Young and Profiting with Hala Taha - Claude Silver: Leading with Love | Leadership | E35

Episode Date: August 19, 2019

Lead with your heart, not just your head! This week on YAP, Hala speaks with Claude Silver, the world’s first “Chief Heart Officer” and Gary Vaynerchuk’s right-hand woman at VaynerMedia. Claud...e owns the onboarding, recruitment, retention, and graduation of all the employees at the digital media agency. She is known for leading with her heart and emotional optimism. In this episode, we’ll dive into how Claude is able to touch every heartbeat at Vaynermedia, and how her past experiences have shaped her leadership style. We’ll also uncover HR topics like how she sets employees up for success with a unique onboarding program and her method for letting employees go. Fivver: Get services like logo creation, whiteboard videos, animation and web development on Fivver: https://track.fiverr.com/visit/?bta=51570&brand=fiverrcpa  Fivver Learn: Gain new skills like graphic design and video editing with Fivver Learn: https://track.fiverr.com/visit/?bta=51570&brand=fiverrlearn If you liked this episode, please write us a review! Want to connect with other YAP listeners? Join the YAP Society on Slack: bit.ly/yapsociety Earn rewards for inviting your friends to YAP Society: bit.ly/sharethewealthyap Follow YAP on IG: www.instagram.com/youngandprofiting Reach out to Hala directly at Hala@YoungandProfiting.com Follow Hala on Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Follow Hala on Instagram: www.instagram.com/yapwithhala Check out our website to meet the team, view show notes and transcripts: www.youngandprofiting.com  

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey guys, if you're an avid listener of Young and Profiting Podcast, I'd like to personally invite you to Yap Society on Slack. It's a community where listeners network and give us feedback on the show. Vote on episode titles, chat live with guests, and share your projects with the group. We'd love to have you. Go to Bitley slash Yap Society. That's bit.ly.ly slash Yap Society. You can find the link in our show notes. This episode of Yap is sponsored by Fiverr, a marketplace that over 5 million entrepreneurs used to their business. I've been using Fiverr for years. In fact, I got the Yap logo made on there, and if you've seen my cool audiograms with animated cartoons, I get those images from Fiverr too. They have affordable services like graphic design, web design, digital marketing, whiteboard explainer videos, programming, video editing, audio editing, and much more. They have over 100,000 talented freelancers to choose from, and it's super affordable. Prices just start at $5.00. If you're interested to give Fiverr a shot, hit the link in our show notes. And if you'd rather learn how to do
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Starting point is 00:01:51 HR space, and in this episode, we'll dive into how she's able to be in touch with every heartbeat at her company, as well as her take on creating a healthy company culture and how she deals with onboarding and letting employees go. Hi, Claude. Welcome to Young Improfiting Podcast. Great to be here. Thank you so much for having me. Yes, it's lovely to have you on the show.
Starting point is 00:02:12 We've been looking forward to this interview for quite some time. So welcome. You are an incredibly powerful woman for my listeners who might not be aware. You're the second in line at Vayner Media, which is Gary Vee's Uber successful media agent. Could you start by telling us as the first ever chief heart officer, which is your title, what do you do and what do you consider as your area of expertise? Terrific, yes. So as chief heart officer here, my job is to take care of every single employee.
Starting point is 00:02:48 And I consider Hart as the central operating system of a human being and human beings a central operating system of a company or a culture. So I oversee everything that is normally called HR. We call it people and experience because after all, that is what we're doing here, people and experience. And I also oversee learning and development, D&I initiatives, culture initiatives, everything like that. So my job is all encompassing people operations, I would call it. I'm in the business of people, which I love. So that is the job.
Starting point is 00:03:22 And I spend my day in a lot of one-on-one meetings, getting to know people, re-meeting people, whether or not they're reaching out to me proactively or I reach out to them. I'm in leadership meetings. We're trying to move the needle here, there, and everywhere, whether or not that's in process or that's in training or that's in refining what it is we do. That's what I'm doing. That's very cool. So how would you say that your chief heart officer role is really different than a traditional CHRO? For one, I was never in HR. And so it would be really really, odd for me to say that I was actually a CHRO, having been a strategist my entire life. I want to honor all the CHROs out there because I didn't grow up in that way. I didn't grow up with rules and
Starting point is 00:04:09 regulations and being compliance experts and whatnot. I grew up in creative agencies working on awesome strategies on a global level. So that's really kind of like base, right? The other way is that my job here, unlike a lot of CHROs, is the people. It is the people. In fact, the only job description I have and that I ever received from Gary is the following. To touch every single employee and infuse the agency with heart. So that's the job description. And I figure out how to do that every single day because every day is different because I'm dealing with people and life.
