What's Your Drama - Justin Timberlake is a Heat Score & Texting with an Ex

Episode Date: November 27, 2019

This week: Boy oh boy is Justin Timberlake in trouble after being caught being affectionate with a co-star at a bar. Then we get into getting all hot and bothered over a super-hot contractor, whe...ther there is ever a good reason to be chatting with an ex, and finally, how to tell a friend that you hate her soon-to-be husband. We hope you enjoy the show and now that we are back I need you to start sending me all your DRAMA! So keep your advice questions coming my way at sasha@laineygossip.com. We also love hearing from you to be sure to send us feedback on twitter at @sasha_tong and @laineygossip and Instagram at @lostandfoundapothecary and @laineygossip. And of course subscribe wherever you get your podcasts, and make sure to leave feedback and comments because it helps others find our show! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I want to say, what have I been saying, but what have I been saying about Justin Timberlake? Uh, that he sucks. And I kind of feel bad for Jessica Biel now. Me too. Hi, it's Lainey, and I am super nosy about your drama. That's perfect. I am secondary nosy to everyone's drama. Welcome to What's Your Drama, our show about, you know it, your drama, your problems, and kind of your opportunity for us to tell you about yourself.
Starting point is 00:00:38 We're here. We're here for you, and we're here for all your drama. But first, let's talk about… Oh, yeah. Yeah. Hit me, hit me with this Justin Timberlake debacle. We're recording this a little bit earlier, but I feel like this is going to be all week all news, all stories, all apologies, all sources saying that this is not a thing,
Starting point is 00:01:00 but just dive in. Well, already sources are like, this is nothing. You know, he was just hanging out with his co-stars. They were just kicking it on a night off and he was really drunk, but nothing to see here. Move on. Let's reverse. Let's reverse for people that might be living in the dark. What has Justin Timberlake done? What has he been caught doing? So there are photos, Because the paparazzi caught him drunk on a balcony in a bar in New Orleans with his co-star and at one point, I watched the video, at one point I saw him stroking the side of her body. She was standing up beside him.
Starting point is 00:01:46 Then at one point she had her hand on his knee rubbing it. Correct. And they held hands under the table, right? Yes. I summed that up. You summed that up because there's not much more to the story than creep. He was smashed. Yes.
Starting point is 00:02:02 And you can tell that right away. Yeah. He can't even like, like his eyes look blurred even in this blurry kind of video. And every time I think one of his other coasters tries to pick him up, he like literally slumps back over again. But that's still no excuse. So some people are like, this is fine with me. I don't see anything wrong.
Starting point is 00:02:19 He was clearly smashed. He didn't know what he was doing. Your call on that? it looked very comfortable. You know what I mean? It's one thing if like someone's sitting on you and like, ha ha ha, like, you know, like maybe even if they're like grinding to music and lap dancing you, I could maybe be like, okay, you guys are just luscious. But to put your hand on someone's leg, rub it, and then have your husband, which is Jessica Biel's husband, hold it. That to me is actually so much more intimate than some grind or some like overtly flirty thing.
