When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany - Parties, Private Jets & Celebrity Secrets with Lindsay Luv

Episode Date: December 26, 2025

Brittany welcomes longtime friend and celebrity DJ Lindsay Luv for a hilarious, jaw-dropping trip through her wild career — from DJing the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show in Paris and spinning at the Playboy Mansion, to unforgettable nights in Dubai, celebrity run-ins, the nicest (and rudest!) stars she’s met, and the girls’ Vegas trip that turned into a manifestation moment. They reminisce about MySpace days, backstage chaos, and what really happens behind the DJ booth when the party goes off.Please support the show by checking out our sponsors!Quince: Go to Quince.com/realityhits for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns.Apretude: Bring your A-game and talk to your doctor. Learn more at APRETUDE.com or call 1-888-240-0340.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

All right. Hello, everybody, and welcome back to another episode of When Reality Hits. I've got my girl on for the first time ever, Miss Lindsay Love. Hey, girl, hey. I'm so excited to have you on. I can't wait to hear all of your fabulous stories. I'm so excited to be with Queen Bee on the microphone, one, two, one, two. So we've been friends for a long time.

Like, how many years now? Like seven? Yeah, like seven years. I want you to tell everybody a little bit about what you do. Okay, well, what don't I do, right? Yeah, we're queen of all trades. Yeah. We're not a jack-and-on.

Okay, so I am a DJ. I've been a DJ for a really long time. That's probably like the big. extent of my career has been DJing, more like a celebrity DJ type situation. And then I started in events. I kind of worked into DJing. And then from there, now I DJs still, but I also own a events agency. So I've had the pleasure of running a few events for some of your castmates and all the things. And for me. And for you. Yes, girl. Lindsay love creative. Yes. Right. Yes. Shout it out. Shout it out. Yeah. And you always do amazing. So I thank you for that.

you have had a very like crazy life i feel like compared to most people but you are married with two beautiful kids london and hayes they're absolutely beautiful gorgeous kids and so sweet how long have you been married to kevin oh god 13 years you've been married for we have been married we have been married we're 13 years together 16 years together 16 years together 13 years married maybe getting that wrong but pretty sure i'm right don't tell them you got i'm pretty sure i don't tell. I know we've been together forever. Yeah, you guys are like one of my very favorite couples in L.A. You guys are perfect for each other and I, yeah, I just love your family. Thank you. Okay. So I met Lindsay about seven years ago. So I think a lot of people probably don't know this,

but the reason, like, that I know you is through Jesse and Michelle. Yes. Okay. But you met Jesse far before he ever moved to L.A. We're talking about Jesse from the Valley, obviously, and Michelle from the Valley. Yes. Yes. Okay, so can you tell us how you know Jesse Lally? Oh, my gosh.

Jesse and I go back to his most epic era, which would probably be like the trim spa guy liner era. I like to call it. A lot of people don't know that Jesse was actually like a rock and roller in his New York days. So he like didn't have the loafers yet. There was no loafers. There was no coppree.

He was rock and roll Jesse in, like east side of New York City. We both lived in Manhattan. And Jesse was like a diehard party guy like me at the time. I was throwing events and then DJing events and all the things. And Jesse and I would either run into each other at the club. He came to a lot of my DJ sets. And we just became like good friends.

I had a lot. I have like a very, I won't say have like a masculine energy, but I have a lot of guy friends. Yeah. Like, you know, like I just like, I like fun girls. I like strong guys. And like Jesse was just always a really good time. especially in the nightlife scene. Yeah, he has fun.

Yeah, and then when I moved to L.A., he moved here before me, I think, a little bit before me. But then when I moved to L.A., he would actually come see me. I had a residency at Sky Bar at the Mondrian. During the most girl, the stories. The stories are going to love this. Oh, yeah.

I can't wait. I want to know all the stories. I was DJing at the Mondrian. I had a residency every Saturday night, the Sky Bar, and Jesse would roll up quite often, as a matter of fact. And he would just, like, rock it out of the DJ booth. He would rock it out of the DJ booth. He would have, like, such a good time.

And then, lo and behold, he met, he meets Michelle, right? Yes, yeah. Michelle Saniye. How do you say? I always butcher her last name. Sorry, sorry, Michelle. But anyways, he met Michelle, and they came to me together and said, we have something

you're proposed to you. And this is something I did not do. Like, I was doing all the nightclubs. Yeah. I was touring all over the world. I was doing, like, celebrity gigs and so forth. I always said I would not DJ a wedding. I was like, die hard.

I don't want to be there on somebody's most important night of their life. It's too much pressure. Yeah. But Jesse came to me. He's like, you know, I've always come to your gig. I love your music. I'm not going to be a Bridezilla. This is Jesse, of course, not Michelle. We know she wouldn't be the Bridezilla. But he was like... I love that Jesse said he wouldn't be a bridez. Yeah, yeah, pretty much. That's hilarious. And so they were like, would you DJer a wedding? So I got hired

by Jesse, my good friend Jesse and Michelle, and I DJed their wedding in Napa. I love it. And let me tell you something, girl, they were hilarious because their music taste could not be less aligned. I don't know if... I've never said this back to them, but I found it hilarious. Like, Jesse, you could tell their age difference and they're not like crazy age difference but he's like about what 10 years older than her? Yeah. You could see that because he would come to me

to be like I just want to like get back to the club like I want sandstorm I want like 2000s club hits I want to hit it hard on the dance floor and like that's what I want like obviously I'm going to deliver that and then Michelle would come to you and be like I'm really feeling like you know

old school like New York New York Frank Sinatra vibes and like the Gypsy Kings And I'm like, you guys are so far off from each other. Like, I don't even know how to put this set together. So you had to do like back and forth. Girl, so we ended up agreeing that we would do her type. It was kind of their joint.