Starting point is 00:04:49 And what I'm looking at are patterns. I'm collecting a lot of information from people looking at patterns and then making changes or helping people connect the dots, remove roadblocks for themselves. So I would actually call myself or consider myself like an Uber coach or a Sherpa, if you will. And all I want to do is turn people into champions and turn people into heroes and ignite other leaders to do the same. Yeah. So it seems like VaynerMito was the first company to really have this concept of a chief heart officer. Have you seen this trend taking off elsewhere? Like have you started a trend? I see that there's a lot of interest for sure. And I see more chief people officers coming up in the
Starting point is 00:05:36 arenas, whether or not that's in London or whether or not that's here in America. So that's wonderful. And I'm not quite sure what chief people officers do. I haven't really ever sat down with one yet, but I hope to soon and really figure out what our differences are, what our similarities are. So I really truly believe that we are not only in the age of information, but we are really, really moving into this age of heart, emotional intelligence, intuition. And with that said, I believe that humanity and my hope is that we bring humanity back into our workplaces. Now, you can ask me, hey, Cod, was humanity ever in our workplaces? I don't know. But my mission is to bring it back, to spread this idea that it is not the brain and IQ which connects us.
Starting point is 00:06:29 It's the heart and the EQ and connection and belonging, which keeps us not only on our toes, it keeps us in community and keeps us wanting to strive to be better individuals and better as teams. Totally. So let's talk about your career at VaynerMedia. From my understanding, you started off as a senior VP for Gary. You ran account and strategy. And then you actually quit. And you came back to the company later on.
Starting point is 00:07:01 Could you just share that story with our listeners? You know, why did you initially leave the company and what made you go back? It's a great story. So I had been doing strategy, as I mentioned, for a very long time on a global level. and a year into my career here at VaynerMedia, it just dawned on me that I literally lost the passion to do the selling. I just lost it. It wasn't interesting anymore to me to discuss the copy on an ad
Starting point is 00:07:31 or how we were going to reach a certain target. And I only, only wanted to work and grow teams. So I went to Gary on my one year Vaynerversary, is what we call it. And I said, thank you so much. This has been fantastic. And I really think I'm done here. I really think I'm done and I'm not interested in this work and you're terrific and this place is great and, you know, Godspeed. And he said in his wonderful way, what is it that you want to do? What do you want to do? Because that's who he is. He's such a giver, you know? And I said, I only care about the heartbeat of this place. I only care about the people. And he said, cool, I need you to do this for 18 more
Starting point is 00:08:14 months and I said I don't have 18 more months. And we went our own ways and over the next six months I found a backfill who's wonderful. She's here and still here and she's amazing. And I went in and I resigned. And it really gut punched him because he didn't see it happening, didn't see it coming. And you know, we had such a great relationship. And I think in hindsight, you know, I didn't give him enough of a heads up, which of course I would want to. and I would tell anyone to going forward. But I left, and we had a wonderful, incredible conversation, and in that conversation, even though it was very painful.
Starting point is 00:08:53 He said, I don't want us to be like those friends in college that disappear from each other's lives, and you just remember 20, 30 years later, like, God, I really, really loved hanging out with that person. And I'll never forget he said that to me. Anyway, I went about my business and my life, and four months later, we had breakfast together, and we sat down and he said, that's it. You're coming back as chief heart officer.
Starting point is 00:09:18 And I was like, great, I'm in. Count me in. Like, how do we know if I'm successful? And that's when he gave me the remit of touching every employee and infusing the agency with empathy. That's incredible. What a nice story. And it just goes to show how giving heart from the company really starts at the top at your company. Gary seems to be like such a giver, such a genuine person. and then he's given you this great mission that is probably very motivating to everybody who works at VaynerMedia. That's exceptional. How can others, like, replicate what you've done in terms of creating such a meaningful relationship with the top person at the company that you worked for? What is it that you do that helps you connect with somebody on level of Gary Vee who has everybody wants his attention all hours of the day?
Starting point is 00:10:07 So, like, how did you foster such a meaningful relationship? Well, first and foremost, when we met, which was in August of 2013, I was living in London at the time. When we met, we had just a dynamic chemistry. It was almost as though we were meeting each other's brother or sister. And so we just happened to have that energy together. However, to really answer the question, my job has always been to make my boss's job easier. And how do I do that? How do I provide value is either by asking, anticipate.
