Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts - Rogue Advice Only
Episode Date: January 28, 2026This one's for the girls who are evolving but still got questions. Y'all slid into the inbox, called, and left voicemails. And sis, we thank you for trusting us with your hearts. Those questions lande...d on SJR's desk, and now she's delivering rogue advice: the kind that breaks the mold in ways you didn't see coming. Expect a heart check with a side of chin check, covering everything from losing touch with God and navigating sexual identity to rediscovering true fulfillment. Yeah, this episode does not play! #MindYourBusinessEdition
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What's up family?
This is your girl, Sarah Jake's Roberts, and you are listening to the Woman Evolve podcast.
I hope you all enjoyed our devotional to get things started.
It has been a treat for me to share with you all the things that have been on my heart.
And I pray that it helped to bring some clarity or maybe even a launch pad for you doing your own deep digging
to determine and define what going rogue looks like for you.
in this season. You know, the thing about going rogue is that sometimes we accept realities,
mindsets, things that just aren't necessarily meant to be a part of our highest identity because
it's just become normal for our community, for our culture, for our world. And going rogue is
first an invitation to interrogate what we have normalized, to determine whether or not what we have
normalized is actually divine. Is it a conduit that can allow us to experience our reflection
of divinity on the earth? And for me, that has been a beautiful process. I have spent the last
20-some days off the social media. And it has been, it's been beautiful for me,
actually. At first when I gave up social media, I thought that
it was God trying to like test me to see if I was going to be tempted and to show me how addicted
I was to it. And you know, it hasn't been that because most of the time when I'm on social media,
I can't acknowledge that I in fact have other things I could be should be doing, but I am wasting
time on social media. So I haven't necessarily felt tempted as much as I have felt more productive,
but I have been surprised to understand like how clear my mind has been.
I am a slow processor
and shout out to the slow processors
she's not a quick girl
she's not fast
but when she does land
she lands strong
okay that is my testimony
I'm not the sharp
like if you need something
immediately sharp
don't don't
I'm maybe not me
but you sharpen me up
and I'll cut through a watermelon
or carrot or something
anyway stay focused
and stop thinking about food
so I realized that
even when I'm not on social media, I am still inundated with all of the things that I have been
exposed to on social media. So whether it was some hot takes on someone else's life,
opinions about my life, comments on a message or fashion or whatever, when the scrolling is over,
I can find myself in my mind still like reliving certain things or debating other perspectives.
and so not having that real estate taken up space in my mind has really been helpful.
Reminds in scripture, scripture talks about meditating on the word day and night.
And like, if I am meditating on the words from social media day and night,
it is no wonder I'm always drawn back to it.
Because what you meditate on significantly is what you're going to be drawn back to.
So it's been nice to own my own mind, to own my mind and my thoughts.
and it's been a beautiful journey.
I am back, though, in the podcast saddle with some fresh podcast,
but I said that I would answer questions that you all have about the devotion.
And not only about the devotion, some of you have sent me some just mind your business advice in general.
So I thought that I would give you a little bit of rogue advice as it relates to some things that are happening in your life.
But first, I want to acknowledge some questions that came in under the devotion.
The first thing that someone wanted to know is I know what going rogue in the natural, but spiritually, I don't know.
So I want you to know that the last few podcasts are a great way of really informing yourself about the way that we are posturing this theme about going rogue.
I can give you so many examples in scripture of people who had to abandon with them.
they felt was normal with a sense of urgency, with a sense of intentionality in order for them to
really step into the God's word for their life or to step into their mission, their purpose,
their destiny. There is a breaking of cycles and paradigms that have made us comfortable
that is required in order for us to really step into the fullness of our identity and God.
And so for us, we are taking this time of the year to examine where are the areas in my life
that I have accepted things that maybe I need to reject and reject with force and with
intentionality so that I can step into a broader way of thinking, a healthier way of being,
a more rooted and grounded identity.
That is how we are positioning what it means to go road.
