WHOA That's Good Podcast - The Line I Won't Cross on Social Media | Sadie Robertson Huff & Lindsey Gurk

Episode Date: May 12, 2025

Lindsey Gurk is an entrepreneur, social media influencer, wife, and mom—and today, she meets Sadie for the first time in a conversation you won’t want to miss! In this episode, Lindsey and Sadie dive into what it means to share their faith on large social platforms, why Lindsey and her husband made the intentional decision not to show their kids on social media, and so much more. Lindsey also opens up about her organization, Get Your Pink Back, the surprising significance of flamingos in her life, and how a moment of frustration and powerlessness sparked the beginning of her brand. This Episode of WHOA! That's Good is Sponsored By: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Many of you I know recognize her today in the office. You have been like the talk of the office. So weird. Thank you for coming to Louisiana. Thank you for having me. I love Louisiana. It's awesome. Is this your first time? The people are so nice. I've been to New Orleans once before.

But no, the people are so nice. Where I'm staying is beautiful. It just feels good. And I'm so excited to be here. So thank you for having me on. Oh, we're so excited. And truly, we do have a lot of people come into this office. But today, all the girls, because this is Duck Commander.

So we have a lot of people, but a lot of it's like guys and whatever. But you came in, every girl that works here is like, oh my gosh, I watch her TikToks, I watch her Instagrams. And so it's just a joy to get to know you more and to step into this conversation. So I'm going to ask you the question I ask every single person who's on the podcast and that is, Lindsey,

what is the best piece of advice you have ever been given? I'm prepared, I know it. So I was pregnant with my son, our first born child, and I had just lost my mom and I was asking my mother-in-law like, what do I do? Like, how do I be a mom? How do I do any of this? And she said, honey, you just love them and pray.

And that's proven not to be true just with motherhood, because there's so much information out there. And when you're trying to be your best and do your best, you know, you can get lost in it. So it's not only great for motherhood, but it's also great for just in life. You know, if someone mistreats you, you just love them and pray for them.

And so it's like the best piece of advice that I've ever received and I'm grateful for it. I love that. Gosh, I am so glad you shared that because I remember whenever I first became a mom and having this moment in the hospital, right after I had honey, I'm already feeling so overwhelmed

with all the things I needed to do and had to do. And you know, you're trying to figure out breastfeeding and you're trying to figure out this. All the while you're like hurting. And you're trying to figure out breastfeeding and you're trying to figure out this. All the while you're hurting. And then what am I gonna do? It's like all the million questions of what do you do? How do you do?

How do I become a mom? And the fear of going home from the hospital when it's all on you. And I remember a nurse sat with me and had the best conversation and just took so much pressure off of me of looking around at what people are doing in social media. All like and just reminding me like I am equipped with everything I need to be her mom because the Lord made me her mom.

And that's enough, you know, and it was just like the greatest conversation at midnight with a nurse who was like an old lady holding honey, rocking her like, let me hold her. You rest. And it was so sweet. So I love that you shared that. And you are such a good example to so many moms out there. Like, the way that you share your little videos that you do, like, reenacting conversations you have with your kids is so funny.

I can't wait to get into all of that. I also have to say the fact that your mother-in-law started it with Honey is the greatest, because does she talk like that? She calls me Honey, yes. I love it say the fact that your mother-in-law started it with honey is the greatest. Because does she talk like that? She calls me honey. Yes. Honey? Honey?

Before she drops some knowledge on me. Yeah. That's my great-grandma. My great-grandmother always starts it with, well, honey. Which is actually why I named my daughter Honey. I love that. Because it just reminds me of my great-grandmother. And every time she's about to say something awesome, it starts with honey.

Yes. So that's so good. I love that. So I can't wait to hear all about just your story and what made you who you are. So take us back. Where did you grow up and how did you grow up? I grew up in suburbs of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.

And we like to say we have a blended family. So I had, you know, we don't like to use step or, you know, brothers and sisters, which was great for me because I always wanted to have a big family. And I was an only child for like seven years, which is probably where my imagination comes from, you know, a lot of stuffed animals. And anyways, so I went to school at University of Kentucky, which is where I met my now husband. Wow. And I went to school for broadcast journalism.

So I found a job, I wanted to be with my husband, Mike. He was who, he was, you know, it. So I moved to a small town in Nevada and started out with like news and sports, quickly realized that news is probably not the best for me. It was difficult to handle some of those stories. And I was told, you'll get used to it. And I was like, I don't think I want it to.

I don't wanna get used to it, yeah. I don't wanna be desensitized to this stuff. Opportunity came up in Las Vegas, which is where my now husband was located. And it was entertainment and lifestyle. I was like, this is great, you know? So did that, and I worked my way up from associate producer part-time

to producing, reporting, anchoring, and then I was a host of a show. And right around the time that all my so-called dreams were coming true, the pandemic hit. And I was doing social media as like, you know, a hobby, a way to make money, I was making some, not much. And I had been doing it for quite a few years. I think it was like six years at the time.