Starting point is 00:10:40 participating, doing it, doing what I think is the right move, and then being told, like, yes, that was the right move more, or no, don't do that next time. And more importantly, giving that senior leader or that CEO information. And that is literally what helps our relationship continue to thrive. Because my role was set up to scale him, period, to scale him. Because he is the CHO, let's be honest. He's the CCO, he's the CEO, he's the chief operating officer. He's all of those things. It's his company.
Starting point is 00:11:20 But you can't be in all those places at once. And we're at such a magnitude of people now. And when he gave me this role, we were already at a magnitude, that what does he need? He needs information. He wants to know how are we doing? How is this culture doing? What is going on on the floor?
Starting point is 00:11:36 What are people saying? How are people thriving? Are people being too subjective these days? days when it comes to creative reviews, you know, name it. So giving your CEO or your C-suite or your leaders information, I think is the best thing you can do aside from taking things off of their plate. That's very good advice. Previously, you were just saying that Gary gave you the mission to be in touch with the heartbeat of every single person at the company. Based on a research, last we checked, you had about 800 employees. Is that about right? That's correct. So how,
Starting point is 00:12:10 How are you able to connect with every person? That's a lot of people. It's a lot of people. I had to learn how to scale myself. And in scaling myself, I have to trust people to be their own culture champion, if you will. The thing about Gary and the thing about me is that we are not micromanagers. We trust first. We give trust first.
Starting point is 00:12:33 And in doing that, I believe that allows people to spread their wings and take it upon themselves to inspire and take care of others. I truly, truly believe that. We've been around 10 years now. There are people, employee, one, two, and three are still with us. There's a bunch of us that have been here four, five, six years. So those of us that have been around for so long, we get it. We understand. We don't drink the Kool-Aid. We drink the water. And in doing that, I can trust people to spread positivity, to spread the optimism, to spread collaboration and patience and gratitude and generosity just as I would. And I have an incredible team that does that and that each person on my team oversees anywhere from 50 to 120 people. And what I mean overseas serves them,
Starting point is 00:13:24 takes care of them. Yeah, you call those culture carriers. Is that what you're referring to? Well, no, the people on my team who are actually on the people and experience team are HR business partners. That's what they would be called anywhere else. So I have them, but then the culture champions or the culture carriers are these other people that have spent enormous amounts of time already with Gary or with me and get it. And I can trust them. And in fact, today, perfect example. Someone came in my office. He's been here 45 days. He's loving it. It's in the honeymoon period. And I asked him, has he met anyone else outside of his team? And he hadn't. So I wrote an email to 10 people I know I can trust. And I said, hey, I want to introduce you to
Starting point is 00:14:08 my new friend. This is what he does. So forth and so on. Please take 15 minutes to go on a walk, get a coffee with them. And already the emails came on, hey, man, I'll set up some time. Hey, I'll set up some time with you. That's amazing. Yeah. Right there is how I scale. So imagine, me doing that and knowing I can do that in any office. I travel to the other offices. I'm on Skype. I'm on Google Hangouts. I do culture jam sessions when I'm in any other office, you know, getting people together. So there are tons of different ways I do that organically. And the role is very high touch and we at Vayner are still very high touch. We don't use a lot of tech yet to reach out and touch people in terms of quantifying. So yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:56 That's how I scale. And I mean, I'm always reaching out and saying hey to someone. Yeah. And, you know, I've listened to other interviews you've had and other things that you've said. And from my understanding, you really try to understand everyone's motivations and problems and dreams. And in summary, I think that you try to just keep everybody happy. And research proves that happy employees are more productive. You've also mentioned in past interviews that speed is the main KPI at your company. So how does keeping employees happy, all the connections that you make, how does that actually move the needle in terms of productivity and driving business benefits for VaynerMedia? That's a great question.
Starting point is 00:15:37 I think not only am I trying to keep everyone happy, I think the way I would say it is creating a culture of belonging and bravery is really what I'm doing every day. And within that culture, you can find fulfillment, satisfaction, happiness. Because I'm not able to keep everyone happy. That would be incredible if I could, but I can't. But I can make sure that people feel like they belong and they are recognized. And that goes a heck of a long way, I believe. And so when people first company, paying attention to what people are going through inside and outside of work, giving them growth and development opportunities, giving them at bats, all of those things, inspire them
Starting point is 00:16:22 to be the best that they can possibly be. They're learning hard skills and they're learning life skills. And because we're an empathetic lot over here, what is our main priority as an agency is to reach consumers in an empathetic way? There's a real synergy that goes on there. But bottom line, if you are good to people, they will want to work hard for you.
