When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany - Lala Kent!

Episode Date: June 27, 2023

SHE'S HERE!! Lala stops by to talk about her thoughts on the reunion, working with the current cast, the latest with the RANDALL SCANDAL, life after pregnancy, her current romantic life, and her relationship with Tom Schwartz!! PLUS: Lala gives relationship advice to Jax & Brittany!! Check out our great sponsors!!! AG1: Get a FREE 1-yearsupply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at DrinkAG1.com/realityhits KiwiCo: Get 50% off your first month PLUSE FREE SHIPPING on ANY crate line when you use code REALITY at KiwiCo.com  Hungryroot: Get 30% off your first delivery and free veggies for life at Hungryroot.com/reality  Quince: Go to Quince.com/jb to get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order! Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at Article.com/realityhits 

You too. All right. Hey, everybody. Welcome to WinReality Hits with Jackson Brittany. We have a special guest here today. It is the beautiful Lala kit. Hey girl. Hey girl.

Give them Lala. Do you introduce everybody with I have a very special guest or just me? I say something different every time I say. I'm going to list the last of all of your episodes. But you are a special guest or just me. I say something different every time I say. I'm going to list the bags. So all of you have to say the thing. But you are a special guest. Thank you. We are so excited to have Lala here.

Jack's is ready to tear into our troll of the week. Oh, I mean, do we do troll of the week at the very beginning? Well, this week we are. That's great. It's been the same troll ever since we started this podcast. It's OK. Yeah, ever since we started this podcast. Okay. Yeah, and yeah, you might have a little insight on that, so why not?

Let's do it. So let's get into it. First of all, good morning. Good morning. At least it's here with us today too. Woo-hoo! All right, let's get into it. All right, well, obviously the troll the way it is.

I know, wait, I got, yeah, I mean, I'm still going, obviously people know that I've been talking about it many, well, every podcast that I'm still going, obviously people know that I've been talking about it many, well every, every podcast that I'm still going through it with Randall and I don't even know what to call him anymore because he calls himself by a different name every week. I have my own personal names for him Lala has her own personal names for him at this point. I just want to know I'm basically asking, you know, I probably would ask you this anyway, even we're doing the podcast What are you standing right now? Like, what's your latest on him? Like, what's the latest with Randall right now?

And you like where? He stays in his fraudulent box and I stay in reality. That's where we don't really communicate. Obviously, I just, I'm really happy. I'm sorry that you haven't been paid, but I'm thrilled because I no longer have to pay him from my podcast. That is insane that longer have to pay him from my podcast. That is insane that you had to pay him for your podcast.

Yes. So many people talking about I'm securing the bag. Hey, I'm so glad that you did the name give the blah, blah, dot, dot, dot with Raidol. It was really easy to change, I'm sure. Yeah, I don't think many people know that I was paying him he would not like go of the money with the podcast.

Like when I kicked him off of it and said there's no version of me doing this with you. He would not like go of the freaking money. I'm so freaking thrilled that I don't have to pay this money. Wasn't like a year contractor something is that why you had to pay him? Yeah. And the fact that you had to pay him at all after everything he did is just insane. Well it was crazy because most months I paid him more than he paid ocean and trial. Well, it was crazy because most months, I paid him more than he paid ocean and trial support. So it was like,

you were paying him more than I would. Yeah, but I was for more with the podcast. Yeah. So I was actually his sugar mama. Oh my god. You were having the gold digger in the world. I'm so glad you told you told this because that is hilarious.

He should have been taking that money from your podcast and paid it to Jackson. Well, I'm sure he was. Well, I know. Jackson's the only one that's looking for you. No, it's gotta be for all. And listen, I realize I'm very low on the total poll when it comes to paying people back. I understand that I get it. I'm not like from when I hear it. I got. You're all even, Jackson. Well, I like I said, the only difference is I'm not I'm not a studio when I hear and I got you all even jacks. Well, I like I said the only difference is I'm not I'm not a studio. I've said this many times. I am not a billionaire millionaire a huge poker player I can't afford just to lose well 75 grand see later, you know

I can't just wash it off like a lot of these guys can and I've been getting a lot of of messages from people and actually I just talked to somebody recently again that saying he's asking me for money So it's like I just I don't understand. I'm almost like, hey, does somebody want to help me get my money? I'll give them a portion of what I, they he owes me. I'm like, I don't know what to do. I'm lost here. I got, he's not returning any of my lawyers messages. It's just been, it's just been back before. I'm really sorry that I'm just a mask. No, no it's just a mess. No, no, it's my fault. I should have done my duty a little bit. Well, at least we have ocean.

She's worth all this mess. Absolutely. My boat ocean's like, yes. But it's still like, I feel really guilty about the lives that I brought this like degenerate into. You shouldn't feel bad. And you had no idea all this crap was going to come from this. And let me ask you this.

