Well with Arielle Lorre - 149: How to Look and Feel Your Absolute Best with Celebrity Trainer Harley Pasternak

Episode Date: January 12, 2022

In this episode I’m talking to celebrity trainer and bestselling fitness and nutrition author Harley Pasternak about how to look and feel our absolute best. We discuss how he trains some of... the most famous names in TV, movies and music; how his approach for fitness and nutrition has evolved over the years; the 5 core pillars of health that he has all of his clients focus on (after exhaustive research); how to incorporate more steps and movement into your day; the importance of sleep; what kind of exercise is best; what to aim for with nutrition; how to lose fat and gain muscle and so much more. He also takes your listener questions including how much protein to aim for, what we should all STOP doing when it comes to wellness and simple ways to better our lifestyle today.   www.Arrae.com with code "blondefiles" for 10% off one time purchases or 25% off first month on subscription. www.Athleticgreens.com/blondefiles for a free 1 year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs with your first purchase. www.Sakara.com/BLONDEFILES20 for 20% off your first order. www.Helloned.com/BLONDE for 15% off your order.   Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:21 So do you Reyesadviseur Onsonicars. The following podcast is A Dear Media Production Hey, welcome to the Blonde Files podcast. I'm your host, Ariel Lori, and I'm here to talk all things wellness. From how to achieve optimal health and well-being to the best beauty tips and everything in between, no topic is off limits. I know there is so much information out there, so I'm here to help you navigate it all and live your best life.
Starting point is 00:00:49 Thanks for listening. Let's get into it. Hi, everybody. Welcome to the show. So excited about this one today. A lot of people requested this. I'm talking to Harley Pasternak, who is my trainer, also a lot of other more important people's trainer. He is also a seven-time bestselling author. He's helped transform the physiques of Catwoman, Green Hornets, Spider-Man, X-Men, Transformers, and countless others for over 120 film and TV projects, as well as music stars like Rihanna, Katie Perry, Lady Gaga, Adam Levine, Bono, Ariana Grande, Charlie Puth, Alicia Keys, Kanye West, and many, many more. He holds master's degrees in nutritional science and exercise physiology, as well as undergraduate degrees in kinesiology and food sciences.
Starting point is 00:01:48 He also serves as the global advisor for fitness to the four-season hotels and acts as an advisor to aloe, propel, form hyperrice, and Fitbit. So today we are getting into so many different topics and a lot of your questions that I had you send in on Instagram, including how his approach to fitness and nutrition has evolved over the years. We talk about kind of these five core pillars of health that he has all of his clients focus on after exhaustive research. We talk about, of course, steps, how to incorporate more steps and movement into your day. We talk about the importance of sleep, what kind of exercises that. best, what to aim for when it comes to nutrition. We talk how to lose fat and gain muscle. And we talk about diet myths, exercise myths. And he also takes your questions, including how much protein to aim
Starting point is 00:02:44 for, what we should all stop doing when it comes to wellness and simple ways to just improve your lifestyle today. One disclaimer is that I recorded this when I was a little under the weather, a little bit of a fever haze, and for whatever reason, even though I was holding a microphone, the audio picked up through my MacBook speakers, which I was nowhere near. So hopefully Brian can do his magic in post-production here and clean it up and make the audio sound crisp. But if I sound a little bit lower quality than usual, that's why, obviously just try to focus on the content because Harley has so much knowledge and wisdom to share. And you definitely don't want to miss this episode and he's going to come back for more. So with that, enjoy Harley Posternak.
Starting point is 00:03:34 So I was just saying to Harley off Mike that I have my questions for him, but then we obviously got so many questions sent in on Instagram. So we'll try to do our best to answer all of those today. Right. So welcome. Thank you for having me. Good to see you. Nice to see you. All right. So for anybody not familiar with you, can you just give the listener a little background on who you are and what you do. Yeah. My name is Harley Pasternak, and for 31 years, I've been writing food and fitness books. I've written eight best-selling books and 24 countries in eight languages. And I've taken care of the health of everyone from Katie Perry and Rihanna and Lady Gaga to Ariana Grande and Megan Fox to Hallie Berry.
Starting point is 00:04:27 and Spider-Man, Catwoman, Green Hornet X-Men, Jesus and the Passion, Moses and the Ten Commandments. And of course, and of course, yours truly. You're leaving off the A-lister of A-lister's there. You finish with the best, always. Thank you. I appreciate that. So I did an episode last week where I was talking about, like, New Year's kind of resolutions and health and lifestyle and wellness practices,
Starting point is 00:04:57 that I implemented in the past year. And I kind of introduced people a little bit to your approach to fitness and lifestyle in that episode. But I said that we would wait until I had you on so that you could break it down for everybody. And what I found so interesting when I first met you was how your approach has changed over the years. So could you explain how you started and then how it evolved and what your approach is like now? So I started, originally I was a hockey player in Canada.
Starting point is 00:05:26 I took too many blows to the head. Obviously. Obviously. And then I spent the next 10 years of university in academia and research. I got recruited by the military where I ran a nutrition laboratory for the Department of National Defense and started a training business that catered to all the Hollywood actors that would come to Canada to shoot feature films. And I had them all on a very strict diet.
Starting point is 00:05:53 And they would all come an hour before our workouts. and I would shackle them to the treadmill or the elliptical, and they would do cardio, and then we'd do this long exhaustive workout, and then a cardio cool-down at the end, and it worked. And when people needed to look their best for a project, they did. And then I wouldn't hear from them for the next year and a half until their next role, when they gained a bunch of weight in between. And then all of a sudden, cell phones got cameras on them,
Starting point is 00:06:20 and then became blogs, and then social media, and high-profile people realized, I can't just look good when I'm on camera because when I go to Whole Foods in between and I'm 40 pounds heavier, people take my picture and posted, people will realize, oh, wait a minute, I'm going up and down and up and down. So I decided we have to change our approach. What I was having people do work, but it took a lot of time, a lot of energy, and it wasn't sustainable. So I got a few of my grad students to collect every single study that they could find published in the last 30. years on things to increase metabolism, burn body fat, change body composition. And they came up with hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of things from putting spices in your food to only drinking
Starting point is 00:07:07 cold liquids to always taking the stairs. And we distilled it down to five things. And what are the five things that all of us need to do every single day to look our best? Not even feel our best. You and I talked about it. I don't care how you feel. I just care that you feel like you look your best. And the first is steps. I don't care how you feel inside. I don't care if you're happy. I care about how you look. Well, I do.