The next question about going rogue is,
this is a good one because I feel like it's part of the reason why many of us do not go rogue.
This person wrote in and they say, what if you have a talent inside of you?
Everyone wants you to do it, but it's not the lifestyle you're living anymore.
How would you know if God wants you to do it?
So this is a great question.
And I think it's one that we can all relate to because many of us want to do, you know, God's will for our life and we don't want to mess it up.
But separating it between God and other people can honestly get very complicated.
complicated. And if you're a people pleaser, then sometimes it feels like they are actually your God.
This is what I say. I say, lay it all down to get to a place mentally, spiritually, and emotionally,
not just where you know that you don't want to do it anymore, but that you are also open to the
possibility that it may be what God has for you. Let me say it like this. So when I first started
speaking, I was sharing my story. And I was glad to share my story because it was helping
so many women feel less alone to reconnect with God and to experience his love and restoration in
their lives. So I did that for quite some time. But a lot of it was also talking about my trauma,
my pain, my first marriage and some of the, you know, disappointing and hurtful experiences I had
as a result of that first marriage. And I was remarried and I had a baby. And in many ways it felt like
I was just reliving a life that didn't apply to me any longer.
And I didn't want to do it.
And I kind of started praying like, Lord, you know, no thanks.
You know what I mean?
Like return to sender.
And in the process of me doing my prayer, I really felt like you can't come to God in prayer
with an outcome that is one, with only one outcome that you will accept.
When we come to God in prayer, our intention should be to make our request known, to make our petition known, right?
But to also get to a place where we are open to the way that God may want to develop, transform, expose us to outcomes that are different than what we have in mind.
And that's part of what I had to do is to get to a place where I could say it is well in my soul.
if this is what you want me to do, even though it's not necessarily something that feels aligned with,
you know, what brings me the most sense of security and safety, I'm willing to do that.
If it is not something, then I'm willing to take whatever courage and vulnerability is required to step
into something different. The only caveat that I would say to that is that you said,
but it's not the lifestyle you're living anymore. That could have any number of meanings. And so I would
just say that if the lifestyle pulls you further away from God, if it brings you into a space that
is unhealthy for you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, then that's easy. We know that that's not
what God wants for you. And so even if everyone else wants it for you, but you know that it's not
what God has for you, that should be easy to lay down. But, well, not easy. Not easy.
Brough, maybe not easy, but certainly something that is more clear on whether or not we should
lay it down. When you say, how would you know if God wants you to do it? That's what makes me think that
it's one of those things that feels a little confusing. So I hope that helps you. Okay, I want to play
some of the questions that came in. There are some good ones in here. I'm going to start it off
with one that I really enjoyed one because she was funny when she left this voicemail. This is about
a woman who feels like she's lost the ability to reach out to God. Let's hear her story.
I need somebody to mind my business because I apparently don't know how or don't understand how.
I'm not sure.
I just wanted to say, you are by far my favorite.
You are so raw and you are so down to earth and you are just so dug deep and grounded and planted so firmly in the soil of God.
that it's just every single time you open your mouth,
every time you open your mouth, girl,
you just expand and explode
and you don't even realize how much you're touching
and fulfilling somebody's heart
or their need of something that day.
But anyway, long story short,
you might not even get to this message,
you might not even hear this message.
You probably have enough to go through,
but if you do, tonight is it a hard night.
Lots of tears.
Lots of tears.
Lots of pain.
Which that's been this whole year.
And it just seems like every night is harder and every night is more lonely.
It's like the days go by so quick and the night is so long.
so long.
I too was raised
to pastor's daughter.
My dad died four years ago.
We used to travel around
and sing and do praise of worship.
He was a professional pianist
and I sang with him
and my sister sang with him
and we would travel around
and we would
travel different states
and start up churches
and start up revivals
and just help grow the community.
And then once God was done with us,
there we go to the next one,
and when we do it all over again,
and it's like,
I have lost all of my touch.
I have lost all of my reach.
