We're Out of Time - Embracing Challenges Listening To Your Gut And Building The Life You Want With Houda Chami

Episode Date: August 12, 2025

🎙️ In this episode of the We're Out Of Time podcast, Richard Taite sits down with Houda Chami to discuss her inspiring journey from Morocco to the United States and the launch of her empowering venture, Girl Power Network. Houda shares the challenges and triumphs of building a business in a new country while staying true to her values and mission.She also opens up about the importance of intentionally crafting a vision for who you want to be and committing to the hard work it takes to bring that vision to life. Her story is a powerful reminder that self-belief, persistence, and purpose can turn bold dreams into reality.👉 Follow the podcast for more raw, honest, and inspiring conversations every week.🔗 All things Richard Taite, We're Out of Time, and Carrara Treatment Wellness & Spa: ⁠https://linktr.ee/richardtaite⁠For more on Houda Chami https://www.instagram.com/houdachamiofficial

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If someone has a problem with substance use disorder, please call one call placement. That's 8888-8-8-3-1-1581. And if we can't help you, we'll make a referral to someone who can. Please, we're out of time. Huda, thanks for coming by today. I really appreciate it. It's an honor. Thank you for having me. Yes, ma'am. My pleasure. before we even start, I'm a little bit in shock because I've never had anybody here early. Ever. I mean, I've had, like, the ambassador to the EU was early and the Canadians were early.

The rappers are never early. The influencers are never early. They're always late. And you were 10 minutes early. Of course. So you're a business person. None of this other nonsense. right? I think so.

No, no, that's your, understand that I don't know anything about you. Oh, really? Sure, never. Because I don't do that before we start. Okay. Okay, because I want everybody to have the color of the whole thing. Well, guess what? Yes.

I don't know anything about you either. I'm not upset about it on my life. So we get to know about each other today. I'm excited. Me too. It's lovely. So thank you for being on time. Now that I know you're a business.

business person, and I feel a lot more comfortable here speaking to somebody real and believable. Huda, tell me about yourself. Tell everyone about yourself. Well, my name is Huda, Chami. I am Moroccan American. I came here 12 years ago to chase the American dream and chase freedom and the American Dream and to create a life for myself as a woman, step out of my comfort zone and actually create something meaningful. I am the founder and CEO of GPN that stands for a girl's power network. We are a membership, club, society, sisterhood community in Seattle, California. And yeah, it's been a journey. Started my company two and a half years ago and it's taken off to a speed that I didn't imagine and with the power, of course, of social media.

I'm also like an event producer and I also recently launched my own GPN creative marketing agency, which is going pretty well. So a lot of things are happening for me. And, yeah, I'm an entrepreneur, basically. Well, you know what? You did that. That's a lot to unpack. But what got to me most and nothing gets to me. Like, people talk to me.

I'm like, okay. Right. But what got to me was you came here from Morocco for freedom. Okay? Yes. What's going on in Morocco? I'm like the ugly American, and I don't understand what you just said. but it felt

it felt significant and something we need to talk about. Yeah. So I grew up in Morocco. I was born there. I was born in Casa Blanca. It come from a really nice, humble, like, successful family.

You know, I was never missing anything. When I say to chase freedom, it's, you know, when you're leaving a third world country, like, I didn't feel like I did own my life 100%. Like your life is influential. by the people around you, your family, they want you to leave

and a certain way to be a certain person. Like an Islamic thing, like a... No, not an Islamic thing, but like they want you to be... They set up your life for you, basically, you know? And I am somebody that I see outside the box You know, I've never fit.

You just wanted more. You just wanted more for myself and out of life. And if I stayed back in my country, I already know, I already knew what my life would look like. Five, ten years, I would have married somebody. You know, there is not room to grow there. Like, as in America, especially in business, I wanted the world. I wanted more out of life. I wanted to create something from nothing.

And over there, America is the only country where you can start from nothing and make it. You know, in my country, it's very hard. It's not like here. Opportunities, you know, are not like here, obviously. So. Well, right now, correct me if I'm wrong. Listen, I'm sure you made the right choice. Obviously, you don't look like you're upset about it.

Okay. But now we can work from anywhere in the world. So the opportunities are on your phone or your laptop, right? I mean, even people in L.A. Don't work in office buildings anymore. I don't even know in office. You're sitting in it. Okay?

And I got 250 employees and you're sitting in the office. Okay? Nobody does that anymore. Anybody, everybody works remote. If you were there today, or if people are there today with this, can they have upward mobility or no? Yes.