Like, for the dinner, we would have the like old school high end, classy New York, Frank Sinatra vibes. Yeah. And then we would like move into pure chaos, Jesse on the dance floor, ripping it up, which he did at his wedding. And then we would like randomly throw in Bombolayo by Gypsy. Kings and she would have like her moments with her family and so forth. Yeah. So we had, I forget what their song was like their first day. Anyways, lo and behold, it was a great night. It was beautiful. It was at a vineyard in Napa. We had a blast. Yeah. And then soon after I met you guys, which actually was like maybe at their baby shower. I think it might have been at the baby shower. I met some of the

crew way before. I actually had DJed for Lisa at Sir. Oh, wow. I mean, I've had a really wild career. So I like, I've run across, you know, there's people in the Bravoverse and I forget that I, like, I've known Lindsay Hubbard for a thousand years. Yeah. So there's just like all these weird connections. A lot of these people were... LA is so much smaller than people think. And the world too.

Like you were in New York. That's whenever you met Jesse. Yes. And so, okay, have you whenever... Because Jesse was like doing his modeling thing. Yes. Oh, I knew him during the trim spot. Jacks was doing his modeling thing.

Did you meet Jacks back in the day? Okay. So this is a funny story. So I never actually met Jacks in person. Okay. But Jacks definitely was in my like DMs at one point on MySpace. I was like a Myspace. Girl, I was like a MySpace queen. I'm not kidding. I was too back. I was way bigger on MySpace. That was like the thing. Yes, just to clarify my Instagram has never reached the levels I was at MySpace. I was like stopped on the street. Are you Lindsay? Do you remember what your first MySpace song was? Because you know your page had a song, which I loved that about MySpace. It's funny because I loved that about my space. It's funny because I loved that about a lot too. But I don't know if I remembered about my husband, but I don't know if I remember it about myself. So like I remember the first song I saw on his page. But like my page was always changing because I was a DJ. So I was like. I changed about a lot too. But I changed about a lot too. But I. But I changed about a lot too. But I. But I. But I changed about it. But I. But I. But I I think that my very first song was, I'm conceded, I got a reason.

This is very embass. You know the song? Yeah. This is very I'm very much. I'm not too good to me. I don't really much right now, but still. I'm not to DJ your whole life for you. Like, I know you well enough to be like, this is the soundtrack for Britney's life.

Yeah. Okay. Okay. Actually, the curveball here. If you did have to DJ my life, what kind of songs would you put in? It would be like all the jams. Like, I don't know. I'd have to think about that, but there would definitely be like some fat Joe.

Like, I just feel like it would just be like all the. you know, like the throwbacks, like a little bit of like the grindy kind of R&B-ish, but then also like the full party hits too. Yes, yeah. I feel like that's where I'd go with you. It'd be a lot of like Little Wayne, Nikki Minaj. Yes, yes, yes. But now Cardi B.

Yes, yeah, okay, yes. But also throw in some country, Miranda Lambert, you know, like I go back and forth. Yeah, but I feel like you generally swing like Little John. Like that's kind of like your... 3LW Radio is like what I always put on TLC, like all the throwbacks. and then, like, just let it play. Yes, 100%. And it's so good.

This is exactly where I'd go with you for sure. Oh, my God. That cracks me up that Jackson was in your DMs on MySpace. I don't know that it was like anything. I don't remember. It was nothing with nothing. It could have just been like a connection. I don't know that it was anything like sorted or weird.

But still, that's funny. But I never met him. Like, I just never met him. And that was it. But then I do have a funny story. I DJed at, um, at, um, at, um, at, um, at, um, sir. I DJed at Sir. So I went up to the bar before my DJ said and I, like, asked for a car.

and I, like, asked for a cocktail or something. And I, like, knew it was him, obviously. Yeah. But it wasn't so much based on the show. I just, like, remember it. Oh, that was Jesse's roommate or what. It wasn't, like, in a fan way. And I'm also there as a talent.

It wasn't like I was some weirdo that. I was, like, just, like, getting a drink before my set. And I was like, hey, and I was like, I feel like I know you. And he goes, I will never forget, girl. I don't know if I ever told you that. Jack's looks to me. He goes, everybody comes here and feels like they know me. Oh, what?

That's exactly what he said to me verbatim. And I was like, okay, I'll take my martini now. And I just, like, walked off. I was like, I was like, I'm like, I do think he knows who I am. Like, I think he was just being, yeah, I guess whatever at the moment. But like, he's been cool since it's fine. But like, it was just funny because I just was like, everybody thinks they know me. It was such an LA line.

And I was just like, okay, you know. Oh, my God. That is hilarious. So that's my story. Oh, gosh. Okay. So obviously, lots of connections around through all of us. What would you say was your favorite DJ gig that you ever had?

I mean, probably the most iconic one that people like to talk about a lot. I DJed the Victoria's Secret fashion show in Paris. Which is awesome. In Paris, too. Yes. It was the most, I did a lot. So I was kind of known, I don't know if you even know this. I was kind of known as their turntable goddess during their most kind of like, not

that they're still around, but like their most iconic time period really. So I was doing all the events of Victoria Secret. and I remember, like, they were doing the show in Paris, and I had done so much for them. And I kind of said to the woman, I was like, what if I, like, DJ, the show in the party, whatever? And I just kind of put it out there thinking they're going to go with, like, Tiesto or somebody ridiculous, you know? Like, I had a pretty big thing going, but it was not, like, on that, what I, I didn't know what scale it was going to be on. And she just looked at me, she's like, that's a great idea. And then they hired me.