And, girl, my arms are long.
My arms are long.
Long for a white girl.
but I feel like I'm so far away.
Like I can't, I can't even get close at all.
I can't even get in the area of where I need to be.
Okay, so remember how I said that we are going to give some rogue advice.
I'm going to help you frame this theme going rogue
in a way that aligns with the questions that have come in.
And we have three of them.
And so this first one, first of all, I want to say, hey, girl, how are you?
Thank you for your heart, for your love, for the words that you said to me.
They mean a lot to me.
I don't take it for granted.
And as I was listening to your voice memo, I couldn't help but feel grief.
I sensed a real sadness.
Perhaps the loss of your dynamic and relationship with your father, but also the grief
fulfilling like you've lost yourself in that positioning that you were once used to. And I hear you
when you say my arms are long. To me, that sounds like I've had to reach for God in some really
difficult circumstances and I found a way. But this is just one of those moments where I'm not
able to reach out for him. And one of the things that I want to tell you is that when you cannot
reach out for God to God, it's because he's already present with you.
I want to say this properly, but I just want to remind you that we serve the God who left the 99 to go get the one.
That he realizes that we have these moments where we are completely just not able to reach out to him.
And because we cannot reach out to him, we end up lost and stuck in some really dark places.
And the God we serve says, you know what, I love my creation so, so much that I will get to them even when.
when they can't get to me.
And so I want to invite you to stop reaching.
I want you to go rogue.
I want you to stop reaching and to start seeing.
I want you to start seeing the ways that God is showing up for you
in little ways, in big ways, right where you are,
to allow yourself to see God,
even in this space that feels dark and difficult,
Because when you stop reaching and you start seeing, you are allowing yourself to be held.
When you stop reaching and you start seeing the ways that God is showing up for you now,
you allow yourself to be held.
And when you allow yourself to be held, sometimes it also allows you to exhale.
And to remember that it was never about your works or your performance,
though they were beautiful and pleasing and acceptable to God,
that God only wanted you in your heart and for you all to live in unity with one another.
You know, I've been preaching in Dallas the last few weeks and I preached a message.
Well, I preached two weeks in a row from the same text, but about us going through these seasons
where God changes the way that we relate to him.
And at this point in Exodus, he was relating with the Hebrew children through the tabernacle.
And the beauty of the tabernacle was God saying, I know that you can't understand me fully, right?
Like, who is this God who parted the Red Sea?
Who is this God that's got a pillar of fire and a cloud?
Who is this God that's got man of all?
Like, I know you don't know me fully.
And trying to reach up to me is hard.
So I'm going to dwell with you.
That's the God that we serve, a God who's willing to dwell with you in the wilderness,
not in the promised land where you're filling your beds and you have access to all the resources.
but when you're in dry, barren places, the Lord wants to dwell with you.
So take note of the ways that manna is showing up.
Take note of the ways that God is building relationships, sermons, books that just bring you
closer and closer to him.
The last thing that I would just encourage you to maybe take a look at is it's in Genesis
when Hagar is, she's tired of it.
Listen, they played in her face big time.
okay. Sarah's out here cutting up.
Wait, let me, Sarah, okay, because some of y'all,
you know it, but others of you don't,
and I'm going to give you the best version of it that I can, okay?
So Abraham and Sarah, oh, don't think they having no children.
Laura said, I'm going to bless you.
I'm going to bring nations out of them loins, okay?
That's crazy.
To say that is actually crazy.
But, you know, I'm just trying to speed,
I'm just trying to speed run through this thing.
And so they're like, okay, so when you're going to do it,
You know, the Lord takes time.
He don't move as fast as they think that he should move.
And so Sarah's like, bet, you know what I'm going to do?
I'm going to my maid servants.
I'm going to tell you to, you know, go on and be with her so that she can have a baby.
And that's maybe how God's going to do it.
You know how sometimes you create a plan.
It's like maybe that's how God's going to do it.
I'm just help God do what God say he was going to do.
