We're All Insane - I Lived In A Brothel

Episode Date: May 10, 2026

Lexi never planned on entering the sex industry. At 18 years old, she answered what she thought was a modeling ad on Craigslist and accidentally found herself in the world of webcam modeling, escorting, stripping, and OnlyFans. Sponsored By: → Shopify | See less carts go abandoned and more sales go “cha ching” with Shopify and their Shop Pay button. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://shopify.com/insane → HERS | Ready to reach your goals? Visit https://forhers.com/insane to get personalized, affordable care that gets you. → Just Thrive | Get your health in check and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/INSANE On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - How did Lexi accidentally get started in adult work? → 00:03:28 - Was she nervous to start cam modeling? → 00:05:01 - What was it like working inside a cam studio? → 00:06:41 - What changed after she was allowed to show more online? → 00:08:49 - Was she scared her parents would find out? → 00:12:40 - How long did she do cam modeling, and how did COVID change things? → 00:17:17 - What was her first strip club audition like? → 00:20:16 - Has she ever felt uncomfortable or attracted to someone at work? → 00:21:56 - What happens if she actually likes a client? → 00:26:22 - What double standards do sex workers face while dating? → 00:29:19 - How does she handle judgment about sex work? → 00:33:47 - Was it difficult balancing multiple income streams? → 00:34:56 - What is the brothel application process really like? → 00:36:40 - How do negotiations work inside a brothel? → 00:38:17 - What are the wildest things she’s experienced on the job? → 00:42:04 - How does traveling work as a sex worker? → 00:45:12 - How much work goes into becoming successful in the industry? → 00:49:06 - How did a staph infection nearly change her life forever? → 00:54:15 - Why did she realize rest and hobbies mattered so much? → 00:56:25 - What was it like going viral after the Candace Owens interview? → 00:59:39 - Why did she decide to become an independent escort? → 01:04:13 - How does she screen and vet potential clients? → 01:08:31 - What is the grossest situation she’s ever dealt with at work? → 01:11:10 - Why are so many of her clients married men? → 01:12:15 - Does she genuinely enjoy the physical side of her work? → 01:15:16 - What does she want her future outside of sex work to look like? → 01:17:30 - Does she see herself leaving sex work one day? → 01:21:27 - Does she want marriage or kids in the future? → 01:22:37 - Why do some women to work with pimps? → 01:25:38 - Why is there so much division within the sex work community? Show links: → https://youtu.be/8Wfbhk91A44 Check Out Lexi: → https://allmylinks.com/littlemisslexxi → https://littlemisslexxi.com More We Are All Insane: → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi, my name is Lexi, and I'm an independent escort, and I am now focusing on my new business called Soft Chaos, and it's mostly movement with yoga and emotional regulation with coaching. So I'll tell you guys how I kind of got started. When I was 16, I used to have two jobs. I worked at a lot of fast food industries, and my last job was out of massage envy, and I got fired for massage envy. And during that time period, I was looking for jobs. And I stumbled upon like a modeling gig or so I thought it was a modeling gig. And so when I showed up to the studio, the guy was like, can I see your ID? I gave him my ID. He made me pick like a username. And during that moment, I still wasn't sure like what I was doing. Where did you find it? Just online? So actually, it was an

add on Craigslist. Yes. And I was like, during that time, I was already kind of modeling and doing photography, like freelance modeling. And so I was like, okay, let's check this out. So I went and checked it out. And at this time, I was 18 years old. And I just remember just walking in there. And I was like so excited. And he was like, here's your username. We're going to put you in a room. Here's a laptop. It was a. studio, a webcam studio. And I was placed in a room and I remember like logging on to the website, like the campsite. And I still didn't know what I was doing. Like I was so naive that I still wasn't aware of what I was doing. And then I was kind of just like chatting with the chatterers on there.

And I was making a lot of money just like talking, just like this. And was the video on? Yes. So the video was on and live. And it was just like my own room. that they had in the studio with like a bed and a camera on a computer. And I was just jamming, listening to music, dancing around, having the most fun. And by the end of like my four-hour shift, I had made probably around $800 for four hours. And I just remember that being so much money to me. I was like, wow, I didn't do anything. I just sat there.

And fully clothed. Fully clothed. Okay. dancing around. And to this moment, I still didn't know what I was doing. So I went home. And then he asked me like when I was going to be back. So I came back. And the next day I came back and I was like online with the chatters and stuff. And somebody asked me, can I see your butthole? And I was like, wait. I was like, holy crap. Is this what I'm doing? Like this is camming. Like I was like, oh my goodness, this is.

Yeah. So it all clicked. And I was like, wow, I'm so naive because how did I not know that this is me being a webcam model, right? So I went over to the manager. I left my room and I was like, hey, these people are asking to see my butthole. Like, is that allowed? And he was like, you can do whatever you want in the room as long as you're not drinking

or doing drugs. Whatever you want in there, whatever you want to do in there, that's your place to do whatever. And I was kind of like, oh, wow. Yeah. Okay. So in that moment between somebody asking to see your asshole and asking him and him saying, you can do whatever you want, did you have any hesitation or were you kind of just like, okay, I'll do it?

I had no hesitation. Okay. I was like, wait, I've been making all this money fully clothed. Right. What's going to happen next? Yeah. Okay. And I will say a little backstory in high school.

school, I was very to myself. I knew a lot of people, but I wasn't very much so clicked up in groups. And I feel like I lost my virginity at 17 years old. And I think me doing this today has kind of surprised a lot of people from my past because they would have never expected this from me. Okay. Which I find very interesting. Yeah. That is interesting. What do you think changed?

Growing up, I've always had a strong sense of self. And I think that's why, for the most part, I've always stuck to myself. And for me, it was more so the independence and the freedom that came with, the financial aspect of that job and being able to really do everything on my own because it created a sense of stability for me within myself. Got it. To not have to rely on anyone else. That makes sense.

And then how many girls were at the studio when you were there at a time? There were probably like between four to seven girls. Okay. Sometimes more, sometimes less. But I really enjoyed the aspect of having my own schedule. So you could just go whenever you want. Right. So every Fridays I would plan out my cam schedule, send it to the owner, and then I would just come in.

Even if they weren't there, we had access to the building. We could leave whenever. I could stay for however many hours I'd like. I could leave whenever. And to me, that gave me so much freedom to just like really graduate high school and then make so much money and save it. Because like I said, I was working two jobs ever since I was 16 years old. and no matter how hard I worked or for how long I worked, I just wasn't making enough money.

I've always been addicted to working, whether that's in the sex industry or not. So I kind of just like put more effort into this, I guess you could say. For a lot of people in this industry, I think they do. it's financial freedom, you know, and I think that when you, especially when you're not used to making that kind of money, and then you see how easy it is, and you can do it without working under anyone else and you make your own hours and you do everything. It's just like, it almost becomes addicting for sure, on top of you having a strong work ethic, it seems. So that makes sense. Absolutely. So what happened after they, you talked to the guy and you said, they want to see my asshole and he was like, you can do whatever you want. So I just went in there. and I just ended up doing the whole thing. And I was working there for a while, probably around a year.

I remembered just being able to buy what I want and do what I want. And people were starting to question me. So I started webcaming and I didn't tell anybody. And a lot of people were kind of wondering how it was making all this money. And you weren't working any of their jobs, I'm assuming. Right. And I kind of kept this on the down. low. Like, I didn't really want anyone to know during that time. I remember just, like,

telling people I did, like, graphic designs and stuff like that, which was obviously a lie, but I didn't know how else to say at the time until one day I got doxed. So as a webcam model, I became super successful, and during that time, somebody from my personal life, to this day, I don't know who it is, decided to get onto my personal Instagram account, and I had an Instagram picture, and the caption was, on my worst behavior. I'll never forget this. Like, this is so funny to me. And somebody had made an account with my government name, and they decided to pick a photo of me from my webcam site as their profile picture. And then they commented under my photo that was captioned on my worst behavior and said, yeah, you are. And I was like, somebody knows. Somebody knows, somebody knows, somebody, whoever this is, they know me. Yeah.

