We're Out of Time - Nate Wyatt's Secret to Success in Music and Film

Episode Date: July 15, 2025

🎙️ In this inspiring episode of We’re Out of Time, host Richard Taite sits down with actor and musician Nate Wyatt to talk about his journey from being raised by a single mother to carving out ...a career in the entertainment industry, without compromising his values. Nate shares how he navigated the worlds of acting and music, avoided the common pitfalls of substance abuse in Hollywood, and stayed focused on long-term success rather than short-term temptation. He opens up about his childhood, the return of his father during his teenage years, and how those formative experiences are shaping the kind of father he hopes to become. The conversation also touches on: His latest film, now streaming on Tubi His deep passion for acting and the tools he's used to grow as an artist The discipline it takes to stay grounded in a high-pressure industry Whether you're a fan, a fellow creative, or someone on a personal growth journey, Nate’s story is one of resilience, integrity, and purpose. 👉 Subscribe for more raw, honest, and inspiring conversations every week. 🔗 All things Richard Taite, We're Out of Time, and Carrara Treatment Wellness & Spa: ⁠https://linktr.ee/richardtaite⁠ For more on Nate Wyatt:https://www.instagram.com/itsnatewyatt

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Actor, musician, and social media personality, Nate Wyatt joins the We're Out of Time podcast. I said a movie that just came out. That's actually number one on Tobe. Acting and music is what I originally came out here for. And then I kind of just got a social media following halfway through. So you got 5 million people on TikTok, right? Yeah. I came out here to be like a successful actor and musician. And the moment you started going into that lane, that all goes out the window.
Starting point is 00:00:24 Does that 5 to 10 mil sound great? Of course. I was raised by my mom. and I feel like she did an amazing job playing both roles and putting me in the best situation possible that she could. You know, I didn't have a dad in my life. She was really good at putting good coaches and people around me to kind of fill in that father void that wasn't there. I just know I'm going to be a good dad at whatever time period that is
Starting point is 00:00:47 because I know what I guess I didn't have growing up. I know what I want to get my kid one day. Thank you for listening to the We're Out of Time podcast with Richard Tate. If you haven't already, please follow the podcast, rate and review. And if you're getting value out of we're out of time, share it with someone else you know. Hey, Wyatt, how are you doing today? I'm doing fantastic. How are you doing?
Starting point is 00:01:04 Good. Thank you for having me on. No, bro. Thanks for coming. I appreciate it. We got in. Last time I was sick. Now we're here, though.
Starting point is 00:01:11 We're good. I'm not sick anymore. I just want to be on the podcast, like I said in there. I want to be on the podcast sniffing and sneezing and. No, dude, you're tight. You're fine. All right. So I want to ask you a couple of questions.
Starting point is 00:01:22 Let's do it. Tell me a little bit about yourself and grieve him. growing up in Cincinnati and what that was like. We're going to do a little character development first. Cool, cool, let's do it. Growing up in Cincinnati was great. So I was raised by my mom, and I feel like she did an amazing job playing both roles in putting me in the best situation possible that she could for me to be raised upright.
Starting point is 00:01:55 Obviously, a little bit of struggle. here and there, but, you know, I didn't have a dad in my life, so she was, so Cincinnati, big on sports, like played sports my whole life. She was really good at putting, um, good coaches and people around me to kind of fill in that, that father void that wasn't there. And my mom was, like, just the best mom you can ask for to where I honestly didn't feel like I, like, needed a dad growing up, honestly. But growing up in Cincinnati was amazing. It's very family-oriented over there.
Starting point is 00:02:31 I feel like Midwest values are some of the best values to be raised up on. I feel like it's hard for me to meet someone from the Midwest that doesn't have just like that very traditional good value. And yeah, if I could go back and change anything of how I was raised, I wouldn't change anything. That's beautiful. Are you still close with your mom today? Very close, extremely close.
Starting point is 00:02:57 Yeah. Have you ever met your dad? Yeah, yeah, I have. I met him a little bit later in life, like around like eighth grade. And when he came into my life, like, he was a good dad, but I almost feel like at that point, you're like, you're developed more. So it felt like it was a little too late, I guess. Well, I know you asked him the question.