And I told my husband, I was really down. I was pregnant with our second, our daughter Penny. And the world shut down and I was really low. I just told my husband, I don't think, I don't think I wanna do any of this anymore. I think I wanna quit my job at the station. He was like, okay, I support you. And said, I also think I wanna quit social media.

And he's like, why you love that? I go, but I don't feel like I'm being authentic to myself. Like I'm not going to get dressed up and sit in the living room when, you know, I'm not going anywhere and I'm eight months pregnant. Like I'm sitting in my sweatpants. And he said, well, I support you no matter what, but you like this TikTok thing, right?

Like I had just downloaded it. I go, yeah. He goes, well, just do that and have fun with it. Don't try and make money. Don't try and like do anything. So I was like, all right. And I decided, you know, cause at the time it was that like, you know, take a picture in front of a pink wall with this pose and all this stuff.

So I was like, I'm just going to be myself. I don't want to do what I see anybody else doing. And I'm, after my daughter was born, I was having a hard time. I was like, I just, it became an outlet for me. Almost like a video diary, which turned into a very public video diary. So I was like, maybe I should dial it back a little bit. No. But so that's how that's how kind of social media got started.

And God's hand was over all of it because I was like, I don't, I like released. And he's had to teach me a few times over my life just to release control. And it's when I give up, you know, in a sense that he kind of, he just swoops in and he's like, amazing, now I can show you what I had planned for you all along. And it's like, you just know.

So my faith journey as well started in 2020 when my daughter was born. Cause I knew I couldn't do it alone and I needed help. And he was my help. And that was a journey as well. And it's like my favorite part of life, my favorite story to tell. But that's kind of the background on family

and business and everything. Oh my gosh. I have like a million questions. This is so cool. And it's, isn't it crazy where it normally is a moment when you surrender something and you're like, okay, I'm just gonna do it for fun. That that's whenever it succeeds.

There's one of my favorite verses, it's Psalms 127. It says, unless the Lord builds the house, the labor is labor in vain, eating the bread of anxious toil, but he gives his beloved sleep. And I've clung to that so much because when I'm trying to do something in my own strength and strive and trying to make it happen,

it's like, you just feel like you're hitting the roadblock and you are anxious and it's not working and it's stressful. But then it's like, when you let the Lord build the house, you actually get sleep. Like it's restful, there's an ease to it. Like you're having fun, you're basically just sharing your little diary, all this stuff.

And then it's like, oh, people relate to that and love that. And of course they do, because it's human and it's who you are. So I love that that's your story. What were like some of your dreams as a child? Like when you thought about what I wanna be when I grow up, what was that? I, and I stopped telling people this because

I was told it made me seem a certain way. Like, Lindsay, you're smart, so maybe don't tell people this, but I wanted to do skits. I wanted to be on SNL and write these skits and have fun acting them out with other people. And I did want to, there was a point in time where I wanted to be on SNL. I wanted to make skits. I wanted to sing. I wanted to, if not write music, just sing, just sing music. And I mean, I wanted to be a mom always as well, but those were my biggest things. And I did want to do broadcast journalism, but I don't know, there was like some kind of shift.

And so I find it interesting that God has placed me in this career path where I can do all the things, all the interests that he's given me, that he's put on my heart in one place, which isn't really, I don't know what other career that would be possible. I think that's so God though, because it's like, you know that verse,

he can do exceedingly and measurably more than we could ask for a think of, dream of, imagine. And I think what we do is we go, okay, I like to sing, I like to do skits, I like to do this, but SNL, that would be too far out. And how could I sing? Because there's so many, like you kind of start getting too practical

with your dreams, and then you go, okay, well, these talents also fit in journaling and broadcasting, and I can do some of that, and I feel natural in front of a camera, so I'll take it in this route, you know, and we kind of put it into the boxes that have been given to us. It's like we categorize our gifting into these boxes, and we go, well, this must be what it is. And sometimes it is that, and we go, well, this must be what it is. And sometimes it is that. And sometimes you do that and you're the best broadcast journalism person that ever was

and you do it for the Lord. But then sometimes God goes, no, actually it is that. Like I put that in you because that's what I'm gonna do in you and now like you're literally doing skits and that's what people resonate with. You sing so good. When you sing and you do these funny little things, I'm like, that was hilarious, but that was actually bomb.

Like, she's like, should be actually singing songs. And then like, look at what the Lord is doing, and you're sharing your faith, and motherhood is obviously such a huge aspect. And so it's so cool when, if God gives you a God-sized dream, like let God kind of unfold it, you know, cause it's so cool.

So you talk about your faith being an aspect and you talk about 2021. Did you grow up a believer? Was that a part of your life? If you're anything like me, then you know getting kids to eat healthy can sometimes feel impossible. We moms try everything, like sneaking veggies into dinner,

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I mean, like I told you, I just felt super stuck and I felt not good about myself. And every goal I had in mind, like even when I would reach that goal, it was like, I'd feel nothing. And so I did not know what trusting in Jesus looked like. I did not know that I could have the relationship that I have with him.

