WHOA That's Good Podcast - When Comments Hit Hard — And How to Ignore Them | Sadie Robertson Huff | Trey & Katie Kennedy

Episode Date: December 3, 2025

Comedian Trey Kennedy and his wife, Katie, are hanging out with Sadie today to spill on their love story, Trey’s early days—and now thriving comedy career—why they don’t waste energy on the comments section, and what keeps them genuinely grateful for the work they get to do. Katie and Sadie swap stories from their modeling days, including a few nightmare moments featuring the wild things people have said about their bodies. Trey and Sadie also dive into all things Dancing with the Stars, share their predictions for the season’s winner (this was recorded before the finale!), and Trey explains why he’s basically obsessed with the show. You won’t want to miss a second of this super fun convo! This Episode is Sponsored By: https://helixsleep.com/sadie — Get 27% off sitewide and make sure you enter our show name after checkout so they know we sent you! AG1 has their best offer ever - subscribe with my link https://drinkag1.com/whoa and you’ll unlock 7 free gifts worth $126 https://sadiepens.com — Get 10% off my favorite supplies and journaling Bible when you use the code SADIE10 when checking out! - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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literally so much better because we have two incredible guests on the podcast today. My husband was geeking out and y'all know Christian, y'all know Christian doesn't really geek out over people, but he was like, I have to go introduce myself before I leave because we have Trey and Katie on the podcast today and we are so excited. I didn't even say your last name, Trey Kennedy and Katie Kennedy. We're so stoked because let me just tell you, we have watched so many of your videos, Trey. Christian and I, I forgot about this until this morning when I was watching so many videos to just prepare to have this conversation. I was like, I forgot that when Christian and I were early married, at the end of the day, we would literally go to your YouTube page and watch

videos like every night just to laugh. And it became like our theme. And I forgot about that because it was six years ago that we did that. Now we have kids and it's all crazy and whatnot. But like truly you made us laugh so much and was like a bonding thing for us at the beginning of our marriage. So thank you Welcome to the podcast. Thank you. Glad to be here. That's super nice. Train Katie here.

That's so happy to be here. It's great to hear. I get that a lot of people. I don't know how to feel. People are like, we got, we just got married and we'd lay in bed and we'd watch you. I'm like,

well, do people actually say that a lot. Yeah. That is so pretty. You know, everyone likes to lay in bed on your phone, but that's just, I don't know if I need to know the location.

But that's super nice. It's so good to be here. Thanks for watching the videos. Well, is I actually thought about this earlier today. I was like, I'm going to tell them that. And I actually had this thought. I'm not going to say we laid in the bed and watched it. And I didn't even know people said it. But I was like, I'm not going to say that because knowing your humor, I'm like, I'm walking into that one. You know, like I'm walking into today. So that's why I was like when

we were earlier at the end of the day, we would, you know, and so that was so hilarious that people actually say that. Oh, I'm so glad to have both of you on here about y'all's life. Okay, this might come from left field if you if my team didn't prep you for the question I ask everyone who comes on the what's good podcast but we always started out the conversation with what's the best piece of advice you've ever been given I know dramatic question but I'd love to hear from the two of you some good advice you've gotten that's great no they did warn us we're ready we're still here we're prepared I know I love it that's a good this is a good Christian podcast any good Christian you talk to they're like a hey nice to meet you what's your name what's your let's go real deep

Now let's go into the bed. And what's the best way's advice you've ever been given in your life? All right. Ladies first. Okay. Mine is from my mother, Elizabeth Byram. She just growing up, this was a constant thread. It was just like, don't let what you can't control control you.

That is good. And so I feel like that just has helped me throughout life, honestly, all the time. Like, I feel like Trey probably is a good. He probably gets that too. like, I just think things just kind of roll off me a lot easier. You saying I need that advice? I'm just saying you've probably seen that in my life. No, she is.

I love to let stuff control me. It's like one of my hobbies. She, she's a, yeah, I can't even believe it. We just did a road trip to my parents where we're at right now. It's like five plus hours. And so we thought, let's try. It's always been a disaster. Let's try the whole like late night after bedtime through the night.

Oh, yeah. And our son just never, he just stayed up until one, our two-year-old. He's just like, we got in the car, 30 minutes in he goes, I'm going to be awake for a long, long time. We were like, oh. He said that to us, called a shot. He spoke it up. And I was, all that to say, I was ready to just like pull over somewhere. And Katie just, it's fine.

She's like, he's never done this. She was just so patient. He's a two-old. We asked him to do something he's never done before. We didn't know how it's going to go. She was super mom. That is awesome. So anyways, that's definitely my.

I feel like it's, yeah, just really help me to just don't let other people's bad things or other things just, you know, ruin your day. It's a game changer. I feel like if you're able to get to that place, man, you live such a more pleasant life. I was actually thinking about this because I did like ask me anything on Instagram the other day. And someone said, what are your non-negotiables in the morning? And I didn't respond, but I wanted to say don't have non-negotiables because, it's rarely does it ever go as planned, especially with us with three kids. Like if I was like every morning I have to have this, this and this, then my days would not go well if I had non-negotiables

had to happen for everything to go good or everything to be at peace. And I think, especially with kids, you learn that life doesn't go as plan most of the time. And you try to plan it right, I'm going to go at this window instead of going in the morning or I'm going to try to miss nap time. We're going to do this. And then the kids say, actually, I'm never going to sleep because I'm going to stay up the whole time or someone throws up or someone you know it's like you can't control it and if you can surrender that control especially as a mom it is a game changer for the rest of your life so I love that so much and love that it came from your mom too that's awesome yes she has five kids so I feel like she probably had to learn that early on she gets it yeah some advice comes from like

oh I did this so well I want to give this advice but most advice comes from I had to learn this the hard way and I'm giving this to you now so that you can learn it sooner than I I did. Yes. Good. Trey, you got some good advice. You want to hit us with? Yeah.

