When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany - Darcey & Stacey: The 90 Day Icons Drop the Mic

Episode Date: July 25, 2025

This week on When Reality Hits, Brittany is joined by reality TV royalty—Darcey and Stacey Silva of 90 Day Fiancé fame. The iconic twins spill all the tea, from their wild entry into the world of reality TV to the messy dynamics of dating younger men, living in the spotlight, and being the breadwinners in their relationships. Darcey opens up about her complicated marriage to Georgi (and his missing wedding ring), while Stacey gets candid about where things truly stand with Florian.Please support the show by checking out our sponsors!Nutrafol: Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code REALITYHITS Quince: Go to Quince.com/realityhits for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns.Discover Your New Home at apartments.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Oh my god. You guys are amazing. when I say reality TV gold, I mean it like you girls are iconic Iconic and Oh my gosh, so Say it like it is and I love that about you guys Absolutely love your personalities the way you carry yourselves, like your passion for life, your everything. It's absolutely incredible to watch. We love you too.

We feel the same about you. Thank you so much. And yes. So I'd like to start off, before we get into all the juiciness of everything, I'd like to start to ask how this journey on reality TV even got started for you like like what the interview process or You know like how that even happened in the first place because it's been years of reality TV for you guys 2017 yeah, we actually got divorced on the same day 2010 way before any reality shows shut up

Divorced on the same day 2010 way before any reality show. Shut up. Divorce on the same day. And our lawyer had to prep the judge the day before. This is before any reality show. Did you guys use the same lawyer? Yeah. So I guess it was foreshadowing. He's like, what is this? Two twins coming in getting divorced on the same day.

What is this? The reality TV show. So I guess it followed us and around 2017, we got casted and we've been here ever since, but it's kind of crazy because Stacey was dating Florian at the time, they met on Instagram in 2015. We had watched 90 Day Fiance a few times and thought it was interesting and everything.

So she applied for the K1 visa and I think saw a casting for it. Yes. For the regular 90 day, just the 90 day. They didn't have all the spinoffs just yet. Yeah. We didn't get the K11 visa and I think saw a casting for it. Yes. Yeah. The regular 90 day, just the 90 day. Right. They didn't have all the spinoffs just yet. Yeah. We didn't have the K-1 visa at the time.

So they also had another spinoff that just started before the 90 day. It was season one of before 90 days and I saw IES. I saw a casting for it and have been talking to Jesse. Jesse. Oh my God. We got to talk about that in a minute. Okay. So, so you Stacy you I'm like pointing like people are going to know what I'm talking

about. So Stacey, you actually applied first for the 90 Day Fiancé. Yeah. Because you have been with Florian for a very long time. Yes, 10 years. 10 years. Okay. And then Darcy, you and Jesse got on. But how did that process happen? Like, Jesse and I were talking over the phone and FaceTiming for like five, six months. And we

saw casting for B 90 called B 90 before the 90 days. It was the very first season. I saw it randomly and I said, wow, this could be interesting. I think that's that show that Stacey applied for, the regular 90 day. But this is a new spinoff where it was for couples that have not met in person yet, go figure, in hopes of a long, you know, a relationship or marriage or whatever else down the line.

And it was the first season. I wrote a letter to casting and got called pretty much right away. We did our audition interviews and you know, got casted and Face Two is a part of our journey as well. So it became like one big happy family storyline. Yeah. Yeah. And it's like the best storyline because you guys are twins. You obviously do everything together. You guys are so close. What drew the both of you guys to looking for men from other countries? I think it's in our blood.

Yeah, yeah. We traveled globally. Our dad is an engineer by trade and we lived all over the world. A lot of people don't know. We do talk about it on the Durset Stacey Show a lot. Since the age of three, we lived in London, Japan, Singapore, we went to school there. So we had an international background. We loved traveling and yeah, like Dersie said, it's in our blood. And when I met Florian online, he was just randomly like liking my pictures at the time. And mine too. Well, she? I mean, you guys are identical twins. So of course he's going to think you're both on. I don't know about that.

But he likes to beg to differ. They both like to differ for that. But you know, he was liking myself. He was sliding in those DMs. I didn't reply. I thought it was like a fake page. I was like, oh, you're talking to that guy? Whoa.

Florian, hold on. Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. Florian used to slide into Darcy's DMs. Yes, I don't remember the messy ass. I think so, like a little emoji or some CCM shirt. You should have told me that on last resort. I believe I said it, you just, you don't like, you know, figure out the other.

But also that was years ago, cause you guys have been, how long have you been together? Sacy? I lived in LA. Yeah. Yeah. How long, Sacy, how long have you been with Florian now? 10 years.

Yeah. Since 10 years. Okay. Wow. America right before the lockdown during COVID. Yeah. So he, you know, he's been in America since 2020. Yep.

Amazing. Okay. Darcy, you brought up Jesse. Yes. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, you know, we live in very rough times. That was two years?

Two years we dated, yeah. So we got on the show, we met for the very first time in person. Obviously we, you know, FaceTimed and did all that for many, many, many, many months. And you know, I'm not quite sure why he said I catfished him because he saw me every freaking day on video, you know, it closed, no clothes, whatever it is, whatever you're having.