That's what she did.
And so Hagar does what she's supposed to do.
But then the lady's not happy.
She understood the assignment, but she needs.
to understand the assignment less.
And so she starts getting, you know,
she started getting a little salty with the lady
because now you didn't sleep with my man and you're pregnant.
Like I know I told you to sleep with my man,
but I didn't mean for you to sleep with my man
and get pregnant the way that I said.
Okay, so now, sister's frustrated because she's like,
I did what you told me to do.
She's like, you know what?
Actually, I'm out of here bouncing.
So she bounces.
As she is bouncing, the Lord is like,
girl, where are you going?
You out here by yourself, in the wilderness,
no food, no support, and you pregnant.
what are you doing? That's not what he said, but this is, you know what I'm saying? None of this is the way
that it was said in the way that it was said. Just read Genesis 16 for yourself. And then so the
Lord is like, listen, I know it's crazy out here, but you're pregnant. This is what you're going to call him.
And I want you to call him this because I heard your affliction. I hear you. I hear you. Okay.
I see what you're going through. And he's going to be a wild man. And that means he's going to
understand the world. He's going to survive in wild places.
and he's going to be strong and there are going to be people who are against him because of his strength
and he's going to dwell with his brother and I'm going to bless you, I'm going to take care of you.
You're going to have to go back to them now.
You know what I mean?
Because I want you to be taken care of.
I'm going to need you going back and do what they told you to do.
You know, but I'm going to take care of you.
And you know what she calls him?
She calls him, you are the God who sees.
There is something powerful about her being in a place where she had given up completely.
God comes and meets her.
and the place where she was willing to give up.
And she sees and she understands by the way that his presence shows up in that moment,
that God truly sees her.
If you are in a space where you are beating yourself up because you can't reach out to God,
you're beating yourself up because you can't figure things out.
My advice to you is to stop beating yourself up,
stop reaching, stop trying to force it,
and just ask God to open your eyes because the God who sees is also the God who will help you to see.
help you to see where you are, help you to see what is available to you, help you to most
importantly understand his presence and his love towards you. So I hope that helps you. I love you
and call me back and let me know what you think about this. The next question is a little spicy.
So if you have a little ears around, I'm going to give you a countdown, a little second,
a little minute to get the little ones. You know what I mean? I'm going to give you a minute to just
neutralize the environment.
Neutralize the environment.
I'm buying you time.
All right.
I'm about to play it.
Here we go.
Hi, Sarah.
I love your podcast.
I first want to thank you for bringing me back to God.
My junior year of high school.
I'm now 20 years old in my junior year of college.
And my question for you today is,
How do you go from old habits when the struggle isn't about what you do, but it's about what you think, especially when that battle makes you feel disconnected from God.
So, for example, like, I'm not acting on my thoughts, but I'm always thinking about it.
And it's more like in a sexual aspect.
And it's like, when I'm thinking about this, it takes over my feelings.
for God.
Like, it's like, I'm not thinking about God anymore, but I'm also thinking about what I'm imagining
in my head.
I hope that makes sense.
And yeah, have a nice day.
Bye.
Okay, so once again, rogue advice.
Okay, here's some rogue advice for you.
I need you to do something that is going to sound absolutely crazy.
I am going to ask you to stop suppressing and attempting to suppress the thoughts and instead invite light into those thoughts.
I want you to ask God to reveal to you some of the perspectives that have shaped your sexual identity.
Okay, so let me break it down for you.
I remember having an epiphany.
I was watching the Surviving R. Kelly documentary.
and it all hit me out of nowhere.
One, when I was listening to his music,
and I've talked about this on the podcast before,
I didn't have no business listening to R. Kelly music.
I was 10, 11 years old.
Probably no wonder I ended up being pregnant at 14 years old
because, huh?
So here I am listening to his music,
thinking to myself, I'm listening to grown folks music,
only to find out as an adult I was listening.
I was the target audience.
You understand what I'm saying?