Starting point is 00:16:46 And in working hard, that helps our bottom and top line. Totally. Something related to this is you've talked about the difference between time management and energy management. Could you explain that to our listeners? I sure can. So time management is keeping yourself on schedule, knowing that you need to do five different big tasks throughout the day and you have a eight to nine hour day and you're going to have to fit all that in and it stresses you out because, yes, more tasks, some tasks take more time and we multitask and we get all out of sync. We all do it. Energy management is different. It is being aware of what's going on inside of you, how you feel when you do what. When is your best time during the day to be most motivated? When should you have client calls because you feel alert and on top of the ball? When is it better to write emails?
Starting point is 00:17:42 And that's you checking in with yourself. No one else can do that for yourself. I can help someone manage their time. That I can do. I can help someone with a task. Energy management is a wonderful way to become more self-aware. And that really is like, okay, I'm going to give myself two hours to do this next task. And then I know I'm going to be really drained. So I'm going to get up. I'm going to take a walk on the high line. I'm going to get a coffee. I'm going to go to lunch.
Starting point is 00:18:07 You're going to reward yourself. And what are those rewards do? They ultimately give you more energy. Oh, that's very interesting. I like the concept that you say, like there's certain tasks that you're better at. For example, I've read in the past that at 4 p.m. 5 p.m., that's when you're most creative. So whenever I have something really creative to do, I always block out my 4 to 5 p.m. slot. And email is something that a lot of people like to do, like, first thing when they get in and just knock it out.
Starting point is 00:18:35 So they're not distracted all day by it. So it's very good advice. Cool, cool, cool. So there's a phrase that comes up a lot in relationship work, and it's building the honey empire. What does that mean? Tell us about that. Yeah, the Honey Empire is really the ethos that we have behind putting people first. So people not profit. Another way I say it is kindness before KPI. So Honey is what is normally called soft skills. It's the emotional intelligence. It's the what I call life skills. It's the collaboration, communication, understanding that you work for a logo, understanding that this isn't about making yourself the hero. It's about making everyone the hero. champion. That's the honey part and that pays dividends to the empire and the empire is the success
Starting point is 00:19:26 as the profitability is the happy clients is the fact that we've surprised, delighted and touched our consumers. That's the empire. So honey comes first though and that is literally like the kindness, the sincerity, the radical candor, even the tough love, you know, that all is honey because chief heart officer, it sounds awfully sticky and sweet. doesn't it? It's not. My job is to be real with people. That's why I said it's not really to spread happiness. It's really to help people through their roadblocks, identifying things about themselves that they want to get clearer on, teaching self-awareness. And in turn, that then creates a stronger human being. And a stronger human being is going to help this company be more successful.
Starting point is 00:20:15 Yeah. So apart from your work across the marketing and media ecosystem. You also co-founded and served as managing director at Girls Adventure Out, which is a woman's focused outdoor adventure enterprise. That's very different than, you know, your day job. So how did you get involved with that? And how does it help you in any capacity in your current role? Well, the funny thing is I was coaching surfing 275 days a week. Oh, wow. Days a year, I'm sorry. And so I was in the Pacific Ocean pushing people in cold, cold water all day long. And I'm coaching people here. That's who I am internally is a coach, I'm a cheerleader, a roll your sleeves up type of person. And being in the outdoors is something
Starting point is 00:21:02 that really makes me come alive, whether or not it's rock climbing or snowboarding or wakeboarding or surfing. And those things inspire me. And so to take that energy of inspiration and come into a place like this where there's 800 people, that it is my job to make sure. sure I'm reaching out to, well, I need that juice. I also need inspiration. And that's how I get it by pushing myself in certain ways, by coaching other people outside of a four walls type of place. So it's a real nice relationship. Yeah. And it probably gives you such like a full life to have both your career and then something that's more like passion related because you love the wilderness, right? Yeah, yeah. I love being outside.