Spicy, spicy zooms or spicy face times. You have to. You have to, especially if it's long distance. I don't know why he said all that. So he just became a different person that I didn't recognize or just really, you know, I think he just kind of always told me the things that I thought I wanted to hear at the time. And, you know, we gave it a shot two years was way too long, I guess. But you know, it gave us this opportunity. And, you know, then I rolled over to Tom. That obviously didn't work out. And then with Georgie, when we got our spin off Darcy and Stacey, so, you know, I think the following our love journeys

is something that people can relate to, you know, we are, you know, stay at home moms or for older women. Yes, we date the younger guys, but I feel like we're young at heart. So, Oh, you guys are definitely young at heart. I love your personalities. Absolutely incredible people. Yeah.

I know. So, okay. Don't like us. We're just too much energy. We're just too much for them. Too spunky. I guess. I don't know. They don't like us. We're just too much energy. We're just too much for them. Too spunky. I guess. I don't know. I like it Oh my god, I'm wondering like I've never dated somebody like actually dated dated anybody younger than me And now that I'm single I'm like should I do somebody younger than me? Should I try it? I think

Once you go young you don't go back. I don't think once you go young, you don't go back. I don't know. Once you go young, you don't go back. So, okay. So for all your years on the 90 Day Fiancé franchise, there have been many, many spinoffs. So 90 Day Fiancé or before, just tell me all the different shows that you guys have done because I'm like, I can't even keep track. Yeah, 90 Day Fiancé is a huge franchise with TLC.

They have 90 Day Fiancé, the first original. They do Before the 90 Days, which is the couples meeting for the very first time. They have The Other Way, where the American goes to the other person's country. They have 90 Day Single Life. Yep. They have a new one.

Happily Ever After. It's like Happily ever after a question mark. Question mark, yes, with the big question mark which we're actually carrying right now. Georgianize storylines, Stacey and Florian. You know, you get to see our 50th birthday there. So every Sunday night, 8 p.m. Eastern Standard Time, you guys can tune in for that.

It's been an epic ride and amazing. But they have some other shows, some new Home for Love. You guys were on the last, was it called the last resort? 90 Day Last Resort. Last Resort. And Pillow Talk, 90 Day Pillow Talk. Pillow Talk. Okay. Yeah. There's so many different and your own spin off Darcy and Stacey. Yes. which is awesome. You guys are just so fun. So, okay, going back to, because

I know right now, like July 6 was the very first episode aired for the new season of Happily Ever After? And I was wondering, Stacey, like where you were for a little bit. Cause I didn't see you. I was like, is Stacey going to be on this season? Big 5-0. Yeah, we, you know, Darsie and I are inseparable. So, you know, if Darsie's there, to a point. To a point, I'm sure you're going to see me at some point.

So yeah, we enjoyed having our 50th birthday in Miami with a bunch of family and friends. We got to celebrate and we did a big. Oh, I watched it all. I watched it all. Like I am caught up. I have been to your 50th birthday with you. Happy belated birthday, ladies. You guys are beautiful.

Killing it. So I've seen all of that and I've seen episode three as well. So I'm like completely caught up on that one. There were a couple of things from there that I want to ask you guys about. So for your 50th birthday, Georgie was late and you were saying it was because of work. Do you know more about his job now? Because it seemed like you knew nothing about what he did for work or anything like that.

Right, I mean I knew he worked in a spa. We live in Miami in the Brickell area. A spa? Yeah, a spa and a nice luxury hotel and stuff. So he's been working there for a while, but he was always saying he was like the front desk guy. He went there a couple of times even always saying he was like the front desk guy you know what he went there a couple of times even it's all about the front desk actually Florian worked there too yeah for a

little while as well I don't even know if he has a job right now because he's been traveling with us he gets FOMO whenever we go out and do some stuff he gets this little FOMO thing going on so fun fact oh my god I don't think he told his boss he was gonna be away and Bojab, Istanbul, New York City, Connecticut. I don't know. So he got a promotion and he was working more because of his promotion. All of the blue I guess I heard right before birthday that he got like a manager or like

running the show there. But I don't know. Did he show you the money? No, no, no, but still kind of a question mark. See? Well, like Darcy, you are such a big personality. How do you allow that? Like how do you not know?

It's just I kind of gave up like asking because I feel like I'll never really get a true answer anyway. So it's kind of like as long as he's paying to share the bills. At this point, I'm like, okay, you know, and you know what, we got our own thing going on. We have we pay our own way. Exactly. No, I know you guys are the breadwinners and you guys are good to go. What about Florian? Is he working?

Actually, yeah. Okay, good. Actually, yeah. Okay, good. Yay! I know that had been an issue with you guys for a while. So now he is working. Okay.

So I have to ask, oh wait, sorry, I didn't mean to catch you off. No, it's just like a quick fun fact, it's a surprise, but it's definitely something he's passionate about. Yes. Living his passion, that's all I can say that. Okay, good. Good. So-

Living his passion, that's all I can say. Okay, that's great. I love that. So going back to you two being the breadwinners, do you feel like that that has had any complications in your relationship? Because it definitely brought complications into mind whenever I became the breadwinner. So I just wonder how that is with your relationships with your men. The roles get reversed. And we're like so much in our

masculine energy. We just want to be in our feminine energy and just sit back and relax and kind of let them handle things. But we're both babes and we're gonna do what we choose to do. They feel like we still want to be like, empowering and independent. It's it's it's, you know, kind of a conflict. I don't think they stop us from doing anything. I feel like they kind of, they want what we have and it's like, they're trying to figure out fast

and it doesn't happen overnight. It took us 20 years to, you know, get what we got today. And it takes a lot of hard work, dedication to get to that success. We learned a lot from our father who mentored us, calling mentor Mike. And you know, the guys love our dad. They kind of sit with them and go through those motions

to kind of learn like, you know, to understand what they're passionate about. I think they're still learning and understanding what they want to do in life. So I just don't want them to copy cat ass because it's not maybe for them. Like maybe they need to go a different route or something. And like other things like when we do our clubs,

to travel and get opportunities. I feel like, you know, I don't know if that's for them. You know, I feel like they just do it because they think it's fun for now, but they're younger. We've learned a lot over the years. You know, we're 50 now. So we've learned how the game works. Yeah. But do you think they're okay with like a little bit of power dynamic shift with like you guys bringing in the dough?