I didn't know that he wanted to hear from me all the time. I thought I was going to be a burden to him. And my prayers would be like, now I lay me down to sleep, pray to the Lord my soul to please give us mommy, daddy, Mitch, Lori, Michael, Christian, Maggie, Alex, Julie, John, Whitney. You know, and like, I would just like rattle it off. And if I forgot to say it the night before,

I double it up the next morning just to be sure. I totally get that. And so it wasn't until my mom was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and that was hard. But the second time she was diagnosed was really even harder because you have this hope. And I saw such a change with her when she came to like really follow heart after Jesus, which was like so wild that sometimes you think like,

are you pretending? Is this like, but she really changed that much. So lost my train of thought. Yeah, when my mom was sick, I came to the, I had said that horrible prayer. Like, if you're there, show yourself. This is my last prayer. That's what I said, this is my last,

because you're clearly not listening. And that night I couldn't sleep, and I got up and opened my dusty Bible. It was like in my sock drawer for I don't know how many years, for real, like an arm's length away. Never cracked it. And I opened it up and something, there's purpose for me not remembering the verse

that I read that night, but that's okay. But it touched me. So I told my husband, I was like, I want to go to church tomorrow. And he was like, all right, we go to church. He reads the same verse that I read earlier, you know, two nights ago. And so I knew, I was like, okay, you exist.

You're listening to me. And then it's progressed from there, just with my son and my daughter and knowing that I can call out for him. And I did, I called out for him when I was really, really, as I was getting closer, I felt like maybe I was on the fence. Like I was trying to be on fire,

but perhaps I was lukewarm. I don't know what was happening, but it was not a very comfortable position. Wow. And I had to cry out for help. And I don't know, I feel like I'm talking a whole lot. So we don't have to go on and on about that. But if you're interested, I'll share it.

I'm very interested in your story. I think a lot of people relate to that. I remember when I was younger, I was a very anxious kid. I had just a lot of natural anxiety. And when I say natural, if I saw dark clouds, I'd be like, oh, the storm's gonna come. And then is my mom gonna be okay when the storm comes and I'm at school and she's there

and like, what's gonna happen or all that stuff. But in that anxiety, it also led me to be kind of fidgety where I would like, if I touch something once or twice and the other side had to be touched twice. But then that led into my prayer life. Whereas it was like, okay, well, you know, if I don't pray the same thing every night and it just got like, my, well, you know, if I don't pray the same thing every night, and it just got like,

my anxiety was kind of attached to my faith instead of like my faith overcoming my anxiety, because faith was more looked at as like something I needed to do and not a relationship I was in. You know, it's like, it's church, it's saying these prayers, it's doing these things, but not like, no, you are the God of the universe who made me and knit me together and know me, and I'm coming to you with my anxiety, and you're healing me. It was that kind of thing. And it sounds like in your life,

in some ways it was similar. It was like, I say this prayer, I do it the same way every night. If I don't tomorrow morning, I wouldn't get up on that. And it's like your relationship with God is in that aspect, depending on your coming, your strength, your performance, your that, your performance, your that. Instead of like his love.

It's interesting that you say that too, because I had nervous tics as a child, in adult life. I did not know how to handle things. I always thought it was up to me and only me. And it was a good thing to push it down, to move forward. When I lost my mom, I was like, I didn't really grieve. And I really thought like, I grieve better than anybody. Meanwhile, I didn't grieve at all.

So it was all on me. It was taking control. And sometimes you have, and then I would flip flop, you things would get so difficult, and I'd be like, I wanna be out of control, which horrible things happened in those moments as well, drinking too much and relying on things that aren't gonna help you.

And so then, yeah, I felt like completely out of control even when I was really trying to be in control. Yeah. But discovering that He helps. It's so interesting how we, as humans, want control, but at the end of the day, it's like you don't actually want control because you don't want to carry the weight

that control comes with. It's like, actually, you want to live in surrender because you want God to take care of the things, but in our flesh, it feels more comfortable to control things. I read this article the other day and I was like, that is so interesting. It was talking about how many people die in a plane crash versus how many people die in a car crash. And it's like way less for a plane, obviously, than a car.

And not even way less, but the percentages are way less. And I was thinking about how many people are afraid to fly and would rather drive, but it's like the numbers are there where you're like, actually it's safer to fly than to drive. But why would we be less afraid? Well, because you're in control of the steering wheel. You're not in control in the plane. You're sitting in the seat while someone else drives you.

That's the scary part. That's the part that you feel out of control in. And obviously you're way high in the air and all the other aspects of it. But at the end of the day, like you don't have anything to do with it. And I think that's what makes people so afraid. And I think in the same way in life,

it's like when you look at with God versus you being in control of your life, it's different, but it's similar to that of a plane and a car. It's like, you don't want God to be in control because then you would have to sit and let him drive. You would rather be in control of the steering wheel because you feel like you have some sense of control over it, except for then you have to miss every pothole and miss every car and be alert the whole time. Whereas in a plane, I love sleeping on a plane. I just sleep and you wake

up and you're there. And it's like, that's the beauty of walking with the Lord. And I think it's cool to hear your story in that, of like you once had this unhealthy relationship with control. It's like, I either want all control or I don't want any control. And like we've all been there. And then you found the Lord.