And not only that, like, they're really trying to expose the situation at hand. And so during this time, I was living alone and I wasn't living with my parents. Were you nervous at all about your parents finding out? I want to say just a little bit. And why it was so uncomfortable is because obviously, if I wanted to share this with the world, I would share it myself. Yeah. And I love talking about my own issues and my own ignorance. I'm willing to see my own ignorance in a lot of situations and I'm not perfect.

And it was more so just like, okay, what are we going to do moving forward? How are we, how am I going to like move through? this without it causing me internal chaos. Yeah. And for me, the very next day, I just decided to go public with it. Okay. Going public with it for me was me taking back my power. And once I went, I got the chills.

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So you've been doing this since you're 18. And it started with the webcaming. And you did that for how many years? So I did web camming for 2018, 2019, and then 2020 came around. Then it was COVID. Right. And I remember during 2020, OnlyFans was everyone was talking about OnlyFans. And I was kind of just like,

ha ha, like I've been doing only fans for a while now. And now I'm starting to get tired of doing only fans. Right. So I was like thinking about it. I'm like, okay, now everyone and their moms want to do only fans. And I've been doing this. I'm like, what else can I do? Because I want to kind of do something different now.

So I ended up auditioning at a strip club. And before I auditioned, I drove myself to the strip club three times. The first time, the second time, and the third time. I drove 30 minutes and I sat in the parking lot. And you couldn't go in? I couldn't go in. Were you just nervous? Yeah.

Right, because I don't think people realize the difference of, I mean, this whole time you were behind a screen. Right. So it's like all in your control, your comfort, you know, and now you're about to go into a real world situation. Right. And it's like the webcaming, right, like I can turn it off, shut it down. Yeah. You know what I mean? And so, and then again, in high school, like, I was really quiet.

I'm an introvert. I'm an ambivert, so I'm an introvert, extrovert, but I'm pretty quiet for the most part, and I'm very reserved, and I'm very, I like to watch and just stay in my little bubble. I love talking to people. I'm a people pleaser, because if I wasn't a people pleaser, I wouldn't be successful in this industry. However, I do have really strong boundaries. And so going back to the time where I was just sitting in the car, yeah, I was scared. I was just, like, wow, like, do I know how to talk to men? Yeah. Like in person, do I really know how to do this? I'm like, how hard can this be? And so I was watching the girls, like, get out of their cars, walking into the club. And I was just so scared. Because again, doing this type of work,

it's always for me, I've always done everything by myself for myself. I've never had a pimp. I've never had a man control my money. Everything I've done in my life has been for me, myself and I really value that because it's hard in this industry to find genuine people that will lead you down the right path without wanting anything from you. So I had to kind of take that into consideration and go in there with the sense of like, okay, I don't know what I'm doing and I don't know how this works, but I know I'm not going to be able to ask anybody for help. Right.

Because you do you trust. Everybody in here is, you know, humans are conditioned to survive. Okay. So it's like at the end of the day, they're all worried about themselves. And I walked in there the fourth time and I auditioned and it was so scary because again, I also had like stage fright. It's weird because I have, I had stage fright, but I also loved performing. I love performing today.

I love being on stage. I love having so much personality and attitude. But it took a while for me to kind of get that part of me out. You have to gain the confidence in anything you do. Even if you're good at it, it takes, I feel like a little bit of time to really get into it and be like, okay, I got this. A couple questions. First, when you were doing the webcam modeling stuff, how far did that go? Like, did it get to a point of you were like masturbating on camera?

Was it always just you? Did you ever have people on the webcam with you? Yeah, it was me. I'd do anything on camera. For the most part, it was just me. I've had a couple, like, partners join me on some of those. But, yeah, I'd be doing the most. I get a lot of requests. So I started off as a dominatrix.

Got it. And I got a lot of, like, odd requests to do pegging and small penis humiliation and, like, cuck play and public humiliation and scissification and cross-dressing and all those fun good stuff. And I genuinely enjoy the sissies the most because they're so fun. And I started off as a dominatrix from a really young age. And a lot of guys were like, oh, my gosh, how are you so good at this? And I was like, I'm just a born natural.

Right. That's hilarious. Okay, so you did that. And then when you went in to do this audition, walk us through that. What was that like? So during the audition, it was just kind of like I walked in. and they put me in this dressing room. And this dressing room was really small.

And I just remember seeing, like, all the naked girls. And I was like, oh, my God, I'm here. Yeah. Like, I was like, I can't believe I'm doing this right now. Now, was this a full nude strip club? No, just topless. Okay. So I, like, got changed and then auditioned.

And then, honestly, I was so overwhelmed the first day just from the audition that I definitely auditioned and then went home. And then I came back the next day and was like, okay, now is my time to shine. And I went in, clocked in, got dressed, got on stage, and made so much money and had so much fun. And another thing is, is that during 2020, it was COVID time. So a lot of my friends that were already dancing were like, Lexi, this is such the wrong time for you to start dancing. Because the clubs are, you're dancing six feet apart. You've got to wear a mask.

And I was like, challenge accepted. Yeah. That's how I am with anything. I'm like, challenge accepted. So I was dancing with a mask on, like far, like, you know, so far away from these men. And they were still paying me so much money. Yeah. I probably made way more money during the pandemic.

Wow. Yeah. And it's amazing. I'm assuming you couldn't do lap dances, right? Right. Okay. So that's also why I was like, wait a minute. I'm dancing during the pandemic and I'm making so much money.

And I haven't even really done any dances yet. Right. So I was like, wow. And meanwhile, all the girls in the club were kind of like, I'm not making any money. I'm not making any money. And I just want to say to all my ladies that are in this industry, I just feel like there's always a way. I can walk into an empty club and there be like three, four guys and I will hustle them for their money. Like there's a way to do things. And for me, when I entered the strip club, I put my phone away. I'm never sitting in the back in the locker room. I'm always moving around. I always introduce myself to people, hi, how are you? How's your night going? What are you drinking? Oh, can I get you another drink? You know what I mean? I'm going to go say hi to my other. Right. I'm going to go say hi to my other friends. I'll be back around. Key word. You're introducing yourself and then you're going to be back around. You know what I mean? It gives you an opportunity to say hi, come back around, get to know them a little bit. They're going to be watching you on stage. They're going to be watching you with other people. And nine times out of 10, they're going to be. going to want to get a dance from you. And so I just find that it's important to really work in the club. If you're going to go into this industry, really have a mindset of a strong mindset and really

have strong goals that you're going to follow. You know what you mean? Now, have you ever, two questions. One, have you ever been in a situation in the strip club that made you really uncomfortable? No. Okay. And then second. was have you ever met a guy at the strip club that you were like, I like you? Yes. Okay. So I want to say that I am so highly protected and blessed by the universe. And I also have very strong intuition.

And I've never had a bad experience in the strip club industry and in my, in my, in my escorting industry. And I feel like the reason for that is because I really move with genuine intentions. And I think that's really important because a lot of girls, a lot of the times when you see crazy headlines where it's like, this stripper was murdered or killed or whatever, I've heard stories from girls that are working in the club where they're talking about robbing clients or talking about demanding more money from clients or talking about XYZ. And to me, that's dangerous. I would never do that because now you're a target. Right. I'm very upfront. What you're going to get, what you see is what you're going to get.

You know what I mean? There's never any hidden charges or fees. And I feel like as a provider, as a sex worker, you should be the safe place. And if you're a true sex worker and a true provider, there's no way you're going to try to scam clients, rob them, or do anything of that sorts. That's how bad stories happen. And then I asked you about if you liked anybody there. Oh, if I liked the client? Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Okay, so. Like, what do you do in that situation? This has only happened to me one time. And it was so weird because I was working at this club in Tucson, Arizona. And this guy walked in and he was part of like a bachelor's group. And I was kind of like, oh, like, what's going on here? So I got to know them all. And this one guy was really cute.