Starting point is 00:03:24 Yeah. What was the question? Where were you this whole time? Yeah. Why did you leave? You know, actually, I don't even think I've gotten those full answers answered because... You have a relationship with someone until you get the elephant out of the room. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 00:03:44 You have a reason to feel like, dude. Where were you? I'm 15 right now. Yeah. Or how old are you in eighth grade? 12. Yeah, 12 or 13, something like that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:04:00 I named at 12. Yeah. I mean, at 12, I was like fully, I was, I was on it. Yeah. Okay, at 12. So you were probably the same way. Right? You're like, dude, I'm 12.
Starting point is 00:04:12 Yeah. What's going on here? Where are you? Okay. What did he say? Oh, my gosh. You have something like that. I don't, you know, it's crazy.
Starting point is 00:04:26 I feel like I block out that part of my life so much that I don't even, it's crazy. I genuinely don't remember the conversation of like, where were you? I just know why he wasn't in my life because he didn't play like a lot of, like child support and like stuff like that. Like I said, my mom was, she did it all. Like she. Even if your father was struggling and he didn't have any money or he had full. on hard times and he couldn't pay child support.
Starting point is 00:04:56 That's one thing. Okay. But he wasn't around at all. Exactly. And that actually, I got reminded. My mom said, like, he was welcome to come into your life. If he really, really wanted to, my mom's like going to sit there and stop, you know, her son from having his father in his life.
Starting point is 00:05:14 I remember that actually. I remember that. So maybe he felt shame around not being. able to contribute to the household financially. Yeah. And he didn't come around. I can understand that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:32 I mean, it doesn't make it better for you and it still sucks for you, but you're getting older now. You can put yourself in his position, right? Yeah. And say, man, that must have been horrible. Yeah. You know what, actually, I've not asked those questions because it's a very uncomfortable question to ask. And I think how I was raised, I was raised up so good and like almost like I didn't
Starting point is 00:05:57 really need that figure. I don't know if I've just like trained my brain to think that. But I almost when he did come into my life, I was almost just like happy he was now in my life. Absolutely. You know what I mean? So I didn't really dig too much on those questions. You don't need to dig into it because of the fact that you need to hear it. I think unless that elephant in the room is dressed, I don't think you're going to have the relationship that you could have with him, like, as good as it could be, I think. For sure.
Starting point is 00:06:46 And it's funny, we're on this topic now. Now I haven't talked to him since I've actually been in L.A. for eight years. Like I kind of had a semi-relationship with it. But why wouldn't he, he's your dad? Why wouldn't he reach out to you? I, he kind of stopped, I think, because I just like stopped. I didn't answer the calls. Okay.
Starting point is 00:07:05 So he felt dejected and he's going to let you live your life. Yeah. That's kind of where we're out right now. And so like, I can tell it's like he's going to be there. And when I want to have that conversation or when I want to bring him back into my life, then he's open to that call. in conversation. How old was he
Starting point is 00:07:23 when you were born, do you know? He had to be, when I was 26, so he had to be mid-30s, mid-30s. Okay. How old are you? I'm 28.
Starting point is 00:07:39 You got kids? No. Nope. You think you could handle a kid right now? Yes. I do. Okay.
Starting point is 00:07:50 Well, then that was going nowhere. No, I just know I'm going to be a good dad of whatever time period that is. Good for you. Because I know what I guess I didn't have growing up. And I know what I want to get my kid one day. All you got to give kids is your time and your attention. They don't care about money. They don't care about anything.
Starting point is 00:08:13 They just want your attention. Exactly. Don't use a phone. Don't ever have a phone in front of your kid. Oh, why is that? because they're not important. If your phone is down and you're on their level, because remember they're small, right?
Starting point is 00:08:30 Yeah. So you get on their level without your phone. And they'll go, right? And they know what they're saying, but you don't know. They just say things like, wow, right? And you're just present. And then what happens is they'll go off and play on their own. Yeah. Right?
Starting point is 00:08:46 It's called independent play, right? It happens, I don't know, maybe around 12 to 18 months in there, right? If I remember correctly. And they show their independence. And then what happens is they'll turn around and if to look for you because they get scared. Yeah. And if you're there, then they're comfortable and there's no anxiety. Right.
Starting point is 00:09:15 And then they can go on and still and now go back to their. becoming independent. Yeah. It's crazy how to deal with those in technology things nowadays. It's a beautiful thing, man. It's a beautiful thing. All right, let's get into this thing. Started out hot.
Starting point is 00:09:30 Thanks for that. Of course. All right. Have you ever faced moments of pressure, overwork, or substance temptation in this industry? And how did you handle those times? Bring me that off one more time. Have you done drugs? I thought that was.