Yeah, I feel like, you know, we try not to, you know, we give bit of power dynamic shift with like you guys bringing in the dough. Yeah, I feel like you know, we give them the ability to you know, be the you know, the man but sometimes I feel like we take the that lead in that role because they don't really I don't know step up to the plate all the time in the weird ways. So it's kind of frustrating for us because we feel like we've given so much we're the givers. I feel like

you know, being taken advantage of because a lot of times that happens. Yeah, no, trust me, I'm only asking this because this was such a deal in my own relationship. And you know, I came from like, not having any money at all to like move to LA and changing my whole life and everything changed for me. And then I started becoming the breadwinner and it like really messed with my relationship because I wasn't like needing him for everything. So that's why I wondered if it was, you know, something

that you guys fight about. Well, we always dream of all of us all dream about being power couples. It's just like, it has to be in our mind to even see that we feel like we do more of the work and then they get a lot of the alkylates for it. So it's kind of like frustrating for us. It's just like, it has to be, in our mind, even see, but we feel like we do more of the work and then they get a lot of the accolades for it. So it's kind of like, frustrating for us. It's like, it's exhausting too, you know, at times. So we get that. We're trying to just build our empire together

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interviewer, I saw, and Stacey, you don't have to say anything if you don't want to, but I'm still going to ask you because it says online that you and Florian are separated. It's a tough time for us right now. Yeah, we're not in a good place. I'm happy that he's doing what he loves. I just don't know what the future holds for us anymore. I was after last resort. Actually things were great for a while and then kind of took a turn for the anymore. I was after last resort. Actually, things were great for a while and then kind

of took a turn for the worse. I don't know. I'm being hopeful. I'm being hopeful. Well, I'm sorry. Are you doing okay? And thank you. You know, I think we'll be okay. I just, I don't really know. I'm just taking day by day. Yeah. Okay. Well, wishing the best for you. You deserve all the happiness in the world. Yes, of course. There's still a lot of love there. It's just, yeah.

I feel like our paths are going different ways. And you guys have been together for 10 years. That's a long time. Just like me and, you know who? Yeah. It was 10 years. So that's a long time. And it, you know, you feel completely different

whenever that person's not around, you know, you feel completely different whenever that person's not around, you know? Yeah. He's changed. He's changed a lot. And that's good. I've seen a change. But it's, there's some parts that he hasn't changed for the better.

So I'm kind of like, how long are you going to have to wait? Like, we're already 50. What is going on? I don't, and he's not a good communicator. So it's like, I'm still kind of confused what's going on. Yeah. And limbo. Yeah. I just wish I could give you a straight answer. I just, I'm trying to figure it what's going on. Yeah, and limbo. Yeah, I just wish I could give you a straight answer

I just I'm trying to figure it out as you speak. Well, that's okay I hear it out on your own terms do what's best for you and I wish you the best You appreciate and you're gonna be okay. No matter what happens. I promise you Thank you so much. So going into just because we are all watching you guys right now on happily ever after question mark Certain questions from the show that I have to bring up. So at your old 50th birthday Yeah, and I'm only bringing this up because we had ring drama on the valley this season and It was a thing that Georgie didn't wear his wedding ring To your birthday party, Darcy. He never wore his freaking ring and especially to the birthday party, I was very disappointed.

I mean, he absolutely was fashionably late. I knew he had a job, but I'm okay with that. He has priorities too. But you know, it's nice that he could think about me and us for a big, you know, big day. It's a milestone moment. And I was a little disappointed. Yeah, it hurt a lot. It hurt a milestone moment. And I was a little disappointed. Yeah, it hurt a lot.

It hurt deep. More than I thought it would. He has forgotten to wear it numerous times. That's what I was gonna ask. Has it been an over, like, is it like reoccurring or was that like a one-time thing? No, it was reoccurring. It's all reoccurring.

Stacey and I have seen it, especially living in Miami and we go to events and stuff. All the last time we were in LA. He actually had remember what today cool We had a meeting or something and he went to the pool at the hotel and he left his ring in the bathroom Yeah, the pool to go find like see where you go. Where's George? Rings here. Yeah What does that mean though like Like how about he likes to flirt and dirt. That's what I call it. Okay. So it's like,

that's what we call it. He calls it Brittany calls it networking. I said that ain't working. Especially when you get 86 out of a out of an establishment in you know, Miami. He got 86 out of a place. There's been time. Oh my God. I love, you're giving me all the tea. This is amazing. Yeah.