And I, it was me, the green room. I'm not kidding. It was me, Lady Gaga, Bruno Mars, and the weekend. What? my own green room right next to them and funny enough that is amazing it was amazing and it was in the grand palais so like it's this place where like nobody ever gets a performer have anything happen yeah so they got this crazy permit to like basically have the show in one of the most iconic places in paris probably in the world and i was like this is the most and we flew i think it was

mark cuban's private plane what i got to sit on the plane i was with every angel it was like every angel every um it was like god i mean everybody was on the flight so we took took a private jet and we went and I played in the Grand Palais and it was so iconic. So anyways, the weekend in Bruno Mars, they were kind of doing their thing. But Gaga is actually, her trumpet player is like a really good friend of mine because we all kind of came up together. Yeah. Like Gaga used to be at all the, you know, dive bars and stuff when I was in New York. So we had run across each other multiple times, but we had never like fully connected. So I'm like, hey, aren't you Brian's God, the god mother of his child, her trumpet player that she was doing

all this stuff with Tony Bennett? And she's like, oh my God, girl. We hit it. off we were like thickest thieves within five minutes she was amazing and i'm going to give you one really good story lady gaga is the classiest favorite celebrity because she bought every single person arose for that show everybody on the step like everybody that worked the show she's just like a total class act she's such a love so we have the best time that i mean yeah uh lady gaga actually has been a fan of like vanderpumper rules and stuff over the days and like she was at pump one time and i didn't get to meet her but she was at pump one time and lisa vanderpump calls jacks and he's like um he was at sir and she was like i'm having dinner with lady gaw

at pump she wants to meet you so jacks went down to meet lady gaga oh my god it was like right when i got my boobs done and jack says which i take everything by a grain or something not going to lie that she was like can i see her boob job and showed a pitch because it was like right when i got my job on the show like 10 years ago yeah and he shot a picture of my babes no seriously i mean that's how the story she's a lucky lady we'll see we'll see if that's true if lady gong ever hears this she was so rad it was super kind then we dad like the after party went all night everybody was there i mean it was like crazy so that was probably like one of the more iconic ones yeah and i was in paris for a week i mean they were rehearsing so i was just puttsing around

paris the grand um it was like the hotel a tonne put me up for a week for free i mean it was wild. It was a really good time. That is awesome. I was going to ask you what would be your favorite place that you got to travel. Is that what it would be? No, no. I actually, you got more? You got better one? I got a better one. I used to DJ in Dubai a few times. So I got to, you're going to love this. I went for New Year's Eve and I played in the large, it's the tallest building in the world. It's in the Burj Khalifa. Yeah. The Armani Privy Hotel is within there. And the Armani Privy Club is within that. So I got out of the, I mean, I literally flew. I used to fly around the world internationally like touring alone. Yeah. And I would go to weird. I would go to like the most random places. alone as a single woman like at the time it was like before you met Kevin yeah it's definitely during my like crazy area you know yeah and I would just get out to play in these random places like across the world alone just like I have no idea what's happening here but I got out and I had

like a team of like I think it was like seven people that were just tending to me and I was like staying in the I had a five bedroom suite and like it was why I went like sex in the city it was insane yeah it was insane and I played at the Armani Privae club inside the birch Khalifa on New Year's Eve and then wait for it I got upgraded on my flight home to business class and I knew somebody whose dad was like owner of Emirates so he upgrades me how do you know all these random people my I feel like you know somebody but you know it's mainly because like we live in places like New York and L.A. Yeah. You don't you the randomness of people you come across. Yeah. Yeah. So they um he upgrades my my flights. So I'm in like the top business class on those Emirates flights

which are like ridiculously expensive and I'm sitting next to Kendall Jenner, LMFAA because we're all coming out of New Year's in Dubai. So LMFEO Rocks comes on the plane and they're covered in. They have lipstick kisses all over their face. And you know, it's a very conservative country. So I'm like, how did they even get through the airport like this? Yeah. And then we proceeded.

It's an 18 hour flight, longest flight in the world, home to L.A. Yeah. And we proceeded to just party. They have that little bar on the flight. And we all just parted the entire flight home. I had Polaroids with them. It was like the wildest. The flight was almost more fun than the actual gigs in Dubai because it was like, what is

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was like pods. Oh yeah. So she basically just like shut her door and like slept for 90% of that. I mean you saw her and she was fine. But like she was not like down with the, you know, down with the program really. Like she wasn't trying to party. Yeah. Like LFO, we were like wearing the Emirates people's outfits at one point.

We were like on the bar taking Polaroids. Like it was wild. I'm going to show you sometimes. Oh my gosh. I've met Chloe Kardashian at the MTV Awards because we were up, Fander Pump Rules was up for an award and the Kardashians were up for an award. The Kardashians won and Chloe came to our table. And she was just like, I love your show.

You guys would have won if it was up to me. And, like, was just so freaking nice and amazing. Like, I think Chloe. Does it trip you out when, like, because, like, I feel like that would trip me out. Does it trip you out when people are, like, already kind of fans of yours? And you're like, wait, like, I've been a fan of you forever. But you're like my fan. This is like so true.

