When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany - TWO Infinity And Beyond!

Episode Date: April 11, 2023

CRUZ IS TWO! And Jax & Brittany spared no expense on his birthday! They share how many people crashed the party (including their VANDERPUMP friends), their thoughts on the COACHELLA lineup, Brittany's first encounter with Lisa Vanderpump, edited scenes from their time on reality TV, their recent bout with the stomach flu, their reaction to Tom Schwartz on Watch What Happens Live... AND Jax responds to public comments from SCHEANA & LALA!!!

Alright, we're back. Woohoo! With another episode of When Reality Hit, we're having so much fun with this. Thanks for listening. What's up guys, I'm Jacks. And I am Brittany. We have had a crazy couple weeks. Yeah, couple weeks. Crazy couple weeks. Well, this past week was crazy, but it's been amazing. Well, first of all, I just want to say thank you to everybody who's been tuning in.

We've had crazy, crazy response, and it's been awesome. We're just so excited and we're so grateful for doing this. Bear with us. We're learning as we go, and we're having fun with this. And we just really really want to say thank you. All right. Well, yes, thank you very much.

This has been so much fun. We've had a lot of friends and family staying with us this past week. We had my friend Lindy and her husband and their four little girls staying with us for I think like three nights. And then they left and my mom and my

mom and Jackson sister Ginny came the next day So we have had a full house and it has been so much fun I love it, but this guy over here gets so much anxiety and House has been a hotel We are on the tail end of it. I got one day left Don't get me wrong my mother-in-law, my mamma, my sister are hearing this. We love you to death, but I'm also very excited to give my house back.

We had Cruze's birthday party on Saturday, and it was amazing. I can't believe that he is about to be two years old. He turns two years old on Wednesday the 12th, so I'm already getting very sad, but I'm so excited. His birthday party went incredible. Yeah. Do not do a great job. You did a great job. It was a toy story theme. It was too infinity and beyond felt like to T. W. O. It was a lot of fun. It was a lot of fun. Yeah, I've

had this like vision for his birthday party since his first birthday party. We have amazing party pointers, Ajorie and Ronnie from Pignant Competal and Glitz and Glider. They just kill it every single time. They did their cruises working at the year of birthday party last year too. And it just goes above and beyond anything I could imagine. It was so much fun. I'm really excited that the fact

that you want to do a destination birthday next year. Maybe, maybe, I don't know, I might change it up. She's already playing a next year's birthday. We're thinking dinosaurs. Yeah, I don't know. We'll see what he's into because, you know, he's just so cute right now. So I get to choose all the things, but I don't know how long that's going to last. But you might take over.

It was, I think I like to say the first party of the season because we're, we love having parties at the house and barbecue at the house. So I say it was kind of the very first party of the season because we're we love having parties at the house and barbecues at the house. So I say it was kind of the very first party the season. We wanted to get his birthday party in before Coachella. Coachella is obviously going on next weekend and the weekend after last year we made the mistake of putting it on Coachella. We didn't know though. We didn't know where we're not.

We don't go to Coachella that much. So we didn't know what it was. But this year we did not messed that up. Yeah, just Easter was the next day. Yeah, Easter was the next day but... But yeah, like I said, it's been a busy week but it's been so much fun. I just enjoy because we don't have family here and it's just been amazing having my best friends from home and all their little kids and just my mom and me and my little Jenny just having

all the family here because we don't have that. So to me it means the world to have everybody here. Whenever it came to the Barthite Party, Jacks, did you even know what was going to be there? I didn't even know. I kind of had it adjusted. I forgot how many people we invited. And then other people kept showing up.

I'm like, oh, shit, that's right. We invited them. So it was nice to see everybody. Tons of food. It went great. It was a lot of our friends showed up. Yeah, we had it. It was nice to see Ariana there. Yeah, it was great. It was, you know, a lot of our friends showed up. Yeah, we had it. It was nice to see Ariana there.

Yeah, it was great. And let me just say, every time I've seen her since this whole incident, she has been just a completely different person. Nice, just so nice. I feel happy. Yeah, I should be saying nice. She just seems so happy.

She looks like a completely different person. She's glowing. And I've just, I'm just in shock. Cause like I said, I've known her for a very, very long time and I don't think I've ever seen her as happy as she is right now. Yeah, it was so good to see her and I'm so glad she got to come. And she and La La and the babies summer in ocean.

Like, you know, we're never gonna miss each other's birthday parties. I love it so much. Yeah, it was nice to see everybody in the moms. Obviously, Erica, Lisa and... It's just a great, we have so many good friends there and it just it just means the world to me and it gosh I get like emotional thinking that he's already too because time just flew by I can't believe it's already and I will say like When it comes to parenting and stuff we are very very lucky with this little boy We do he is an angel and I just, I mean, knock it all wood because I know we're getting right going to the terrible

two. I hear they're terrible, but I don't know. I just don't see crows being terrible. No, I don't see you, that he's such a really, really good kid. He is so chill. Now everybody's kind of saying, okay, wins number two. That's so weird because now all our friends are pregnant again. Yeah, people are getting pregnant again.