Starting point is 00:09:47 Come on. Yeah. No, I haven't. You've never done drugs. No. You know, I'm, I'm inclined to believe him. I'm not. Because he doesn't have any facial tattoos.
Starting point is 00:10:01 None. I don't see a tattoo on this kid, not one. No. No tattoos on you? Nope. You're Jewish? No. My manager is Jewish.
Starting point is 00:10:10 You what? My manager is Jewish. Two of my managers are Jewish. That's probably for the best. I haven't, but have I been around it a lot? Let's talk about that. Like, I'm course. Is you a grigier?
Starting point is 00:10:21 Okay. You see people falling out and overdosing all the time, right? No, not overdosing, but it's actually, it's not even come from the D-Zang aspect. No, I'm about to get into it. Dude, no, stop. This is, this is, this is nuts. If you're up there spinning with all the hot women around you and you're looking at everybody dancing and jumping up and down, if you don't see anybody overdosing, then the fentanyl epidemic is bullshit. No, I definitely have seen people overdose, but when I'm DJing, you're not looking in the crowd and seeing people drop.
Starting point is 00:11:02 Where I have seen people like overdosed is when I'm at EDC. It's one of the biggest electronic music festivals in the world. And this happens at, you know, multiple house music festivals or even like hip hop and stuff. But I remember going through like the main medical tent. one day and there's just people overdosing on both sides of me. Like you're walking up this row, trying to find my friend who had to go to a medical tent and just seeing people overdose, even from each tent to tent. And that like happens at obviously a lot of festivals because, you know, the fentanyl stuff
Starting point is 00:11:39 and things that can get mixed in with drugs. But I've definitely been around it a lot, not even so much from the DJ aspect, more so from just like the party scene in L.A. throughout the years of living out here. And I mean, yeah, it's kind of all around. At the house parties especially. For sure, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:12:00 Because people feel more contained and safer. Yeah. In those environments. Yeah. You ever see anybody die? No. I had to think about it. I was like, no.
Starting point is 00:12:14 Well, that you know of. I've had a friend die. I haven't seen. him die. I didn't see him die, obviously, but I had a friend that died from, yeah, fentanyl being laced in a Xanax. Oh, how old was he? Um, yeah, my gosh, he had to be 21. His parents must be insane. Yeah. They just, boy, insane in a sense of how do you mean? Like, like, losing their minds. Oh, yeah. Like wanting to light themselves on fire, that, that insane. Yeah. Like being at their kid's funeral and wanting to jump in the casket with him.
Starting point is 00:12:54 That would have been insane. I feel like that's like the worst way for someone you love to go is like from drugs. Like something that could have been prevented maybe somehow. I don't know. I feel like that's what's bad or good way. I haven't given it any thought. But I will tell you this. That and you'll know this when you have a child.
Starting point is 00:13:22 nothing else matters. Yeah. Okay. I mean, I was, I had the best relationship with my ex in the world. The second we had a kid, nothing I said was funny anymore. Okay. And that kid, it's all, that kid was all that mattered. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:41 And I was totally fine with it because I was in love with this kid too. And so I never was jealous. or resentful ever. Wait, this was her kid or this was your kid? Our kid, that you're our kid. Right. Because when you have a kid, it's almost like your life isn't yours anymore. Everything you kind of knew is, you know, now it's a revolver on the kid.
Starting point is 00:14:07 That's right. The biggest high you've ever had, that euphoria, this is so much better. Now, it's not more euphoric. Yeah. But what it does is it changes you. So your heart feels like it's expanding and it's going to explode. That's how much you love your children. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:31 And so to have a child that you have to bury is that I can tell you right now is the worst thing that can ever happen to anyone. I'm sure. Baring their child. Yeah. Hey, I know a question I want to ask. As a day. Because you're around, you're around so many beautiful women. Yes.
Starting point is 00:14:56 Seriously. If I was around the beautiful women that you're around all the time, I would just stroke out. You just stroke out. So you're like to seize and just fall out. Just drop. Okay. I feel like you're around a lot of beautiful women. Oh, no, that's not true.