Starting point is 00:07:34 I care that you feel that you look good. So that is... We're going to get canceled before the end of this episode. I'm just kidding. Not kidding. The first of the five daily habits. And by the way, people out there might already be doing one of these five or two of these five. and it's the one or two or three of them that they're not doing,
Starting point is 00:07:56 that's the difference between them feeling and looking their best. The first is steps. So years ago, I took almost a full year off my practice and I traveled to the 10 healthiest countries in the world. I wanted to understand, why are they living a decade and a half longer than we are in Japan? Why are people living a decade longer than us in Italy? And what are they doing and how are they eating their food?
Starting point is 00:08:19 And the one thing that all these countries have in common is they all move three to four times as much per day as we do here in the United States. So I gave the number of 12,000 steps per day is what we need to be moving. And if you go to all those countries, they're all moving in excess of 11,000 steps a day. And that includes children and elderly. And what's great about steps, as you know, and you've adopted this pretty quickly, is you don't need a special outfit to do steps or special shoes or plan time in your day to walk. is just something that we weave in
Starting point is 00:08:51 and it adds up throughout the course of the day. And I mean, you've exceeded any expectation for steps. Yes. And the way that I've made it work for me, though, is I'm like, okay, I know that when I wake up, I'm going to walk my dog. That's 2,500 steps. And then I have a treadmill so I can come back and I can do an hour of like a moderate-paced walk while I'm doing emails and like responding to anybody
Starting point is 00:09:14 and planning out my calendar and whatever work that I have to do before the day. And so then I can do like eight, to 10 in that hour, maybe eight in that hour. And then I know going about my day, I'm probably going to get like 5K. And then if I walk the dog again, that's another 2.5. So I realized that like I have a few things going for me. I have a treadmill.
Starting point is 00:09:35 I have a flexible schedule. And I live in a pretty like moderate climate where I can go and walk around all day and take meetings outside if I have to and weave it in that way. But one of the main questions actually that we did get was how can somebody weave that into their day if they're living somewhere where it's freezing outside, they work crazy hours, they have kids, like all of these constraints that I don't have. You're screwed. No, I think, first of all, we do the best we can do.
Starting point is 00:10:07 And I have some people message me and say, I've got this commitment and that and work and kids and this and all kinds of stuff and money is a challenge. And, you know, what do I do? And I say, first of all, do the best you can do. don't compare yourself to someone else. And whatever you're doing now, if you can just do better than what you're doing now, forget about anyone else.
Starting point is 00:10:27 Then you're in the right direction. And over time, we can build and we can add to this. So the second thing is for me, I got rid of my coffee machine at home. And so in the mornings, I take my daughter, my son doesn't want to come,
Starting point is 00:10:41 but I take my daughter for a walk and we walk to the coffee shop. And it's time that we have with each other. It's steps. We get there. I get a coffee. We walk back. So we start the day with that step count. I'm very lucky in that I made a decision many years ago to always live near work. So I walk to work every day. And it's about a 15 minute walk. Another thing I do is when I have a phone call, I never sit when I have a phone call. We have cell phones. Cell phones have no wires. I get up and I walk when I'm on the phone.
Starting point is 00:11:14 like you, I'm lucky I've access to a treadmill when I want to watch sports. My deal is I'm not going to sit on the couch and just veg out. I'm going to walk really slowly. So to everyone, there's a different thing. If you've got plans with a friend, instead of going to a coffee shop to meet a friend, why don't you go to that coffee shop, get the coffee, and walk for the next hour with that friend with the coffee and then come back. So weaving in your day, I think, is key.
Starting point is 00:11:41 Yeah, you said something to me when I first met with you. that was like, unless you're like sleeping or eating, I can't remember if there was a third one, you shouldn't be sedentary. Sleeping, eating, or having sex. Those are the three things that probably you should not be walking as you do. I was going to say, that's not exactly sedentary, though. Exactly. So it's fine.
Starting point is 00:12:06 Counts, counts. But yeah, I mean, I did find that after you made me more cognizant of that, I did find so many pockets in my day and just things that I would do when I was normally sitting that I could do walking around. And I think that people hear 10K steps or 12K or whatever the number is and think, okay, I have to put on my walking shoes and put on a sports bra and work up a sweat. And that was another thing people asked, like, what incline on the treadmill and what speed and blah, blah, blah.
Starting point is 00:12:35 And I was like, totally depends. Get it done. Whatever works for you, right? Yeah. My wife has a really bad back and she's not good at sitting. And so for her business, she actually puts her laptop on the treadmill. She puts it at about two miles an hour, which is a snail's pace. There's no incline.
Starting point is 00:12:54 She's wearing jeans. She's not like she's wearing workout attire. And she walks so slowly and she does emails and she does phone calls. And at the end of the day, you know, she's done eight, nine miles. She's not sweating. She's not huffing and puffing. She's not tired. She feels energized.
Starting point is 00:13:11 And guess what? She doesn't have to go do any form of cardio after. She's done for the day. So I think that's the first of those five habits is move. And you have no excuse. Okay. And I have one more follow up question to that, though. What are the benefits?
Starting point is 00:13:25 How can it benefit your body? How can it benefit your mind? I mean, I can speak to it anecdotally, but you have like the research and the expertise to back it up. So a lot of people are like, well, can you lose weight or can it change your body composition? What can it do for you? There is an inverse relationship to the intensity of movement and fat burn as a percentage of calories. So the more intense you move, so let's say sprinting, sprinting burns primarily carbohydrates,
Starting point is 00:13:58 walking burns primarily fat. Now you burn more calories per minute of sprinting than you do per minute of walking, but the majority of the calories that you burn walking are from fat versus sprinting. And you can do a lot more walking, a lot more minutes of walking than you can of sprinting. And there's also a direct relationship between the intensity of cardio and appetite. You know, you go for a hard run. You'll work up an appetite. You walk around the block a couple times. You're not going to walk back and say, I'm ravenous.
Starting point is 00:14:33 I just walked around the block a couple times. There's also a direct relationship between the intensity. intensity of cardio and injuries. People generally don't get an injury going for a walk, but going for, you do? In the beginning, yeah. Oh yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, that's something we should talk about. Having correct footwear, I think, is really important. And you had shoes that didn't work for you. And we thought you had a really bad, messed up foot. And all of a sudden, you change shoes and you walk more than everyone else in the world. Yeah, very important. Yes, I had like a stress fracture or something initially, just from the repetition and not having appropriate shoes.