No, it's wild. It's very wild to hear that people like watch the show, like Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, Rihanna, like all these different people. And it's just like, it blows my mind. I was, Zach was on the pod Not that long ago And I was telling him that I was at catch one night And ASEF Rocky was there

And I was this close To going over to him and say Hi, I'm on the Valley I know that Rihanna watches the show But I was scared that he would think I was a complete weirdo I mean it's like you don't know how it'd be received They'd be like so excited And be like we're facetiving her right now

Or they could be like okay bitch Like leave me alone I feel like you and Kristen are like Oh geez like you would definitely get a good response I know but I just I was too scared But I love, like, Rihanna. Like, she's talked about it on the carpets and everything else. I DJed for her.

She's amazing. Why? She's very, very lovely, very nice, like, really down to earth. Oh, I feel like she would be so fun to hang out with. Yeah. And just, I don't know. I just think that she would be an amazing person. Like, I respect her so much.

Like, she's a great mom. She, you know, like, has her private, like, family life. And I love that. Yeah. And she just, like, pops out pregnant and it's just, like, so cute. Like, that's how she announces to the world that she's, you know, pregnant. again, I think it's awesome. I feel like kind of the thing, like the people you think they are in a lot of

ways is kind of true. Like not like the all the inner working for the personality, but like if they seem nice and like a good, like a lot of times they actually are that when you meet them. Yeah. And if they seem a little, you know, you might actually find when you meet them that it's kind of disappointing. Yeah. At least that's my experience. Well, one time I worked, because whenever I first moved to L.A., I worked for a catering company that also, so it'd be like catering bartenders, but they would hire like models and stuff. So like different stuff. So like different stuff. It was whenever I very first moved here, wasn't making money very much on VaynerPump

Rules or anything like that. So I was still working at Hooters. I was still working at the catering company. And I worked a Playboy Mansion party. Oh, wait, I teach you to the Playboy Mansion. You did? My first gig in LA.

Of course you did. And it was during when he was alive. Yeah, he was alive. Yes, girl. What if it was like the same one that I did? Oh, my God. So we all had to wear like these baby blue doll baby dresses.

Okay. like, blonde wigs that were short with, like, cut bangs. So, like, all the servers and stuff of the VIP did that. So I had Justin Bieber and Kelly Jenner. Oh, my gosh. At my VIP station. I had just moved to L.A. And I was like, oh, my gosh.

And I just remember I had to go up to them and ask them if they wanted a drink. I don't even know if Kylie was 21 yet. She probably wasn't. Yeah, I know. So I was just like, do you guys want anything to drink? And I couldn't hear, or I guess Kylie couldn't hear what I said. so Justin had to like, Justin freaking Bieber had to, like, tell Kylie what I said. Oh, my God.

It was my accent or if they just couldn't hear it because of the party. Yeah. But, like, it's just so funny, like, how you had these, like, random encounters. But everybody was nice. Like, it was nothing. It was just, you know, but it was just something, a fun memory. Playboy Mansion. So my very first day that I moved to L.A., Kevin picks me up at the airport.

So we were, like, dating long distance for a year. Uh-huh. He picks me up at the airport. And I'm, like, moving from New York, leaving my whole life behind, mainly for love. Like, literally. And I had a residency offer. It wasn't just, I mean, I'll be honest. I didn't have work.

I did have work. I did have a job. Yes, that too. But anyways, he's like, had to pick me up. And then I was like, I got to gig at the Playboy Mansion. This is like, what is more iconic than moving to L.A. in the same day that you move across the country, you DJ at the playboy. Like, there's nothing more L.A. than that.

That's awesome. So all I remember about that night, two really good things. Vern Troir, this is during when he, rest in peace. He was alive and he was, he had a shoulder guy. So he would ride on somebody's shoulders around the party. Like, it was crazy because he was so little. Oh, yeah. He would, like, ride on some, and he would ride by every five seconds.

He just, like, give me a high five in the booth, which I thought was so iconic. And then, like, obviously, Heff was alive. Yeah. Because he was, like, 2013. So he was alive. And then he was really cool. He came out for a little while. And then the zoo, all the animals were in heat.

So, like, I was having a really hard time DJing because, like, all the monkeys and stuff were, like, you know, they were, like, raging in their cages. And I, like, couldn't hear what I was mixing. So I just kept getting, like, so paranoid, like, this set must suck. Like, I can't hear anything. It was, like, I can't hear anything. It was like a crazy, it was literally a zoo. And, girl, I was coming from New York.

So I was like, I'm going to dress sexy tonight. So I, like, got this really cute what I thought was a really cute little black dress. Yeah. I show up. I might as well look like a nun. Okay. Because I was wearing so much clothing. Like, this little black dress might have as well been like an entire snowsuit.

Like, everyone is completely naked. I was like, whoa, what did I just walk into? Like this little New Yorker who's in like her little black dress and her little boots. I have to find a picture because I literally look like I'm like in a full park out. Oh my God. I love it so much. Okay. So you've met a lot of celebrities, obviously. Let me know who has been the rudest. Oh, that's easy. Really? It's easy. Yeah. I just stands out. And you know, it sucks because I actually like, I really, I hate to do it because I really do like strong women. And there's something about her that I do respect. So I say this with a grain of salt. I think it's like weird because it's a double-sided thing. I'm just prefacing this. I think part of her persona is that she is this way. Okay. I'm trying to guess if it can possibly be. Okay. She is a reality person. Oh, no. Okay. She's not in, I don't know if she's actually, I don't know if she's in your universe. Patty Stanger was rough.