Best advice, I think I've really been thinking about this recently. Best advice I've been given from my father. He would say some to the effect of, you know, be still doesn't always mean stop. And I think, like, you're talking about having kids and all that. Like be still. And like, I'm trying to walk with my faith. and, okay, I'm supposed to release Sabbath or do that. And you have kids, Sabbath, I don't even know what that looks like anymore.

I mean, there's just never stops, right? But there's still, you know, we'd always talk about this verse in Exodus 14, 14, believe. And it's like he said, be, trust the Lord, you need only to be still. And then the next verse says, now go. And kind of speaks to like, I don't know, my parents embody that. They never stopped. They worked so hard. like all day through the week, then all weekend, being parents working, and, but they always

had this kind of calm about them and something I'm working on where, you know, I can get too busy and too worked up. And I'm, and just finding that stillness in the like nonstop go of work and life and parenting. Yep. Is, um, has been a game changer and something I'm working on. It's great. One of like my favorite life lessons was actually around this topic. So, I used to drive out to our house, which is like 20 minutes from where I work. We live a little bit closer now, but we go out, and it was like in the country. So we passed some like really interesting places going out in the country. And there's this one sweet little trailer with two rocking chairs, and it's right across from the Dollar General. And every day, every single day on my way home from work, because especially when the sun would get down, you know, little like at this time of the year, and it's going down around 5 o'clock. So when I'd be driving up, the sun's going down. And this sweet old couple would say, sit on their rocking chairs outside their trailer and just look at the Dollar General every night. It wasn't like they had like a beautiful view. It was literally like Dollar General in the country.

And I would just, I was so inspired by their love, like that their consistency of every night being on those rocking chairs together. And I kept telling myself, I'm going to write them a letter. And I'm going to tell them that I love seeing their love and I love seeing them on the rocking chair every night. And it's inspiring me and my marriage. And I had this intention for about a year and I never did it. And it was like, and it wasn't because I chickened out or I just simply, as soon as I got home, got so busy doing so many things that I never wrote the letter. And then one day, I, like, started seeing some changes happen at their house. Like, they had to put in, like, a wheelchair ramp

and, like, all this different stuff. And then, like, very shortly after, there was an estate sale happening. And I was like, oh, my gosh, like, tell me, like, something did not happen to them. And immediately, I'm like, I never wrote the letter. Like, why did I not do that? Why don't not go over there. And so I got the details for the estate sale and I was like, hey, well, this will be my opportunity to meet, you know, whoever's there. And so I go there the morning of the estate cell and like not seeing the old couple. And there's this probably, you know, middle age woman and they're kind of running it. And I was like, hey, like, I just was wondering about the owners of this home. And she was like, oh, those are my parents. And she said they actually

just passed away within a month of each other. And I was like, oh my gosh wow and she said yeah they just had like the most beautiful love it was one of those stories of like kind of died over like a broken heart but they were like together and everything and I said well I just want you to know as their daughter I pass them every single night and um just how they sat on that you know porch and in their little rocking chairs it meant so much to me that always wish I would have wrote them a letter and I never did and I regret that so much but I'm glad I can now tell you as their daughter like how much that meant to me to just see how they took that time every day. And so I was like, I want to like buy something just to kind of remember this moment

and this lesson and bless y'all in some way. And what I ended up buying was like a little plaque they had in their house. And it's all about being still. And actually in the, in the kind of plaque that it says, never get too busy to stop and take two minute long vacations. And I thought that was like such a good phrasing like to take two minute long vacations because so often we do think like, to take a vacation, so much planning has to go involved. You have to, like, pause everything, has to be that dramatic shift, pack all the bags, do other things. But, like, making it a habit to have, like, small moments of Sabbath, small moments of vacation, small moments to, like, step outside the porch and look at the sun's setting or, like, wake up early in the morning and see

the sun rising and, like, taking those moments to be still so intentional. And so I love that you shared that, because I haven't talked about that story in a long time. And it was, like, so pivotal for me. that's cool. What do you got that plaque? Where is it? Is it in the studio? I should have it in the studio so I can show everybody. I had it in my car for a long time because the whole thing for me was I was annoyed at myself that I actually wanted to do that but when I would get to where I was going I would get distracted. So I had it in my car as a reminder like don't just get to where I'm going and like go into it like kind of like go in with intention places but now it's in our it's actually in my closet. And so I'm going to bring that one day. I need to take a picture or something

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Hey, Christian did the same thing. Yep. So, we, you know, it was one of those. I didn't have a following. And he definitely had a following by then, but I didn't know who he was. I was killing it. I was kind of good. And so it was, it felt so.

random that I was like we were liking my posts for six months I didn't know who you were I was following him um I thought like someone had set us up right I thought someone was like hey you should check this girl out I know her whatever because it just felt too random um and so I replied and yeah we just kind of that's the only reason why wait but pause when you saw he followed you you didn't know who he was he totally had to stalk his Instagram do you think he was I mean this might be, you might, okay, be honest, but also, like, he's your spouse. Did you think he was funny? Like, were you like it, what you were seeing? I did. I was like, okay, this guy seems funny. He's cute. He, yeah, there was, you know, clearly a Christian element to his stuff. And so, yeah,

so then I was like, okay, I'll respond. And so, yeah, it was kind of just, like, very innocent, just followed each other for a little bit. We struck up some more conversation via DMs. And I think quickly we were kind of like, okay, we need to get off Instagram. Let's like, you know, here's my number. And I feel like we very quickly were kind of like, all right, we're not just going to do this weird. Like let's message each other. Like we either need to meet or we're not going to do this.