So I look at it this way. I don't think we are destined as human beings to live in one place for the rest of our lives. You can, yes, you can work remotely, but you should be more open to traveling around the world. Why? Because it gives you opportunity to meet people with different cultures, religions, you know,

to be more open to that and to build your network, you know. Do you know what's funny today, the kids today talk about networks, right? And like, as an employer, right, someone who's an older, man, I know you don't know anything about me. I'm the chairman of a health care corporation, okay? It just seems like, you know, people work with people they like, right? And so I never looked at it as a network. And I sometimes think when you say something like that, you lose authenticity, not you,

anybody. So for me, I prefer, yeah, I just want to go out and meet interesting people. Right? I'm like, right, a professional friend, right? That's really what it is because people work with people. They're like, does that make sense? I guess. But, you know, it's all about your.

perception, how you define network. Right. And how you receive it. It's all how you receive it. That's not how you meant it. You meant it. That's how kids talk today, right? Believe me, it's a different language. Okay. But I just wanted to give you that feedback for when you're talking to people because you present so well. You're very impressive. I mean, you showed up early. I mean, come on, man. It's a compliment. Yes, ma'am. Nothing pisses me off, actually. I always take it as a lesson or blessing.

I don't get pissed that easily. I really don't. You know what's the most impressive thing about you? Yeah. The most impressive thing about you is there's nothing more romantic to me ever than starting something from nothing. Nothing. So you don't know anything about me. So I started from nothing.

I was homeless. Okay? And I practiced law for 13 years without a lot. license. Okay. I made a lot of money and I had a huge cocaine habit, so I'd take care of that, right? And then I started a rehab without ever going to rehab and turned it into a nine-figure sale with no debt and no partners. Okay? Then I stay for five years in a non-compete situation. and the day my non-compete ended, I called my old company and I spoke to 10 of the best people in the industry and I said, I'm sorry for the late notice, guys, but everybody comes home today.

And so all of them gave notice within one hour, 16 followed, I'm sorry, 14 followed a couple weeks later and then my next six and one. And so I've got 31 of the best practitioners in the world that left a 21-year, fully mature, world-renowned treatment facility and came to do this with us. It's impressive. Right? So, but here's the cool part. That's the most romantic thing in the world, right? Building something from nothing.

And I did it once, right? But then I got bored. Now, when you come back, you're supposed to do with other people's money because you never want to donkey off the fortune that you just made because you know. know what happens when the guy with the fortune donkeys it off, don't you? Right? Swinging from a shower rod. Okay, that's what that guy does. Okay? Mine give a shit. So I'm into this thing. I threw like 20 million bucks into it. We're just now breaking even. How am I do you take? I started in June of 23. So now it's been 24, 25, 26 months.

Okay. Right? No guts, no glory. You take the risk. Because why? Uh-huh. Why? Because there's nothing more romantic than this.

Is there? Is there? No. You have that in you. You're going to be rich, lady. You're going to have everything. There's nothing you're not going to have. And I'm never wrong.

Not about shit like that. All right. You immigrated to the United States chasing opportunity. What was the moment you realized your pain or struggle had to become your purpose? You know, when I came here 12 years ago, I was in a very abusive relationship. And it made... Abusive relationship? Correct. I went through depression and I was suicidal. So I saw death. I was like beating myself. I hated myself how I looked like. I was not social.

It was really, really bad. And one day I looked at in the mirror and I faked my smile. And they say fake it till you make it. I was walking every day. Just I didn't want to smile, but I was faking it, faking it, faking it, faking it to become a habit. And then until it changed my life. And then I realized that it was. the moment that I realized that I have to turn my pain into power.

You know, it's funny, growth never happens from anything other than pain. It doesn't. Of course. Change doesn't occur ever until you're in enough pain that you've had enough. Of course, pain is what makes you going, is what makes you fight for a better future to be the best version of yourself. You have to embrace pain. What do your parents do? My dad owns a law firm. Where? Morocco. Nice. My brother also is a lawyer. And I'm the rebel, basically. Hold on. I don't believe in school. I actually dropped out of school. And I came here. I had one year left to graduate and I was like sitting down in the classroom and then everything went blurry and I was like this I'm out if I stay here I would have such a miserable life I went to business

school I don't believe you learn anything when it comes to business in school business comes from experience working for somebody and mastering your art to the system whatever you want to create and I don't believe in school I think school creates followers it doesn't doesn't create leaders. Say it again. School doesn't create leaders. It creates followers, basically. One time.

Employees. One more time for me. One more time. School creates followers. It doesn't create leaders. It creates employees, basically. Yes. True words were never spoken.

In a world obsessed with individual success, You built a network rooted in sisterhood. What made you choose community over competition? Well, let's rewind up. Why I created it? I created it because I wanted to create my own family and the family that I've never had. I wanted to create something genuine. And I wanted to create a safe space, safe environment for people not to compete, but to collaborate.