But it's so funny like at our party, everybody was saying, all right, it's time for you guys to have another baby. It's time for you guys to have another baby. And I've been saying this for ever since Cruz turned one. But I was ready for another baby. It's like, I don't hate it. I hate that like when you're dating,

like when you're gonna get married, then you get married, when you're gonna have a baby, then you have one baby, then you're gonna, when you're gonna have the next, it's like just relax, just let me enjoy. Hey, we make a cute kid. We do. We do. We do. I got to say for those dads out there,

they're like, oh, we're gonna, God, that two years came fast. I was like, okay, why? Another one of these two, no problem. Not always two. I'm like, wait a minute. Wait a minute, where does this time go? It's already starting right again.

Ready to push out another one. So, I mean, it's just like when you're having fun, time flies and, you know, he fills up everything that we do. So it's just, it's been the best two years of my life. That's for sure. And two years of being parents as well. Yeah, two years off.

Five, five, right? Yeah. He's doing good. We're doing the best job that we can. Loving every minute of it. Yeah, but yeah. It can be, we were talking about this the other day, how like the first year after you have a kid

can be so like different on your marriage. Like we were so like, we say we were almost like roommates for that first year. Cause you know, we didn't have any help. We were still kind of in like all the COVID, you know, time and it was just, man, well, if we were just doing everything for the baby. I talked to a lot of parents and they've also the same thing.

You're trying to figure this parenting thing out. You're trying to figure out how your relationship is going to survive this. You're trying to figure out like, you're just trying to figure life out because life is totally different now. So I honestly can't remember being with not parents anymore. It's just weird. I can't imagine life without crew. It doesn't even seem to get ever happened. We were together for five years before we even had it. So I don't even. I know. It doesn't even seem like it ever happened. We were together for five years before we even had it. Yeah. So it's great. I don't even remember much of that. Yeah. No, not really. But I swear, it can definitely take its toll. But I'm glad that we were able to like get past, you know, get past that

because you're just home all the time in the middle of COVID and being, you know, everybody couldn't go anywhere hardly. And it was scary. You didn't want to take a baby anywhere either. So. All these COVID kids. We all had, we all had kids at the same time. They're going to get older one day. We were like, we were COVID kids.

But no baby boomers, because everybody had nothing to do. Except for like babies. And by the way, just because we were talking about Cruz's birthday party, I have been getting a lot of messages about people saying, or people saying, why do you have these elaborate parties for your kids? They're one, they're two, they're not gonna remember. I am gonna remember.

My wife is gonna remember. Our family is gonna remember. We enjoy it, we love it. And he had the best time, and all of his friends had the best time, even though they might not remember it in like three years or something, they had the best time that day. Do you know what I mean?

Like that day was perfect. We had a bouncy house, we had. I just told Like that day was perfect. We had a bouncy house. We had bulldooms everywhere. We had a big ball pit with slides. I mean, it was just so much fun. And I just, I mean, I've always just wanted to give my children more than I ever had. I had an amazing childhood.

My mom and my dad treated me amazingly. I got everything I could have needed as well. And I just want to be able to just give the best for my kid. You know? I feel the same way. I had the best childhood. You can possibly imagine with what my parents could afford at the time. And I've always said the same thing.

Like I'm going to give my kid as much as I can. I'm going to, of course I want him to work for it when he gets old enough. But this is our time just as much as it is his time right now. We are enjoying it. And it frustrates me when people are like, how could you do this? How could you do this? I know everybody's got an opinion, I know that. But sometimes it just bothers me when people like, gosh, what, why does it bother you so much

that I want to give my kid a fun birthday? Like just enjoy it. Just enjoy it. Leave your comments to yourself. Just be like, you know what, that's really cool. The truth is that. Troubles on the internet suck, it draws me crazy. But what did you think about my boat poop costume?

I thought her boat peep costume. So she dressed as bow peep from Toy Story. I did not get dressed up because I hate dressing up as everybody knows. He only would wear a pizza planet sweatshirt because I bought it for him. He didn't even know that I bought it for him. And I was like, okay, well, you're at least wearing

a pizza planet shirt. Crews was dressed as Buzz Lightyear and I was dressed as bow peep after she saved the day. Mammaw dressed up as the alien. She came in. We didn't have a character this year. So we had Mammaw dressed up as the alien from Toy Story. She came in. It was absolutely amazing. But in the beginning though, you were trying to make fun of my

bow peep costing. He was like saying I was embarrassing for wearing my bow peep costing. This is not Halloween. This is not Halloween. I love it. It's going to be embarrassing. But like, by me dressing up before This is not Halloween. I love it. It's going to be embarrassing. But like, by me dressing up before we know it. So I'm going to get it all in while I can. I love to dress up.

Jack's on the other hand. You're at least going to dress up for Halloween. And he, like, we're going to do it big every year. So be ready for many costumes. You're a dad now. So it's costume time. Yeah. The box house, the play house, the, the, uh, uh, success. For his birthday present, and Christmas, it was for both pretty much.

We got him a new swing set. Oh, yeah. And it was, it ended up being huge August. I hear more of the background than we thought, but it is so cute. It's black and white. It matches our house. It's got little flower boxes. It is absolutely adorable.

It took like four grown men all day to install it. Here I was. I thought maybe I could do it. There was no way. Jack doesn't do any installing of anything in our house. I literally put together every table, every toy, every, anything with hammers and nails that has to be done in our house, it is done by me.