We got more. We got more. Oh my God. We got more. That day, you know, he came in hot, kind of like he thought it was his birthday. So he was, we call him like the third twin. He, he even said, he even said,

I feel like this is my birthday party. And I was like, no. Yeah. No. I said, it's his birthday, Georgie. And he's party and I was like, no. Birthday Georgie. And he's like, mm-mm. I was like, I have to ask that. And someone gave us birthday gifts.

One of them was a bottle of tequila. For Stacey and it was on the bar. And he drank Stacey's birthday gift at the bar on the day of the birthday. Cause the bar closed, you know, the serving drinks. So he found that and started drinking out of that. No. Yeah, that was, serving drinks. So he found that and started drinking out of that. No! Yeah, that's my birthday gift.

Oh my God. Yeah. I love you guys because you all are so ride or die for each other. And you're like, we will go in on these men together. Which is amazing. OK, so. Oh my gosh. At this point in the show, it is also him telling you Darcy that you have to dress more, you know, ladylike and you know, all this.

I love it. Hey, well, this should be like spread open more. I don't know why it's so like, I always have my titties out and I don't care. Like that's just who I am. People try to say stuff about me all the time. So we haven't seen your trip yet on the show. But how did you feel about having to like change the way you dress and do all this stuff? To be honest with you, like, it was shocking because he's never really liked that about having to like change the way you dress and do all this stuff. To be honest with you, like,

it was shocking because he's never really liked that about the way I dress. That's how he met me. That's how he fell in love with me too. And then fashion's kind of my passion. It's part of my personality as well as Stacey. And especially when you film, you wanna look cute, you doll up and stuff.

I don't wear makeup every day. Actually, we kind of like just a little lip gloss. Just a little lip gloss and some highlighter. We're having a bad hair day. You know. We just, it did feel like it was taking a, it was chipping away at me.

It was taking a piece of my personality away, which I didn't appreciate him doing. Obviously we go to Europe a lot, and my ex-husband was Hungarian, my daughters are half Hungarian. I know how all European cultures are. I would never go disrespectful or anything like that. Hi, honey! Say hi to Brittany. We're in New York at the Coastal Hotel.

Hi! Oh my gosh, you're so beautiful! Hi! We came to visit her and her beautiful apartment here in the city. I'm flying to New York tonight. Oh! Yes! I'm only going to be here for like, I'm flying to New York tonight. I'm only

gonna be here for like, only gonna be I'm doing Watch Happens Live on Monday night or Tuesday night. Sorry, but I'm going out. So like if you guys want to meet us, that would be awesome. I would freaking love that. That would be awesome. I would freaking love that. I'll take you guys to a good spot. She helped us set up the laptop. Yeah, we're like, how do I work this thing? We have a podcast. Hurry, Annika. I don't want to miss Brittany.

We love her. Oh my God, I love it. We're just made for TV. Oh, reality TV gold. Like absolutely made for TV. You know, yeah, oh, reality be gold. Like absolutely made for it. Um, I know we haven't seen your trip yet. Yeah, yeah,

but does it go on? It's gonna be, I mean, it's, it's, it's, you see, it's,

it's a lot that happens there. I'm anxious, I'm anxious and excited to watch it with everybody else. Um, this, this season and you know, I can only remember what I filmed, but yeah, it was a lot. It was very emotional. It was a lot of love, a lot of unexpected things. It was just very, wow, wow moments, a lot of wow moments.

I just didn't want to lose a piece of myself. So I think you guys are going to see a lot of emotions come through. No, and I love that about you Darcy. I've like even wrote down like a quote that you said. Let me find it You said something like Hold on. Where is it? Where is it? Where is it? You were like, I have so many notes cuz I just was so excited to talk to you guys But you were like It was something like I'm just gonna remember off the top of my head, but you were like, it was something like, I'm just going to remember off the top of

my head, but you were like, I've spent a lot of money on this. I'm not about to do a make under. Right, right. And I agree, you know, put a lot of time, effort and you know, it's an investment. We're an investment. Everybody should feel that way about themselves. I feel and yeah, shame. Exactly. You can't take away these away. You know, the boobs, the face, whatever else we have on the outside. It's it's matter. It only

matters what's on the inside. And I think, you know, his family and George is just loved me the way that I am. I think so too. Because you obviously are an amazing human being, both of you all. Stacey, before she went and on the show, we see a text message from his mother. And you were already a little worried that things were going to get crazy. So, I mean, what were you feeling? Like, oh my gosh, she's about to walk into a like, thunder zone or like what rethinking?

You know, I just was really wanting Darcy to go there strong and empowered and feeling like she doesn't have to change for anybody. Just be yourself. You know, she's loving. She's respectful. She's glamorous. Like I really wasn't worried about her. But I was worried about how they would treat her. So I think and after Georgie, yeah, the insecurities and he was trying to make me make me her, but I was worried about how they would treat her. So, and after that- I think it was more Georgie. Yeah, he had the insecurities, and then he was trying to make me,

I feel like I was getting nervous because he was nervous. Yeah. And trust me, I don't get intimidated around wanting to attack, you know, to like say things just to down her, like degrade her, make her feel like she's less than, you know, when she's not. Well, that's up to him,

I mean, he didn't go home in 13 years, so I think those insecurities were building up within him. And it was like, kind of like, he's a grown man. Yes, it was kind of. He's a grown man. Darcy is such a public figure. So if he's coming into this relationship, like, wouldn't his family know exactly who she is? They've seen my Instagram. Yeah. I've seen him on the phone before, obviously not.

