WHOA That's Good Podcast - Marriage Real Talk: Dumb Fights, Big Laughs | Sadie, Christian, 2Mama & 2Papa

Episode Date: December 8, 2025

Every married couple argues, fights, and can even act straight-up childish sometimes — but honestly, that’s totally normal, and it doesn’t mean your marriage is in trouble! Sadie Robertson Huff, Christian Huff, 2Mama, and 2Papa (aka Sadie’s grandparents) are all hanging out together, spilling the tea on the biggest, dumbest, silliest arguments they’ve had in their marriages. Then, they react to clips from podcast guests who’re sharing their own cringe-worthy marriage fights and the laughs just keep rolling. This Episode of WHOA That's Good is Sponsored By: Exclusive $35-off Carver Mat at https://on.auraframes.com/WHOA. Promo Code WHOA https://samaritanspurse.org/occ — Share God's love with a child in need this holiday season. Join Sadie and pack a shoebox online for Operation Christmas Child this year! Upgrade your sleep—or give the gift of better rest! Go to https://trymiracle.com/WHOA and use the code WHOA to claim your FREE 3 PIECE TOWEL SET and SAVE over 40% OFF. - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Book a visit now at 905-947-9990 or at amica.ca.ca.ca.com slash Unionville. what's up everybody happy monday i hope you're having a great week it is going to get so much better after this um because it's going to be quite the episode i actually have christian co-hosting with me and we have my grandparents on the podcast two mama and two papa yeah give it up give it up for them um it's not a button those are actual clapping you know actually to mom this is the big flex on the what it's good podcast this year out of our top 10 episodes i think you were in three of them really i think you're the secret sauce okay we'll see we'll see after today you're in the hall of fame and i'll be the whipped cream yeah what secret sauce

got to have whipped cream with sauce secret sauce is whipped cream i like it like that you've never seen When you use more sauce on things than Two Papa, that is something about you, Tew Baba, that you could have a whole Instagram account called Secret Sauce and just post about the sauces you put on food. And one of them would be whipped cream. It would be the same thing because, like, he just puts everything that's out there. It's so weird. I'm picturing, like, whipped cream on cane sauce or something like that. That would not be good. I don't know where this conversation is going.

But what we're going to talk about today is actually the dumbest fights that we've had. in our marriage and actually this whole year I've been interviewing all these amazing people and after we you know stop recording our episode I've been able to ask them this question what's the dumbest fight you got into and we have some hilarious arguments people have gotten into from some of your favorite guests on the podcast this year that we cannot wait to show you all that we're going to be reacting to for the first time I've I've seen them you all haven't seen them and some of them are pretty epic but first I thought it would be great to talk about with the four of us, some of the dumb arguments we've gotten into.

But before I get into our individual marriages, one argument, awkward, dumb argument we all got into with the four of us was actually one of my favorite moments ever. So each year after Ellis Sister Conference, we've tried to make it a point to take a trip with just our family. And this past year, we were like, Your family plus us. Yes, to help.

That's what I was going to say. So we did just us the year before. And then we went just us for the first couple of days. But then I was speaking at Pepperdine at the end of that trip. And you guys have friends in Malibu. And so we were like, oh, that would be so fun. Y'all should come and come to Disney World with us, Disneyland. And it was so fun.

It was so fun that we pretty much did it again. Just last week we wanted you all to come with this to California. But there was one moment where I guess let's just say for all of our listeners. Are you clarifying this as an argument? Well, it's just funny. It's just funny. Writing in the car with Tupapa is an experience of a lifetime. I really think I should preface Tupapa.

You should. Okay, because Tupapa is what I call an external processor. True. Like, everything he thinks and sees must be spoken. It's true. Where I am an internal processor. Like, I see things and I think things, but I just don't say anything about it. So sometimes...

And you look very nice today. Thank you, sweetie. sometimes that can be a problem. So in this particular incident, Christian was on the receiving end of the external processing. Now you can start. So Tuvava was sitting, he was driving,

which I don't know how. Like he was driving? No, Christian was driving. Sorry. You were driving, you were in the front seat. We were in the back. And, okay, this is what happened. I remember now.

We were trying to get gas, but you were not, Christian, were you not getting over in the time? Two of a thought you should get over. Yeah, it was like a thousand feet to merge over. Yeah. So I'm like, there's a thousand feet to get over. So two of them kept commenting on the fact that Christian needs to get over. But you were saying it over and over.

But my blinker's on the whole time. He's doing all he can do. Fricking me out. So I get a text from Christian saying something along the front seat to the back seat. Like no one else knows this. I get a text from Christian basically. saying like he's driving me crazy. At the same time as I get a text to Mama sends

Tupoba texts. We don't know we're texting each other. None of us know saying you're driving him crazy. And Tupaba looks out on his phone and says, Who? Chris, who? Who are driving crazy? Just like blurted that out loud. And at that point. Just sitting in the back seat. So like a good wife, I'm trying to manage him and help him out. So I'm just like, you know, gently see him a text.

You're, you're, you're, you're, uh, yeah, leave him alone. Yeah, we're like, standstill L.A. traffic. Out loud. And then he's like, who? But who is, who am I bothering? Back to the external processing. And two of all was like, Christian, Johnny. And I was like, I would die as I did a few of his.

I was like, I'm going to be honest with you. I also just got a text from Christian saying the same thing. We were dying. We were all done laughing. That ended up being the best memory of the trip. It actually did, and we're still talking about it. Well, that in the earthquake. Oh, yeah.

That trip was crazy. And external processor in an earthquake is really funny. Right. I can't remember. I just remember it. What do you say? Something to yell down the hall. You can't remember one.

That was like, it's over. Don't worry about it. It's over. Yeah, that's what you said. It's making me loud. Don't worry about it. It's over. Okay, so now that we got, you know, our wheels spinning, two on, two of all.