We all thought Randall was really cool. you know like he was fun to be around He had a good personality like we actually thought that he was Fun and stuff so I get like the peel you saw in the beginning You better you had no idea all this was gonna happen from that so you can't like blame yourself whatsoever And let me ask you so what did you think of the Randall scandal Hulu special? What did you think what your thoughts on that? I thought I thought it was very well done. It was like it broke my heart to see these kids who you know moved to Hollywood and had like these incredible dreams and not only did he break their dreams. He like broke them as people. And I got to be honest watching

that knowing you knowing Randall that was just the tip of the iceberg. That is like, clearly, I mean, I watched it and that was horrific, but I know so much more, you know so much more, there's a lot more in depth. I mean, it could have gotten a lot worse, it could have been a lot worse for him. Well, that's why when I see him do interviews

about like things that have come out, I'm like, you should actually be thanking God that this isn't like all that's in this documentary. And even after this documentary, like, how is he still working? I don't understand. Who would give this person money? I just, I don't, I mean, look, I mean, I did, I did, and look what happened. So I just go easy on yourself. I mean, yeah, seriously, you know, like I pro-created with that. I mean, yeah, seriously, you know, like I procreated with But she is the cutest little thing. I love her so much. She is so sweet. She's absolute perfection I love being able to have our kids together and you know, we we always joked about in the past about like the pregnancy

Packed and all this stuff like I think we were on the PJ one time. And we were all talking about how we wanted to get pregnant. We were going, I think it was to Mexico for your guys is. Oh yeah, anniversary, or not anniversary. We were going party. Yes, it was something like that, right? Yeah, and we were sitting around. We were definitely going somewhere together.

It was me, you saucy. And I think even Katie was saying, yeah, we all were like saying that we were wanting to have baby soon and we wanted to grow up together. Did we really think it would happen that way? No, but it was like the coolest thing ever. No, but when I heard that Sassy was pregnant and you and Jax were trying,

because I thought that's the next step that you take. And obviously the wedding was not happening because of the pandemic. And I'm like, we're going to have a life together forever. So you start having those adult conversations. Yeah. When my friends are starting to have kids, maybe it's the right time for us to start trying and doing that whole thing. I was thrilled about it.

Oh, yeah. No, me too. And now they get to grow up together and she and we had no idea she knew it was going to be pregnant too at the same time. She might not involve us. It was just like, yeah, but it was perfect. And it makes everything even more perfect because they can all play together and stuff.

Could you guys are doing it by yourself like without friends around to experience? No, especially because we live in LA, I don't have one single friendly member here. So like you guys were, it was really awesome to be able to lean on you guys and be able to talk to you all about what we were going through. You and Stasi, you know, went into labor before me.

Your whole labor was like a breeze, especially yours. I didn't think my legs up and was like, is she here? Yeah. It was kind of like slipped out of there. I know. And she, you were like, it's so beautiful, which it is, it's so beautiful. But mine was not like slipped out of there. I know. You were like, it's so beautiful, which it is. It's so beautiful, but mine was not like yours. No, I've learned to never tell anyone who's expecting

my labor experience because I'm missing a person that I've preached to about how incredible it is and what to do. They're like, it was a nightmare. Were you wearing like a half shirt the next week? Yeah. Like, I remember, I know you were, because I know where you came from. I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, oh my guess you guys went to, I think it was like next week. Yeah. Like, I remember, I know you were, because I know for the came in.

I know for the came home, I guess you guys went to, I think it was like a sports illustrator part, or whatever. You came home and you're like, this was where you have to go. I'm sure. I actually really had a baby yesterday. No, that was so funny.

I think that's genetic though. Oh yeah, you were so, so lucky. I know, like, that's why I feel like a lot of people have related to my story as well because a lot of women struggle with white gain and stretch marks and things like that whenever they have a baby and A lot of people are like you and just snap right back. I wish that was me, but I know worth it in the end No, I know and it's really difficult because even though I Feel like I snapped back very quickly and I'm grateful, it doesn't matter what your bounce back looks like

because you're always going to see something that just doesn't sit the same after you give birth. That's very true. Like even now, because I'm just a thin person, you know, like I take after my dad, no offense mom. Your body be banging. But like my dad was like a little stick figure. And I'll do like ab workouts in the gym and it's like great be banging. My dad was like a little stick figure. And I'll do like, ab workouts in the gym, and it's like, great be skin. So no matter what, you're gonna see that your body

is just different. The skin is different. Maybe the bounce back was like not so slurped up, but we all have our little things that we fixate on. I mean, my belly was humongous whenever I was pregnant. You remember at the end, I forget where we were. But I was like, me and you were like at the office. If you guys watched the office, it's like Pam and Angela.

And she's, they're like sitting there together. And Angela's like, big prick and small prick. So whatever she says, remember I was like, that's me and Lola right there. You were all baby. It was huge baby. But she was all baby. Yeah, she was yeah me and she know I feel like definitely gained the most out of you guys. I love all

of that. Can I tell you when a woman just becomes all baby when she's pregnant like Kim Kardashian. Yeah. She's like splurging out of her. Oh yeah. I was like a Kim K and Jessica Simpson wrecked all in one. The cutest thing ever. Remember at the end, actually, I was walking a kinkay and Jessica Simpson wrecked all in one Remember at the end Jackson I was walking around and you it was like towards a very very in and I'm walking and you're like whoa Brittney like you just like notice how big must yeah, I think we were actually in Santa Barbara when you that's what I was talking about We were in Santa Barbara and you like turn profile. I'm like whoa I hope that my next pregnancy I'm freaking giant. And then I want to be pregnant during Halloween and be a semi-truck and have the person I'm with

so probably my mom, where the sign that says oversized load. Why load oversized load? I don't know what I'm saying. Yeah. Don't do it. I love it. I mean, yeah, every pregnancy can be different and it's all just amazing, I think. Like, a women's body is absolutely incredible.

I know. All the dude does is like shoot some like little substance, like creamy substance. Yeah. All you have to do, that's so true. It's like, measure and fun. And then we have to deal with everything else. I have to sleep on a really uncomfortable bed in that hospital. I have to sleep on a really uncomfortable bed in that hospital. What'd you say, Joe?

