Woman's Hour - Kate Nash, Sarah Brown, Cardiac surgeon Dr Indu Deglurkar

Episode Date: May 12, 2025

Rising to fame at the age of 20, Kate Nash soon became a staple of the British music scene in the late 2000s. Her first album, Made of Bricks, reached number one in the UK and stayed in the UK charts ...for more than forty consecutive weeks and she’s won a Brit Award. But she’s spoken openly about not being able to afford to tour and choosing to subsidise her income by selling images of her body on OnlyFans. Kate’s currently in the middle of a UK tour for her latest album, 9 Sad Symphonies, and is playing the O2 Kentish Town Forum on 9 April. She joins Nuala McGovern to discuss her career and the music industry.Sarah Brown and her husband Gordon, the former prime minister set up the Jennifer Brown Research Laboratory in 2004, following the death of their daughter Jennifer who was born seven weeks early. For the past decade, the laboratory has been leading vital research into premature birth – including a world-first study following 400 babies, both premature and full-term, from birth to adulthood. Sarah tells Nuala about the research and what they've found about preterm birth. Once the Deed is Done is the fifth novel from the German-British author Rachel Seiffert. It covers the immediate aftermath of the end of WW2 and the fall of Nazi Germany. The book focuses on a group of displaced people – it’s estimated that globally there were between 40-60 million people displaced by the war. Rachel describes why she wanted to write about this often forgotten time in history, reflecting on the cruelty inflicted from above and the choices her characters make. BBC2’s Saving Lives in Cardiff is back on our screens from tonight. Based in the largest hospital in Wales, University Hospital in Cardiff, the series highlights the weight of difficult, sometimes life and death decisions surgeons make about who to prioritise next. The first episode follows Dr Indu Deglurkar, a cardiac surgeon, one of only 19 women in this role in the UK. She joins Nuala to discuss the pressures and joys of her job.Presented by Nuala McGovern Producer: Louise Corley

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Starting point is 00:00:47 Just to say that for rights reasons, the music in the original radio broadcast has been removed for this podcast. Hello and welcome to the programme. The Prime Minister, as you've been hearing in the bulletin, has been laying out the government's migration policy. Proposed changes include cutting the recruitment of overseas care workers and the focus of the discussion is about the numbers of paid carers and where they come from. But this morning we want to talk about the quality of care those workers offer. What does good care look like to you? You may have used a paid
Starting point is 00:01:19 carer yourself or rely on one to look after somebody in your family. What qualities and skills do you want your carer to have? Or maybe you are a care worker who takes great pride in delivering compassionate and diligent service. Well I'd like to hear from you. You can text the program the number is 84844 on social media or at BBC Woman's Hour or you can email us through our website for a WhatsApp message or a voice note. The number is 03 700 100 444. We will hear from a care worker who's been on the front lines, who objects to the characterisation of a paid carer as a low skilled worker.
Starting point is 00:01:56 Maybe you have thoughts on that. Also today, the singer, songwriter and actor who is totally captivating in her latest role on stage, it is Beverly Knight. She's going to be in our Woman's Hour studio. Beverly is playing Sister Rosetta Tharp, the godmother of rock and roll. Now if you don't know a lot about her, you will in the coming hour. Also starting today we will be hearing different perspectives on the UK Supreme Court ruling that decided the termed woman and sex in the Equality Act 2010 refer to a biological woman and biological sex. Today Robin Moir of White, a barrister and activist who is a trans
Starting point is 00:02:35 woman. Other views in upcoming programs will also be broadcast. Plus exploring an ADHD diagnosis during the menopause. Do stay with us. But let me begin with that announcement by the government that care workers will no longer be recruited from overseas as part of a crackdown on visas for lower skilled workers, as it has been termed. The Conservative Party did previously change the rules, which saw a drop-off in the number of visas given to care workers abroad. On BBC Sunday with Laura Kunzberg on that program yesterday, Laura asked the Home Secretary Yvette Cooper if she wanted to cut that even further. Yes we do and we're changing going to change those rules this year to prevent
Starting point is 00:03:19 the care worker visa being used to recruit from abroad. At all? Yes. But we will allow them to continue to extend visas and also to recruit from. There's more than 10,000 people who came on a care worker visa where the sponsorship visa was canceled. Effectively, they came to jobs that weren't actually here or that were not of the proper standard. They are here, and care companies
Starting point is 00:03:44 should be recruiting from that pool of people rather than recruiting from abroad. But I can always... So we are closing recruitment from abroad. That is a significant change and we're doing it alongside saying we need to bring in a new fair pay agreement for care workers because we saw that huge increase in care work recruitment from abroad but without actually ever tackling the problems in the system.
Starting point is 00:04:08 So that was Yvette Cooper speaking to Laura Coonsberg yesterday. Now the care sector has criticised the government's plans to end the overseas recruitment of staff as cruel and short-sighted. Let me speak to Gavin Edwards who is head of social care at Unison. Good to have you with us Gavin. Well what about that care workers being recruited from the existing pool instead of from overseas? I think it's obviously the government has got a right to manage migration but it's also got a responsibility to make sure that we've got the number of care workers that we need and over recent decades really we simply haven't been paying those care workers enough for the difficult and skilled job that they're doing. So in the the
Starting point is 00:04:52 current situation I think this makes it all the more urgent that the government moves ahead with the fair pay agreement, the sectoral agreement, the agreement that they're going to put in place for the care sector to boost the wages to ensure that we can recruit to the care sector in the way that we need to. But in the meantime, those care workers who've come to the UK from overseas need to be treated with dignity and respect, which is something which has been far too lacking in recent years. So do you believe if the wages were higher, that that would change the whole landscape?