You know, sometimes, you know, he met you when you already, you're already, like, pretty famous. Yeah. We're down here and there, and we're doing fun things and stuff. But I don't really have a deep relationship with them, because he always did a lot of the phone calls just with him and his family, separate from me,

which I was kind of like, don't you want to make it feel included? Yeah. Obviously, they don't speak a lot of English, but I don't have to say a whole lot. I could just blow. Hi, you know, miss you. Love you. Yeah. Wait, so how are you and Georgie right now? Because I'm kind of feeling like a little like, I don't know. We're down. We still go through our emotions. Okay. And I mean, it's we take a day by day. Sure. I feel like what it by day too. It's so weird.

It's like everything Stacey and I have done in tandem has been so similar. I feel like we go through the same things around the same time, not because we want to. It just happens that way. I don't know. The twin dynamic is insane with you two. I've watched it over the years. Is it weird, like Stacey being with Florian for all those years? Does that make things weird whenever Darcy you're going through different relationships? Is that a hard thing to handle in your twin ship? I don't know.

Like, you know. It's like a shift in our relationship. I feel like Florian's a little bit more like Georgian. Georgian's kind of like for I took a turn right now coming twins. Yeah, it's really weird It's changed and actually we were just in Turkey not too long ago And we called our dad a little upset and we were just like I had a talk to other daughter conversation and he's like what do you girls gonna learn because we were obviously venting and talking about our marriages and

When you girls gonna learn everybody loves your dad. You all know that right? Yeah, he's a Connecticut and just had another Stroke so we're here with him. I was gonna ask you whenever I got to fan questions But a lot of people were asking how your dad was doing cuz everybody loves him He didn't have another stroke and he's he's still still strong and you know, strong and he's getting up there and walking and doing therapy and getting better day by day. Oh my gosh. I'll keep him in my prayers for sure.

And I'll tell everybody, everybody pray for their dad. I know you all love him. So many of you guys asked about him. Okay. So you said that you and Georgie broke up a bunch of times. Because I had to focus kind of on, not that I have to, but like the new season, what we see right now. But now you're married. What made you guys break up so many times? I don't know. It's just, I feel like we were not communicating well, but he had, I feel

like at the time, obviously, he was in a tough situation. We're in Connecticut, it was COVID, he wasn't working. I was doing everything, pretty much supporting him. I really wasn't getting a lot of the answers that I needed. And we did get engaged twice, broke up twice. There was a time we were broken up for like six, seven months. When I moved to Miami on my own I feel like you got from again and then from the foreign search adding when I said everybody don't talk with your I want to move out my life, I had a dating coach. I had a matchmaker

to Miami on my own starting my life fresh like single ready to mingle loving life. I thought you go on the date. With that you're like who would't want a fountain of youth? I'm like I just love Your all's one both of you the one-liners are incredible So I did see you go on a date and stuff on a yacht or whatever, but yeah, so Okay

Floor and bottom back and then he can't I was Florian because they started becoming friends again. Okay. And he brought him back and they never really left. He never really left. He didn't want to and I felt bad for him. I always had a soft spot for people I care about. I was scared for him. I just feel like I needed to break away from my old past patterns. And I did build boundaries and he was really changed. He said, I never told him to change for him. I just said, if you're gonna stay, you need to like just honor that I have boundaries now and I'm just not gonna be that yes woman and stuff.

So he really tried hard and he was very respectful and the Georgie that I fell in love with. And then we got married on 11, 11, two years ago and at our dad's house off camera, our own intimate wedding with the family the kids our dad and it was beautiful I just feel like soon after kind of just started going back to the old ways like when we were having a lot of problems So, you know like the keeping secrets and yeah Got his work for us. I'm thinking okay

He's getting his visa and all that and now you know he can work and make money and help out which is great That took a lot of pressure off me, you know, yeah Now he can work and make money and help out, which is great. That took a lot of pressure off me. We do a lot of the 50-50. So you think him getting a job and starting to find a little bit of independence started changing your relationship? Yeah. But I mean, I'm great with that.

I am all for that. And I motivate him to be the best that he can be. And I even give suggestions like we could do things together or whatever. I just feel like he likes, I'm more open. He's more closed off and I can't really get through to him because I don't really know how he wants to see the future. So that's a lot of the things that you guys are going to see in the season coming up. So stay tuned. But yeah, we're going to dive deep into some of those emotions. This summer, don't let sitting hair hold you back back. With NutriFull, see visibly less hair shedding and show up where it matters most.

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It has a lot to say. Yes. Very opinionated. I don't have a lot to say. Yes, very opinionated. But I see. I don't have a problem with him. Very opinionated. Is he that aggressive and real like to you guys, like just like normally, or is that just how like? I think he got along with the guys and us, with other people I don't really know,

but I've never had a problem with him. But I think Stacey and I get along with a lot of people. He was always cool to us. We're cool to everybody. Like on the show, I think we don't have any bad blood with really any cast member Okay, cuz that was like I forgot about him Whoever said that to y'all