Can you all think of some dumb arguments you've gotten into over the past 50 years of marriage? Well, well, I mean. There's just so many we could never think of just one. Yeah, here's what happened. Here's the good news about 54 years. You kind of check, y'all been read how many years? How long have we even? I'm married six years.

Okay. You've got six years. So your memory is six years, maybe add that engagement year, you know, maybe seven years. So when you've been married 54 years, you're looking at like one filing cabinet of a marriage and like 10 stuffed with memories and things and good times and bad times and disagreements and all that. So it does get harder to remember one specific argument. So, but all of them mostly that I would not save an argument because I don't know. that we even fight over things like that anymore,

because eventually you just give up, you know, like the clothes he wears. I mean, I just give up. There's no, you know, it's a fashion dilemma every day, but I'm just like, it's okay, you're fine. Don't wear socks. Just wear a black shirt and a white t-shirt under it. You know, it's like, okay, just go ahead.

Are you really not wearing socks? Never. No. That's weird. He used to tell my mom when we were dating, they match his gloves, and he'd hold his hands up like that. So, you know, after a while, there's things you just, you just give up on. That's all you do.

You just like shrug and move on. So that's the good news. Your future will hold a time when you just won't even remember the little silly arguments because your memory bank really is full of great memories and great things and that kind of thing. Now, does that mean we don't have disagreements on the daily? Weekly, monthly? Okay. that still exists

and most of them involve this external thinking process that happens often involve the car and often involved in the car trips to Huntsville with y'all are never boring

it's actually really encouraging though because I think so many couples probably especially a lot of people listening this podcast have not been married 54 years, been married six years, five years, two years, one year, maybe they're not married yet they're engaged, they're dreaming about marriage one day. And so it's nice to know, okay, it's okay to have disagreements. It's okay to have

arguments, even every single day and still have a great marriage. And 54 years later, we can say we're still married. We have an amazing family. And yet we argued a lot. And we got on each other's nerves and we got past it and we're still each other's best friend. You guys have literally gone across the country like four times over the last month. You went to New York. You went to L.A., you went to Tampa, you went to Miami, and not even, like, you went to New York, then you went to Miami, then you came back home, then you went to L.A., then you went to Tampa. Like, y'all traveled the world together, and y'all are going to see, like, comedians that you love, and you're going to be with grandkids, and you're going on dates, and, like, seeing

y'all's relationship is so inspiring. So it's actually really cool to hear you say, sometimes you drive each other crazy, but you can still have a great marriage. Well, wait, wait, have you told them what your favorite saying is? It's a crazy kind of love. No, not that. What's the other thing that you say about your marriage? Oh, yeah. Let's see.

I say that I have the most wonderful best marriage on earth. I just wish she did. Oh, yeah. I heard you say that. Which is not true. I have a great marriage. But again, part of his like external processing, he thinks that I am not having. a good time because of him driving people crazy like Christian or, you know, he's notorious

for while we're all having a great conversation about family, deciding to give us a quote about what the, what's happening over in China with the something. And we're like, we're not even talking about that. It's true. Is that true? But we love you for it. That's why I told you the pastor at church yesterday reminded me of you. I do get called to Papa Jr. sometimes, by Sadie.

But my favorite one with you is your inopportune, like, mail delivery times. Oh, yes. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. He always has mail for us. But actually, that's sweet because a lot of people say, like, people marry their dad, like, someone like their dad. And I feel like Bella married someone like our dad, like Jacobs-ault-like dad.

But you are such a, like, father figure to me my whole life. Like, you would take me on dates all the time and show up at all my games, all my sports. It's like, you are such a dad to me, and I feel like I married someone like you, because Christian is a lot like you in a lot of ways, and you're one of Christian's favorite people. So even though you did low-key drive him crazy, that one car ride, he's the one that wanted you back to him out. It endures me to people. You weren't even driving. Well, it was also probably a combination of the kids screaming in the bag.

There was a lot happening. We've been at Disneyland all day. There was a lot happening. I also have to say about two, Papa, though, he is the most, like, not sensitive. are most humble about himself. Like, you can say that, you can say, you are driving Christian crazy, and he doesn't care. So I don't know if that's not good or bad,

but I really think it is good. In the long run, it's really good because he's open to conversations about improving. He's not necessarily going to do that, but he's open to it because he'll forget it. But he's good about that. Like, I think that's what's great in any marriage that you can be humble about your,

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order is now to get it in time for the holidays support the show by mentioning us at checkout please terms and conditions apply there is a um book but i didn't read the book but i did the bible study version of it on the bible app and it was called unoffendable like being unoffendable and it was really really good and i think that you're like that and that's actually really good in marriage um especially when it comes to like little arguments because that's how they don't become big ones is if you just let them roll off not even like laugh it off like just know who you are be unoffendable uh christ and i were trying to think of the dumbest arguments we've had and what's actually cool is even just six years which is not a lot amount of time we couldn't even hardly

think of one because even though we know we do have dumb arguments a lot like we couldn't pinpoint like oh wouldn't that happen or that happened because when you look back even like this past month I'm like, you start to not remember those little things, you know, because they're just not that big of a deal. And you, I feel like in just six years, we're not as bothered by things as we used to. Like, for instance, there was this part of the closet that Christian had all of his clothes and that he had not unboxed these clothes that this company sent him. You told me this last night.