Oh, really? And I was really disappointed because I really liked her and I was DJing a gig for her. And she just, it was like, it was like, I was like a leper. And it was so funny because, again, I'm around celebrities a lot. I'm going to be honest with you, 99% of the time. There's very few that I get like, if it's Brad Pitt, I'm like real excited. Yeah. But like there's not that many that I'm like freaking out in turn.

And again, I'm playing it cool. You know, I'm freaking out internally. Yeah. So it wasn't like I was fan girling or anything. but the event producer was like can we get a picture of you and Lindsay the DJ together so it wasn't like I even asked her for photo she could not be

so disgusted to have to she was like looked like she was like I was a leopard next to her and was so rude and was just not friendly and I was like ooh I met actually I met Patty before I met her at the show that Kristen did she did a show the goat

or whatever that she did yeah the goat I met her there and she was just so nice to me see I think in the right context. And again, like, but you know, when you get that impression from somebody, it's hard to shake it. I had a similar one. Oh, God. Tell me, tell me, tell me all the team. I'm another, like, Nick Vial, I DJed an event, or Vial or whatever it is. I did an event for Lucky Brand. And he was like, I'm the DJ for, I did a million parties for Lucky. And he was like the

talent. You know, this is during his heyday. Yeah, like, and he had the same kind of like, they did the same thing because this happens a lot because I also, I like had some semblance of a, you know, career and so on. So they're like, want pictures of me. they want pictures of him and obviously they're on another level at that time he's like the bachelor whatever it is yeah but it's like they'll a lot of times the client will be like can you two take a picture together yeah and it's like I'm not fanning over you like I don't care you know like and he also had a very similar kind of like weird I was like very nice and I was DJing a lot of bachelor events too yeah so I'm at this thing and it's like all right dude like you know come on like

just like the picture's so awkward if I could find it he's just like eh like you know it's like Okay. So I have kind of a similar story with Nick Bile. Like, it was an opening for a Pendry Hotel. I can't remember which city we were in. Maybe San Diego. It was, San Diego. It was somewhere, like, close by, but, like, in California.

Yeah. So, Jackson and I were there. This was, like, in the beginning. And Nick was there. But so Nick at the time was still The Bachelor. So he wasn't supposed to be seen with who had won. Okay. the bachelor yet because it was still going at that time okay and i think it was Vanessa right

i don't even remember yes yeah you have a bunch of runs yeah so um she was there too but like they weren't supposed to be seen publicly together and stuff so jacks because my mom loves the bachelor he like asked if he would take a photo with me or something like that and nick said no and every since then jacks has despised him and it was just like a weird thing and nick has asked me to come on their podcast because they have a really great podcast. That does really well. And he's asked me multiple times to come on. I've always turned it down because I always had this like bad taste in my mouth from way back then. Well, I saw him at BravoCon. Okay. Did you tell him? Yeah. I talked to. What is that? Yeah. I think it needs some redemption here. Like maybe for everybody. Yeah. So I saw Nick at

BravoCon and we like talked about it for a second and I was like um you know I was like you know that night just really left a bad taste in his mouth and he just really didn't want to have anything to do with you and all this stuff and you know and Nick was kind of like explaining himself like I wasn't allowed to be like seen out and this and that and blah blah blah so we kind of like I think he takes the rules too seriously like I think that's what it was like his beginning of everything that was way that I think maybe that's why he didn't even want to take a picture me like he had like weird rules in his head like I shouldn't with a girl or like I don't have been I don't know I actually would interesting I don't listen I mean other than you of course I don't

listen to a million podcasts but I did listen to his ones and I was like God he's really well spoken like I feel like he's actually an interesting guy who has interesting things to say so like I'm not holding on to that one and now he's married with a kid yeah like everybody deserves like an art you know and I told him I was like I am single now like I have my own thoughts my own everything and I know that like Kristen and Luke really like Nick and everything so and I told him he was like so does that mean you'll come on the podcast now and I was like maybe we'll see probably yeah I feel like I should like try to ask him to come on mine so I could talk about this with him and then I'll go okay I think that's a smart good good move girl I like he did really impress me and he was very nice and very kind and you know it was good to see him maybe he's just overthinking the rules like I'm not going to you know like I feel like he could be that guy yeah so like I kind of understand that new fans you know it was good maybe he's just overthinking the rules like I'm not going to you know like I was in the very beginning stages so like I kind of understand that new fame confusing I guess yeah yeah like and also he probably would have got in trouble if he was seen out with yeah I also forget like I'm a DJ but I'm like a girl and I you know you are a certain way so maybe in his mind at the time this is like in the era of him with all this batch of stuff

maybe he's like I don't want to be photographed for this random girl but that is funny because I had a similar experience but yeah he did kind of he did redeem himself oh we match so we'll see we'll see how that goes most people are nice I mean I like there's like a lot of rap you would love all the rappers I've had I've had bust you know I would love all the I have Buster Rhymes in the DJ booth. I actually one time DJed and Noss stood up and goes, yo, white girl could DJ. I swear to God. Kevin was there for that.

And I was like, this is the greatest moment of my life. That is amazing. Yeah, I've actually DJed for a lot of like rappers and just like different people on that and that's always just like really, really fun. That is so cool. Yeah. God, I love your stories. Oh my gosh. Okay. And also remember you set up

this amazing trip that me, you and Kristen went on to Vegas. Oh my God, girls trip to Vegas. It was always a good idea. Always a great idea. We stayed in the cutest hotel room. We did all these, like, different fun things. It was a whole experience. Kristen was, like, trying to get pregnant at that time.