Starting point is 00:15:15 That's not true at all. So anyway, dude, I'm 58. I've got one foot in the green. It's your world, son. It ain't my world. I'm sure you've been around a lot of beautiful women. Yeah, yeah, when I had hair. Can? Wait, where are you from? Are you from L.A.? Yeah. Yeah? Okay, so you've been around it. 58 years. Okay. Oh, yeah. Could you ever see yourself living somewhere else? Oh, yeah. Really? Because I can't. I lived in New York. I lived last summer. I lived, I mean, I've been around a lot of places and I can't see myself living in anywhere other than L.A. But also, really? I'm really, because I can't. I live in New York. I lived in New York. I lived last summer. I lived, I lived, I mean, I've been around a lot of LA. But also, I haven't been out here for that long. I've been on here for eight years. Well, I plan on living everywhere. Really? Yes.
Starting point is 00:15:58 How does that work out? How's our working out? It's going to work out just fine. It's going to work out just fine. That left me on like a thinker. Are you married? Who would have me? I feel like there's a lot of women that would. Me? Yeah, you have a good energy. You have a good energy about you that I feel like a lot of, you're not boring. I really don't feel like you're a boring person at all. Nobody wants me, dude. Really? Nobody.
Starting point is 00:16:23 Do I got to pry into that? Why is that? Do I got to ask those questions? Should I flip this? Well, you can ask me. Why? Why does anybody want me? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:16:33 I don't leave the house. Okay. How am I going to find anybody? I mean, what's going to happen? Someone's going to knock on my door and say, excuse me, any of you losers, I have a phone or. Wait, why don't you leave the house at all, though? Well, because I work behind that wall. Gotcha. And here we do our podcast. Yeah. And in there, I've got what, seven, eight people working. Okay. Okay. And so this is an office. Yeah. We work. And then I go upstairs and I go to bed. I respect that. Do you ever go out to like dinners or like just kind of just like events, like friends events, whatever? Did you do that when you were younger? When I was younger? Yeah. You know, it's funny. That's an excellent point. I've never had balance. So when I was young, it was. It was, it was. You know, it was. It was. You know, it was funny. It's, it was. I was. You know, it was. It was. It was. I was. I was. It was. It was. It was. It was. I was
Starting point is 00:17:19 was all fun all the time. I didn't, there was, there was no work. Yeah. Okay. And that lasted up until about, I mean, 27. I mean, I was a fitness instructor. Yeah. I was, you know, selling products and stuff. But I didn't know how to have balance. And then what happened was it shifted. And I got sober. And What happened was I felt like I had to make up for lost time. That's how people feel when they're getting sober a lot of times. Like I got to make up for donking off all that, all those years of being a loser, right? And that was my thing. So I started working around the clock, man, and I have not stopped.
Starting point is 00:18:13 except for the after selling my last business cliffside when I sold it I had a five year non-compete so I didn't work and it was the worst five years I'd ever had that might be a simple thing to some people but what does that mean a non-compete like I actually don't know that that means so when you sell a business for a ton of money they tell you you can't operate a business like that for three, five years, sometimes one year, it's whatever you negotiate. But I wasn't allowed to help anybody anymore for five years. Yeah. So you had to jump to like honestly something like completely different. Yeah, but I don't know anything. Right. I don't do anything different. I help people for a living. I give people back their loved ones. You know, that's what I do. That's all I do.
Starting point is 00:19:10 okay i don't know how to do anything else right so um if that's your purpose in life and you're not doing it then you feel like the biggest scumbag alive yeah like you're just oh like seriously i felt like a bigger loser after selling my business than i did smoking crack cookie wow i'm like because there's nothing more steamable than giving a father or a mother back their child. Nothing, especially if you're a father. Wait, well, what do you, when you said, you felt like a loser after selling your business,
Starting point is 00:19:58 then how did that wrap into the family? That's a great question. So what I do for a living is I help people for a living get off drugs and alcohol, but then what are you to do next? What are your dreams? What are your goals? Yeah. I want to be. What do you want to do? Let's go get there. Okay. And after I sold my business,
Starting point is 00:20:22 I got a bag. Okay. But that's the bad help people anymore, which is what gives you that high, but basically. That's right. Wow. And then if you were afraid of the money like I was, because I never had any money, right? You get this big bag and you're like, what am I supposed to do? Yes. You get scared. You know, you're not allowed to work. for another five years. So what am I going to do if I, if I mismanaged this money? And I wasn't an investor. You know, I am now. Yeah. You know, I know what I'm doing now. It's been seven years since I sold my business. If I didn't learn it in seven years, then, you know, I'd be living in a one-bedroom apartment in Culver City. Yeah. What did you do after you sold your company?
