When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany - Who Runs The House??

Episode Date: April 18, 2023

Jax & Brittany finally get to share about their new Peacock feature series WATCH WITH, as well as other shows in their queue, Jax's take on romance, if its easier to travel with Jax or Cruz, wheth...er or not Tom Schwartz is mad at Jax, what to do in the early months of parenthood... and the time Jax sprayed himself silver for a music video!!! When Reality Hits is brought to you by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/realityhits to get 10% off your first month! ‘Vanderpump Rules’ Alumni Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright to Give Their ‘Unfiltered Perspective’ on #Scandoval Drama on Peacock ‘Watch With’ Episodes https://variety.com/2023/tv/news/jax-taylor-brittany-cartwright-watch-with-vanderpump-rules-scandoval-1235579922/ 

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Starting point is 00:00:00 You can. Hello everybody. Thanks for listening again to Windry Alty hits with Jackson Brittany. Hey guys, good afternoon. We are having a ball talking every single Tuesday. This has been so much fun. A lot of you have probably seen, I'm so happy we can finally talk about it now, that we have a new series on peacock.
Starting point is 00:00:25 It's a lot of fun. We've been having a lot of fun filming this show. So much fun. It's called Watch With Bernie Cartwright and Jack Taylor. We literally got paid to sit on our couch and watch TV and gossip. I mean, I thought reality TV was the best job ever, but this is literally the best job over. I literally have to go downstairs and sit on my couch.
Starting point is 00:00:45 Yeah, it was so much fun. We got to so far we've done three episodes. Hopefully people love it. We'll get to do more fingers crossed. But what we do is we go down, sit on our couch. We watched through we watched three episodes that hadn't been aired yet. So everyone got to see our real reaction and our real thoughts are our commentary. And it was just so funny because Jack's, we've talked about this before, but Jack's like hardly ever watch the Vanderpump rule show,
Starting point is 00:01:11 even whenever we were on it. So for him to actually sit down and watch it was just so funny. I can't lie, I really got into it. Like I was really into it. It's a lot, I mean, I got to tell you guys, it's so much. It's so nice not being involved in that mess sometimes. Just to be able to sit on the outside and give my two cents. It's a different perspective for us for sure.
Starting point is 00:01:32 It was a lot of fun though and it's fun just being able to critique and just talking gossip about it not being involved. Yeah, the drama wasn't on us. But my anxiety still raises for our friends You know, I'm like oh my god like watching certain things, you know, it really I don't know It just brought back a lot of a lot of memories and a lot of crazy things because now whenever we watch reality TV Where we've done it for so long we know like okay? They have to sit there and wait before they're out allowed to walk in on their entrance
Starting point is 00:02:01 You know what I mean right? There's a lot of hurry up and wait for in in reality TV. But we did film. We can't talk about the wedding that air. Yeah. So far the episode where we watched Tina's wedding aired and it was a beautiful wedding. We had so much fun. We had a great time. A lot of people asked how come you guys didn't film. We just chose not to be part of the filming for that. They asked us if we wanted to and we just kind of didn't want to take away from shooting in Brock's wedding. We didn't want to make it.
Starting point is 00:02:24 I just think we weren't ready. Yeah. And we weren't really ready. We just kind of we wanted to and we just kind of didn't want to take away from shooting in Brock's wedding. We didn't want to make it. I just think we weren't ready. Yeah, and we weren't really ready. We just kind of just wanted to enjoy. It was a really fun vacation and we just wanted to make it. Yeah, we stayed at the resort right next door so that we were able to come over for the wedding. But that's why we were not like every single event because we just weren't ready to
Starting point is 00:02:42 start filming yet. It was a very weird to see all the cameras and stuff there, but it was actually, it was a lot easier than I thought it was gonna be. So fun to see all the production crew again and the camera crew and it was nice seeing everybody again and yeah, it was just a lot of fun. Yeah, and just doing that show where we got to sit down
Starting point is 00:02:57 and chill and have our snacks and crews made his first cameo on TV ever. Yeah, it was a lot of fun. Like I said, the production crew was really fun. Like I said, in the production crew was really cool. They came in and they set everything up. And it was just, I guess that it was the coolest job ever. I mean, who wouldn't want to just work from home sitting on your couch watching reality TV shows and talking about them? I mean, it was just the best thing. We always, because me and Jacks love 90 day fiance. And we always talked about how we would love to do the people's couch for 90 day fiance. And then kind of found out we got to do it for
Starting point is 00:03:27 Vanderpump rules. It was just so much fun. It is really really cool. I love doing it. Like I said, I hope we get to do more. And it's funny because like there are friends, but we're still seeing it from a different view. You know what I mean? Like we hear the stories, but then whenever it's all pieced together on a TV show, it's so much different than like what you think it's gonna be like. We had that issue whenever even we were on the show because you remember it a certain way, but if you don't go back and actually watch how
Starting point is 00:03:50 it was edited and put together, you might not sound like you even know what you're talking about. And now watching it, knowing everything that we know now, what's going on with the scan of all thing, it's like you get to see like, oh my gosh, how did I not catch this or how did they not catch this? Or now you're like, oh my gosh, it's so obvious. Hey Easter eggs.
Starting point is 00:04:07 Easter eggs. Look at for Easter eggs. It became a meme over the holiday Easter this past week. So it was me picking up the Easter eggs, looking for the Easter eggs. I keep saying that because you know what that means, Jacks, right? I do know what it means. Okay. Now, but you didn't at first.
Starting point is 00:04:22 You would think and Andy Cohen came on. Looking for the hit includes. Andy Cohen went on his podcast and said they didn't, it may seem like it, but they did not repeat, did not recut the show. So I don't know. I don't think Andy would lie about that. Yeah, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:04:38 I mean, just now watching it, you're just like, holy cow, I mean, how do we not pick up on all this? It's crazy. It's just been a lot, but it was a very fun job for us. And you know, we still get to be a little bit a part of it. So make sure you tune in on Thursdays on Peacock and have fun with us, because it's like we're watching it with you.
Starting point is 00:04:55 Yeah, and like I said, I get really, really into it. Yeah. Jack's comes from never watching it to wanting to know what's going on all the time. Speaking of that exact topic right now, Kayla Barnes wants to know what other reality shows you'd like to watch. Oh, great question. Well, we definitely, like we said, we love the 90 day fiance.
Starting point is 00:05:15 Yeah, I'm a big fan of 90 day fiance. All of them are pretty much good. The other way, like they're just all fun. There's a hundred different ones. The other way, this single life, now we other way, this way, the single life, now we're going back this way, the other way, I'm the other way, going back the other way. Like there's so many different varieties of it.
Starting point is 00:05:33 Now what I'm noticing on that show is nobody wants to come to America anymore. They all want to go back and live overseas, which is crazy. Yeah, that's the other way, the other way. The other way. And we have like some friends that we've met, like we actually Angela. Angela, big T Angela.
