Woman's Hour - Lyra McKee's book 'Angels With Blue Faces'
Episode Date: August 2, 2019It’s been nearly four months since the young journalist and writer, Lyra McKee, was shot in Londonderry; she had been watching rioting in the Creggan area of the city. She had just written a book ca...lled 'Angels With Blue Faces' and a week before she died, had approved the cover for it. Lyra didn’t get to see it published, but this afternoon it will officially be launched in The Linen Hall Library in Belfast, where she did most of her research. Her sister Nichola speaks to us from Belfast. A new survey of older women readers by Gransnet (with publisher HarperCollins) has revealed how they really feel about their portrayal in fiction. Just over half of women over 40 say their age group is portrayed in clichéd roles, and 47 per cent say there’s not enough books about middle-aged or older women. Yet women over 45 buy more fiction than any others, and 84 per cent say they read every day, or almost every day. So how are older women portrayed in fiction? Are we only reading about very stereotypical characters? Are older women being offered the books and characters they really want to read? Jenni is joined by Cari Rosen - the editor of Gransnet, who also runs their bookclub – and by Caroline Lodge who writes a blog about older women in fiction.Yesterday we heard from Judith, a survivor of domestic abuse in a small community in the Highlands. Scottish Women's Aid has launched a pilot scheme called ASK ME to help women like her. The scheme in Scotland builds on the success of Women’s Aid pilots and projects in England and Wales. Kathleen Garragher joined trainers Catherine Russell and Cathie Way out on the road in the Scottish Highlands. They do sessions with members of the community who train as ambassadors listening to women and signposting them to sources of support and information. We also hear from a survivor of domestic abuse we are calling Kelly. Did you know that the first woman governor of a prison in Britain lived within its walls and took her 12 children on her rounds? Her name was Emma Martin and she ran Brixton Prison in South London, in the 1800s. As it celebrates its 200th anniversary we look back at its beginnings as the first British prison just for women and its life now as a resettlement prison for male offenders. We hear from Chris Impey, author of a history of HMP Brixton and to the current Deputy Governor Louise Ysart.Presenter: Jenni Murray Producer: Kirsty StarkeyInterviewed Guest: Nichola Corner Interviewed Guest: Cari Rosen Interviewed Guest: Caroline Lodge Interviewed Guest: Catherine Russell Interviewed Guest: Cathie Way Reporter: Kathleen Carragher Interviewed Guest: Louise Ysart Interviewed Guest: Chris Impey
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Hello, Jenny Murray welcoming you to the Woman's Hour podcast on Friday 2nd August.
200 years ago, a prison was opened in Brixton in South London.
It was the first to house only women and Emma Barton was its governor.
How does it fare today as a resettlement jail for male offenders with a female deputy governor?
In the second of our reports on domestic abuse in rural areas,
we assess the progress of the scheme run by Scottish Women's Aid called Ask Me.
And what do older women like to read?
Women over 40 are the biggest buyers of fiction,
but can't find enough stories in which
their age group is portrayed accurately. What do they want? Nearly four months ago a young
journalist and writer Lyra McKee was shot dead in Londonderry. She had been observing writing
in the Cregan area of the city. She'd just completed a book called Angels with Blue Faces,
in which she'd investigated the murders in 1981 of an MP, Robert Bradford, and a young man called
Ken Campbell. She also looked into rumours of the abuse of boys at her home called Kinkora.
She didn't see her work published, but today it will be launched officially in Belfast at the Linen Hall Library where she carried out most of her research.
Her sister Nicola Corner joined us from Belfast.
What would have been Lear's reaction to the book being published?
Well today she would have been extremely excited.
She would have been running about, checking everything, double checking
everything. She would have been worried about things that didn't need to be worried about.
What sort of things would she have been worried about that she didn't need to be worried about?