I had to sleep on a really uncomfortable bed in that hospital. Oh my gosh, you were able to... Jack's can fall asleep no matter what he's doing and it's robbed. It was a joke. But in real life, you can fall asleep anyway. I know, that's the joke. My mom knows, was it uncomfortable? The bed?

Or the couch or whatever it was? It was, right? It's kind of like on friends. Remember when she's pushing the baby and she headbutts Ross and she's like, you don't know, Ross goes, you have no idea how bad my head hurts right now. Remember? Oh, yeah.

She's like, are you kidding me? I'm pregnant. Yeah. Right? That's exactly how Jack's would be. Like, yeah, Jack's is not good at being sick or anything like that. No.

But you were asleep within the first like 10 minutes of the hospital, I feel like. Yeah, I was asleep. Yeah, I thought asleep. But you were asleep within the first 10 minutes of the hospital, I feel like. Yeah, I was asleep. Great question. Yeah, I thought so. Man, I always say are like a pair of balls, like very sensitive.

We, we don't know. We don't know. We don't know. It's hilarious, very sensitive and weak. So nice. And like someone's being like such a weak human, I'm like, over the fuck up.

Yes, I love it. Are you afraid of fuck up for that? I love that. I like that. We like such a weak human. I'm like, over the fuck up. Yes. I love that. I love that. I like that. I like that. We're not just start using that. Oh, that's a merch shirt. Overreact.

That's a merch shirt. That's a merch shirt. I always think of merch shirts now when I'm on a podcast. One of the questions that Semi said online, I forgot to write down their handle, but it just made me think that they were like, tell Lala to make a shirt that says, I wasn't your best friend, Ho.

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You were this get I get somebody so so did you watch back the the reunion? Did you watch it yourself? I watched it like a hundred times. And what did you watch back the reunion? Did you watch it yourself? I watched it like a hundred times. And what did you think about it? Like now that it was edited and everything and put together and cut, obviously you were there, but it's a different story when you're watching it. What were your thoughts on it? Were you happy with it?

Were you happy the way you look? Were you happy the way everybody else looked? The Realds. I mean part three was a little intense. I was like, all right, let's kind of reel it in. It was really good TV though. It was great. I mean, just because I'm a huge fan,

you guys know of reality TV. So watching myself from like a viewer, I was like, oh, this is like really good. Watching everybody, I mean, James was great. I think people loved part one and part two. I think part three, it started getting intense because Raquel was like clearly not right. Yes.

And people, and I don't want to say that I sympathized with her because I didn't. But at the end of the day, and Jacks, you can relate to this so can you, Britt, but you're so sweet. Jacks is a little unhinge. But when you're filming a reality TV show, you just assume that everyone who's filming is mentally equipped to handle things that come out of your mouth, situations they're thrown into. So the moment that I watched Raquel

in her five minute little confessional where she definitely told the entire truth, I sat there and was like, oh, we're maybe dealing with someone who's not okay to be in this environment. No, I don't know. I'm not the one to make that call. Raquel has to make that call.

I definitely didn't regret how I approached her. Like she really came for me this season. Yeah. Pretty hard. But because I'm tougher, people are like, no, you came for her hard. No, I retaliated harder. That's so true.

She was calling me names all times. Yeah, that is true. Wisdress, chicken, shit. Oh my gosh, that is so crazy that she was calling you mistress and stuff because the whole time she knew that she was having this affair. And she was like calling you. So watching that stuff back was like really crazy.

I think had sand of all not said everything he had said to me, you know, like so preachy. Oh, he was doing that. And then Raquel calling me all those names while she was doing that. I don't think I would have been as angry at the reunion. I think I would have been like, you know, shit happens. That's Ariana's deal, right?

Yeah. Like she can take on her own fight. She's the one that was cheated on. Yes. I was pissed off that y'all called me all these names when you were doing that. Yeah, and they were doing worse than anything that you had been doing.

Like, what the heck? What the heck? Yeah, it's like being the biggest hypocrites. And the whole time, like throughout the entire reunion, St.Val was just lying, lying, lying, lying, lying. So let me chime here. That's what I was trying to get at here, and I was waiting for you to get to that.

So obviously the secret, whatever, really to me, it wasn't really a secret. Kind of knew this whole thing was going on anyway. But the fact that you wasted, that reunion was a wash. It's a wash because it's the lie, the whole time. So basically, everything that was said was like, this the fact that you wasted, that reunion was a wash, it's a wash, because it's the lie the whole time. So basically everything that was said

was like this is a pointless reunion now, because it's everything that you said and you just prayed it was a lie. So instead of that coming out first, then you guys could have called them on that, they waited till the end to do that, which I personally like, this is garbage now, you can't. You can't.

No, but you're not explaining it, right? You're meaning that Tom was lying the whole time, saying like it was one time, one time. Yeah, you can't. No, but you're not explaining it, right? You're meaning that Tom was lying the whole time saying, like, it was one time, one time. Yeah, that's right. So he's basically what she said is this whole thing was a scam, like a sham. I was doing this the whole time. No, he was, but all of us were calling him out on the whole time.

It was all saying he's lying. Yes, this wasn't a one time thing. Like, we all called him out. I liked that they saved that for the end because it just goes to show how again, he's a dangerous person that can look you in your eyes and he believes that it was one time. Right, well that's what I'm saying.

I'm saying, I'm saying everything he said, it's what I'm saying is a waste of time. Everything he said, like he wasted all his time because he was lying right. He wasted everybody's time with preaching and this and that was all the ways. But it made that reunion that much better though.

Because it just showed like how much of a liar he really was. And how much he was like training, we're kill on what to say. Like it became so obvious. The nurse loves the good training process. Oh my gosh. The rive off of it. Oh my gosh.

