What's Your Drama - Sasha Answers: Dreams, Cocks and Dogs!

Episode Date: January 17, 2017

Welcome back to another Sasha Answers podcast!Today we hit up a variety of different issues: what to do when you're dreaming about an ex, how to coif your new man's pubes and lastly, a puppy problem that's probably a husband problem.Thanks for listening and as per usual keep hitting me up with your letters at [e-mail] and of course please check us out on iTunes and Google Play! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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You're buying influence. Learn more by visiting acast.com slash advertise. Hi, this is Lainey. Oh, and this is Sasha. And this is the Lainey Gossip Podcast where Sasha answers. Once again, our dogs are weak. That's just the thing, right? they're here. They're part of this podcast. We record this podcast in my dining room, I guess

you can say. And I think it's hilarious that this keeps happening where the dogs are background noise because Jacek is a pretty detail oriented perfectionist and he loves things to look pro and sound pro, except he's also cheap. Like we're also not renting a proper studio space and paying to go to a proper studio to record this podcast. You are so high maintenance. I've never even ever thought that that was something that we should do if you want to be pro you go to a pro studio and like with a soundboard and with sound technicians um but if you want to do it in the home which yes it's convenient for all of us but these are the realities and challenges that you deal with puppies and dogs yelling at each other scrambling back and forth the click

clack pitter patter of their nails against the hardwood floor yes pay up we want a studio No, no. So convert something. This is why you will hear my dogs running around probably on every podcast episode. Thank you. So you're warned. Um, let's talk about, cause something that I'm really interested in right now, which surprises me that I'm interested in, cause I actually don't really care about either

of these people, but I do together, uh, The Weeknd and Selena Gomez. Yeah. Um, what is your, do you have any inside scoop on that? Like, it's a deal. There's so many angles. like a lot of people were analyzing the photos because it was the photos

that came out of them leaving dinner and she's got her arms wrapped around him I read your post and I totally agree with you by the way right

and a lot of people were like oh my god I feel bad for her he's so not into it and I'm like um I'm not reading that at all he looks into it to me

if you know The Weeknd not that I know him but of course we've done many things with him and had you know him in our work environment

he's too cool for school like the fact that he even like allowed her to put her hands on him has like a a smile on his face and his hand is touching her is like sold he never you never saw that with bella never i agree as many times as i've seen him in our building outside our building at shows or whatever he doesn't smile no and so he's actually smug as fuck actually

he's actually smiling in those photos and then leaning back into her yeah um and holding her like she's got her hands and arms around his shoulders and neck and he's got one of his hands over top of her hands yeah i it doesn't look like disinterest to me and you know for intensive purposes of our podcast we are somewhat of relationship experts now aren't we are we no i wouldn't i would classify myself as a judger okay that's expert judges that's that's appropriate what do you think um because we talk about this all the time when people write in And how do we feel that the trifecta of Gigi, Bella, Selena, who were friends, is that cool to date your friend's ex-boyfriend?

So a lot of people say, and we've said it too, there's a code, right? There's a friend code where most people would say, I will never date an ex of a friend. I think it happens in show business all the time, though. It's hard to avoid because that circle is so fucking small. I mean, so you have so many examples of this happening with celebrities, but in real life, does it happen? I'm sure it does. I've heard of it happening, but to me, it squicks me.

It would be like, you know, just because I'm sitting across the table from you, would I be okay if you and Jacek ever hooked up? Hell to the fuck no. No, of course not. But it's also too, and as you said, Hollywood's super incestuous. They all date each other, but it's the time frame, right? Like, that shit just between Bella and The Weeknd happened, they broke up like two minutes ago.

Yeah. And then Selena, not that I'm shaming her, but they got on that real quick. Well, some people are saying that The Weeknd has had a thing for Selena for a while because he name checks her in one of his songs and whatever. So they clearly knew each other and they have known each other for a while. And then, as you said, the overlap or gap or no gap is a problem. Right. That said, you know, Selena Gomez is really good friends with Taylor Swift.

