World Of Secrets - Death in Dubai: 1. The real Mona Kizz

Episode Date: September 15, 2025

Monic dreams of leaving her home in rural Uganda for a different life. So when a “friend” promises her a job in Dubai, it feels like the chance she’s been waiting for. Monic is elated, she is the first of her 11 siblings to travel abroad. But just a few months later she is dead. Her family is left searching for answers. What happened in Dubai? A warning that this podcast includes disturbing scenes, including discussion of sexual abuse and suicide. Some episodes also contain strong language. Presented by investigative journalist Runako Celina.Season 9 of World of Secrets, Death in Dubai, is a BBC Eye investigation, produced in association with Thread Studios, for the BBC World Service.Please note, the image is being used for illustrative purposes only and the person depicted in it is a model.If you feel distressed by the references in this story, please speak to a health professional, or an organisation that offers support such as Befrienders Worldwide. www.befrienders.org For UK listeners, details of organisations offering information about or support after sexual abuse, or with feelings of despair, are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Here’s a link to the BBC Eye documentary film, which we recommend you watch after listening to this podcast: https://bit.ly/bbcdeathindubaiIf you are in the UK, you can watch on iPlayer: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/n12t256jg

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This podcast includes discussion of suicide and some disturbing events. I'll give you some details of support organisations at the end. It's early morning on May 1st, 2022, and Kampala, Uganda's sprawling, bustling capital, is waking up. Rita's closed the curtains, shut out the sun. She's trying to have a lion.

Her phone rings and she quickly silences it. But it rings again and again, the same number. Reluctantly, she picks up. On the line is a familiar voice. He asked if I knew what had happened, and I said no. He asked if I had seen the news. I hadn't. Then he said Monica had died.

Five months earlier, Rita says this man helped her sister Monica move to Dubai, got her a job, arranged her travel, promised Rita that she would be safe. But now, he's calling to say she's dead. I felt sick. I didn't believe. I asked how she died. He was like,

I'm going to send you a video they shot while she was dying. A few minutes later, it arrives. It's shaky phone footage of a white tower block. There's a figure of a woman balancing on a windowsill. And to warn you, it's really unsettling. You could see the woman at the top of the building. there were parked cars and other people at the bottom. I was so scared.

Then I saw the woman shouting and then she jumps out of the window. I saw it and I just believed that it was Monica. This same video is being shared far and wide online. A Ugandan woman died instantly after she jumped off the tower in Dubai, that is United Arab Emirates. You can hear the screams of everyone who witnessed it. The woman in the video stands there for a moment and thinks about things and then just let's go and falls.

TikTokers and YouTubers are saying the woman who falls, Rita's sister Monica, who they're calling Mona Kiz, is caught up in something terrible. Some dark, demented, twisted shit is going down in Dubai behind closed doors. Monica Kiz was a beautiful young woman from you. Uganda. She was enchanted by the glam and glitz of Dubai and the Instagram influencer thing.

Mona and her friend were forced to do terrible sexual acts and some of them are unspeakable. And it was all filmed and released on the internet. Rita's sister is accused of being a Dubai porter potty, getting paid to be a human toilet. I never had heard the term Dubai porta potty like in mass until the Mona Kid's story. She became a face of Dubai porta potty. A Dubai Port-a-Potty is a woman, usually an Instagram model who gets flown out to Dubai by a rich Emirati who pays them to do horrible, horrible things. Okay, it's recently come to light that people are going to Dubai, people are going to Dubai to get pulled on. These rumors are out of control.

Every few months, another model or influencer or even random women in Dubai get accused. Currently, the going race is 30 to 40K to be someone's human toilet for the weekend. For money, money that disappears, I'm actually flabbergasted. I'm not shamed! It's the shame of appearing in a Dubai Porterpotty video, the story goes, that drove Mona to take her own life. It's everywhere. An influencer, after the scandal of Dubai, she's suicidate?

Influencer digital Ugandese, Monarchis, The internet is ripping her apart. There's such an outpouring of hate, ridicule and shame. Everyone's weighing in on her story, with their own version of who she was. I find Monica's Instagram. She's riding a quad bike in the desert. On dance floors in Dubai clubs. Posing at the beach.

Monica is striking. She's slim and tall, with sparkling brown eyes, arched eyebrows and high cheekbones. But I also noticed something else. In a photo uploaded less than three weeks before her death, there are bruises on her neck and face. This is World of Secrets, Season 9. Death in Dubai. From the BBC World Service, I'm Renarko Selina.