Jack always loves this question.. I want to ask you if Jack's and Kristen Doty were on the show, do you think that it would have came out sooner because I have a feeling that as soon as you started having your suspicions, Kristen would have done. I would have had someone to talk to about this. I didn't have anyone. Like Katie was in a difficult position because she's going into business with Ariana. No one wanted to like hear me on this. Right, right.

I remember you saying it to me, even at what was it, Labor Day, when we were all at that same party at a Lines House and told them in Rokelkine, you were saying something that day, that it was weird that they were hanging out all the time. Yes, it was just the whole thing was just very strange. And people love to live in the, well, if this wouldn't have happened, you would have looked so bad.

And I'm like, well, if we live in the if, then we have to also live in the probably. Because if this weren't happening, I probably wouldn't have had that gut feeling. Yeah. I had the gut feeling because it was fucking happening. That's so true. Yeah. You were right. You're right. And I think Chris and what have went right with you and like found you guys would have been like hacked into their phone. Yeah. Yeah. And then you would have said on every Uber ride to see like when they would pick each other up and then

send me in to do all the dirty work. Yeah. And then Jack will have to go like blow it all up. The first time ever. You and I jacks would have been like Bonnie and Clyde. Yeah. Yeah. I think you and I, Jax would have been like, Bonnie and Clyden. Yeah, I think so too. And Brittany would have been telling us to calm down and we would have been like, we ride a f***ing dog. Yeah, somebody, somebody asked us this, this question yesterday on a chat room.

And they were like, and I thought that was just a great question about would you, would they have found out sooner if Kristen and I were involved in that? That was such a great question. I know. I got to talk about this on my podcast. Because you and Kristen, you stir.

And that's what was so difficult when you guys weren't a part of the show anymore was that a lot of people I'm not going to name names, but the camera goes up and they worry about what the comment section is going to look like. Where that makes your job difficult, my job difficult, because I need everyone to be like living normal life, but on a hundred actually. Like everything you think now needs to be talked about

on camera. Right, no, and I said this, again, I said this yesterday, and I said, you know, we sign up for the show, knowing in they're gonna talk about our lives. You can't pick and choose what you wanna talk about. This is about our lives. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't say, well, I'll talk about this,

but I won't get into this, but I'm gonna do this, and I'm not gonna get into this. And that's what Santa Ball did. That's exactly what he did, and I was so frustrated, because I called this out for many, many years. They're not talking about their relationship, and I've called it, they've gone back

and done flashbacks from season one, season two. This is this relationships, not right? Like, Tom is not right. I called it out so many times and nobody wanted to see it. So frustrating because I'm bleeding out here. You're bleeding out here. We're deep to talking about things that I did. I did hide my life. I feel like that's why I can talk this way because I'm coming from a place where it's like, I understand you wanting to protect, right? You're talking about the very beginning. The very beginning, season five. But you've changed since then.

Of course, of course I've changed since then. I had a very humbly experience. I realize where there's smoke, there's fire. And I also love to out people and drag them to find the truth. I made truth seeker. Yes. So I understand when someone's in a relationship and they want to protect it. But I feel like, but then you should be on reality TV. Exactly. I'm sorry. You can have both. That's not how it works. And I agree with you. Yeah. It can be hard. I mean, reality TV can really ruin relationships.

Okay. Absolutely. It can. How is dating going for you right now? Do you think it's nonexistent? Not existed your mom? No, as your husband right now. I feel like I've been watching the wife. Yeah, there you go. I go to the office and work, and there are times where I look in my wallet and the amix is gone.

And I'm like, no, it's literally like, we are. That is so funny. But you know what, I think last year, I was like very in my trauma and I think I'm now aware of that. Now that time has passed, I can kind of like look at my life and how I talk and realize like,

oh, you're, you've got some stuff to work through. Like you're traumatized. Yeah, you went through a lot, Lala. Yeah, and I don't want to put you still going through it, right? I mean, it's still in it. Yeah, and I don't wanna put your jokes back. And you're still going through it, right? I'm still in it. Yeah, it's not over with. So until I can work through some of my trauma

because last year, even though it seemed like my, I was just like, I was like Miss Cleo, right? I was like seeing the future. Oh, but it was really me in my trauma, being like, this is not right, this is not right. I was hypersensitive to everything. I'd like to kind of remove myself from like talking about everyone else's relationships

because I'm so triggered by them. Like you go, you can figure it out. Not my issue and work on my own trauma so that hopefully one day I can be around a straight man and not be triggered by them. Yeah, not the time to date for me. Yeah, so you're not ready at all. So the quote Not at the time to date for me. Yeah. So you're not ready at all to date now.

So the quote I quote the Don is not existing anymore. Well, that's what I was going to ask. This was a question from Aunt Mom since 02. Is Law Law still seeing hook me up with the Don? No. I'm not seeing we're hooking up with the Don. That ended a while ago. I had enough of my own drama going on that I couldn't take

on someone else's drama Yeah, with whatever they were dealing with in their personal life It just tracks me up that you call in the dawn like his name is dawn, right? His name's Dion I like the dawn on the dawn. Did you make it up? Yeah, I was like dawn Don is my dad's name so every time you say that John it's like it's so white man in his 16

No, you're the don't love it. That is so funny, but okay, so we know Lala is not ready to date No, this was a no open to spread my life. I mean This is another question for a fan which also hasn't happened in a very long time Well crap I mean you take a lot going on. You're a busy woman. You got a lot going. You got your hands in a lot of different pots. So when I mean by pots, I mean projects. Yeah.