Oh, I know. She was like, I don't know what's going to happen. So that was crazy. She's drinking, like, fake shots. Yeah. Because she just didn't know. It was like water shots. Yeah.

She was doing water shots because she was like, I hope that I'm pregnant, but I don't know. I know. And, of course, like a month later, we found out that she was pregnant with Kai. I actually feel like we were there for like, it's inception. Like, like, basically we almost got her pregnant. Like, I don't know what happened. But, like, we were very close to the fire there. I was very excited.

I feel like we made that happen. We manifested that shit on the plane for sure. It was so fun. That was so fun. Yeah, we did. It was for life is beautiful for the big Vegas festival. And we, yeah, we went to the festival. We saw, who do we say?

It was like, it was like, justice. I don't know what? LCD sound system. It was really good. You were like, I didn't know anybody. You were there for a job. I was like, I was like so excited because it was like, I'm a DJ and I was just like, oh, I knew all the DJs and you were just like, great, Lindsay. It's great. I'm like, we stayed in a six suite at the palms. A six suite. And, you know, that was the, that was for my agency. So that's like the stuff that I do with work. It was so fun. Yeah. But it was so fun. I had a great time. Yeah, that was a great time. And, you know, like Marciano is all over the news right now for all of like the. That was the first I ever met him. Yeah. We met him in Vegas. Because he and Manchina used to be super close. So like I met him at Sheena's house a couple of. times. So when we were in Vegas, he, like, came and met up with us, like, the pool or whatever

for that day. I appreciate it. I'm an Italian girl. Like, I'm an Italian girl. So, like, for me, Marciano, so, like, I've DJed with Pauly D before, and I swear to God, Marciano gives me, like, little Seedling vibes of, like, he's just, like, a little Pauly D in him or something. There's just that waxy, you know, just Italiano. Like, he could be my cousin. Like, I have a little heart for him. Like, I do love him. He's like a nice. He's, like, a nice fun. Yeah, he was very, very nice. He was very sweet. But now he's, like, in the public eye right now because of all the Mormons. I can't follow because I don't watch the show, but it's wild.

I know. I don't know much about it either. I just watch the memes try to figure it out. Like, what's happening? It just cracks me up because I'm like, wait, Marciano Marciano. Like this is what's happening right now? Like what's going on? He's trying to DJ too.

I think he just like started dabbling or whatnot. Maybe I'll be in the booth of Marciano soon up will be thrown down. That'll be another one. You'll be like, I remember meeting you whenever we were in Vegas with Kristen and Brittany. Oh my God. That is brought to you by VEVE Healthcare, the makers of Appritude, Cabotegrivir. You never skip your SPF and you carry hand sanitizer like an accessory. But what are you doing for HIV prevention?

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Bring your A game and talk to your doctor. Learn more at appritude.com or call 1-888-240-0340. Okay, so Lindsay, you have been around. for many years especially like for the Valley so you've been to a lot of stuff that we have filmed what's it like being a friend who like comes to certain parties

and events that we do but you're not like filming filming do you know what I mean like you're just there for like a party yeah I mean like for me obviously my most fun times are really like me you and Kristen got together the other night there's no cameras it's not a huge crowd that's like my favorite thing ever

sometimes you guys invite me to stuff and I don't even know the cameras are there. Like, I'll just be like, well, I'm going to a party and I show up and it's like, oh, this one's being filled. Yeah. So sometimes it's kind of like, not that you like, I think it was somebody that you weren't as close with you'd be telling them. But with me, it's just kind of like you're part of our friend group.

So like, come or whatever. Yeah, yeah. So it never bothers me if you're filming. It's interesting because that's actually kind of complicated because it's like, on one hand, you guys are having drama and half the time I don't even see it. I watch a show when I go, what was I doing? I missed all of this. Like, I'll be like, was that when they were off in the corner?

I think you guys are just like having a little chat and it's like a real chat that makes like waves on the show. Right. So like there's a lot of times where I don't see stuff. There's a lot of times I clock stuff that I just keep to myself and never tell anybody. And then it comes out in the show and I was like, oh, I knew that was coming. Yeah. You know, so it's a very small group. I don't feel like you guys invite a million people to the stuff. So I think it's like a trusting group. You have to trust the people that you have kind of around filming for sure. It's very confusing because I really just kind of like, I don't have a reason not to like anybody right yeah i've never had an issue with anybody per se um but then i watch the show and you see things on the show as a friend that's a true friend in real life you see things and you go huh you know and kevin like kevin is like yeah so low key he doesn't watch reality but i'll pull them and i'll be like well you know i really see what brittany was doing here and i understand what you know i also can understand why chris so it's really like sometimes it's crazy for me because I'll feel like my knowing you guys in real life plus watching you on the show it's like this weird like psycho analyst thing you know where you're like kind of trying to

decipher your feelings on it and then also you sometimes see people in a light that maybe you never see you know in the day to day it's just a very because it's just a very confusing feeling yeah that's a that's a very interesting that's why I wanted to ask you that because I don't think I've ever had anybody on the podcast that's like at a lot of our group of wins, but isn't like a cast member. I'm going to say that I also think, I don't know if everyone's going to like this response, but I think a lot of the, like, I want to call it OGs, like people who have been doing reality TV for a long time, to me, you guys feel the most authentic often on camera, like,