Starting point is 00:05:48 We actually hung out with her, which we love her. She's one of our favorite on nightingay. If you want to say we'll have to have her on the podcast eventually, because she is just a hoot. I mean, that girl is a good reality TV. She is. And I think about Angela, I think she was on like Jerry Springer
Starting point is 00:06:06 or something back in the day. So I would love to like dive into that because she is just something else. Yeah, Alexi and Lauren. Yes, Alexi and Lauren, we love them. They seem like a really cool couple. I thank God, by the way, that they won the MTV award. Oh wait, can we talk about that for some? Instead of Tom and Ariana. Okay, let's kind of, let's, let's talk about that for a second. So they were up for, I think best couple or something about like best reality couple or something for, I think in TV awards, I think last year or the year before, yeah. And it was between Tom and Ariana and Alexi and Lauren and a couple other people. But could you imagine if Tom and Ariana would have won that? Yeah, that would have been crazy, but Lauren and Alexi deserved it.
Starting point is 00:06:45 I mean, they could just have their third baby. Yeah. So sweet. We always make plans to meet with each other whenever she comes to L.A. And I think I had COVID one time and then something else happened the next time, but I love them. Yeah, they seem like a really cool couple. I love to hang out with them.
Starting point is 00:06:58 Um, but yeah. So 90 day fiance, you love a bunch of like weird stuff that I don't like. Sometimes I fall into random holes when it comes to reality. I got I hate them. I mean, I hate to admit that. Are we only talking reality? Are we going to talk about other shows that we love? Well, there's this new show that we started watching called
Starting point is 00:07:13 Jerry duty. Jerry duty with James Marsden. So funny. It is so funny. It reminds me so much of the office, which is like our all-time favorite like background show office and friends are our background. We call them our background shows because you don't even have to look at the TV.
Starting point is 00:07:27 You know what's going on. But yeah, James Marson, he kind of reminds me of you. His character that he plays on that show. He kind of reminds me of Jack's because he's like talking about himself. And like, I had to say, you don't hate to say it. That's gonna sound funny.
Starting point is 00:07:44 But like, I don't know. Just the way he to say it. That's gonna sound funny, but like, I don't know, just the way he was announcing it and like how he's not part of like the main jury. So he feels like left behind. It's just very funny. If you haven't seen it yet, you need to. It's funny and if you watch it, you're gonna know what I'm talking about saying
Starting point is 00:07:57 that his character's kinda like Jack. I think the last one is 60 days in it. It's on A and E. It's about these police officers or these regular people just go into jail and have to have to. They're kind of spying. They're spying. They want to see you how the drugs are coming into jail. It is very, very dangerous and it's literally 60 days in and they're really. They don't normally make it all of the 60 days.
Starting point is 00:08:17 Yeah. Anyway, it's not A&E. It's an incredible show. It's very interesting. But yeah, those are the go-to. Yeah, these people act like they are like thieves and stuff. And like I were actually in prison and have to like keep up this front that they are supposed to be in jail. That would be so hard. I mean, that would be so hard. Thank you for having me on reality for so long. It just like it makes you watch it differently because we know all the secrets and all the
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Starting point is 00:10:21 or what was your introduction to reality TV when your kids grown up? Oh yeah, I think like the first ones, I can remember like I like Jersey Shore and I liked Laguna Beach. Laguna Beach was like probably like my first like big one, Chris and Cavalry and Lauren Conrad and all the other. I'm like I was so into that.
Starting point is 00:10:40 I was like I wanna be them so bad. Little did I know I was gonna be on TV show down the road. I'm a little older than you. So it started with real world for me. I watched the real world too. I mean the challenges. I never watched the challenge, but the real world was a starter for me with Puck. He was like the very first episode. I remember I used to race home from school. Like literally race home from school. Come up to my room, put on MTV. Watch a little bit of MTV.
Starting point is 00:11:04 T.R. Rayleigh, get away from your song to come come on you're right all day for your favorite song to come on and my favorite part was like on MTV was spring break and I was on it too actually with Tom Santaval Tom Santa you and Tom Santaval were on episode of spring break in TV break in Miami and the song the the song is so jealous the song of the summer was in the club. And Tom and I are doing, it was called, I think it was like, fashion will be loud. It was a runway show on the beach at one of the hotels. And the song of the summer was in the club by 50 Cent. It was like the biggest song,
Starting point is 00:11:35 but yeah, I was on MTV Spring Break. Oh my gosh, I watched that every single year. So the fact that you were one of the people that were on there is hilarious to me. We loved it. It was a great time. You've actually done so many little things here and there that people probably don't even realize. Like people don't know this, but Jack's was painted from head to toe silver with the big world over his shoulder in Britney Spears music video. Onix hotel. Onix hotel. So whenever she Britney Spears comes down the steps, you see Jax there, all in silver,
Starting point is 00:12:06 holding a big world. That was my first job in Miami modeling. And I know that I know the next day she got married to some guy literally the next day she married a guy named Jason. It was the one when she was married for like a day, right?
Starting point is 00:12:18 Yeah, but that was my first job modeling in Miami. I want to say it was 2002, 2003 somewhere in there. I will fact check that later, but I that was my first job in the Miami. I want to say it was 2002, 2003, somewhere in there. I will fact check that later, but that was my first job in the Britney Spears. Yeah, if you haven't seen it, you got to Google Onix Hotel Britney Spears and look for Jacks because it just cracks you up.
Starting point is 00:12:34 It's very quick. Your body was banging though. You sexy sexy. You were on Desperate Housewives, which was one of my all-time favorite shows. Yeah. You were like dating Edie Britt, right? Well, she was kind of flirting with me.
Starting point is 00:12:47 She was flirting with you at the bar. Yeah, I thought it was a lot of fun things. We had to do a lot of stuff to make it in this town. You have to have your hands. What's your favorite thing that you've done, aside from like, megapo-rolls? Probably the cover for Assassin's Creed. I was on the cover for the video game Assassin's Creed.
Starting point is 00:13:02 I was the guy. Oh, yeah, that's cool. Still have that. That was really, really cool. I've done a lot of, at least a random, cool things. You know, yeah, probably that though, the Assassin's Creed video. What was the other music video you were in?
Starting point is 00:13:14 Oh, hey there, Delilah, plain white teas. Yeah, that's so cool. Yeah, that was another one. Yeah, I do a lot of weird, just things. I feel like everybody in L.A. does a little thing here and they are in Kyoto, yeah. You got it because it's expensive to live here.
Starting point is 00:13:28 So you got to have your hands in many different pots. So you were in a lot of background stuff and like CSI and stuff like that, too. These are called the background dog. Me and Schwartz, we used to do it all the time with the background dogs. So it was again, it was just another job, another form of income.