Starting point is 00:21:09 Like, meaning like, in those five years, you couldn't do that. I got, I got good with my kids and my ex. And so I've got a really good relationship with my children who I see every day, you know. And my ex and I are best friends. Okay, that's not true. She's my best friend. I'm like her 17th best friends. 17 is crazy.
Starting point is 00:21:40 Yeah. Well, she can't help who you love, right? That's, that's so true. True. So true. You know, and she's got a beautiful man, right, who loves my children like they're his. And, you know, I had that work to do. I know, I neglected my self-care for 15 years. So first thing I did was I went and got my heart checked and that wasn't good. And so we fixed that. And my leg wasn't good. And I fixed that. And my leg wasn't good. And I fixed.
Starting point is 00:22:14 that and you know i i had all broken teeth you know because um you know when you smoke crack you the clamp down right yeah and so my teeth would always be broken and you know get them fixed and then they break again and so i got i got that handled yeah you know it was about you know i went and got my eyes checked and you know i go back now every year because that's part of self-care i get my blood drawn every six months. I get it twice a year. I'm very like health, health conscience.
Starting point is 00:22:50 You got to do it. You got to go to the doctor once a year for different things. So, you know, for dermatology, for your heart, internist, you know,
Starting point is 00:23:01 all this stuff. Yeah. I feel like it's a little scary bit because just with everything in the world, like they put their foods and like, just everything. But if you want to, but if you,
Starting point is 00:23:11 but the whole idea is, is self-care. turns into self-esteem, which turns into self-love, right? Yeah. And I've never seen anybody use drugs or alcohol trying to kill themselves with drugs and alcohol who truly love themselves. That doesn't exist. So you're saying people that use drugs and alcohol extensively, extensively,
Starting point is 00:23:35 they don't love themselves, is that basically? Or there's like something that's missing? It's not that they don't love themselves. They loathe themselves. They loathe certain things about them that they're self-medicating over. That's what that is. I'm curious about that because I'm extremely social person. I do like when I'm out, I do like to like drink.
Starting point is 00:24:03 But honestly going out in L.A., I would say 30% of it I've been able to network and it's gotten me to like better places. Like, I'm an actor. And I was just, I was, I was out. The end of last year, met somebody. And they were like, yo, as a director, that would probably, you know, love to meet you and have you in a movie. Met that director two weeks later. And now I'm about to shoot my third movie with that company with Tooby all just because, like, I went out and networked.
Starting point is 00:24:36 But it's like, I know a lot of people that are homebodies in L.A. I'm not a homebody. I'm trying to like wonder where like that that comes from for me like liking to go out, go out and be social meeting people. You want to see the world. That's that's a healthy thing, man. That is a healthy thing. What I do is, okay, I always tell on myself, I don't care if I've got the number three
Starting point is 00:25:00 mental health podcast in the country. I have things to work on too, right? And one of my things is a joy of living. Okay. I get my self-esteem by taking care of people. And so I've neglected myself when it comes to a joy of living. And it's not just because my grandmother said things to me like, what are you doing, going out to have a good time?
Starting point is 00:25:26 You know, like it was a bad thing. Right? You know, in the music game, everybody's glorifying drugs with the press perks and the Xanax. you know, how do you feel about that? You don't do drugs yourself. How do you feel about this whole industry? I mean, I think it's definitely clearly a really bad thing.
Starting point is 00:25:53 But I'm actually, I'm more so around like in like the house music scene. It's like it's not really like Xanax and like press pill stuff. I feel like that's more on like the hip hop scene. It's more like like the Mollies and the like ecstasy. Pink cocaine. Toosy, stuff like that that gives you more like that, that euphoric feeling, I guess, that's in like the house music scene. But it's all laced with that. That's, that's, I was, I was literally about to say that, but it's, you don't know what you're going to take that's lace with.
Starting point is 00:26:27 If you don't get your pills from a pharmacy, and I'm not talking about an online pharmacy, because that's nonsense. Yeah. Okay. You got problems with that in a big way. If you don't get your pills from a pharmacy, it's not if you're going to die. It's when you're going to die. Yeah. Because they don't, I mean, these dealers don't know which batch is lace.
Starting point is 00:26:49 They don't know where they're getting. They know it's laced. Oh, you can you all do? Sure. They know it's laced. Of course they do. They just don't know. That's fucking scary.