And he was telling me how he works in Texas. And he works at a strip club in Texas. And I was like, what? And he was like, yeah. And then he named the strip club. And I was like, no way. like I used to dance there. And he's like, well, I don't work there anymore.

I work at a different one now. And I was like, wow, like small world. And so just from that, I feel like I was already intrigued because I was like, okay, familiar territory. Like he works at a club. I'm at a club. I'm curious. And so I gave him some dances and things went good. Things went well.

I mean, I was just working. I was just doing my job. You know what I mean? But then I realized, I found out that he had a girlfriend anyways. So I was like, oh, farewell my friends. So it was kind of like there wasn't anything. I mean, I was doing my job. I did my job and that was that.

And what are your thoughts around that? Men that have girlfriends or wives and they're coming to the strip clubs for dances from you guys and attention from you guys? Personally, unfortunately, men will always be men. And I just feel like I don't really have much of an opinion about it because I'm like, I just work here. Yeah. They're going to come regardless. Have you been in a relationship since being in this industry?

Yes, I have. And how did your boyfriend feel about it? A boyfriend, girlfriend? Partner, doesn't matter. At first it was fine, and then it was like not so fine. And for me, I'll never trade my stability for something temporary. Makes sense. Yeah.

Do you think, like, if you were in a relationship, would you care if you were a partner was getting lap dances or going to strip? As a sex worker? Like, would I care if my partner was doing that, knowing that I'm a dancer? Just in general. Okay. So here's something that I've actually been recently dealing with. So sometimes I'll talk to people or whoever I'm talking to. And I'll kind of just like feel like how they feel about my job and stuff like that.

And sometimes they're like, oh, I wouldn't want my girlfriend doing that. So I'm like, okay, I respect that. If you don't want your girlfriend doing that, then maybe this won't work. What's funny is they end up sticking around knowing that I do sex work. And it's always a little bit funnier because I ask them, I'm like, okay, so what's the exact reason why, like, you're not comfortable with this? And it's always like, oh, my values. Like, I just won't want, I don't want my woman doing that, XYZ, XYZ.

And then I'm like, okay, well then a few weeks will go by. And this same person will be like, hey, I want to go to the strip club with my friends and have fun. Right. So it's like, where is the line down? And I'm just like thinking to myself like, oh, well, that's a double standard. That's a double standard. Because you don't want me doing this work. You don't want me to have all eyes on me. But you want to go and entertain or put your attention on those same groups of people that you tried to dim in me. Dim, you know. Yeah. And it's like, that's a double standard that I don't really know how to feel about that because it's like, well, it's difficult because I think it then it goes back to what you said before of it being a situation where you're like, why would I even get involved with anybody? Like I'd rather just keep doing my thing, keep making money. Exactly. Because it's difficult.

It's hard to find good men. And then when you do, it's like, I'm sure, like, obviously a good man isn't going to want you to. be a sex worker. And then maybe he does, maybe he doesn't do his own thing. But either way, it's like you're giving up your sense of freedom without knowing what the outcome is going to be. Right. For something temporary. Yeah. And I've been so self-sufficient my entire life since the age of 18 that it's like if you want to be in my life. Accepted as is. Right. Because it's like I, at this point, have done so much for me that the only way I want you around me is if you can bring me a peace of mind. Yeah. I already get love from the streets,

so be my piece. You know what I mean? And yeah, because I find that so interesting, and I don't even know how to. It's hard. It's a, it's an interesting topic. Right. Subject for sure. I don't think anybody, I think people are very quick to judge it and have opinions, but then when you really get down to the nitty-gritty of it, it's like, most people aren't saints, you know? They're going to make decisions and fall into situations, I feel like, that it's going to completely contradict their values or things that they say and everything in between. So it's interesting, for sure.

And it makes me feel bad about myself because it's like, you're over here telling me that you don't want to be involved with someone like me, but then you're going to go and you want to go seek that type of entertainment elsewhere. You know what I mean? It's kind of just like... Right. I would be okay with my partner wanting to go to the club

if they didn't make it an issue about. me. You know what I mean? But now that you're making an issue about me and you're still wanting to go have, you're trying to like double dip and have your cake and eat it too. And I'm just like not really for that. No, I agree. Because then I also feel like it's, you're kind of like laughing in my face. Like I feel like it's insulting. It's insulting to be like, I don't want a female in my life like this, but I'm going to go, I'm going to go admire the arts and crafts that women like you provide. Right. Like you want to be in that type of culture. You want to enjoy the, beauty of my job, but you don't want me doing it.

I think, too, for men, I mean, they are, they have big egos. They need that validated a lot of times. And I think, too, they like attention and it makes them feel good to feel like these women are just all over them. And it's funny to me because I don't think many of them realize, like at the end of the day, it's your job to do that. So it's just like it, which is interesting too because they'll make those comments and somehow being in those environments fuels their ego, yet you guys are just making a dime.

You know what I mean? Like, so it's just, it's, it's very interesting to me how many opinions people have around sex work and in the industry. And it's, I mean, even with porn, it's like you want to people bash it, but everyone watches it. Right. And it's, escorting is the longest profession in history. Mm-hmm.

So it's like it's been around for a long time. Yeah. And it's probably never going to go away. Right. And what I would suggest for men to do is don't indulge in it. That's the only way it's going to stop because these men, these same men that are out here talking about OnlyFans this and OnlyFans that, they're the same men that are giving us the opportunity. Absolutely. To gain from this.

Yeah. And us as women should profit off of this. Because it's like they're giving us the ability to do so. They're not standing on what they believe in. They're saying one thing, but then they're going behind the screen and they're little porn addicts or whatever else. You know what I mean? It's like be true to yourself.

I don't think most of these people know themselves, and I think that's why they dabble in a lot of different things. Absolutely. I feel like also the people that target my community, sex workers, I feel like those people also don't have a strong sense of self. Anybody that is going to sit online and judge me for my life or for my path or for my walk in this journey. Right.

It's not your business. It doesn't affect you. But it just tells me that you don't know yourself. Yeah. It really does because you're wasting your energy on another human. Right. I'm happy. I'm healthy. My parents love me. I have a good family. I'm loved by my parents. Everything is so good.

You know, so the people that are sitting online, like, trying to bash me or, like, try to do XYZ, it's like, I truly, genuinely just want to give you guys a big hug. Yeah, right. You know? Yeah. It's not affecting your paycheck. Right. Like, it's not affecting me at all in the slightest. And it actually makes me pity them because I'm like, oh. I hope one day that you're able to find peace in your life so that you aren't so bitter towards random people on the internet. Because again, we're on the internet. We don't really all know each other. And a lot of people cultivate this parosocial relationships with multiple people online. And I just think that that could be so dangerous as well. Okay. If you've ever tried losing weight, you know how frustrating and difficult it can be to

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important safety information, will go be clinical setting information and restrictions. Visit for hers.com. So when you were working at the strip club, were you still doing the cam modeling and only fans? And okay, so at this point you're having, you have like multiple different streams of revenue that you have coming in. Did you feel like at any point it was hard to kind of struggle all these things? Or were you kind of just, you felt like it was easy to balance. It was easy to balance. In, I want to say, 2021 or 2022, I started working at the Mustang Ranch in Sparks, Nevada. Okay. What is that? It's a brothel. A legalized brothel in Nevada. Wow. Yes. So I went there and I worked for a bit. I didn't know what I was

doing. This was my first time, like, being an escort. I was like, what's going on? So you, this place When you work, you're working there. You're working there. And this was like a lockdown house. Yeah, run me through it. I'm so curious. So I auditioned. I applied online.

They called me back. They will make you buy your own tickets and stuff to come out. What is the audition like? Oh, you just like submit an application online. Okay. So it's not like a, you don't have to really do anything. Right. Okay.

But I will say your application photos must look just like you because if you show up and you're not who you were in the photos, they will turn your ass right back and around. Got it. Okay. Yeah. So. No catfishing. Right.