I was the target audience.
And that did a number for me
because it made me realize that my sexual identity had been formulated by music and not just his music,
but other people's music, other people's videos, books, like my sexual identity had been formed by all of these other influences,
and not by my own acknowledgement of what sex is and my own desires informing that,
sexual identity and that really created this opportunity for me to confront ideas that I had just
accepted about what sex is and how it was supposed to be. I'm careful to not demonize sex because sex
in its proper context is a beautiful gift from God. But when it has been perverted, when it has been
abused, when it has taken on different unhealthy expressions, it can become something.
something that has oppression connected to it, that has addiction connected to it. And so I want to
challenge you to turn the light on your sexual identity, to not just try to not think the thoughts.
I don't want to think the thoughts. But God, help me to understand why these thoughts are so prevalent
in my mind, to help me understand some of the influences that have played a role in me
experiencing sex this way or replaying sex in this way. And part of the reason why I want you to do
that is because we're not attacking sex. We want to attack the influences that created that. We want to go to war
with the root of what has created this weed. I'm going to use it a weed in your life. You have told me
through your call that you feel like this is pulling me away from God. Anything that is pulling you
away from God is something that you want to take seriously. I'm grateful that you called in and that you're
trust in me with this. I also want you to understand that you can invite the power of God in to
help you understand and overcome whatever is pulling you away from him. The Lord knew that in our
own strength, there were going to be some things that we could not tackle on our own. So he gave us
his spirit to do that which we could not do in our own strength. And so I think one, to say,
I want to have a healthy relationship with sex. And in order for me to have a healthy relationship with
sex, it starts with overall wholeness. And the overall wholeness of my mind, my heart,
my body, and my soul, has there been trauma, has there been brokenness, has there been influences
that I have just accepted? And how do those show up in the way that my sexual identity has been
formed? And so I want you to consider the overall state of your wholeness. And I also want you
to continue to shine a light on these thoughts, to think less about superiors. And I'm not. To think less about
suppressing them and more about the influences that formed them. So had Eve done this in the garden,
right? So if Eve would have done this in the garden, if she would have just taken the time
to not answer the question of the serpent, but to really see the serpent properly. Had she
seen the serpent properly, she would have realized that she was allowing something that she was
supposed to have control over to control her. God had given her dominion over all of the creeping
things on the earth. Isn't it ironic that when God creates man and woman, that he says specifically
that he is going to give them dominion over all of the creeping things on the earth? Oh my gosh,
I get chills just thinking about that. It's like the Lord knew before she ever had an encounter
with a creep. Come on somebody. It's preaching. It's preaching because I've seen a few creeps in
my life and I let the creeps creep on me when I should have been creeping on, do you understand
what I'm saying?
Okay, stay focused.
But here's the thing.
The Lord knew before she ever had an encounter with the serpent that he was going to need
to give her power, but she didn't use the power because she was so busy having a dialogue
when she should have been recognizing the source and confronting the source and bringing the source
under her authority.
And so she got caught up.
but thanks be unto God who always causes us to triumph, you can get unstuck in an area where
you've been caught up. And so that is my advice to you is to consider how your sexual identity
has been formed. What are some of these thoughts? Where have they come from? If they aren't healthy,
if they've been influenced by unhealthy patterns, unhealthy exposures, sometimes traumatic exposures,
to say, Lord, I want to bring healing to this area of my life. I recognize that this is brokenness.
and I don't want it to pervert the gift of sex that you have given us to enjoy and to procreate if that is applicable to our circumstance.
And I want to have a healthy sex life and a healthy sexual identity.
And it feels like this is something that is going to stand in the way of that and lead to addiction and behaviors that bring me further and further away from you.
So let me know what you think about that.
Okay, here is my last question for our goal.
Going rogue advice.
Okay, we're going rogue.
Next week, I'm back with an interview right now on today.
On today, we are going rogue.
And I feel like this is a really good one to end with because it really speaks to when I heard it.