And Taylor Swift is all about like, oh, I'm not dramatic, but is always all about the drama and is right up in the drama. And Selena's super dramatic too. Very much so. Like for people who claim to be all about no drama and chill, my God. There's nothing more dramatic than hooking up with a friend's ex-boyfriend. Yeah. it's they all all of them actually have zero chill and the that whole well again the whole

instagram um warfare that's happening of like who can like out hot each other i read that on your in not on your instagram on your uh website i love that like yeah selena's ass is shown in instagram and then and then bell was like don't fuck with that i'm gonna show you my body that's and bell is like actually this is my job to show my body like it's my job to have a really great body so yeah here's mine side boob um yeah which i'm not gonna lie i'm if that is how they're if that's the new dance-off i love that if it's if it's gone from like if it's gone from dance-off britney and justin to body off yeah okay not that i mean clearly it's gonna have damaging effects on the youth and yes the youth are fucked already so whatever this is fucking hilarious like what

How much body offing can occur? Well, apparently quite a bit because, you know, Selena's in a thong and Bella is in, I don't know. I think Scherz was a one piece, but it was side boob action and it also jammed up her ass as well. Yeah. Anyway. Oh my God, what it would be like to be 20.

Which you love. You love all of this youngster. Oh, it makes me so sad, but whatever. It's good fucking fodder, I guess. Okay, shall we? Mm-hmm. Okay. Okay, so thanks for sending in your questions and here's the first one this week.

Dear Sasha and Lainey, my now ex and I broke up about eight months ago. We were together three years and I thought, we thought, that we'd found the love, sorry, we were together for three years and I thought, we thought, that we had found our lifelong partners. Unfortunately, that was not the case. I did some bad things. I took advantage of his kindness and after constant fighting, we called it quits. Actually, he did.

To say I was heartbroken is an understatement. But since then, I've done a lot of work on myself and now see that he wasn't the one, even though I tried to make him the one. Problem is, I still can't get him out of my head. I literally dream about him every night. The dreams are always a bit fuzzy when I wake up, but he's there, I'm there, and when I wake up, I feel sad. I then reminisce all day about the good times and the bad times, and then I realize I've

spent so much time dwelling on a relationship that is over. I'm not sure what this means, and I don't know how to make these dreams stop. I know you both aren't dream therapists, but wondering what your take on this might be. Thank you, dreaming. Well, we are, as we have established, judge therapists. Oh, well, I mean, I really relate to this. One of my ex-boyfriends, after I broke up, literally dreamt about him for, I would say, a solid year. Yeah.

Like every day. Yeah. So that's normal? I've heard it's normal. That's not happened to you? No, it doesn't happen to me. But I think that you're a more soulful person than I am. And I'm saying this seriously.

I'm actually quite fickle. Like if it's over, like, you know, typically, yeah. But I know that this happens and I've heard of it happening. And I have had friends who say they experience the same thing. So I think that this is not abnormal at all. Yeah. Now, how did you, if you kept dreaming about your ex, for how long and how did you get it to like how did you stop eventually well I have to say it did

kind of feel like I it was it was a bit of a mind fuck because I was like why am I thinking about this person constantly when yeah I don't want to be with him I've moved on and um yeah like it's like haunting you know waking up all the time and thinking about your ex and I think I think what ended up happening I think I realized that why I was dreaming about him was because there were still unresolved issues. I felt maybe some guilt or I just felt like there was just unfinished business. So I really did, like after every dream, I would think about like what that meant, what that relationship meant to me, how it went wrong. Like I really dissected it. And then after a while it stopped. But it was a year. It was like a solid year of dreaming about him. But I think

I think it's just a reminder or like a little tap on your shoulder to dig deeper into what that relationship meant, how it hurt you, maybe, maybe the qualities that you see in yourself that damaged the relationship. Like it's just, I felt like it was just a way to work through the baggage of the relationship, if that makes sense. Yeah. I know how and I know why it feels so jarring though, right? Because as you said, it was happening over a year and it was, dreams are so vivid dreams are fucking crazy what the fuck are dreams and yeah I mean I guess the nature of the dream is to make you feel like it's real because when you're in it oh my god like yeah it is so and that's why when you wake up it's so hard to shake I don't have dreams about exes but I'll

tell you a dream that I always dream or once in a while not always once in a while I'll dream like that Yasik cheats on me oh and when I wake up I'll wake up legitimately angry right like authentically real anger because in those dreams it feels it is oh yeah for all intents and purposes is real those emotions are running through you that's right and most recently instead of feeling angry i felt really sad like i had a dream where i actually visualized yasik um to go back to the selena gomez bella hadid thing yasik uh on top of a naked woman and kissing her breasts she was brunette and when i look back i think it might have been duanna oh this is delicious oh my god yes so this oh my god we have to dissect this and so i actually woke up not angry but really sad