Well, she'd have been worried about what other people would have thought of her work. She
would have been very concerned about that, you know, and she would have been very concerned about that you know and she would have been
worried about um what would happen on social media sites such as twitter afterwards when her book
came out because she was very very self-conscious and about her work so she would have been worried
about things like that she'd also been worried about my mum and my mum maybe sitting in the room next
to the launch while she was doing promotional work and even though she would know that all of
our family would be sitting with mum she'd have still been sending messages and phoning mum to
make sure that she was all right because she was such a very diligent and caring daughter and she'd have just been
worried about everything really. She was just a wee worrywart. You've written the foreword and
you say she was haunted by the murders of Robert Bradford and Ken Campbell for years. Why was she haunted by them? Because she really could not believe
that human beings could be so barbaric
and she couldn't believe that there was so much,
I suppose you could call it,
collusion with regard to these gentlemen's murders.
She couldn't believe that the state and the authorities
that were supposed to protect these people failed to do so,
and she felt that these men were failed by lots of different people
and that their voice deserved to be heard
and that their story deserved more attention.
Why the title, Angels with Blue Faces?
She chose that title because one of the people that she interviewed
as part of the investigation into the book
was a young person who was at one time in Kinkora Boys' home taken to a hotel to be used as a prostitute for other men.
And the boy remembered that in the hotel there were statues of angels
and he remembered them as having blue faces.
So that was why she chose to have that title. How long, Nicola, did it take her
to put all this evidence together that it's so complicated, the stories are so complicated,
the sources are so difficult for her to find? Absolutely. It took her quite a long time to get it all together because every time she uncovered
one source that led to maybe three or four different sources and then she had to speak
to each one and try and collate the information to bring it all together, to create the puzzle that she was building
about the truth behind these murders.
So, yes, it's an extremely complicated story.
And so she would have spent years and years and years
actually finding people, investigating people.
She spent 18 months looking for one source alone, you know.
So she was really, really dedicated to the story and
determined to uncover as much of it as she could with the sources that she was able to identify
work with make contact with and a lot of those sources were able to open up further sources to her as well.
You mentioned what you describe as stark ironies in the story which link with her murder and its aftermath.
You've written that in your foreword.
What are they?
Well, I don't want to give everything away
or people might not want to buy her book
but it begins and it ends in St Anne's Cathedral.
I mean, Ken Campbell was 29, Lear was 29.
Ken Campbell was killed with a single gunshot wound to the head.
So was she.
You know, she was standing, feeling quite safe, I expect, beside a police Land Rover,
where Ken Campbell was standing beside a police officer whose job it was to protect the Reverend Bradford.
You know, the IRA claimed responsibility for those gentlemen's murder,
and the new IRA has claimed responsibility for her murder.
You know, it's almost like she has become this story in a way
that she put so much time and energy into researching and writing.
Now, in her acknowledgements in the book, she writes this,
My big sister, Nicola McKee Corner, has been a constant sounding board.
Of the two of us, she is the brains.
What did it mean to you to read what she'd written?
Well, I was blown away.
I was very emotional by it because I would have thought out of the two of us she was
the brains so I thought it was funny that she thought that I was the brains you know but
absolutely true that I was her constant sounding board but to see that dedication in her book
to me was a great testament to our relationship, not just as sisters, but also, you know, as confidants
and I suppose me as her guide in many ways.
Because you're quite a bit older than Lira.
Yes, I'm 15 years older than her.
Now, we all know you from when you spoke at Vera's funeral
and received a standing ovation.
What do you remember of that afternoon?
Well, I remember that I had to put a lot of my attention
into not fainting before I even went to speak.
And, you know, I was having a little conversation in my head with Lyra
as I was focusing on my breathing, saying to her,
because I thought I was going to just keel over and die,
to tell you the truth.
And I was saying to her,
Oh, Lyra, please don't let me die here
because it will take attention away from you and this is your day.
All these people are here to see you, not to see me dying in the front row.
You know, and I was having those conversations with her
and focusing on my breathing to try and keep myself from fainting,
if the truth be told and after I did speak I could have just collapsed
on the floor instead of collapsed beside my mummy you know it was very very very difficult
waiting to do it and then doing it and being part of that whole situation because it's still
very unbelievable that she's not going to be here because she was such a big part of my everyday life and I'm just really honoured as well that
her funeral tribute
was so beautiful
and everyone made it
powerfully beautiful
and you know
and that so many people came from
so many places to pay her
tribute because
it's a great expression
of who she was as a person
but also an expression of the loving and caring and inclusive soul that she was.