And so very quickly we like FaceTime just to make sure that, you know, we could talk for a while. and it wasn't weird. And then he was traveling. I lived in Atlanta at the time. He was in Kansas City, and he was traveling, and he said, you know what, I'm going to change my return flight, and I'm not going to fly home. I'm going to fly to Atlanta, and we're going to go out on a date. So he did that.

I had another meeting there or something. Yeah, he likes to go downplay. He flew there for me. Hey. That's awesome. And yeah, we went out that night, and he came back. like two weeks later and I feel like it was just kind of like, yep, I think this is, this is wild.

Is it been the same for you? We would definitely. Do you all feel like you all agree on the story? Because it's always funny whenever like someone's sharing a story and the other person's like, that is not the way that it happened. Well, yeah, we do. We do. It's, yeah, I don't know.

It's wild. You know, I feel like my job and my marriage, it's all based on me, like, making some wild choices just like going. for it, making weird content and getting on a flight for a woman. I remember, I remember landing in Atlanta and just thinking, like, there wasn't this moment of like, wow, the Lord is really, this could be meeting my wife. It was like, this is rock bottom. I think, I think I'm, you know, I don't need to be, am I this single? Like, people back home, you know, my mother, I was 24, she's like, are you going to die alone? And I was like, I got to hurt. I was getting in my head.

So here I'm 27 and single, I go, I go, if this is like a dud or if this rule stands me up or something, I'm not going to tell it. I'm going to take this to the great. I'm just going to get back on my flight tomorrow and just act like it didn't happen. More people need that though. I call that delusional confidence though in the best way. I always say everybody needs delusional confidence. Like everyone needs to have something like this is kind of crazy, but I'm going to go for it. Because if you don't have that, like look what never happens. And so many people are over there hiding in the DM still or, you know, never. pursuing somebody, but, like, you got to get on the flight. You got to make the call. You got to do the FaceTime. Show up for the date. Like, that's how this happens. So I love it. Yeah. It is. And I, you know, I, we bonded a lot over that because she was, she was doing, like, traditional modeling. And she had went and got this, like, engineering degree. So, like, everyone thought she was a lunatic. Like, why aren't you going? Why'd you work for all that if you're not going to. And I had come from business school and I was making video. was like in my apartment and we bonded over that like we were kind of you know and that being there

at all was proof that we both kind of like taking risk or making off off the beaten path decisions and but we hit us we just hit it off immediately and it was kind of like that we just knew the first night we didn't say it we weren't we didn't go that intense but in hindsight we were just like it was always easy it just made sense we kind of knew same we found our our uh spout Yeah. That's how it was for us. Like someone asked Christian, like, how did you know she was the one? And he was like, I don't know that I had this moment where I was like, you know, at the beginning where it's like, oh, this is my wife. He's like, but I never thought about, again, I couldn't think about us not being together. Like it was so easy. It was so natural. And it was like, why would I not want to talk to her tomorrow? Why would I not want to, you know, go on the next date? Like, never had that moment. And then it was like, oh, man, like, we have fallen in love with each other. Like, it happened. so naturally and I do feel like a lot of times that is the way it is when it is the one it just feels like effortless in a way not that and that sounds contradicting because like the effort is obviously you flew there you make effort but effortless and like we can just talk for hours and

I'm not overthinking it I'm not second guessing like we're just in this we enjoy each other's company and um I love that it's kind of funny Christian and I also he sent a DM but I never saw the DM so it's a little bit of a different story for like a year and a half later. But in the meantime, from the time he sent me the DM and when we met, he met my sister. And they had gotten like kind of close and it was so funny because one day I had this separate Instagram account that I posted all my ridiculous stuff on, like just being totally dumb and I guess it's not comedy. Okay. It was just it was people were probably laughing at me, not with me. But it was really funny because Christian saw that with my sister and he goes, that's just not funny.

So that's why I asked I was like I was like Did you think he was funny Because hey Christian was I thought you were cute But I was like You're crazy

But he respected the confidence Okay So it goes back It goes back to that Right Well I love y'all's story It's so sweet I love how you said

So I didn't know you Got your business degree And you started making videos Trey How did all of your career Originally start for you And when did it start to take off Was it an overnight thing?

or was it like a lot of seeds being some? Yes. To initially start, it was like a little overnight. It was Vine. That app was big when I was in college. So I was kind of right when it came out, I got on it with some buddies and it was, it's just crazy to think about.

But back then, going viral hardly even existed yet. Like YouTube was out kind of, but I remember making this video And it kind of, I opened my thing up and I had like 4,000 followers, which at the time, like, no, I remember everyone thought this is, this is mind blowing. Like no one, no one who's not famous has followers. And then I just kind of got into it. I made this one video that, like, took me to a million followers in like a month. And, you know, it was, it was, I was doing the WOP. Remember that? Oh, yes. This is very 2013. I was doing the WAP while I was, uh, cleaning the kitchen. And it was groundbreaking comedy at the time. And a lot of people agreed.