okay wait i was think it was duanna or was it fucking duanna i don't lie well i it's always so blurry right idea of duanna i think that it was um an amalgamation like maybe her face for like 10 seconds was duanna and then it was some other really hot brunette or whatever but like i woke up really sad and i remember him coming up he was like and then he sensed that i was like weird and he was like what's wrong and then i was like well i had this dream and then he started making fun of me again he always makes fun of me when i have these dreams but i think even he would say that my reaction to that one was different like i wasn't ready to punch him right um i was sad and it was real sadness. I was like, oh, that was like, but it obviously didn't happen

and there's no chance of it happening. Okay, but let's dig deep on this one just for a hot second because it's interesting, right? Because I really do think, I think dreams are fucking crazy ass shit and they do, they do leave signs of something, right? So what is it? I don't think it leaves signs of like. It's interesting though, like is there, I don't know. I mean, I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing that he was sucking duanna's tits but there's got to be something like do you worry that he is going to stray or is it something like those are the two closest people in your life right now so like do you know what i mean like yeah i to be honest i it was like last week uh and i was prepping for

i did a talk at tiff about carrie fisher and debbie reynolds and so i had been doing some research about both of their lives and of course you know Debbie Reynolds was married to Eddie Fisher who cheated on her with her best friend Elizabeth Taylor so maybe that was it like that could have been the thing but going back to dreams they're so vivid and they feel so real that I understand why our friend dreaming here is so affected by them and need like needs our perspective yeah and I listen we're not dream therapists so listen uh hello please note the disclaimer here Sasha and Lainey are not dream therapists but if I had to sort of as you analyzed your own dreams about your ex if I had to analyze just based on this letter

she's carrying around a lot of guilt because as she says at one point in the letter she took him for granted. I took advantage of his kindness. And I think maybe you might be carrying around some guilt over the demise of that relationship, even though you know it wasn't right. Now you don't. But maybe that's what you have to do is to get to a point where you forgive yourself. And not in that cheesy fucking Oprah way, but just let it go. It's over. It happened. Yes, you did the thing, the bad thing, or you weren't appreciative of him or you took advantage of his kindness whatever that means but you paid the consequence yeah it's over it ended he ended it yeah and also yeah it's just an opportunity to uh yeah look back and then also move forward

making sure that you don't make those mistakes yeah like pressuring somebody or getting them shitty but it's also like it's I guess you know she's writing to us because she's worried that this is a problemo and it's not like yeah no it's not I mean you have one person here who is telling you that I fucking dreamt about my ex for a fucking year and it felt crazy inappropriate. Yeah. But I think, thank you, Lenny, for also sharing that you know people who are also in the same situation. So it's cool.

Yeah. It's totally cool. Everything is casual. It happens. Dreams are crazy. Don't take them too seriously. Yeah. But also, yeah, it's an opportunity just to look into maybe why you might be still thinking

about the relationship. Yeah. That's okay. I mean, you're not going to be able to control your dreams. who if we could control our dreams my god like I would want to there are sometimes have you ever been in a dream when you're like fuck don't wake up don't wake up because it's so amazing and I really want to know what happens next I haven't had one of those in a really long time me neither I mean that's the point like good like I mean I think that those are the dreams that

you're like man why can't I have that dream every single night um so no you you won't be able to control your dreams but I do think that you can actively um stop yourself or at least work on not than carrying with you, carrying those dreams with you through the whole day. Yeah. And there's also nothing bad about processing them, right? Processing and thinking about them. But I think why this is lingering in your head all day is because you're worrying about it. You don't need to worry about this.

You're done. The relationship's over. Yeah. Don't think about it more than that, really. Okay. So I hope that helps. And let us know when your dreams stop. Yeah.

In the meantime, think about Yassik sucking two antics. maybe that will give you a different dream okay next you've got social dialed in search is doing its thing so why do your marketing results look the same as six months ago that's because you're fishing in the same pond as everyone else podcast listeners are a different audience entirely more engaged harder to reach through traditional channels and ready to act when someone they trust makes a recommendation We're ACAST, and we put them right in front of you. Browse thousands of the world's leading podcasts, book host reads or run your own ads,

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And I don't think he's marriage material, but I'm not looking for that. But we have agreed we are exclusive and have agreed we are not sleeping with anyone else. Okay. I don't really have a problem as much as a question. Here it is. The guy shaves it all off down there. I'm talking bald eagle porno. I didn't think I'd ever care about something like that, but it's not quite my speed.

