inspiring or whatever then i feel like you have almost a mission you know in life now that is very different than what you had before and if for example just being on celebs and showing a different types of personality how you can be famous also just like a side that's a bit i guess lighter that's not all about you going through a tough time it's like yeah it was it was for
Starting point is 00:18:42 example it was so funny just and i have to say pete as well like what pete wicks oh my god i've met him a few times i think he's great he's so nice he's he just he's so lovely yeah he took really just great care of me like outside of filming as well because sometimes you're wondering but he's just been when i if i had a bad day he was like asked like he's just yeah like asking people to take care of me and like it was almost like we're the same age but he's almost like a big brother you know oh my god how lovely is that yeah he's really really nice is he back on it for like the 10th time or was he like running it i swear he's been on it i think him and sam actually did a little
Starting point is 00:19:18 thing together on it like for a bit do you not remember like they were they were running it for a bit they found each other they didn't find love yeah they found each other and now sam's super happy with zara and pete's still looking out there isn't he pete will find someone he's also a gorgeous he's a lovely animal man but i'm gorgeous but i have to say just like everyone's gorgeous but it's almost like you become a little family you know because we're all like we have a whatsapp group like everyone goes through the same thing so everyone is like what is happening now so it's like it's a it's a support system there to the world so you've got a nice little like out of if anything you've had just a lovely like friendship with so many of them for which is nice and i have to say like just the crew
Starting point is 00:19:58 as well like it's like you know you're so many people that are like helping making this yeah i just feel like everything if i had like a bad or something, it's just been so great to feel properly taken care of, I think that has been, like, what I'm, I don't mean to be surprised by it, but I have, it's been really, it's been really, really nice, because it's, like, it can be draining, you know, and again, you're talking, yeah, so, yeah, you do, like like it sounds like a really and i've heard like the best things obviously quite a lot of our friends have done it as well and they've said you know behind the scenes because you know reality varies and it is yeah it looks on you know people see a two minute clip of what you've spent six hours doing you know and it's so nice
Starting point is 00:20:39 to hear that you had like a good time and potentially you found love for you i'm oh my god i'm so excited i am already very smitten i think people can see that like which one simon like you can just see from from what's been aired already i thought with simon that you were vibing yeah for sure i think like like the most memorable date like i was thinking about it like the most memorable date I think have to be that cocktail you know the weird monkey thing where we're sitting it was a very short one but I remember that I was just what he gave me was just calmness I was calm when I saw him and he made me feel very relaxed and it was just I look so weird when I look back on because it just looked like we were just looking at each other's like so did you also feel butterflies because i have a thing where i'm
Starting point is 00:21:29 like okay i feel really calm but then i'm also like my stomach's flipping and i'm like yeah tingles up it's like a weird i i like that we have like as far as been viewed that we've been just taking the time and not like even though like that is just what's been shown to to tv but i'm like i like that for example we didn't you know kiss on the first or or second date you know like building the tension yeah we will do it when we feel that it's like yeah like we'll see i'm so sorry we never know what direction this is gonna turn yeah you're gonna have to watch to find out but i have to say when i like when i went on the date with jamie and just see you know like when you talk about british men and then they are very different both simon and jamie as well
Starting point is 00:22:12 in what way can you give us that i have to say like uh simon is maybe he's a northerner you know and jamie he lives here in london so arrogant as opposed to like kindness no no like no jamie i have to say jamie is much more my type on paper and just like a bit of our past and stuff so i think like the date i had with him was just and the dates that we went on like we did like the flight club or like we did darts oh yeah it was quite fun a bit of flirty flirty as well and you like got a bit of a activity i love an activity date i don't know about you but i was like i personally don't but my sister loves an activity date like a bit of mini golf her favorite thing in the world i'm like no no no glass but people like it because then they can get close and they have a flirt you can like get behind them and hold the beauty yeah like you can have a flirt