Episode 1, the real Mona Kiz. Hi, hi, can you hear me? Yeah. Okay, great. Yeah, thank you for taking my call. I'm on a call with a woman who I noticed commented a lot on Monica's Facebook. So I got in touch. She's called Rona.

She's very wary of me, but has agreed to talk. Like, I want to know why you would like to fall about that. You know, it's very difficult to talk to someone that you know. The phone line isn't great. It's hard to hear each other, but I've got to earn her trust. So I'm really trying to understand what happened to her. If I send you my name, you will see a bit of my work and what I do. So I do kind of investigations into issues impacting Africans and people of African descent.

I send Rona some of the stories I've done. A week later, she gets back in touch. She wants to talk again. I try to scan the photo is on your Facebook pay to get the investigation about you. Rona's the first family member I speak to and eventually she'll introduce me to Rita,

the sister who got that phone call in the middle of the night, with the worst news a sibling can hear. But for months it's just Rona and me. Yes, please. Hey, can you hear me? Is it clearer?

We talk over the phone a lot. She's beginning to trust me. I don't know how can I explain. to you, but I have too much pain in my heart. Then, she shares her biggest fear. I feel like someone pushed her from the building to down. Rona doesn't think Monica jumped. She thinks someone made her fall.

It's over a year since I started speaking to Rona, and I'm finally on the way to meet her, at the family's farm outside of Isindjaro in western Uganda. This is where Monica grew up. Look at these massive rolling mountains. And rows and rows and rows of banana trees. So lush. This is really the kind of place that you can live off the land.

A lot of the houses here, I notice, are powered by solar energy. I'm on the way to meet Monica's family, hoping that. but Rona is going to introduce me to everyone. It's the longest winding dirt road where the car in front of us left us like in a mist of red dirt. After six hours on the road, in the distance, I can see the bright blue roof of a farmhouse, high on the hilltop.

When we pull up, Rona rushes out to meet me. And she's not alone. Oh, thank you. Thank you so much. And this is the place. Yeah, this is our home. And this is Monica Kalo. It's a really hot day.

But up here on their family farm, a cool breeze shimmers the trees. Rona's in her mid-20s, her hair braided and tied in a low bun. She's in a long-flowing blue dress. I can see the resemblance between her and Monica. What does the family call Monica?

It's a Monica baptized from the church, but she had another name called Karunji. In our language is Karunji, but in English means beautiful. And she deserved that name because she was beautiful, really. So I feel like whenever she's at home, everyone is happy to see her because she has vibes. She will be there, praying their children. Praying the children, greeting everyone.

Rona's actually Monica's niece, but they're so close in age she calls her sister. We grow together. We eat together. We pray together. She was like my sister. She was there for me. I'm there for her. Most of Monica's brothers and sisters have stayed here on the farm, building their own homes not far from their mum. But Monica wanted something different. Monica was very special person. She was so creative.

So I thought maybe one time, one day, Monica, she would change something in our family. After attending school in the village, Monica moved to the capital to live with her older sister, Rita. Kampala is a bustling metropolis with bars and clubs where boda bodas, motorbike taxis, roar up and down the hilly streets. It's totally different from a Zindjaro, and Monica loved it. She was a single girl who had just moved to the city, so she was excited. When she moved to the city, she bloomed. Rita speaks Luganda, so someone else is voicing her words.

There are no jobs in the village. Village life, it's all about digging, grazing, getting married, and she didn't want marriage. She didn't do it because she saw us her sister's married life, full of suffering. She always wanted, she always had bigger dreams. In Kampala, Monica starts training to be a makeup artist. She gets a job in a salon. Her look starts to change. In this clip from her Instagram, she's dancing in her room in a baby.

pink dress and huge shades, lip-syncing to an Afrobeats classic, with braids down to her bum. She loved wearing jumpsuits and trousers. She paired them with high heels. Long nails were her favourite. They were her signature look. In this clip, she's at a party. The place is packed and she's surrounded by girlfriends.

Rita's happy that Monica's making friends, but not so sure. about her sister's new lifestyle. What I know is that those famous clubs are attended by rich people's kids who tend to be spoiled. When she started going out, she began acting like a wealthy person. She would suggest that I rent a more expensive house. She even wanted someone to wash her clothes for her. It felt like she had forgotten her roots. And her social media starts to change too.