I'm always jarred when it's time for us to get naked. I'm not turned off. I just don't know what to think of it. Is this a ridiculous thing to be thrown off by? Can I hint to him to grow it back? Do I just get over it? I look forward to your colorful advice. This is not where I thought this was going.

I love this letter. I thought we were dealing with a woman who was like, oh, I'm starting to fall for this guy and we're just casual. And then it turned into a bald dick. Yeah. Or a bald dick area. I'm going to let you take this one off because you seem very energetic about this. i just love okay so it's i i wonder if i watch so much porn that i'm just numb to like

the like i've seen like so much dudes just don't they they shave it all off don't they a lot of like yeah a lot of the dudes they think it looks bigger well it makes it look bigger listen a lot of dudes walk around thinking that if they they um trim it back even if it's not fully shaved. They get another inch or two. Yeah, the optical illusion is that Jacek is nodding his head right now. I just know that Duano, he was sucking Duano's tits. Now I don't want to think about his fucking dick.

So I'm going to put a shield. So Jacek is making obscene hand gestures about how it looks bigger, it gets bigger, and then I think he put his finger inside a round hole. Whatever. Anyway, so there are a lot

of men, my husband included who think as you just said that it adds to optics optics yeah so I do think that part of the reason why they're doing it but it's also to me like if I could change this person's mind in terms of how to think of it I also think it's really considerate that he's cleaning up the joint listen hair down there is dense and it collects scents okay like and I just feel like some people like those scents it's like musky oh god I'm just like I mean it would be like like arm it's an armpit down there okay think of an armpit I think breathes easier listen how much hair than a junk area i don't think she wants oh oh it's roses jessica's insisting that

down there no i've been saying like i mean i'm not afraid to share this but after 15 years of marriage and 16 years of togetherness 17 now um i like he can get his junk can get nasty stanky down there that's so like i know yeah i think this is not getting edited okay and i'm not saying his junk. This is going to be the title of the podcast. I'm not saying his junk. It's the hair, surrounding hair. Like think about it. My hair right now. If I smell your scalp, you're telling me. Exactly. My scalp smells, right? And like your, your pits smell. So why wouldn't that area with hair that absorbs things and has no time to breathe, even freshly after a shower, you shower, you put on your fucking underwear after an hour, things still

like, you know, gather moisture. Yeah, they brew. Okay. So, I think it's also considerate that he is, like, removing that, the thing that, like, sucks up all kinds of smells. Okay. And, like, particles. So, this is great for you.

This guy, you would be so into this bald eagle. I think, I really like, Jacek never goes completely bald, but he does, like, before every, every time before we go on holiday, he trims up. Oh, he trims up. He's like, and he trims pretty close so that you can just see a dusting.

A stubble. Like a five o'clock shadow on a dick. And I love it. I'm really appreciative of it because. It means he cares. No, but then fucking hair doesn't get in your mouth. Okay. You know.

This is so great. I love because I'm just never even down in that region. So when you're talking about like a musk or like fucking like dandruff or like moisture. I don't even know. Like everything's fucking great wherever I am. Yes. Right. Because, I don't know, to go back to one of our early, early podcasts, it was established

that Sasha does not mouth fuck. Cheers. Okay, so you don't blow and that's why. Okay, so I'm telling you. Yes. You eliminate the hair. Some girls like, and some dudes like, yes, it doesn't. But like if you're going in the back end and you're doing, you're licking the back, then

you know, dingles, whatever. I mean, I would never, you know, I feel like a lot of women who do that, who provide that service, and men, insist that it's clean first. Yeah, baby wipes, it's clean first before you, you know, give the back end a little hi-hi with your tongue. But like, you know, I honestly think if you want to look at it from that perspective, is it weird to look at? I mean, listen, as I said, Yassix isn't entirely fair, but I quite like the, you know,