Starting point is 00:05:26 where higher that that would change the whole landscape? I think if we see the delivery of a substantial fair pay agreement which the government has announced that it's planning as part of the employment rights bill and that it has substantial investment behind it that will go a long way to addressing the huge levels of vacancies in the care sector. I mean it's having a hugely damaging effect on the levels of care and the availability of care in this country. And so we need that national sectoral wide agreement that's going to be legally enforceable. And I do think that's going to be a game changer. But we also need to make sure that those care workers who are already here from overseas are treated properly. And I think there are some changes that could be made to the visa system to assist with that.
Starting point is 00:06:07 Well, let's talk about that. The overseas worker, how integral are they to the industry as a whole? Make no bones about it. The overseas workers who've come to work in the care sector in recent years have prevented the care sector from collapsing. The situation with paying conditions for care workers in the UK is so dire that it was needed that those workers would come. In the absence of a government that was going to do anything about pay terms and conditions, we did need those workers.
Starting point is 00:06:37 It's a vital public service, social care, and yet it's a sector that has the highest vacancy rate of any sector in the economy and that was not only holding back the care sector but also stopping us from bringing down NHS waiting times because the care packages simply weren't there for people leaving hospitals. I'm curious for your thoughts on this Gavin, a message that just came in. Overall my experience of home carers for my mum has been quite poor. We've been through four home care agencies. Too many seem to do it as no alternative for work. Caring is a calling. I completely agree that care is a calling. I was speaking to the chair of our National Care Committee this morning, who's a support worker herself, she was
Starting point is 00:07:20 telling me about the 42 plus training courses she has to do each year, including safeguarding, tube feeding, oral health, issuing emergency life saving medication. This is a difficult and skilled job by anybody's reckoning, but unfortunately it's not paid as a skilled job and that's what needs to be addressed. Why do you think that is? Why has that happened over a period of decades successive governments have failed to invest in the care sector it's acutely underfunded. We also need widespread reform because it's a sector that is far too focused on profit
Starting point is 00:07:56 in terms of the providers, it's too fragmented, we have 18,000 providers in the care sector as well. I'm pleased to see the government starting to get a handle on some of these things by bringing in the Fair Pay Agreement by its pledge to deliver a national care service but we need to move ahead with these things now because the care sector has been waiting far too long for reform. And I do not have a response from the providers to your characterization there about profit being a motivating factor but they are your comments at the moment Gavin who is Gavin Edwards head of social care at Unison thank you very much I do see another message coming in my mother's two carers are with her
Starting point is 00:08:34 right now they're doing personal care to start her day both were recruited from overseas the care system collapse without them the way in which carers are paid is a disgrace care work is a highly skilled, yet these ladies are not paid for the time spent traveling between clients. They're on zero hour contracts and so no sickness pay. I can only work because these ladies come in four times a day for my mother. I'm sure that story will resonate with many. Let me bring in my next guest who's Catherine Falk who wrote a memoir on working in the care sector all through the pandemic called Every Kind of People, a Journey into the Heart of Care Work. Good to have you with
Starting point is 00:09:10 this Catherine, I mean I wonder how you would describe care work and what do people need to know about it, particularly that terminology that it's often used that it is a low skilled worker. I think that and thanks for having me on, I think that if you are doing the job properly it's certainly not low skills work at all. There are all sorts of qualities and skills that you need. The qualities that you might need probably you need to have inherently most of them. You need to be patient, tolerant, reliable, empathic, have compassion, communicate, be sensitive, be calm, have good humour and then the skills involved are enormous. Hoisting, safeguarding, manual handling, infection
Starting point is 00:09:52 control, being observant, record-keeping, it's you know, it's a high, I think it's a very, or I've found since I've been in it for the last five years, it's very highly skilled if you're doing it properly. You kind of chanced upon this career in some ways. Would that be fair? You were the accidental carer? It would be very fair to say that. Yes, I used to be a clinical dietitian in the NHS and suffered from, I think probably just suffered from burnout really, so gave that up and became less and less confident and a bit depressed at home until I felt the only job I could probably get was that as a care worker and I had a very poor perception of what that would be like. I thought it would probably be a bit dull and possibly unpleasant, a bit boring and it
Starting point is 00:10:38 was absolutely anything but. It was interesting, fascinating, rewarding, joyful, funny, and very skilled. Yeah, I was, I was, and now I still do it today. I can't imagine doing anything else. What's wonderful about it? What's wonderful about it? Well, you, I think what's wonderful about it for me is that I go to work every day feeling like I want to go to work. I connect with people all day. I have fantastic relationships with my residents and my customers. And I go home feeling that I've done a good job. I've helped people be more independent
Starting point is 00:11:14 and we've had a good laugh along the way. I just find it fascinating and really, really rewarding. I'm interested in the skills that you outline for the ideal carer, which is, I mean, how many people are that multi skilled or multi talented is the first thing that comes to mind. And Gavin mentioned this as well, you know, that ideally you have somebody who wants to do it as a calling or a vocation, whatever way we want to term it.