Starting point is 00:23:01 and like take the piss out of each other a bit which is such british humor yeah maybe that's why it went so well i've been very lucky so far in in the journey i have to say we will see if that changes but i have to say like i've if it's just luck or sometimes you shouldn't take away if you that you know how to get to know people as well or just being open to different people and i think that is what i did this time because i was like i trusted anna and paul like okay if they decided to pick you know simon and jamie like i feel like i should give them an honest try not just after you know like just thinking okay i'm gonna go in there and like for example with jamie like not to be but i was like okay he's british again you know but i was like so so he's not like i just wanted an italian you know i was like
Starting point is 00:23:51 yeah it has opened my eyes have you had any trouble like trusting again or like the thought of trusting and getting back into a relationship again or no? I think at first that it hadn't bothered me. But now with time, then now I can see that it has taken a lot more. I'm more scared. I think it's more my self-confidence that has gotten a hit oh yeah I
Starting point is 00:24:26 mean I I wish that it would have been more like oh I have so many that I was like no I just don't trust you like it's more that I'm scared to go out there and get to the point where I need to trust someone right I haven't come to the point where okay I'm gonna put my faith in you because I've been scared and I feel like i have baggage that if i meet someone i would have to say this to him and it's a lot more repercussions than just that it's sure i'm bankrupt it's like it's a lot more practical stuff and that is not really fun so i think i've just had a guard up that i'm like i i'm happy being single like and i don't i one relationship actually ended over that he couldn't handle it and i don't want that to happen again so so if anything that's probably
Starting point is 00:25:12 made you have even more worry about trusting because if you thought you didn't have it and then it actually then happened because of that reasons then now you're like oh i don't blame him it was more mental mental health like that i was like not in a good place it was too quick so i think he could have but i've just i don't want that to be any any reason why relationship don't work again you know so i just want to be healed i want to be able to you know be able to meet someone and that's why like when simon asked about it on the first date i was and he asked about like why are you here and i thought that was kind of funny because yeah he made it light it wasn't like a deep yeah it was scary it was so lovely to watch and really easy yeah for me i like that he brought it up because i'm like yeah we're sitting here on tv
Starting point is 00:25:54 dating yeah like it's like it would be like for me which is good to just get it out of there and to see him just and like a lot of men have is that they view it as something positive and they give you like great feedback and i think that it's just just helps you you know that there are a lot of men out there that are not there are someone out there for you in the end well i am for one so excited to watch the rest of the season i can't it's juicy it's juicy yeah you've sold me on watching right to the very end i'm i'm really i'm hooked okay so cecilia what we do on this we drink wine we answer dilemmas okay typically from girls about dating advice our listeners write them in and just want our advice so you can help us with this one this is just a
Starting point is 00:26:44 short one yeah hey girls i love your podcast and would love to get your thoughts on this post breakup dilemma my boyfriend of five and a half years who i brought house with and we had lived together before ended our relationship recently as he thought we weren't the same as we used to be my question for you guys is post breakup how do you handle social media in an amicable breakup do you still unfollow each other slash do you delete photos together my friend is telling me my instagram will put off any future dates as every few photos has him in it but is it weird and petty to go through and erase that part of my life what would you girls suggest in the situation have you done this in the past i've i mean i've gone through doing that i did i deleted a lot of
Starting point is 00:27:28 photos and i really regret it i think it was like an impulsive thing i think i look back on it and like that was really petty and i should not have done that right that dilemma was so similar to my first breakup but i was on the other side that i was the one who broke up with him right but that is many but it was just so funny with everything i was like oh that's that's how it feels a lot of years to be out with somebody that's hard yeah I was like that is then just like yeah we're not done the same like what I I think that if it's fresh just take your time because I think like don't at least just archive don't delete because i deleted photo albums same facebook yes i'm old so that was when you had i so agree archive and archive and get it back yeah so i
Starting point is 00:28:13 feel like if you really just want to kind of have a feed where you don't get the remind remembers it depends on what it's that would be exactly if it's like yeah the constant reminder or is it because you're wanting to appear single to other men if i was you what i did is i deleted a few that were at the top archived a few that were at the top just so i wasn't seeing them all the time but then there was there was some there like if you'd scroll down a bit then you could see them and the memories were still there and it was obvious i had an ex-boyfriend but it wasn't like boom they're right at the top of my people knew that it was like a previous they knew they that. I was like, oh, she's not posted by three weeks. So she could be single.