Starting point is 00:02:55 But he was drunk, Sasha. It doesn't matter. Your instincts still kick in. What if he was so drunk that he thought his wife was with him? Well, then you're a fucking idiot. You're a fucking idiot if that's… If you're that desperate for that excuse, then you deserve to be with a stupid person. Look, there are, again, I said some people who saw this and were like, I wouldn't be
Starting point is 00:03:15 bothered. Would you be bothered? I would be homicidal. exactly so but that's me that was funny but that's me so I'm saying all I'm saying is there are some people who see it one way and other people who see it another way are those other people saying it the other way I don't know who they are but I know who I am I know my eyes and the way my eyes would see it into my brain would be it is time to commit someone's gonna die yes someone is gonna die yeah I would feel the same way yes that would be him yeah yes can I talk
Starting point is 00:03:49 about it. Like when, I mean, I feel like I got the link as soon as that tabloid published it online and I showed him, we were in the kitchen and I was like, hey, I'm going to send you something. Give me your thoughts. And he's not as extreme as I am, but he was like, oh yeah, this is uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable. It's bad. And just to even, I guess that one of the sources, whoever that source is, the person, oh no, her, her publicist came out to say she, yeah, she released a statement saying there's nothing to see here. This is all innocent. Listen, I feel bad for her. She's single. Let's not dump on the woman. I want to focus right on him. No, no. I'm just saying, why bother even releasing a comment? Because it's just so
Starting point is 00:04:28 blatant. We have eyes. People have eyes and are watching this. They know when they can spot some sketchy shit going on. And it doesn't help because we all know that Justin Timberlake has had this kind of cheating past. Well, it's funny because people forget that when he and Jessica Biel were dating. They broke up. Yes. And when they broke up, as in five minutes after it came out, there was a cover, Olivia Munn, you know, there was the allegation that he cheated on Jessica Biel with Olivia Munn and, you know, whatever, he and Jessica found their way back to each other and they got married and it seems to have been stable, but this has happened. I find it interesting, as I always say, gossip says more about us than what we're actually gossiping about because the people who
Starting point is 00:05:15 are trying to defend him like there are a lot of people his fans who are like this was a scene from the movie but yeah they got him really really really drunk for the scene for the movie yeah first of all I don't see any of the cameras I don't see boom I don't see lighting like you know when a movie's being shot at night there needs to be a camera there there needs to be camera but there also needs to be lighting like you know in your city everybody if there's a movie filming on your city. You can't mistake it because the trucks have pulled up, they've shut down the roads and you can't shoot in darkness. You need light. So you should have, that would have been, it would have been way better lit. And this is another thing that you need to realize. Did you have the
Starting point is 00:05:59 volume on when you played? Yeah. Okay. So they were at a club, a bar. You could hear like there was a Bruno Mars song playing. There was, I think a Taylor Swift song playing. I know where you're going with this. You need rights. If this was a scene in a movie, they would have had to pay lots of money to secure the rights. A Taylor Swift song and a Bruno Mars song, that fucking isn't cheap. That's called your budget. Yeah. But I, yeah. And what you said earlier on is like, I feel bad for Jessica Biel because you know what sucks? You can't get divorced over that. You've got to fucking work through that, eat that and move on. And that's what I think is the suckier part is that you have to know that and then fucking move through that and live with that
Starting point is 00:06:41 for a while. Yeah. You know, I would rather have him like, you know, seen him like really hardcore cheating because then she could have made a more cut and dry decision. Now she just has to be like, right, this is who I'm with. Oh, I bet you they're going to get pregnant like by March. Oh, there'll be some fucking cheesy Instagram dancing video. That's my prediction. By March, she'll be pregnant and they will be having another child, which they won't vaccinate. Okay. Yeah. So I could see that happening.
Starting point is 00:07:12 Yeah. Great. Are we ready to move on from Justin Timberlake's drama to your drama? I love it. Let's do it. Okay. First question. Hey, lady and Sasha.