Starting point is 00:15:16 Yeah, that's important. And the one thing I didn't mention is for people out there who deal with anxiety, stress, depression, I think walking for me is the greatest form of meditation. Some people meditate literally and sit down across their legs and meditate. And I think they love it and it works for them. For me, I find meditation and movement to be better. And so the walking is very meditative. Yeah. I agree. Feeling your best has so much to do with what we put into our bodies. And if you are trying to get more plant-rich foods, more nutritious meals,
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Starting point is 00:18:29 So as you know from listening to Harley in this episode, one of the five pillars of health as he sees it is sleep and he tracks my sleep. I wear an aura ring. And through that we can see the breakdown of light, REM, and deep sleep. And I have something really interesting to share with you. So I literally get like an hour more of deep sleep a night when I take my Ned CBD, which is wild. So it works whether I take the sleep oil or it works if I take. take the full spectrum hemp oil, which is really interesting. And this is when I'm getting the same amount of steps a day, same kind of structure to my day. The only difference is whether I use the CBD or not. So if you're struggling with sleep, obviously look at your sleep hygiene, but I'm telling you the stuff really works. So when it comes to choosing CBD, the market is so saturated right now. And it's really important that you get the absolute best quality because just like with low quality, food or alcohol or anything you ingest, it can have bad effects if it's not good quality. So NED is the absolute highest quality and they are actually USDA certified organic. So all of NED's
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Starting point is 00:21:22 Sleep's supposed to be one-third of our life. We are sleeping worse than we ever have in recorded history. And that's primarily because of technology. We're exposed to so much screen time that destroys our sleep quality. We are working longer hours than we ever have in the history of humanity. We are over-cathinated. We are drinking alcohol at night before bed. We are hyper-stimulated. And it's affecting our ability to sleep well and sleep enough.
Starting point is 00:21:54 And sleeping well is more important than sleeping enough. we have clients who sleep 10 hours a night and are exhausted and we have clients who sleep six hours a night and are energized and it's about the quality of your sleep trying to get at least minimum an hour of deep sleep at night minimum an hour of rapid eye movement in night hopefully less than 30 minutes of sleep disruption in night I think those are important and if you have a fitbit and as you mentioned you have an aura whatever works for you if you can keep track of your sleep and understand how important the quality of sleep is, because if we don't sleep enough and well enough,
Starting point is 00:22:30 there's a number of hormonal things that happen. There's hormones called girlin and leptin and cortisol. And the first one affects our appetite, and we don't sleep well enough. We're ravenous the next day. And the second one affects fat metabolism. And we don't sleep well enough. Our body's less efficient at burning fat.
Starting point is 00:22:48 And the third one affects our immune system and inflammation. And so all of these things are negatively impacted from not sleeping enough. Yeah, I was going to ask you what you recommend. We've had this conversation before, Fitbit versus ORA ring. Do you think that they're both sufficient or Apple Watch? I don't know if that one measures sleep. I've been using a Fitbit for a decade. I find it to be very accurate and reliable.
Starting point is 00:23:15 They have a lot of other things like an EDA scan that I started to use recently, which talks about the way your body is reacting to stress. You can actually measure the stress through electroconductivity. It's got a lot of components that I find very helpful for me. Some people who say, I don't want, you know, I like to wear a nice watch and I don't want a wristband. They go for a ring. And so for some people, they like that and that works well for them.
Starting point is 00:23:41 I think there's a little bit of a debate as to the accuracy sometimes of the ring. Some people use their phone that has a built-in app. Sometimes that can help. You know, at the end of the day, if one is slightly more accurate than the other, great, but just having numbers. So if it's off, it's always going to be off, which is okay. So as long as you say, okay, I know my Apple watches, it over tells me by 10%. Just always get 10% more steps.
Starting point is 00:24:12 It's simple. Okay. Three. What's number three? Three is screen time. The screen time, that blue light that emanates from our screens, our laptops, our tablets, our phones. It plays havoc with our neurotransmitters.
Starting point is 00:24:27 It affects our sleep. It affects our mood. The alerts that we get from our technology, tax our adrenals. You know, I think it's really important. I used to tell people an hour a day, no technology. I've now changed that to two hours a day. And I really think the first 30 minutes of your day,
Starting point is 00:24:44 there should be no technology. The last hour of your night, there should be no technology. You can still watch a TV, but I want the TV across the room and I don't want anything stressful on no news, nothing that's going to make nothing like this. I like to zone out to mindless comedies
Starting point is 00:25:01 that I've seen many times before or Love Island, the UK version. Seriously? That's what you're watching now? I've been watching Love Island, UK version. I'm on season 8. There's 50 episodes of season. I think I'm 400 seasons, 400 episodes in. That's impressive. Over what kind of time have you done this?
Starting point is 00:25:19 I've watched it all. almost every single night for almost two years. Oh, wow. Oh, my God, that's funny. Because when COVID hit and the stress of the world, the uncertainty and the crime is up and all this stuff, everyone's stressing. I just turn on that show.
Starting point is 00:25:34 I burn 5,000, 6,000 brain cells. All I'm thinking about is, oh, my gosh, you know, are they going to end up with each other? Oh, this new person's coming into the island. Are they going to change a little vibe? But you get stressed, though, once you're invested in these people? I mean, it's a very superficial stress.
Starting point is 00:25:53 It's more mocking them. How bad is your life that you're on this show kind of thing? Yeah. I hope you don't have any future clients that are contestants on that show. 100% I will. It was funny. We saw one yesterday, the four seasons on Doheny. I recognize it and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm going to go up and talk to him.
Starting point is 00:26:13 And my wife said, what are you going to talk about? What are you going to say? You didn't do it? No. I didn't do. Missed opportunity. I was starstruck. Yeah, I get it.
Starting point is 00:26:23 I mean, think about the talent that it takes the years of training for him to be on that reality show. I feel like those are some of the best actors, actually. Right? On those shows, yeah. I haven't seen Love Island specifically, but, like, I don't know, some of those people in The Bachelor and these reality people are, I think that's some of the finest acting. Reality is always stranger and more interesting than fiction. and I used to have a reality show.