So you pick like two weeks that you want to work and it's a lockdown house. So you get tested for SDVs and all that good stuff. You're always supposed to use protection for any services at the ranch. And you would get your own room. It was like a room and board. So you'd get your own room with your own bathroom and you would get three free meals a day. And the rooms were, they had like a BDSM room. they had a Mediterranean room, a cowboy room.

They had all these cool, like, fantasy rooms. And then we had our own rooms, of course. So you lived there for two weeks? Yes. Okay. That was my shift. Got it. Because once you get tested, you're locked in.

Ah, okay. So they want you to stay there. Right. Because you're tested, you're clean. Even though we're using protection for all services, that's how it was there. Okay. And so I was just working there, working there,

working there and I was making money, but not going to lie, I had a sugar daddy during this time. So I kind of went to be a little journalist. Like I was like, what is this? I'm so curious. Like I don't need to be here, but also, what is illegal brother? I was so intrigued. So I was like, okay, I'm coming to find out. Even though I was like not, I didn't know what I was doing. I was like, oh my God, what am I doing? Like, it was just so fun trying to figure it out because I was like, if I had to be there, because I'm single, I don't have kids. If I had to be there, I feel like, obviously that would be much different story. But I was like, I'm going to come find out.

Right. And I ended up leaving there. When you were there, are you picking and choosing what you accept and don't accept? Or do you just kind of, what's whatever comes in? So they would do lineups or walk-ins or whatever. And if a guy chooses you, you would go into the negotiation room and negotiate a price and whatever. And what he wants. And what he wants.

And if it's like, if it's a good price, for what you want and that's something that you want to do and you agree on it, then you can do it. For me, Lexi always gets what she wants. So I would deny a lot of people just because I am low volume today as well. If for me to have a good time with you, I kind of want what I want. Yeah. If you're going to try to lowball me. Where's the incentive? Right. It's not going to be a pleasurable experience for both you and me.

So I kind of want what I want so that I can give you the best time too. So I'd walk people out and the owners weren't too happy about that. And I do remember being like, ain't this my pussy? You know what I mean? Like I'm confused. Like why the owner? Because I, what percentage of a cut would they get? 50%.

Wow. Wow. So when I tell you that I'm walking people out because, hey, this doesn't serve me in my energy. If you're coming into my room and you're going to, I don't know, offer me $1,000, I'm going to have to say no. Right. Were you ever asked to do something like crazy? Yeah. Give me an example.

I love, this is going to be scary. Sorry if I'm going to scare you guys. But like I said, I like when people like weird things because it's so fun. It's entertaining. I've seen a guy suck his own dick. I was like, hell, yeah. How? And no, you don't have to have your ribs removed to do this

because he did not. Was his dick huge? I'm like, I shall do a little demonstration, shall we? He was like, and I was like, and I love watching that shit. Like, I absolutely love watching that. Like, obviously, it's not like turning me on. I'm not going to be like, but I'm intrigued.

Like, I'm like there for the month. And he just wanted you to watch? Yeah. Okay. Wow. Oh my God. I've had other guys book me and they just want to play dress up. So I have like a box in my room that has a bunch of skirts and dresses and like cute little panties and lingerie.

And they want to wear it. Yeah. And so we'll do like fashion show nights. And the thing is too, it's like for them, they probably love this because you guys don't know each other and they're able to just do what they're into with no shame. And I love that. Like I love being able to hold space for people that don't seem to be able to, like, fit in anywhere. Right, because it's not always sexual. Well, it's like it's like a sexual fantasy in a different way.

It's not like, like, so people like that, they aren't really there to have sex. They just want to. They just want to feel loved and involved. And it's sad because I will say this. A lot of the married men that come see us genuinely just want connection. they want somebody to call them handsome. They want somebody to rub on them. They want somebody to hear them and see them and comfort them.

And that gets lost a lot in relationships. And that gets lost a lot in relationships. And it's genuinely sad. Like it makes me sad when a man is like, hey, I provide and I'm like still getting put into the corner. And a lot of men out there are like that. a lot of women think they're the prize. A lot of women think that they're everything and all.

But the truth is, is it's like... It has to be balanced and equal, you know? Both need to be providing. Right. Because if you're just taking, taking, taking, and taking from this man. I mean, I've always said if, like, and I, it's sad, but it's true, but if you're not going to suck his dick, because somebody else will. Not saying that it makes it okay.

Right. But, like, preach. It's the reality of it, though. It's like you really have to go. It's like, say we're in a relationship. I have a specific hobby. I want to go, I have a specific hobby that I like to do. And you have a specific hobby that you like to do.

I don't want to do your hobby, but you don't want to do my hobby. It's still important to find balance so that we can both enjoy each other and just give little pieces of each other to just, hey, I know that I don't really like this, but because I love you, I'm going to do this with you. It doesn't have to be all day, every day, 24-7. Yeah. But finding that little time, with your partner to connect and being able to have open, honest, raw conversations is important.

Because if you're not able to do that, they will do that somewhere else. Yeah. It's so true. That's wild. Okay. So did you only do the brothel for two weeks? I would, since I had the sugar daddy, I would just go, I would drop by here and there. My motto is I never. It seems like you'll go with what you do, you can kind of go all over the place, right? Okay. So even with the strip club, do you have to quit? No. Okay, so you just kind of are like, I'm going here for a little, but I'll be back. I've danced in Texas, Florida. I've danced. So wherever you are, you can go into the places that you've already worked. Is that how it is? Yeah. Even if you haven't worked it before, you just audition. So I could work here tonight if I wanted to.

All I do is bring my outfit and then I bring identification and then I just go to the club. Hey, can I audition? that's how you get. And then you can work that night. Yeah. Unless you're in like Phoenix. Some cities and states do have licensing regulations. Okay. Or if it's like a bigger place maybe? Well, it depends on the city and the state. Because like Phoenix, in order to dance, you have to get a dancer's license. So you would go to the town hall, get a license, and then you're able to dance. Cities like Texas, or yeah, cities in Texas, you don't need to get a license. You just go in and apply. And like, for example, there's always going to be different rules and regulations

in any city or state. In Texas, they have this weird rule where even though we're at a topless club, we still wear pasties. So you can't really see our nipples still. They're usually spray painted or we have pasties on. That's like something that is illegal if you don't have. Okay. In the state of Texas, if you take off your stripper shoes in the club, that's a prostit charge. That's something that you can do in Arizona. Right. I went to, when I was 18, I went to my first strip club and I was so nervous because I'd never been. And it was a fucking hole in the wall strip club, fully nude. Like, and that like, because I've heard that most of them aren't or some of them aren't. So walking in,

I was like, oh my God, like a leg spread, pus out. And there was no alcohol probably, right? Because usually fully nude is no alcohol. I think there's a bar. Really? Maybe they're serving non-alcoholic drinks, though. Yeah. Because fully nude typically is no drinks. Okay.

Yeah. For that reason. That's great. You know, it's funny. My boyfriend, his family owns a strip club. Really? Yeah. So it's like, I mean, I haven't been to theirs.

But like. Here? Mm-hmm. Yeah. I'm like, right. Like, I'll go there tonight. Yeah. Can you walk?

Can you help me? I'm going to be at your club. Right. No, I haven't been. But, yeah, they've owned it for years. And I think now there's a law or there's a rule here where they can't, like, the area that it's in now, it's like not the best area, but they can't move it because I don't think there's like something where you can't relocate.

Yeah, there's like a lot of. Yeah. You know what I mean? When it comes to those types of. But it does well. Like, hearing what they make in a week and a damn. like, I get it. Like, it's like it's people want to, I know a lot of people will say like at what point is like money can't buy happiness.

I agree with all of that. And it's like at what point is the money more important than the values or the happiness or this, that, and the other. But like, what is life? Like, what? And I don't, I don't mean that in like what is life. But it's like you can't survive without money. Like, so it's, you pick your poison, you know. Right.

And so I want to talk about how you can't survive without money, but also you can't make more money living in survival mode. Yeah, that's true too. So a lot of these girls in this industry are making a lot of money. They're really young. They're making a lot of money. They're like, oh my God, so much money, so much money, so much money, so much money, so much money.