Starting point is 00:11:44 But how do you find those people? That's the issue, isn't it? How do you find those people? I think that one of the issues we have alongside the financial issue, you know, the low pay, is that we have a very poor image and we need a makeover as much as anything else. We really, really do. We need to be promoting ourselves as a profession and we need to be enticing good people in at a younger age, promoting it as a career with a career pathway through it. There's loads of opportunities within the profession of care and there's very little known about them. So we need to promote it as much as pay better for it to tempt those people in because it is, apart from being rewarding, it is really hard work. So, yes, we do need to promote it more and then we would get those people in.
Starting point is 00:12:32 Those people are around, but they need to be shown that care is a profession that they can go into. How do you feel about people being made to be social care workers just because they are looking for any job, that that is the way it is, I suppose, sold at the moment and the way many people hear it, that that's the only job they can get? I think it's terrible because it means that by and large I work with wonderful people. I have known some brilliant carers in my time and I still do both from overseas and in the UK but it's not safe
Starting point is 00:13:14 to allow just anybody to come into the profession and people are not paid enough to go into people's homes where they're caring for vulnerable people. We have to improve the quality or ensure the quality of care. Lots of care is really high quality at the moment but to ensure it's high quality care we have to recognise that there needs to be some kind of training, formal training, formal qualifications, doesn't have to be a degree but it needs to be some structure through care that ensures that quality of care is throughout the entire system. Lots of messages coming in on the subject of carers.
Starting point is 00:13:52 My mother-in-law has carers come to her every day and on the whole, they're lovely. My only issue is that they're all from overseas. And because of this, their accents can be quite strong. My mother-in-law's dementia really struggles to understand them. This causes a lot of confusion for her. That's Penny from Devon getting in touch 84844. But what is your take, Catherine, on today's announcement by the Prime Minister and also echoed by Yvette Cooper yesterday?
Starting point is 00:14:16 Yeah, I have mixed feelings. I work with carers from outside the UK and they have been brilliant in most respects. Occasionally I've worked with those that have not been so good and I would echo your previous caller's observation that communication is paramount in care, you have to communicate well and with elderly people or with those with dementia or those who are outside the capitals, to be presented with somebody whose accent they don't quite understand, whose culture is unfamiliar to them can be difficult. Overall, I'm afraid that if we continue, certainly the care system would have collapsed without them, they've done a
Starting point is 00:14:58 fantastic job, but if we focus only on bringing care workers in from overseas, I worry that we're not promoting care as in from overseas, I worry that we're not promoting care as a profession in this country and that we are kind of permitting the idea that care is not for us to do, it's not a good profession. So I think we should concentrate on that very much. Catherine, thank you very much. That is Catherine Falk who wrote a memoir on working in the care sector all through the pandemic called Every Kind of People, A Journey into the Heart of care work and before Catherine
Starting point is 00:15:28 Wade Gavin Edwards, Head of Social Care at Unison, thanks to both of them. Your message is coming in, I think the way ahead with carers is to take the training to a single national standard as in nursing training with a route to professional advancement that Sue in Plymouth in a way similar to what Catherine was calling for which is a total rebrand of the career. Now you'll remember that on the 16th of April Supreme Court judges in a case brought by the group for Women Scotland ruled the terms woman and sex in the 2010 Equality Act refer to a biological woman and biological sex. Previously the prevailing interpretation had been that a woman for the purposes of the Act was either a biological woman or a trans woman
Starting point is 00:16:11 who is biologically male, yet has a GRC that is a gender recognition certificate. This week we'll be hearing different perspectives on that ruling and taking a much deeper look at how it could and should be interpreted on the ground. The Equality and Human Rights Commission has issued interim guidance that was on the 26th of April that in places open to the public trans women, those people with GRCs and those without, should not use women's facilities such as toilets or changing rooms. We'll look at the practical dilemmas this ruling creates for organizations, businesses, and individuals. Later this week, I'll be speaking to Sex Matters,
Starting point is 00:16:50 one of the organizations who argued for this clarification in the law. But today, let's hear from a barrister who specializes in taking discrimination cases and who is also a trans woman and activist. That is Robin Moir-White who transitioned in 2011 and is co-author of A Practical Guide to Transgender Law. Good morning. Good morning. Welcome to the program. So what are your
Starting point is 00:17:13 reflections almost four weeks on from that Supreme Court ruling? Okay well I don't think the ruling will survive a trip to the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg. There was a case called Goodwin back in 2002 and we didn't have the Gender Recognition Act out of the goodwill of some government. We had it because the European Court, under the convention that we wrote and we signed up to in 1951, told the UK that it had to have an effective method of acknowledging someone's change of gender and whether or not I think it's a particularly poor judgment by the Supreme Court whether it's right or wrong what we have is a situation now where that recognition is not effective and
Starting point is 00:18:00 will need to be corrected. But on what grounds would the European Court of Human Rights potentially overrule the judgement? Well, if you are a trans person, that acknowledgement of your changed gender has to allow you to live appropriately and with dignity. And if you go to the cinema or the supermarket and you are forced to use facilities that are not appropriate to your gender, then firstly your rights to privacy are compromised and your right to live in dignity are compromised. I this week was talking about the circumstance of a trans woman who