So really you thought I was gonna be putting together that swing set, we would have killed each other. Oh my gosh. It's a really cool swing set, but just like everything else on Amazon, we didn't really read everything clearly. What's up from Amazon? It wasn't each other. Oh my gosh. It's a really cool pick swing set, but just like everything else on Amazon, we didn't really read everything clearly. It wasn't from Amazon. It wasn't from Amazon.

Oh, okay. Well, you know, when you buy stuff. It's from like a toddler site. You buy stuff online, you don't really check the dimensions, you just buy, click, or buy the... Because it was so cute. But it was really cute.

So yeah, the thing came delivered in my driveway and pallets, so I was like, oh God, this is gonna take up the whole back here. Could you imagine if me and you tried to put that together by ourselves? Oh, no. That would be a TV show in itself. The voice for sure.

Oh my gosh. Anyway, the bar thai ended up being absolutely perfect. Was amazing. Was amazing. He got, we even had a bar. We had a beautiful bar called, was it bars, buzz or buzz? The buzz station. Oh, the buzz station, buzz light ear, buzz station.

It was so cute. Everything, every single little detail I just love. Had to take care of the adults at the party, of course. Yes. And the cake was beautiful. Everything was just such a success. Now, we wanted all of our friends to have fun too. It was a party for everybody.

Yeah, it was a really good time. I think Cruz had a good time. All the kids had a good time. And yeah, no problem. Love it. Love it. K, wait for next year already. had a good time. All the kids had a good time and yeah. No problem. Love it. Katelyn, wait for next year already.

Okay, oh wait. So Steve just handed us the list to Coachella this year. And I can't, that will be performing. Maybe recognize three names. Wait, I know more than that. I know who Bad Bunny is. I mean, he's Dayton Kindle Jenner, right? Somebody just told me that yesterday, but I really don't know who he is.

Push a T. We know who that is. Blaze DPR Ian, never heard of that. Sophie Tucker. Well, I do. I know what Frank Ocean is. I'm Frank Ocean. Calvin Harris does. Yeah, I do know Calvin Harris. Uncle Waffles.

They're probably amazing. But you guys are probably all really I just I'm I have no idea who anybody is oh my gosh No, I don't I listen to the I listen to 80s on eight Not even I don't know this I love like TLC little way I got I got Reba McIntyre on my shirt today. I'm like all over the place. I love rap hip-hop and country music. Remember when we used to go to this, when we knew the bands, remember? Well, one time I went to Coachella. I was whenever I first moved to LA,

I was working as a VIP, we were right used to our promoting. Oh yeah, VIP host. Yeah, I was a VIP host for the, what's it called, Rainbow Carnival? No, neon carnival. neon carnival. See, I was neon carnival. neon carnival. See, I don't know the name.

neon carnival. And my I take care of Michael, be Jordan. Are you excited about that? Yes, he is a doll baby. Oh, baby. My daughter, be Jordan is hearing this. My wife, you are a doll baby. Um, yeah, but that was fun.

That was like one of my only experiences at Coachella. No, we went to stay church. Yeah, that was a lot of fun. You were working a party for that was fun. That was like one of my only experiences at Coachella. No, we were to stay church. Yeah, that was a lot of fun. You were working a party for that. Yeah, awesome. We had a good time for that. But yeah, that is so funny. I really, I mean, this is why we don't go to Coachella, I guess, because we don't have the people that are performing. I think my anxiety would go through the roof if I went to this. There's just too many people. There's too much going on. Just finding a limo would try to be stressing me out. I'm sorry, an Uber. Everything stresses jacks out like now. Like he do in anything, go into the airport, driving down the road, anything. You were just a freaking anxiety stress ball.

This, I'm going to go. It drives me crazy. This is totally, totally a random thought here, but I was just thinking back on the show and get back to the interpop rules for a second. You've never watched any of the episodes. What if this week you watch the first two episodes ever, you've never seen the show, correct? No, only the only scene is winning. You've never even saw the first episode of me being on it. No, we've talked about this already. We should watch this and then talk about this.

We can, yeah. I think you do. Do you remember your first experience on the show? Do you remember your first day? Well, the first time that we ever actually filmed together was in your little studio apartment that had the bikes hanging up on the wall. That's that studio.

Mr. Eladon Criotana, the wall of your town. And I was so, so nervous. And I just remember they came in and like we were sitting on you were sitting on that like leather couch that you had. And I was sitting on the floor. It was my apartment was so big that the studio right now. No bigger in the studio.

I was so skinny, like looked like a little baby whenever you go back to it. But I was just so nervous. I don't even think I hardly talk. I think I let you talk and I just kind of was like, uh huh, yeah, uh huh.

And then that night was the same day the first time I ever filmed, you had me go meet Lisa and I didn't even know that night was the same day, the first time I ever filmed, you had me go meet Lisa, and I didn't even know that I was doing that for a job. This, by the way, I had no clue that I was going to be interviewing for a job from Lisa VaynerPub. This like just happened.

I thought I was just going there to meet everybody, remember? Yeah. And then all of a sudden, it's like thrown in. Oh wait, now you're actually gonna try out for our white-dressing jobs. It's not try out. First of all, I knew you were moving here, right? You needed a job.