In order to get to the top, you need to collaborate. There is no competition. The only competition is with yourself, is to bother yourself. You will never succeed if you copy. You compete with yourself. You create for yourself and for others bringing them value. So that's how you stay authentic, you know? You're a thousand percent correct, and your emotional intelligence is

is far ahead of your age, for sure. I mean, you're very impressive. But I want to talk about that yet. Blind me, though, I do want to talk about exactly what your business is. I don't want to leave it airy-fairy. I want to know exactly what you do. I mean, it's very simple. I lead and I run a membership community.

For women and... What do they get out of it? Events, sisterhood. Which events? Give me an example of an event. We do, we host events monthly for the community. Yes, everything that I do, I don't just come on hosting events. I host an event, everything that I do, I do with intention and purpose that is going to empower

people through, you know... So tell me about the last... I mean, I've done like so many can be like a wellness event. We bring healers, like practitioners and we said it like it has to be an intention. I wanted to leave like my events like like with like an impact, you know? Of course. So that was the last one, the wellness. I mean, I've done last month.

I mean, I've done so much. I, we did wellness, like networking. It's like every time it's different. We did like... If I throw on a dress and a wig, can I come? Some events are actually from both men and women. And the last event I did was in collaboration with Poise Wellness. This, my friend owns this big wellness community.

And we partnered together. And we had at least, I think, like 500 or 600 people. I'll collab with you, wearing one. Really? Yeah. That would be amazing. Yeah, why not? I mean, I'll check the venue.

Let's see if the venue's nice. The venue. Oh, where would the event? You need a venue. Yeah. You like this venue? Yeah. We can do, can we do a ceremony ritual here?

Yeah. We can do whatever you want to do. You can do whatever you want to do. I don't care. I'm cool with it. Well, I'll find you. I'll find you. Thank you.

Yeah. Good. All right. Behind the curated posts and polished events, what personal struggles do you still face as a woman? leading other women. I mean, it's, you know, being a leader, it's a challenge because everyone look up to you. Everyone comes to you if there is a problem.

I'm like, I am the founder of this community, but I have also like my own personal life. And, you know, anytime that there is a problem, they have to come and like they come to me because I am the face of the company. And I don't want to deal with that, you know, but I do. And you have to understand that people like women are very emotional. So you need to be more, I'm going to say that, gentle with your words, you know, be more understanding of their feelings and how they approach things. So, yeah.

What do you say to women who feel? like they have no support system who don't feel powerful yet? To go find that support system. How would you do that? Find community. Very important. What do you think about? Community can be anything.

It can be one of your best friends. It can be your family. It can be your girlfriend. I don't know. It can be any therapist. Find someone to talk to. find someone that you trust enough that you would be vulnerable. You know, being vulnerable is a good thing because you're just like go.

Sometimes you need to let go and, you know, be able to be transparent, fully transparent. Transparency is good because you clear everything out, you know? So, yeah, I think women should be reminded of their beauty, should be reminded that they are capable of achieving things. You also need somebody in your life to remind you how capable you are to motivate you. It can be, as I said, community, friend, whatever, a coach. Sometimes it's very good to have a mentor or a coach in your life. You know what's coming up for me right now?

Yeah. You know, because I'm thinking to myself, wait a minute, what's you talking about? Like, more women go to college today than anybody. there's a ton of women CEOs. We just had a woman vice president. We had multiple women secretaries of state. A ton of governors throughout the country are women. And I'm thinking, what's she talking about?

And yes, there's always going to be a residual effect because of the history that women, some women, are going to be, looked at by small minds as being less capable than men. But there's ignorant people everywhere. I think what's happening, correct me if I'm wrong, but based on your upbringing, this means so much to you that you're taking a lot of what was there, right?

And superimposing it or projecting it onto here. saying that it's not there. What I'm saying is it runs deeper for you. It means more because of your background. Is that true? Yes, it is true. Okay, there is. Good job. Okay, well, you know what? Then your experience is going to end up helping a lot of women because like I said, there's a significant portion of the country that thinks they're better than women. And I think the exact opposite actually. I think women are so much better than men. It's not even, it's not even, it's not even debatable.

Like, I, what do I have, Dylan, 90% women working at Carrera? Yeah. I mean, women are the best to work with. They're soft, right? They're, they're more competent. They're self-starters. they're more loyal. I mean, I can go on and on.