Starting point is 00:18:40 for 20 years has worked in a financial institution is not known to be trans other than to her employers and the employers are trying to decide whether they have to tell her to go and use the mail facilities. But could this not be a bedding down period in the sense of when organizations, businesses, workplaces begin to have also adjustments for those that are trans because with the Supreme Court ruling it talked about for people not to be discriminated against. Indeed it did and there's been a somewhat unholy rush to exclude trans people from facilities to take the Supreme Court's judgment to mean rather more than it does and And the Equality and Human
Starting point is 00:19:25 Rights Commission's interim statement has been widely criticised by discrimination lawyers for being part of that unholy rush. Why do you call it an unholy rush? What are you talking about? Well, for example, access to spaces in workplaces is not determined by the Equality Act, it's determined by other legislation than that which the Supreme Court was looking at. And that a careful look needs to be taken at how people are to be accommodated with dignity in their working life and their daily life. Which they may take steps to do in a way that they believe achieves
Starting point is 00:20:07 that goal. And I think it's put employers... But I'm saying still following the Supreme Court ruling. Well, perhaps not. Many employers or service providers have put out statements already that says we won't be excluding trans people from gender appropriate facilities because we don't think that's the right thing to do and if we've put ourselves in a position where business and service providers don't think that a ruling of our Supreme Court reflects justice and right and the dignity of people. Maybe that's why we signed up to a convention on that as long ago as 1951. But do you not think in an instance like that, for example, some of the examples you give
Starting point is 00:20:56 there, that any person within that organisation has the right now to lodge a complaint with the EHRC and that with the Equality and Human Rights Commission that implements these laws that took a look at the Equality Act 2010 in particular and gave that guidance you know an individual within those organisations now has the right to lodge a complaint if they disagree with that. Well they can lodge a complaint, what they've got to come up with is a disadvantage. Which many people have as we've seen in the run up to this particular case. Yeah, yeah and it frankly puts employers and service providers in a nigh impossible position because equally the trans person who is forced into facilities that
Starting point is 00:21:45 they would say are not appropriate for them or is forced to tell their work colleagues that they can't go and use the same facilities as them as they've been doing for many years is equally put into an impossible position. The Equality and Human Rights Commission have a duty to uphold the convention rights of the individuals as well as the Equality Act rights and so you could what this ruling has taken us into is a situation where I think you're likely to get complaints from either side of the debate. With that in relation Victoria McLeod is a former High Court judge who is trans told the BBC she will go to the European Court of
Starting point is 00:22:25 Human Rights in Strasbourg to seek a declaration that the actions of the UK government and the Supreme Court violate her fundamental human rights which I think is echoing a little of what you're saying there Robin and also of course we should say that the government has accepted this ruling saying it brings clarity and confidence and continue to say the very last thing it does is bring clarity and confidence it has brought muddle and doubt I think that is one perspective and we're hearing of a variety of them this week but there are others that would agree with that characterization
Starting point is 00:23:00 of clarity and confidence the Justice Secretary Shabina Mahmood she said I think they've done their job, talking about Supreme Court, I think they've sought to do it in a way that recognizes that we're talking about a balance of rights but sought to give confidence to a minority community that they still have protections. Why do you
Starting point is 00:23:15 not believe that? Well, at the end of the judgment there's a long homily from the judges about trans people still have rights. And that it shouldn't be considered a victory by either side. Well, indeed. And I've heard words like vindication used by people on the gender critical side of the debate.
Starting point is 00:23:35 The problem is that it's all very well having fundamental human rights. But if in your workplace you're forced to go, you very specifically rejected your birth gender and now you're forced into facilities that reflect that, that is devastating for someone who has made those choices, made that difficult journey and their rights are not being respected. Why is it devastating? Well, the definition, gender dysphoria,
Starting point is 00:24:07 is complete unhappiness with your birth, sex, or gender. And people go through, as I'm sure is well known, considerable and difficult stages, which can involve the loss of family and friends, the loss of employment, having to seek new employment in different ways, having to seek medical intervention and surgery and go through all that. And many of those people, in fact the vast majority of those people have lived perfectly successfully for many years in their affirmed gender. And to
Starting point is 00:24:43 be now told that you have to out yourself to work colleagues and use facilities that you've specifically rejected is devastating. I mean there are people who would say it is devastating to have to share facilities, same-sex facilities, with a biological man. Well indeed and there are solutions, there are solutions to that problem. So that there are, I mean, one of
Starting point is 00:25:08 the things, one of the areas that I practice in particular is religious discrimination. And some people from certain religions are very keen on the sex differences and maintaining the sex differences. And the way that you accommodate those needs are by providing additional privacy for those people who need additional privacy, not forcing particular groups into that additional privacy. So if there were accommodations for additional privacy for trans people, would that resolve the issue for you?