It got a bajillion views. And I, yeah, it just million followers. And I kind of, then you make a little bit of money. And I always viewed it as like a funny story one day. Like, this isn't a job. This isn't a career. Yeah, I'm making some money off this. But let me finish my degree and go get a nine to five like I'm supposed to do. And, you know, social media grows. Vine goes away. I keep making videos. I'm able to go viral a couple more times and get some followers on Instagram and Facebook. And suddenly I'm paying the bills. And I kind of go, well, let's just see how long this lasts. And, you know, that was 10 years ago. So it's led to one thing after another. And that's awesome. I'm grateful I was there early because now, now being an influencer or

creator, whatever is like kind of cool or people want to do it. But I was in college, like, getting bullied. Same. I feel that. Yeah. Wasn't cool. I'll never people, people, they always have stories like,

oh, guys, your haters online, you'll never have a hater come up to you in real life. All right. They don't, they're,

well, in 2013, they were out here. Oh, they were there. I'd be like grabbing a hot dog on the college strip. And there was like a whole crowd

that's like, look guys, it's Vine or Trey Kennedy. And like 20 people laughed. It was like out of a cartooner. It's awful. Oh, I have similar stories because, yeah, when you put yourself out there and now it's like a lot of people for their and stuff out there. So it's like not as big of a deal with back then. Like to put yourself out there like that, it definitely like I remember my grandpa telling me, if you're holding the football, you're going to get tackled. Like it's just, that's just a life lesson. Like, and now it's not quite as bad as people do kind of hide behind their computer. But yeah, I remember the first time I wore a live original t-shirt. My sister, made for me. So now, you know, people like know about Live Original. Then no one didn't. I was just believing in what God put on my heart. And someone, it was my senior year of high school. And she

looked at me. She said, live Original. That's embarrassing. And I just remember feeling like, oh my gosh, I feel so tiny right now. Yeah. It was like, uh, sweetheart, bless your heart kind of comment. And it was like, that was rude. What of my rock bottom moments was merch was, I remember. I remember. in college this company is like you got to make merch and I remember wanting to do it but I delayed it because I'm like I'm gonna I can't I can't I'm gonna get I'm just gonna get roasted I said you know what that's not yeah let's do it and I I mean that the next night I could hardly go in public people are like he released merch so it's just yeah yeah yeah you got out yeah we ever on yikyak no well what is that oh it was bad I guess you because how old are you I am 28 and

I had to think about that. You're a few years younger. Okay. So you missed. Yikak was big in college. You're probably not. You were a couple years away. It was like a,

it went away because it was just the meanest. Yeah. It was anonymous post. It was like a localized anonymous thing. So you could just, you could just anonymously be like, Sadie's wearing live a original merch. What a loser.

That's horrible. Top post. People could like down or up it. And so it could just get higher and higher, you know, and that's, you know, and it was driving a lot of engagement.

engagement on you. I'm not going to lie. I probably was on it. I do actually have a memory of this. And like I remember thinking I'm not getting that because I don't want to know. Similar to like Reddit, I'm like, I'll never look myself up on these kind of platforms. I don't want to know what people are saying. I don't need to know because it's not going to shape who I am or what I'm doing. So they can have their commentary on the app I'm not going to look at. So I feel that. Okay, y'all, once the holidays start creeping up, I go full on scramble mode looking for gifts that actually means something to everyone on my list. And that's why I love Mr. Pinn. It has become a go-to gift. Truly, they have it all.

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I know y'all are good buddies. And he actually was one of the top five podcasts of the year. Shout out. But one of his best piece of advice was so good. He was talking about his comedy. And he said, the best piece of advice is like, I got to stay. the truest version of myself. And if I start telling jokes for the algorithm or for people to think I'm funny, then I'm done. And I thought that was really good because it really is hard

sometimes. Like if you start feeding an algorithm or trying to feed what people like or appreciate about you, it can, you don't realize it, but slowly you're like all of a sudden putting something out there that's actually not even you, then you have to keep up with an image you created and it is exhausting. And so it's much better to just be confident in what you're putting out there, who you are, and maybe maybe some of those haters coming up to us in person gave us thicker skin for the long run. Probably. Oh, easily. I mean, I, for sure.

I do, that's a cool byproduct of all this of like basically humiliated myself for a decade now is I, I feel like a superhuman. Like, I don't get embarrassed about it. I grew up so shy and so worried about what other people thought. And now you got to go through it, right? And you come out the other side and you're like, oh, it's fine. okay and a good way and a bad way like you kind of realize people's opinions that are negative don't matter and also that are positive kind of don't matter they don't know us you know we're talking right now I'm enjoying this I was the first time we've chatted I don't you know like everyone's

like their marriage is great it could be horrible it could be horrible it's not it's not but you know it's you kind of just realize like I'm just out here trying to do my best entertain people be myself be ourselves and behind closed doors like we just got to try to love on our family and friends and it matters what they think of us and it's true it's like it's a relief when you have that i mean i i i had to learn this i mean i had a little bit of it when i was like doing modeling obviously the comments about me but the first time i like went on tray's podcast and the comments that were on that i like wasn't quite prepared for that yet you know um and usually all his stuff is very positive things on his feed. But there's like one comment that was like,

it's really, I go, don't read the comments. Of course, I did. And it was like, you're new to this. So mean. It was like someone said, like it's very clear he emotionally abuses her. Yeah, wow, he's hitting her for sure. And I was like, I called him. I wasn't with him. I called him. I was like, oh my gosh, what happened on the pot? You know. It was so sweet. I don't want people thinking this about you. I don't want people to think this about you, whatever. And it's like, I've grown past that. But man, that first time I was like, oh, my gosh. Oh, yeah. Every time Christian is on my podcast and he's on the podcast all the time because we do so much together.