Starting point is 00:07:22 I'm a mostly happy married woman in her 30s. My hubs is super charming and caring. And though our relationship is taking a bit of a beating these days because we both work so much. But when it's good, it's great. The problem is that I've been distracted lately by my crazy hot contractor. He's married too, but I see him multiple times a week and cannot stop fantasizing about how he would throw me around with his strong arms and what his mischievous eyes would look like staring up at me from between my legs. Yeah, this basically should be your friend. You guys can talk about cheesy porn. As an aside, I fucking love his wife. She's
Starting point is 00:07:56 a doll. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Anyway, so what am I to do to get over this? For professional reasons, he's going to be in my life for the next couple of years, realistically. What fucking renovations are you doing that he's going to be in your life for years? Wow. Okay. We don't leave breadcrumbs, like you guys like to say, and though I'm pretty sure the attraction is mutual, we're in no danger in stepping over any lines. But I can't get him out of my head. Help. She says, please don't say my name on air. So, okay. I feel like we've talked about flirting and having like interests at work. Well, this is, I was all in. I thought that this was, you know, your gardener construction worker fantasy where you look at them from afar. Oh no, this is happening
Starting point is 00:08:41 in her house. But then clearly there's a more, I guess, closer relationship. Like you know about his personal life, you know that he has a wife. Like, it's not just this… it's almost like a character in a fantasy. You know, let's say, for example, you take the bus every day and you… for some reason all of my things are about the subway or the bus. Which I never take. But yeah, okay. Excuse me, I take the subway sometimes. Okay. But… and you always pass by whatever. You go to the coffee shop beforehand and you know nothing about the person that you are buying coffee from. So then you can kind of like fill in other details, right? This is a little bit closer than that. Yeah. Well, he's fucking in your house and apparently going to be in your house
Starting point is 00:09:26 for years. This is interesting to me because I had a contractor and he brought his like, I don't know, his like right hand man dude. And he was fucking so hot. I even passed this contractor and said hot subcontractor to Duanna, who was also like, holy shit, this guy is so hot. And not in that like, that's really interesting because we normally don't agree with Duanna's hot hair. No, because he was young and fit and like didn't have any hair on his chest, all the things. He was like, yeah, automatically she's not into any of that.
Starting point is 00:10:02 Exactly. Yeah. For me, it was, oh fuck, I hope Corey's not listening to this. But for me, it was like shits and giggles, right? Like I was like, oh my God, it's so fun. And like, it was just fun to see a hot fucking guy roaming around. Because for me, I always think, like, I never get to see really hot, hot people. Like, whenever I get on a plane, I'm like, meh, this is it.
Starting point is 00:10:23 Nobody here is good looking. I'm really excited to get on the plane to, like, hope. And it never happens. Never. So to have a man walk into your home who's also, like, in your vicinity, it's exciting and fun. Like, it's just fucking shits and giggles. But that's why I'm like, why is this, why is our reader taking, like, such a turn that she's, like, having to write to us? Like, nothing's happening.
Starting point is 00:10:45 She just thinks he's hot. Well, I think that in all the cases that you, or in the example that you just cited, you don't know what your hot subcontractor, you don't know what your hot subcontractor thought about you. Maybe he thought I was a fucking vile. Maybe he thought I was cute. It doesn't matter. My point is, she clearly states there that she thinks the attraction is mutual.
Starting point is 00:11:06 That could all be in her head, though. I don't know. I mean, she's close enough to know about his personal life, the wife, and all that. If someone's been living in your house for a while, and then again, I need to emphasize that you'll be there for more years to come, you shoot the shit, right? I don't know. I don't know. I feel like she's playing this out to be like something that it's not really.
Starting point is 00:11:25 It's just, can't we just say it's a hot guy in your house for a couple, and like banging on some nails? Listen, I'm with you in that I generally don't like people, so we've had contractors come through our house, but I have tried to avoid them. I don't even look at them. I run away. I hide. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:43 So I couldn't tell you what any of our contractors have looked like. So, yeah, typically, again, I go back to that distance. There's usually a distance for you to fill in your fantasy details. Right now, there's, like, she knows everything about this guy or more. So this is about having a crush on a friend. This is not her contractor anymore. No, it's her contractor. I think what we're missing here is that she's like, I'm kind of bored in my relationship.
Starting point is 00:12:09 I mostly like my husband. Right? Like they're all, they're very busy. They're not connecting. So maybe she's feeling some sort of guilt for like, you know, getting all tingly for another man in, under the same roof. But I'm sort of like, if you're playing it, if everyone's playing it cool and like nothing's going anywhere.