In her early posts, she's baby-faced. In one caption, she says, I'm beautiful and black. A year later, she's posting bikini picks. A year after that, twerking clips. She's posting more, and, like almost everyone I know, is probably spending too much time online. Rita thinks social media is where she first got the idea to leave Uganda.

She liked being on her phone too much. She used to see all that on social media. You know, American celebrities like Kim Kardashian. She used to tell us stories of how this person bought a house or did this or that. I personally had no idea who these people were. Also, her friends, they're just about life abroad. She was tempted to go make more money than she can make here. To look after her sick mother, to be buying her medicine.

Their mum has been sick for some time, with high blood pressure, and the treatment is expensive. She always wanted to set up a business for us, and to build her own house. Those were her dreams. A few months after moving to the city, it seems those dreams might finally come true. She's been out to a bar with her new friends and comes home super excited. She came with a very big bottle of alcohol A very big bottle She might have been a shame to be seen with it

And she told me Sis, I met a rich friend, let's drink She told me she'd got a friend who paid for everything And that she's going to work in Dubai I even have videos that we took that evening We were drinking playing music and dancing with the kids. We put suspends on our heads and started banging them.

Once the initial excitement wears off, Rita goes into elder sister mode and starts asking questions. I said, you know that you need a lot of money to do so? And she said, no, I won't put in any money. She told me confidently that her guy was helping her. Because, she says, this friend is going to pay for everything. Rita says Monica was excited, telling her he'd promised her a job in a supermarket in Dubai. I asked her, do you trust the people taking you?

She said that she trusted them because they were her friends. Rita says Monica's talking to this guy a lot, but Rita's never introduced to him. Looking back, she thinks he might have been trying to avoid her. They do speak a couple of times on the phone. Rita never gets his name, but he manages to make a good impression. He was well-mannered in speaking. He seemed nice. I saw his picture before.

He was tall, handsome, with chocolate brown skin, and he also carried himself like a gentleman. He looked to be a fellow Munya-Ankule. I think she trusted him because he was a Munya-Ankoli. They were from the same place. The Ankoli region, of Uganda, the same people. He told me that first of all, she's a beautiful girl,

she speaks English, and she's hard working. She'll be able to work. He said that he takes people abroad and he would get her a job. I thought he was a good man, helping his friend to make her life better. I thought he had good intentions. He told me that she'll be fine. He promised that she would be safe. Rita says over the next two weeks, this friend sought Monica's passport and visa

and makes all the arrangements for her to go to Dubai. He even gives her money to throw a leaving party. It's the weekend before Monica leaves. The whole family has come together on the farm. A goat is slaughtered and a mountain of Motocke, a savoury banana with a thick green skin that's peeled. One of Monica's brothers is DJ for the day. He's blaring music from his speakers. And Monica's got everyone up on their feet.

According to Rona, Monica's niece, this is classic Monica. So she was happy, she makes some small, small music and she danced. She was so happy with the kids, mother, everyone's siblings at home, and some of people in the village. Monica, the last of 11 siblings, will be the first of them to travel abroad. The day after the party, she returns to Rita's in Kampala. The sisters are so busy laughing and talking about Monica's future in Dubai, they stay up most of the night.

At some point, Rita speaks to Monica's friend on the phone. I told him, are you planning to take her sister without meeting me first? He assured me that he would come in the morning to pick her up. However, when morning came, he called to say he was held up and he could not meet me. Instead, he instructed me to send her on a border border to a particular beach on the way to Entebe airport. So Rita helps Monica get her bag ready. Monica cried as she was saying goodbye. She said, I'm going to work, I'll send you money, and all will be well.

Rita waves goodbye as Monica heads off on the back of a boda-boda. She's taken to the meeting point, a beach on Lake Victoria, on the way to the airport. And that's where that friend picks her up in his car. When they reached the airport, the man sent me photos of her, pulling her suitcase in the security line. I remember she wore black shoes, blue-ripped jeans, with a black sweater. Her eyes looked red. Like someone who'd been crying.

It was Monica's first time going on a plane. First time leaving Uganda. And the last time Rita ever saw her little sister. Liz went from being interested in true crime to living true crime. My husband said, your dad's been killed. This is Hands Tide, a true crime podcast exploring the murder of Jim Milgar. I was just completely in shock. Liz's father murdered, and her mother found locked in a closet, her hands and feet bound.