You found a dusty Bible that you dusted off and read a verse and something sparked. And it's so crazy. This is why I love hearing people like you tell their stories, because I am looking at your TikTok yesterday and you're like the most on fire person for the Lord ever. I've never seen someone preach a message

with more hype, more conviction. When you start talking about the blood of the lamb and you're like, do you understand what I'm saying? Do you hear me with your car door? I'm like, this girl gets it. She read it, she received it. So to go from dusting my Bible off to y'all gotta hear this, every follower I have on social media, it's amazing.

God obviously did something in you. Tell me about your life with the Lord now. Like how did you get from the dust in the Bible off to the hype you have for the word? People say He saved me. He has saved me so many times, but I remember the one time in particular, and this was when I had just started reading my Bible.

And of course, when you're reading an Old Testament and you have control issues and you're a perfectionist, it's like, yep, just as I thought, like not good enough. So I might, you know, I'll keep going, I'll keep going. So I'm on, I'm crying, no one's at home. I'm crying on the bathroom floor, I had these horrible thoughts that didn't feel like my own to hurt myself and it was really scary.

It was the worst that it had ever been. And I was alone and that felt like a good opportunity. And so I cried, but like there's something also in me that they didn't want, you know. So I felt stuck, again, I felt stuck. And I cried out on my bathroom floor, you know, God, if you're not gonna take this away from me, because you know, I went to a lot of doctors,

it's ADHD, depression, anxiety, PMDD, PTSD, you know, acute pain, all this stuff. And so that became my identity. I was like- Was this after your second? It was after my second. And there were a lot of things that happened to me again. I was not good at processing anything.

I would push it all down. So after our daughter Penny was born, it was like the box that I had hid everything in just cracked open and it was time to deal with them, which really was just giving them to the Lord. But I was like, why, why do I have to, you know? So I cry on my bathroom floor, I said, God, if you're not gonna take this from me,

then please take me, please take me. And I'm just crying out, help me, help me, help me, like as loud as I can. And I felt not an audible voice, but it was like an interruption into my own screaming and my own thoughts. Get up. And it was, when I say I stopped, this was like,

I was mid whale, Sadie. I had snot coming out, like slobber, everything. And it took me off guard. And I felt it again, get up. So I obeyed this time. And the prayer changed. And I can't even take credit for the prayer because I feel like words were given to me.

The prayer changed from, if you're not gonna take this, then take me to, if your will is not to take this away from me, then please use it for someone else's good. And I did, after the prayer, I was like, that was so good. I feel like, am I being fully honest? I was like, clearly you know that I would like for this to be, I wanna be honest with you. But if you can allow me to be a wife and a mother

while going through this, I would really appreciate that. And so I walked out of the bathroom thinking like, well, if I have to wait till menopause, just trying to do the math. And one month I did an experience of symptoms, two months, three months, four months. And I think it was around four or five months. I felt it in my heart.

I was like, I have to share this with people. This is a miracle. I haven't changed anything. I haven't done heart. I was like, I have to share this with people. This is a miracle. I haven't changed anything. I haven't done anything. I had tried eating the right foods. And finally I was like, you know what? I'm eating the frozen yogurt.

I'm eating my salty popcorn. So anyways, he healed me. So when you have an experience like that, it's hard not to want to tell everybody. And there have been many other really enjoyable experiences with him. Some I know I'm not supposed to share some. I will when the time is right. But yeah, it's so when I read my Bible now, you know, you're like, does everybody know that over 30 years not knowing this, you know, the stories, but it's different.

And then you can dissect the words and what they mean. And he's just in everything. He's big picture and he's in the detail. And his love is so overwhelming. And you know that everybody has the ability to receive it. And it's just about receiving it. And at the same time, you're like, he gives this to everybody, but he makes me feel like I'm

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that you are on social media. Like truly that's like the most refreshing thing because we all should be that way. Like you should be the way that, you know, people think you are. And then to hear it's like, no, she really loves the Lord with all of her heart. And it's so cool,

because you said you were doing social media for like six years before even the pandemic, I guess. So at this point it's been what, nine, 10 years? I think so, yeah. So you had like a major spiritual awakening in the midst of like a social media career. And a lot of people choose not to share their faith on social media. People ask me all the time, how do you get comfortable sharing your faith on social media career and a lot of people choose not to share their faith on social media. People ask me all the time, like, how do you get comfortable sharing your faith on social media?

And I always say like, man, like when you really love God and love people, it like you can't not like it. I can't. How could you keep it to yourself? You know, it wasn't even a thought. Am I not going to share some social media? It's so who I am. So it's going to be a part of what I'm a part of, you know? And I wonder for you, like, was it a thought, you know, a couple years ago when everything changed, were you like, oh, how do I introduce this into social media? What did that kind of transition look like?