Starting point is 00:12:25 It's just thou doth protest too much, isn't it? I don't know what that means. Well, like it's, if it was chill, then you shouldn't have any concerns to your point. Why are you writing to us? The fact that she's writing to us is, oh, and she keeps saying, I'm in no danger of stepping outside of the lines, but are you? I mean, I mean, if you, listen, there's really two things that you can do here. A, enjoy said hot man in your house, which I would do and just like whatever, just enjoy
Starting point is 00:12:56 that he… That's what I would do. Exactly. You have to rub one out to him like a few times a week, fine. Great. Yeah, so you're cool with that, right? She doesn't talk to her contact list. So you have two options here, right?
Starting point is 00:13:06 One, enjoy the man in your house. Two, get another fucking contractor if it feels too weird. Yeah. Like, those are the two options. I think that this seems all… Just don't get him drunk one night and, like, hold hands with him under the table. There. If you do that, then you know you've crossed the line.
Starting point is 00:13:25 Our next question. Hi, Sasha and Lainey. I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now, and we're in our late 20s, early 30s. I have never dated anyone for more than three months, and he has never dated anyone for more than six. I've always exuded big Kanye energy but since dating my boyfriend I've been feeling really insecure all the time I found out during our vacation he had met up with his most recent ex in Japan he never told me and had said it was because he didn't want to upset me because he
Starting point is 00:13:48 knows how quote how I am um he said nothing happened but I will never know for sure this is an ex that has become an ex when she decided to move back to Japan another thing that has been constantly on my mind is the fact that he talks to another ex on the regular I see her name pop up I see her name pop up on his phone all the time, and they have these long-winded paragraph conversations. He says that all they talk about is just politics. I don't know anything about her except for her name, as he has never told me how long they dated and why they broke up.
Starting point is 00:14:15 We hardly ever fight, but when we do, it's bad, and I always try to break up with him because of his ex issues, but we always end up getting back together, not having resolved anything. Should I just end things for real this time and make it stick, because I don't think being anxious all the time is good for my mental health? V. All right. All right, V. Okay, so there are a couple of ways to look at this.
Starting point is 00:14:38 Let's break this down first. You said that you have typically been very big Kanye energy. I don't know why we're using Kanye. Me neither. So let's just say big dick energy. Yeah. Let's just, yeah. Because Kanye wasn't doing anything for me.
Starting point is 00:14:54 I don't know what that means. Big cunt energy. Big pussy. Big pussy energy, right? Love that. And you've been in this relationship for 11 months and you have question marks and doubts and… And someone that you're with has crushed your big cut energy for some reason.
Starting point is 00:15:10 On the other side, he… if he needs to… I'm going to think that, like, if he wants to see other people, if he's interested in his exes, if he wants that freedom, he could have just said, hey, this isn't working for me anymore. Like, they've tried to break it off. I would imagine that given that the breakups didn't stick, that he was a participant in, hey, no, we shouldn't break up. Let's stay together. So that's a plus, I guess, on his side.
Starting point is 00:15:41 Right? I'm going to like look at it from that perspective. I don't know who this person is. I don't know what his jam is. He's only been with people for, what, the most is six months. So he's in this almost year-long relationship. Clearly there's something in it for him where he's not ready to let it go yet. So that's a bonus-ish.
Starting point is 00:16:00 Okay. So that's where we are. That's where we are. Yeah. That's where we are. So this, all of it comes down to trust. Exactly. And that's the problem here, right?