Yeah, I know, but you just thought thrown on me. So fast, it was traumatizing. As you know, we don't have a hooters close by, and I'm like, you don't need to work a hooters. Come and work it, sir. Yeah, because I used to work a hooters for those who don't know. So I was going to just transfer to the hooters here.

But he wanted to introduce me. Well, I wanted to introduce her to, I wanted to bring her to, so the idea was like, I was going to serve anyway. So I'm like, oh, let's bring her there. And I was like, I knew I thought I wanted to get her a job. But it wasn't an interview or anything. I just brought you in.

And then I was kind of like, you should get a job here. And it just so happens that Lisa was there. People were there. So it kind of turned into an interview without it supposed to be an interview. I know, but then it turned into me not having my resume and me dressing like a little little. Yeah, they made it seem a little bit more than it was. That wasn't the initial intent to

be. I was wearing like, but also we've talked about my outfit. Every lot of people were like Lisa said, send them like, you know, gone on your trousers or whatever. I can't do people's accents. That's so terrible. I'm gonna judge it. It's just too strong. You can fit the waitresses outfit in your one poem of your hand. Are you talking about this one's on Saturday? The surdress can go one hand with the poem of your hand. So, I don't understand. But still, he takes me to like Venice Beach

and like, by this like little romper that's like a navy blue and it had like little like lace on it. And he is like, yeah, I thought it was cute. And he was like, oh, at least I will love this. This is what all the girls at Sir Dress like. This is what all the girls at Sir Dwear. And he's like, and if you don't wear a bra,

and it's like backless. And he was comparing it to the Saturday night dress that they wear at Sir. Which is why it wasn't called again. Some kind of, first, no, not first, some kind of name. I can't remember. Why how could you not

Sandra Pedro Pedro Pay. Sandra Pay. That's right. That's right. So yeah, you were comparing my first outfit to like that dress, I think. Which doesn't make sense to me because the girls don't wear

practically anything there. So you probably. Yeah, but Lisa was probably thinking like the first time meeting her ever. She's she's thinking I'm coming in for an interview Like I found out like like kind of last minute, but like she was like you're coming in for I had no idea That so like for her probably seeing me coming in like

So she was probably like Girl wear it. I don't know. You did a good job Part I thought I did fine, too. They ended up coming to me and asking me to come work at Surrey anyway. So, you know, everyone liked you off the get-go. And that show is really hard for new people to come in because the girls that in the past before you, there has many have tried but few, what's the saying? Many have tried, few have failed or what- You have succeeded.

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like really took me in. Remember I was with Sheena and Sheena and Katie like majority of the first time because people don't realize like whenever I first moved here, um, Stasi and Katie and even Kristen were like kind of all on the outs at that time. Yeah. So me and Katie and Sheena were hanging out a lot. And then whenever I did meet Kristen a couple of weeks, I think it was like a week or two later, whenever I was visiting LA, she was awesome to me from the start too. So everybody was just like great to me from the start.

But I definitely got closest to Katie and Shino right off the bat. I, we had a lot of good times. Like when we went to like Selve, and we did all that stuff, it's like a huge group with everybody. I know in the talk. It was a lot of fun. We Like when we went to like Selve, and we did all that stuff. It's like a huge group with everybody. I know. It was a lot of fun. We were just talking about you guys on what to Paris together. Oh, yeah. Yeah. That was amazing. I went to Paris together. I went to some Moulin Rouge together. Yeah. That was a huge screen there with you. There's a lot. You guys all. And it was so funny because just because we're talking about like

my first on the show, like whenever I for I was so scared to meet saucy and she was just so nice to me. And not everybody had like worn make cuz you guys apparently were you and jacks you guys were all so crazy before I came on the show. Not only that you're coming into a bunch of people like which is very... Yeah, yeah. That I used to date so she kind of put it in my bag she's like what would you do if you had to come into a show? Yeah. Well you I dated half the cast. But everybody was like wonderful to me. Everybody was like wonderful to me. Yeah.

Everybody was absolutely wonderful to me. I did not have a bad experience meeting not one person on the cast. Everybody was so kind to me. And I was like so shocked by it. Because you're the number one in the guys' group's girlfriend. So true. You know what? No, everybody was just nice to me.

I think I don't know. Hopefully everybody noticed I was like being real and wasn't trying to be like crazy. I feel like I'd always try to be super respectful. Yeah. It was, and I was just thinking in a day, guys, we were talking about the show again. I mean, all the amazing scenes that were cut out of the show. There was so many great things on Vanderpump that are cut out. And unfortunately, majority of the things I got cut out that I liked it,

I think probably people probably wouldn't have thought it was interesting as me being a nice person. You know, and us doing things together, like dating and just some of the fundraisers that I did and things like that. None of that stuff was ever put in there. And I just think, well, I do remember one thing.

I think I just dug such a hole in the beginning of the show and just got such a target on my back for being such an asshole. I don't want to say an asshole. I just, uh, yes, you are. I mean, I just say, I just, I'm not going to share. You got to take responsibility for, well, I'm not going to sit in the corner and tell my thumbs and bury each other. So that's not interesting.