And he really is like not in a cheesy way, but we are best friends. Like if we want to do a podcast or we're just going to do a podcast together and we have such a great time. And we'll walk away and be like, that was awesome. That was so fun. And the comments are like, he's so mean to her. The way he put her down that whole time, she like, we feel bad for Sadie, all this stuff. And I mean, it's crazy. and then and then vice versa they'll be like

Sadie talks over him so much it's so annoying let him speak let him have his own voice blah blah and it was funny because after that I said to Christian I said babe I am so sorry like I was looking at some of the comments and so many people were talking about how I talk over you and I just want to say I'm so sorry that I do that

I've never realized how much you do that so I'll listen at and he said I've never thought about it like I don't think you talk over he's like you like to talk I've known that since we met You talk a lot. It was all his burner accounts. She talks too much. He's like, oh, that's actually me.

He's like, you talk a lot. I know that about you. I don't. Sometimes, like, I need you to fill in the sentence and like, they don't know that's our dynamic. And then I'm like, and when you make fun of me, I think it's funny because I'm from a family who roast each other. So that does not put me down. I actually think it's really fun and funny. So it is true, though, that like with the comments, even, like, you cannot let them hold weight because it'll even like make you question your relationship or how it's like, oh, are we healthy?

this wrong boat. It's like, no, you can't even go there. But I love what you said about how, like, at this point, you feel like a superhero. You're like, you can't say something that's going to offend me or going to change me. And I was thinking about that, there's a thing called, like, Survivor's Confidence, and you see it in people. Like, Bethany Hamilton, you know, like she literally got bit by a shark. And I have another friend who got bit by a shark, Lulu Gribben. She is an amazing person. And then both of them are, like, in the water so much. They're doing all this stuff. in the water and you're like how could you do that how could you go back in the water because like that's like a fear for everyone and it hit like makes us not want to go in water and you

actually did it but it's like survivor's confidence once you get through something then you're more confident yeah twice yes that's true too what are the odds but on a deep level it's like you have two friends that's you're the only person that planet with two friends well i have to say i met both of them after after they get by their sharks because of how they used it for good you know Like Bethany, I met her well after she had a bit about a shirt because her platform grew. I met Lulu because her platform grew and I reached out there. I was like, girl, you are amazing, you know? And it's like I had read that thing about Survivor's Confidence before that.

But when I look at them, I'm like, oh, I get it now. Like, your, Lulu has this whole like swimsuit line while she's like in the water that the same beach that she got up. I'm like, how could you do that? But like that's Survivor's Comments. It's showing up to the same platform that ripped you apart yesterday and posting a new video. and being like, hey, y'all think this one's funny? Like, I'm not going to quit because you didn't like the last one. I'm not going to quit because I got roasted.

And speaking to that, you didn't quit because I know y'all do a podcast together, which, by the way, is such a good concept. There's so many podcasts out there and it's like trying to find, you know, what your thing is. I love y'all. Tell us a little bit about y'all's podcast. Thanks. Correct opinions, what it's called. So every week we give our correct opinion, our little hot takes on stuff.

stuff, anything and everything. It's always been a, just a lighthearted comedy podcast about nothing. And it's been going like six years now. It started with just me. And then I brought on my buddy Jake, who's a comedian, he's hilarious. And then Katie would pop on every now and then people loved it. So then she, she came on permanently. So it's the three of us. You've been doing it like two years now? Over two years. It's awesome. It's really cool to really grateful for that we can do together because, you know, she's so busy being mom and doing all her stuff. So it's nice to have a little moment where we can chat and laugh and, like, her to add a lot of value to what our family's doing. And, yeah, we have a great, great fan base. I've been with us for years. And it's,

it's just fun. It's this podcast are the best. They are the best. I agree. Correct opinion. Shout out. Correct. It's such a funny concept. And speaking of correct opinions, because I did just see You're Dancing with the Stars video. It made me laugh so hard. That was the most accurate. Oh, yeah. You were on it, right? I was on it.

And we actually went to the show last week, and then it was the next day you posted. We were cracking it. We're like, this is the most accurate thing. And the way he was so full-scented, like, every detail of it was so incredibly accurate. It was so good. But I have to ask, are y'all actually watching Dancing with the Stars right now? We've watched some of it. Yeah.

We can't say that we've watched. I watched everyone. We've watched some of it. When you have kids, it's hard to watch things consistently. It is. I grew up watching my mother die hard. Okay, so she doesn't usually reach out. Yeah.

But she's like, Trey, I love the Dance With the Stars video. She, so I would watch it with her back in the day a bit. And then, you know, it's just been busy. I haven't, but now it's, you know, they've kind of, it's popping again. They've got this thing. I mean, it's always been popular, but now it's like they've, it's really feels like it's TikTok. Going viral again.

It's been everywhere. Yeah, TikTok. And so like any good creator, I had to mooch off that a little bit. I said, let's make a sketch about it, which required me to watch it, which then had me like, I was like, let me watch 30 minutes of this, get a vibe. And then I was like, they voted him out. You know, and then I was, so you kind of get, you kind of get locked in. So the finals, I don't know what this is coming out. I just saw who's going to the finals, a little disappointed.

I know. It was a little crazy. Hey, for those who are listening, this is just going to have to be a spoiler alert because. we just have to talk about it. I was, I was a little disappointed. So Mark was actually my partner. And so, of course, cheering for Mark who got out last night with Whitney. But the thing with Mark is, like, his choreography is just so amazing. It's like, sometimes you just want, like, the dancer to go to the end just so you get to see their freestyle choreography. Yeah. But anyways, judging based of what y'all have watched, who is y'all's winner?