I don't know I don't know should she ask him to grow back a little stub but then it's uncomfortable I don't know your legs or your whatever yeah cooch when you shave it and the grow back is fucking painful I think when you're like first dating someone I don't think you can really tell them what to do with their body hair like how about if I you know what I mean it's like the same thing if we were getting an email right now and a guy a girl wrote in was like a guy told me to grow fucking my pubic hair back I would be like fuck no girl you keep shaving your fucking pussy down if you want to right like I don't think anybody really has the right to tell somebody what to do with their bodies so in this in this case yeah like I think you just got to roll with

the fucking baldness of it and maybe down the line when you're dating him for a long time and you can bully him like you bully Yasik or I bully Corey then you can demand what you want out of the pubic hair region right I also now it's like it's no harm no foul like it's just some fucking she said the sex was v good yeah like clearly it's not affecting performance no so it's just more she's just more like i'm fucking a little boy and maybe she doesn't like doing that it's the same thing lots of guys don't like it when girls get or like there are some guys out there who don't like the brazilian right because they feel like it's very pedophily like they don't want to be fucking a prepubescent girl right a lot of guys are into a lot of guys are not fucking

prepubescent girls right but the idea of a brazilian yes so she could just be on the other end of that right like i would i wouldn't i my preference would not be bald because i would also just be like a you're taking um a lot better care of yourself than i am like i don't care about that stuff so i wouldn't want someone like super prima donna about that shit and second um it would it would feel a little bit little boy for me right like i like a dude i like a dude how about some stubble sure stubble great thumbs up to stubble i understand why she doesn't like the bald but I think you're just going to have to ride that pony out until you get to know him a bit better.

My preference is the stubble. Like, I don't want to see... I wouldn't want a stubble, though. Doesn't that feel horrible? No, it's quite soft, on Jacek at least, and I just don't like it when it gets to the point where it starts curling. Oh. You have a real...

I feel like you're like a scarred person when it comes to pubic hair. You have some issue about pubic hair. I hate pubic hair. Yeah, and you always talk about how yours is like really... It's really like it's needles. Yeah, I think you have... It's really sharp. Okay.

Anyway, this was not the intention here, but hopefully we've changed your perspective a little bit on how to see it. But, dude, if the sex is good, yeah, minor issue, and I'm pretty sure that, yeah, to answer your question, do I just get over it for now? Yes. Yes. Finally, hi, Sasha, hi, Lainey. This is for Lainey, as I know she's a diehard dog owner.

Actually, Sasha is now a diehard dog owner. I'm going to cry because I'm leaving my dog tomorrow for a couple of days. So, you've got Bowie. Yes. And Jacek and I have Elvis and Barney. So, my problem first, I preface this by saying, I know I am the most awful evil person on earth, so be gentle to me. Oh.

For Christmas, my husband gave our two boys, five and seven years old, a puppy, a Bernese mountain dog. Oh, they're so cute. They cried with joy and it was the sweetest thing I've ever seen. Not to mention the joy on my husband's face was beautiful. And the dog is really beautiful. But along with my two boys, this dog was a surprise to me as well. Yes, my husband and I have talked loosely about getting a dog for them to show them

responsibility, but we never agreed on this together. I love seeing the joy it brought to all my boys, but I am pissed because guess who has been taking care of the dog? Me. Not to mention I've never been much of a dog person. This has caused quite a few pissy arguments between my husband and I, and secretly, I want to give the dog away. We've only had it a few weeks, but I'm over it.

I don't know what I'm really asking, but I'm struggling with this and would appreciate your four-legged wisdom to get through this before I send this dog to China for dinner. Holy shit. Please don't use my real name, T. Yeah, no joke. Okay. Okay. T, you know what?

I'm going to assume that your China joke was a joke because, wow. And yes, our people do eat dogs. Do eat dogs, Sasha, and it is shameful. I know, it really is. It is fucked up. Well, as a Chinese person that is like fucking, yeah. Yeah, horrific. It's barbaric, like whatever.

Anyway, we can also get it anyways. There's like shark's fin soup. Our people sometimes eat some really crazy, horrible things. Anyway. Okay, moving on. Yeah, the place that gave us Confucius and the moral, ethical gifts that Confucius gave us is probably the most amoral place in the world. but anyway um moving on um so t um i mean i can relate to this because i wasn't a dog person

um before we got bowie and i mean now i am a die hard dog person i can't even think about what my life would be like without our puppy um you've become so um into dogs that like you now notice dogs when you're driving like walking on the street like you become like that person right I didn't ever think I would become that person, but I have. It makes me sad to think that she wants to give this puppy away and that she's not, like, the joy of puppy land hasn't, like, seeped into her heart yet. But I think the problem here is that she's taking the sole responsibility of taking care of the dog.