That was so funny cuz like if you, because you guys watched Spinner Pump Rules or the Valley. Yeah. Okay. So everybody used to say that Randall, La La's ex, looked like Big Ed. So like that was. He's definitely a character, that's for sure. Anywho, another couple I wanted to ask you guys about, because that's nice to know that Andre, because he does come across on TV as super aggressive and like, whoa, I don't know if I could be in the same room with that man, you know? But Elizabeth, Elizabeth? Yeah. man, you know, but Elizabeth, Elizabeth? Yeah, she always seems so nice. And she's like,

really just like, you know, trying to make it seem like it's okay and everything else. So I'm like, listen, if they're happy, it's fine. They're obviously making it work. They suit each other. They're a great couple. And, you know, we actually all had fun together. So, okay, that's good to know. So what about Gino and Jasmine? Oh, gosh, I don't know what's going on with that. I mean, I guess social media shares a lot, but I mean, actually life has changed. I love Jasmine. You know, we got to spend a lot of time with her. I have a thought spot for Gino. I do love Jasmine. We met her before. We do love Gino too. Like, we don't really pick sides. We just, you know, I can see both sides of the story, but I love them both in their own way, you know Yeah, it seems like well, okay, so this was another thing I was gonna ask because at the the last was the last resort we

See the finale or the reunion and that's when she walks out and she's pregnant with Matt's kid but rewind to happily ever After question mark. It's like back in the day. So did you guys film this these shows like back to back? And then the reunion? There was a little height like a space of time. But um, yeah, I don't know when the pregnancy happened. I not quite sure. It's

kind of confusing. I'm trying to watch the show now. Happily Ever After. Well, because at the reunion, she's already pregnant. So I'm not quite sure. It's kind of confusing. I'm trying to watch the show now, how could they ever after? And- Well, because at the reunion, she's already pregnant. So I'm wondering, like, did you have a break? Maybe they filmed before. I think some cast filmed right after last resort, I believe.

Okay, so it was just kind of like a little bit of overlap. Like they're still after, you know. Yeah, cause it's like- They also posted on their Instagram a lot about yeah she's already showed her the birth of her daughter and oh my god the baby's here now I don't follow that I follow you guys follow her on Instagram I did not know the baby was already here congratulations no just like that's like map with you know comments beautiful baby like a

little angel baby oh good for them for them. I mean, I hope everything works out. I was just wondering about the timing because I was like, they must have filmed the reunion like months after they stopped filming the resort. Hopefully, we'll know more later that season. But yeah, I'm not sure but I'm from Instagram. I see she's beautiful and you know, babies are blessings. Yes, of course, always, no matter what the situation, babies are always blessings good for them hopefully they can work out and everybody's happy also Gino can get him some baddies. Oh yeah. I'm like even Natalie is her name Natalie right Natalie that comes on to see I'm like she's hot too what is going on here? Like Gino is getting him some. He has a date.

Yes. He does have a little swag about him. He does. I would call it a swap for him. This walker just like this strut. He seems so sweet and kind and like he would just give somebody their all, you know? Like. I like him. He's sweet.

Yeah. It's so sweet. I just had it, like those the the two people or the two couples I wanted your opinion on because you would know them in real life and I'm just like yeah, I need to know I think Jasmine is also reality TV gold like goal. She is a character. I just love that whole situation. My friend Janet from the Valley, she loves you guys. She was texting me this morning and she was like, can you please ask them a question for

me? I was like, of course. She wants to know, ask them what's the best way to move on from a toxic relationship? And if they have ever done anything petty during a breakup? I think the best thing to do is like maybe like a vision board manifestation, like visualizing like your dream life and just forgetting the past, moving on and just focusing on what you want in life. Visualize your perfect partner, your perfect dream life. And you know, it's bound to happen. Yeah, we do that. We believe in that kind of stuff. And I think you have

to cut the cord, cut the cord, you know, on the toxic patterns, the relationship, move forward. Definitely. Like you said, visualize what you really choose and desire and want. Level up. Level up. Yes. Do a glam up. Hang out. Why not?

You know, where the who's who are. Just like put yourself in an area in position to just be your best self. Yeah, I love that. So what about petty? What about the pettiness? What about anything petty you've done during a breakup? I don't feel like we've ever done anything petty but I mean, no.

Oh, come on. There's got to be stuff in. Who knows? Maybe we have. You're just like, I can't remember right now. Give me my clothes back. I bought you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Probably like, hey, I paid for that. Give me my ring. I bought you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I like a paper. Yeah, you might get somebody I bought you. Yeah. Give me that hat back that I bought you five years ago. After after George and I broke up the last time we were broken up for like six,

seven months. I was kind of talking to this young guy from like Sylvania. Ooh, I had a ring that George. No, it was a ring that I bought Georgie, but I took it back to the store, got the money back and bought the guy a ring. And he goes like, what? And he never told us. We didn't stay together, but he, I guess, he talked it. Oh my God, I love that. He just had a Slovenia to get it, but you know.

Oh my God. I freaking love that. Okay, I'm gonna do a rapid, like, I don't know what to call it, which twin round. Okay, it's just a couple questions. So I'm gonna ask, it's only five questions. And I want you guys to tell me whether it's Darcy or Stacey, but you both have to answer quick, quick, quick, quick. Okay. All right. Metapool's brain off.

All right. All right. You ready? Which twin? Here we go. Who is the most outgoing? Darcy. Darcy.

Okay. You both agree. Who has the best taste in men? Stacey. Okay. It's the Stacey? Stacey. Okay, it's Starcy. Starcy, okay. Who is the leader?