Starting point is 00:26:51 I had a show with Chloe Kardashian for a few years, and I can tell you that some of the stuff we saw on that show, you can't write this stuff. You can't make it up. So you're talking about Revenge Body, right? Somebody sent me a message today, actually, from Revenge Body, because I said that you were coming on, and she was like, tell him that I still do my steps every day.
Starting point is 00:27:11 I have a different name. Yeah. Oh, I love it. And then I had another reality show, many years ago, 10 years ago, called The Revolution. It was a daytime talk show on ABC, Monday through Friday, hands down, and I should have a plaque for this somewhere in my office. It's the worst show in the history of daytime television.
Starting point is 00:27:31 I don't know if they make plaques or awards for that, but I should have one somewhere here in my office. I can't remember the name of like a Razzie or something. Yeah, I should have a Razzie. You should have a Razzie. I actually went with Hallie Berry to accept Harzzi for Catwoman. and she actually, she was really appreciative for it. You know, yeah. So the fourth habit, hopefully Halley doesn't hear this,
Starting point is 00:27:58 the fourth habit is food. And, you know, there's a million diets. There's the South Beach diet, the Atkins that own the Pridicin, the paleo, the caveman diet, the cabbage soup diet, the Beverly Hills cookie diet. There's every single diet. I've read most of the pop culture diet books in the last few decades. and all of them work for some people for short periods of time.
Starting point is 00:28:21 Most of them are not sustainable. They're not balanced. And the ones that are basically the same diet, just called different names. But I tell people it's important, rather than focusing on what you should avoid, focus on what you should have. And rather than, you know, counting calories, focusing on your hand. So protein, fiber, and healthy fat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Little snacks when needed.
Starting point is 00:28:45 So breakfast, for example, or lunch or dinner, here's the four criteria that you need to have every meal. Protein approximately the mass of your hand. So my hand is bigger than your hand. I'm going to have more protein in my meal than you. Imagine that it's cut off right here this much.
Starting point is 00:29:03 You can also make a fist, but approximately this much eggs or fish or chicken right around here. The second, unlimited vegetables. As many as you want. There's no limit to the amount of vegetables. just make sure you're not loading them up with, you know, heavy sauces or creamy sauces or too much oil. The third is up to a palmful of carbohydrate and specifically these carbohydrates.
Starting point is 00:29:31 It's either a high fiber fruit. So that's a raspberry, strawberry, blackberry, pomegranate, kiwi, anything with an edible skin or an edible seed or citrus. So that's almost any fruit, with the exception of melon and tropical fruits and grapes. The second is legumes, so either beans or lentils. The third is either a whole grain, quinoa, millet, oat, amaranth, teff, rice, faro. And the fourth is a sweet potato with the skin. So any of those four, up to a palmful. The last and final part of a healthy meal is healthy fat, approximately the mass of your thumb,
Starting point is 00:30:11 from the base of your thumb to the tip of your thumb right over here. So that's avocados, nuts, seeds, olives. Those are the pillars of a healthy meal. I know that I have a lot of plant-based people who listen to me. So protein on a plant-based diet, how would you navigate that? I'm surprised they have the energy to listen to this interview. No, I'm just kidding. Everyone, please, if everyone gets upset by anything, like life is too short.
Starting point is 00:30:40 No, I think they all have a pretty good sense of humor. I think we're safe with this audience. Okay, good. I think the popularity of a plant-based diet certainly was elevated when Campbell wrote the book, The China Study. And he talked about the really long lifespan of the Chinese population and how they don't really eat a lot of animal fat and how they have a lot of plant-based foods, rice and vegetables.
Starting point is 00:31:05 That tells part of the story. But then if you look at the Japanese diet, they're the largest. consumers of fish in the world and massive consumers of eggs. And then when you look at the Mediterranean diet, probably the healthiest diet in the world other than the Japanese diet, massive consumption of fish and eggs and dairy. And when you look at the Scandinavian diets, you know, Sweden, Finland, Norway, Denmark, Iceland, also amongst the healthiest populations in the world, longest living, lowest incidence of diabetes and heart disease and cancers, the largest consumers of dairy in the world. So I don't think there is a scientific reason to become a plant-based person from a health
Starting point is 00:31:39 perspective. That being said, there is an argument to be made about being a plant-based person from an environmental perspective, a religious perspective, a personal philosophy perspective, and I respect that. And whatever your beliefs are, there is a way to live a healthy diet based on the limitations that you have ahead of you. If you are a staunch vegan, you can live a long healthy life. It just takes a lot of work and a lot of know-how because you need to understand what complementary proteins are. You need to understand where all your macron micronutrient deficiencies might be from cutting out certain food groups and then make sure you find those foods and have them. So as from a plant-based person, you obviously, if you are a vegan, you obviously have some
Starting point is 00:32:26 baseline of knowledge about where to get your proteins from and replace the animal proteins with those vegan proteins. I will tell you this. There is something called the biological value of protein. The biological value of protein was a graph or chart created about 30 years ago, 35 years ago, that looked at the quality of proteins and the higher the quality of protein, essentially the less of it you need. The lower the quality of the protein, the more of it you need. Animal proteins are by far the highest quality of proteins. They have all the essential amino acids. Your body can assimilate them, up, take them, turn them into tissue. Vegetable sources of protein tends to be the lowest quality. And I'm not saying,
Starting point is 00:33:09 saying that in a negative way. I'm just saying what makes vegetable proteins so healthier is that they tend to have a lot of fiber. The problem is fiber inhibits the ability for our body to digest things. There's also missing some of the essential amino acids. So that's something to think about. So if you are a vegan, make sure you really know your stuff, educate yourself, understand where vegans or plant-based people tend to miss certain nutrients and make sure you fill those gaps. That's it. What snacks do you like? I like it really simple. I like a lot of, so I try and do one sweet snack a day and one savory snack a day.
Starting point is 00:33:46 My sweet snack tends to be in the morning. It's an apple with peanut butter as an example, or I'll have half of a smoothie. And my savory snack in the afternoon is usually some kind of vegetable thing or nuts. I love hickama. You know, I was telling you that. So lately I've been doing hickama with tajin, a little Mexican seasoning with lime. I do cut veggies and I'll make an edamami guacamole where I'll take one avocado, a cup of hold edamami, some seasoning blended together, and I'll dip my veggies in that.