I know, but I was like, you know what? I was like, you know what, though? I didn't let it really bother me. And this is good because Christian. got this company sent him all these clothes and they've been sitting in our closet forever in the same spot and like hey it would be great if you kind of like go through those clothes well yeah I got through the clothes I'd go through the clothes and then he also has like a million hats and I'm like hey like you should go through those hats because they're taking up our entire counter space

and also he continues to buy new hats so I'm like you've got to go through the hats these hats in the meantime no you do buy a lot of hats in the meantime I cleaned out all my side of the closet I'm also cleaning out all the girls closet so i'm like okay you can do this one portion you are good at that sata you're like i do try she was doing all that in spite she was doing all that in spite of me not cleaning the clothes oh she's no i really wasn't yeah i was going to say no i wasn't i just wanted myself to be clear yeah you're good about that and so it was just funny because last night you're thinking of dumb arguments and i was like you know what's funny is i was like i actually have asked you like at least 10 times to clean this closet and the hats but i haven't been annoyed by it like i'm not

frustrated by you. It hasn't caused a fight. It's just something that I continue to You're not fighting with him. You're not throwing hats at him. You're not bad. It's not like a huge deal. It's just like, hey, I'd love for you to do that at some point. And I was like, I think that that's just a small thing of growth in our marriage in just six years by not being like, you know, in your first year you're so sensitive to things where it's like you don't listen to me. I've asked you so many times. Like none of that. It's just like, hey, for real boy. Get your hats. out of the way. I'm really not a messy person. It just, when he gets to the point of, like, oh, being, it's like, it's like a big task. I don't know where I would start with my hundred hats. Yeah.

Well, we're like that with two papa's table that sits beside his chair in our bedroom. Like, our bedroom is like the biggest mess ever all the time because his pile is just an entire. That's like me. That's like, an entire area. But if you cleared that spot, The whole room would feel different. Yes, like, he just keeps stacking things on.

He's like saying, I'm going to read that. I'm going to read that. I'm like, when are you going to read 50 things that are stacked up there? And he says, when he like totally, he says eventually, yeah, like when he totally retires, which I don't ever see that happening. You're ever going to totally retire. The other arguments that we could think of, though, all were in COVID days, which is funny. I think because we were like quarantined together.

Well, long distance and dating. engagement to quarantine marriage. Yeah, that will call us some dumb arguments. What were the ones that we thought of? The COVID, the driving to Florida. Oh, this is funny. Yeah, we did get in a pretty dumb. This was you being sensitive. Yeah. This was bad. This would not have happened now. So during COVID, crazy days. Do you want to tell the story? Yeah, so it's like height of COVID crazy times. So we're driving to Florida because you can't, this was at the point where, you know, where the airport were still shut down and everything. So we were driving to go visit my family for something.

It was over the summer. We had no kids yet. It was just the two of us. And we were driving to Florida. We get to like the state line of Alabama and Florida. So to kind of go into Florida, kind of near Pensacola, that area right there. And you come up to this checkpoint. It's like the interstate's like shut down.

This is important. And this is so crazy to think about. But at the time, no one from the. state of Louisiana or the state of New York could enter Florida because Louisiana and New York were such big COVID hub. I think we knew that. No, we did know that. But we were like, yeah, I remember that. They were saying it was cause of Mardi Gras. Yeah, because Mardi Gras was at the beginning of all COVID. We're on driving interstate. Like, how do you? Yeah. So we were like, they're not going to know. Like your family's there. We're just going to go. You know, it's fine.

Yeah. Well. So the interstate, it's like block. It's like blockaded. It's like, you can't, it's like barricaded. You can't keep driving the other states. They like, you get merged over to like one of the, you know, one of those roadside checkpoint things. Yeah. And there's like 30 cop cars. So you have to like, they have these, they have these like individual like stations. They have these like individual like station tent set up and you don't have to get out or anything.

You just kind of pull it through. And this person, you like, roll that to end of this person's like, This person's like super intense. Thankfully, we were in your car, which still had your Florida license plate. But the whole time we're leading up to it, I'm saying to Christian, you cannot lie. You cannot lie. If they ask us, like, if we've been in Louisiana, like, we just have to tell them. But this was still time when people were, like, crazy.

It was like, you get locked up in a hotel for two weeks. And we were seeing that. Remember, we just saw Craig Rochelb had been locked in that hotel for two weeks. Yeah, like crazy stuff. Yes, this is so crazy. So we pulled through this thing and I'm in my truck. I still have my Florida license plate and the cop. So Sadia has this whole mantra.

We're going to say. We're going to say your family's from here. We've driven seven hours. We can't turn around. But in my mind, I'm thinking, what if we pull in and they're like come to the holiday and with us for two weeks? You know, I'm like, we're not doing this. So I pull in and they're.

But it's funny is the whole time Christian was just telling me, okay. Like he never told me. Oh, yeah. He was just like, yeah. And I'm like, okay, you're just going to tell him with your family. He's like, listening to me, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. So we pull him and the officer's like... No, this person's like intense.

Have you been to Louisiana, New York, or some of the random state? In the last two weeks, have you been to New York somewhere else in Louisiana? And Christian goes, nope. And I was like... Oh, thank you. Chris is like, say yourself. And Sadie was so... And I was like, you lied.

And he was like, I have... I was like either we're driving seven hours back to Louisiana or we're at the Hampton Inn. I'm like, yeah, I'm like, did you want to turn around drives over there? Do you want to be in the Hampton? I'm like, I told you not to lie. And I was like, who would we be? Because you were like, you know, Christians like, well, we were in a war, you would sometimes have to lie to save yourself. And I was like, I don't know if I could do it.

That was crazy. I don't condone lying because it is a sin. But the funniest part, though, which is like the buildup. And I just was like, and you were just going along with it. Like, yes, it's exactly what I'm doing. He's like, have you been to the show in New York, Louisiana the past two weeks? And you're like, no. I'm like.

The Lord forgave you. He did forget us. And we got to go be in Florida. And we had a good time with my family. We did have a good time. That's like a very memorable trip because I remember just the beginning stages of COVID. Like any door we open, we could like dramatic. So where did they think y'all were coming from?

Well, thankfully he had that Florida license. license. Oh, okay. Like, okay, so maybe you were just in Alabama or so. Okay. Yeah, that makes sense. Oh, man. That is.

I would have been at the holiday end for two weeks if he asked me the questions. That's so funny. Or you would have been seven hours back to the last. Or seven hours. I would have been in talk of 15 hours. Oh, my gosh. I think Christian said something though that kind of speaks to remembering things. As you said, it was just YouTube.