Starting point is 00:25:43 No, that's exactly the problem, you see. Additional privacy for trans people, would that resolve the issue for you? No, that's exactly the problem, you see, additional privacy for trans people. So you force the trans people into the additional privacy. If you say there are private facilities and if you are disaffected by the idea that in your normal group there might be a trans person, then you can use the additional private facilities and know that you're not going to encounter anyone else. But we do know with this ruling the terms woman and sex in the 2010 Equality Act refer to,
Starting point is 00:26:11 they say, a biological woman and biological sex. You will have also seen some... Does that mean, for example, that my, I mean, I have a barrister friend with relatively young children, so can she now not take her young male children into the female facilities when she's at the cinema or the beach or the supermarket? You know, what is, and if she can, why can, why are they allowed to be accommodated and not a trans person who transitioned 20 years ago? And maybe it's boy, man, I don't have the answer on that one. But I am, I do want to know from you,
Starting point is 00:26:50 that's probably with their child under a certain age, but I don't have the specifics for you right now. The Act is very clear. The Act says that boy and girl include, man and woman include boy and girl. That's what the Equality Act says. When it comes to some people now describing you as a man, how do you react to that? Those who do it are being deliberately offensive generally when they do. Why do you say that's their motivation? They could say that they're identifying people by biological sex. They could. People can say all sorts of things. There are unpleasant ways to
Starting point is 00:27:28 refer to all sorts of people. I never choose to use unpleasant ways to refer to other people. The choice of referring to someone in an unpleasant way is a choice. They might say that having to be pleasant is not reason enough to use a term which they feel is biologically inaccurate. Well, imagine I'm in a queue in a shop and I'm an out trans person, so people have seen me on the TV, have heard me here on the radio. And if the shop assistant happens to know who I am, and asks perhaps another shop assistant to come and open another till, and shouts across the shop, would you start with the man fifth down the queue, would that be appropriate? That's just plain unpleasantness. Now if we're
Starting point is 00:28:27 dealing with a court case where the gender identity of someone is relevant that's a different matter. If we're dealing with how we behave to people in society you know there are appropriate ways to refer to people and inappropriate ways. Let me turn to the case again. According to the Equality and Human Rights Commission, the EHRC, no trans organizations applied to be part of the case. Two trans individuals, Vicky McLeod, the judge that you've mentioned already, and Stephen Whittle, Professor Stephen Whittle, applied to intervene and they are eminent squeezes from the trans
Starting point is 00:29:07 world. They were both involved in the drafting of the 2004 Act. There is no bar on individuals. It's relatively unusual that individuals intervene, more often organisations, but there is no bar on individuals intervening and those individuals to this day don't know why they were not permitted to intervene. But the Supreme Court as you mentioned it considers legal arguments not lived experiences as according to Accio Reindorf, one of the commissioners said that thus an individual is never likely to get permission. How do you understand though no organisation instead of an individual applying to intervene?
Starting point is 00:29:51 I mean just to let our listeners know the list of interveners of organisations they did hear from with Sex Matters, also Scottish Lesbians, the Lesbian Project and LGB Alliance, the Equality and Human Rights Commission, and Amnesty International. Amnesty put some very strong transpositive points which were not followed by the Superior Court and I think are likely to form some of the discussion when this matter gets to the European Court. You're convinced it will? Oh undoubtedly.
Starting point is 00:30:20 I know of a number of applications which are in preparation at the moment. Vicky McLeod has already said she's taking her position to the European Court of Human Rights. The first time a trans person is forced into inappropriate facilities in the NHS for example, there's likely to be injunction applications. And the new guidance which the Equality and Human Rights Commission are going to produce before the summer is susceptible to judicial review
Starting point is 00:30:53 and on judicial review the European Convention rights become relevant. Until then will you abide by the ruling? I will continue to live my life in the way that I've been living it for a long time. So that sounds like a no to me. Service providers and those who provide workplaces don't have a duty to police facilities and I've never yet been challenged on my use of facilities. You previously called Sex Matters, Kimmy Badenock and Baroness Faulkner, who heads up the EHRC, evil on this topic. I mean, we've just spoken about unpleasant language. Do you still stand by that word?
Starting point is 00:31:32 Yeah, it was a strong word used at the time relative to a particular action. But I, my family were involved in the Battle of Cable Street in the 1930s and I'm afraid to say excluding vulnerable minorities is a pretty unattractive position for any organization to adopt. But many would say using language like that just inflames the rhetoric and could also be considered hateful speech. I agree I perhaps might not have with a bit more thought might have used that word on that occasion, but I used it on that occasion and I stand by it. So you do stand by it. Thank you for coming in, Barister, trans woman and author of A Practical Guide to Transgender Law, Robin Moir White. More on
Starting point is 00:32:19 this topic as I mentioned, including on Wednesday when we'll speak to Sex Matters, one of the organizations that were heard in the Supreme Court case. And next week, Baroness Kishwer Faulkner of the Equality and Human Rights Commission will be here to explain how the Commission is consulting on changes to its guidance. If you want to get in touch, 8484. The Dear Daughter podcast received some fantastic letters from our listeners recently. I just had a lot of emotion and I had to put it somewhere. Together we're creating a handbook to life for our children. Feelings that you don't know how to express verbally, write it down.
Starting point is 00:32:58 Enjoy the life you have. No one can tell you what tomorrow will bring. Dear Daughter from the BBC World Service. listen now wherever you get your BBC podcasts. Now, let me turn to Sister Rosetta Tharp, a woman we should all know about as she was the godmother of rock and roll. She influenced countless musicians. Chuck Berry was quoted as saying, my whole career has been one long Sister Rosetta Tharp impersonation. A new play, Marie and Rosetta,
Starting point is 00:33:32 has just opened at the Rose Theatre in London, portraying Rosetta and her singing partner, Marie Knight. Described as one of the most remarkable and revolutionary duos in music history, the play aims to bring these forgotten musical heroines back into the spotlight. Olivier Award-winning performer, Beverly Knight,
Starting point is 00:33:48 plays Sister Rosetta, and joins me now in the studio. Good morning. Good morning. Great to have you with us. Love it to be. Can we start by talking about your performance? What are the words? Mesmerizing, perhaps.