If you know who's on the show. Oh. Katie, she doesn't know. She doesn't know. She doesn't doesn't know, she really doesn't know anything about the outside world. And this is a problem we're trying to figure out. I can't get that though. And I know that might sound surprising because I'm sitting here talking about Dancepo Stars. But when they released the cast this year, I go, oh, this is like the worst, because I don't know any of these people. And then I looked at the comments and everyone was like, this is the best cast, Dance of Most Stars has ever had this amazing cast. And then I was like talking to my friends about it. They're like, how do you not know Alex Orwell? How do you not know? How do you not know? And I'm like, I have three children.

I'm watching Bluey. So that's where I'm at. So I actually get that. I do happen to know about Dancing with the Stars right now, but I definitely feel like I do not know so much. Like we were in the store another day and a Sabrina Carpenter song came on. And my sister was like, oh, this song. And I was like, I think this is the first.

I do know how that is. I think it's the first Sabrina Carpenter song I've heard. She was like, how? Like, when would I listen to Sabrina Carpenter, you know, right now? You're like, listening to Wheels on the bus. And you're like, I got all those locked down. We got our playlist that Honey is asking for every time we get in the car. And it's just better we listen to that.

So that's just funny. I get that. I think Alex Earl's going to win. You do? Is that a correct opinion? It's the correct opinion. I just think she's improved a lot and she's really, I think people under us, she's got a big, she's got quite the fan base.

She does. They're ready for them. Well, I respect that. I think you could be right. I'm going Robert and Whitney. I think Robert is like the nicest human on the planet. And we got to meet him last week and he was just as kind and nice in person. But I do agree that Alex has had like, she's grown a lot.

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I don't know just talk with them and you know maybe witness to them you know if that came up right or just you know be hopefully like a good influence a big sister kind of you know obviously that wasn't the case every time but I do feel like I had some really cool moments throughout I did it for five years that, um, that's cool, because the stereotype is true. There was like a lot of you told me a ton of stories, like 16 year old girls where you're like, what's going on in your life? What do you do with you? Yeah, you know, I feel like this is true, you know, not to make like a huge generalization. Everyone had, you know, everyone was doing their own thing. But, you know, there were definitely cases where, you know, girls thought that was kind of like their only option or,

you know, I met some girls that were like supporting their families. You know, there was just a whole array of things going on. And it was cool just to be in that. I knew that I had a degree that I could go get a job with and just so encouraging things like that and just being a girl with them. Yeah, I love that. I love that so much because I did a little bit in the modeling and it was, it's a tough environment. It's definitely a tough culture. Like most of the people that I was surrounded by like we're not eating and they were you know doing a lot of things that weren't great for their body because obviously like to fit the standard you really can't eat a lot and you can't do a lot and I remember um we were doing our fittings one time I was asked to do this runway show

because I was like from a family who was well known it was more like a celebrity appearance not necessarily like one of the models and um I just remember um this guy so we are doing all our dress fittings and you know the sizes are tiny back there you know it is like double zero everything like everything is just tiny and um i was like not in the the tiniest one and all the other ones were like in the the double zeros but then also having to get tailored than to like be smaller because their body was so small and then i put on like a more normal size and um the person said oh wow yours is the the only one that actually fits. And I thought that was really interesting because they said yours is the one that actually fits, but like the standard for what they had to be as models was

smaller than what the actual dress was made to fit or to work. Then later on in that situation, the photographer said, oh, if you'd lose 10 pounds, you'd look like a real model. So my dress fit, but he said if you lose 10 pounds, you would look like your model. Then another person is two different people, grabbed the piece of, I guess what they would call fat on my skin and was like, oh, if we could just like lose that. It was like, so two people like, hey, if you could adjust your body to be smaller, you'd look like a real model. Can you do that to us on our, to me on our wedding day? See, isn't that rude? Isn't that the worst feeling when someone grabs your extra skin? You're like, excuse me? But it's like, that is so messed up because then girls are

seeing, you know, that dress online in that model and going like, oh, if I could just be her size. But that size doesn't even fit. It's not realistic. It's not healthy. That girl is not eating on the other. And not everybody. Everybody's body's different. Some people eat just fine and are naturally that small. But generally, you're having to do some tough things to remain that size in an industry that's putting completely unrealistic expectations on the girls, which in return is putting completely unrealistic on the people who are looking at the images. So it's really hard. I feel like I have so much empathy just for every girl out there to, you know, who struggles with insecurity because it is a hard thing to overcome. You've got to kind of dig deep in.

We have, you know, primarily girls listening to this podcast, although, Trey, we are so glad you're here. Christian braves it too often. But like. Swim people. Yeah. Well, you are, okay, you're full, girly girl, pumpkin spice latte. These are your people, actually. I forgot about that.

He's a girl's girl. You can hang with the girls for a minute. Let's do girl talk. Come on. Okay, let's talk about body and security for a second. But for real, for real, though. Katie, how did you? Sometimes I just want to talk a girl.

Maybe I should ask Trey about how he overcame his body insecurity first. Tray, do you have probably a lot more than her. Well, come on with it. I know. I feel like my pecks are different sizes. I'm always like, is it lopsided? She's like, you look great. my husband

It's all those Cuckin spice lattes You're drinking They wanted Yeah They needed chill For sure You needed chill

Oh my gosh Okay now I'm gonna let Katie Actually speak to this Although that was really Thank you for your vulnerability But Thank you Yes good job

Katie how did you ever struggle with that How did you overcome it How did you get to the place of maybe you're at now As a mom has it changed you All the things I mean I feel like That's such a journey

Sometimes it's like I asked people that question. I'm actually still in it, and that's okay, too. Full freedom to just share where you're at. I think that it really helped that I went into it as a 23-year-old. I was a believer and kind of already knew who I was as a person, I feel like. And so I think that was a big aspect of it that I kind of, I felt secure. And you're coming out of Georgia Tech.