Starting point is 00:26:58 Like they know, because there's, I mean, I know some people that are like friends with their like dealers. They're not trying to kill them, dude. They're not trying to kill you. they want repeat customers. The problem is that people are dying because when the chemical precursors come from China to Mexico, what do you think they're doing it scientifically? You got a guy in a hazmat suit with gloves on and, you know, the whole thing.
Starting point is 00:27:24 And he's got an ore and he's doing this in a big vat. And then they poured into these pill mills, pill molds. And, you know, that's not scientific. One pill has got nothing in it or next to nothing. And the other thing is lethal. Yeah. Right. So, you know, this is, it's all bad.
Starting point is 00:27:44 I was going to say that in my head, you mentioned China. Do you believe that, like, China's like trying to infiltrate like America with the whole fentanyl stuff to try to kill as many Americans as possible? Yeah. Okay. But only because, look, dude, I was born at night, but it wasn't last night. Mm-hmm. That's, that's a thing.
Starting point is 00:28:04 Yeah. I mean, our military now is on fentanyl. And I know that for sure because I treat the military. How are they on fentanyl? Is it just like the drugs that? They don't know they're on fentanyl. They're on pills. Some of them know they're on fentanyl.
Starting point is 00:28:23 Okay. But most of them don't think they're taking fentanyl. Are you talking about like active duty military? Act. Veterans. I'll live it. And then the pharmaceuticals are saying? But the military, but the active military, they're on fentanyl.
Starting point is 00:28:41 And 75% of them don't know it. Wow. Which means they're going to die. Now, the people who know they're taking fentanyl have a tolerance for fentanyl. So a lethal dose will kill a weekend drug user, right, who's just doing it socially. but it may not kill the person who is a fentanyl specialist. You're right? So specialist.
Starting point is 00:29:12 Yeah. We're all specialists. Jeez. All right. Wow, that's something I just learned. Don't you think that these people, though, don't you think they shouldn't be glorifying this thing? Because I've had kids here who are big in the rap scene.
Starting point is 00:29:26 I mean, I've had everybody. Okay. And they're all telling me it's lame. Yeah. I think it's just like opening these people's eyes to like what it actually is or getting educated on it. Because a lot of people, I feel like they hear, oh, fent and all this, fat and all that. It can kill you. But like, until you talk to someone that really knows about it, I feel like it really drives that fear in the person.
Starting point is 00:29:56 I should stop doing this. Until people know, unless people know somebody that died. of fentanyl or someone that they loved. They don't. They don't get it. It's close to home. Yeah. The second it's close to home, they're on it.
Starting point is 00:30:12 Now they're advocates. They're proselytizing everywhere. Foundations. So good. Yeah. I mean, it's. That's unfortunate that it has to like hit so close to home. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:23 But you know what? Then they get to save other people because this is the worst thing ever. Yeah. This is this is, this is literally killing our children. Yeah. Was it always like that? Was fentanyl always a? And when did it really start to come around?
Starting point is 00:30:37 Right when I left in 2018. Right when I sold my business, this thing blew up. Because before that, it was OxyContin and the Purdue. Oh, I thought I'd be here in my own. Yeah. OxyContin. Yeah. That was the thing.
Starting point is 00:30:54 Okay. And then this thing came. Gives. The one question I wanted to ask you. which I forgot about and never got back to you was, what do you do when a beautiful girl comes to you and she wants you, but she breaks open the drugs?
Starting point is 00:31:16 Like, what do you do? I say no. Like, how do you do it? I feel like I have a pretty good, what's the word? What's the word?
Starting point is 00:31:27 Like, I don't fall in a peer pressure. If I don't want to do something, like I don't do it. And honestly, I'm never run into a situation where a girl's not going to hook up with me just because I don't want to do her drugs.
Starting point is 00:31:36 Like, I just to be honest, I'm not trying to say that in like a, no, that was beautiful. No, that way. I didn't take it that way.
Starting point is 00:31:45 There's another one right over here. Like, I don't need your drugs. And she's not going to not hook up with me just because I'm not doing her drugs. That's why I feel like it's been able to keep me, um, sane and like kind of,
Starting point is 00:31:59 yeah, sane out here. It's just if I don't want to do something, I'm just not, I'm not going to do it. All right. Here's my favorite question. I heard you beat the shit out of a bunch of YouTubers.
Starting point is 00:32:09 Tell me about that. Actually, no, I lost that fight, but I went all five rounds. Yeah, I did a boxing match. How many fights? Just one. Oh, just one? I did it for a check. Like, I'm an active musician and I'm an entertainment space.