Well, let me let you listen to it.
Hi, Sarah.
My name is Ashley.
I listen to your podcast most recently for at least for about a week.
I'm sorry, once a week.
I listen to your podcast for about once a week.
most recently.
But anyway, I love how people call in with relatable situations.
And I was just listening to one episode about someone caught in about being rejected in their career
and inspired me to call in finally.
But for me, just wanted to call in because, you know, I've just been feeling.
an overwhelming amount of emotions.
Just overwhelm is the key word because life pressures being single without kids,
wanting a romantic relationship, wanting a husband,
wanting to be at a certain place in my career.
And I just feel that within my career and my relationship status, I'm failing at both or there's a lack.
And I know that I'm doing the work.
I just get, you know, a little frustrated sometimes and impatient sometimes when, you know, I'm praying.
I'm working.
I'm doing the things.
I'm in school, trying to be patient, trying to journal, seek and seeking God sincerely.
But it gets hard sometimes when, you know, I see or think of other couples and people with
families and things to do and that they're getting invited to that, you know, like me, I may not
be invited to.
I hope this makes sense is something that I started to write, but now that I'm talking,
is coming out a little bit different.
But anyway, I guess the overall theme is just feeling frustrated and overwhelmed and alone and ashamed and weary and all of those things due to feeling fulfilled in my career.
relationship status.
And so just calling to then and to hear some encouragement.
You know, I'm not going to tell you what to do or say I'll let the Lord lead you.
So one of the things that I really love about this question is that, one, it is so common
and so relatable to be in a situation where, you know, you wait a.
on God, you wait on somebody to come and help you experience the fulfillment that you're
seeing play out in other people's life. This is where the going road concept to me really begins
to take form because I think it is an opportunity for us to one, grieve. To grieve that our
life doesn't look like what we had in mind, that it doesn't look like what we anticipated. It
doesn't look like the dream that we had as young women or little girls. And it is appropriate to grieve
that, especially when or if you have spent most of your life thinking that eventually that's what
I will have and you're now at a stage where other people are getting it, but you're not having it.
It's okay to grieve that. I can remember in my first marriage thinking, like, I've got the things
that maybe, you know, other people were looking for. Like, I've got the marriage. I've got the kids.
and I am so deeply unhappy.
From the outside, looking in, I should have been fulfilled, but on the inside, I was literally
dying, turning into a shell of a version of myself, and becoming more lost and just twisted
and contorted.
And it was hard and it was difficult.
And I thought it was going to bring me fulfillment.
That's why I was so confused.
When I was a teenage mother, I thought to myself, oh, if I could.
Just have a husband. Oh, if we could just get married and have a white picket fence and I got all of those things and I was still unfulfilled. And it taught me this beautiful lesson about fulfillment that I think everyone should claim. And that is that fulfillment has different forms at different seasons of our life. And those definitions of fulfillment that we desire are often societal norms that we think we should have.
based off of someone else's definition of what should bring us fulfillment.
The grief is real.
The grief is real, but sometimes the expectation that fulfillment would come from that source
isn't even ours.
It's just something that was projected onto us.
And sometimes it takes getting it to force you to realize that that's not what fulfillment is.
And sometimes it takes not having it to force you to discover different forms of fulfillment.
So I have some homework for you.
that is okay. In addition to grieving that your life doesn't look like the way that you anticipated,
I want you to try and discover other ways of experiencing fulfillment. Nothing may ever have the same
type of fulfillment as marriage or the same type of fulfillment as having children. But just because
you don't have that type of fulfillment doesn't mean that you cannot feel fulfilled. So I want you to
try some new things. I want you to try volunteering. I want you to take a dance class. I want you to
take a art class. I want you to take a cooking class, to take language classes, to plan a trip.