That's not fun. The building wants to see that. Yeah. Uh, and I like to say what's on my mind. That's why you got me up. But I then again, I'm always trying to clean up your messes. And that ain't cool either. You are.

You are. In fact, we go to all these parties, right? So this is just another side thing. We go to all these, we go to a lot of events or birthday parties or whatever, and my goal as soon as we get in there, is I like most dads, I'm looking for the closest exit. How are we going to get out of here quick?

What? All right. So all the dads are usually sitting in the corner talking, saying the same thing, and what are you guys doing, and whatever, and then when it's time to go, I normally go. I'm the one that gets everybody out in the car. I give the wife the look, guys,

you all know this look, you look across the room to see if your wife is ready to go. When she gives the nod, I can have everything in the car packed, ready to go, kids strapped in, car running, air conditioning on, and it matter of five minutes. I got it down to a science, right? So I do this all the time, and sometimes I won't, ready to go, kids strapped in, car running, air conditioning on, and a matter of five minutes. I got it down to a science, right? So I do this all the time, and sometimes I won't say goodbye to everybody.

I'm like, oh, there's no way we're gonna be invited back to this, yes, one less party. One less party, right? That's really, no, then Brittany gets in the car. I'm like, why would you take so long? She's like, well, I had to say goodbye to everybody because you did, and I'm like, great. You know what I am spending all this time,

trying to get out of here, not saying goodbye to people, so we don't get invited back. You have to be polite. And bring me. God, Cruz cannot learn these things for you. I know. You got to learn to be polite. Listen, all dads are the same. We'd like to just get in and get out and try to, you know, do whatever. Sometimes I'm the one leaving and you're trying to stay all night long. It literally depends on what we're doing. I thank you all the time. Sure is. I don't think so. Going back to a scene that was really funny, that was cut one time.

Me and Jacks were filming getting these like massages, like these people came and like set up the massage tables at our house and everything. And it was so nice. So we're getting a massage. And the masseuse calls out that Jack's has one leg and one butt cheek shaving and not the other one. And I just correct.

I just thought it was a funny thing. It probably was one of those things that you had to be there for, but I just laughed and laughed and laughed that night. Okay, so when they took the towel off, like I said, I was running late to the scene. Like we had to get ready.

We were coming back. And if you saw how much of what happens I've already said you can have a hairy butt. I know, but was running late to the scene. Like we had to get ready. We were coming back. And if you saw how much of what happens, I've already said you can have Harry but. I know, but I didn't have enough time to shave the other butt cheek and the other leg. I only had, it was a one. First of all, I didn't think she was going to lower the towel that far.

Hey, you know, I was like, this is a, okay. All right, so she did. And she got an untanned, very white and pasty unshaven but half shavin yeah that was pretty funny I don't know where I was going with that but that was funny it was a funny one so on top of our super busy week that we've had which has been amazing having family in town we me jacks and crews all got the stomach flu the 24 hour hour stomach flu, first time that Cruz has ever been sick like that. I feel like other than like normal like baby stuff

here and there. Yeah, let me back it up a little bit. So Brittany had her friends in town. I arranged tickets for the Lakers Clippers game and I planned this now for a very long time. I have a bunch of friends going. The more... How was that Universal Studios that day?

She went to Universal Studios today's studios with her friend that day and the guys and I were going to the Clippers G-t Clippers Lakers game. I, it hit me like a ton of bricks that morning. The morning of I wasn't feeling good. All of a sudden I'm like, geez I'm nauseous. I'm on the couch. I'm like, it was, it wasn't pretty. Let me just say it was, it was, it was not good. It was coming out both ends. It was just, I couldn't eat sleep, but I was like, I promised these guys that we would go to the game. I wanted to be there for it.

We had a suite. My publicist got us an amazing suite through Amazon Prime. It was just all the food, all the liquor, everything was going to be supplies like a one-in-one lifetime kind of thing. And he was coming in town. I'm like, what kind of better gift to take him to a liquor game? So he's like, are you sure you can go? I'm like, yeah, I'm okay. Meanwhile, I'm pasty and I'm white and I'm like

Not looking forward to even just the Uber ride to the game. I'm like, I hope I make it. Let me say that I was at Universal Studios I wasn't even at the house and Jackson is the biggest baby ever when he said I even believe I was so he's calling me I'm at Universal Studios with my son, my friend, and her four little girls. So we have five kids between just me and my friend, Lindy. And Jackson's calling me, I'm sick, I'm sick. Like I'm on the show. We're on the floor. And I'm like, oh, whatever. Well, you know what, I'm like, whatever, you're fine. You know, when you have the sweat so bad, that if you, I took all my clothes off and just laid on the tile floor because you're sweating so bad

and you just wanna be like, please God, please God, I ended now. It was just a 24 hour flew, but thank God. It was fun for me. But oh my gosh, he's calling me and like, Jack can pretty much not do anything without me. I'll just say that. So he's like calling me like,

I don't know what to do about the game. And I'm like, you're going to the game because my friends were, you know, holding in town for a little bit. And I just didn't believe that Jackson was as sick as she never believes I said he was saying he was because he just is so dramatic. So he's like, he's at the game. He's like, text to me that he's been, you know, still sick and nauseous the

whole time that he's there. A little more graphic than that. Yeah, but we're not gonna get into too many details. Everybody knows what the stomach flu is, but he's going to the bat, you know, go into throw up and stuff a hundred times. So he's texting me and then while we're at the house, me and Lindi and all the girls and everybody sitting

on the couch and I was like, oh, gosh, Lindi, I'm not feeling good. I was like, I'm gonna have to go upstairs. So me and Cruz go upstairs a bit early and then all night long, me and Cruz are both sick. He's had, I'm like, going through his diapers and everything and I'm having to run to the bathroom. Like it was just a whole mess.