Starcy. Starcy, okay. Who has the best fashion sense? Stacey. Okay, another one, another Starcy. Who is funnier? Starcy. Okay, so another another star see who was funnier There's a thing. Okay, so another star see

Okay, wait, or did you say Stacy or did you say and that? A lot of our seats that are like that go viral are really funny. I don't know you guys are both hilarious I just wondered what you guys thought and those questions. Who was who? I love that. Okay. I always ask every single person that's on my podcast this question. If you could be on any other reality TV show, what would it be and why? Okay. I know you're going to say Dancing with the Stars. Yeah. I mean, that would be nice. Yeah. Dancing with the Stars. We've always kind of visualized that. Dancing with the stars. That would be nicer. Traitors. Reality show.

Reality show. Like, show show or competition show. I guess. Whatever you. Yeah, whatever. Hi. Hi. Love Island.

Love Island. Love Island. Yes. I can see her on Love Island. She's hot. Like. We're working on it. OK.

She enters the villa. My sons are single, too. Oh, hey. Bring them on, too. If you ever want a Bravo TLC crossover, we'd love to do the valley. Yes, come on. Whenever you guys come to LA, please let me know. I would love to hang out with you guys. I think you all are a ball of fun. Okay, who is your favorite reality TV star at the moment and why? You know, we live in Miami. You know, we love you.

You're amazing. A huge fan. We love you so much. Oh my God! Somebody finally said me! Oh my God! I ask this question all the time and y'all are the first people who have ever said me. Okay, I love y'all even more. Do you have time to do a couple quick fan questions or do you need to okay?

Yeah, all right. Just a couple people who wrote in really fast before we go But is there any other TV reality TV stars aside from me that you love? We love being in Miami and then the housewives of Miami are really nice. We had a few girls we met. Kris Jenner. Yeah. We love all the girls from the Housewives franchise. The ones in Miami. Chloe, Chloe Kardashian.

Oh, yes. I love Chloe. Yeah, Chloe. Okay. Okay. Yeah, Chloe, Kodashi. Oh, yes. I love Chloe. Yeah, Chloe. Okay. Chloe, Chloe. Okay. Yeah, Chloe is so nice. Okay, just a couple really fast before I let you guys go and hopefully I'll see you all soon in real life.

That would be awesome. Yeah, I hope so. Love that. Okay. This is from Katherine Moore, 616. How do they feel having so much of their lives having been filmed? Any regrets? I absolutely love them.

No regrets. You're an open book. We wear our hearts on our sleeve, I feel. And you know, there's more to come. Stay tuned. We are happy to be doing what we're doing. So blast and grateful. And you know, we feel like if we can help someone else's life better through our journeys, it's all worth it. We love sharing our life on TV with everybody through the ups and downs, the good, bad, the ugly. Yeah.

We're here for it all. And you know, we just want to be inspiration to whoever we can help in life through our story and you know, our life. Yeah, we can help somebody. That's amazing. I always talk about how I've had a very hard journey, especially within this past year, but if I can help other women and other parents that are dealing with autism or other people that are dealing with toxic relationships, if I can help them, it's all worth it. I feel like I always try to be so open and honest.

I feel that you two definitely are very open and honest. And as a viewer, people appreciate that. So good job, girls. Like you all are killing it. Thank you so much. Guys, what is up? My name is Tom Schwartz. Some of you might know me from Vanderpump Rules.

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Okay. This is from Ashley. Every time I get these, I just mess up everybody's names. So I'm sorry if I'm not saying it right. This is from Ashley Koch. How is it being a twin? I'm a twin and I love being a twin. Wondering if you do too.

Yeah, we know it. It's all we know. It's all we know. It's all we really know. I think we try to do the whole individual thing, but it just feels weird. I don't know. We's all we know. It's all we really know. I think we try to do the whole individual thing, but it just feels weird. I don't know. We have a thing that we call twin tuition. We kind of think alike at the same time, have the same thoughts,

mannerisms, and stuff like that. So it's kind of all we know. Kind of has to be even seeded a lot of the time. It's not always easy, but you know, it's all we know. And we love it. It's a blessing. It is a blessing. It worked out for all of you. You guys are definitely in tune. So I love you guys.

This is from sab12. Do you keep in touch with any of the 90 day fiance couples? Yeah, David and Annie. We always DM with them, message them. Wait, David and Annie, do they live in Kentucky still? No, they moved to Arizona and now they're in Thailand. Oh wow. Okay, oh yay, I need a catch up on that.

Yeah, they just had a baby, we love them. They're OGs, we love all the OGs. Yeah. Yara Jovi, Yara Jovi, they live in Miami. A lot of people moved to Miami, so we've been hobnobbing with them. Sarper, Shakina. Sarper and Shakina, they live in LA. We got to hang out with them soon. Oh my gosh. I was going to meet up with Yara. Whenever I was in Miami last time, I was going out to dinner with like Janet and Yara was going to meet us out and I was just so tired.

So I didn't even go and I was like, oh, I should have went because I would have loved to have met Yara. But I was just like, I had been through going through just the most and it was finally like a relaxing weekend. And I was like, you know what? I just need this night to like chill in my hotel room and get room service and not have a kid and three dogs and a cat jumping on my head, you know, for like one second. But I feel like Yara will be super cool. She's super fun. Yeah. So they're both amazing couple and love hanging out with us. Next time you're in Miami, let us all know.