in certain ways. And then sometimes I feel like somebody who's a little newer and it's not that I'm calling them inauthentic. I just think they're a little more aware of that the cameras are there maybe. Sometimes that one's interesting to me because I'll feel like they're just almost seem a little tenser and like they can't even be it's not like they can't be bothered by other people but they're just like eye on the prize like what do I have to do here you know and it's like you guys will just come up to me you'll be you don't even care you're like the cameras are on but I'm going to

see my girl and we're going to chat yeah I'll deal with you when I deal with you yeah to the cameras but the people who are maybe a little newer or like this is their first rodeo they're like okay what's the game what's happening today what's happening around me what do I have to do so it's a very interesting dynamic versus when we're just all hanging out okay so I feel that's an interesting insight right there that is a little little tidbit for you hey yeah we're doing when reality hits i like to give people like the back the background of reality tv like many times you know but i did get to film with you guys this year a little bit because my agency produced a few things yeah for the show so you'll guess maybe you'll see me in a different land yeah we'll see yeah we'll see we have no idea

okay so with christmas coming up okay um and you have two beautiful children thank you so you have one beautiful child yes thank you love it um What are some family traditions that you do every year? Okay, well, I'm Italian. So we do the most. We do the most. There's a lot of seafood. We do the seven fishes.

So the feast of the seven fishes. Girl, I cannot tell you what it's based on. I've watched so much cooking shows recently, and I talk about that so much. Well, the bear, that show the bear, like, really threw it, like, all the way at the top of the list. Well, I've been just watching, like, Chalks and beat Bobby Flay and... It's also having a moment at every restaurant right now.

Like, restaurants are doing Feast of Seven Fish's menus. Yeah. It's having a big moment. So that's really big. I always go to local Italian delis. Like, it has to be seven different fishes. Well, actually, like, some families do 12. Like, my nana was so intense that we would have, like, there would be, like, squid sauce,

clam sauce. There's, like, seven different sauces. And then there's, like, fried smelts. And then there's, like, muscles. And then there's, like, a plate of, like, King Crab. I mean, I know you love King Crab. I do. I love Crag.

I love, yes, yes. I love King Crab, but I actually love Snow Crab better. You were eating it at breakfast in Vegas. I like the taste of snow crab Better than king crab Because it's like sweeter It's a little softer It doesn't have as much meat

But it's a little sweeter Let's briny girl I know my seafood So like that's a big deal I mean Christmas Eve is huge Christmas day is huge We're Italian There's a lot of cash going around There's a lot of presents going around

There's a lot of cousins everywhere So I continue that We do all the seafood with my family Even though my parents moved I'm from Boston And then I lived in New York and now here So my family moved to Laguna So they come up

We do keep with the tradition going with my kids um and i you know i'm such a mom like i'm always making cookies i'm doing gingerbread cookies i'm taking them to meet like 17 different santa's now asking why they all look different oh yeah yeah yeah so you know it's all the things but yeah we're doing the most oh i love that okay who is your favorite celebrity couple oh god okay like oh i kind of enjoy um i love Gwen stephanie and Blake Shelton and I'll tell you like just as a woman like I just love that she maybe this is like I'm going to manifest this a little in your direction okay she kind of like you know the guy just wasn't like fully right there maybe it just didn't work out it wasn't appreciated all of her

fabulosity but she is the most fabulous right she is fabulous and she is now like had her glow up and she's with this guy who just like loves and adores her and I just like as a woman you just love to see that and like he's so talented too like obviously I love country music too So I love me some Blake Sheldon. I also love Miranda Lambert. So that was hard for me at first. Okay, that's fair. Because Miranda Lambert might be like one of my all-time favorite singers.

Okay. But I do love Gwen and Blake together. And I also love that Miranda Lambert married like somebody from her hometown. Yes. Like a hometown sweetheart. Like, you know what I mean? And she's just like in love and he's hot and she's doing great too. So like they're both so happy.

So now I can like get into it more. I love the truth. Travis and Courtney thing a little bit. It's just kind of like, I always had like a weird thing for him. I don't know. I love a drummer. Yeah. He's so cute.

So I kind of like their whole like dark goth thing going on. I love Pamela Anderson and Liam Neeson. Oh. Like, oh my God. I know. Yeah. Because he is such a handsome older man and she is a beautiful older woman. Is it real though?

Wasn't their whole thing that maybe it wasn't real? Really? Because I thought that they like said it was real. I hope that it is. That's all I'm going to say. Wait, wait, hold on. Are people saying it's not real? There was a whole thing where they were like, is this like, is this like,

not just the people said it, but maybe it was just kind of, they were going with it for the whole press play of it. Wait, I don't have to do it up. I need to do it deep dive on this. I don't think it's been proven. Like, they play coy about it. Like, they play coy that maybe it's not, I don't know. I'm not, I know what you mean.

I thought they were, like, kissing and stuff. I know. I also loved Pam during her Tommy Lee era, but I'm friendly with Britney Furlawn now, so I can't really say that. And I love Brittany and Tommy Lee. Oh, my God. Okay, that's such a random thing.