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This is a funny question from at Frenchie Beach live in with the whole all considered dating an average guy like an accountant plumber or mechanic. My mom's not like yeah, certainly. Um, because I don't know. I think you would get bored. I think it's not about what they do or what's in their bank account or any of that. It's more than yourself when it comes to that. 100% it's more about the life is weird.

Yeah, right? Like, meaning your life, the reality. Our life. Yeah. Our lives are weird. It's not like we're actors where it's like we do a movie and then we get to fade into the background. Yes, if we want.

It's like we literally pay our bills because we're willing to share our entire lives. So if I were to meet an accountant or a plumber who was like, down that everything is going to be out there, obviously they'd have to pass a background check, but everyone does. Yes. I love that you do that. Yes. I mean, you learn from your mistakes, right? You learn from your mistakes.

And gosh, if you were to do the background check on Randall, holy hell. Holy hell. Holy hell. But I mean, I don't blame you. He was in a lot of trouble with certain things. But like, that's the other crazy thing. Is like the background checks that I got back with what he was

also being accused of, we're not found on a background check. So you can only find so much, but I do like a worldwide background check. It's like, you may be clean in the US, but have you ever done anything in Germany? Because I'm gonna have to know that. Oh. I love it.

It's just called wounded. Oh my gosh. I'm trying to think of what kind of guy I could see you with. I feel like you're right. I mean, it definitely has to be somebody who would be willing to film too, because then it's like, if you're dating somebody who won't film,

like that sucks too, you know? Because it's like part of your whole life that you can't show. Well, that's a deal breaker. Yeah, it has to be somebody that would be willing to film. I mean, they don't have other whole lives, but they have to tap in and tap out once or twice. You have to show their face. They're not looking for the person to come on

and have a storyline. It's just like we need to understand that you exist. I can say you love out with a sexy plumber. You're drainin' on the earth. What is it called? Drainin' plums. Plumbing pipes, plumbing pipes. Cleaning pipes.

Cleaning pipes, dyken. There's a name. I was trying to take a said that sexual. Flushing the lawns, Lisa says. He's so jerked on the crank now. Oh my gosh. Plumber's cracking all just for Lala. That would be hilarious. I have a really quick question for me.

Where are you with Tom Schwartz right now? Are you talking to him? Or are you, do you talk to him at all? Or are you kind of just kind of, whatever? He's there, whatever. I'll say hi. But like, because I just couldn't figure out with the show and everything how it was going and it obviously you guys went into it a few times, but where are you as of today? Are you guys talking? Do you feel bad for him? No, I shouldn't think so very quickly. Right, right. You could literally say anything to me and I'm like, that's how I am. Yeah, I read that he like cut ties with

SantaVall, is this true? So he was on our podcast and he straight up told us multiple times like I'm taking a break from SantaVall that he feels like he was used by SantaVall, that um, SantaVall has a huge ego that he needs. I mean, I mean, he went in. Now, now, I'm real quick. I don't know if you noticed, to Tom Sanable is still doing his touring. And he's changed the words in his songs, talking about how Tom lost his house. Yes. This is his best friend, mind you.

Okay, his best friend, his business partner, talking about, you know, Tom Schwartz's mom, talking about how he lost his house, talking about. Changing words and songs, and changing the songs. And like, and Schwartz is just kind of, you know, Schwartz doesn't really have, I love Schwartz to I do, but sometimes he doesn't have a backbone.

He doesn't. No, I know, and I think that that's my biggest, my biggest thing with him was when he was saying all of those things to me about like my face or whatever, I knew that it had nothing to do with me. He was dealing with an internal battle that was, yeah, so far removed from me, but it was being projected onto me.

Correct. I would love for him to choose himself. What is best for you? battle that was so far removed from me, but it was being projected onto me. Yes. I would love for him to choose himself. What is best for you? I want you to get off of all of the sinking ships. Because Tom has been nothing like, for him to think of my daughter when it's her birthday, for him to acknowledge the death of my dad,

like his five year anniversary of his passing my dad. I know he has like the sweetest heart, but it's like I want you to pick yourself. Yeah, I agree. I agree. I want you to be selfish for the first time in a life. And he does everything he's going through with his family too. He's got so much going on with his dad, his brothers. I mean, you know, that's his personal, but there's a lot going on behind the scenes that

he's also with the show is going, oh, it's stressful enough. Then I'm, I'm then when you check out and go home when I say check out I mean you punch out from the show. He has to deal with his mom his father his three brothers. It's a lot. You know that he financially takes supports by the way. You know that's a lot. That's a lot of pressure. And he said all this on the podcast. It's not like we're having. Yeah, but I mean he's you know he's putting his own money into the bar. He's putting his own money into his brothers his father his mother and like he doesn't put anything into himself.

But I'm glad you guys, you're saying that you're like over stuff. Like you're not as like mad, but you just want him to step up a little bit. With what I deal with in my personal life, it takes a really fucking shitty human to make me like not want to forgive you for getting moved on. Like you making fun of my lips, all good man. And you know he thinks you're cute as a person. But that just said it nice. You said it perfectly.

Because I think I'm cute as a bite. You are. And I think you said it perfectly. I think he was just spiraling and he was just looking to something to grab on and like, hey, I'll just make fun of that. By the way, I'm the perfect person to do that too. I've told Pete, he knows you're not going to take it

to a heart. Yeah, we'll shake it off pretty quick. Yeah, okay, good. I just wanted to see where you guys were, but like I said, I always want the best. We're going to switch it up to something on a positive note because I want to know this answer too. This is a question from Amanda.