Starting point is 00:34:20 I'll do 20 almonds or cashews. So I tend to do one sweet, one savory. And I think snacking, though, is actually helpful because our blood sugar remains stable throughout the day. We're less hungry come meal time. and when you're less hungry come meal time, you're less likely to make poor decisions and overeat. You're not eating because, gosh, I'm ravenous.
Starting point is 00:34:43 I haven't eaten in seven, eight hours. You're like, you know what? I'm ready for dinner. I'm going to have dinner. I'm going to have control. I'm going to make good choices because my blood sugar is not plummeting. You guys will hear in this episode that Harley is not a fan of juicing. In fact, it's one thing that he told me not to do when we started working together
Starting point is 00:35:06 because so often these juices and these green juices, even can have a lot of sugar and lose a lot of their fiber and nutrients. But I do like starting my day with greens. So I have been having athletic greens for a while now, specifically their latest iteration, AG1. It's a super simple way to get vitamins, minerals, probiotics, prebiotics, antioxidants, and adaptogens, all without the high sugar and without taking a bunch of pills. So one scoop of athletic greens has 75 high-quality vitamins, minerals, whole food source, superfoods, probiotics, and adaptogens. It's easily absorbable. And it's a really easy, convenient way to get all of these ingredients without having to take a lot of pills.
Starting point is 00:35:56 And it can help support your gut health, your nervous system, your immune system, your energy, recovery, focus, aging, all of the things. So the way that I work this into my routine is I usually have it first thing in the morning on an empty stomach. So I'll just put it into a shaker. Sometimes I add a couple pieces of ice. And that's it. I've really come to crave it. I love the flavor. And I especially love their travel packs when I'm traveling because usually if I'm traveling on the go, I don't really know what I'm going to be eating.
Starting point is 00:36:26 I'm eating out a lot. And I just feel like I'm covering all my bases before I even start my day. So another great thing about athletic greens is that it's lifestyle friendly, whether you eat keto, paleo, vegan, dairy-free, or gluten-free. It also, as I mentioned, contains less than one gram of sugar, no GMOs, no chemicals, or artificial anything while still tasting good. It can help support better sleep, quality, and recovery, mental clarity, and alertness. And it's just this one little micro-habit that can really affect so many different areas of your life. and it's affordable. It costs less than $3 a day versus buying like, I don't know, an $8 to $10 juice and then also getting all of that sugar and everything. And it's an investment in your health. So if you want to try Athletic Greens, they have a great deal right now for my listeners. You can get a free your supply of immune supporting vitamin D and five free travel packs with your first purchase. All you have to do is visit athletic greens.com slash blonde files. Again, that's athletic greens.com slash blonde files, and you can take ownership over your health.
Starting point is 00:37:37 Let's talk about bloating for a minute. I know this is something that so many people struggle with. It used to be a huge issue for me, not so much anymore because I kind of figured out what my triggers were when it comes to food. And also, there were a lot of lifestyle things triggering my bloating, like stress, for one, which is a huge one. But I still get it occasionally if I eat like a really big meal or like yesterday, for example, I was recipe testing all day. I was eating all day and I was making recipes over and over. Plus, I was having my regular meals and then I had a half a cookie after dinner. So by the end of the day, I was just feeling really full and uncomfortable. So of course, I took three of my array bloat pills and I woke up this morning and I felt so much better. So I've been talking about these for a while.
Starting point is 00:38:28 They really work. They work super fast too. Like they worked within 20 minutes of me taking them last night. And I just love them. So there are obviously a lot of root causes for bloating. If you're feeling like it's really painful, it's really impacting your life. Definitely seek professional help. But if you just get that kind of uncomfortable feeling or if you eat something that you don't normally eat, these are a great option. They were actually created for food freedom, which I love. Like you can eat the foods that you want to eat without worrying of. about the effects. So array bloat pills were created to help women and men feel their best so that they can be their best through targeted products, which are 100% natural filler-free organic and formulated by a naturopathic doctor. And the bloat capsules in particular contain five herbs and a fruit-based digestive enzyme. It's completely laxative-free and it's designed to optimize digestion and help, whether you've had a plant-based meal or something heavier like a pizza or a pasta or if you ate all of the things like I did yesterday. The other nice thing about Array that I love is that their products are super chic so they look great on your beauty shelf or in your bag. You can get a subscription
Starting point is 00:39:42 where you can refill monthly and they're also super sustainable. So I know that that's something a lot of people are cognizant about, especially moving into a new year. So if you want to try Array, just go to Array.com, A-R-R-A-E.com, and use the code blonde files at checkout for 10% off your first one-time purchase or 25% off your first month of a subscription. Again, that's array.com, and the code is blonde files for 10% off your first one-time purchase or 25% off the first month of your subscription. Number five is push something, pull something, challenge your muscles, resist, I say, at least five minutes a day. Now, some people can do longer workouts every other day, depending on your fitness level, your goals, your time that you have. It's important that we
Starting point is 00:40:43 strengthen our muscles, our ligaments, our tendons, our bones. And resistance exercise includes anything from training with your own body weight, dumbbells, barbells, cables, bands, yoga, Pilates, all of these things are resistance training. There is a massive amount of miseducation for the general public when they think about, oh, I just want to train body weight because they don't want to get big instead of weights. Your body doesn't know what the resistance is when you're doing it. If you do a pull-up with your own body weight, that is exponentially more resistance than doing a pull-down with weights. your body's actually being exposed to more weight.
Starting point is 00:41:24 You know, it's more difficult. It's harder. So just because something's weights versus body weight doesn't make it like it's going to be bulky or bigger or easier or more difficult, you need all kinds of resistance. The fear that some women have about weight training is they're going to get big.
Starting point is 00:41:43 It doesn't happen like that. That was another like major question that I got over and over again. How to lift weights about getting bulky? building muscle mass is one of the hardest things that you can do. I have men who come to me. They would be so happy if they could put on two pounds of muscle a year, every year, that would be incredible. Putting on muscles tough and here's the main factors. Number one, hormones. Men put on more muscle than women because we have more testosterone for the most part. And now some female athletes who take male hormones, they get big muscles like female bodybuilders
Starting point is 00:42:18 and certain female Olympians. That's why you see their, You're big, big muscles. It's because they're taking male hormones to get big muscles. The second is diet. If you're renovating a house, you're not adding square footage. If you want to add square footage to your house, you need more building materials. Extra wood, extra drywall, extra framing, extra stucco. Same thing with our body.