Starting point is 00:13:41 Why we were trying to here, trying to figure out what we were going to do with our lives. So we would bartend at night and do background work during the day. I mean, it's crazy to think like, because now that we live in LA, we see so much of the other side of the filming, I guess, but like they have to pay every single person on set, right?
Starting point is 00:13:57 Everybody in the background, so if it's like a big set and like a bunch of people, you gotta thank every single person that is gonna pay. Everybody's gonna pay. And at that time, so Tom and I were union, so we're $160 for the day. 160 bucks. And if you're-
Starting point is 00:14:12 And if you're not union, it's $45. Oh. So if you're just working nine, yeah, 45 bucks. So even $16 for the day, I mean, you're $8, 160 bucks, but again- You might wear that barton and it's her. It was this is 2005, 2006, 2007. Yeah, but you got to do that stuff to get noticed, or I guess. Yeah, you got to do what you got to do. And like I said, you're involved with it. So you're
Starting point is 00:14:33 getting a little bit closer to that taste of acting. So at least you get to be involved in these sets. And it was fun being around actors. Did you really want to be an actor or a model? I didn't care. I just wanted to do something. Yeah, I just wanted to be part of it and like involve with it, being around actors and like being around at all, trying to figure out if I really wanted to do it. And like I'm terrible at memorizing lines so I don't think I've been able to. Oh gosh, he is the absolute worst whenever I have to help him with like his ads for social
Starting point is 00:14:56 media. We get invites every time. Oh, terrible. Because he cannot remember his lines. I will literally say his lines for him. Like click my like below and use code for the book and then he will go to do it and cannot remember right after. It's awful.
Starting point is 00:15:09 And he gets embarrassed whenever I watch him. I don't know how you ever do. I can't. I can't try to be an actor. Even doing cameos. I can't. I have to go out to the car and the driveways and the car. He won't let me watch him.
Starting point is 00:15:19 I have to be like in a whole separate room. She makes me laugh. So anything she made, I feel like embarrassed. I'm terrified. I laugh at him and he gets embarrassed over it. Eight years of still getting embarrassed. It's cute though. I like it.
Starting point is 00:15:33 You mentioned Tom Schwartz just a second ago. Peggy Vancequig wants to know if Schwartz is mad at you, Jacks, for talking about Scandival. He is not mad at me. Not that I know of. I mean, I literally just talked to him yesterday. He is not mad at me, not that I know of. I mean, I literally just talked to him yesterday. He is in Florida hanging out with his family. Looks like he's doing very well.
Starting point is 00:15:50 I was worried about him a little bit because Coachella was this weekend and I'm like, Tom, please don't go to Coachella. I'm first I'm not gonna tell that I'm not his parent but he needs a little bit of a break physically and mentally from all the drama. And when I saw his picture, he sent me a picture of him with his two brothers in Florida
Starting point is 00:16:05 I was like, oh thank god you're in Florida. I think god you're away from this mess. Well obviously if he's texting you put photos he's not mad. Yeah he was texting me photos, sending me pictures of chicken wings and him and his brothers and I'm just so happy he's doing really well and his mom even reached out to me. I told you I don't know if I mentioned this before and she's worried about him too. She's just worried about his mental health and everything that's going on. So I feel like I'm not, I'm not always best friend. I like to look out for him and I want to make sure he's doing okay and I'm just happy that he's trying to, you know, escape from it a little bit.
Starting point is 00:16:35 Yeah, but he's obviously not mad at you. You don't know. He's not the question. The question was if he was mad at me, no, he's not. Which also I want people to know like we've talked to Ariana about this. We've talked to Shina, Lala, and everybody. And like they all love that we're talking about it. No, everybody just, they know that we got their backs.
Starting point is 00:16:51 And it's just been, well, everybody's talking about it. Yeah, everybody's kind of chiming in real opinions. Everywhere. I mean, you have to chime in about it. Yeah, I just felt the need to, you know, ask them first, just so we don't look like we're just jumping on the bed, like, and like, even with our new show that came out on Peacock, I will like make sure that they all knew
Starting point is 00:17:09 that we were doing it too. And they love it. They've all texted me, but decided they watched it. They thought it was hilarious. So we got respect for our friends. We're just, you know, everybody wants to know what's going on.
Starting point is 00:17:18 Yeah. The juicy gossip right now. This, I think it's dying down a little bit though. Yeah, yeah, for sure. And she's doing great. So that's all that matters. She looked good. If we talk about Ariana right now. I think it's died down a little bit though. Yeah, yeah, for sure. And she's doing great. So that's all that matters. She looked good. If we talk about Ariana right now, I saw some pictures of Coachella. She looks like she's done it very, very time. Yeah. So cute. Okay. So our son, honey, is officially two. We had his birthday the year or the weekend before so that I didn't fall on Coach O'Rea weekend. But this past on the 12th, he turned to
Starting point is 00:17:48 no more counting months, whenever somebody asks how old our son is, but you don't we don't have to be like 13 and a half months anymore. Now it's just two. He's two. There's nothing that bothers me more as a parent, well, as a new parent, like, you know, I go to the playground and people are talking, oh, how's your kid? How old's your kid? And I'll always get some other that I'll be like, my kid is 37 months, two days and four,
Starting point is 00:18:10 and I'm like, I don't really wanna do math. Can you just say my kids? Just tell me how old. The kids three, okay? Your kid is three years old, don't say, well he's 16 and a half months, like I don't wanna do math. I know when I suck at math and I'm like sitting here being like, okay, 12 is a year.
Starting point is 00:18:23 12 is a year. 12 is a year, plus four, okay, so your kid's two, like come here being like, I'm 12 years. 12 is a year. Two plus four. Okay, so your kids two, like, come on. Just say your kids three. But now that he's officially two, we're just going with two from here on out. And then he'll be three. Maybe I'll say two and a half at some point.
Starting point is 00:18:36 But right now he is two and it's the best thing ever. Like he just is growing every single day. Like I just, gosh, it's just the best thing that's ever happened to me. His little outfit said he got for his birthday. We started putting him on him. He looks like he just is growing every single day. Like I just, gosh, it's just the best thing that's happened to me. He's a little outfit said he got for his birthday. We started putting him on him. He looks like he's 10. He's got these little basketball shorts now
Starting point is 00:18:51 and these little outfits. He's wearing them like, he looks like he's like ready to go to soccer practice or table practice and I cannot wait to be that parent that's got like the cowbell and the blowhorn and the shirts that say cruise is mom. I'm gonna embarrass the crap out of him. It's gonna be so fun. the blowhorn and the shirts that say cruise is mom, I'm gonna embarrass the crap out of him.