Starting point is 00:34:01 Oh, thank you. Goosebumps all the way. When you come down into the audience with your tambourine it is thrilling. Tell us a little bit about Sister Rosetta Thorpe. I didn't know anything about her before I began reading into her with this particular play. Well Sister Rosetta Thorpe was a force of nature. I mean she was a complete child prodigy, she was playing guitar at the age of six, it was her and her mum, Katie Nubin Bell, and her mum would go out and preach around the southern United States and then in
Starting point is 00:34:42 Chicago and little Rosetta would accompany her playing guitar and roaring in the crowds and she was such a remarkable player. The way she would pick the guitar was what made us stand out from everybody else. She'd pick in such quick succession where she wasn't singing, she'd be picking in quick succession. That in time became known as, as we all know it, the guitar solo, paving the way for, you know, the rock gods with their, you know, soaring guitar solos that we all know and love today. She made gospel music. So, music was almost completely of a religious nature, but she got into huge trouble with her church, Church of God in Christ, which is a big kind of evangelical
Starting point is 00:35:38 African-American founded church, for making secular records, which she did. She went out and sang in the Cotton Club. She brought her brand of Christianity to the nightclubs which was an absolute no-no at the time. You're talking about the 1930s, 40s, 50s. But she got to sing with Cab Calloway and Duke Ellington and the huge people of the time. But it was Marie Knight and her partnership with Marie Knight that got her back in with the churches because Marie Knight was very much a proficient singer and player and their combination, their duets,
Starting point is 00:36:21 which were entirely of a religious nature, just set the world on fire really it's been lost to history. Like you did with Ndombi Zotwa and Ndiluvu who is Marie Knight. Oh my goodness I mean what a pairing just an amazing thing to watch. How much fun was it to have somebody to bounce off in that way? Oh, superb. Ndombi Zodwa is just a fantastically talented young actor and singer and just to be able to sing duets with someone and just have so much fun with it was brilliant. Putting together the show was everything. But it's something I felt so different. You've got these two women on stage, it's a two-hander, the intensity of it physically, as well as this story that set in such a sad time of, you know, deep sad segregation and maybe performing in places that black people weren't able to attend.
Starting point is 00:37:26 Absolutely. We find ourselves, for the duration of the show, in 1946. And the first scene you see is Marie and Rosetta in a funeral home rehearsing. Check me a second. I was like, that's a coffin like that. That's correct. Yeah. It's a funeral home in Mississippi because as Rosetta says, we can't stay in no hotel now here. Black people couldn't stay at access places to lay down their heads, which is why Rosetta Tharp had a tour bus. So the origins of having a tour bus as a status symbol were actually born out of complete and utter necessity
Starting point is 00:38:12 because people couldn't stay in hotels. It was such a terrible and difficult time. Jim Crowe was very, very much adhered to in the Southern United States, which meant as black women and as musicians, they were in precarious positions up and down, you know, the different states. They had a white bus driver as a shield, really, as safety, to get them food, you know, the basic necessities that they would need. But it speaks to the bravery of both women and their tenacity and their resilience to get the music to the masses however they could and doing what they saw as God's work.
Starting point is 00:39:03 What about the relationship between the two of them? So I'm glad you asked. We are almost certain that Sister Rosetta was bisexual. Her relationships with men, she had three husbands. Squirrels. The squirrels. She had three squirrels. But she also had relationships with other women and most people agree that one of the most loving and affectionate and close of those relationships was with Marie Knight
Starting point is 00:39:41 although in the books Shout Sister Shout by Gail Ward, which we used to do a lot of research, Marie Knight denied absolutely that there was such a relationship, but understandable because the fundamentalism and the evangelical nature of both of their religions would have meant that that would have been a no-no, especially at that time. But the evidence was that a lot of the big kind of gospel blues singers, as Sister Rosetta Thorpe was, endured relationships with both men and women. And it was completely commonplace. It was just not out in the open and definitely not approved by the church, of which it was a huge part of their lives.
Starting point is 00:40:38 I mentioned squirrels. Do you want to tell our audience why they were called that? Squirrels. Because to tell our audience why they were called us. Squirrels. Because Sister Rosetta in our play refers to the men in her life as squirreling away her money for a rainy day, which is based absolutely in fact. She came up against men who saw the fame, saw the glitz, saw the glamour and certainly saw the money. She could demand a really good fee for what she did because she was so unique, her skill set was so unique, female guitarist with an incredible voice and she was just basically a bank account especially for squirrel number
Starting point is 00:41:26 three who outlived her. She died you know in her late 50s. But in the play as well I did come across just researching that there is a tombstone that that now says about who she is. When she died it was an unmarked grave. It was an unmarked grave for Sister Rosetta. A woman who, and to give her her due and you beautifully surmised it in your intro, a woman who was part of the Mount Rushmore of creating this thing that became rock and roll. Elvis, Chuck Berry, Little Richard. That's right and they all came after her. Little Richard opened for Sister Rosetta Thorpe. The duck walk that everybody talks about with Chuck Berry, he saw Sister Rosetta do it first. He just got down a bit lower than she did and Elvis had loved her. And I know you've been influenced by Aretha Franklin. Yeah. But Aretha was influenced by Sister Rosetta Thorpe. There you go. And now we come back full circle that you're playing Sister Rosetta Thorpe.