I think the first big moment that I shared was when I shared what he had done for me on the bathroom floor. And that day I was like trying to, I was praying praying like, what do I do today? And I was going to do a skit, I was going to do that. Nothing was really happening. It was kind of like, I didn't know what was going on that day. And like, you know, I have to get this out. I felt like I had to get it out. So I shared that. And of course, saying a prayer like, let this open people's hearts to your love, let them know you more, reveal yourself to them like you've revealed yourself to me.

And I felt good. I did not feel any hesitation. And so like I'm making lunch and like, you have that moment of what did I just do? But it's true and it's right and people need to know. And you don't normally think about it before, you kind of think about it after, that's when you know it's the right thing.

Cause you're like, and you're like, what are you supposed to do? What are you doing? Yeah. And so it just, and then I really wanted to check myself. I did not want to use experiences with the Lord as a means to, cause it is my business. I didn't want to insert him into my business just to gain likes or follow.

So that's something that I pray on. And if there's something on my heart, it might take a few days or a few weeks to share, because I don't want that to be, that's a tricky line. And I don't want to even teeter on that. But yeah, and it's a joy to share it. And he just works everything. He works everything.

Even all my struggles on that bathroom floor, I found out about the flamingos with getting their pink back. Yeah. Wait, talk about this. Oh. OK, we got to get to it. Because so many people know you from this story. I mean, you're wearing your hat.

I just told you I just bought the shirt. Because postpartum is a time. And I'm going to enter into it this fall. And I was like, I'm going to go ahead and get my shirt and I'm going to enter into it this fall. And I was like, I'm going to go ahead and get my shirt. I'm going to rock it the whole time. I got my pink right now. I'm going to carry my pink with me. So tell us about that.

Oh, it was so wild. I was, again, going through it. I got invited, got a good credit where credit's due, just classically Cassidy. We had been messaging on Instagram DMs, and she was getting ready for the day. And I realized I used to love getting ready for the day and putting an outfit together and putting on some makeup.

And, you know, and I really fell out of that. And so it was like, I'm gonna start getting ready. Thanks for the encouragement. And she invited me to, she's like, hey, we're going to Nashville for my birthday if you'd like to come. I'm like, I don't know this girl. I don't know any of these girls going.

My husband was encouraging. He's like, I think you should go. I think it'll be good for you. You don't know a whole lot of people on social media. He's like, it'll also be good for you just personally. And I realized I hadn't really left the house in a long time. I was nervous to leave the house.

So I did it. And while I was there, her really good friend, Natalia told me, she's like, have you heard about this story of flamingos? I'm like, what? She was, oh, so flamingos, male and female can actually lose their pink coloring while they're raising their chicks

because so much of their food and their energy goes to their little ones, but eventually they get it back. And I was like, you know, it's called a dolly zoom, I think in the movies and it's like, I felt like that's what happened to her face. And I was like, oh, I wanna get my pink back. I wanna get my pink back. She's like, me too.

We're bawling in the middle of this brunch in Nashville. And so I come home and I make a video about it. So I'm like, people'm gonna get my pink back. She's like, me too. We're bawling in the middle of this brunch in Nashville. And so I come home and I make a video about it. So I'm like, people need to know this. This is God's creation. He does everything for purpose. And if it hit my heart, surely it'll hit other people's hearts. And people were like,

I'd love to get this on a t-shirt or a sweatshirt. Like, I don't know. I don't know how to do that. I made t-shirts for my sorority. So I'll get maybe a printing press. or a sweatshirt. Like, I don't know, you know, I don't know how to do that. I made t-shirts for my sorority, so I'll get maybe a printing press. I took a little poll and I didn't, I had no idea the interest in it. God invited eight people, I think, into our lives

who knew how to do this, that and the other. And I just felt like I could let him take the reins with it. And we went live and I made peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for the kids. And I got a call like, are you seeing this? And it was all over, all over the world, just dots of people. So that was such a cool moment.

It made me sad to know that people struggled, like I was struggling at the time, but it also made me feel less alone. Yeah. So I hope that it makes people feel less alone knowing that we all kind of go through it. And I think that the flamingos get their pink back like even more vibrant.

That's so cool. I love it so much. And it's so cool that all that kind of came after that time of you surrender to the Lord and what God was doing in your life. And we talk about on social media when you share something and you're like, oh, that felt vulnerable or that felt real. But it's like, that's what people relate to.

Because again, we're all human. That's what people need. Of course, people feel the same way as you. Because if you've had babies and that postpartum season has a, you know, that tends to be the time that a lot of things from past hits you because you're sitting there for a long time and you're thinking about raising the future generation different than you and all the different things that hit you that you don't think about.

You think about you're going to be up at night. You think about you're going to, you know, struggle in these different areas, but you don't think about like the emotional weight of things and the hormone levels and all the different stuff. And so you speaking to that is just so beautiful. It's so cool. Also, I just have to shout out, your husband sounds amazing. Like there have been like three stories in here that have been like, and I asked my husband,

my husband said, do it or go for it. I just want to hear a little bit more about y'all's relationship. How did y'all meet at Kentucky and what made you fall in love with him? We met in Kentucky. I was going to UK, he was going to Eastern and his best friend was dating my best friend,

also my stepsister at the time. And they were like, you got to meet this guy. And I was like, I don't know. I don't know. And we met, he was wearing a green zip up hoodie, I'll never forget. And we talked and I felt like, I don't know why, I felt like he heard me.