Amanda, Sack of Vito. Amanda, oh, Sack of Vito. Sack of Vito or something. Sorry, if I'm messing that up big time, but I like this question. What did Law Law dream she would be as a kid when she grew up? Famous.

You always wanted to be famous. Always. That's okay. Always. Now I thought that I was gonna be famous for like acting. You have to have a lot of acting though. Well, yes, I have acted, but like I'm a real I need to reperson.

Oh yeah. I definitely did not see that in my future, but I always wanted to be like a known person. Yeah, I 100% never thought I would be doing what I'm doing now. I wanted to work with children. I wanted to be a pediatric nurse or work with special needs kids. That was like always what I wanted to do. I never saw me living in LA and doing all this stuff.

The universe had other plans to do this. But now I've got crews, like everything happened, the way it was supposed to. You have ocean even though Brandel sucks. Like we have our beautiful babies, we live in LA. Like we're doing great, you know, it's not from all the stuff. So I wouldn't change it for the world.

Yeah, I don't even think about my baby daddy like that. Oh yeah, well that's good. Like I don't, when I think think about ocean like I don't even think about him in the equation. I mean ocean is you guys like she is you and Lisa and Eastern made over. Yeah well let me tell you how I just think that you are so strong and everything that you've been through and that you had the the strength to just like pack up your stuff whenever ocean was only seven month old you and your mom just you had the strength to just like pack up your stuff whenever ocean was only seven month old, you and your mom just like were able

to just sneak out. And it reminds me of this movie, I'm sorry, I don't mean to cut you off, but there's this old movie, you guys maybe not see, it's called Not Without My Daughter. And now it's such a good movie. It's your like a 10, I know, it's a Sally field,

it's such a good movie. Wait, I'm gonna watch it a lot. Watch it, it's called Not Without My Daughter. It's the exact situation that you're going through right now. Watch it. It's called Not Without My Daughter. It's the exact situation that you're going through right now. Watch it. It's a movie. It's an early 90s, late 80s movie, but Sally Field. No, that's not. I just wanted to. And you got to watch it. I bet your mom seen it. I bet she has. It's called Not Without My Daughter. Check it out. It's really, really good. I just wanted to give you some props because that takes a really strong person to just be able to do that.

And especially whenever your baby is so new, you know, like seven months old, and you just like packed up and left and like the middle, I don't know if it was the middle of night or if he was just gone or whatever. Yeah. No, I turned into a robot. I remember when you were gone through it all. I mean, I just hate that that had to happen to you. But I feel like it's made you so much stronger. Absolutely.

And anyone who says that I need to get over it and move on. Oh, shut up. Who's that cat? There's like randoms that, like very randoms who think that like, oh, she got cheated on and she's mad. It's like, if it were just about that, we'd be in a very different position.

Yeah. When accountability happens and justice happens, then I'll move on. Yes. Until then, I will continue talking about it. Well, you have a daughter that's in the mix. You know what I mean? You can't just get over it. That really annoys me that people would even say that to you. Well, she's going to get older one day. She's going to read all this stuff. And she's going to see what's going on. And she's going to know the truth. Like, whether, you know, the internet's a crazy thing. It's never going away. So she can look him up at any time when she gets older.

She's gonna read and she's gonna see what you did and what he did and then she'll, you know. My job is to make sure that Ocean is loved and happy and healthy when she's at my house. And she is. Right? This episode of When Reality Hits is brought to you by AG1 by Athletic Greens.

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Oh, God. It's so sad, right? It's so sad, obviously. Oh, my gosh. One question I have is we're in 2023, right? Why wasn't that thing tethered to something on the surface? I think it's so far down. But I get it, but there's a 30-something.

There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something.

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There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. There's like 30-something. And I'm not only that I'm gonna pay $250,000 to do it. I mean some people live for- And the window was tiny. Was there a window that was around like this big? That they had to like share to look out or something. Yeah, and the toilet. I mean it was nine hours.

I think pooping you'd maybe be fine. But there's no way I could go nine hours without peeing. Yeah. And it was basically like what are kids are potty trained. And you can show me everything. Like game jobs. You need like an Xbox thing. Oh my gosh. Yeah, and it was basically like what are kids are potty trained And the sun I read yesterday the sun that went with his father didn't want to go because of the situation But went and finally went because he's like I want to do this for my dad. Oh You know that breaks my heart like I'm this is terrible But like at least if it exploded it maybe it was a quick and like painless type of way.

But we're saying today that they probably got warning, like hey, just so you guys know, we're gonna be exploding. Oh no. Right, didn't you read that today, Mom? Well, James Cameron. Yeah, I read James Cameron's thing too. I saw actually this morning, well, I was on a toilet.

I was reading that. It was like some scientific. It happened on Sunday. So it happened. Well, I was just meaning the pressure. You're the, you would feel like. I was just meaning like it would be so terrifying. Like everybody was thinking that they were just

running out of oxygen. Like that would be so terrifying. Imagine the first person who dies from running out of oxygen. Yeah. Like in everybody else's realm. The conversations. Like it's just such a sad, like traumatic thing.

And I think the whole world was invested because it was going to see the Titanic, and everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail. And everybody else to rail.

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and then it was just shrapneled. But you said that there was a guy who said it was made from parts that you don't make a summary. It's off the shelf parts. Oh my gosh. I don't want to pull this, but someone says it's stuff you can buy off Amazon, stuff like that. Oh no.