So that, of course you're going to remember that. Now you have three kids that layer everything else. So like your brain. can't, like, now we have three kids, three-in-law kids, 14 grandkids, 10 great-grandkids. Like, we've got a lot of other people who can annoy us. You know, it doesn't have to just be healed, you know what I mean? And we can also use each other as like, okay, you're my sounding board for if I'm annoyed. At a sister or at a brother or, you know, or somebody else in the family, you know.

So you kind of then form this camaraderie of like, you know, we're a team. So I think that's, I'm giving y'all some more advice for 54 years. That's good. That's actually so true because all of our memories of annoying each other was when we were before we had kids. It's just y'all. Yeah. And then actually we've been saying that we feel more like a team than ever because you are our team and because we're dealing with the fresh reasons we have with a two-year-old or with like, you know, all the parenting of all the things. Which is way harder actually than saying no to a, you know, when you're dealing with a sick child or a disobedient child or something, that just is, that's so hard.

Yeah. And then the other things, just take a back seat in your memory banks because it's just not really that important. No, because that's the thing, like the big arguments stand out because they were a big deal. Right. You know, it was like, oh, we were arguing over how we're going to parent the situation or what we're going to do or all of those things. but like the funny ones and just throughout the day like the dumb little ones you didn't put your hats up or you didn't it doesn't really matter so you can hardly even remember it yeah but then thinking back to our marriage those were like silly but at the time that was our big deal you know so it's funny okay friends one of my favorite childhood memories around christmas was actually packing operation christmas child's shoes boxes. We did it at our school every year. And there was just something magical about, you know, packing the toys, the crayons, the stickers, and knowing that it's going to a kid around the

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Yeah, most of our arguments are usually pretty, pretty good ones. They're not like, oh, that's kind of stupid. It's like, for real. There's some validity there. That's true. We're in the deep end now. Because I was thinking about this one, I was like, that was probably a dumb argument. But I was like, actually, no, that was actually probably, that was probably a big one.

Yeah. Or I was the end of the communion one. Remember we were doing communion together? That's just like the funniest thing ever. Like, it was so not funny at the time, but it is funny to think back on. That was like the hardest thing we have been through. Yeah. We walked through a really difficult time, and then we both came together.

We're like, hey, let's do. Let's take communion. Let's take communion. So we're taking communion. We tried to take communion. Well, we were in the process of taking communion. And then I think I said, I was like, let me just, I need to flesh out one more thought, you know. And then that blew up.

Remember, then you slam the door you said, I'm going on a walk. And it was like. There, meanwhile the communion cups are just sitting there. Grape juice was never. This was, yeah. I was just sitting at the table just looking at the grape juice and the bread and you're just on the little moonlight

mad on the little moonlight walk I know it's just actually just I have given people that advice for take communion because hey it'll bring you to Jesus it'll bring you together it might you might have to confess or repent throughout the process

but that is a funny memory to think back on so we have a lot of different ones that I would love to show from this year the first one is from Alina Franklin, they had just gotten married. I don't even know that they've been married for a year. And so let's see what her dumb argument is. Like, I assumed that he would take care of all the car things.

I didn't say that to his face. I just was like, you're stepping into this. Yes. And I needed an oil change. And I just was like, oh, I need an oil change. And like a few days went by and I still hadn't gone in oil change. And I was such a brat. I don't even remember how it happened, but eventually, like, I just was like, you have not gotten me in oil change.

And I just started crying. He's like, what in the world? I storm out. This is probably like two months into marriage. It was probably our worst and also dumbest fight ever because it was like, I just said it. Y'all are doing great. But PSA to every guy out there, it is an assumption. It's your job.

I mean, sorry. It's not your job if you don't want if your wife doesn't need you. But I feel like it's his job. It is an expectation most women are going into marriage once. So you might just want to get the oil change. I was the same way. I'd be like, yeah, like my oil, like, he's going off, like, he, he, you're going to do that? And then even, like, whenever we have, like, the inspection stickers here and, like, oh, that's, like, expired, you know, like, just kind of noting it.

And it's so funny. And Christian also, like, he gets annoyed when he gets in my car and, like, I'm on low gas. And what he doesn't know is, like, no, that's actually intentional, like, because I was waiting to be with you. So that you can pump the gas. And he's always like, how are you always on low gas, and then that's intentional. It's not low gas. You're like, you're on, it's like three miles. Also, I love the beginning of that when she was talking about that.

You were like, yes, yes, as if I don't do everything for your car. No, no, no, no. Listen, this is going to spark a dumb argument about all my commentary in these videos because I was going with the people. I was like, yes. But listen, expectation without communication results in frustration. And a lot of girls go into marriage expecting their husband be all these things, but they never communicate it. And then people are getting frustrated out there.

You just got to express your desire. And I think, again, it's that what your dad did and my dad, and I do remember doing this in our first six months of marriage with him saying something about, I'm not your dad, you know, because daddy was the, get the gas for mom, do all the things. You know, he came home from work. He went right in the kitchen, helped her. We had six kids. He'd get the vacuum out. He'd did all the things.

This was not this man. Well, I asked my question. In 53 years, I can't remember when did. It just seems like you always took care of your own stuff. You always change your own oil. You always got your own gas. Yeah. How did that come about?

I don't know. Which is funny because. I feel like you did a lot of stuff for me. But the big things, like the license. Yeah, the license, you always help me with that kind of stuff. He's always taking it. And like, now I've got a low tire at this very moment. And I'm like, keep saying, I've got a low tire.

I take care of the low tire. And he takes care of the low tire. That is so funny. You actually do always take care of all my car stuff. And you do pump my gas. And I'm so appreciative. Well, the sweet thing about you is I usually notice, I usually notice what's wrong with car before you do.

Yeah, you do. So I'll get in the car and be like, hey, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're, like, it's like, for, like, for some reason, no one decided to tell me the night when you and honey haven drove my car the next day I got in it and I was like gagging and like, you're, like, rolling on the way as fast I can I call Christian, did you all notice a smell in here last night and Chris like, oh yeah, honey said it smelled like chitos. I'm like, and no one looked for where that was coming from.