I felt like he let me talk and like I wasn't talking too much for him. I felt like he saw me. And two weeks later, he was moving to Las Vegas. So I was like, I remember coming home. It was right after finals. I was like, mom, I met the love of my life. And he was moving across the country.

Like, what's my luck? I've been waiting around. And so I ended up, we did long distance relationship for a while and he's just always been, he's just been my best friend and I get to do life with him. And we're, you know, marriage is all about like, iron sharpens iron and stuff.

So we have things that we work on and work out and we work together. So there are obviously going to be disagreements with that as well. But he's a wonderful person. And we both actually came to find the Lord after we got married. He described himself as agnostic

and I had clearly a flaky faith. I didn't know what I was talking about. Walking around my cross, I'm calling myself a Christian. I didn't know nothing. was talking about. Walking around my cross, I was calling myself a Christian. You know, I didn't know nothing. But we both came to find Jesus and he's just been, oh, he's such an amazing father and he's so supportive as a husband. And it's hard working together,

but I'm also really, really grateful that we get to do it. We get to spend more time with one another. So sweet. I just love it. Cause so many people ask the question like, on this podcast, we've had many conversations about this. Like, how do you know that the one's the one? You know, people have so much anxiety,

like how are they going to know? And it's so beautiful when you have people like you and your husband to share your story. And like tears get brought to your eyes because of the love that you have for one another and the respect you have for him. And it's like, that's how you know, you know? Like, he listened to you and he

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Terms and conditions may apply. We're still, we're still trying to figure it out. He joined me with Get Your Pink Back because there's a lot that goes into that and I knew I could not handle all of it on my own. And the kids at the time were two days, I think, at school. I was really trying to do all of it. Isn't that what we do? Yeah.

Because you're like, this seems like a good time. Two days is great. Yeah, let's do it. Full send. Man, I was so hard on myself. But looking back, it's like you were trying to do really kind of the impossible. So he joined me to help me with Get Your Pink Back.

And he oversees that in the communications and everything. But social media, like at Lindsay Gerk, that is just me. And sometimes he will join in if I'm like, do you want to do this with me? So right now we're trying to get him to kind of oversee everything, because he's more organized than I am. Gotta love that in a partner.

Oh, yeah. Sarah's Christian. It's so helpful. And he's like, I don't think I am. Gotta love that in a partner. Yes, oh yeah. So is Christian. It's so helpful. And he's like, I don't think I am. It's like, no, you are. We'll just figure out the way that works for you. It might not look like we can make it up. We can go our own way with this.

So we're kind of figuring that out and having him oversee things, but it's fun. Yeah. That's awesome. And he loves Get Your Pink Back too. Cause I had to check in like, is this what your heart wants to do? You know, he's like, I love it. I love it.

And he goes, and it resonates with me as a man as well. He's always wearing his, he's always wearing his Get Your Pink Back. So supportive. That's so sweet. That is very much so Christian too. He's like, when you're on maternity leave, do you want me to host your podcast?

Like he's always just like, he's just my support. And it's like so sweet. Cause he believes in what I'm doing just as much as Christian too. He's like, when you're on maternity leave, do you want me to host your podcast? Like he's always just like, he's just my support. And it's like so sweet because he believes in what I'm doing just as much as I do. Like that's so cool to have a teammate in that. One thing I love about you too, is you have a lot of discernment when it comes to social media. Like you said earlier,

I don't just want to put out what the Lord says to me. That's a treasure in my heart. And some things are meant to share and some things are not. And you discern when the right time is. I feel like I've walked through a lot of different times of my life where I'm like trying to discern how to use my social media because it's like,

what is too much to share? What feels right to share? What's okay for me to just keep to myself? Like all those different little things. And one thing I know, you don't share your kids on social media, but you act out your kids' lives, which is hilarious. How did you come up with that idea and the discernment?

Were you praying through, like, should I share my kids? Are you thinking through that? And that's how you came up with it? This was something that it was kind of brought to my attention. And I started seeing more and more things about it. The first skit I did was really just Penny, it was one of those days where they were both down for a nap at the same time.

And I think I got like a sandwich in me and I was like, I feel energetic. What are they, I wonder what they're thinking because at the time it was just mayhem in our home. So I did a little skit of what I thought a conversation would look like between a two year old and a newborn. And that kind of took off.

I was like, well, this is great because I can do this at nap time. And I really enjoyed it. But as far as showing their face, it kind of slowly was like less and less. And I know that first it was ads. Like I knew I didn't want them to be part of campaigns because they don't want to.