I read that. I gave me control. That is so insane. Oh my gosh. Either way, it's just a super sad story. I mean, you feel really, really bad for all these folks. Yeah, I'm trying to say the family. Can I tell you why the ocean terrifies me?

Yes. Like, for me, which is a huge reason why I love the ocean, it's a huge reason why I named my daughter that is because the ocean is so powerful that you do not fuck with it. No, right? No. No. No. OK, so this is another sad story. The ocean is so powerful that you do not with no right. I need to go in there.

No, I, okay. So this is another sad story, but did you see that video of the guy in Egypt getting eaten by the shark? I appreciate that you never say the effort on this podcast and I'm taking note by the way. You're what? I'm doing it because I have to sub thing the effort.

I don't, you know why I don't buy a shark? Is somebody within by a shark and people recorded it on video? It went viral. You haven't seen it. He yelled for his papa, because his dad was there watching. And you see this shark, like it flips him upside down and everything. It was a tiger shark.

And then it came and jumped up and ate his neck right there. And you see it. And he's like trying to swim. It is hard for him to skate. And he was yelling for his dad. And people are just spilling it. I mean, there's nothing trying to swim. It is a hard for a skim. And he was yelling for his dad. And people are just spilling. It is hard for a skim. I mean, there's nothing they could do.

They was so far away from them, he was just swimming. But like even if the boat tried to get to him and he was already underwater by then. It's just so graphic you saw. Even by the shark, the last thing I would do was like, I got to recall. No, I mean, for the family. For the family having to, like now this video is out

for everybody in the whole wide world of this man can eat in a lot like it people just have no good look guys like 22 23 years old it's so sad oh my god sorry I know we went to just such a terrible yeah it is but yeah that's that holds some marine thing and then that happened in Egypt. Like, it's, that's terrifying. Absolutely. You're wonderful. I'm gonna comment. Okay.

What do the story is? Stay out of the ocean. Let me ask you. Let me ask you one last question from the fans because I think this is a good one that a lot of people will relate to you. This is from at sunny zero, zero, zero. How do you deal with stress and anxiety? Oh my gosh.

I obsess and I harp and I tell my mom, I need to obsess over this. And I talk about it in circles over and over and over until I'm like, okay, I've exhausted myself. I also love a good bath. I love a good, like, rerun of housewives. I think I could, I bought an Nintendo Switch. Yeah.

I don't know if any of these are healthy ways to cope with anxiety or stress. What a waste for you. My mind off of course. Yeah, whatever works. Anything that's like lighthearted as well. Yeah, like lighthearted TV shows. That's a sort of friends.

Yeah. Or some signfelves. I like, I have to do that too. I have to watch something that like, we'll take my mind off of doing that. You have an over thinker. Do you have any pointers? Yes, for her not to get into her head about things.

She's talking about to me. It gets in her head about everything. And it's, it's, it's, it's, it's the point. What I'm not going to do is you too. Yeah. I think you have to allow her to vent to you. Yes.

And she has to say, I'm going to obsess over this for the next 20 minutes. I'm going to say everything that she has to say, I'm going to obsess over this for the next 20 minutes. I'm going to say everything that I want to say, obsess, you have to feed into it. And then when the 20 minutes is over, you have to then have, you have a relationship with God, Britt. At that point in time when it's over, you punt it off to him. He'll take it on. Yeah, I'm just such a over time. You have to allow her to obsess. Yeah. She's to be able to vocalize that. That's true. That's true. That's true. And I, because I, I'm, and I'm just such a over-the-cure life. You have to allow her to obsess. She's to be able to vocalize that. That's true. That's true.

And I'm such the opposite of this. I don't care what other. I have too much going on. This life is very short. This is a very short life. We don't have the time to obsess about what somebody in Ohio cares and says to you about the comment. But that's you and the day that you chose to get married to someone, you no longer have

the luxury of just dealing with things the way you want to get married to someone, you no longer have the luxury of just dealing with things the way you want to deal with them. I agree, I agree, that's why I'm asking you. Which is why I'll never get married. That's why I'm asking because we are so different in that. And it's just so like, I can't, I have a hard time seeing like, why are you letting this bother you?

I'm just using that as an example as somebody from Ohio leaving a comment in your thing. Yeah. But there's many things that you get in your head about. Yeah. And in my head, I'm seeing like, why are you letting this bother you? I'm just using that as an example as somebody from Ohio leaving a comment in your thing. Yeah. But there's many things that you get in your head about. Which, in my head, I'm always like, just you see these incidents, the summary, and the guy getting by shark. Life is so precious and so short.

We are here for a good time, not a long time. So. Did you just quote Drake? Is that a great song? It is. It is? Totally, and I love it. You know, I don't even listen.

I know, that's a shock right now. Feel that also you have to be better about you have to allow because sometimes you see things that you don't mean to see. Like me I try to avoid the comments. They do. But there's times where I'm just like a robot and I go into them and I'm like oh my gosh I just read the most horrific things about myself. You have to try to be proactive when it comes to like I know that reading comments affects me. I know that the explore page affects me so I'm going to try to be proactive when it comes to like, I know that reading comments affects me.

I know that the explore page affects me. So I'm going to try to avoid it. Yeah. But in the off chance that I just go into it out of just being robotic, then you, Jack, have to allow her to vent because my mom lets me vent. That's so true.

I just hate it that when sometimes you bring it, like you bring your work home with you, you ever heard of the next person, some people just bring their work home, they don't check out. Sometimes you'll do that and you'll I just got into a therapy I'm just and again, I'm just trying to help asking other people. Yeah, how to deal with this because it's good It's it can be a problem. It's stress and anxiety. Yeah, it stresses the number one killer It's the number one killer. So I really don't want you to go anywhere anytime soon.