How, though, is your family coping with being really in the spotlight,
in the midst of your grief?
Well, you see, that's why they've given me the role of the representative
so that not everyone would be in the same position in the spotlight
because we are a very, very, very private family.
You know, we keep everything very close within our our family circle and
and we wouldn't be used to um any kind of public attention or or public interest or or anything
like that we're just quiet ordinary people who who go about our lives in very quiet and ordinary ways, you know, and I suppose, in a sense,
I've been trying to protect them all, in a way,
in the same way I would have done for Lyra as well, protect them.
How is your mother, Nicola?
She's not great, if the truth be told.
She's not great at all.
She's struggling greatly to come to terms with her loss.
She is absolutely devastated.
And, you know, we all cry together, hanging over each other.
We're all soaking with tears you know on a daily basis there isn't a day
goes by that we can't uh believe what has happened and can't believe that she's not coming back and
and just can't believe she's no longer with us because we just all loved her so, so, so much. And my poor mummy is devastated.
She's beside herself because that was her baby.
Lear was her baby.
And they were so close.
You have no idea how close they were.
I mean, my mummy would be sleeping in her bed
and Lear would be going in at night to check
and make sure mummy was OK
and to make sure mummy was still breathing and
and then she would go and ring me and and she was just such an attentive caring
daughter and you know I mean all of that's obviously missed, in addition to who she was as a person. That's obviously missed.
No-one has been charged with her murder.
What happens now?
Well, the only thing that we can do, really,
is wait on the police doing their job.
You know, I wouldn't like to be in a situation
like thousands of other people in our country
who have never received justice for their loved one's murder.
I'm hoping that we don't have to wait forever.
I'm hoping we don't have to wait for 40 years.
I'm hoping that we will receive justice
before my mum takes her final breath
because lots of people haven't had that opportunity in this country
and it has stayed with them every single day of their life,
the fact that their family member hasn't had justice.
Nicola Corner, thank you very much for joining us this morning
and I really do hope that book sells well.
You did not give away too much.
People will want to read it.
Thank you very much for joining us this morning.
Thank you, Jenny, for inviting me.
It's been a pleasure.
Now, 200 years ago, a prison was established in Brixton in South London.
In 1853, it was converted into a prison solely for female convicts.
And a woman took over as the governor.
Her name was Emma Martin. Well, as the prison celebrates its 200th anniversary, it now houses
men, and its job is the resettlement of male offenders. Its deputy governor is a woman,
Louise Isart, and Chris Impey has written The House on the Hill, Brixton, London's oldest prison.
Chris, how did Emma Martin become the first woman to govern a jail?
Well, transportation ended in 1852 and suddenly Britain was left with all these convicts, people that they would have sent abroad before, and they didn't know what to do with them.
Prisons hadn't housed long-term offenders
before and so among these were a thousand women. Brixton, a compulsory purchase was made by the
government and Brixton became the first convict prison for women. There were sensibilities about
men looking after women so almost the entire staff apart from the chaplain and the doctor, were women.
And Emma Martin became the governor of the prison
in charge of 70 staff and 700 very desperate women.
What kind of woman was she?
She had children and she took them all around the prison.
Yes, so we don't know a lot about her before.
She was twice widowed.
Her husband, one of her husbands, had been a prison chaplain.
She had 12 children aged between six months and 17 years.
They lived with her in the prison.
And she would take the younger ones among them on her rounds
as she went round to look at the prison.
From reading her report, she comes across as a very caring person, but very
strict as well. She wasn't, she's very prepared to give out the punishments. But she spoke of the
women as wretched creatures, but said she felt her compassion as she would towards her own children.
Louise, how do you reckon her job would have compared with what you do now?
Hopefully very different. I think that, you know, walking into a male-dominated environment,
it's intimidating.
And I think that I'm glad that I navigated my way through
in 17 years at the prison service about how I handle that.