They're a kid, this is my job. This is not their job. They deserve to be kids just like how I was a kid. Not having to put them in the perfect clothes and then they can't play or get anything on it because we gotta take a picture. I didn't want that. And then it just kind of slowly,

I would notice Ollie, because he's older, you know, he would do a little bit of a performance, even if the kid, like, when the camera's out, whether people realize it or not, there's a little bit of a performance that goes into it. And I didn't want him to do that in these special moments. And so then I was like, you know what, just reading more and more into it.

I'm like, this isn't a fear thing. I'm not anxious about it. It's what you do. Trust the Lord, but this is what we need to do for whatever reason. Without judging how other people handle it, like for whatever reason, this is on my heart and we have to stop.

And I mean, I'm a mom and my kids are really cute and fun. So I do have those moments where I wanna share, but I know this is better and the kids understand it too. So I mean, one day when they're older, they are little, we get a show every evening after dinner. So maybe they will, although I don't really want them to, but we'll see. Isn't that funny?

Because for me, it was a lot of fear, like reasonings why not to share. And so it's so cool for you to be like, it wasn't fear is just what I thought was right. But it was fear because of me growing up like in the spotlight, which I'm so thankful for, obviously, because it's led me into what I do now, which I love so much. But I also like know all the bad that comes with that and the scary things that come with that. And it's like, I don't want my kids to go through that,

but my husband helped me a lot in the processing of it all because he didn't have the fear attached to his discernment. He was more like looking at it from a picture of hearing what I'm saying, knowing what God's called our family to. And for right now, this is what felt right. And it's so cool because we had so many talks about it when we had kids.

We didn't know four years later, we'd be filming another TV show and they're a part of it. And we're so grateful for that, but we're like, we would not have been able to say yes to this if we wouldn't have had those prayers and conversations four years ago before we've been had honey. And like, what is that gonna look like with our life?

And so everybody's different. You do, you have that gonna look like with our life, you know? And so everybody's different, you know, you do. You have to ask the Lord what feels right for you and your family. And sometimes it feels right in one season, not in the other. Like, I love the close friends feature on Instagram. That is like where I share actually my kids' life, you know,

because it's like, that's actually my friends and family. And then, you know, they're a part of our lives. So we do posts and share and stuff like that. And so yeah, it's just cool that everyone can do it differently, but you got to do what's right for you. And I just love the way that you've done it. It's so beautiful to see. And you do a lovely job too, especially growing up

the way that you did. And there's a difference between like, this is a picture that we took Easter Sunday, and I'm having my children be part of my content every single day. They have to do it. This is just as much their job and duty as it is mine. There's a big difference in that.

So. I agree. I feel like there is, it's not as simple as like, yes, share, no, not like there are, you know, things to navigate within that and how that looks different for sure. So thank you for that encouragement, that means a lot. I wanna talk to you about the most recent things

you've been posting, because you have been so vulnerable in sharing your story with painting the wall where there's a hole in the wall. Can you tell that story and kind of what y'all been walking through a little bit? Oh! Excuse me, why are you walking so close behind me? Well, you're a tall guy.

You throw a decent shadow when I'm walking in it to keep out of this bright sun. It hurts my eyes. Okay, well you know what, Specsavers, you can get two pairs of glasses from $149 and, oh you'll like this, one can be a pair of prescription sunglasses. Sounds great! Where's the nearest store? Mmm, not far. Come on. Let's hurry then! To my count! One, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, one, two, one, two, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, one, two, the hospital having our second, I was like, I could totally do this again. So this was always on my heart and my husband was on board.

And I realized we had been trying for two and a half years. And I'd have to do the math. It might even be, yeah, two and a half seems about right. Make sure I'm not lying, you know? Yeah. And it was a few months back, maybe around the two-year mark, maybe a little after, I got my period again, or I got another negative pregnancy test,

and I got so mad. I was mad the whole day, and I was mad at my husband. You know, and it just seemed like everything really upset me. And sometimes I don't always know why I'm upset and I have to like go back to, you know, again, still learning how to process things. Totally. And I took my empty moisturizer thing

and I threw it at the bathroom wall. And I gotta be honest though, Sadie, it really helped me. I felt really good after I did it. Sometimes you just gotta throw something. My husband was in the room and we both kind of went, I'm just gonna need a minute. He's like, okay. So those are the moments in marriage,

like when you do something and like, you know it's gonna be funny later, but it's not funny right now. Cause you're like, no, I really am mad. So you look at each other like, mm, yeah, I just said that. And I need to tune it, felt good. And we can talk about it later. And maybe laugh, I really am mad. She's looking at each other like, mm, yeah, I just did that. And I needed to and it felt good. And we can talk about it later

and maybe laugh, but not right now. I'm like, whoa, I don't like put a dent in it, put a hole in the wall. But I was, it really like calmed my nervous system. Like Lindsay, you cannot make a habit of doing this. We, you know, it takes time to patch walls up, but man, it felt good. And so I told, I talked to my husband about that

and we did laugh about it shortly after. I'm like, I'm really upset about this. Come to find out he was really upset about it too. We had been hiding our feelings from one another. And sometimes I think we're like, we trust in the Lord. And you feel like, well, I need to show people that I'm trusting in him. Meanwhile, you're heartbroken.