And there's only, I think, like nine girls. girls have ever attended that school. So, like, she was getting a lot of attention, a lot of confidence. It is actually really funny. Not a lot of girls there. That is true. My brother-in-law played baseball at Georgia Tech. So we spent a little bit of time at Georgia Tech. So, yeah, yes, that's awesome. Respect. Yeah, for those don't know, it's like the best engineering school in the country. So you got a lot of tends to be a dude interest. Yes. Yes. A lot of guys there. Yes. But, so yeah, I think I already had my identity, which really helped going into it. I also really health, like eating healthy and fitness is also like, I love those things. And so for me, it was like trying to show people or

help people like do it, stay healthy and stay fit, not, you know, not for like other reasons, but just like to take care of their bodies. Not starve themselves. Right, not starve themselves. I was eating. I, you know, I mean, I, I was, I was putting down a lot of ice cream. But I like want, you know, and so I think obviously I had my moments too where people said stuff to me and, you know, where I wasn't booking a job that I wanted or whatever. But I think that. Like what? What would they say?

Another ice cream big back? I had an agent say like something to the effect of like, you know, I, I, I, I know. I know the guys love your backside, but you got to lose it or something. And I was like, Oh my gosh. Oh, my gosh. It's shocking. People really do say that kind of stuff. Like I showed up for a no makeup photo shoot one time. It was supposed to be like branded as like natural beauty, all this stuff. And I was feeling actually confident for that. I was excited. I'm all about live original. Let's do this. And they literally when I show up, they go, she just doesn't have the face for no makeup. Let's just make it look like she has no makeup on. And send me to hair makeup to make it

look like I didn't have makeup on. I was so annoyed because I was like, this is the problem with the world is that now people think, which I'm honest and I'm just like, hey, I had makeup on. But people would be like, oh, wow, how does she look like that when she doesn't have makeup on? I was like, well, actually, I don't because they would not put that out there. Now, I do think that the world's gotten better now than it used to be. I agree. Like so much more inclusive, so much more. Alicia Keys. And, yeah, so it's like, people are just showing the real side of them on social media.

And people are pretty open about if they're not. I cannot. I'm like so used to watching your media. And it's actually making me laugh. But. She goes natural, right? She does. She does.

She does go natural. Good job. No, it's true. It's definitely becoming more of a thing, which I appreciate so much. But girls definitely, I mean, it's just a struggle for everybody and not. just girls for guys too. Obviously, Christian actually really does talk about that a lot. He's like, hey, this is not just a girl struggle. You got

find inner confidence as a guy too, and there's all kinds of stuff with that. Well, tell Christian, he said hi, tell me he's looking particularly beefy today. I will pass the note along. He'll really appreciate that one. I genuinely thought that. I really will tell that. That's so funny.

I do want to ask you about all your different takes, tray, on different people that you play. Like, the fall girl always look forward to. seeing the video and the fall and what that's going to be. And then Christian's favorite, I think you call yourself Maddox when you're the middle school. Am I right on that? He loves the Maddox Middle School.

That's great. Do you still, like, whenever you get on something, how do you know when it's like, do you know this is going to hit and this is going to become a reoccurring thing or do you kind of let the people decide that? Get no frills delivered. Shop the same in-store prices online. and enjoy unlimited delivery with PC Express Pass. Get your first year for $2.50 a month.

Learn more at pceexpress.ca. No, you, I, it's like, you still never know. I think that's what's like fun and infuriated about, I'm sure, you know, content and specifically comedy is just like, I posted something the other day where I was like, oh, we kind of threw this together. I hope people like it. And it was like the most successful video we put out all year.

And then, you know, the, another video you put so much into like, I can't wait to post this. You're like, oh, I guess this wasn't as popular as I thought it would be. And it's like the middle school character, that was a video truly, I threw together kind of like, what am I doing? And I posted it and 50 million views later. It's like, okay, I guess I'll give the people a little more than that, a little more of that, another bunch of views. And then it kind of keeps building into this whole character. So I've had a few really grow into this trend. or character.

I'm always just going off of my experience. So like middle school Maddox was just based off of how I remembered I acted as a 12 year old. And apparently that resonated with people. And, you know, the basic girl that's that's now kind of evolved into like my wife skits, you know, and a very exaggerated version of Katie or the other women in my life, like just playing off of what all of us are experiencing everyday normal life and trying to make it funny. And, yeah, I never really know how people are going to respond until they respond. And if they love it, you know, I'm happy to give them more of it.

But like you said, too, I, you have to mix in kind of there's certain characters and bits I've put to bed simply because I'm like, I don't want to do this anymore. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I did, you know, I used to like sing, do these singing in the car videos. I just part my car somewhere and scream. I'd nearly pass out. And like, I was like, I just can't do this anymore. All right. My neighbors are looking. I'm losing my voice. And so it's always a mixture of that, but

it's good. Yeah, you never know. But it's fun to, I, I'm just grateful I've been able to find a few things to to kind of make this a living. And I just, I love the people love it. So it's great. It's really great. It's fun to follow along. And yeah, I think that that's the, that's the thing about being confident in who you are and allowing yourself to change even whenever people don't want you to change because you know people will hold you to see that like oh that's what we like that's what you like and it's like especially with longevity and social media like you're going to change and you have to be okay with that and sometimes I feel like the tension is like oh what if they don't like this new version of me or this but it's that's who you are so that's what you show and so I think for me I mean I started my social

media when I was like 16 I guess 16 was my platforms are growing and I'm 28 It's just like 12 years, you know? I mean, when I started this, I was in high school. Now I have three kids married. Like, of course I'm going to change. And, you know, I think sometimes you're, oh, but people, yeah, like I said, that you're comparing yourself to who you were or to a bit you did or to a thing. And it's like, you got to let that go.