Have a plan for your money. Know what you're going to the club for. have intentions before you go. Write a journal as to how much you're spending to be there, how much you're making that night. Make sure you're writing off your taxes and all that good stuff. You know what I mean? You're treating it as a business.

I think some people are kind of just going in like, where's the money, you know? And that's what I'm saying. These girls are like, I'm just going to go audition today. I make so much money. Like, he he ha ha. Like, yes. And this isn't, so it's not as easy as it may seem.

Like a lot of girls come to. to me and they're like, Lexi, you're so successful. We saw your podcast with Candace Owens, yada, yada, yada. And I'm here to tell you guys that none of that came overnight. Like I put blood, sweat, and tears into my craft to perfect it. And I did it all alone. And that's why I want to be able to help women that are in my industry or just women in general that need some support because I can't fix, save,

or solve your problems, but I can lead you in the right direction. I am really business. orientated and once you start making so much money, you really have to prioritize your own sense, like your own well-being. And what I mean by that is like you're mental and you're emotional because your physical can only take you so far. I'm not talking about beauty. I'm literally talking about your body. For me, I was neglecting myself while I was hustling so hard. I at some points of my life like I would go into one club during day shift I would work there during the day I would clock out and I would clock right back into another club for night shift because I knew

that this club during the day does well and I knew that this club at night was popping so I was overworking myself and I was just I was just doing it just doing it just doing it I had a really good flow doing it because I'm so cut throat and my dad was in the military so that's just I'm programmed to like, to just perfect my craft, I feel like, you know. And so throughout this time, I ended up actually getting staff infection in my knee. And during this time, I think this was the most pivotal moment for me because I was like, okay, money can't buy happiness, but I guess because I was making all this money. And I remember, like, I will never forget.

I was driving down the road in Texas and I was like, life is so good, I'm making so much money, I'm happy, I'm healthy, like, this is everything I ask for and more. And then the next month, like, my knee was hot red and swollen for no reason. And I was like, what's going on? And so I got taken to the emergency room and they were like, did you know you have a fever? And I was like, no. They were like, yeah, well, what's going on with your knee? Like, why does it look like that? And my knee looked fine. Like, it was just a regular. knee. There was no cuts or abrasions or anything like that. So I was genuinely concerned because I couldn't walk. And my leg was stuck like this. Okay. Like it was stuck. Like I couldn't bend it because of the swelling and everything else. And it turns out I had staff infection in my knee, which caused me to be

hospitalized for a month. Wow. How do you know how you got it? So I had a tiny little cut below my knee that got infected and I went to the doctors for it and it healed. It could have either came from that that was below my knee or it just from micro tears because you can get staff infection from like the gym. Yeah. And if you have the tiniest little tear, we all have micro tears in our skin. If you come into contact with it, like that's that. You know what I mean? And somehow, some way, like, my knee was dormant too, because I remember having that little cut. It was like January 2023. But I went into the hospital in May. So in May, I was like, my knee was fine all these, like all these months. It looked fine. So I was like, what the heck? So I think that it was

staff infection, either from the cut or it just somehow seeped into, I also had a lot of fluid built up. Okay. So I don't know if the staff infection like brewed from the fluid that was trapped in my knee. Yeah. But they ended up having to like take out the fluid and I was hospitalized for a month and on antibiotics and like staff infection is serious. Like you could die. And not to mention, I forgot the most important part of the story, they wanted to amputate my leg, my left leg. That's how bad the infection was. And at this moment, I was just thinking about how good life was.

Like I was like, oh my God, everything is so good. And then boom. now they're talking about amputating my leg tomorrow. And I have no family with me. Like, I'm by myself in this hospital. And they're like, yeah, you're going to be going in for surgery tomorrow. And we're going to have to amputate and da-da-da. And I'm like, and during that time, I realized that I had a lot of friends.

A lot of people, a lot of people that I could call and, you know, go to the club with and go here and do this and do X, Y, Z. But during my time where I was hospitalized, I lost all my friends. I really found who were my real friends and who weren't my real friends. I realized that a lot of people love being around me and my energy, but that's all. That's it. Yeah, as soon as something goes wrong. They're like, yeah, no more. Right. Yeah. And so it's so important to find people in your life that pour into you because when you're not feeling the best, like, that's the type of friends you need. And it was just so, like, life changing because I was such an unhappy camper for 30 days, like being stuck. And like my family came through and like a few of my friends did. But I had to ultimately, like, those 30 days where I was in the hospital, I really had to like, I was planning. the rebrand. Like I was like, we can't, I can't live like this no more. I can't befriend people like this no more. You will never see me at the clubs just like going out to drink with you guys all anymore. I really had to cut a lot of people off and go ghost from a lot of people. Because I was realizing that like I was the one providing in these relationships, in these friendships, in these friendships and everything else. And cool, you have all these friends that you can go party with and

stuff like that. But how many friends are going to show up for you when you're in the hospital and need you? You know? And I think that's when I had my spiritual awakening and was like, wow, like, there's so much more to life than like what I've been doing. Like I've just been hustling every day, all day, going to the club, all day. I was like, that's all I was just eating, living, breathing, shitting, working. Like, that's it. My whole identity was a revolved around my job. I learned the game. and I made it mine. You know what I mean? And so when I was in the hospital, I was like, okay, we got to start finding hobbies.

If you're a sex worker in the industry, I advise you to find hobbies, go to school. But hobbies is so big because a lot of us will coop ourselves up at home or in hotel rooms and we won't leave for days and we'll only leave for clients. and that's not healthy, that's not good. No balance. Right. Have balance. Be your own best friend.

Do things that make you happy and learn more about yourself. When you're not busy, when you're not working, when you have slow days, for me, if I'm not making money and I'm like, damn, haven't made money in a week. This sucks. You know what I mean? Yeah. Instead of being like, this sucks, be like, no, the universe is literally giving you an opportunity to slow down. What can you do during this time while it's slow? You know, find some hobbies, workout, paint.

Like, find something that you're genuinely passionate about. Because for me, I thought it was so embarrassing when people were asking me, hey, Lexi, like, what do you like to do for fun? What do you do? And I was like, work, make money, hustle. Duh. And I literally thought that that was so cool. Like, I was like, I'm the coolest person on the planet.

Like, all I do is work. And truth be told, that's not cool at all. Yeah. Like we're not meant to be put on this planet to just work. Right. And so I found my hobbies and I found that I'm very passionate about teaching people yoga. I'm really passionate about teaching people about emotional regulation and helping women find boundaries and just feel more comfortable within themselves. And yeah. So this year, that's what I was, last year, that was my mission to really find myself and find what I enjoy doing. Yeah. And kind of step away from that.

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She got invited onto a panel where we just so happen to be there. Okay. And like I said again, like, I just so happen to be at the right place at the right time. How did that make you feel? Like, because I know that she was, I think from what I've seen, it was more. like shaming girls in your industry, right? Right. How did it make me feel?

It made me feel really good. I have this really weird thing where like when people are mean to me or try to be mean to me or leave me nasty messages or comments, I kind of get off to it. Okay. It's like really thrilling for me and it just like motivates me even more. Like that's my best motivator. So I was like, hell yeah. Yeah.

Like, did you go back and forth with her at all? Yeah. Okay. And I just like, again, like, you can hate me for, you can hate me, but what I'm saying is like, for the most part, what I, what comes out of my mouth is true. So whether you like to hear it or not, I'm still speaking the truth. Yeah. So if you don't like the truth, everybody wants to know the truth until they hear the truth and then nobody wants to hear the truth. and then nobody wants to hear the truth. And that's, well, look at society today. You know what I mean?

So for me, it was like quite interesting and it got to like really pick my brain and it was like very, it was good. But like a conversation like that wouldn't make you feel bad about yourself. No, not at all. Because like I said, I have a strong sense of self. I know who I am. Okay. Nobody else can tell me what I am or what I'm not. Yeah. Because I'm sure there's a lot of women and girls that would, you know, just have that conversation with someone that's completely, completely different than them and feel like shit about themselves. Right. Or question everything they're doing or, you know.