Starting point is 00:19:06 It's gonna be so fun. On the topic of parenting, Julia McKee-Crupa sent in this message, I'm about to give birth if it all goes well to a baby boy. Oh, congrats. How was the first month or two? Oh, goodness. Well, keep in mind we were during the pandemic. Yeah, so yeah, I was kind of like going towards the end, but we were still like pretty much locked down.
Starting point is 00:19:31 But for me, I would say there's a lot of things that women do not talk about for like after after the first just whenever you come home from the hospital, we're going to be honest here and talk about how you have to go to the bathroom. It is so painful. So be prepared for that because I don't think women really talk about it enough. Like obviously it's going to be the best day of your entire life. It is going to be the most incredible moment as soon as that baby lays on your chest,
Starting point is 00:19:58 you are just going to cry at the tears of joy. I mean, it was absolutely the best day. Even though I had a very painful and could fill everything and epidural didn't work and this and that, it was still the best day of my life. And I know it's going to be that way for you too. But I will say the aftercare, after you have a baby, vaginally, is a lot. It's very painful. Jackson's always like, what are you doing in there?
Starting point is 00:20:25 You get all the spray bottles and all the different things that you have to use and stuff. But. And I was there for the full pregnancy. I watched it all. I had about, I had three iPads going. The delivery. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:36 I had three iPads going. I had a couple iPhones going. Oh yeah, I saw a lot of filming. We filmed the whole thing. We have it on there. It was, I gotta say, it's a very impressive thing. It's a very, very impressive thing. You know, nothing really shocks me, like blood and stuff like that,
Starting point is 00:20:51 but what I did get a little cringy was the epidural. Watching that thing go in her back was like some terminator bullshit. I was like, I was like, I was like, and then it didn't work and they had to take it out right to it. I was like, oh my God, there's a metal rod going in her back. It was like, I was like, oh, God, there's a metal rod going in her back. I was like, oh, Jesus, like this is crazy. But that freaked me out more than the actual birth. Like this, that was, wow.
Starting point is 00:21:12 Yeah, it was like the amount of pain that women can endure. And do our is incredible. We are amazing. Women are amazing, amazing. After I gave birth, Jack's was just like so amazed by me. Oh, I was just like, how did you do that? Yeah, I mean, we're responsible for giving birth. We would have the world be over.
Starting point is 00:21:33 No, you're a baby's compared to like even when Jackson's sick or anything. I barely even believe that he's sick because every time I'm sick and I'm being really, really sick, she never believes me. Yeah, but going back to her question, she asked the first two months, like, postpartum. I would think that just like taking care of yourself and you are going to be in a lot of pain still, but the thing is, is that your baby just means so much to you that it doesn't matter. And now, whenever I look back to those times, I'm just talking about it because a lot of
Starting point is 00:21:58 women don't talk about it, and I want you to be prepared. But it doesn't even feel like it happened anymore. Like after it's over, like you forget how much pain you were in, you forget all that because now you have this little bundle of joy and it is just worth every single thing that you have ever have to go through. It's amazing. I'm going to be the dad here because I'm the cheap skate. Don't over buy.
Starting point is 00:22:19 That's what we did. You know, obviously, we got... I bought 13 pairs of Nike's whenever I was pregnant. There was no reason. Half the stuff we bought we never even used. Again, we got 13 pairs of Nike's whenever I was pregnant. There was no reason. Half the stuff we bought we never even used. Again, we were during the pandemic. First baby too.
Starting point is 00:22:30 We'll learn. Okay, but we were also sitting on the couch for a lot. We were bored. Obviously nothing to do. Fine, everything. We were buying, I mean, we bought a spatula for the butt. Like it was a butt spatula. Like the stupidest things we purchased.
Starting point is 00:22:42 Like we spent so much. It's nothing you don't get the, I know what it's for. The best paste on your fingers. I know, but there's like so many things. I don't think I ever used it though. What I suggest is to is just buy as you need. Don't, don't over buy. Like, yeah, but parents, especially moms,
Starting point is 00:22:56 you do this thing called nesting and it's like where you want to have everything perfect. It's almost every single parent goes through it. But your kids, it's an old one. Perfect before. Our kid was in a one-zine. I know, but think about it.
Starting point is 00:23:06 We were so prepared we had everything that we could have needed. We did not need anything. Now for the next one, he's gonna be just like, he or she's gonna be just rolling around. It won't be like you're fine. We're not buying anything, because we have everything. A girl or a boy, doesn't matter.
Starting point is 00:23:20 Hey, those 13 shoes, when I have a girl or boy, they're wearing them too. So it's fun. But yeah, just be ready. I'm congratulations. And just be ready for the best moment of your entire life. It's a lot of fun and your world changes for the best. Yeah, for the best. It's definitely changed us. Oh, yeah. Tell your significant other. Get your rest now because sleep as much as you can. Jack, you still sleep 24 7. That's true. And you were sleeping in the hospital bed room while I was going,
Starting point is 00:23:50 oh, I was in so much pain. You were all there sleeping and eating. Why is it that every man does that? You see all the women in their hospital bed get ready to push out a baby. And anytime they're taking videos or anything like all the men are sitting over there, eating their McDonalds, women can't even eat until they have the baby. As for our roles as parents, what do you think? What is our role as parents?
Starting point is 00:24:12 I think we're pretty equal. I think we are for the most part. Yeah, you're a great dad. I know I'm a great mom. So it's a team effort. Again, you look at it today versus when our parents, it's a different role. A lot of people are working from home nowadays.
Starting point is 00:24:27 We get to spend a lot of time accrues. We're very fortunate for that. When I grew up, I barely saw my dad. I saw him on the weekends. And he checked in with me on the weekends. I don't think I even had a full conversation with my dad until I was 10. Because he'd be like, how you doing?
Starting point is 00:24:42 OK, got to go to work. So I never really saw my dad until the weekends, but now, like I said, a lot of people are working from home, so it's kind of a split 50-50 now. So, I love it. He's a mom, he's a mama's boy. He is a mama's boy, but gosh, I couldn't imagine. You're very hands on and I appreciate that so much
Starting point is 00:25:00 because a lot of dads are not very hands on. They're still great dads, but they might not be like, as willing to change diapers or take baths with the babies or, you know, like do like certain things like that and you're very hands on with that, which I appreciate. Like I said, it's a team effort and you don't want to burn each other out. So, you know, you do what I love doing. It doesn't bother me at all. I mean, you I've never ever rolled my eyes. I've never seen anything. I'm always, you know, doing what, you know, obviously everything that I'm supposed to be doing. And I know It sounds really weird, but you do get a lot of dads that are kind of like
Starting point is 00:25:28 We're darn involved whatsoever. Yeah, there's a lot more fathers that I got some friends back home who have some shitty Baby daddies. Yeah, yeah It's really sad because you know you do this and you you make a pact and you're gonna say listen to type of parents and then they see it later I know so I'm very grateful I don't know I I gotta say single moms and I know a lot of single moms, especially Britney's friends, there's a lot of single moms. Gosh, I love it.