Starting point is 00:16:11 It seems that our reader, sorry, it seems that our writer V is questioning this and has kind of morphed into somebody that she hasn't been in her life, just solo woman or in relationships prior. So for me, it's like if somebody, and it doesn't mean that you have to blame him, but maybe just all the other elements of your relationship has made you feel insecure, which means maybe this isn't the relationship for you. And if you don't, I don't know, I kind of want to rewind a bit and ask you, Lainey, how you feel about maybe Jacek talking to his exes. Because that's where I kind of want to like narrow in on. Is talking to your ex or exes a deal breaker? Is that a bad thing? Not necessarily. I think it's how it's communicated, right? I'm not going to lie. When
Starting point is 00:17:00 I was in, well, before Jacek, I was a jealous person and I didn't have big pussy energy. I was feeling anxious. I felt anxious a lot of the time and I felt insecure partly because probably I wasn't okay with me. But also I have to say, yeah, I think that a lot of the guys I dated were game players. Yeah. And then when Yasik and I first started dating, there were some people that he talked to. There was like this one girl who I admittedly felt insecure about because they were always circling each other as friends who could be more and the timing was never right. And then it felt like as soon as she found out about me, she was like, oh shit, I need to make my move. Yeah. Kick it and tie gear. Yeah. And I think there was
Starting point is 00:17:50 like another girl who may have been contacting him, but he was so upfront about it. Right. He was like, yeah. I was like, who called? This person. Oh, what's all about? I don't know. But, you know, she wants to hook up in a couple weeks. Why don't you come with me. Oh, wow. Okay. No, no, I got the hookup. I get that you weren't asking her for a threesome. Yes. She wants to get together in a couple of weeks. And so, and he was like, why don't you come with me? And at that point I was like, oh my God. Okay, fine. I will. And he, it wasn't like he was doing reverse psychology either saying like. Like if you wanted to come, he, you would have come. Yeah. Like he would have been happy for you to come. Exactly. So he was so upfront
Starting point is 00:18:29 about it that over time, because he made me feel so secure, I was like, and now we've been married 18 years and probably, like, if there was someone, I wouldn't give a fuck. Right. Right? Yeah. You have to trust who you're with, right? And sometimes I think that comes with age, too. Like, we're dealing with, she said, early 20s or late 20s, early 30s.
Starting point is 00:18:50 And that's sort of still new and you haven't, you know, you haven't dated a whole bunch of, like, mature men yet. But he seems a little bit shady about it where he goes to Japan, he didn't tell her, and then he meets up with the ex and I don't know. Maybe it slipped his mind. It's hard to tell, right? Yeah. Because we don't know who this person is.
Starting point is 00:19:13 I know that if Corey wanted to like meet… Well, it's interesting. I've talked to Corey about this. If Corey wanted to meet up with one of his ex-girlfriends, I really wouldn't care. I'm not to brag here, but I just really am not jealous. I'm not a jealous person unless I sniff out something and like I'm Jessica Biel and I see something like that, I'm going to fucking kill him, right? Yeah, we've already touched on that.
Starting point is 00:19:34 I want to actually bring Justin Timberlake into every question and answer this podcast. So I'm not jealous, but he wouldn't, Corey wouldn't say he was jealous, but I know for a fact he would never let, let, whatever, me meet up with one of my exes because he's sort of like an ex is an ex for a reason. Like why? What do you, what do you want to gain from that? For me, it's like, I feel like I'm a decaying 41 year old woman now. So if I was to meet like one of my exes, it would be to like meet their fucking kids or
Starting point is 00:20:03 like talk. There wouldn't be romance. There wouldn't be like that 20-year-old spark anymore. Yeah. Yeah. So this is why our letter writer V, it's kind of, it's a different stage in her life, right? Yeah. So for me, I just, I just go back to, this doesn't make you feel good. You don't seem to be like your full, pure self in this relationship. For whatever reason, you feel insecure. For whatever reason, you feel threatened by these. For whatever reason, you're sketched out that he's not telling you these things. You know, you've tried to break up with him many times and, you know, let's call a spade a spade.
Starting point is 00:20:35 You've been too weak to actually really pull the plug and you get back together with him. You're now writing us being like, should I just pull the fucking plug? Yes. If that's the answer that you want, which I feel like is the answer you're looking for, pull the fucking plug.