We just let that be. one more night, one more day's worth, it's horrible. That would be like Johnny's would notice the gas low, but not notice to take out the McDonald's snack that smells so bad. Yes, oh, that's bad. Okay, this one is from Brandon Nix. I'm just going to tell you all, this is the craziest one I've ever heard.

So without further ado, and if I agreed with this, I was just being a good sister, Nathan. So we were freshly married. And we drove, we were living in an apartment, we were still in apartments, but we were driving into our apartment complex. And he got out of the car first. And I was sitting in the passenger seat and there's this girl that walked by. And I thought he said, wow, you have a really pretty dog. I thought he said, while you're really pretty or something like that, like to her, but come to find out like later after all the chaos, I'm about to tell you happened.

He was saying you had a really pretty dog, you know. I didn't see the dog. It was a tiny little teacup something and I That is hilarious I remember like I got in the car and I just said there I gave him the silent chair I'm like whatever I'm not coming inside so he went upstairs and I'm still sitting in the car and I'm pouting and I'm like I cannot believe he said that is he kidding me right now you think he can just go out and compliment

you know a girl and I'm sitting right like what is he doing so I like I came upstairs I gave him a silent treatment he jumped in the shower and this is going to sound like I'm crazy I mean I kind of been crazy but like I thought I grabbed like paparica or something. I don't know. Like, I don't remember what seasoning I thought it was, but I ran into the shower

and, like, put cold water on his head and then poured paprika, but it was actually chili powder. It was cayenne pepper is what it actually was. And he's like, this is burning my eyes. And he's like, what is wrong with you? Are you crazy? And it was like such a horror story.

He literally, like, wrapped up in the shower and fell to the ground. I'm like, you called that girl pretty. Like, what is wrong with you? He's like, what are you talking about? And I'm like, there's a girl that you called pretty. And he's like, no, the dog was pretty. And so I'm so embarrassed even sharing that.

But that's like one of our go. How did you even think to go grab the spice? Like, why was it? What was I thinking, right? Like, I wanted to turn him orange, you know, like whatever. Because we're very jocative in our family. That is hilarious. But like, every time we tell that story, I get immediately so embarrassed because I'm like,

what was wrong with me? That is so funny to me. And then come to find out the lady, this is even more embarrassed. saying the lady that he was talking to is actually our downstairs neighbor knows and I have to see her all the time that is so amazing so every time you live here you're like you're really pretty and your dog is too yeah they're still married I miss your pregnant laugh I know me too my pregnant laugh is so much funny yes they're still married yes I was like how did you even think to go to the spice cabinet like I would never even thought of that she was like I

I wanted to turn him orange. That was an intrusive thought unlocked. She just said full sin that. That is hilarious. That's the next level. I've never done something like that to you. You have not. Thank God.

No, we never did. No. I didn't think of that one. But that was pretty funny. That is one of those things that it would be a huge argument if he actually did color pretty, but it ends up being a dumb argument because it was the dog. Yeah. Yeah.

But it's just funny. That is just hilarious. The other day, Christian was made. making a joke. Someone, like, our friend showed us this picture of this girl. And Christian said, Dadgum. And I said, Christian, you can't be saying dad gum to another woman. He was quoting something that we had both seen.

And then after I said that, his parents. But it wasn't even to the... A 10-minute speech on, like, how we can't be jealous of other people. We can't appreciate other attractive people. I was like, I was kidding. I was not really mad about the dad-gum. I thought it was funny. I'm saying that to the listeners.

Yeah, yeah, you weren't actually saying. No, I'm saying to the listeners. Oh, they're not thinking I actually said daddy going to go. No, but it was just funny because it was followed by us getting a speech on not being jealous in marriage and being confident that we want each other. But I was like, I do want you. I know you want me. That was just joking. And he can appreciate somebody else being attracted.

That's okay. You can acknowledge that. That's a generational thing, though, that is interesting because I don't know if it's generational or if it's just 30 years. in marriage for his parents, 50 years in marriage for y'all, in six years, like, okay, y'all will say, oh, it doesn't matter, you can say someone's attractive and it's fine. But, like, it seems like such a big deal for young people to hear their, you know, spouse say someone's attractive, even if they just are attractive. Like, I feel like it automatically causes arguments. In that case, I actually was kidding. But I'm interested to hear your thought on that,

because I think that's actually pretty, like, universal. This is off the cusp, but you were not planning on talking about that? No, I just want to know what y'all think. No, I know. I'm just saying, I'm okay. Yeah. Well, I mean, I think for us, it's never been a jealousy thing like that. I mean, he's free to say she is so pretty. And like yesterday, in fact, we were at the hub. Was it the hub? No, where were we? No, we weren't at the hub. I don't know where we were. But some guy, oh, we were at the ball game, at Justice's ball game. Some guy walked by with this really great hair. And he said, he said, I really would like that, would love to have that hair.

I want that hair, he said. And I said, you had, you had that hair, but it was 50 years ago. I would rather you have that stomach he has. And he just laughed about it because, you know, that's. Well, that's it. Like Chandler and Sharira were saying, because, like, we know we want each other. And it was, it was a funny thing because Chandler had just. just spill koso on his shirt and he she was like i want the guy with koso on a shirt even if that

guy's attracted which like i guess young people you know that but you're so sensitive to like you're still young but you're young and you just got married and i don't i don't even feel like now i really was not bothered by that and even if you did say she was pretty that's so different than like when we were dating i would i would have been sensitive to that and that was something i had to work on was jealousy well you're still gaining you're still gaining you're gaining confidence in your relationship and, you know. Totally. So that's an interesting topic of conversation.