And I think that that helps me guide other female staff in Brixton
around how to manage themselves
and particularly their authority in HMP Brixton.
I think there's a different authority that everyone has
but particularly women have to think about how they walk past the excise yard,
how do they walk on the wing, how do they dealise yard. How do they walk on a wing?
How do they deal with conflict?
How do you do it?
I think you have a set of answers that you always respond to.
I think that you walk with purpose.
I think that you get very comfortable in the authority that you have developed over time.
And I think that, you know, in prisons, we all have different kinds of authority.
And I think that you model that personally.
Myself, over those years, I've kind of modelled about how I handle conflict and what I'm comfortable in doing.
How do I de-escalate? How do I encourage others? How do I empower people
to change their lives? But also to the staff group, you know, I'm very open and I like to
have a debate about how it is for our staff and just pass on that experience that I've got.
What kind of crimes, Chris, would the women in the 19th century have committed?
Because I was quite surprised to find that they often pleaded guilty,
thinking they would be sent to Australia,
and were rather surprised to find themselves in Brixton.
This is what Emma Martin said, that she believed that some of the women had done that.
And because they were convicts so serving longer longer sentences they
tended to commit more serious crimes so robbery attempted murder murder which most commonly
was infanticide at that time so they'd they'd committed very serious crimes for the women
prisoners it was the same as the staff, that this was a whole new situation
for them. They had been expecting to start a new life in Australia, and they were very angry about
it. A lot of them would protest by ripping off their clothes, smashing windows, smashing up
anything that they could find. So Emma Martin certainly had a job on her hands, certainly when
she first took over at the prison. Now you are obviously, Louise, slap bang in the middle of London,
and it's your job to prepare prisoners for resettlement.
How difficult is that when you're in a very busy urban area?
I think it's an opportunity.
I think that London offers, you know, I'm in the hub of all the employment and uh charities and agencies and
when I first went to Brixton I asked the staff you know what what is it about Brixton that is
great and they said well we're in London it's location and we have very very good partnerships
you know we're in the last two and a half years we have
transformed the prison you know the inspection report shows that and we celebrate being a part
of such a diverse community there's quite a bit of baking gets done there is quite a bit of baking
and well we have bad boys bakery um and you, that's quite interesting in terms of where the treadmill and the bakery and the bread came from, you know, for so many years ago.
And we have the Clink restaurant. So, you know, we have lots of partnerships. So we really strive for when prisoners come into Brixton that they have opportunities and support to change their lives.
And I think that we have a high proportion of females, but we are a very diverse culture.
But not prisoners, it's females on the staff.
So, yes.
No women prisoners. No female prisoners at all.
So we have 798 male prisoners.
And 36% of our officers are females.
And that's quite high in a male prison.
But that figure increases as you go up the ladder.
So 53% of our middle managers are females
and 67% are senior leaders within Brixton.
It's interesting, Chris, because you found that Brixton has overseen
the testing of reform in the prison system for quite some time.
How did it do that?
So, well, when it was a women's prison, that was a classic example.
So you had all these convicts.
We hadn't held people on a long-term basis before.
So they came up with a system of stages,
which would start off with solitary confinement,
but then women would go on to work.
But then they would be given the opportunity for probation,
which was the first time that anything like that had been trialled. Brixton itself was
very much seen as an experiment. There was a man called Joshua Jebb who was in charge of the
prisons and it was very much seen as a rehabilitative culture and that these women
should be given an opportunity for change. They would go on to a refuge at Fulham as well
and be given the opportunity to train in domestic service, for example.
It also had the first woman to run a male prison.
That was Joy Kinsley, I think, wasn't it?
Joy Kinsley in 1986.
How did she get on?
Sorry, how?
How did she get on?
She got on very well.
She was described to me by an old officer, Desi,
who Louise will know, who was there for many years,
as a hyacinth bouquet character.
I think that was to do with her prim and properness
rather than her airs and graces.
She had been governor at Holloway.
She came in at a very difficult time.
They were renegotiating work contracts with the staff
and it was a very male-dominated environment.
Most of the staff were ex-military.