Starting point is 00:20:48 Yeah. I don't like that at the end of her message, she was like, this is not good for my mental health. You're anxious all the time. You're second guessing everything. that doesn't sound good to me period like it doesn't sound good for a relationship either and at no point did you say that we're so happy together we have so much fun like there was nothing none of that to balance out whatever anxiety you might be feeling so if you writing
Starting point is 00:21:14 to us is a need for validation for a decision that you've already made in your head and your heart and you just need the guts or the final push to get there, consider this the final push. Go for it. And then, yeah, work on healing yourself. Because it can't be fun, right? For 11 months to doubt yourself and to have this thing that you thought you always had, this big pussy energy disappear.
Starting point is 00:21:40 I'm sad for you about that. And I want you to get that back. I do too. All right. Last question. Dear Sasha and Lainey, one of my friends from college, let's call her Jay, just got engaged to her boyfriend of about two years. I want to be happy for her. She's the first of my friends to get engaged, so it should be an
Starting point is 00:21:54 exciting time. However, this guy is not great. He's mean to their dog. His apartment is maybe the grossest thing I've ever seen. He's just all around seems not very sensitive or thoughtful, and she's building her whole life around him. When I've asked about her career hopes, she talks about finding something in the area of the country where he wants to work. Many of our mutual friends also disapprove of this guy. Jay even lost her best friend over it, though more in a drifting apart kind of way. I'm not close enough with this friend to say anything. It's not my place,
Starting point is 00:22:22 but I'm not thrilled about the situation. I do suspect we're close enough that I'll be invited to the wedding though. Should I go and fake enthusiasm? Should I say it's too far to travel and just send them a gift? I want to be happy for my friend, but I'm afraid she's making a big mistake.
Starting point is 00:22:34 What should I do? Thanks, M. Is this a friend of Jessica Biel? Like from 10 years ago? Seriously? Oh my God, that's great. I love this. Yes.
Starting point is 00:22:45 Probably. It should have fucking been. Okay. Listen, if you don't want to go to the wedding, then don't go to the wedding and be like, it's too far to travel. But I don't know if you can stop this train anymore. No. Don't we all have friends who are married to pieces of shit?
Starting point is 00:23:03 A few. At least a couple, right? And there was nothing I knew. Is that what you say about me? Yes. Yes. Of course I do. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:23:13 before I come here, I'm going, oh, fuck, we're going to that fucking household where Yassin's a piece of shit. No, no. But I wouldn't even tell you if I thought Yassin, well, no, of course I would tell you if, because we're close. Yeah. But if I'm just like, you know, haven't, I'm not really tight with someone. Yeah. They're not going to listen to me. And I am sure shit not the one to be telling, you know, the friend that her soon to be husband's a dick face. Yeah. You know, like, I don't know. Sometimes your friends just land with assholes. If he's fucking, of course.
Starting point is 00:23:45 Let me, like, if he's beating her, if he's emotionally abusing her, that's a whole other different story. But if his house is gross and he's, quote, mean to their dog, what are you going to say? Yeah. I mean, I don't love, obviously, the mean to the dog. No. You know, are you going to be calling the, like, animal services?
Starting point is 00:24:04 Is this the kind of thing? Because I'm assuming that that is not what we're dealing with. Because people who are typically abusive of animals are also, like, you know that whole thing where it's hard to figure out or predict who becomes a psychopath or a sociopath, but one of the traits that seem to pop up a lot in sociopathic killer is, is like… Is the second toe? Oh. Was like abusing and torturing animals.
Starting point is 00:24:33 Oh, yeah. So I'm going to assume that, like… That's not where we're at. No, no. I'm not going to assume, I'm going to assume that we're not dealing with a sociopathic killer right now. I just, you know. Fingers crossed.
Starting point is 00:24:42 Whatever. We watch a lot of this shit on Netflix. Yes, you do. Yeah. So, I'm assuming that he's just like neglect, not just, but he, I don't know, isn't affectionate. Not an A++ dog owner. Right. The way we are.