Starting point is 00:32:25 I don't see myself being one of these influencer, like, boxers. So you box? So you box. Yeah, a YouTuber. Yeah. As the TikToker, TikTok to a YouTuber, they had a boxing match. Yeah, did that three or four years ago. I had two months to get myself ready for boxing.
Starting point is 00:32:45 Never boxed in my life. And the only person on the card that has some experience is the person I'm finding and has amateur. But listen, they're offering me half a million dollars. So I'm getting to the ring. Yeah, I did it. You're the best. But then we got in how bad.
Starting point is 00:33:01 jammed at the end. We got like, we, we got like a fraction of that, but it's after like we had to go get it. After almost a year of fighting with lawyers and stuff, the money I did get, I wouldn't have done it. But here's the thing. I had agents at the time that were literally saying, you're not going to get paid this money. But I had best friends that were also in on the card with me being like, do it, do it, do it. They're interested in the fighting stuff. I'm on a whole new path over here. But the money seems good. You have friends telling your boys, your two best friends, do it with us, do it with us. You thought you weren't into pure pressure? The 500K that I thought I was getting it. You didn't think you were getting it. The guy told
Starting point is 00:33:40 you you weren't getting it. Well, there's these other people that said. You're like, that I'm getting it. My friends were like, we're going to get this money. We're getting this money. Also, I knew the person that was putting it on. So I was like, surely. What's, what's, what's a half a million bucks amongst friends? That's, right? No, I was going to get just, I was going to get the 500 kid. That doesn't be my purse. Right. Knowing what I know now, I'm like, what the, there's, I wasn't going to get that. That's insane. Like, that's, you were never going to get it.
Starting point is 00:34:07 If you had a lawyer that went over the contract and you made it ironclad, they would have said, you know what, we're not going to use you. We're going to go in a different direction. Yeah. How much you had lawyers too? I'm so confused, like how that didn't get written in my agents that we had a good lawyer. Well, don't think. Because your agent was in control of a lawyer and your agent didn't give a shit about you.
Starting point is 00:34:28 Let me ask you, Christian. You go on only weekends? No. No, you know, it's crazy. I've been approached with that. Uh-huh. I had, I'm not going to lie because, like, my presence online was this, like, kind of, like, attractive figure.
Starting point is 00:34:42 So at the time, I could have made probably five to 10 mil if I did it, like, three years ago when I was approached a bunch. Dude, if someone said that to me, I'd go, okay, let's go. Yeah, but see it. Again, but like I came out here for to be like a successful actor and musician. And the moment you start going into that, that lane, that all goes out the window. Also, I'm working with like Coca-Cola, McDonnell, like very brand friendly brands. Right.
Starting point is 00:35:15 Like that's just selling myself out there for. Does that 5 to 10 mil sound great? Of course. But like I just feel like that's very, do that very much. You have a girlfriend? No, not right now. got out of something like a few months ago. Have you ever been with a girl on OnlyFans?
Starting point is 00:35:35 No. The answer is yes. No. Oh, have I been with a girl? Like hooked up with a girl. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Who is constantly on Only fans.
Starting point is 00:35:43 Yeah. But I wouldn't date one. Let's say you're with a girl. You're your last girl. Mm-hmm. But you get one cheat pass. One person who if you ever run into them, that you got, you get one.
Starting point is 00:35:58 One, get out of jail free card. Nobody, because I would never cheat. Excellent. But you have an agreement. That's not the answer he wants to. No, no, no. It's fine. I love it.
Starting point is 00:36:12 That's great. Okay, okay, hypothetically, I get this free card. Okay, we're just going off hypothetically. No, there's got to be one. This is going to be annoying. Once I leave here, once I leave here, this is going to be a, no, because it's a trick question. Look at the Johansson. Jessica Alba.
Starting point is 00:36:27 Jessica Alba is. I had the best crush on her. Yes, Jessica Alva. Because she's got that whole Hispanic thing going on. Yeah, there we go again. Right, there it is. All right, man. Rant starts now.
Starting point is 00:36:40 Rant? I feel like we've been ranting. No, no, no, no. This is the rant. Oh, part of the... Oh, those are the segment of this. There's this segment. That's right.
Starting point is 00:36:48 And you get to rant on anything that pisses you off. So, let me give an example. I once did a rant on those guys who ride the bikes. then ride the bikes? Yeah, you know, the bike riders with the shorts and the shoes and they just always like get in front of you. Oh my gosh. They run clubs.