Oh heck yeah. And whenever you're in LA, let me know. Okay, just a couple more questions. These ladies are so fun. I want to know how do they keep up with these young men? I'm 54 and going through menopause has and menopause has taken my sexual desire. And you guys are very open about this on the show. Yeah, menopause, menopause, whatever you want to call it. I'm actually having a hot flash right now. Sitting here sweating. We need to invent like a boob boob like tape or something or like, like sweat resistant, please. Yeah, you know, I don't know, we've always been attracted to

younger guys. We're young at heart. We're fun. They keep us active. You know, we do have our dry spells, you know, here and there. My apologize affected a lot. But we've been on a longevity journey. We just got back from Turkey, we did some, you know, NADs and we're trying to do all that stuff to kind of keep us giving us a little more energy. So yeah, more pep in our step, a little bit more pep in our step in and I guess then, but it's all in the mind. You know, when you

feel happy, then everyone's gonna be happy. Okay, and that was from Kai Kaz. I forgot to say her name whenever she asked the question. Okay. And really, you guys have been super open about cosmetic surgeries and different things that have happened. And I am too. I'm always like, I got my boobs done. I got my lip on my chin. I get Botox, whatever. Like do what you want to do to make yourself happy. chin, I get Botox, whatever, like do what you want to do to make yourself happy. Um, but I thought this question was interesting. Um, this is from Ashley X Runyon.

Since they both get identical surgeries, what happens if one person doesn't want to have it done? Um, we haven't had that, um, coming out like that situation yet. I feel like I'm okay with it. I'm fine with it. I'm fine with it. Actually, Stacey wants to go a little bit smaller. I might not. I might stay what I am or just get a lift and stay the same size or a smidgen smaller.

I think she wants to go more sporty. I think I want to go a little bit smaller because I feel a little top heavy right now. That's how I feel. I'm going to go. I'm going to do a mommy makeover soon. I'm going to go smaller in my breasts. I I'm gonna do a little something to my belly. You know, always do whatever makes you feel good. I'm so pro, do what makes you happy.

Don't listen to the haters. Have fun. You're open about it. You're honest about it. You're not hiding anything, you know. Transparent about it. We've had our nose done twice, our face, jaw, cheeks. We just had our second brow lift in Turkey.

We love going to Turkey. I feel like that's where we get a sense of peace. It's like a transformational journey for us. So we'll probably go back at the end of the year, do like a little lift or something. I don't know, we'll see. Maybe it'll be the same size, maybe it won't be bigger or smaller.

That's truly determined. And yeah, we'll see. Well, you girls are beautiful. Now, George, he wants to do a six pack ab wants to do his nose. You want to do a lift? Wait, George, he's going to do all this stuff now. Yeah, yesterday, he just got filler to get snatched like I saw on your old Instagram, right? Because you were doing it. consultation. The doctor said no, she Yes, he had a

consultation in Turkey. The doctor said no to do to she, yes, he had a consultation in Turkey, the doctor said no to do his nose because he said it would take away the masculine look. But I like his nose. Yesterday we did some filler and he felt left out and then we were like, can he guess him too? And she's like, yeah, okay. Hey, I'm just glad he got rid of the man bun

because he looks, he looks like almost a different person this season. I feel like. Oh, I said grow it back. Now he has like a little bald spot here so he's self-conscious. Oh, no, I think he looks good this season. Yeah, he looks good. He's helping me eat healthier and stuff too, but I feel we help each other in that sense. You guys look amazing. Absolutely perfect. One last question before I let you guys go.

This is from Ashley Five. Do they still have their business and clothing line? Yes, yes. Yes, talk about it, spill it, tell people where to find it, where to get it. Possible 11 was started in 2010 in honor of our brother Michael who's watching over us right now. He was born May 11th, past July 11th, the 98th.

So it's an honor of him It's a feel-good brand. It's a brand for everybody. It's unisex. We are known for our leggings many celebrities We're then we talk about it on our show. It's a journey for you all to feel good You can check it out at house of 11 calm and Instagram at house of 11 and today We're wearing our one of our number one sellers or our fun hats. We've got some of the cool items So yeah, check it out guys. If you like it, we're only growing for you guys. Yes, so happy for you guys. I love y'all's journey. Keep it up. Keep being who you are because you are perfect the way that you are. Tell people where to find you, your Instagrams and stuff like that. If you have TikToks, whatever. Okay, great. Thank you,

Brittany. Appreciate that. We do have individual pages on Instagram. Darcy Silva is mine at Darcy Silva and at Stacey Silva TV. And same with TikTok. Yeah, same with TikTok. Darcy Silva, Stacey Silva TV. You could check out House of Eleven. We have our Instagram there. And then we have a twin page, the Silva Twins. And coming out soon is another song. So Stacey. Oh yeah. We have some more songs. Yes. Oh my God. Well, thank you guys. Oh wait, are you some more songs. Yes! Oh my god! Well thank you guys. Oh wait, are you gonna put it on? I don't know. Should we do a little...

Or we could do maybe the do it a big one. We have it on here I think, right? And then with a little do it a big, like from our theme song. Did you guys know that? Do it, do it, do it, do it, do it. No. Hahaha. Here it is.

Uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh. Here it is. I love how like you guys are always dancing. That's for all the haters. All the haters. I love it! Yes! Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you.

Thank you. Thank you. I'm gonna pop my fist. You know how we do it. We do it big. You and your friends. I love it! I love you! Yes! Thank you so much Darcy and Stacey for being on this episode of When Reality Hits. I love you ladies, you are so much fun. Can't wait to see you in real life.

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