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Okay, next we have Chitima and Mel, which was actually one of y'all's favorite top ten podcast of the year as well. We had a little girl chat and talked about meeting husbands, and it was really cute. So here's their arguments. This is actually so crazy of me. Like, this reflects poorly on me. It normally falls on our craziness. I'm super particular, just in general, but I'm very particular about the dishes.

Like, that's, if we're going to get into a fight, it's probably going to be about the dishes. And when we were getting married, we got a new set of, like, uh, Pyrex, um, just pyrexes, you know, uh, Tupperware. That's what it was. And so we, so the old ones that I had, I was like, okay, Michael, basically the old ones are yours. Like, if you want to take them to work, take them to work, because he'll take it to work and then not bring it back. So I'm like, just to avoid any. argument, any fight. You take the old ones. The new ones from our registry are just for,

like, at home, like for food prep or meal prep, things like that. And so that was, that's always been our agreement. And I was out of town once, and these things tend to happen when I'm out of town. But I'm out of town and I notice, because I count them how many, so you see, again, crazy, super crazy, but I count how many are there, the new ones. And one of them, was missing. And so I was like, hey, did you take one of the Pyrexes to work? And he was like, oh, yeah, I did. I, like, I wasn't thinking about it. Whatever. I was like, okay, where is it? He was like, oh, it's in the car. I'll go grab it, right? He goes to grab it. There was food. I can't even, because I'm getting mad again. There was food all in it. But it was like

spaghetti, like meat sauce, like red meat sauce. So you know how that gets. stuff and it's gross. I crashed out. I literally was like, we've talked about this. I'm not a yeller, so I didn't yell. But just like very calmly, I was like, we talked about this. And now the red sauce is stuck in the lid. And so that's super dumb. Like I'm talking about it now, super dumb. It does not matter. We can buy more. But at the time, it's like a really big deal. Oh my gosh. I did not talk to him for the rest of the night. Like, oh, my gosh. And isn't it so funny when you're saying something? like silly, but in the tone, it's like, the red sauce is stuck to the thing.

And it's like, you're related to our red sauce being stuck to it, but it matters. But it matters. It gets personal because you're like, and I told you. I asked you. That was my whole thing. I was like, I asked you basically specifically not to do this. And you did. And he was like, and then it turned into a bigger fight because he was like, well, it's not a big deal.

Like, why, why can't like, why can't you see something? Now we're getting deep. But he was like, why can't you see something and just like give me grace? So I was like, well, I specifically asked you, it feels like you're disrespecting me and not doing what I'm asking. And so then it became this bigger fight. Because the dumb arguments, there's a root to it. There's always a root to it and why it bothered you so much. Right.

You know? Right. And it's not necessarily the other person's fault. No. Yeah. It's not. That's so true. And you know what?

It's so funny how many people have brought up the dishes. That is a thing. It's crazy. It's a thing. I know. I think me and Christian are the opposite. Like Christian is you and I'm the Michael. Really?

Because I don't. Yeah. He's more. particular and so he always does the dishes because he knows if I did it it would annoy him right he wants them done a specific way because I'm like no dishes for you yes I'm doing the dishes I'm fine with that and then if I do it like it'll be like the way he says stuff to me though sometimes where it's like and I'm like I know how to do the dishes right you think I'm not capable even he says that all the time Michael says that is so real it's always someone who does the dishes right and that is

the you and Christians, and who just piles it all in there. That's the me. You'll get washed. It'll be fine. That's so great. Mel, have you thought of y'all's dumb argument? I don't know. Like, we have not any, like, blow-up arguments, but all of mine, all of ours are about

my particularity is, like, too, like, and that kind of thing. Like, there was one time where he wanted to bake something, and it was, like, a roast, like, and something in a pan, and we had some, I had some brand-new pans versus, like, the old ones, and he pulled out to a brand-new ones. I was like, hey, why don't we use an old one for that? And he was like, why can't I use that, you know, like that? But I think, like, the trash is honestly the, like, thing. And he accused me, like, so I have this thing with trash that I don't want it to smell.

Like, so if we have food trash, I'm like, hey, can we, like, put, like, a smaller trash bag in, like, and hang it here and put all food trash in there so that we can take the smaller trash bag out. Immediately, yeah. Immediately. Yeah, I know, I'm like, no, I get that. So then we can, like, take the smaller trash bag out immediately. And then we don't, like, waste large trash bags because, you know, like, all, you know, like, all that thing, that kind of thing. And, like, it's just the hardest thing for him to, like, remember. And so I kind of, like, I may have, like, you know, said something that might have, like, thought him think, like, I was like, this is just just common sense, babe.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, I'm always something receiving in that. Yeah, exactly. So, evidently, you know, that wasn't the most kind thing to say, which I do agree. Yeah. But it is. No, but I totally get you. So Christian would be like, yes, that is so true.

That is so real. That is hilarious. See, I really, I really was honest that whole, I guess. Yeah, you were. That is true. Those were good. Those were good. Because it's, I think if you're going to be really particular about something and hang on to it, you're going to have some arguments.

Yeah. You know, you have to figure out how far you can take that particular thing that you love. Yep. You know, like if you, like she loves those. pyrex dishes like how far are you willing to take that because you will have an argument yeah about that particular thing it's true so there's things that both sides just have to yes and that's the thing where what I was saying with the closet scenario is that it didn't turn into that like it didn't turn into you don't listen to me I've asked you so many times like I wasn't

offended because I knew it wasn't personal like it didn't have to do with him like not trying to value what I say or respect what I've asked. I know, Christian, and I know that's overwhelming. It's like so many hats. It's at the point where he's really going to have to sit down and think about which has he wants, which has he doesn't, what he's going to give away, what he's going to give away, what does you keep. And because I had just done it with the closet, it does take a lot of time. So it's like just not taking things personal. That is really the key to a successful marriage is not taking really very few things personal. In the going down that line of thinking that they don't love me, they do this because they don't love me.