I didn't feel real at all. More than a decade on, she's still searching for answers. We're still fighting. Listen to Hands Tide on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hello, Mama. I told you. Monica's filming a light show from a balcony. Fountains and fireworks are going off before her eyes.

It's so beautiful, you guys. She's been living in Dubai for a month now. She's 23, and it looks like she's living her dream, at least from her online presence. This is beautiful and magnificent. In this video, Monica walks around a rooftop terrace, amazed by everything around her. The block is full of buzz, bars, bars, bars, bars. Lights spin across the dance floor of a nightclub. It's a real vibe.

She struts in heels, turning the marble hotel foyer into her catwalk. You're looking so pretty. When you scroll through Monica's Instagram, she's posing in immaculate outfits with perfect nails. Behind her, rooftop pools, or beaches surrounded by dazzling skyscrapers. See how bright and cross with the sun. But to Rona, something just doesn't look right. We sit on Rona's bed, looking at photos of Monica before she left, and the ones from Dubai. This is the Monica Omuna that I know before.

But for being in abroad or for being in UAE, her lifestyle changed and even the color of her body changed. And here she was black. But when she went there, in a few months, In a few months, she changed her colour in brown. Rona thinks Monica might have started using skin lightning products. The thing is, using these controversial products can be risky, and they're not cheap. Look, the way she's looking, go to those kind of places, of course, it's money. I can't believe that Monica was affording herself.

I think she was not the one who was controlling the internet and social media things. And Rona also notices something else. If you focus on those videos, you can see sometimes she have crashes and she's walking like someone who have pain from somewhere. On New Year's Eve, just nine days after Monica arrived in Dubai, Rona gets a voice note from her. She was talking while she's crying so emotionally and feel like that's when I knew maybe Karunji Monica,

she's not fine. That was not Monica that I know. It was the last time she heard from her. On May the 1st, Rona's phone starts going crazy. People posting saying that Monica Kalonji has passed her way. So I was like, why I tried to call her phone and is not going through. She watches the video that's being shared over and over, seeing the girl fall. from the tower.

It's horrible. But she also thinks something isn't right. I was like, this is no Monica. So why people are saying like this? Then I was like, no, I need to tell them the truth that this is not the one. And she's right. In the background of the video, if you listen carefully, you can hear people speak in Russian. I do a reverse image search and trace the clip back to six months earlier.

It was filmed in Novisbrisk, Russia. The woman in the video definitely isn't Monica. But there's one thing social media is right about. Monica's body was found at the bottom of a tower block in Dubai. Rona keeps scrolling, desperately looking for information, trying to understand what's happened. And she comes across other videos that people are linking to Monica. One is a graphic video of someone performing Dubai Porter Potty.

TikTokers and YouTubers are claiming that it's Monica, or Mona Kiz as they call her. Mona and her friend were both assaulted and defecated all over on film. The film was then released on the internet for all to see. When this happened, Mona was destroyed. But you can see the woman's face. It's clearly not Monica. Clearly not Monica. Rona goes back over the comments people were leaving at the time.

She deserved that. Oh, wow. She deserved that. She died. She loved money too much. And she get what she deserved. In hell... Oh, my gosh.

They want to blame her. They want to put on her that she did it. She did it in tuition. She did. She deserved it. Monica can't rest in peace because people online are tearing her to pieces of course they was going to say whatever they want to say

she was selling herself getting money but no need to comment something that you don't know you don't know she was doing those things that you have been saying so there's a video of a woman falling from an apartment building but it's not Monica and there's a video of a woman engaged in an extreme sexual act, but that's not Monica either.

So why are these videos being linked to her? I feel like maybe someone was trying to keep something or to keep the secret or what exactly happened to her or how she passed away. Under a marqueeceece on the family farm, the whole community have gathered to mourn Monica. Some of Monica's childhood friends are here, her school teachers, distant relatives, and all her baby nieces and nephews. Three priests, dressed in black and white robes, lead the service.

One of Monica's brothers sits close to their mom, his arm around her shoulders as they listen on. Karunji Monica, that we are remembering the life of Karunji Monica. Monica's funeral. Her family don't have her body to bury. They tried to repatriate her remains, but couldn't get the money together in time. We never had a burial ceremony. So really the grief is so much, the pain is so much. God knows you. God knows you.

Knows what you're going to? No, what you're going to. Monica's mom is distraught. Monica's mom is distraught. She sobs and holds her head in her hands. She calls out to God about the pain of not seeing her youngest daughter. If Monica has really gone, she wants to bury her on the family land next to the white-tiled grave where her husband was laid to rest. It's too much.