Starting point is 00:42:30 It's a remarkable thing. This woman whose name has been unfairly suppressed when we talk about the history of rock and roll and where it's come from and how it's been built and the architects. the history of rock and roll and where it's come from and how it's been built and the architects. This woman influenced directly and indirectly just about everybody that you've heard of in modern music. You can trace it all back and you know there is a direct correlation between what Sister Rosetta Tharp was doing and women like Tina Turner and certainly Aretha Franklin and her father James Cleveland you know who would have who would have revered Sister Rosetta and played those records to a young Aretha coming up and in turn Aretha has influenced me greatly. What's it like performing her? What's it like with the
Starting point is 00:43:21 audience? I know I was totally smitten, but as I've said, but how's it been? Because I can't think I came the very first night. Yes, it's been incredible. People been clapping along, cheering and deadly silent in the poignant moments of which there are quite a few. It's been a wonderful, wonderful privilege and an honour to play this iconic woman. One line I read about you, Beverly, is that your biggest achievement of your career is that you're still here. Yeah. And I thought that might be kind of interesting to explore a little bit, particularly with the backdrop of Sister Rosetta Tharp, who stayed there through thick and thin when she was in the flavour of the month and when she wasn't. That's right. It's funny, I keep finding correlation between my own life and career
Starting point is 00:44:19 and that of Sister Rosetta. The whole kind of going into the valley of not being the, as you quite rightly say, the flavor of the month or the current thing. And then coming back out the other end, which Sister Rosetta Thorpe did when she went to England. Yes, England adopted her, so to speak. Absolutely, because all the young people were like, who is this incredible blues woman that the Beatles and the Stones and the animals are copying? You know, oh my God, she's the real deal type thing. And I found now, I've, in this part of my career, after 30 plus years, people are looking
Starting point is 00:45:03 to me going, oh, Auntie Bev, yes, go on, Auntie Bev, go on, you know, Queen Bev and all of this, which is so flattering. But it's just, it's wonderful to have a career where I'm still able to be of service to people with my voice and hopefully with joy and to be a figure that people are influenced by and hopefully an aspirational figure. Most definitely. Beverly Knight, thank you so much. Marie Ann Rosetta is on at the Rose Theatre in London until the 22nd of May. Then on tour to Wolverhampton, you're going to get some reception there. That's right. And at the Chichester Theatre, a festival theatre from the 25th of June to the 26th of July, Beverly, because that's not enough, will be performing on BBC2 and BBCI
Starting point is 00:45:52 players later with Jules Holland that Sunday the 25th of May at 10 p.m. I will be listening. Oh thank you. Now thanks for all your messages coming in on carers. Let me read some of them. Dear Wom's are, how can we have a conversation about carers and not mention the patriarchy carers are labeled low skilled because care work is undervalued in a patriarchal society that exploits women's caring nature to prop up broken social systems. Where are all the men in care work outside of well paid managerial positions? That's Alice in London.
Starting point is 00:46:22 Next one, I worked in domiciliary care for five years, but couldn't stand it any longer, so I've turned to private care work. The colossal stress you're under to get everything done within the dreadfully unrealistic time frame you are given. For example, I would regularly have to get a physically unstable elderly person out of bed, assist to wash and dress them, give their meds, wash the dishes, change the bed linen, empty the bins,
Starting point is 00:46:42 get breakfast and empty the commode all in 30 minutes, then get to the next client with no travel time allowance. Calls were routed back to back so you could actually only have about 20 minutes to carry out all those tasks and get to the next call on time. 84844 if you'd like to get in touch. Now it is thought that around 3 to 4% of people in the UK, so about 1 in 20, have ADHD, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. However many women still remain undiagnosed for decades only discovering in their 40s, 50s and 60s that they have it. Following the success of the award-winning BBC2 series Inside Our Autistic Minds which explored the experiences of neuro
Starting point is 00:47:24 divergent people, a new documentary starts tonight with Chris Packham hearing the stories of people with ADHD. One of those taking part is Jo Beasley. She was diagnosed with ADHD just two years ago at the age of 49 after her symptoms worsened during the menopause. Welcome Jo to our studio. Thank you very much, it's a pleasure. We also have Amanda Kirby, who's the former chair of the ADHD Foundation and a professor in the field of neurodiversity also joining me down the line. Good morning Amanda. Good morning to you. So Jo, you and your undiagnosed ADHD, what was the effect on your life before the menopause and before you got a diagnosis
Starting point is 00:48:07 So before the menopause when I reflect back the undiagnosed ADHD on Reflection had an impact on me from when I was quite small from when I was at school Through my teenage years through various careers, etc on On reflection I can see the struggle with time, tasks, sitting still. Girls were expected, late 70s, early 80s, to sit very still at school and concentrate and get things in on time. I struggled quite a bit with that. And then it was when the menopause hit, things started to really become even more apparent. And it was quite a struggle at that time.