Or they do this because they're not attracted to me or they don't do this because. And really, most of the time, they don't have a reason for why they're doing whatever they're doing. It's not thinking. And it's not the thing that we're, as ladies, women are thinking that they're thinking. It's not that at all. They just aren't thinking. Or vice versa, the other way, or I'm just not thinking, you know. It's true.

I love that. That's so true. All right. Next, we have Don Cherie. Okay, so I think probably our first year of marriage, one of the dumbest fights we've ever had. I can say it's dumb now. It was not dumb to me in the moment. It's always, yeah, it never feels that way in the moment.

And it's normally the first year. It was Rich continually leaving his beard trimmings in the sink. Oh, that is annoying. It created quite the fight. And Rich probably thought it was dumb from day one, but it wasn't dumb for me that first year. We've gotten past it. Your toothbrush is there. Oh, so thank you.

We're on the same team. No, we, we still have this conversation because my toothbrush is there. Exactly. You have your own sink. No, when we're on vacation, like when we're traveling anywhere, we're still working on it. We're still working on it. We're still working on that. That is so funny.

That is perfect. No, for real. When we're traveling and you shave your beard and my toothbrush is right there about all the little hairs that is actually. I'm growing it out now, so you don't have to worry about it. I'm so thankful. Okay, moving along, we had Jess. okay friends let's talk about kitchen stuff for a second you know we are all trying to cook healthier

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This Connelly. Well, the dumbest argument that I ever got in was the night I got married. No. The night of our wedding. And it was because I made the mistake that most brides make and that I did not eat at my wedding. And I was hungry and I was starving. And we went back to our hotel and we had a wonderful night.

And then it was 1 o'clock in the morning. And I was so hungry. and I remember just begging my husband to go get me food and he was like well it's it's the middle of the night like I don't know where to get you food and um I just cried and I was I was a I was a very hungry 20 year old who needed her mommy literally and I remember I just yelled and screamed and I went to bed cry my little eyes out oh my gosh that's so real though because I I can relate but it's like during pregnancy because one time my great grandpa so my great grandma was telling me a story about my great-grandpaul, how she craved tacos during her pregnancy.

And, like, at midnight, he went to fast food, like, got her, like, tacos, brought it back to her because he knew she wanted them. Wow. And so, yeah, so I threw out one time, like, hey, babe, like, you know what sounds really good right now, like a breakfast toaster from Sonic? And guess what he didn't do? Yeah. Get out of bed and go get me the breakfast toast.

I will say for the last 20 years now. My husband will go get the food because he's like, never again. I'm not doing that again. First night was the worst. Night was the worst. Remember, I actually did say that. I was like, oh, you know, it sounds so good. It was like a breakfast toaster from Sonnet.

I thought you were being. You were joking. Yeah, I know. And then I said it a couple more times. And then what did I do? I got my own butt up and I went in the kitchen and I got myself out, tortillas, cheese, eggs, and bacon. And I made a homemade one.

And you came in and you said, are you really doing this right now? I don't remember this. Is that what a breakfast toaster? That would never happen with us because if I mention food, he's in the car. That's never going to be y'all's argument. That's never a problem. That is so good. It's obviously with us.

I won't ever be hungry, and he's just like over there, I'm ready for something. We did skip lunch today. We did. Do you're going to get lobster rolls at Captain D's after this. That's true, not too. I did that last night. You in a row wouldn't be bad, though. Oh, my gosh.

But that is a source of, like, arguments is whenever you, like, see someone else's spouse do it, and then you try to, like, see if you're supposed to it, like, don't play that game. Like, if that was so sweet that Popol Shack did that for Memo Joe, but that doesn't mean you have to go do that for me and that you're, you know what I mean? But that's, like, a sweet scenario because it's my great-grandpa, but, like, a lot of people, it's, like, social media. It's like, oh, well, her husband did this for her and you won't do this for me or whatever. And that's a sticky slope to get him. All right. Next, we have Lindsay Girk, which is such a fun podcast issue.

I do remember it was early on in our relationship. It was a big fight over the dishwasher and how things should go. And he thought that the tongs should go down. I thought that they should go up because the food. It was a whole thing, even down to the cups. And we were arguing. We were very upset about this. And I think I was like, well, then you can do the dishes all the time then if you love it.

perfectly. And come to find out, now he does do the dishes. Now in the dishwasher. It works in your favor. I do the laundry. He does the dishes. And he's particular. And sometimes we learn, like, sometimes they're just, we're particular about certain things. And I'm not going to argue if he's going to do the dishes. Are the tongs down now? They are. I did win that one. They are up. They're up. So he's doing the dishes and they're up. Girl, you came out on top for that. Double win. That's so funny. The dishes. All right, moving on long we have the parries and this one made me laugh i think one of because i've been married 11 years now so i'm sure there's a lot of there's many but the one i can remember that would be the dumbest

is probably we were married maybe two years we had moved into a new apartment like three preston preston had he was no longer working um because he was working at radio shack and them live strong bracelets went out you know it was like bro you the business this is going down. And so he wasn't working. He was traveling here and there, but my book was about to come out. And so I was making a certain amount of money that I think gave me a sense of pride and entitlement, but also anxiety. And so I came home and it's two things. You bought some shoes and he bought a basketball hoop to put on the back of the door. And in my mind, she was so mad. I'm like, whose money was that? You know what I'm saying? And so I'm like, yeah, why would you buy that?

So we had this whole argument Because I was, the energy I was given Was not humble, respectful, loving But it was from this place of now I got a book an event to pay for them shoes That you decided to buy Because crescent shoes are never $75. You got some nice shoes.

He don't got, you know, T.J. Max Marshall's Price shoes. And so And so, and for me, I was just irritated Because I'm like, you know, I think that same month I came up with this idea to like, you know, start my clothing line which actually does really well for us right now and she kind of gave me her blessing

and I'm like this basketball room actually helps me think in this place and so shooting or whatever and so I was like I wasn't just at home like you know playing like I'm actually thinking about ideas and you know what I mean and so yeah like does you ever come home work from work

and he's just chilling so it just plays this part of like so you ain't been doing nothing Yeah, but I actually was thinking. I know you were. I know you were ideated. We've been there. You were ideated.