Starting point is 00:42:40 If you want to renovate your body, change its composition, it's very different than making your body bigger. If you want to make your body bigger, you need to eat a lot more food. you need more building blocks to build a bigger body. If you're not eating or overeating calories, it doesn't matter how much weight training you do. You can't get bigger. It doesn't work like that.
Starting point is 00:43:01 So it's, you know, matter cannot be created nor destroyed. You can't just make a bigger body out of nothing. The third is training volume. So back in my youth, I was a bodybuilder. Bodybuilding training or hypertrophy training, as it's called, is we pick a body part a day. Let's say it's chest. we will do five to six exercises with five to six sets per exercise,
Starting point is 00:43:25 20 to 30 sets for that one body part during that workout. So as long as you're a woman who's not taking testosterone, not consuming massive amounts of extra calories, and not training like a bodybuilder, you're not going to get bigger. You're going to get denser, tighter, leaner. And if you look at Catwoman, when I train Hallie for Catwoman, She trained heavy and she got smaller and leaner than she's ever been.
Starting point is 00:43:52 Same thing with Milo Jovovich and Resident Evil. Same thing with Rachel Weiss and Constantine. I can go on and on and on. So don't be scared of challenging your body. Otherwise, you're going to end up doughy and soft and weak. And you're going to die. Okay. So I want to jump to listener questions that we get some of these.
Starting point is 00:44:15 And one of the other main questions that I got was, what is the best way to lose fat and gain muscle at the same time? That's a good question. I think it's hard to tell your body two different things at the same time. But if you do, just be prepared for slow but meaningful results. And so by doing these five things we talked about, you'll achieve that. You know, you'll achieve a tighter tone or lean the body. If you're trying to put on muscle mass per se, you kind of need to eat and train
Starting point is 00:44:48 for muscle mass. And that's different than eating to lose body fat. So sometimes those two things can happen together, but very slowly over extended periods of time. When I'm working with an actor who has to be big and muscular on camera, we'll break up their diet and training into two phases. One is the bulking phase and the other is the cutting phase. And the diet and the training will change for those two phases. Okay. I actually have a question about that out of curiosity. If you're training with an actor for like a really specific role, like a catwoman or some kind of action thing where they want to add muscle, lose fat, like really manipulate their body into this specific shape. Do you count or track macros or calories or can it all be done without that?
Starting point is 00:45:37 You know, using my hand is sort of a good thing to do. When I'm working with an actor and often we're on set and there's a chef on set or a caterer on set, that I've been doing this so long, I kind of, the macros are all here in my head. But I think that the average person out there shouldn't get caught up in macros. It's not a way to live your life. No, it fucking sucked. I did it years ago, and it was horrendous. Horrendous.
Starting point is 00:46:06 So, no. And also what I figured out, and I've talked about this so often, but it really got into, like, disordered territory because if I was at 1600 and I could eat all this food, then I could figure out where to cut another 200 calories. Then I'm at 1,400 and I'm still feeling okay. And then I can go down to 12. And then you feel like if you eat anything over the macros allotted for whatever day, you're going to like blow up or something.
Starting point is 00:46:33 If you do decide to stop, it's so hard to get those numbers out of your head. They do stay. I could still look at something and go, oh, that's nine grams of a lot, 20. There's all this software out there for calories. And I just say, honestly, just take any woman in my life who's at an eating disorder, which is almost all of them, sadly, and they're more accurate than any of the apps out there.
Starting point is 00:46:54 You know, I'll ask my sister-in-law is somewhere, you know, I'll be on the phone like half an avocado. 120 calories. It's like a party trick. I'll call anyone in my family. I'll ask them questions. They'll have the answer right away. So yeah, I don't think the minutia of it all is the way to go.
Starting point is 00:47:10 I think really gestalt, you know, the sort of bigger picture. There's this old saying, six blind men were asked to describe an elephant. So the first one comes into the room and he first thing he grabs is a tusk. And he feels and touches the tusk and he describes the tusk. And he believes that's what's in the room, this thing that's a tusk. Next guy comes in and he grabs the trunk.
Starting point is 00:47:33 And all he feels is the trunk. And that's all he knows that's in the room and he describes the trunk. And he's like, in this room there is this trunk. And so each man that comes in grabs a different part of the elephant and touches it and feels it and describes what he feels. at the end of the day they were all right and they were also all wrong. What's in the room as an elephant. It's not a tusk. It's not a trunk. It's not a leg. It's not an earlobe. It's an elephant. And when you look at your diet and you just hyper focus on one
Starting point is 00:48:00 ingredient and one little thing, you lose track of the big picture of the diet. There's really no such thing as a bad food. There's just a bad diet. I'm curious what your take is on food combining. That is something that's like super trendy right now in the wellness world having a moment from my understanding and having other experts on the show like there's no perfect carbohydrate there's no perfect protein no perfect fat so you're even if you're following quote-unquote food combining like it's not actually happening is do do do do dance got it yeah it originally came from blood type died for your blood type i think 20 25 years ago which immediately if you go to harvard website mayo clinic
Starting point is 00:48:43 Cornell, all the schools of nutrition and academia, they dispelled it right away. They're like, this makes no sense. This is not founded in science whatsoever. This is someone trying to come up with an interesting diet. How do you explain lentils? Lentals are one third carbohydrate, one third protein, one third fat. Where does that fall? You can never eat it. How do you describe peanut butter, which is a combination of protein and fat and carbonyl. Very few foods are 100% of one macronutrient, right? And some of the healthiest foods in the world are a combination. Look at salmon. Samin's 50% protein, 50% fat. Oh, I'm combining foods. How do you uncombine the food? So I think there's, you know, it's one of those kitsy little things. And I'm writing my ninth book
Starting point is 00:49:31 right now, and the book is really about falling in love with carbohydrates again. And when you take a look at research, the research has always, with, without exception, supported the notion that carbohydrates are not only good for you, but they're good for you as you lose weight. And they're good for you to, you know, for so many reasons. And I think along the way, people have just been so desperate for quick fixes of oversimplification of food that this zero carb or low carb lifestyle that Dr. Atkins made popular in the 50s and 60s, who sadly enough, and by the way, I'm sure he was a wonderful man who died 100 pounds overweight and have heart disease.