And because you never know what's going to come out of this new thing. I love you said, like, the basic girl, like, became like my wife's skits, you know, like kind of morphs into this new version and this new thing. And I think it's beautiful. y'all are awesome you're such an incredible couple I feel like time has begun to kind of fly by and you might have answered this in a little bit

but kind of what I want to end on and this is a very Christian question I guess I should say it's like what's your why but no really like you guys are parents I feel like whenever you become like when you become a parent you really do have to feel like

okay especially you Katie you might like relate to this where it's like okay I want to be of my kids, but I also want to do these other things. Like, I'm going to do this podcast. Like, your time matters. You know, what you're doing with your life matters. Like, you want to have purpose behind it. What do you all feel like as a couple? Like, why do you do what you do? Why do you do the podcast? What's the, what's the, uh, end goal or the, the deeper meaning in it all for for you all? Uh, you want me to go? Yeah, you go first. I, you know, I guess like I started making

these videos before I met Katie and then she but it was I'd really done it for a living for like a year maybe two before we really kind of became a couple and so she's really been in the whole thing she was she was there my very first time like doing stand up which has turned into this other part of my career and she she was there for you know the first podcast episode she's she's been involved in all of it and I think I've always had this pretty forward-thinking vision of like, all right, I never, never, ever thought I'd be doing anything like this, never thought I'd be making money doing this. And it took a few years, but I started to believe, like, I think I could be doing this for a while. Maybe this is my

life's career. It's just being funny in some way, shape, or form. Like, just trying to do that. I was raised to just do my best because with what God's given me. And it's just how it all came together. Like she was, we both had jobs that were flexible so we could date long distance. And then I started going on tour. We don't want to be a part. And so she, she was able to work a couple years at like a nine to five that made sense before she quit and helped me on the road when we got pregnant. And just seeing God kind of guide it all. And, and really, I think that's all it is, just trying to, I always repeat this prayer before I go on stage or a big moment, like, you know, more of him, less of me, John 3.30.

And that's kind of paradoxical. But just the focus of as I self-promote constantly, and I'm kind of like, give me attention, give me attention, give me attention. So I do love it. I just want it to hopefully feel like we're normal folks, just trying to do our best, do just put one front in front of the other where God's leading us and try to provide for our family and love our family and our strength. circle. So I love that. Um, the wise just really, I think we're family that we just repeat. We

try to do our best. And if, if all my socials get deleted tomorrow, then we'll do with that move on. Or if, if God wants to take another direction, we'll, we'll do that. But just great. I would love that. I would maybe add into just that, yeah, I think we both have the mindset. Obviously, he's been given such a great gift of like just bringing a lot of people joy. And like, that's something we all need. You know, I think that though why of like bringing people laughter, happiness, maybe like not take things so seriously. And in return, you know, we've been given the gift of being able to just like love our people well and, yeah, just do for, yeah, just hopefully create a great community and host and just bring people together. And I think

that we, we really like to. push that as a couple too. That's awesome. Y'all do such a good job of that. It's so cool. Like, when you ask people their why normally their why is really obvious in the way that they live their life, it should be, you know, it should be like, I can probably guess it because of the way that y'all do things so intentionally. And you can see that through all that y'all do. And I love how, you know, you guys give the gift of laughter and give the gift to joy. I always feel like when I go on social media, like from a person posting, I'm like, I want to go to social media not to take something, but to give something. Like, I hope that.

I give something to someone as they're scrolling through their feed today, whether that'd be like a smile or a piece of advice or, and not every post has to be like so deep or meaningful. But you know what I mean? I don't want to take away I want to give. And so I think like for you guys like putting out so much content like to make people laugh to find something relatable like, oh, you have a middle schooler right now or you are a middle school and I like laugh at yourself. You're a basic while you're out laugh. And also teaching people like not to be so sensitive. I think that our world is like so sensitive, you know? And I love how you guys as a couple, even how you said earlier, people are like, oh, you roast her or whatever. It's so hard. But it's like, actually, it shows a lot

confidence in a couple that you're sitting there laughing. I saw one video you all did. It was like a short form. It was, what did they call on my YouTube? The shorts, like short reels or whatever. Shorts, yeah. And he said like, what's up, Sasquatch? And you're like, hey, little man. And it's like, actually people need to see that you can just laugh. You know, like, that's, you know, like, that That's funny. Don't take yourself so serious. Don't take yourself. That's our family's, like, big thing, especially with our show with Doug Dynasty.

That was like our thing. Don't take yourself too seriously. Like, be able to laugh at yourself. And my uncle sigh is like everyone's favorite. Everyone loves Uncle Sy. And it's because there's no one like Uncle Sai. He does not take himself too seriously. And he just like rocked his authenticity.

It was just like epic. And it taught us all like, hey, don't take yourself too seriously. And you guys are giving people the gift of that. But anyways, this has been so fun getting to know y'all. It's always funny whenever you come on a podcast and I'm like, I've never met you guys. I've followed you all for so long, but you guys are even better than I even expected. You guys are amazing and such a beautiful couple. Thank you all for doing what you're doing.

And thanks for coming on the podcast and blessing us too. It's been awesome. Thank you for having us. This has been great. It's so great to meet you and it's been really fun. Yeah, really, thanks for reaching out. We're really honored to come on. So hopefully we'll cross paths.

It's a little hang in person, but thanks again for having us.