There's a very heavy drinking culture,
a very heavy Masonic element.
And Joy Kinsley came in, had to negotiate with the unions.
A grade A governor was another description
that another officer gave to me.
And don't forget as well,
she was dealing with very serious offenders.
IRA members were held in Brixton at that time.
So she was a real force, a real trailblazer.
Louise, I know drugs have been a big problem
across the prison service
and you have brought yours down considerably.
How have you done that?
I think, I thought our inspection reflected this.
I think that, you know, we are led by Governor Bamford.
He's one of the best governors I've worked for.
And he took very bold decisions in the beginning
about when we were at our worst point,
probably two and a half years ago.
And we've not only tackled the physical
security um we test all mail coming in but also for me you know my passion is rehabilitative
culture and relationships make a difference so if um we launched our key worker scheme where
prisoners have 45 minutes with an officer every week and i think
just having that time having that role model to talk about the issues and why you're using drugs
and why you might be you know wanting to gain that is really really important louise is out
chris impy thank you very much indeed. And 200th anniversary. Congratulations.
Thank you.
Now still to come in today's programme, the portrayal of older women in fiction.
Why don't we like what's on offer?
And the serial, the final episode of Flying Visits.
Now, as we heard yesterday, the National Rural Crime Network has discovered
that women who live in the countryside are half as likely to report domestic abuse as women who live in towns and cities. We
spoke to Judith who's a survivor of domestic abuse in a small community in the Highlands.
Scottish Women's Aid has launched a pilot scheme called Ask Me to help women like her. It builds
on the success of Women's Aid pilots and projects in England and Wales.
Well, Kathleen Carraher joined their trainers,
Catherine Russell and Cathy Way,
as they travelled around to do sessions
with members of the community who train as ambassadors.
They learn how to listen to women
and direct them to sources of support and information.
We also hear from another survivor of domestic abuse.
We've called her Kelly.
How are you? Are you all right?
Yeah, yeah.
You've got sunshine.
Going out to have the cocktails, are we?
Has anybody heard from...
No.
I'm just going to give you a wee bit of a historical perspective.
In 1870, women became legal owners of the money that they earned
and the right to own property.
In 1895, wife beating is prohibited between the hours of 10pm and 7am.
Why do you think that was? So they don't disturb their neighbours.
In 1918, some women got the vote if they owned property or they were married to a man.
In 1970...
I'm Cathy Way.
I'm the Ask Me coordinator for Lochaber Women's Aid.
And I'm Catherine Russell,
and I'm the Ask Me coordinator for Kessness and Sutherland Women's Aid.
What we really want to do with the Ask Me scheme
is to recruit people in local communities,
particularly in the most rural and isolated areas, to be someone who
can listen effectively to someone who is experiencing domestic abuse, someone who
listens without judgment and who can signpost that person to the help that they need. Do you
think there are particular reasons for abuse taking place in the Highlands?
We know that domestic abuse happens in all communities.
It's just that we don't get that many referrals
from the very isolated communities.
Now, knowing that it happens,
but people aren't accessing our services,
means that we need to reach out.
Raising awareness. Between us we've kind of got three small countries we're trying to cover.
A lot of the villages are quite remote and quite rural and are built from the tradition of old
crofting communities and obviously near the coast are fishing communities and if you can imagine ac yn amlwg ymlaen y cwrs yma, cymunedau ffisio. Ac os gallwch chi dychmygu rhywle sydd eithaf isoleiddio,
nid oes llawer o gyrff cyhoeddus,
yn debyg nad oes ganddo hynod o gysylltiad internet da iawn,
sy'n rhywbeth rydyn ni'n ei wneud am ddim arall.
Yna mae'r ddewadau hyn a'r bobl sy'n byw yno,
y cymunedau,
yn rhaid iddyn nhw fod yn dda iawn o'u cefnogi a'u hyderu.
Felly sut ydych chi, ddewadau?
Dwi'n dda.
Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. Diolch. self-supporting and self-reliant. So how are the ladies? Not too bad. How are you, Shona?
Better be better than she is.
Oh, yeah.