Exactly. And that's normal. Also, I feel like if you know yourself so well and you know what you stand for and you know your values and you know what you believe in, it shouldn't matter what anybody else has to say about you. I know myself. God knows who I am. So your perspective on me is a personal.

perspective. If that's how you feel about me or if that's how you think about me, then so be it. So it is. So be it. And I'll let you. Because why when I let you, it gives me back my power. Yeah. Right. Don't give your energy and power away. Right. If I'm going to be worried about, oh my God, I'm so scared that that automatically takes the power away from my situation and puts it right into their hands. Yeah. Absolutely. So in 2023, after you got out of the hospital, Did you go back to the strip clubs and were you still doing the webcam and leave? Do you currently still do all of these things? So I currently, I currently am just doing independent escorting.

Okay. So where did that, when did that switch happen? After I got out of the hospital and did like my rehabilitation for my knee, I went to the bunny ranch and I worked there for a little bit. What's that? That's another brothel in Mount House, Nevada. And I will say, I like the Mustang Ranch more just because it was kept up really well. It was up to my standards.

Up to my liking. I have a really weird thing for like clean houses and buildings and such. So I really like the Mustang Ranch for that. The Bunny Ranch was, I like the sense that we could come and go as we please. Like after we got tested, it wasn't a lockdown house. So I could come and go. However, the girls there were quite questionable. Yeah.

Being young and being pretty. When people come in there, do they have to get tested too? No. So just you guys. Just us, but protection is used for everything. Even blow jobs? Yes. Okay.

For blow jobs, yes. If I'm going down on a woman, we got dental dams for that as well. Protection is a must. And it's illegal if you don't. Got it. Okay. And the people there you said were questionable. Oh, yeah.

The girls were questionable just because it's like, I'm going to tell you a little story. Being pretty young and successful when you're minding your own business will trigger and quite literally cause a whole lot of chaos for you. And that's okay. But in my experience, I went in there and I was really quiet and I stayed to myself, that's how I always am. And I noticed that the longer I was there and the longer I talked to nobody and the longer I stayed in my room, the girls would come. kind of try to come around. They would be like knocking on my door. Hi, we're going to go to the smoke shop. Do you want to come with me? Hi, we're making dinner. Do you want to come make dinner with us? And they were trying to slowly include me. But the welcome was not warm at all. They were trying to haze me out of that house. They were really, they were bullying me. Bullying me. I say that very lightly, but they were really trying to cause issues with me for absolutely no reason. So that's why I made it like my own personal duty to stay away from these girls during my time there. And I noticed

that the longer that they were watching me hustle and the way that they, the way I was working, they were watching me work. They were watching the way I was making money. They knew I didn't come to fuck around. And they were like, okay, she's going to last here. Because oftentimes these girls at the ranches will kind of bully you to get you out. Okay. Because they're like, oh, well, she can't handle it and she's only going to be able to be here for a little bit and then she'll be gone. So why even talk to her? Why even give her a warm welcome? Because chances are she's not going to be here in a week or two. Yeah. That's how a lot of these girls, that's their mindset. We're not going to take the new girl under their wing because she's not even going to survive her last year. So I was like, okay, I don't need

nobody to hold my hand. I don't need to sit with you guys to feel whole alone. So I would just do my own thing, but I slowly started to realize that they wanted some of my presence. Because when you're quiet and you don't say much, people oftentimes are curious because you become mysterious. And I was just kind of like, no, I'm good. I'm okay. Yeah. Here and there, I'd be like, all right, let's go smoke or something like that. But for the most part, I was just watching this pattern with how long were you there? And I was there for probably like less than a year.

Okay. And you're coming and going, still doing your own thing in between. And then after that is when you became an independent escort? After the Candace Owens podcast aired, I started doing my own independent stuff, yes. And how is that kind of just you're picking everything yourself? You kind of are your own. Yeah. So I have a website.

It's Little Miss Lexi with two X's.com. And on my website, it tells you everything from the prices. It shows you photos of me, my statistics. And then there's also like a contact form where people will fill out the contact form. I require like a selfie, an ID, LinkedIn, something to like verify you. And then once I receive your email, I review it. And then I'll be in touch. And then it's basically whatever people want once again, whether they just want your company

or sexual things or whatever. Right. Okay. And you approve or deny. Right. And then has that been pretty good for you? Yes, it has been. It's been amazing since I left that ranch.

I really want to thank Candice. A lot of my fans are like, oh, my God, she was so mean to you. And blah, blah, blah, blah. And I can't believe the way she spoke to you. But in all honesty, guys, you guys have to remember that this is social media. Every one of us is playing a bro. We're all playing a part. And that's the role she's playing.

And I will never knock her for playing that role. You know what I mean? Yeah. She said what she had to say. She's in character. She's acting for her part. And I'm going to let her. It doesn't offend me.

And everybody's allowed to have their own opinions. I will say, I think that there's a way to have your own opinion and still be open and nice and accepting. That's one thing I've never understood is how. disgusted and grossed out and angry people get when you don't have the same views or same opinions. Right. Like it's just interesting to me. Like why can't you disagree, but still just be like, good for you. And that's the problem with this world. And if you take that and you shine that into multiple different parts of our life in our world today, that's exactly how it is.

Us as a united should be united. We should all be here for. each other, whether we disagree or not, I'm still not going to hurt you or saving things to you or leave you for dead. You know what I'm saying? I think that's so important to be able to be so mature to be like, hey, like, I know we don't believe the same things, but like... Right. People can, it's almost like their skin crawls. They can't, they can't even hear it. They can't listen without having an opinion. They have to be right. And it's a shame. Okay. So you're doing the escorting now, Do you still have only fans? Do you do that anymore? Yeah. Occasionally I'll do the only fans. It just kind of scares me because a lot of my

clients that want to see me in person will get on only fans and they're like, I want to see you in XYZ state. And I'm like, you guys are going to get my account taken down. Okay. So. Oh, okay. So right, because you can't do meetups. Right. So I'm like, me being on only fans, I kind of just use that to post sexy photos of me. And what about the cam modeling? The cam modeling thing. I've kind of. I do, I'm on Sex Panther right now, and that's the website I've been using. I don't do it as often as I used to just because I do have a regular client base that I see in person. Got it. And are they all over? Or is it mainly just where you are located?

It's all over, but I am based in Arizona and I'm a full-time student. So I prefer to have my clients come see me in Arizona. Got it. I'm willing to travel if it's worth If it's worth it. Right. And then when you're so like, for example, when you are traveling, like you coming here, are you still finding work? Yes. Interesting.

So how do you promote yourself with that? Or would you do something like a strip club thing where you'd? The way I promote it is on Twitter. Okay. Yeah. And I'll just be like, hey, I'm here. Wow. Interesting.

And then also I have like on my website. I have a tour request. So if you want to see me in a specific city, you can go on my website and type in your city. And so then on times like this, I'll review the list and be like, who's in Baltimore right now that's already punched and then I'll reach out to them. Got it. Right. Like I have a system. So like... Have you found anybody yet here? Yeah. Wow. That's crazy. So you can just go anywhere and just work. Yeah.

Damn. That's wild. Are you comfortable with saying the most that you've made in a month? You don't have to. I'm just asking. I'm going to keep this private for right now. Go ahead. Good for you. I mean, I don't care.

I just like to, you know, people always want to know. I had another question. Hold on. Let me think. Is that, okay. Have you ever been in a situation, like a sexual situation that's been like really gross? Just like grossed you out completely? I'll tell you this time where I was working at the Mustang Ranch and we did dick checks there.