Starting point is 00:25:51 Amazing. They are absolutely heroes. They are heroes. I don't know how they do it, especially with multiple kids and have full time jobs. All Britney's friends that are single parents, I'm just, I bow down to them. And I always say, they can do it.
Starting point is 00:26:03 We can do it. I know, he throws it in my face all the time. Well, this friend could do it or, I'm like, I just bow down to them. And I always say, they can do it. We can. I know he throws it in my face all the time. Well, at this friend can do it, or I'm like, I'm like, I wish. You know, and we just have to think our like, he starts that we have both of us. Yeah. That are there, but yeah,
Starting point is 00:26:14 but yeah, I mean, single moms out there. Amazing. You guys are amazing. I even think about whenever I like take cruise by myself, like, to Kentucky, you know, I've taken it by myself a couple times. I'm like traveling and everything just can be difficult without somebody helping you.
Starting point is 00:26:26 So just like more props to everybody who does all that on their own. There's some dads out there who take full responsibility, meaning like even the mom's back out and there's some dads who do it all too. So I'm just, there's some, there's definitely not knock on the fathers, but I just, you always hear a little bit
Starting point is 00:26:40 of the mother and mother and mother. Exactly. Exactly. You know what someone talked to me about the other day? Some say, what's it like going on vacation with your kids? What do you think about that? And I'm going to tell you what I think it's easier to go on the plane with just me and crews than having you tag along. Okay. First of all, that's not what I was talking about. Going on vacation with your kids is not a vacation. You're basically going to the airport., but how do we get to talk about how you act going to the airport?
Starting point is 00:27:05 Jack's gets so weird before we travel or do anything. He always gets really mean. You get very mean before we travel. And until we get to the place and like we're actually through the gate and through the security, then he like chills out and starts acting normal. Like traveling with you is so hard. Every man is the same.
Starting point is 00:27:24 We like to be on time. You are one of those like airport ads that they talk about. Like you are so one of those, but you get so stressed out and you make everything harder than it has to be. I know I do that, but my dad was the same way. I don't know why you do that. Why do you do that? Just because it's like I was brought up that way. You get ready early. The suitcases are packed. The car is ready. Full tank again. Yeah, but you don't have to start time. Everybody else out doing that.
Starting point is 00:27:47 I know, I do do that, but I just, I can't be calm when I travel. Everything has to happen the way it's supposed to happen. So like having you there whenever I travel with crews is easier because like, meaning you can help me with the stroller and stuff like that. But if it wasn't for the stroller, I'd be happy just fine. Now see like, Brittany takes her it wasn't for the stroll around, we'd be happy just fine. Now see like Brittany takes forever because she's the entire time
Starting point is 00:28:07 because you take so long to get ready and your friends go to this, everybody knows you take hours to get ready. I get distracted whenever I'm getting ready. Like I'll start like doing my makeup and then oh, hey, I'm gonna talk to this person. I'm gonna look at this on Instagram. Where I'm gonna do this, I get so distracted.
Starting point is 00:28:23 I need to focus whenever I'm getting ready. I keep saying remember. I'm not punctual, I'm going to look at this on Instagram where I'm going to do this. I get so distracted. I need to focus whenever I'm getting ready. I keep saying remember I'm about punctual. I'm not. I'm not that's nothing I got to work on is being better with like my timing. But that's that thing that me and Jackson fight about all the time. Oh, it's probably I would say the top three four things we argue about is your time management. But you also don't realize that I am a woman who has hair down to my butt. And like I have to get ready and put makeup on. You could take a shower and be ready in five minutes. Listen, I understand that.
Starting point is 00:28:51 But if you got to be ready by four o'clock, then you guess what? Get up at two o'clock or get up at whatever. I've started getting ready like three hours ahead of time. But if you know you have to be ready at that time, then you just got to say, I'm getting better as I've had crews. Sometimes we still have the arguments like listen, I have to like, at that time, then you just gotta say, I'm not getting better as I've had crews. Sometimes, what we still have the arguments like, listen, I have to like, say, listen, we gotta be out the door in 10 minutes,
Starting point is 00:29:09 we gotta be out the door in five minutes, you got three minutes letting you know, I'm like, I literally yell through the house. This is how much I'm gonna do. Yeah, and that could cause like some, as you can see, that would cause some like, drama at our house sometimes. I manage, there's just something with me,
Starting point is 00:29:20 I just, I hate being late, and I hate, I love being on time for things. But you also do these things where you'll wait until the last minute and then all of a sudden like say we're having people over or something that day and you're like oh, got to go the grocery store now and then you just leave and I'm like still getting ready and I have the baby and I have all this stuff going on but nope Jackson's gone to the grocery store and then you come home and like why aren't you ready? I'm like, well you weren't here to help me. He's getting mad. I'm calling him out. All right. It's true though, right? I mean, yeah, I guess. I mean, yeah, I guess this kind of goes along
Starting point is 00:29:53 with, you know, who runs the whole who runs the house, you know, I mean, I think every parent, every family, every couple is different when it comes to who runs the house. I think yes, I think yeah, you do. Yes, you do. For me, it's easier for you to run the house. I don't, first of all, I don't want to argue as much as we argue. I don't like arguing. I think it's just easier if you run the house. I have this conversations with my buddies all the time. You also don't like to plan things or organize things. Why? Because if I do it, I literally do all of that for it. Because if I do it and it's wrong, it's my fault.
Starting point is 00:30:26 That way, if you do it and you mess up, it's your fault. It's not my fault. And nine times out of 10, I would say 99.9% of the time, you and I like the same things. Oh, yeah. So whether it's traveling, whether it's TV shows, whether it's dinner, whether it's where we go, I like every, we like the same things.
Starting point is 00:30:43 There's nothing that's different. Other than the music we listen to, we like pretty much the same thing. Yeah. So it's just easier for you to do it all. And like I said, I hate to say this. It's easier for me to do it all. It is because it's like, you know, the happy wife, happy life. I know people say that all the time, but that's so freaking true.
Starting point is 00:30:57 It is. It is so freaking true. It's just so much easier that she does it all. It's just so easy. Like I said, though, you just go along with it and whatever. I like that philosophy. And if something goes wrong, guess who's fault it is. It's yours.
Starting point is 00:31:11 Not mine. Whatever, I do good at planning the stuff, though. It's very rarely that I'll say, hey, listen, I want to do this. But very rarely I'll say, hey, listen, I like all this, but I want to do this. And you're really good about it. You'll be like, OK, he wants to do this.