How's your mum?
I believe there's stigma wherever there's domestic abuse.
However, in smaller communities,
they may feel that they're unable to share that information,
perhaps with neighbours.
They feel that whatever happens behind closed doors
is other people's business
and therefore due to either not being confident
about their own response
then neighbours might not say anything at all.
Breaking the silence.
I think it's a wonderful, wonderful thing.
A lot of women would be too frightened to even approach anybody, you know.
Yeah, yeah.
So it's very difficult to overcome.
There'd be percussions if anything got out, you know, or something.
And that's why confidentiality is paramount.
Many, many women don't do anything for years and years and years
until they feel it's time for
them to do something. In that sort of situation of being controlled by someone
it's very difficult for them to perhaps get the finance to go to places for help.
Yes, if someone did need to say get into Fort William or
something like that then we do have a hardship fund so
either someone would come out to them so that they didn't need to make that journey welcome back what
we're going to do now for our first exercise then is you know that myth that we talked about last
week we talked about the myths we talked about blaming. And one of the things that you hear a lot of people talk about
and maybe question is, well, why does she not just leave?
My name's Kelly and I'm from Highlands.
I've been in the relationship or was in the relationship
for about ten years altogether.
We'd done good things together.
We still went on holidays and, you know,
he had this charming,
lovely side to him but also had a very nasty, bitter, jealous, very horrible side to him.
He liked drinking and taking drugs.
He did hit me, he'd give me a black eye, he strangled me, he ripped my clothes off me.
I don't know why, you always take them back. They make it out that you'll never get anyone better than them.
Nobody else will ever love you the way he does, but it's not love.
But you don't know that. You don't see what everyone else seems to see until you're at a point
where my point was when I became a mother. Do you think that because you
live in such a small community that it made it more difficult for you to get
help? There isn't a lot of awareness around Fort William I mean it was a
friend that told me to come here I didn't know women's aid existed or there was any
Help out there for me. So tell me then why you wanted to take part in the Ask Me scheme
I've been thinking for a good few months now
I want to help people who feel like they don't have anywhere else to go or turn just like I did
Because I don't know where I would have been
I honestly do not know hand on heart where I would have been if I did not get in touch with
women's aid. Awareness needs to be everywhere for these women and children.
Believing, so as ambassadors believing what the survivor is telling you and understanding what Ac yn ymddiriedol. Felly fel cyngor, yn ymddiriedol beth mae'r bywyd yn ei ddweud i chi a'i deall beth mae'r bywyd yn ei ddweud i chi yw'n bwysig iawn.
Gan eich bod yn ymddiriedol iddyn nhw a'u gwrando iddyn nhw, yna maen nhw'n teimlo'n fwy hyderus i allu cymryd y cyngor,
oherwydd maen nhw'n gwybod mai dyna'r un ymateb y byddant yn ei gael o'r cyngorau. Rwy'n credu mai dyna oedd y peth anodd i mi fod pawb yn meddwl.
Oeddwn i'n llyfio neu'n argyfwngu oherwydd roeddwn i'n dda iawn yn cadw'r wyf.
Mae'n anodd iawn i rywun sy'n cyfranogol yn fawr drwy'r sefyllfa amgylcheddol
ddod i'r ffôn a siarad â rhywun nad ydynt wedi siarad â nhw o'r blaen. through the domestic abuse situation to pick up a phone and to speak to someone they've never spoken to before.
And so having someone in the community that they recognise
that they've already had the beginnings of that conversation
makes a huge difference for them.
I'd like to thank you all once again for being so open.
Thank you.
Both of you.
It's great having you.
And that report was by Kathleen Carraher
and of course if you want
information or support
you can find sources
on the Wunza website
women over the age of
45 are the biggest
buyers of fiction
and 84% of us say we read
every day
but a survey of a thousand women carried out by Gransnet,
together with HarperCollins, has concluded we're not happy with the way we're portrayed
in the books we buy. In response, a fiction writing competition has been launched for
female writers over the age of 40, featuring a female character in that older age group.
Well, what is it we dislike about what's on offer and what actually do we want?