Starting point is 00:37:09 The run clubs. The run clubs. Like I'm all four, you know, everyone running, you know, anti-aging. It's great. But like now it's like gone from like a group of 15 people to like a group of kid you not like a thousand people right running across the street. I'm sitting at the red light like it takes like a. solid five to ten minutes for all these people.
Starting point is 00:37:29 Those guys to go by. Yeah. Right. And it's just getting bigger and bigger, no. It is. It's like, it's not slowing down. It's like, they're like marathon prep. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:40 No, no, no. It's like a bunch of celebrities are like starting running groups and that's why it's just also getting shut up. Huge. Yeah. No. Like, for instance, like Diplo does one. Diplo, big DJ and it's now gotten huge.
Starting point is 00:37:54 Got a run club. I'm not saying that's not the one I ran into, but like they're all over. Miami, New York, like just, you see them all over now. I was at a thing where it was a marathon. My buddy trained really hard for a marathon. And he goes, you've got to come, dude. Yeah, I worked so hard for this. It's 26 miles.
Starting point is 00:38:15 I've been killing. 26 miles is. Dude, he lost to a guy in a banana suit. Okay. And I was like, dude, I almost threw up in my own mouth. Like, you just lost to a guy who ran 26 miles in a banana suit. And that's got to be hot. The banana suit's got to be hot.
Starting point is 00:38:34 Dude, it was like nine feet high with the stem up the top and his legs doing this. And the yellow, I mean, it was just like, oh, my God, dude, he just beat your ass. You watched the whole 26 miles? No. I was going to say, it's like, I showed up for like an hour at the end because, you know. But he's up coming at the end towards the finish line. And I'm like looking in my girlfriend at the time, I'm like, babe, he's neck in neck with the banana. I'm like, that banana is going to kick his ass.
Starting point is 00:39:12 He's closing in. He can't hold off the banana. Oh, so the banana was trailing him for a little while. Yeah. And then the banana just stuck that stem out and shit. And bam, took him at the wire. That's probably all on camera too. Imagine coming across the finishing line with a banana beating you.
Starting point is 00:39:30 That's your picture. How did I do? How did I do? How great was that? I looked at it and I go, you love the banana guy. You lost to the banana guy. Who's left? So stupid.
Starting point is 00:39:41 That would be awful. I would never even post that photo. Yeah, you know, it was really cool. I swear to God, I was thinking of seeing. When I saw the banana guy, I was like, where's the rest of the fruit of the loom guys? Where's the orange? Where's the straw? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:53 Where's the grapes. Where's the graves? Yeah. I couldn't find a fruit of the loom. my gosh all right and well listen uh what do you doing next um i just shot a movie that i was the lead in that comes out um i think next month i set a movie that just came out that's actually number one on tubi right now tube be yeah which two be too it's like a netflix peacock like oh nice because like i said acting and music is what i originally came out here for and then i kind
Starting point is 00:40:23 I just got a social media following halfway through. So you've got 5,000, 5 million people on TikTok, right? Yeah. 5 million people on TikTok. Yeah. Where can people reach you, man? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm on Instagram.
Starting point is 00:40:38 My Instagram's, it's Nate Wyatt, TikTok, Nate underscore Wyatt, if you have a TikTok. My email is Nate what? No, I'm just kidding. It's your phone number. Three, what's your address? My zip code, my social security is so funny. That's so funny. I appreciate you having me on, honestly.
Starting point is 00:40:56 No, man. This has been great. See you next Tuesday. See you next Tuesday. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, no. Oh, okay. So you get five balls. Okay.
Starting point is 00:41:11 You throw them anywhere you want. You practice this a lot. I feel like I'm going to dust. I just got these. All right. All right. All right. Since I know I'm not like the best store, let's start with.
Starting point is 00:41:23 All right, two. Oh, give it to me. I don't know if I should go for these. All right, I gotta go, I gotta go for good numbers. I gotta go for some points. I gotta get some points. All right, let me just go for it. That counts.
Starting point is 00:41:45 Oh, wow. Almost. Okay, I just got cheated on the bus. No, you got four. You got four. Because that one came in and the other one popped out. Okay. So you got four.
Starting point is 00:41:54 All right. Okay. I only get one throw to be four. Oh, one? Only one? Only one. One, two, three, four, five. I win! All right.

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