They're also more understanding. For sure. You know, and they can actually understand people. They're very emotional, so they understand people's feelings and like how to approach things and how to communicate, you know? So, yeah. If you could give your younger self one tool, not advice, but an actual emotional or mental tool,

To survive what you went through, what would it be? Everything is temporary. Keep going. Wait. I don't know. No, no, no, no. That was beautiful. Do you know what I call that?

Living with unresolved problems. That's a muscle that you built. Okay. If you can live with an unresolved problem, and your heart rate is just like that. And you say, okay, I don't know what this is, but we'll figure this out. Okay, this is, I don't know the answer to this, but I know where I can get it. Okay, whatever.

Okay, that's where you need to be. That's exactly what you just said. It's beautiful. Absolutely beautiful. You know anything else on that? If there is a problem, there is a solution. Not maybe at that specific time, but let the time find the solution for you. It's going to come.

It's going to appear. The solution will appear. So don't be mad. Don't stress. Don't panic. You know, everything will be fine. Everything will be okay. Just keep coming, you know?

So, you know, there are so many things when I was growing up, I was like, oh, my God, why I have this problem now? Oh, my God. No, no, no, no. And then, you know, if I just understood that, everything is temporary. Just let it go and just keep going with life. And you realize that, you know, they are more important things in life than just one problem. And the second year done with that problem, another one, comes up and it's... But that's the beauty of life, which has, you know, life wouldn't be

what life is if we didn't have any problems. Life is about resolving problems. It's about finding solutions to thrive, to, you know, bother ourselves, be the best version of ourselves and build things. So... Do you know what? What I was just thinking when you said that is, no one will come to save me. Only I can save. me. Of course, yes. Yeah. And so when I was thinking of you, I was thinking that you knew that, right? But do you feel it viscerally? Like, do you really believe these people can work with me and they're smart and they can do what they do? But no one's going to save us but me. Like, it's here. Like if I don't get it done, okay, we're finished.

It's all on me. Do you ever feel that way? Yes. Do you know what my dad wants told me? Tell me. No one is going to come save you. The only save your life is your pocket. It's the only thing that can save you.

And, you know, some people think it might be crazy, but, you know, we are here in this life. You create your own life. You have this opportunity to create your own life. This is your own fight. You'll fight for it. No one is going to fight your own, your fight. No one sees, no one is going to see the same vision as, that you have between your eyes.

You have to fight for your own vision. You have to fight for your own life, you know? You should be living in Silicon Valley. You shouldn't be here. There's no reason why you should be here. You have to move. You have to move to Silicon Valley. There's no reason for you to be here because you're so elegant and you're so,

you have a singleness of purpose. You have a singleness of focus. Okay, I'm not going to say you're not going to kill it on your own. You are, but you need to be up there with the energy. Let me tell you what else is going to happen to you. Okay, you're going to be a fantastic man.

Okay, who's going to be everything, and then you're going to, together with him, rule the world. You got to go up there. That's what, excuse me, I'm God's favorite. Okay? I'm a legit.

moron. Okay. Here, you want to help you? Here, this is what, this is it. God's sitting here. He's Moses and there's Jesus. And God says, hey, guys, see that guy, Richard Tate down there? I'm going to make him somebody.

And then both these guys take money out of their pocket, both Jesus and Moses, and they go, I'll take that action. No way, not him. pick the homeless guy over there. You'll probably be right, but not this idiot. Okay? I'm telling you, this man, this, I am his favorite. I get these things all the time.

Yes, I'm only half nuts. But I get this thing all the time. I'm telling you where you need to be. That is why you are here today. You need to go to Silicon Valley. That's where you need to live. that's where you need to build your life. That's where you're going to meet the people

to help you to achieve all of your dreams. This better make that. Because when she's a billionaire and I call her and I say, hey, I need some money for this charity and she tells me to go fuck off, I'm going to play this to everybody. No, honey, no.

I've been told to f*** off by richer people. No, write me a chat. I mean, money is just a tool. I'm not after the money. I want the money to create things. I don't want to be in consumer of life. I want to be, to create things for the world. Like to, if I find joy in creating things and building from nothing, this is what I love the most. And see it come into life. But not things. You're not like into things. Listen, it's nice to have nice things. It's a reward. or the work you've done. It shouldn't be a focus. Like, it's nice to have nice things, but with the limit.

You know? Things are just things. Do you fly private? Sometimes. Do you want to fly private all the time? Yeah. Excellent. I was just testing you.

But not just me. What do you mean? I want to take everyone. Yes. I know. This is what a joy. Joy is not me. It's being able to have the resources for to fly the people that I love. Baby, we're the same person. The only thing that's different between us is I'm older and I'm a different sex. Other than that, we're the same soul. Okay. You haven't, it took you a while. You didn't pick that up.