Well, Caroline Lodge blogs about older women in fiction
and joins us from Exeter.
Carrie Rosen is the editor of Gransnet
and also runs their book club.
So, Carrie, what did women tell you?
I keep saying they, but it's we, isn't it?
I have to include myself in this because I'm over 40 so what do we not like
we don't like being typecast in in our reading choices any more than we are in real life um
certainly when it comes to the book club um I found I was being pitched every book about dementia
and nursing homes it's not to say there aren't great books on that I'm thinking of three things
about Elsie by Joanna Cannon, which is an excellent example,
but it's not what our users want to read.
We want to read about a whole diversity of subjects and genres,
just as anybody else does, to be honest.
Were there particular characters that have irritated them
or indeed irritated you?
It's hard to think of very specific characters,
but there are certain tropes that are repeated over and over in fiction
that we see women stabbing blindly at smartphones because they're over 50,
therefore they don't have a clue how to work them.
Older women who are having to ask their grandchildren or their children
to help them do something on social media.
Again, we have over 300,000 users on GrantsNet.
They all know how to use social media.
So I think society kind of needs to wise up a little bit
about what the modern woman is and what old really is.
That is something that we asked as well.
What's old? What's middle age?
Because, again, I think, you know,
I read something in the paper recently about an elderly woman
who turned out to be 60.
Well, in our terms, that's barely middle age.
And in the survey, people were all adamant
that middle age begins at 50.
Old is 10 years older than you actually are,
and elderly is certainly 80-plus.
Caroline, what characters have irritated you?
Oh, well, I'm one of those elderly ones I now discover.
I think it's, in some some respects I have a slightly different view
to carry because I've been looking at women in fiction who are over about 60. Yeah that's okay
that's fine I agree with that. And like her it's the stereotypes and they you know useless at social
media and digital mechanisms is a very obvious one.
But there are a lot of others.
There are like the magical older women who somehow have got a special kind of wisdom,
which they impart usually to the protagonist.
They're usually not the main character when they're doing that.
Or there are the women for whom no life experiences between the ages about
20 and 60 seem to have had any impact on their lives I realize for some writers
it could be quite difficult because they haven't experienced maybe those years
but to suggest that one is still act mostly activated by what happened in one's 20s is a little
offensive, I think. It all belies the complexity of older age today and some of the really
important issues that older women are experiencing, including, given your last item, domestic
violence, I might say. But, Caroline, why do you suppose writers create women
who can't operate a computer or a mobile phone
and maybe don't have a job in their 60s
when that's clearly so often not like life?
Well, quite a lot of fiction isn't like life, is it?
And it's a kind of signing, I suppose, of age,
as is, you know, white hair and knitting.
And I don't know.
I'm not too bothered about the books that do exist.
I want to see more books published of different varieties.
I would really go and push for the variety.
So, Carrie, why do you suppose publishers seem reluctant
to include female characters over 40?
It's very interesting.
I read a blog by Faye Walden yesterday
in which she said that publishers don't look for older characters
over the age of 40, and they're probably right not to
because they're depressing.
Although I don't think they're any more depressing
than any other age group.
Millennials have their issues just as any age does.
And she said that it might be middle-aged women who buy fiction,
but they don't want to read about older characters.
They only want to read about young women.
And I would also argue that that's absolutely not the case.
And your survey would absolutely suggest that that is not the case.
Absolutely.
I mean, what the survey found was that the age of the central character is not the key thing.
It's the identifying features.
They want to see women that represent them who are older, vital, still having sex, still working.
And that's why it's been brilliant to work with HQ, which is the division of HarperCollins we did the research with,
because some of the editors were at a conference talking
to aspiring writers only a week ago, and people were coming up to them and saying, well, we've
been told we mustn't include any characters over 40. And they were holding up their hands and going,
no, no, no, that's not the case at all. So I think it is changing. And it is about time too.
Caroline, what are the good examples that you've read?
Oh, well, there are lots and lots.
On my blog, I've got a list of about 40 really good ones
and 40 more that have been recommended by readers.
I'd like to pick out three, if that's all right.