Starting point is 00:28:46 So I could slide into the DMs, you know? One of those. Giving yourself a lead. And post some more pictures of just you and your friends to fill it up again. Yeah. Of like stuff that you're doing now. I also just wouldn't overthink it. What about DM following?
Starting point is 00:28:58 I would just mute them. Like mute them and then you just don't see it. I think sometimes. Well, it depends because she broke up with him, right? oh no he broke up with her and she felt blindsided i would unfollow because i think it'll be too hard for her to see him but she's gonna look at it anyway so you always need him do you know what i mean she needs to not though she needs to block him like she needs to not do that because it won't she can't move on i think that's something we don't want to do but you have to do it yeah it's so easy to say it
Starting point is 00:29:26 but like you don't oh you really don't want to i re like i remember like even when i had to block like fake simon like the the fraudster yeah the fraudy i cried even though you knew like just doing those type of things are different like even that is difficult and then can you just imagine like when there's not just like oh it would be interesting just to see what if you post what is he doing no no oh but you know you need to do it like that's what i feel i kept saying to melissa when you like this i was still following and looking and yeah and you were like he's looked at mine and i was like stop fucking looking but you just couldn't stop i know and everyone's like does that mean something he's he's watching my stories no it doesn't mean anything
Starting point is 00:30:05 no he's just having a look I know he doesn't give a shit he's just like sitting like this he's just like scrolling through every single person
Starting point is 00:30:11 I'm always like someone's looked at my stories it just doesn't yeah boys are so simple they're so black and white like and us girls
Starting point is 00:30:18 jump on every sort of so true delete the number delete the chat try and delete pictures that are at the top of your camera don't go through
Starting point is 00:30:24 all old memories any that are just right there that you'll see i would just get rid of them yeah it's just easier some new ones with your friend just do a nice cleanse just a new nice edit of your life but sometimes i have liked to like archive kind of if you have a whatsapp that's holding on to hope but i think it's silly i did such a i know i archive that so you can't i was really good i deleted all chats deleted number i was very good at that i just did it did it did it same i've been good at that but i'd love to see how different people are like using their whatsapp i have a friend who like she archives everything so she has no open chats so then she can see when someone's like it's so funny how people are like
Starting point is 00:31:00 using i archive a lot but by mistake and then i i used to archive by mistake my agent and then she'd be like i've been trying to get hold of you david i was like i haven't seen any of it i was like i've archived you by mistake do you know what i mean archive my mom slash mom you're pissing me off in the archive folder yeah it's me drunk being like stop texting me archive but actually don't archive him he needs control Yeah Like get him out Delete it Delete it Block it
Starting point is 00:31:27 Delete the chat I hope that was helpful Okay Now we rate the wine I've had nearly A glass and a half I might Sophie's been gaslit
Starting point is 00:31:34 Oh I could have She loves it When I say that That was really good She really Like pulls me up When I drink Because it's very rare
Starting point is 00:31:42 I keep saying it's rare It's really not rare Is it rare? It's really not rare No Absolutely not so i'm hung over today so drinking through the pain um parents if you're listening i never drink yeah when i first moved in and heard hair of the dog that's exactly what she's doing right the second yeah so this is i come on i'm harrying you have the most funnier sayings and i was like what the fuck yeah we really do yeah hairrying the dog You have the most Funnier sayings And I was like What the fuck Yeah we really do Yeah hair of the dog
Starting point is 00:32:08 What's another one I don't know No there's Hair of the badger Right I think We should wrap this up Hair of the badger Okay I'm gonna rate the wine
Starting point is 00:32:13 I'm gonna rate it an 8 I'm gonna go up I way prefer that To the last wine we drank Yeah That's much smoother I'm gonna go for an 8 on that 8 and a half actually
Starting point is 00:32:20 Lovely I'm going for a solid 8.2 Wow She's just going with A niche rating there. Okay, guys. Make sure you watch Celebs Go Dating because you must follow Cecilia's love life
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