Starting point is 00:48:49 So what was it as you had perimenopause, menopause, wash, weeded, manifest? I remember one significant moment when my wife, Ali, came home from work and I was sitting on the dining room table with my laptop. And I just sat there in tears and said, I think I'm going to have to give up my job. I don't think I can do this anymore because the requirement to do things on time, the tasks, et cetera, that I was doing, you throw in menopausal symptoms as well that I've since learned they don't run nicely next to each other at all so I think I had exacerbated symptoms of both going on at one time
Starting point is 00:49:31 and it was just really it was too much and I thought I wasn't I just wasn't coping at all. And at that point though you went to speak to somebody and got a diagnosis? What happened then was my wife Ali was working with somebody who had recently been diagnosed, my eldest daughter Katie was at uni with somebody who was diagnosed with ADHD and they both kind of around the same time came to me said I think we should look at this and my manager at a time was previously a special educational needs teacher I mentioned it to her and she said yes I think maybe you should look at that and then there was then the whole journey
Starting point is 00:50:09 really began after that. And I want to come back to how it meant to get that diagnosis but I do want to bring Amanda in here. What is it about perimenopause or menopause that might exacerbate the symptoms of ADHD? Well I think one of the big things is you've got estrogen going up and down and all over the place and estrogen can interact with dopamine and serotonin and so you might have had those symptoms but the depletion of estrogen really exacerbates it and as Jo says rightly you've got a combination of the two so quite difficult sometimes to recognise which is menopausal symptoms, perimenopausal symptoms, and on top of this
Starting point is 00:50:45 which are the ADHD symptoms which are being unmasked and you're seeing the combination of the two having worse outcomes. We didn't think about it though, we weren't thinking about women 10-15 years ago, so these are new conversations which is remarkable really. Yes it is because we often hear about girls when we talk about autism and masking very well but talking about women menopause post-menopausal women getting this diagnosis do we know what percentage of women have ADHD we're talking about in the population as a whole about three to four percent in the UK. Well I think we don't exactly because what we were doing with most of the research done 15 20 years ago was done on boys, on men. And so you look at the research studies, they were predominantly boys and so we're looking for boys
Starting point is 00:51:29 and men symptoms. We're seeing in other conditions like autism as well, it's likely to be the gender difference are not so great as we always thought. We always thought it was two, three to one, males to females. We're thinking it's probably much less than that and maybe a little bit more males but nothing like the low levels of lack of diagnosis that we actually saw. Do you believe there's a higher awareness now among medical practitioners? Well we've got a way to go I think you know I think we've got GPs and psychiatrists, clinicians as well, you know you've got gynaecologists who are seeing women
Starting point is 00:52:05 with menopause need to think about ADHD alongside perimenopausal symptoms. So I think we've still got a way to go. You know, I was quite struck, Jo, in the documentary about the grief you were feeling post diagnosis. Yes, you had a reason for some of the ways you were feeling or had behaved, but grief and anger for all those years that were lost perhaps
Starting point is 00:52:26 is one way of describing it. I was actually sitting in this studio making part of that film and Candace the director who was amazing and worked alongside her a lot she said bringing some pictures of you as a child and let's talk about how you felt. So that's when I was really struck by the memories of, you know, at school, sit still, stop chattering, you know, be quiet, you're a bit too much. And it's really that, I mean, I've had, my life is great, you know, I have a wonderful life,
Starting point is 00:53:00 but I did sit and look back and think, well, if I'd have perhaps got that support earlier on Would it have been less than a struggle could I have had a different career could I've achieved more you set your film to dance music This is part of what's in the documentary. I just want to play a little burst of it actually You're recording it in this studio. I thought it's very moving when I looked at it And now you're back here with us speaking about it. Let's play it. My dad used to call me a butterfly. 13 or 14 careers got bored want to try something else You forget people's birthdays
Starting point is 00:53:41 Double book let somebody down That panic and that guilt and that worry. Bad friend, bad daughter, bad mother. I mean, you sum it up in 30 seconds, you love dance music, hence that beat that's there behind. Your dad used to describe you like a butterfly. But bad mother, bad daughter, bad friend, which I know when your friends and your wife and your daughter saw it, of course they wanted to reassure you that you're none of that. But the low self-esteem. If you think of, if somebody forgets something, it's just that one thing that they've
Starting point is 00:54:28 forgotten. If I forget to text a friend back a birthday, forget something, I'm not dealing with that one time I've forgotten something. I'm dealing with decades of feeling bad that I have been a bad friend or I've been a bad mum if I've forgotten the birthday party etc. It's like it starts off with something in your pocket it's then this little rucksack on your back and then it becomes this huge piece of luggage that you carry all the time so then the next time you do something that to somebody else might seem quite small it's not just that one time that I'm carrying it I've carried it for decades.
Starting point is 00:55:06 The response to all of that has been wonderful when people have said, you're never too much for me. In fact, I haven't had enough of you. I've gone goosebumps because that was beautiful to hear. But it's still, it's decades of feeling that you are too much for people and you're bad at so many things because life is around. You have to do things on time, be organized, etc. And when you can't do that, it's tricky. In my last 10 seconds or so, do you think it should be renamed Amanda ADHD? Yes, I think we need to remarket it. Absolutely. New press campaign. It's not a deficit and it's not a disorder. We keep hearing about rebranding this morning from carers to ADHD. Thank you, Jo Beasley, and thank you, Professor Amanda Kirby.
Starting point is 00:55:52 Inside Our ADHD Minds is on today, BBC Two at 9pm or on the BBC iPlayer. Thanks so much for joining me. Tomorrow I'll speak to the US director, Nadia Connors, about her new film, The Uninvited. That's all for today's Woman's Hour. Join us again next time. Hello, I'm Manishka Matandodawati, the presenter of Diddy on Trial from BBC Sounds. Sean Diddy Combs is facing a fight for his freedom as his hugely anticipated trial starts for sex trafficking, racketeering with conspiracy and transportation for prostitution. He denies all the charges. I'll be bringing
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