The basketball goal helps me think. That's a good one. It did. So that was stupid. So that was stupid. I love his justification, though, of that basketball. I know. He's like, hold on now.

That was useful. All right. Now we got Sophia Watts. And then we got Miss Tara Tucker. One. I mean, it was obviously probably lying. I don't know if it's time of the month. I was obviously.

That always plays a factor. It does. It really does. um bad day and um i am very serious when we go order food at restaurants i don't like sauce i don't like ketchup i like no sauce so i'm very serious about my salts and my seasonings because it's going to taste gross because i don't eat sauce if it doesn't have seasoning fair so every time we go to then where i'm like can you get like an extra cup of the french fry seasoning and this day i was really hungry and i was like don't forget and taylor i like to check my

food before I leave the drive-through window and he won't and I'm like you know it's easier if you just check it now we won't have to get back through the line if it's like wrong he left and I was like wait did you check to make sure the seasoning was in there it's stupid you ask this is so real this is so real oh I was so I got did not check oh it was a it was such a bad argument and it it wasn't even about the seasoning at that point it got to the point where I was like why did you just get so mad Why are we arguing? So embarrassing to talk about. But then you start arguing about the fact that you're arguing.

That's always what the bigger argument is. Isn't that so weird? I can totally relate to that. Oh, me and Christian have had very similar in the drive-through line of places. I can't remember what happened. Oh, we had a, this was similar. We had a reg, actually. Like, it was our first time to, like, experience a reg together.

And we were just dating. Yeah, we were engaged. And we had this reg. and we both were scared out of our minds because it was like a really scary thing. Well, then we wanted to go to Chick-fil-A because we were both hungry and we like called ahead

because we knew they were going to close and they ended up so they took our order. They said we got it and we got there and we were like, hey, we had an online order or we called ahead and we told y'all we were coming and they're like, we're closed

and we're like, no, no, no, no, like we called y'all and you told us that you had it and they were like, well, we don't have it and we're closed. I can't. We then turn on each other. And it was like...

We know we're arguing with each other. And we get mad at each other. Like, you should have called to you should have made sure. I'm like, I did make sure I'm scared. Like, we decided right. And then, like, the only place open was, like, Sonic. I was like, I don't even like Sonic. I don't even want to eat anymore.

And then we both, like, then he was being so rude to me. I was being sober to him. And finally, I got out of the car. And now I'm just walking in the parking lot. And I'm like, and then it's so embarrassing because you're like, now what do I do like you got to get back in the car because we're still like an hour away from where we're going and then like just the the like humility that it takes to get back in the car and then it's like you're fighting pride because you want to laugh because you know you're being

ridiculous but you're like it's not funny yet one day we can laugh at this but not today yeah no it's so real it's so real hey but if you don't have sauce you need you need the season. Yeah, I hear you. You know how people get upset about their sauce? I hear you. Yes, that is hilarious. So embarrassing. Like, Taylor seemed like I cannot believe you said that. That is so funny. I actually forgot about that one, but that was a good one. That was an epic one. All right, turning on the last one, Miss Tara, who is our marriage counselor, so let's see what her and her husband has heard. He has heard all of our dumb arguments. Yeah. Coming from a, you know, therapist, I'm very interested to hear you and Mr. David's arguments. And I'm like, let's pick one. Everybody who knows Mr. Wright,

He is like, he is such a good man, but he's a character. Like he smokes his cigars and I wish he wouldn't. He drives this big gray squirrel of a truck that sounds like a helicopter. It's like the only one. Like where we live, there's all kinds of fancy cars, but there is this, we call it the squirrel. There's just one of them. It is the squirrel. It is something.

Yeah. And he loves to drive it. And he has to wear his just khaki pants. Like, it's almost like he has a uniform. Yep. And so I learned a long time ago to choose my battles. but we've argued over him stealing my toothbrush. We have argued over him trying to make me drive the squirrel on a rainy day.

I mean, like, it's just the silly things, but I can argue just like anybody else and go completely silly and get straight to the point if you only loved me. And I'm like, oh, that's manipulative and passive aggressive at the same time. You're like hearing your counseling in your ear. Yes. That is so funny. You know, in every marriage, there's someone who cares about sharing a toothbrush and there's someone who doesn't. I care. I don't care. I don't care. You and Gracie. I care. Okay, Gracie has also

recently stole my toothbrush. People didn't need to know that because she's living with us for a little bit. And so Mr. David, like two weeks ago. And then Gracie, I'm like, have it, y'all. That's disgusting. It's good to know you don't. Oh, we were just in Canada and I was like, oh, I forgot my toothbrush. And Christian's like, you are not using mine. I was like, yes, I'm using yours. Yes. I was like, you kiss me. I can brush my teeth. I'm not. That. That's not. That. Even a recent one. With the cigars. I'm like, look, if you want to, and for years, for years we would argue about it.

And I finally went, choose your battles, woman. If that's the worst thing he's doing and he smells like a cigar as he drives the squirrel in his khaki pants and listens to like his strangeish kind of music, not bad music, but I'm just like, what are you doing? Then let him be the character. Now that's good. That is good. Well, that's good. Think your battles. That reminds me of y'all.

Well, friends, I. I love this. We've talked about laughing a lot in this podcast, but you also learn a lot. And I think it ultimately comes down to pick your battles. Don't take things too personally. Don't be too sensitive. And later in life, 54 years down the road, you're going to look back at memories. And those are the things you're going to remember in a bad sense. This would be things you laugh at or can hardly even recall. And I love what y'all said. You've become such a team throughout it because then other people start to annoy you and you become each other soundboard. I love that. Well, I hope y'all enjoyed this episode and leave a comment. If you have a funny story with you and your marriage, we'd love to see it.

Isn't it great when you can talk about dumb arguments and not getting one after? It's great.