Yeah, top choices.
Especially as I saw on the survey that 30% of the women questioned
got the book got to the book
recommendations from the radio so this is an opportunity to plug a few I think
my top favorite is Elizabeth Taylor's book mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont
because she so closely looks at how the older people in that book in that hotel, the Claremont, have to deal with the problems of old
age, especially loneliness, which is a really big issue. Or Penelope Lively's book, Moon Tiger,
which won the Booker Prize some years ago, which talks about a woman who'd been immensely successful
and she knows she's still that woman still all the people
she's ever been although that's not how she's treated by the hospital staff and a third one
which has much moved me is a about a Palestinian woman who really experienced
the diaspora of Palestinians and her family, and yet maintains a really strong view, her
values really strongly, which is one of the things the survey shows older women want to read.
But just to say, I think everybody should be reading about older women, not just older
women. We need fiction to show the world in a new way and introduce people to things they
may not have thought about.
Carrie, what would be your number one, two and three? Maybe not three.
It's difficult.
Books that instantly come to mind with great older characters
Old Baggage by Lessa Evans.
Mattie is an indomitable force and she's
absolutely wonderful.
A book that we did for
Gransnet Book Club which is about a 40
year old which perhaps wouldn't
you wouldn't think would be right for
our audience but absolutely was because it had so many themes that people identify with was the cactus by sarah
hayward um i think everyone recognizes a little bit of themselves in susan green and um the the
complexities of the human relationships that she she goes through are something that we can all
relate to um if we're going to take an older character, I think Meet Me at the Museum by Anne Youngson
is a wonderful book.
It's a woman who is finding later in life
that actually her lot is not really what she wants it to be
and is exploring ways to, possibilities of changing it,
but does she in the end?
That's the question.
And what about the competition?
How do people enter the competition?
If you go to GrantsNet, we have on our site
all the instructions of what we're looking for,
all the terms and conditions, and exactly how to enter.
Entries are open, I think, until the end of September,
so you've still got time to get writing.
And the writer has to be over 40?
The writer has to be a woman over 40. And the central character has to be a woman over 40?
The central character just needs to be somebody over 40. One of the central characters it doesn't
have to be the only one. And if it's a woman she must be able to use a computer and a mobile phone
and have sex and and still be working. Yeah no. All of that. Yes. All of that.
I was talking to Carrie Rosen, the editor of Granzonette,
who also runs their book club,
and Caroline Lodge, who blogs about older women and fiction.
Lots of you got in touch in response to that conversation.
Rosemary said this 68-year-old just had to stop her five-mile run
to respond on her mobile to the segment on older women and stereotypes.
Richard Mills said, I love gruesome murder fiction and would love to see older female detectives like Vera, also older female murderers.
Helen McClement said, wonderfully enlightening chat on the representation of older women in fiction.
I would recommend Unsheltered by Barbara Kingsolver, from which I'm still reeling.
Wynne Jeffrey said, discussion about older women in fiction.
I loved Elizabeth Day's Paradise City, except for a woman in her 50s who served the sort of tea made by my grandmother, born 1905.
There was an assumption that this character was typical.
She is not.
Polly added by email,
I found that there are lots of books that are London-centric and middle class.
I would love to read books that are set in other areas.
I don't want to read about how hard life is in the North, And Linda Noon said,
I'm really enjoying Maeve Harmon's An Italian Holiday.
Protagonists are four women, all 69 and over.
And Sally in Hazelmere said, I've not read it for a long time, but Doesn't Travels With My Aunt by Graham Green feature a much older woman, sex, etc.
I seem to remember enjoying this book.
And then Geraldine Fitzgerald said, Elena Ferranti, no one has mentioned her.
And a lot of you got in touch in response to Nicola Corner, Learer McKee's sister,
speaking about the publication of Learer's book today,
Angels with Blue Faces.
Viv Williams said on Twitter,
that was a moving, beautiful interview.
And Mark Houston said, a great piece of radio.
Thanks to Nicola for being able to take part.
We'll certainly put in a book order. Today will be painful, but also a time of love.
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