I want you to take note of all of the big and small ways that you can experience fulfillment,
even without having the things that you felt would bring you fulfillment. When we are willing to
expand our definition of fulfillment, it helps us to cope when we do not have fulfillment in the areas
where we anticipated. I am not saying that you won't have moments where you feel lonely,
that you won't have moments where you feel the grief of life not playing out in the way that you
anticipated. You will. But I think there's also space for you to say, and you know what? I really
enjoy salsa. And you know what? I really enjoyed making that painting and going to figure out
how to run, like running. Y'all already know. Sometimes she bring me fulfillment. Sometimes she
bring me frustration. But, you know, chase fulfillment. Don't wait for it. Explore fulfillment.
Don't just wait for it to drop in your lap because this life is hard. Jesus says in this life,
you will have tribulations. It's hard. Whether you're married with children, whether you're just
having children, whether you just married, whether there's different forms of life. And guess what?
They're all hard on us in different ways. If we aren't intentional about finding fulfillment,
in the ways that we can wherever we are,
then we'll constantly live thinking that it wasn't available to us now.
You know, one of the things that Paul writes in Philippians that I often reference,
and by the way, it's the scripture that my children use and abuse incorrectly all of the time,
but it is in Philippians 4 and 13.
It's not unfamiliar.
Many of you have probably heard it.
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
And it sounds like one of those things where it's like, you know, oh, I can run up a mountain.
I can climb Mount Everest.
I could run 26.2 miles.
I can build a house.
It's not exactly the context that Paul uses when he says this statement.
Paul uses this statement because he realizes that life has been up for him and life has been down for him.
If you read starting in verse 10, he starts to talk about all of the things that he's gone through.
He says that I've had need, but I've also been in a state where I was content.
I've been abased and I know how to abound everywhere.
And in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer
need.
And then he says, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
That is my prayer for you.
As you do the crazy, crazy mission of going rogue by redefining.
fulfillment is that you will discover that you can live whatever life God has laid out for you
and that you can find joy and contentment and power and peace in that life. It doesn't mean that
there won't be hard moments, but there will also be beautiful moments as well. So your rogue advice
is to redefine fulfillment, to allow new things to meet you, to change you, and to evolve you.
I also will acknowledge that I am married and I have kids, but maybe that also just further underscores the moments that, like, I haven't always felt fulfilled at every stage of my healthy marriage and every stage with my kids.
I've had moments where I had them, but I didn't have my identity, or I had them, but I was struggling in areas of character development, and I was having to struggle with shame and my trauma.
was coming up. So I just want you to know that it is possible to find fulfillment, lose fulfillment,
and to rediscover it again. Just make sure that your heart is positioned properly so that you believe
that it is possible for you and that you're willing to take on the vulnerable task of exploring
where fulfillment is buried in this season of your life. I hope that you all enjoyed our
rogue advice session. I have a feeling we will be.
be doing this more and more as we seek to really wrap our minds around what it means to go rogue,
especially as it relates to the way that we've been showing up in the world that hasn't been
working and what it looks like for us to flip the script and to change the narrative.
I love you all tremendously. We have an episode next week that is just hilarious. I had an amazing
time talking to Kev on stage, and I think that you all will enjoy some of the nuggets that
came from this conversation. Hey, I want to
hear from you. If you have questions for me, make sure that you call the number in the show
notes so that I can mind your business and we can go rogue together. Lord, thank you so much
for your consistency, for your faithfulness, for your love, for your harvest of peace, of power,
of grace, of kindness, of strength, of discipline. Lord, I pray that it would meet each and every
last one of us in the areas where we have been oppressed, restricted, depressed, suppressed,
and allow us to experience breakthrough.
God, we want to break through.
We need a breakthrough in our identity.
We need a breakthrough in our patterns and behavior.
And we're stuck without you.
And so we're asking that you would order our steps, that you would light our path,
and that you would lead us into perfect truth as only you can do.
Lord, give me wisdom, discernment, strategy, and language to translate the powerful truths that you have given me into words that land in the hearts of those who needed the most.
Bless my listeners and bless me until we meet again in Jesus' name. Amen.
Evolve.