Monica's mom has helped back inside the house to rest. The prayers in singing carry on and people share stories about Monica. There are lots of happy memories, but for Rona, it's also a reminder of the person they've lost. Rona, Rona, don't cry. Rona, don't cry, don't cry, don't cry. Very difficult, we miss her. Just to say, we miss her, please.

I'm very sorry. So a long time, we are waiting. We can see the body, we can see anything, we can't find anything. So what exactly happened to her? Rona then turns and looks at me. If you have any ways, please try to her. I just want to know what exactly will happen to her, you know? Sometimes I feel I want to call her, then I remember it's no longer there.

I can't get her. So I mean it. It's long. The family do their best to support each other, but feelings are raw. raw. Their loss is huge. Rona says if Monica was here, she'd tell them not to give up to keep looking for answers. What I know, all that what I have approved, she will never kill herself. That's what I know. Because she was a strong girl, she will never kill herself. I'm trying to investigate what happened to her. Where do you think I should start looking first? I just feel like you should start to look

where she was working before and what happened to her exactly. Where did she go? All those people who took her there to abroad, what exactly they did to her. Those people. Rona has all these questions

and Rita does too. In the days and weeks after she got that call, Rita tries to find out who those people are, who took Monica to Dubai. Remember, she never got the name of that so-called friend, the one who sent her that horrendous video,

who she says paid for her sister to go to Dubai in the first place. Rita becomes obsessed with finding this guy's name. She uses a money transfer service that allows you to send cash using just a mobile phone number. Before confirming the transfer, the system shows the recipient's name for verification. This allows you to see their name without completing the transaction. But when we tried this, the system showed a woman's name. He's using a phone registered to someone else. That is when I became suspicious.

I knew then that this guy was a con artist. So Rita still doesn't have his name, but she keeps calling him, asking what happened to her sister, and manages to get one crucial lead. He tells her, talk to someone else. He gave me his boss's number to get more information. It was Monica's boss in Dubai. I spoke to him, but he was a very strict man. He was so tough on the phone.

He's also from Uganda, because we spoke in Uganda. That's how I know he's from here. He told me that she was working in a supermarket as an accountant. But he doesn't give her any answers on what happened to Monica. She keeps calling him, asking him to help raise funds to bring Monica's body home. When I realized that they were playing games, I contacted a newspaper. The moment they saw me on the news, everything changed. The Dubai guy told me that he had seen me on TV and that I should stop doing interviews,

accusing me of being a fraud. He said that Monica was not normal and you know it. He did not show any remorse or sorrow. Rita tries to find out more about him, digging for information, but he doesn't give anything away. I tried talking to him again, but he had blocked me. She passes me her phone. On the screen, there's a number for Monica's boss, a Dubai one. Rita doesn't know his name, but she needs to pick something to save him as a contact.

She doesn't know how her sister died, but she holds this man responsible. Because I got his number after Monica's death, I saved him as killer. If you are suffering distress or despair and need support, you could speak to a health professional or an organisation that offers support. Details of help available in many countries can be found at Befrienders Worldwide. This has been episode one of six of Death in Dubai, Season 9 of World of World of Secret. Thank you for listening. Please tell people about it and follow or subscribe so you don't miss an episode. World of Secrets, Death in Dubai, is produced by Ruth Evans, Li Chung, Bondo and me, Renarko Salina.

The sound design and mix is by Andy Fell. The editor is Rebecca Henshki. Translation and voiceover by Diana Luanga. It was a BBCI investigation produced in association with Thread Studios. For BBCI, the executive producer is Melen Larson and the editor, Mustafa Khalili. For Thread Studios, the executive producer was Mal Grace. Alex Farkerson is head of production. Chivorn Ray is the production manager, and Chris Jones is the assistant producer.

Original music by Hugh Jones. The production manager was Maria Caramello and the production coordinator was Katie Morrison. Many thanks to the BBC World Service commissioning team that is behind World of Secrets. If you're in the UK, listen to the whole series right now, first on BBC Sounds.

Liz went from being interested in true crime to living true crime. My husband said, your dad's been killed. This is Hands Tide, a true crime podcast exploring the murder of Jim Milgar. I was just completely in shock. Liz's father murdered, and her mother found locked in a closet, her hands and feet bound. I didn't feel real at all. More than a decade on, she's still searching for answers. Fighting. Listen to Hands Tide on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.