Starting point is 00:24:56 Yeah. Right. So, I think that, listen, I wonder if people walk around saying like, Jacek is such a great guy. Why is he with such, that fucking bitch. That might happen. That dialogue could happen the other way around. No. But because the way I talk about him, like on the social, I'm always like, oh, he's so, you know, he's so cheap. It's not, I make fun of him. And there are people who write to the show or even message me on social media, like, you are such a fucking bitch to your husband because you should just, and I'm like, whatever. He kind of likes it.
Starting point is 00:25:32 so my point is you don't know the dynamic in every relationship yes like some people have a lot i mean i've talked about love languages all the time but some people need to be in a relationship where they're like love you sensitivity yeah you couldn't even say the word it's not even in your fucking lexicon to say talk talk a lot yeah and other people like sometimes i come home and i say to my husband i don't want to talk to you yeah and he's like great i don't want talk to you either. That keeps us together. That's your love language. Right? But other people would look into my marriage and be like, oh my God, he doesn't want to talk to her or he just made fun of her or she said this. What a dick. So you never know
Starting point is 00:26:17 what she needs and what makes the two of them work. I'm not justifying, like he probably is an asshole, but train, left the station, you can't stop it. I think that's the bottom line, right like I think we're giving him a lot of leeway I want to trust our our writer and I also want to trust the friends around this girl that they don't like the guy she's about to end up with sure but I don't think a it's um the duty of our writer to say anything and it's kind of up to her best friends that are really close to this colleague of hers was it her colleague hold on I felt it was like colleague or college friend. Hold on.
Starting point is 00:26:57 Yeah. It's… I think it's left up to the best friends around her college friend to step in if it's really bad. But if you're just asking if you should go to the wedding, don't go to the fucking wedding. Yeah. Because you don't want to feign…
Starting point is 00:27:08 You're busy that weekend. You're busy that weekend. Or it's not in your budget. It sounds like it requires travel, which means that, like, finances, it's not in your budget. You're really sorry. So don't go to the wedding. If you feel that strongly about it. But, like, don't go… don't not go to the wedding and then make a statement.
Starting point is 00:27:27 Like, I can't come to your wedding because I disagree with this union. Yeah, exactly. It's not the time or place. Not the time. It's just going to be something… and, listen, as you said, we've all been there. We've watched a friend be with somebody who hasn't been good for them and… I have been with people who haven't been good for me. And my family, my parents, my friends tried to stop me, and there was no stopping me.
Starting point is 00:27:53 So even though you're trying to do it out of the kindness of your own heart, understand that when people are so far gone, almost nothing can stop them. It's true. It's true. But thanks… You know, it does prove that you're a good friend and that you are worried about her. I would… I mean, really, we should just say, like, keep a watchful eye.
Starting point is 00:28:10 Like, if things are really bad, then, of course, step in. But if you just don't like the dude because you think he's, like, a dirty piece of shit, then it's just… it's not really any of your business. Well, think about, like, Selena Gomez. You know, I'm sure her friends were like… Oh, my God. What are you doing with Justin Bieber? Bad.
Starting point is 00:28:28 Bad for you. Why do you keep going back? But think about how many times she just went back until she realized, I can't do this anymore. I have to rescue myself. Or he dumped her. We don't know, right? Because, like, they were together, then they broke up, and then five minutes later he was
Starting point is 00:28:44 with Hailey. So, yeah, use that as an example of you can tell somebody until you're blue in the face, the person they're with is not right for them. Are they going to listen to you? Probably not. Love is such a complicated thing. It does, it fucks with your head and it does this number on you where you can't, you don't come out of it until you're ready to come out of it.
Starting point is 00:29:08 It's true. So your heart's in the right place, but I don't think there's anything you can do Except not go to the wedding and mind your own business. I agree. Okay, well, that's it for this week's podcast. Thank you for all your questions, all your drama, and keep them coming to me at Sasha at LaineyGossip.com. And leave comments and subscribe to us wherever you get your podcasts.
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