That's part of it. This is part of the surrender. I'm giving it up, whatever you have planned. And so I didn't want that hole patched up because I'm like, it happened. It helped me. This is the reality of what's going on. And he makes, you know, he can turn ashes

into something really beautiful. He always does. My whole life, he's always done it. And so we were finger painting with the kids, little whatever kind of craft we were doing, and we had finger paint. I'm like, that's it. I know exactly what I'm going to do today.

So I just wanted to cross and maybe some flowers and that turned into flowers for the twins that my mom miscarried when I was younger and children my sister miscarried. And just the hand, everything, it was just so enjoyable. And I really was only gonna do like a 30 second thing. Like just, it was gonna be healing for me. I didn't really even have a plan in place,

but I recorded, I ended up recording the whole thing with all the music and he just showed up for me in such a beautiful way. And you know that feeling, like you just, I felt, I felt overwhelmed by his presence and it was lovely and it was healing and it's still there. The video is beautiful. Thank you.

Like in the worship songs that came on at the right time. Oh, that was crazy. That's so Lord. He's like speaking. Yes. I loved it that you shared it and the way that you did it because I think a lot of people wait to draw the picture

when they have the positive pregnancy test, you know? It's like, and you wait to tell the story until like the miracle comes. And I love that you are finding beauty in the middle of it. Like you're, you're, there's a song, it's not even out yet, but one of my friends wrote it for Ella worship and she actually had just miscarried. And she wrote this song called I Remind Myself. And it is like, I can't wait for it to be out.

I'm going to send it to you after this for you to have. But it's like, I remind myself that you're faithful God, that is who you are. And she talks about how she's like speaking in the bridge and she's talking about how like, I know these tears will grow a garden someday soon. I'll watch these dead things bloom. And she just started speaking that over herself

and singing that over it. I remind myself you're a faithful God. That is who you are. These tears are going to grow a garden. One day soon I'll watch these dead things bloom. And she started speaking over herself the verse that says, what does it say? When I sow in tears, I reap in joy. It's in Psalms. And anyways, she actually did just have a baby and she named her Joy.

And it's like just been this beautiful testimony. And recently we did this live recording. She sang it while holding Joy. And her brother is my brother-in-law. And so I hear somebody crying behind me. I thought it was my sister, because my sister Bella has been very honest about her walking through infertility.

They've been trying for a couple of years and it's been really, really hard. So I thought my sister was crying. So I went to like hold her hand and be like, this is your story. And it's like, remind yourself, when I turned around it was Jacob crying. It was my brother-in-law.

So then we're all just like weeping. And it was just the reality of like, it is hard, you know? Like it is okay to just say like, it is hard. And some days you wanna throw a bottle at the wall and some days you do, you know, and like legitimately I've watched my sister walk through that like very hard. But then walking that out in faith is saying like, I do believe though, God, that you're so faithful, that you're still good.

And you're going to be good when the miracle comes and we're going to rejoice in that. But you're also still good and you're gonna be good when the miracle comes and we're gonna rejoice in that, but you're also still good right now. And that's what watching you paint that was really beautiful to see somebody in the midst of it when it's still hard, like put a cross and put the beauty. It was really vulnerable to share. It was really beautiful. I really appreciate when I will see a documentary

or something and someone is just coming to the Lord and you can see them in their nitty and their gritty and they're like, but if you knew me a year ago, like I know this isn't right right now, I know it, but he's helping me. And that's not even what I wanted to show. I just was like, I don't really know what I'm doing. Sometimes I'm just letting him lead me.

But to only see people say, like, I don't really know what I'm doing sometimes. I'm just letting Him lead me. But to only see people say, yes, I trust in the Lord because He did this. Sometimes it would make me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I still mess up. So who am I to even talk on this, especially with social media? I do, I mess up, but that's okay.

I say I followed Jesus because I need him. Like I really, really need him every day, every moment. So I really like when people share in the midst because it's easy to share afterwards, but in the middle, we need to see that sometimes. And it's not always pretty, but he's always there. And it's just part of it. I love how you shared it.

It was so, so beautiful. So this has been so encouraging. I am so encouraged by who you are, by your family, by what you do. I have like, truly, you never know, going into these conversations, all of them are good. And then some of them are just great. And I'm just so thankful to and encouraged to know

that so many people follow you and are learning from you and going on the journey of life with you because you are such a great example to so many. No truly because you're real because you're real and you make people laugh and people need to laugh like people need to be funny and not take themselves too seriously and turn on the camera and just be goofy. Even in a day you like put on a dress and you're like yes and I worn this before, but clothes are meant to be worn several times.

And somebody say it, somebody say that, because can I not rewear clothes? Because right now, as I'm pregnant, I'm like, I'm gonna be rewearing this a lot, because it's the one thing that fits. So thank you, you know? So you're just relatable in so many ways. Thank you for who you are,

and thank you for sharing your story on this podcast. It was a gift. Thank you for who you are and thank you for sharing your story on this podcast. It was a gift. Thank you so much