Starting point is 00:31:24 He never really speaks up for what something he wants to do. You know, I'll do it. I like. You're sounding like a little battered housewife. Well, no, like, I don't like to go out as much as I used to. Yeah. I don't. And so I'll be, hey, listen, do you mind if I go out with the guys tonight?
Starting point is 00:31:37 I, I, I just like ask for permission. I have to ask for permission. Like, I have to psych myself up. I'm like, okay, the guys just asked me to go out. And you know, I never care. And she doesn't care. But in my head, I'm like, okay, the guy just asked me to. I need no, I never care. And she doesn't care, but in my head, I'm like, okay, have I done enough this week? Did I take care of the baby enough this week?
Starting point is 00:31:49 Did I do all my chores? And I told you. I'm realized you do feel guilty if you leave. I feel really guilty. I thought, take care of the baby that day or something. You're always like, you're always like, oh, I feel bad. I feel like you've been watching the baby more that day.
Starting point is 00:31:59 I'm like, I'm as small, but I'd like to be with them 24-7, it doesn't matter. I know, but I feel like when I'm leaving the house, I do feel guilty. I feel guilty. I'm not, it's not like I'm going like when I'm leaving the house, I do feel guilty. I feel guilty and I'm not, it's not like I'm going anywhere. I'm literally going down the street with my other two buddies. We just made them when we're going from them.
Starting point is 00:32:11 I feel like we just, plus I just, I don't want you. I don't want to have the guilt of you been saying, oh, you went out this night. So I'm not going to do that. Yeah, I know. I don't rarely go out anymore, but when I do, I still feel guilty. You know, we just are so obsessed with the cruise. It's like crazy. And I love that you go out. I want't rarely go out anymore, but when I do, I still feel guilty. No, no, we just are so obsessed with the cruise. It's like crazy. And I love that you go out. I want you to go out.
Starting point is 00:32:28 Well, we need our, I need my alone time and you need your alone time because we are together 24 seven. We work together, play together, sleep together, yeah, we do everything together. So it's good for me to have girl Tom sometimes and good for you to have your got time. Yeah, I think that's important in relationships too, because like sometimes I'm like, can you just go out with your friends? I mean, I'm care who you are. You're gonna bicker. When you spend as much time as you and I do together, we're always together.
Starting point is 00:32:53 I know people, I probably bicker in front of people that I probably shouldn't. You and I have an argument. But you have to understand, like I said, we live together, sleep together, we play together, we do everything together. So we're gonna get on each other's nerves. That's gonna happen.
Starting point is 00:33:07 But then also if you're gone for me for too long, I like miss you. Right, right, the same thing. There was a time, I think the last time you went to Kentucky, you're like, do you mind if I go to Kentucky? I'm gonna bring the baby and I was kinda like, no, actually that's a good idea.
Starting point is 00:33:18 Why don't you go away? It'll give me a couple of days, whatever. And you'll be like, I think I was gone like two days. You were gone, no, what happened was, I think you were gone a week, right? And I was like, okay, I think I can do and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and I was like, I can't do this. I ended up flying to Kentucky because I just can't be without them. As much as sometimes you guys drive me crazy and I sure drive you crazy, we just were just like, I'm used to the chaos. I'm used to the our lifestyle that I just being
Starting point is 00:33:55 silent and being by myself with silence was almost worse than our chaos. I think the chaos stresses or eases my mind more than silence if that makes any sense. There's just always something going on. And then you're just there by yourself when you're used to me and Cruz always be in there. There was nothing. It was silence. I was able to do what I want, but I'm like, I don't know if I like this. I finally get to do what I want, whenever I want.
Starting point is 00:34:18 I'm like, this is just not for me. I need the chaos. Bring them back. You're like, Britney, I want to come to Kentucky. I know I don't even know what to do with myself. It's gotten to the point where it's so bad that I'm so used to you telling me what to do. That sounds terrible.
Starting point is 00:34:32 I know it sounds terrible, but I listen, I'm a grown man. If I didn't like you telling me what to do, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it. But I'm just so used to my schedule of my role and our relationship and what I have to do and me being told what to do that when it doesn't happen I feel lost like I don't know what to do with myself. I literally don't
Starting point is 00:34:51 know what to do with my time and it freaks me out. I know what you call. I still have to book your fly and get you. Yeah I mean she has to do it because I really don't know how to do anything without her. So if I didn't have Brittany I don't know where I'd be right now. Oh I don't know where I'd be. I didn't have Britney, I don't know where I'd be right now. Oh, I don't know where I'd be. On the topic of Jack's figuring things out, Ada 11314, Britney wants to know the most romantic thing Jack's has ever done for you. God, this has been a while.
Starting point is 00:35:19 Jack's is not very romantic. This is something we talk about a lot, because I'm like, just do something romantic for me. You know, you're not that romantic. I know, I'm more like, I like to buy my way out of things. He's like, he does bring me flowers and he does do.
Starting point is 00:35:33 Jewry. Like sweet things like that. But, wait, can we backtrack? I love orchids. He gets my orchids repotted and stuff for me a lot. You know what? I bought shoes. I bought handbags.
Starting point is 00:35:43 I bought orchids. The intro romantic isn't about buying things. Being romantic is being romantic. It's not just buying, pregnant. I know, you're right, you're right. It's not like maybe one day, you, since I'm the one who schedules everything, maybe one day, you like, do like a cute little picnic for me or do like something, you know, something like that.
Starting point is 00:36:00 Like that's what I mean by romantic. It doesn't have to be buying things because of course I love bags and shoes and stuff I know I wish I got you know what and I am when I put my mind to it I just I put the romance in the back burner I put I put romance on the back burner. I'm not blaming our son at all But that has a little bit to do with it first always now, you know, and I think I just take sometimes I do take you for granted I do take what I have for granted and and I got to remember that, you know I think every couple does that. I know and I forget sometimes and I forget you know what just buy you jewelry and
Starting point is 00:36:30 handbags and shoes is not gonna win you over it does a lot I love it. Let me tell you but you know what go on there I could do more romantic things for you too So we both need to work on that, but I will say one of the most romantic things that you did for me, I can't remember if it was Valentine's Day, Mother's Day or my birthday, I can't even remember what it was. But we had a little tiny dog, she's passed away, unfortunately, I don't want to, can't get too much into it, I'll start crying. I'm emotional wreck over losing my dog, Sophie.
Starting point is 00:36:59 But we had Sophie and she was like two and a half pounds, three pounds at the max, right? And Jack's goes and gets a bunch of helium balloons. And he puts them all a little Sophie and she goes into the room and she's like, lift it off the ground because she's so little with all these balloons off over coming into the room.
Starting point is 00:37:17 It was really sweet and it makes me want to cry because I've missed her so much. That was one of my favorite things that you've done. You just, it was like, well, a little floating dog just came into the room with a bunch of heart balloons everywhere. It was really cute. Reminded me of the movie Up.