Starting point is 00:50:12 No way. Yeah. I hope he rests in peace in his family as well and I would never, you know, I'm sure he had good intentions to help people. But he was a cardiovascular surgeon and the problem is a lot of his patients that came for heart surgery were so obese, he needed to come up with some rapid, quick weight loss thing so they could drop weight so they could go under general anesthesia and have heart surgery. So this Atkins diet, this ultra-low carbohydrate diet, was designed really only to be done
Starting point is 00:50:40 for 30 days. And it wasn't healthy. It wasn't designed to be healthy. It was designed to get these people to drop weight so he could do heart surgery and save their lives. He had good intentions. But along the way, other people who maybe only had 10 pounds to lose would do it. Like, wow, I lost 10 pounds in five days. This Atkins thing is great. Now, they don't stick to it. The breath smells terrible because they're in ketosis. They're eating beef with bacon and cheese, but they can't have carrots and they can have red peppers because that's bad for you. I mean, it's the craziest thing in the whole world. Any diet that tells you fruit is the devil, run.
Starting point is 00:51:19 Any diet that says there's certain vegetables that are bad for you, and that includes Stephen Gunberry's ridiculous diet where he's like cauliflower and broccoli are going to kill everyone. I mean, everyone has this part of their brain of common sense. And too often we don't pay attention to that common sense. because we're looking for that interesting new thing from that new guru of the moment, if you take a step back
Starting point is 00:51:44 and you say, do you have any nieces or nephews or kids or friends who have kids, ask yourself if it's a cleanse. Would I want my seven-year-old to do this cleanse? Of course I wouldn't. Then why would you do it? Would I want them to cut, you know, apples out of their diet because they're going to, you know,
Starting point is 00:52:01 no, so why would you do it? And I think if we just go back to general common sense, eating healthy would be so much easier. Yeah, it feels like as far as those diets go, it feels like if someone can kind of hone in on one specific thing and make that like the bad thing, the more it takes off, like the lectin thing, or like nightshades or carbs or, you know, whatever it is.
Starting point is 00:52:27 There's so many. There's so many. And there's so much I want to say, I can't say, but there's a lot of people I work with who are public figures that have businesses and promote certain ridiculous things. But I can tell you, those people don't do those ridiculous things, and they don't eat those ridiculous things. It's just a business thing.
Starting point is 00:52:46 Yeah, it's a crazy world. And the other problem is, in the United States especially, we are getting nutrition advice from the wrong people. We're getting nutrition advice from chiropractors and doctors. You know how much nutrition training a medical doctor has? It's a 90-minute lecture in first-year med school. That's it. Or we're getting them from trainers, which should not be giving nutrition advice.
Starting point is 00:53:09 For influencers. Oh, my gosh. Or influencers. We can say it. Yeah. No, no, I'm just like, there's a skew of models that I work with and that, you know, are showing things that I know they're not eating because I'm doing their diets. By the way, people would freak out, they saw how great you look.
Starting point is 00:53:28 And if you told them you eat five times a day, people might think you're starving yourself. If people would be shocked to find out you eat five times a day, four to five times a day. And dessert. And dessert. And you have dessert, right? And you're not running marathons and you're not doing CrossFit and you're not cleansing every day. And you're not waking up in the morning and having hot water with lemon and an apple cider
Starting point is 00:53:50 and, you know, and juicing celery. And I have a lot of carbs too. Yeah. As you know. You have good carbs because there's nothing right. wrong with carbs. Sugar, minimize. Carbs good. Protein good, healthy fat good. Should people aim for one gram of protein per pound? So because I'm Canadian, I go by metrics, so don't make fun of me. I got to work backwards. The recommended daily allowance or the recommended
Starting point is 00:54:20 nutritional intake is approximately 0.8 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight per day. I'll make it easy. I'm exactly 100 kilograms. So the government recommend for me is at least 80 grams of protein a day. If you're active, those numbers go up. We now know that number is probably closer to 1.2 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight for day, at least a gram of protein per kilogram. So someone like you, I imagine you're half of me. So let's just assume you're half of me. You should probably be consuming, you know, about at least 60 grams of protein a day. And that's 20 at each meal. Simple enough. Another question that I got was, is cardio necessary for weight loss?
Starting point is 00:55:07 I don't even use the term cardio. Cardio makes you think of having to huff and puff and sweat and doing things like spinning. And I just use the term steps. And is doing steps, whether it be walking, jogging, dancing, elliptically, is that important for weight loss? It is. While calories in and calories out is one part of weight. loss. Obviously, the composition of those calories is another part. There's a lot of other parts. So, yeah, we need to burn calories as we consume the right calories.
Starting point is 00:55:43 Someone else asked if things like cycling or the elliptical can count as steps. Yeah, the elliptical, yeah. I always say weight-bearing is best. There's nothing bad. Cycling's not bad, but I do prefer walking over cycling, running, over cycling, jogging, cycling, elliptically over cycling, stair climbing, over cycling. We sit too much in our lives. We are just sitting way too much. The idea that your exercise is based on you sitting again and you're hunched over the wheel and you're overusing your quads and calves and you're ending up with no glute work whatsoever.
Starting point is 00:56:19 I'm not a huge fan of cycling. Again, I'm not telling you to stop, but I'm saying you definitely should do weight bearing as much as possible. You know what we didn't talk about at all is the posterior chain. So this is your whole thing, Harley. I made a post today on the posterior chain. I know. I know you did.
Starting point is 00:56:40 We'll share that when this comes out so that people can access that easily. But something else that you told me when I first came to see you was that I have essentially like overtrained the front of my body. And it's caused me to, you know, have deficiencies in other parts of my body and have for posture along. working on a phone and working at a screen all day and all these things. How and when did you decide to focus on this, especially for women? Two things, really three things did it. Number one for me, back in the day when I was a bodybuilder, I had a really strong chest. And it almost seemed like the stronger my chest got, the less lean I looked. It was a very weird thing. And it dawned upon me that I was getting so anterior dominant that my shoulders would roll forward.