I mean, Cruz were upstairs by herself. Neither one of us slept all night long. That was definitely my first experience with like a sick kid like that. Well, she didn't want me to come upstairs, but I still had it. And I was like, well, I don't want to sleep next to you guys. But then we all had it too.

So it was like, oh my gosh, it was just crazy. They always tell you that whenever your kid starts going to school and stuff, like this happens all the time. Like they'll come bring something home and like everybody in the family will get sick. I just don't know how I got it. Yeah, really don't because none of the kids had it. Yeah, none of the other kids got it.

So, yeah, none of the other kids that came over to the I got it. I really don't because none of the kids had it. Yeah, none of the other kids got it. So yeah, none of the other kids that came over to the house got it. I was so worried. I was like, there's spring break. It's going to be ruined. And then my family was coming. I didn't want my mom or my mom or Janie or anybody to get it. So it was like crazy. And it was like right before Cruz's Barthay party, thank goodness we were all better before

the Barthay party happened. I was just, it was just so crazy for me.. Yeah it was bad. Like the first experience as a parent for something like that and for it to be so close I was so scared that everybody was gonna be sick. It was a bug. Thank God. Yeah it was just like a 24 hour bug. The sheesh. That was misery. Some of those no joke. It is no joke. I'm Lola and I'm Megan and we're the hosts of Trust Me Colts Extreme Belief and Manipulation. There's no joke. It is no joke. Heaven's Gate, Children of God, and the Branch Davidians. Join us every week as we help you spot the red flags. Get new episodes of Trust Me. Every Wednesday on Podcast One.

Or wherever you get your podcasts. So let's get into some of these questions. OK. OK, this is from at Steph Stab, ST-E-F-F-Stab, STAB-ABB. What are your thoughts on everything short set on Watch What Happens live this past week? So I did watch that episode, you know, I love Tom I say this every time but gosh that was hard for him to watch now the weights on his wrist that was hilarious

I knew so the night before he left to watch what happens live. He was at my house and He I told him I go Tom. I got I don't talk with your hands in your mouth, don't do it. He's like, Jack, Jack, you're not gonna believe this. I got weights on Amazon, I'm gonna put them on my wrists. I'm like, you're kidding me. I go, you're right. He's like, no, no, I bought weights on Amazon, so I don't touch my face.

And sure enough, I didn't think he was serious. Sure enough, he had weights on his wrists when I tuned in. And I was, now Andy was, knew he was going to get hard with heart I knew he was going to get hit hard with the question. Sorry And he did and he and Tom as a really big vocabulary and it was like Word salad with him and he said it right. It was word salad. He was throwing out all these big words was throwing out all these big words. You can try to not have the answer to the point. I think he was dodging it again.

And I'm like, Tom, why are you protecting this guy? He is literally ruining your life. He's putting you between a rock and a hard place. He's just doing all this to you. The world already knows, the world is already made. It's a painting on Tom. There's nothing you're gonna say on this show that's gonna change anybody's mind.

They've had their minds made up. Stop protecting him. You need to get a little bit of a backbone here and just listen, you know what? You screwed up Tom, own up to it and that's it. I'm sorry, I closed my eyes a lot. And just own up to it. And that's and that's was my that's my thing on that. He was just using a lot of word vomit and he was dancing around all these topics and you know, I I just think he's still trying to protect him a little bit, and also I just want to clear something up really, really quick.

Last week, Shina and Lala were saying that I said that Tom and Tom got a fight on the reunion. I did not say that. After the reunion, James texted me, I asked him, hey, how you doing? How did the reunion go? He's like, man, there was a brawl. I didn't even care, or I would have asked,

but if I had to of guess who was the brawl was going to be, and you're hearing it from my voice right now, it would be between Tom, Sandeball, and James Kennedy. That would be my guess. I don't know who to got in the brawl. I wasn't there. I didn't even ask, because I don't even care. Sometimes you just spew things, though, Jack,

without having all the details. And so you got to realize you do that. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no I know that, but that's what the article said. So that's what she has thought was said. So that wasn't she Does fault that was the article. But like as a friend, I would just call him like, I know, but I didn't say that. I know a big deal. She didn't want to call you, but it wasn't a big deal. Like just we're talking about it. Okay, just so you know, never would say that I've known Tom and Tom for a long time. They would never get a fight. Hey, you just said that there was a brawl and you didn't clear it up and then people started speculating on who you were thinking. No, it's 100% between James and Tom Santa.

That's not even know for sure. Yes, I do. That's that would be my guess. You're only two. If you don't know, this is what it be. This is what gets you in trouble, Jack's Tyler. You just hear something and you will tell it to everybody without even making sure that it's the truth.