So it was like, yeah. Like literally everyone was like, we called them DCs. Okay. And everyone's like, what's a DC? And I'm like, it's a dick check. And basically you go in and like you, you take a look and you see all what's going on. Make sure it'll look good, happy and healthy. And during this DC check, I had a gentleman. He was hot too. Like so hot. I was like, oh my gosh. Wow, this is going to be so much fun. I'm getting paid and you're cute. Cool. Ma'am, he pulled down his trousers and dropped his boxers. And there was shit streaks in his dressers. And there was shit streaks in his job. draws. Ew. Like, we hadn't even made it that far yet. Did it stink? Ashtravenio. Did it stink? Do you know what I'm talking about? Oh, God. He said, did it stink? Yeah. It stink. So what did you do?

Girl, I charged him double. I said, I'm going to need this much more money. And then when we do get to my room. I'm going to need you to take a 10, 15 minute shower that's going to be taken from your time. Yes, absolutely. I just literally put his clothes in a plastic bag and I threw it outside my wind, or I threw it outside the door for a second. I had him get in the shower, but I made him enter my room naked. I had him go shower. I made him take a long, hot, steamy shower. I gave him a rag. I will watch you shower, by the way, because I've learned that not a lot of people even know how to shower themselves basically. So I will sit there like your mother. And I'll be like, okay, babe, let's jump in the shower.

And then I'll give you a washcloth and I'll give you some soap. And I just have conversation with you, but I'm literally watching where you're scrubbing. And if you don't scrub the places I need you to, I will tell you to go scrub that part again. Oh, my God. Everybody's got to learn somewhere. So if anything, I'm teaching them. Oh, Jesus Christ. See, that's the thing.

Like, people are just gross. Like, most humans are nasty. So I don't know. Like, that's like, I don't know how you do it. I mean, I guess because you make them shower. But like, well, also another thing is is that my rates are really high. Okay. So it kind of gets the nasty ones out.

It like weaves out the suitors that just aren't for me. Okay. Yeah. Like I have a lot of high-end clients that are so generous, so clean. Okay. I have another question I just thought of. Most of your clients now with the escorting business are a lot of them married? Yes.

Okay. And they just, once again, kind of going back to what we said, they just want that, I guess, attention and love. Yeah. And connection. Do they ever get nervous about, like, people finding out or that's never really like a discussion? It's just. Well, anything with me is always really discreet. Okay.

Even though I take, for verification purposes, like on my contact form, I do require you to send me like ID or LinkedIn or whatever or a company website or a business. card. I destroy that information immediately after you send it. It's just for my safety to know who I'm working with. And then privacy, discretion, I advise, like, I'm all about privacy and discretion. Anything that's being said in my room with me, I don't take out. I value my client's privacy. And I think it's really important to make sure my business stays successful is that I protect. Yeah, I protect my client's privacy. When it comes to having sex with these people or doing things with them sexually,

do you genuinely enjoy it, would you say? Or is there sometimes where you, like, you kind of feel like you disconnect and it's just business mode? There's never been a time where I'm always present. I like to live my life in the present moment during whatever I'm doing. So if I'm with a client in the present moment,

I don't ever take clients that I don't want to see. Okay. So with that being said, it's like, I've never had an experience where I'm like, oh my God, I don't want to do this, but I'm doing it. Okay. So you've never, like, forced yourself to... Right. Correct. Okay. That's why I think it's important to have good rates. Would you consider yourself as more of a hypersexual person?

No. Hmm. Okay. Far from it, actually. I ask because I feel like it does take a certain type of person to be able to be involved with multiple different people. sexually because it is an exchange of energy, you know? And like, do you ever feel like your energy is depleted after doing these things with people or even just spending time with them? No, because I, like I said, I choose the people that I surround myself with. Okay. And because of that, I'm very comfortable with my choices because I'm not choosing just anybody that,

like, I'm not just because I'm high and escort, doesn't mean that I'm accepting every and all bookings that are coming my way. You know what I mean? Yeah. And so I'm filtering. touring through to make sure we're the right match, to make sure that our time together is going to be like, like, while. Right. I'm trying to make sure that we're compatible because, yeah. Makes sense. Right.

Like, and then for me, it's really easy to just disconnect. It's weird, too, because I don't really like being touched. So you want to do everything. No, like, when I'm with my clients, like, I want to be touched and I want to touch them. But outside of work, I don't like being touched. Okay. Like I am not a very affectionate person outside of work. I struggle with that. Both my parents are still together and in my life, but I feel like maybe they didn't give me enough physical touch because I'm just like weirded out about it if you're not paying me. Like I don't know. For my friends, it's kind of hard for me to hug them. I'll do it anyways. But it's like I get that like weird feeling. Yeah. Like it's kind of awkward a little bit for me. When I'm out in public and girls want to like touch me or whatever. whatever, like I don't like that. I'm very much so like keep your hands to yourself. Yeah. So I feel like a lot of people might think that I'm easy or that I am hypersexual,

but it's like the opposite. And I don't know why I struggle with that myself. Because I'm very reserved. Okay. And then how long have you been, when you said you're a full-time student, is that for what you're doing now with the yoga stuff? Yes. Okay. And you've been doing that for, what, a year or so? Yes. Okay. And what is your plan with that? Are you going to, like, do you want to open something up?

Would it be virtual? Like, what are you going to do? Soft chaos is about living life and embodying all aspects of yourself. I feel like we all go through chaos and chaotic moments in our life. And even though we're going through a lot of chaos, it's still so important to be soft and kind and gentle to yourself. and just like move through life with like just gentleness and ease. And so I want to be able to provide a, I think like a virtual type of thing where virtual and in person, I want to do yoga.

And I also just really want to help people do one-on-one coaching sessions. And like be there for people that need support. Maybe they don't have family or maybe they don't have family or maybe they don't have somebody to like call or whatever, but I just want to be like that safe place and build a community for women to just kind of like thrive without surviving. Yeah. Or like, you know, without surviving in survival mode because I think it's so important. So how much school do you have left? This October will be finished. Oh, congratulations. Yeah. But I think I'll be able to start teaching yoga in April. Okay, cool. So then would you go to other studios? Is that how that works?

I'm actually planning on doing some virtual yoga flows. And then I'm also going to do just some pop-up yogas. Nice. I love that. That's exciting. I love that. So do you feel like now that's more of like a better balance for you doing that and the escorting? Yeah, because right now I'm trying to. So right now I'm like low volume and I've increased my rates and I'm kind of just trying to maintain the clients that I have currently. I am taking new clients, but again, it needs to come with something good. Something good. I need it to be good. Please offer me something good. I would love a vacation. You know, but I'm trying to give this new business more time to flourish instead of putting all my attention on that. Yeah. Do you ever see yourself completely stopping sex work? That's an interesting question because one day probably yes. Okay.

And do you think that it would be hard for you to make that decision financially? Maybe. But I think also I might be done sometime soon. Okay. When I retire, I don't plan on making a retirement post or announcement. I'm just going to disappear. And I hope that everybody that wants to see me in person decides to book me before that time comes. Yeah.

Yeah. Because we don't know when it's going to be. We don't know when it's going to be. How old are you? I'm 25, but I have a really good feeling that... Do you want to be done? And I don't ask that. I want to say this too.

Like, I don't ask that. I think a lot of people, when they ask that question, it's like, there is a lot of people. like a hidden meeting. You know what I mean? Like, do you want to stop? And like, because I think there are some people that are built for this life. They can handle it. They're good at it. There's some people that do it and they hate it. They do force themselves and, you know, it is toxic for them. So when I ask that, I guess like there's people that love work, no matter what that work looks like and they want to do it until the day they die. And then there's people that like, yeah, I want to stop. You know, and I want to just live a life that

has nothing to do with other people or the outside world or social media, because even social media is a huge part of what you do, you know? So, yeah, I guess when I say, like, do you want to stop, I mean just in general, like the public presence, all of it. As of this current moment, I do not wish to stop. However, this won't be a forever thing. And that's in my plan. Okay. I have an exit plan. And I genuinely love doing it. what I do so much. Getting into it on accident was, it's so funny to me. That story is just hilarious because, like, I was so naive. I didn't know what I was signing myself up for, and I wouldn't have taken any of that back. I don't take back anything I've done. And I feel like now,

after doing that podcast with Candace Owens and seeing how viral that went and seeing how many people started to recognize me in public, and seeing, the change of behavior in my friends and how they were interacting with me from after that was all quite really interesting. It like really made me think about so much more all over again. Because it was like, after that aired, a lot of people were like, oh, I know her.