But, like, I saw where Britney saved her little dog from a I know I guess oh my god that's the same thing I would do I would be running out there she's a really good dog mom she's she's actually like have you ever met her she's amazing I've never met her but you love her she's got a great she's got a great energy she's so fun I love her so okay right now it says three hours ago actually okay so there's like an update yahu says Pamela Anderson insists she and Liam Neeson were romantically involved despite doubts okay all right you heard it from the horse and it says Pamela Anderson not ready to give up Liam D. He said, wait, what happened? What happened? I'm so sad. You're like, don't ruin my jeans. How did I

not know that this was happening before I did this. I know. I don't like when those like fall apart. Like we're counting on you to stay together. I don't know. I just thought they were so cute how they looked at each other, how they joked. And I love her makeup free. Like I mean, I'm probably never going to be that girl, but I'm here for it. Yeah, I won't be that girl either. But it is like, because she's already gorgeous. Yes. She's aging so gracefully. I love everything. I mean, I'm loving Lindsay Lowhands glow up. It's so good. I iconic. She was definitely, I DJed a bunch of times with Samantha Ronson and she was there. I love that. You always get to bring it back to, but she was there and I saw her and this, this. I love that.

Okay. Before we sign off real quick, I ask everybody that's on the podcast. Two questions. If you could be on any reality TV show, what would it be and why? Well, I guess that's... I'm probably going to go with the Valley just because I already know you guys. So I would say probably the Valley solely because it'd be my real life. Yeah. So if I'm going to say a real one, I'm going to say a real one, I'm I'd say the Valley, I don't know. I mean, you know, that's a double-edged sword. Yeah. Because I actually really just feel like I also very protective of my life. And so I don't know. But that would be the easiest one.

I'm going to say that'd be the easiest one because that would be the realist one. Yeah. If I were to say one that's just like, it would be fun. Ooh. Oh, God. I used to love like, is this, it's not even around. What other reality shows are there? I mean, I used to.

There are none. There are no other reality shows in the valley. It's just bravo. just the bravo verse um no it's so funny i used to do some stuff with the real world back and they actually i actually did some scenes with the real world brooklyn i was a mentor dj mentor for a girl in real world brook in a major throwback wow in red hook i went to their house and this is the early days it was like the room was like oh i love the real world back in the day my gosh so i made i made cameos on um my super sweet 16 like oh my super sweet 16 with this i mean

i did the most random stuff you'd ever believe but i loved the old school real world i think there's something really crazy about that that vibe. So like if we could bring back the real world and have like a rehash, that'd be like my manifest here. I feel that'd be really cool. That would be fun. Yeah. Okay. Who is your favorite reality TV star? She's sitting right across with me, Brittany. Oh, that was good. That was good, right? If we were dating, I just won like a thousand points. No, I'm just kidding. No. No, honestly, I do, I do mean that in a lot of ways. You're like, you're a great friend. Thank you. You're great to watch on TV. Um, I think. I think I think I always say this to you. I think the one thing that people don't see enough of is that you're like the brightest light in every room. And a lot of times on a show, like a reality show, I think that people, the natural inclination is to focus on some of the darker stuff happening your life, right? Or the fights or so on. But like to be your friend in real life is to see like such a joy that you bring. And the happiness you bring to everybody. You're like the greatest host, the most generous friend. You're very real. You're very loyal. Despite anybody else's opinion, you stick with what you believe in.

great conviction you're a lot of fun so girl you're you're right up the top but also like on a just random note I never remember I would love to get drinks of Marisol I love the Miami Real Housewives Miami and Alexia I would like a night yeah so actually me and Lala had a photo op moment at BravoCon and Marisol and Alexia also like they were doing one together me and Lala were doing one together

so we were backstage all sitting at a table before we came out to do like our photo moment and we just sat at the table and talked to them and La La Laugh talked a lot to Marisol and I talked to Alexia and I loved her. Oh my gosh. Like I like both of them. They were both amazing. But like me and Alexia will be like really connected on a lot of different levels. Like she was just so sweet. Now we follow each other on Instagram. And I like where I'm upset. I like love Lisa Hawstein. I just love her. I don't know why. I just love her little outfit. She's like a little polypocket. She's so cute. So like I guess I don't watch all the different housewives. I like, you know,

I'm a mom. I'm tired. I like half the time I've all sleep at eight. I like. I, like, make it through your shows and, like, maybe just Real Housewives of Miami. Yeah. But I love Real Housewives of Miami. Like, I would, like, a night with literally all of them. Yes. All of them. But my top dogs would 100% be Marisol and Alexia.

Yeah. I want to go out with those two. Maybe bring in a little, like, bring Lisa in, you know, because she's cute and peppy. Yeah. And that'd be, like, a dream night. And then, like, I like, I like, Kiki. She seems fun. Oh, I love you.

So, you know, that would probably be, yeah, for the reality people. And then, like, I just need a night with Cardi B. And we're good. Oh, my God. Me too. I would love, like, Cardi B just seems like she would be the most fun human being to be around in all time. She would make me laugh all night long. I watch her, I watch her videos on repeat.

I just think she's hilarious. Yes. She is hilarious. I hope she's a Valley fan because she would be like so great. Oh my God, if she was, I would die. You're like, Cardi, call me. Yeah. Call me too.

I'm coming. I'll DJ for you, girl. Okay, girl. Tell everybody where to find you. Okay, so on Instagram, it's at Lindsay Love, L-I-N-D-S-A-Y-L-U-V, because if you don't do LUV, you'll probably end up with like a porn star, something random. No porn star. I'm not. I'm a DJ and I have an events agency.

And then my events agency is Lindsay Love Creative, Lindsay LUV, creative. And I do brand and celebrity and all kinds of really cool events. And we have a lot of fun together. And you'll probably see me coming up. You never know. Yeah. Never know. Stay tuned.

All right. Lindsay, thanks so much for coming on when reality hits. Thanks everybody. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas. And happy holidays to everyone. We'll see you next week. Yes. Yes.

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