But this is what you do and this is what gets you in trouble. Well, whatever. This is what happened. This is what happened. If I had to bet on who it would be, it would be those two, 100%. All right. I don't think obviously, it's been coming for a long time.

So you're just trying to say you didn't say it was Tom and Tom. But you don't know who it was. I don't know who, but I think it would be James and Santa. That's those. Yeah, that would be if I was a betting man, that's what I would bet. That's what you do. Anyway, continue with top. Sorry. So to continue with Tom's watch, Rebels Live, I'm not I mean to digress into that. I was just want to jump and all over the place. I think, yeah, I think he danced around everything with with with with Annie said because he's still, you know, trying to do the protection thing.

But like I said, again, I'm gonna end it right here. It's all on the table. Everybody's already made their opinion. Well, something else cool about War of Trums Live, was you already just said all that was that Andy put up your sweater. Oh, I don't know if you guys noticed that. The original, the original. My manager got that sweater framed.

The original chunking sweater is hinging up in the Watch What Happens Live Clubhouse. And now everybody gets to see it when they walk in. It's iconic. I'm telling yourself iconic. I'm covering myself iconic because it's iconic. But it's pretty awesome that Andy put it up. Yeah, I was trying to figure out what to do with it.

Should I auction it off? Should I do whatever? Just for charity, whatever. And I said, you know what? Let's take that Andy put it up. Yeah, I was trying to figure out what to do with it. Should I auction it off? Should I do whatever, just for charity, whatever. And I said, you know what, let's take it to where it belongs. You know, kind of like the Louvre. You know, let's the Bravo Louvre. Let's take it to the clubhouse. And yeah, I brought it back there. So the original chunky knit, whatever you may hear,

or wherever it is at the Watch Me Happens Live studio. I shipped it there. But that was cool that he did that. That was really, really cool. Okay, so this is from at Brittany, underscore Lauren for how many kids do you want? Very simple question, very simple answer, too. Really?

Yes. I've always said three. Next question. Wait, hold on, don't you try to skim over this? I've always said, I've always wanted three because I'm like a boy first and two girls or something. I don't know. How many how many hands do you have? I got two but I got two legs two. Two legs two hands for two kids. No. Right? That's yes. But you know I just

feel like I'm gonna be a boy mom. So I definitely want one more and I want them to be like close in age but I feel like you think the next one's gonna be a boy. Well because cruise is two. Do you want to say think the next one's gonna be a boy? I kind of do., but I feel like. You think that X1's going to be a boy? Well, because Cruz is two. Do you want to say that X1's going to be a boy? I kind of do. I kind of feel like I would love to have a girl too, just so I could do like the grilly things. I feel like you really want a girl. I know you.

But if I have a boy, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. As long as it's healthy, it's not healthy. Yeah, I would be so, so happy. But that's what I'm saying. If I had another boy, I would maybe want to try for a girl for a third. Just try. You just. I know. I pray to God hope that, you know, I have healthy kids.

Oh, just whatever. And if it ends up being three boys, then I will be just fine with that, too. Boys are cheaper. Boys are cheaper. Uh, Jack, Jack says two, but like you are, you said this morning that you were getting the itch. Yeah, I mean, you know, again, all of our friends are pregnant right now. I saw a lot of pregnant ladies at our party. And I was just like, man, maybe it like comes in way, it comes in ways. Yeah. And I was like, do we? No, but I've always said I wanted whenever cruise was around to I've all literally always said that. No, I know, I know. I know. But it you're right, though, when we were talking about earlier that it is just flown. It is flown. And like not only that, we I had four girls staying at our house this week. So we're girls. I loved it. I loved it. The age of two. You were good with them.

I was good. Jackson singing songs with them in the mornings about pancakes and stuff. It was cute. We had a lot of fun. The kids are great. Yeah, they're really well-behaved. Like they they were so, so sweet. Hold on, Jax, can you sing one of those songs for us? Yeah. We were singing a song about pancakes. Yeah. I'll say how are you doing it? Pancake, how did I sing it?

How did it go? Pancake, pancake, pancakes for all. Let's eat some pancakes so we don't fall. I was just making up weird songs with the girls. I don't know any words to any songs. So I just find something and just make it up and just sing with everybody. And then all the girls were saying, Pongkicks.

And I don't know why you were saying it. I don't know why you were saying it like Pong instead of PAN. Because it's weird and funny in there, little kids. And you just make up stories and songs and they all have fun. It's better that way. But yeah, I had a good time. I had a good time with you. It's fun.

Even if we had five one day, we'd be fun. But I also knew when you were leaving. So I knew when you were leaving. I saw the flight, I tin or air. It was great, I haven't. That was the best. Yeah. OK, another question from Ashley Brewer,

to non-four-five. Tips for getting child to sleep through the night. Please, I am so desperate. All right, first of all, Ashley, I just want to say I'm sorry. I have parents, friends that are having this issue as well. Yes, I will give some tips that has helped cruise with sleeping. We're not like one of those people

who are super strict and crazy on like nap time and bedtime. We try to put them around the same time every single day, but like it's not like a really strict like schedule. We just want, we can tell like when he's tired, whenever he needs to go to sleep, and also we eat morning people. So we're also not the parents that are going to put on a bed at like 6.37 and we, you know, we let him stay up a little bit later, but every parent is different. No parent is wrong. That's one thing that needs to be made very clear because, you know, whatever fits to your schedule is how you need to raise your own kid. There's a lot of parents that aren't parents on the internet that love to give advice.