Oh, I know her, I'm friends with her. I know her. And I'm like, stop. You've known me in the past. You don't know me today. Yeah. You haven't even supported me today, but you're so quick to show people, hey, this is it? No.

Right. Right. And I think that I don't know how to express this. Like, that entitlement that people have with me is a turn off, even from like my online fan base. Because I do this for me. I'm doing this for me. And I'm on my time. This is my life.

You're just living in it. And so the more people pressure me to be. available for them, the more I go back inward. Yeah. Because they're expecting and they're, you know what I mean? They're expecting me to be posting here. They're expecting me to be showing up here. I don't run like that.

I'm human too. And if anything were to make me be like, I'm quitting today, would probably be like that aspect. I don't know how else to explain it. makes sense. Do you want a family one day? Do you think? I'd want some kids. But maybe not a man. I don't know. It's weird. I like know that I want to be a mom. Yeah. I also feel like you know too much about how people are in general. Yeah. And it's like I am jaded. You know what I mean? And it's like I've seen a lot of scary things happen to different people in their marriages and stuff like that. And so I'm kind of just like

waiting for the right person to come and when the right person will come, I'll kind of like cross that bridge when I get there. Perhaps being in this industry and not having a pimp, yeah, still makes me an outcast in my community. Really? Yes. And why is that? Because I think the correct term is I'm a renegade. I don't know. I don't know these terms. I've never had a pimp, so I'm not sure. So it's more common. for women in the sex industry to have a PIM. Yes. Okay.

And because I don't, I just don't fit in. Yeah. Like, because I don't, they can't really fuck with me. And I don't really want to fuck with them either. Why do you think people choose to have a Pimp? My thing is, is that a lot of these women need, they have no, like, they need a sense, they need sense of direction. Okay.

They need somebody to literally hold their hand and say, this is what you're doing. Be here. Do this. Give me this. For them, they operate better. that way. And you just don't need it. For me, I know how to manage my own financials and I don't need somebody telling me to get up out of bed to go do something that I know I need to do. Yeah. And as a woman, I feel like you are a woman and your client base is a man. Why are you

taking advice from a man? Yeah. I'm against that. I'm against that. Are there any women pimps? Yes. There are. Okay. And so that's something, why I want to kind of make my business for women that, like, genuinely need help and guidance. Because you can come to me and ask me all these questions, and I'm just going to charge you, like, $170 an hour, and we can, like, run it all. You know what I mean? A lot of these people are like, yeah, I'm going to help you, but you're going to need to give me all your money. Yeah, I'm going to help you, or you're going to need to give me X, Y, Z. With me, I'm like, pay me one time.

And sometimes pimps want, like, to have sex too, right? Okay. Yeah. And that's why I'm like, I just want these women to have somebody to go to if they need help from somebody that's not going to take. I want to be able to help you be successful and independent on your own. Yeah. You know what I mean? And if I was able, if I'm able to do this for myself and made it this far doing all the legal, like doing everything by the book legally and everything, I feel like I could help them.

And I don't want them to be able to walk alone in it, knowing that there's somebody out there that's willing to, like, hold their hand through it. Yeah, especially somebody more trustworthy. Right. Because I don't want to just take, take from you. I want to be able to make sure that you're learning and you're applying it because I'm not going to be here forever. It's crazy.

I had a girl on that was, I think she was pimped by her boyfriend. I haven't posted that one yet. That was pretty crazy, too. Yeah, I have a lot of friends that are, their dudes are their pimps. And I'm like, if that makes you happy, go for it. Again, it's not my life. It's not my story. And they're probably pimping out other women too, right?

A real pimp would. Okay. A real pimp would. No, a real pimp would. Yeah. Because if he's a pimp but he only just got you, that ain't a real pimp. Yeah. That's an interesting dynamic of a relationship.

Right. And this is all my personal opinion, by the way. Yeah. Right. Damn. That's wild. Yeah. Yeah. And also another thing I wanted to mention is like the stigma between in my community, between each other.

Yeah. Absolutely disgusting. You have only fan girls complaining about prostitutes and escorts. That's so disgusting. Babe, you're basically prostituting yourself online. Then you have escorts. And you see, since I'm like an escort, an only fan's girl and a dancer, I'm all three. Yeah. And I've done a little bit of porn with a few porn stars, like on the hood, you know? So it's just like, for me, I'm very versatile. I wear many hats in this game. And to see strippers fighting with prostitutes and prostitutes fighting about only fans' girls, the prostitutes will be like, Only fans girls are posting their pussy online and yada, yada, yada.

and only fans and girls are, and she's selling it, da-da-da-da. And then the stripper girls are like, well, I don't have sex in the club, but she's selling pussy in the club. So that brings down my value in the club. I think it's so funny because it's like, we're all here doing the same thing. And if anything, we should be building each other up in this community because we are all outcasts in the society. Right.

And instead of coming together and being united as a whole, you're picking each other apart. And I think that that's so disgusting. because it's like just, just be. And for me, I feel like the women that point fingers and are like, for example, this is a good one, when girls are like, I'm at the strip club and I saw this girl and she's having sex in the strip club and now she's ruining my chances of making money. Yes, and what I'm hearing is an excuse from you because, sure, she's selling her pussy for however much of the strip club. But think to yourself,

would you want that client to see you? Yes or no? If no, then it's like, baby, you didn't lose out on nothing. What's meant for you will always find you. I'm an escort. I don't fuck in the club. When I go to the club, I dance at the club. Right, you're keeping it all separate.

Right. So it's like, I'm never going to be like, oh, because she's fucking in the club, I'm not making money. Wrong. I think that's an excuse. There's always a way to make money. And you don't want those clients that are fucking in the club anyways. Yeah.

But that's not going to mess up your bag. What's going to mess up your bag is that mentality that you have of, oh, she's ruining it for everyone. She's ruining it from everyone. That's non-existent. And I'll just always think it's funny that sex work is so shamed upon when the normal people that just work, normal jobs, are still so involved in that life. Right. Because like you said,

it wouldn't exist if they weren't. And it's like, as sex workers, if we walk into a room anywhere, all the civilians are going to be fans. They're always like so curious about our lifestyle and this and that and that. There's so many questions. Like, they're like, oh my God, you're a sex worker.

And I'm just like, okay, I admire that. I admire your curiosity, but also what are you doing to support my kind and my people? You know what I mean? because it's like it's the culture. It's like, you know? Yeah, it's wild.

And I feel like, I mean, obviously, I don't think it will ever not be a taboo subject. I think it's always something, because for some reason, sex and selling sex and everything in between, it makes people uncomfortable. Right. Even though everybody does it every day. But it makes people uncomfortable.

And I think especially making money off of it, people are very, very quick to judge it. And I think it just goes back to what we said of, you do you, I do me. Right. You know, and there should be no anger or hate or bitterness towards it. You can have difference of views and values and opinions and morals and whatever else you want to say. But that doesn't give you the right to frown upon anyone. And I feel like right now with everything going on in the world, I feel like it's so important to really realize that because it's like you can have your opinion and it can be different from mine. But the way you voice it and the tone that you use carries your message.

And also I think the fact that you are still a human with feelings. And I think a lot of people forget that. When it comes to this industry, people look down upon you guys. They'll think you're dumb. They'll think that you don't have any value. You don't like provide anything. You don't have a brain, whatever else. But I like that you also talked about your own values, things that you want to do, you know, the fact that you do have goals.

Because I think a lot of people wouldn't think that. And there's, like with anything, there's people that wouldn't, you know. But I think it goes to show that you are still somebody that you have plans, you have strategies, you have ways of doing things and saving your money and other things that you want to, you know, blossom into. Right. Because not all sex workers are statistics. There's a lot of girls in this industry that have really good head on their shoulders.