Starting point is 00:57:31 and my chest, my pecks, even though they were all muscle, they were essentially sagging because my shoulders were rolled forward. And so I developed a shoulder injury. To rehab the shoulder injury, I had to stay away from chest and biceps for about six months. It killed me. There was nothing worse and harder than I've ever done. I can't do my chest and biceps like the most, you know,
Starting point is 00:57:56 agro thing in the world. But lo and behold, as my shoulder got better, and as I stayed away from doing chest and biceps, but focused still on doing my upper back and my triceps and all the muscles in the back of my upper body, all of a sudden, my chest looked leaner than it's ever looked. It looked better than it's ever looked. And I thought, wow, interesting by me doing a lot more of the back of my upper body
Starting point is 00:58:19 than the front, the front of my bodies never looked better. And then I had a second moment where Rick Fox, the basketball player who played for the Lakers, every single day of his college career, his high school career, you know, as a world champion, he stretched his hamstrings
Starting point is 00:58:34 40 minutes a day every day. And he had the tightest hamstrings I've ever seen. And his last year in the league, I said, I'm going to ask you to do something. You're going to have to trust me. Your hamstrings can't be any less flexible than they are now.
Starting point is 00:58:45 So whatever you're doing is not work. So can you just have an open mind? I said, okay. I said, I don't want you to stretch your hamstrings at all anymore. He said, well, I need to. I can barely move on. No hamstring stretching. but I'm going to tell you no squats and no lunges.
Starting point is 00:58:59 We're not going to do any quads. We're only going to strain your hamstrings and your glutes in your lower body. He's like, I've got nothing to lose. And I would say four to six months after we started that, he could bend over from the hips, put his palms flat on the floor. His hamstrings had never, ever been that flexible again. So that was sort of the second big aha moment that I had. That's my goal.
Starting point is 00:59:22 To do that. You'll be there. You know how, yeah, but my hamstrings are. so tight because I'm so quad dominant, I think. Quad and cap dominant. Yep. You're going to be easy. You're going to get more and more. You are going to be Rick Fox.
Starting point is 00:59:37 You are going to be a six-foot-eight basketball champion. Perfect. I promise you. That's my expectation. That's why I'm paying you. You have my word. Did you ever see Team America? The Team America was this movie, won a couple of Oscars.
Starting point is 00:59:52 It was a puppet movie. It was this really shogging me. And so in the movie, the female lead. Her fiancé was shot by terrorists like the year earlier and she had her heart is closed and she meets this guy and he's so great. And she's like, I just can't open my heart to you because I'm scared if you die, then I'll never, you know, I'll never be okay again. And she says, if you promise me that you'll never die, I will have sex with you right now. And he looks at her. He's like, I will never die. So I'm looking at you like, I guarantee you, you will be a six
Starting point is 01:00:22 with eight world champion. I promise you. So I think that was my sense. second aha moment. And then since then, between laptops, cell phone, social media, sitting, eating, driving, everything we do is in front of us. And our posture's never been worse. I'm seeing young people with horrible posture. And so I've really had a lot of good results by having people come in and focusing on less like my female clients, as you know, we never do chest flies or bench press or any of that stuff that will bring you forward. We do tons of back to pull you back. We do lots of glute work, hamstring work, lower back work, all those things to pull you back, which is the opposite of what we used to do. And it not only makes people look better, but it reduces
Starting point is 01:01:08 our chance of injury and improves posture. Okay. I have a million more questions, but I know we're out of time. So I want to ask you, I'm having trouble narrowing it down, but what is one thing that people should stop doing when it comes to their lifestyle and one thing that they should start doing. Good question. I think people should stop looking for the quick fix. Instead of saying, I have this goal, you know, I want to be two weeks from now, X, I'd rather you look at, I want to be one year from today, X. And I know it's tough to do because people want immediate gratification, but they inevitably do so at the expense of long-term suffering. So have a plan.
Starting point is 01:01:53 Make sure that plan is sustainable, moderate, enjoyable. Ideally, you have a partner to do it with, whether it be your trainer, your friend, your coworker, somebody that's a good accountability partner, somebody that can say, hey, I know you don't want to work out today, but let's go. Or what are you eating? What are you doing?
Starting point is 01:02:15 Or why are you going to bed at 2 in the morning? you know, someone to tell you those things. I think that's the most important thing people should do. And definitely, you know, avoiding quick fixes, whether it be cleanses or fasts, stay away from juice. And there's no such thing as a magic ingredient. For all you out there who are like, oh my God, my assayee bowl, the greatest thing. No, it's not. It's not even healthy for you and it's gross.
Starting point is 01:02:39 I've had three assaie bowls in a row, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. That's, I never have them. And for some reason, it's been the only thing that I'm. I've wanted since I've been under the weather. It's like the only thing that I can stomach. If anyone's been to Brazil. FYI. But it's why I haven't been emailing you.
Starting point is 01:03:00 So you see my face? My hands are down here texting you. WT.F. Hold on. Let me hit the app. It just hit her. Oh! You really detected me.
Starting point is 01:03:18 Oh. I have like, you just dropped the bomb, but I didn't, it was straight face. It's like, interesting. What the, anyone out there, you know, whether it be coconut oil, whether it be asailles berries, I'm trying to think of all these magic ingredients that people don't understand are not that magic. The countries in the world with actually the highest obesity,
Starting point is 01:03:44 highest heart disease in the world are the countries that consume the most coconut fats. Coconut fat is just as bad for you, if not worse than animal fat. it's highly saturated in a bad way. If you don't need it, don't put it in your coffee. I mean, oh, God, I could go on and on on, but stay away from, there's this thing as magic ingredients. What about ghee and coffee? Don't worry.
Starting point is 01:04:06 Gee and coffee, like a bulletproof coffee. Oh, well, ghee, as you know, is butter. AKA butter. It's butter in your coffee. If I was to say, do you start your day with a tablespoon of butter and a cup of coffee? This is the common sense part of us. Do you think that's good? Does butter have any magical things that are going to make your life better?
Starting point is 01:04:32 It's, you know, what is it, a tablespoon, 100 calories of just saturated fat? Now, I'm all for butter. I have nothing against any one ingredient. And if you want to have butter, have the best butter that you can get, get that French butter that's salted, that's incredible, that's cream, and have it in a way you'll enjoy it. But don't throw it in coffee and ruin the coffee and ruin the butter. Yeah, it is such a waste of butter.
Starting point is 01:04:54 Yeah, such a waste. All right. Well, thank you so much for coming on. Thank you. We'll have to do a part B. I was just going to say that. We didn't really get to many of the listener questions. But that's the foundational stuff.
Starting point is 01:05:07 And then we'll come back and do it again. So where can everybody find you? On Instagram, Harley Pasternak. My MySpace is, Instagram's probably the best and my website is harleypastronach.com. All right. Well, thank you. Thank you. I hope you enjoyed that episode.
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