I mean, this is exactly, this is perfect. You're, this is perfect. you're perfect. This is where you need to be. You need to be in Silicon Valley to meet a man like me 20 years younger and a lot smarter. Not kidding, babe, that's who you are. That's where you need to be. Your whole world's going to change. What's the craziest or most powerful moment that's happened since starting Girls Power Network,

something that shook you, changed you, or made you cry? seeing it coming to life, but the reason I've never said why, how I created this, I lived spiritual enlightenment. I'm sorry, one more time. I lived spiritual enlightenment. You live it or you need it? I lived it. And I lived it, it was like, went going through phases in life.

It took me like one year just leaving this enlightenment and there were nights that I didn't sleep and I felt energy around me. And then I started to become very creative. Sometimes I'm like, how did I do this? This is just not me. There must be another frequency. There must be another energy with me or that showed me the way. It's impossible because I wasn't this smart before.

Like, I wasn't the person that I was, that I am now. And anyway, I went through these phases and then one day, but I was like sitting down and I started talking to, we call it God, I don't know, to the, you know. Right. I am ready to receive. I'm ready to, wherever you have in store for me, I'm ready to receive. Call me crazy. When I was also younger back in my country, I was very, what I'm going to say, I didn't have that much friends. And I was very reserved as a kid.

And I was always talking to energy or talking. I was like, and I knew deep inside me that I was destined for something bigger in this life. I didn't know what it was at that time. I was, but I felt it was like, this is not me. I'm destined. I should not be here. I'm destined for something else. What is it? I don't know. When I came here, I started feeling it. I started feeling, oh my God, I am on the path. I don't know what I'm going to do, but I am on this path. And then I leave this, I did that Tony Robbins seminar. It did change my life. You know, it was like rebirth, like enlarge the power within. And then I lived spiritual enlightenment. And then I, as I said, I felt energy around me. But now when I created this, I was sitting on my back.

and I had this idea. I started with the WhatsApp group chat. And I had this idea. I was like, okay, it's time. I'm going to create a community now. And then from that moment, I know that I'm not alone. People think, I am not alone. I have energy around me.

I cannot see it, but I feel it. And it talks to me. It talks to me. It tells me, I know exactly what, remember this, I know exactly where I'm going to go in life. it's just a matter of time and it's just about taking the steps it's about trusting the process

and enjoying the journey and it just tells me just be patient, be patient, be patient, you're right where you're supposed to be. So. Just so you know, that is my exact experience. Really?

Exact. Exactly. I don't know. Sometimes I think maybe I'm crazy. I thought so too forever. I thought so too, forever. But you got a lifeline just like I got. When I was smoking crack, I would beg God, I would say, God, I'm sorry, I know I'm disappointing you. I know I'm a disappointment.

But I love you and I swear we'll start again. We'll try again. But during this run, keep me safe. Okay? And I promise you will try again. I always have to be. I always have to that connection that you had. No one taught it to me. My parents didn't teach it to me. No one did. I always had it. And you feel the pull. And when you feel the pull, you go that way. And you have the faith to know. You probably like me, you probably check in multiple times. And you're like, are we okay here? Yeah. Are we good here? Yeah. Right. And then I get a warm blanket a feeling over me. If I get the warm blanket,

I know I'm good. And if I don't, I keep searching. You're going to have everything, all of it. And you can't explain this to people. You can't. Because they'll look at you like you're insane.

You talk this kind of shit to other business people. If you're asking for money, they're like, cuckoo. They don't know anything, okay? But your heart is good. Thank you. And you have it.

You feel it, right? I do. I do. Then fuck everybody else because that's all that matters. Trust me, I've gone through so much bullshit. Okay? I've lived a life where I've been shot at numerous times and just horrible, horrible. And then I've had the best of everything.

Oh, and by the way, you are, you're going to have it all, all of it. Because you're heart-centered and you're God-centered. And you're right. Money is just a tool to make the world a better place for you, your friends, and everyone you can. Right? You are so impressive. How do people get exposed to the Girl Power Network? I mean, you can find us on social media.

Our handle is GursPowerNet. The website is www.gurspowernetwork.com. And the Instagram also for the agency, we do everything, production, events, strategy, PR. I mean, we do it all. So it's GPN agency. That's the social media on Instagram. So, yeah, just hit us up on WhatsApp business or DMS. So yeah.

Awesome. All right. Well, I want to thank you guys for watching and thank you for having me. I just want to leave this podcast on this note. Just believe in yourself. Never stop believing. Never give up. Stay consistent. You can do it.

Anything is possible in life. Just be at the right place with the right people. And you can make it happen. And see you next Tuesday.