Starting point is 00:37:29 Yes, it was so sweet. Oh, like, poor little Sophie, though. I swear, losing her was really, really hard on us. And I think that's something else that's interesting to talk about is because we've grieved so differently over the loss of our dog. Like, I know you're sad about it and everything, but me, I'm having like a... You grieve, definitely. I'm having a really hard time.
Starting point is 00:37:48 You grieve differently over a lot of majority of us. I'm a lot more of an empath than you are. Like, I didn't even want my lemon tree to die. Like, I'm very... Oh, God, let's not talk about the freaking lemon tree in the backyard. I'm very, very, very emotional. Like, losing Sophie was just super hard for me. And I'll just think about her rain and me and start crying. And like, uh, uh, Luz and Sophie was just like super hard for me.
Starting point is 00:38:05 And I, I'll just think about a rain and me and start crying. And I feel like it almost makes you feel uncomfortable because I just, I get, I get really uncomfortable with death. I get really uncomfortable with, with humans, animals, whatever. I just get really uncomfortable. Like, I didn't even check, it didn't even soak in with me when my father passed away. Yeah, I'll take some of that. For the while. Like, I just, I deal with it my own way. There is no right way, there is no wrong way. Yeah. I deal with it.
Starting point is 00:38:27 Well, that's what I mean. We just breathe so differently. Like, I'm very, like, you see me, like, I'm crying and I can't stop for a little while. And like, I just feel like you're, like, I know you got, you were sad and I know, like, when you didn't pick up her toys from, like, the pet hospital and stuff, I know you had your little private moment then.
Starting point is 00:38:43 Yeah, yeah. But for me, yeah. But for me, like,, I'll just think I'll see a picture of her and I'm just balling tears or all. You know, what happened with Sophie is she got, she went into kidney failure and like two days she was gone. So it just happened so, so fast and losing a pet is like losing a family member, especially for me because I just love my dog so much.
Starting point is 00:39:03 And it's just been a hard, it's been a month now, and I still cry, and I could cry right now if I really thought about it too much, but Jackson gets so embarrassed from me. But I will say that I had a dream about her, and it was so real. Like, I was laying in my bed where I was actually having the dream, and she was there, like,
Starting point is 00:39:22 lick in my face, and I was petting her, and I just woke up licking my face and I was petting her and I just woke up and I was so happy during my dream and I just woke up bawling crying. And I feel like that's something a lot of people who lose a pet or a family member or anything. I feel like they always feel like they get a little visit from them to let them know that they're okay. And it was really sad.
Starting point is 00:39:38 We did find her, we gave her a lot longer life than she probably would have had. And we did the best we can with her. We gave her such a good life. And she had a good life and she probably would have had. And we did the best we can with her. We gave her such a good life. She had a good life and she was the best. So she's with God now. Yeah. And we have our ashes.
Starting point is 00:39:51 Yes. And a poor little baby. And by the way, if you're in a relationship like Brittany and I, where you both deal with death differently, this is a good way to navigate the situation because it can be different. It can be tough. You know, Brittany and I situation and how we deal things is very different. But we know we try the best we can and you know, it's just that very tough subject. It's a very tough, that is a very tough subject to talk about and to deal with. But this is
Starting point is 00:40:22 how we deal with it. And you you know, take what you want. You have to just be there for each other because like I said, I'm very, very vocal about my feelings and like, I'll cry and you're a lot more bottled up. So I kind of, you know, when I see that she's getting like this, I kind of try to change the subject. I'll change the subject or I'll walk away or I'll kind of just let her have her moment because I'm not good.
Starting point is 00:40:45 I'm personally not good with that kind of thing. When it comes to death and stuff, I don't know how to act. I'm like that awkward person in a room that doesn't know what to do with their hands or something. I just don't know what to do, and I feel really, I get really weird. So I kind of just usually leave the room, or I'll just kind of let her have their time,
Starting point is 00:41:01 and then she'll be like, okay, I'm okay now. Yeah, I think I just have to cry out sometimes. Yeah, and everybody's different. There's no right or wrong way to deal with this kind of thing. So that's how we deal with it. And a lot of times, like I said, you just usually have your moment or you'll call your mom or something like that. I wish I could be different about it. It's just who I am.
Starting point is 00:41:20 I bottled it up and I let it out in different ways. Sometimes I'll hear a song. Usually it's when I'm by myself is my bottle lit up and I let it out in different ways. You know, sometimes I'll hear a song. Usually it's when I'm by myself is when I feel it. You know, like when my father passed away, I used to do these Sunday drives. I have an old Corvette that I bought my father that I got back when he passed away. And I used to go on these Sunday drives. I used to be part of this car club.
Starting point is 00:41:40 And that's kind of was my time to kind of talk to my father and deal with it that way. I try to use different ways of letting it out. Because like I said, I'm just different about it. And when I go to church is another time that I like to talk to my father. But everybody's different about it. Everyone goes about it their own way. There's no right or wrong way.
Starting point is 00:41:59 But this is how we do it. I hope maybe this can help somebody if they're listening. Yeah, because we definitely handle things completely different, even other things. We, you know, we have different ways of handling things. Like if we're getting in a really bad fight or something, it's easier just to like let you, like you're talking about me grieving and where I just have to cry out and let me have my moment. Whenever you're mad about something, you have to go, you have to go have your moment of life for me. Because if not, we're just going to boil over and just like keep like arguing and arguing and arguing instead of instead if we walk away from each other, cool off.
Starting point is 00:42:31 Right. We're going to be over it by the time. We get back together. You know what I mean? Like you're over it. We don't lever a lot at last more than an hour. We'll just say, hey, when you want to go get to eat or we'll change the subject really quick.
Starting point is 00:42:40 But I know for me, the best thing. You have to cool off. I have to cool off. I was born with no fuse. I have a very, very short, short time. And that could be hard to deal with. And it's very hard to deal with. So I like to go on walks.
Starting point is 00:42:52 I'll go walk around the block. Should be like, where are you going? I'm like, I'm going for a walk. You won't listen to a podcast. I'll go listen to a podcast. I will listen to, yeah, one of my favorite dad podcasts or something. And I'll just go for a walk and take some time.
Starting point is 00:43:03 Because it's just even when you argue and then you know you're right, are you really right at the end of the day? Is it worth being right? I've gotten to notice, like, gosh, sometimes I'm so angry at Britney. And you write text. I'll write text. I know for a fact that I'm right. But even if I am right, is it really worth being right? Because not really. Okay, so you prove your point and you're right. Okay, so now what? So she's mad at you for the rest of the day. Yeah, sometimes it can be make it worse instead of just like cool enough, you know, you can make it worse, things worse. And I've learned it's really, really tough for me. I have this trait where I like just to go off and I like to just yell and scream and I need to not do that, especially now having a son. Yes, we can't do that for me. I don't
Starting point is 00:43:42 ever want to argue in front of my son. I don't ever want to yell in front of my son. I just don't think that's right. And my way of dealing with it lately is just literally going for a walk. And that kind of helps me. Because I'll be living in a neighborhood and I'll just go walk around the block. And usually it'll take me about 10, 15 minutes.