So I like, how do we fix these issues? Because it can be a problem. I think it's just hard with what we do that we get judged 24, seven. And sometimes I can't like, I'm such a people pleaser and I like positive. And like I try to be positive all the time. So when it doesn't go that way, it like really affects me.

But at the end of the day, we did put know why. We did put ourselves in this position. No, I know. I know. Nobody put a gun to our head to do this. A normal person. And I'm very grateful for the life and everything that I have. And I want you to say the way that you are,

because you're soft in your tender. I think that it could go the other way where I feel more hardened. Like I feel like I have armor up at all times. And anyone who wants to come for me I'm ready to like slit. Well, like I love the way you are. Thank you. You have to allow her in order to keep her this way and not heartened and going insane to talk to you about things. Therapist Lala. No, that's why I'm asking because because my life is no, it's

No, because there's like, you know, there's things that are, there's projects that we're working on again and I just don't want to see you go down into that rabbit hole again, you know, because it could be dangerous and it's like, you need to learn. You've played the common section. Oh yeah.

I always try to tell her that, but it's hard to do sometimes. Sometimes you're, and I'll send you, find yourself in a comment here, like, why am I reading this? You know, I know. And I think something that I do, like, I will think about it for a while,

and then all of a sudden, then something will click and me, where I'm like, why do I care about this? But it's like, it takes me a minute to get there. But I think that's why it's important that he allows you to upset. Yeah, because then as the word start coming out, you're like, why do I care about this?

Yeah, exactly. And you're over it. Exactly. Okay, one last question. I keep saying one last question, but for real, one last question this time. What, this is from at 16 and queen. What's the biggest misconception people have about you, Lala?

That's a good question. Oh my gosh. Oh, I mean, what do you think? Because you're watching me on TV and you also know me. What do you think is the most important thing? Yes. Well, that's such a hard one to answer for yourself. It is.

We were talking about this with your mom earlier too, but I think, because I always see like in the course, we're going back to talking about the freaking comments, but like if I post something with you or something, sometimes I'll see people being like, she's mean or she's a bully or something like that. And I think it's just because you are so tough and you have such a quick wit and like stuff like that. So it's easy for you to like hit on where it hurts. Right.

But I don't think people realize like how big of a heart you have and how much love you have for everybody. And like how good of a friend and how like devoted you are to like your family and your friends. Yeah, well thank you for saying that. I think that that's something that people need to know because it makes me so mad. I'm always like, she's not a bull.

Like I've been like, I want to scream at them. I'm like, she's not a bully. Like you just, they just people just see what's on TV and just automatically think that's how you are all the time. And it's just so about how you are. I think I'm tough and I think I'm vocal and strong and people want to use the wrong words. They want to say that I'm angry or I'm bitter.

I'm a bully and it's like, okay, I think what you're meaning to say is tough, strong, vocal, up and divided. Those words definitely. And everyone wants to slam my mouth and the way it works until my mouth is what's defending you. Exactly. And you really, really like it. That is so true. And also, Lala is hilarious. I don't know. Like she makes me laugh so, so, so much. I mean, she can just look at me and make me laugh. I can't even look at her right now. So I just like, you know what, if you work like how you are even look at her right now. So I just, like, can't even need to be that guy.

I know what, if you weren't like how you are, people would give the ladder. They'd say, you're weak in this. You should stick up for yourself in this sense. So it's like you can't win. I do and win. You honestly, if it would be the same, you know. You can't win with people.

You're never gonna win. And that's why as long as I can go home and be like, you know what, I'm really proud of myself today. We need some mistakes, but we'll try better tomorrow than I'm all good. That's a perfect way to end this, like as long as you're happy with yourself and you're doing right by you,

who the F cares. Right, very interesting. We're trying to care about all that. We have so much going on, we're raising a family, we're starting businesses doing this. Like, I look at it a lot different than you guys, but you said it right.

Just as long as you're happy with yourself and you can go to bed at night and say, you know what, today was a good day. I'm happy with today. That's how you can ask. Absolutely. I agree with that. All right. This is a really good podcast guys. Oh, thank you. We're having fun. Anytime that you want. I love you so much. Thanks for coming on today. We really appreciate it. Everybody go buy your Senate to Darryl Birch and give them all. Yes. Get a some shop. Lala Ken.com and not ed C. Yes. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Okay. I got to say one more thing because I saw your story We were like people are doing the same font the same everything like that drives me crazy like can you believe that Peter Madrigal came out with the number one guy in the group

That's like me coming out with a send it to Darryl Yeah, you be like with ascendantidaryle.com. And you'd be like, not. Sometimes I think Peter lives on planet Peter. Oh, like you literally, I feel like you didn't even think about it. No, like literally you don't even,

you just let things like, as you're like, but it's Peter. I know, I know, it's like, I feel bad, I feel bad. I know, but it still, it irks me a little bit. Let Peter be the number one guy in the group. All right, he's like the human version of the word Satch Like he's so trying to make it happen. Oh still has not. Oh

Poor Peter. Did he get to bring you guys drinks or anything this reunion? I don't remember. No, he didn't It wasn't a toasty moon. Yeah, that's very true. It's not like you guys are like cheers for kill Oh my god, well, I love you. Well, thank you so much for coming by. Thanks for coming by, Enlisa too. Yes, we love you guys. You all mean the world to us, and we love you so so much. Thanks for listening to In Reality Hits with Jackson Brittney. We'll see you next week guys. Love you all, bye.

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