And I think we've been even talking about this in past podcasts. I think a lot of time women, we, like, we think we can take care of everything. we then take care of everything and then we're just fucking overwhelmed by it so I feel like she should loosen the strings on that and pass the buck like make sure that her husband is helping out making sure that her kids are helping out as much as they can so that she can relieve the pressure off of her um and then that way it might build some space for her to actually fucking enjoy the dog yeah um so you know I don't even want to think about the idea of her wanting to give away this dog. Let's like pretend that she's joking about that because that shouldn't happen. But

she should definitely have a conversation with her husband and be like, listen, you didn't tell me that we were getting this fucking dog. So really the onus is on you, motherfucker. You got to start picking up the shit. You got to start feeding. It's like you got to pick up the slack here. Yeah. Well, I think that what we're seeing here is resentment. Like, and I agree with why you're resentful to not be consulted on a major decision. You've brought a new family member into the home. We both, I think you and I, Sash, consider a dog now to be a member of the family. So a new family member was introduced without, and you are the co-head of the family along with your husband. T is, I mean, you know, she wasn't consulted and that is terribly unfair. And 100%,

I support you in your resentment. Like, you know, I would feel the same way if that had happened. So I'm totally down with that. I think, though, that this resentment is giving you a reason or you're hanging on to this resentment. And that's why you're not maybe allowing yourself to love the dog because she doesn't name the dog. Right. We notice here that like not one, not one point is the dog mentioned by name and it's called an it. And I get that, too. Sometimes, like, we're so angry at an issue that we direct it towards a person.

and and so I feel like and that's understandable too like why you won't allow yourself to love something that you were not consulted about but again the recipient of that resentment and anger has to be your husband and I don't want to cause a conflict in your marriage but I think you guys need to resolve this yeah um she said this is already getting in arguments right about it yeah she said this has caused quite a few pissy arguments between my husband and me so what's the result of these arguments like are you not getting the acknowledgement of um sorriness that you want the level of it um what's here because i i that's what i'm getting at here i want to know where these conversations are going yeah they don't seem like they're being very productive

right because you would think that if you could sit down and honestly explain how you really felt about something and get to the issue directly then you could work it out but yeah if it's if it's um on the back of resentment, if it's on the back of, um, anger, um, then you're not going to get to the real root of the issue and you're going to fight about all the other stuff around it and not about what the real issue is. And so I feel like maybe that's what's happening here. They're dancing around it and not getting to the brass tacks, the root, which is this dog and how to take care of it. Yeah. And I think that, yeah, 100% it's, it's, I mean, my, my first inclination would be like, please don't give away the dog until you have at least had some sort of resolution

with your husband. Can you say honestly that in booting out the dog, it will, you know, relieve all your resentment? It still happened. Fact of the matter will remain that you were still not consulted about a major decision and you felt disrespected for it. You sort of vengefully lashing out in a way, taking away this beautiful thing that you say is a beautiful thing for your two boys and your husband. Is that a move that will address that at all? Or is it just making the matter worse? So number one, you know, to restore peace and equality to your home is going to be communication, not elimination of the puppy. Yeah. Yeah. I agree. And I think to your point too, what you were saying is, is this a pattern of your husband's that he

just doesn't consider you and that you feel like it's disrespect? Is this like a bigger issue in your relationship? If it is, again, then tackle those issues and don't make the dog the scapegoat yet. And as for the dog, I mean, I get it. You didn't want the dog. Um, but I do think that if you address these root concerns, that you may find yourself in a different space where your heart might be ready to open up and love the dog. I think that's the hope, right? Yeah. Yeah.

So good luck with that. And, um, hopefully let us know, let us know how your conversations and, you know, marriages work. And this is, you've clearly come up against a pretty big obstacle. This is a, this is a, you know, I'm behind you in the sense that you, you feel like you were disrespected and 100% I'm, you know, I'm there with you, but you have to address the issue head on. The issue is not really the animal.

So good luck and confront that. Work on that part. Work, the problem here is, you know, work on that side of the communication of your marriage and let us know how it goes. Yeah. I think that's it. It is it. So on that note.

Yeah. Keep your questions coming to me. It's Sasha at LaineyGossip.com. Dreams, cocks, and dogs. What a great episode. Thank you so much for sending in your questions and keep listening to us on iTunes and Google Play. And we'll see you next time.

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