Starting point is 00:43:57 And I'm fine. Yeah. Like I said, I just get really heated. And I just need to learn to control that. We were actually asking my maimole because my papal passed away a couple years ago, but my maimal just was in town for Cruises birthday party and we were asking because I think she married my papal whenever she was 16 and they were married
Starting point is 00:44:14 all the way up until he passed away. We were asking some marriage advice from her and she was like, your papal always says she's even more country than me sometimes. She's like, your papal always said, never go to bed angry. Remember she was saying stuff like that and it's just sweet to hear from people couples that like lasted for so long, you know? Yeah, what makes it work?
Starting point is 00:44:35 Yeah. How did you make it work for so long? I mean, we're all those years. Work eight years in. You're talking to people that got 40, 50 years in, which I can't even imagine, you know, I just can't even imagine losing somebody after that long. So yeah, it's nice to talk to them.
Starting point is 00:44:50 It gives them a little bit of wisdom, you know, they did it, you know, so. Yeah, and their advice is just like, great. So good question. Next week, I want to do like the troll of the wake where people write like really main comments and I want to call them out and like argue about it. I was thinking about that. Being on a reality TV show, people are always mean comments and I wanna call them out and argue about it. I was thinking about that. Being on a reality TV show, people are always mean to us.
Starting point is 00:45:07 It doesn't matter what we do. I always say even God could have Instagram and he's still gonna get a lot of hate in his comments. It's like a whole thing. No matter what you do, people are gonna try to come out you and sit in their basements and just be a troll and I cannot stand trolls.
Starting point is 00:45:20 For sure. It's a whole thing I wanna go into. I just don't understand where these people, like 30 years, 20 years ago, where this people didn't exist, you give them a little bit of social media and now they feel like they need to comment on everything. Yeah, everything. I don't understand people who leave reviews on restaurants, people who leave this on that,
Starting point is 00:45:35 like, who has the time to sit around and leave an essay about why you didn't like the pasta at Olive Garden. Like, who has that kind of time? And who has that kind of time to leave a message to somebody whom you don't even know, who you've never met and be like, you are this, this, and this. Or like how you look or how you dress
Starting point is 00:45:51 or like anything like commenting over the way that you look and stuff. Like it's like, why? I would not go to you. Actually, people kind of my page and are like, oh, you like fat or oh, you like this or oh, your lips are d-le-le-le. And then like, I would never go to their page
Starting point is 00:46:05 and call them, it's something under their photo like that. Like, it's just weird, so weird to me. And I just worry also, going more into trolls, I worry about the future because all these kids, like, they get bullied at school, and then they go home, and they're gonna be bullied on social media. They don't have a way to get away from the trolls
Starting point is 00:46:23 and the meanness and all that stuff. So it's a whole different world from what we grew up in. Whenever we grew up, I think I had my space in eighth grade, you know, so it wasn't like I grew up all the time on social media like that. So, you're going to have to figure out a way because, you know, our son is getting older and we're going to have to figure out a way to control that and to, uh, and to watch it. Team that people are going to be mean no no matter what you do, and that there's
Starting point is 00:46:47 trolls out there who are going to hate on you. I mean, people hate under our comments, people hate under our photos, under everything, just because they want to get a rise out of you. And it's like they don't eat. It's just no matter what we do, we're always going to get that since we were on reality TV. And it's so crazy. And I always say, your haters are your biggest fans. Yep, they're probably listening.
Starting point is 00:47:04 I'm sure our haters are listening right now. And those are the ones that actually, you know, keep you going. Because I always say if they're not talking about you, you should be worried. That's when you should be worried, is when you're not, they're not talking about you. But we also have really good fans out there. We do have some amazing fans,
Starting point is 00:47:19 but there's always going to be those people that like to comment and lead their two cents. Even that no one asked. I know. I know. I know. The big one for me is like, how can we don't get a real job? Well, I think what I do is a real job.
Starting point is 00:47:30 I don't, I don't, you know, I got to pay my, I got to get a real job. I've got to pay my mortgage somehow. How do you make money now? Like, are you kidding me? I would never ask somebody how you make money. Yeah. I wouldn't be like, so how do you make money now?
Starting point is 00:47:41 My go to, my go to thing is when people ask me that, I would say we have a lemonade stand. We have a lemonade stand every other weekend between two and five. Yeah, but I definitely like, I'm a start doing troll the week. I'm gonna start calling out some of the comments that we get and I'm gonna argue back to these people
Starting point is 00:47:55 because I know I'm a nice person and I do not deserve this. No, I'm just kidding, but still, I just want to call out the trolls because we got to do better. People have got to do better. I don't get all this shaman and stuff. I'm just not like that. I'm a kidding, but still I just want to call out the trolls because we got to do better. People have got to do better. I don't get all this shaman and stuff. I'm just not like that. I'm a positive person.
Starting point is 00:48:08 I love having positive energy and great vibes around me and people are what's wrong with people. People are going to be people. That's it. It's always going to happen in their basement. Just hating on people without even a profile picture. It's just insane. But you have to understand how we kind of said world day living.
Starting point is 00:48:24 They must be very happy with themselves. That's true. It makes me feel bad for them. And one of my favorite things to do to a troll, like if they comment something about like me or something like that, I like to go to their page sometimes and see that they have a child. And I'll be like commented underneath like a photo of their kid or something. Be like, Oh my God, your child is so beautiful. I hope that they never have to deal with trolls like you are being to me right now.
Starting point is 00:48:48 Because then that really wakes them up like, oh my God, somebody can be doing this to my kid one day. Which this adult grown woman is doing to me on social media. So I think it really wakes people up sometimes. Every time I've had it and I call people out, they cry, I'll get direct messages, I'm so sorry. I never mean to do it. Can you please take it down? Other people are coming at me because you left the comment
Starting point is 00:49:08 Yeah, people don't understand you leave a comment on one of our pages And I'm gonna comment back we have a kind of a big following so people that are fans are gonna come after you as well Yeah, and it doesn't feel good. It doesn't feel good. It's not a nice feeling and like them getting a response back that they don't like They're like oh my god, please take it down But yet we have to deal with that all the time. You know what I mean? So it's like a lot of good and a lot of bad. Yeah, back and forth there. But I definitely am going to start doing troll the week. That's going to be fun. All right, guys. We'll talk See you next Tuesday! Plus, CludoTV has hundreds of channels with thousands more movies and TV shows. Available on live and on demand.
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