Well, I'm just saying, like, there's so many different ways that you can parent, not and every single way can be like perfect for you. You know what I mean? But some of the tips that I could say that help crews say to sleep is this weighted sleep sack from DreamLine Baby is incredible. It is a life saver for us. Not only does it keep Cruz from trying to like step out of his crib, it also is like weighted. So it like gives him comfort like as soon as it's zipped up

and it like, I don't know, it just really helps him and it helps him say sleep and it's like a little blanket on him so you don't have to have more extra blankets. But I will say that is one thing that has been a wife's saber for us. Great, what's the name of that brand again? Dreamland? Dreamland Baby.

Yes, ma'am, all right, cover that. Yes, Dreamland Baby. And it is like, it's awesome. And then they're, what, that's the first, it's literally the first thing we pack when we go on vacation. It is very important. And this is not even an ad. This is just a telekoo actual tips. And then the sound machine is like whenever like the older he's gotten he doesn't really need it as much anymore. But like whenever he was a little infant. Yeah.

The sound machine was really important and you can just get like portable ones on the computer. There's so many different ones. He's got a portable little one. He's got one that's like an owl. He's got one. Sometimes we just use our phone. It just really doesn't matter.

It's just a sound machine and that worked great for his little. So I will say like just like quick tips that anybody can do, anybody can find. I think that those two are a must. And in the beginning we had the, you know, like the snoo and all that stuff, but just that, I swear, that sleep sack. And there are so many different sleep sacks you can get to.

It doesn't have to be that one. That's just the one that we have. And I think a weighted sleep sack is important. It's a game changer. As soon as you put that on, he's out. And it just keeps him relaxed through the whole night. He really is. I don't understand how kids, how parents don't use this thing.

Yeah, my mom, whenever we went to New York for like watch, have a live and stuff, my mom stayed with crews at our house. And she said one time, he like, Pete, there's diaper, she know that happens at night sometimes. And so she had a wash of sleep sack and she was like, he was wild as a buck.

Who would you have that sleep sack on? Like it really calms him down. Yeah. So we really get some ready for like that bedtime. And it sleeps through the whole night with that down. Yeah. So we really get some ready for like that bedtime. And it sleeps through the whole night with that on. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. So that would definitely be some good advice. You want to ask the last question? Yeah. Oh, this one. Sorry. Okay. This is from Kelly's Valent court.

Were you told to dress inappropriate for your first meeting slash interview with Lisa by the show? I didn't see this question. Yeah, so we kind of hit on this a little bit earlier, but Jack's literally picked out my outfit and thought it was gonna look good for a sir. Yeah, well, I don't understand why people, okay, do you have you, if you don't know what sir is,

you should put in the sir. She put inappropriate in quotation. She wasn't suggesting that I was dressing inappropriate. She was just saying, because that was like how Lisa acted. That is the most non-interpreter. You basically wore the uniform that the girls wear at the restaurant.

So if anything, that was being like, wow, this guy really, it's like, that's like a chef coming in for an interview in a chef's uniform. It's basically the same thing. Yeah, we definitely kind of like hit on this earlier, but I wasn't told by the show, I will say that. The show did not tell me what to dress,

how to dress or anything like that. They did ask me at the last minute if I had a resume with me. And of course I didn't remember. I've never in my life, okay? I've worked at surf for many, many, many, many years. Not one person has ever walked in with a resume. A headshot, yes.

A resume? Because it is LA here. Nobody on God's green earth cares what your resume is as a waitress in LA. Nobody cares. They're not looking at your resume. So nobody else had to bring a resume. I just was made to look stupid. Again, again, not they bring in headshots with their acting resume on the back. Apparently, that's what you need to get a good job in this town is an acting resume.

Maybe they can act as a waitress, but no, I don't know why they made you feel like Acting resume on the back. Apparently that's what you need to get a good job in this town is an acting resume. Maybe they can act as a waitress, but no. I don't know why they made you feel like said that or they should have never done that because that's never happened. Never happened. Well, just maybe look unprepared and like I didn't know how to dress.

I think they just wanted to make the show a little bit more of whatever and they threw a little this and they know that you were new. They probably could get away with it. It was funny though. I'm like back on a lot of the things and I just laugh at myself, you know? Like there's so many little silly things. Like I think about whenever me and Lala were like,

we weren't getting into it, but like I was like brand new on the show and I was so terrified because I hate confrontation. I hate arguments. I hate thinking that somebody's mad at me or doesn't like me. Me and Jacks are completely different that way. He could care less. Like he knows that people will get over things

and you just let things just roll off your back. Me on the other hand, I get like very like upset and I get in my head, I get a lot of anxiety. She can't handle it if someone doesn't like her. Yeah, I'm just, I like for everybody to get along. So I'm very different on that. So I remember having like, talk to La La and she like, call me honey boo boo, remember?

That was so upset. Just like little funny things like that. I like look back and I just laugh. You just have to laugh at yourself on a reality TV show. I feel like. Me, I don't care. Yeah. People can hate me all they want.

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