Starting point is 00:21:48 Let's talk about that a bit. So when you were young, you decided, in your words, not mine, that you needed your butt kicked. And you went on a 90-day journey in the wilderness. So tell us about that story. What made you want to do that? What were you like as a young kid that you felt like you needed to have this journey to find yourself? Yeah, I was 19. And I had gone to university for two years. I wasn't doing well. I was going nowhere fast. I didn't have options for myself. I didn't have enough. self-love, quite frankly, and self-confidence in my own abilities. And I left after my sophomore year and I told my parents, I need to find the longest outward bound and I need to get my butt kicked. And I did. I found a 93-day course and it kicked my butt. It did. But it did so much more. I mean, it gave me confidence. It gave me physical strength, emotional strength. It taught me skills that I didn't know I even had inside of me. And ultimately, it created a servant leader out of me. And that is who I am today. So I'm so grateful that I knew enough. I really did. I knew enough
Starting point is 00:22:58 to say to my parents, I should not be going to school right now. This is not going to work out well for me. And that was a pivotal, pivotal turning point in my life. Yeah, it's interesting. I also dropped out of college for a short period of time and went back. I did it to work at a radio station and do all these fun things. But I think it's important for my listeners to know it's okay to take a pause from school. Like you do not need to do college in four years. Like you can still be successful and not do college in four years. And you might be more successful because you'll probably be more mature when you return, get better grades, whatever it is, and actually be ready for schooling. So definitely keep that in mind if you're in college. You don't need to
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Starting point is 00:28:08 of financial services. Yeah, so living authentically is super important to me. And in my early 20s, when I was at work or even into my early 30s, that was a part of me that I kept back, even though I was in San Francisco. So I mean like, hello, one of the most liberal cities in the world filled with all different types of people, I didn't get the signals at work that it was okay to share that part of me. And so I didn't, but I would after I left work. And I just recognized at some point as I became older and I became more experience in life
Starting point is 00:28:47 and more experience in the working world, like no one really cares. No one really cares. And if someone cares, then that's not the person I want to hang out with. So I found that the more and more I started to share my whole self, people really found inspiration and appreciation with that. And then, of course, when I came to Bainer Media, I was one of the oldest people here. That's the first thing.
Starting point is 00:29:15 And I was already at a place where I was like, well, I'm just me. So, hello. And being Chief Heart Officer, I mean, my whole mantra is creating a culture, belonging, and bravery, and making sure that people feel like they can bring their whole selves to work. So, well, I sure have to show up like that.
Starting point is 00:29:34 And it's just so wonderful to not have that monkey on your back. Whatever the monkey is, you know, like I oversee diversity and inclusivity. And by overseeing meaning like, it's my job. It is my responsibility at the end of the day and the beginning of the day to make sure that people feel physically and psychologically safe here and that there is a place for them. And that means whether or not it's race, ethnicity, religious, sexuality, seen and unseen handicaps, diversity of thinking.
Starting point is 00:30:06 Like that is what I'm doing and what I'm looking at every day. And I have to walk that walk. And I do it about it. It's not a second thought. I don't think twice about it and I haven't for years and years. So my recommendation is, remember, no one really cares. People are very consumed with themselves. And so just do you.
Starting point is 00:30:28 And in being you, you're going to lighten your load by 10, unfold and just be a happier person. Yeah, that's wonderful advice. I totally agree. Previously, you lightly mentioned these unseen disabilities, and I know that you struggled with dyslexia when you were growing up. You had to take the SATs three times, for example, and there's lots of famous people who have dyslexia too, like Tom Cruise, Richard Branson, who's the founder of Virgin Atlantic, but they credit dyslexia for their success. How is having dyslexia, you in areas like grit or empathy and understanding people and their problems. Yeah, I credit dyslexia for everything. I do because it forced me to learn the world in a different
Starting point is 00:31:15 way. Absolutely. I couldn't rely on the same skills that my brother could. I couldn't rely on the same way to learn as my friends could in school. I didn't retain information the way they did, and I certainly didn't take tests the way they did. So I had to learn how to find success in different ways. I had to learn confidence in different ways. And I found that, for example, being in the outdoors, I'm an experiential learner, so I have to get my hands dirty in order to learn something.
Starting point is 00:31:47 And I wouldn't be half as successful at this job, A, had I not have dyslexia, but B, had I not really done everything I have done in my life to understand people in human behavior, whether or not that was my own human behavior, whether or not that was working in a psych ward, whether or not that was volunteering at the hospital, whether or not that was teaching ropes courses for C-suite in Silicon Valley, you know, you name it. And my passion is people. I'm very curious about our behavior and the stories that we tell ourselves and our limiting beliefs. So all of that stuff goes into my toolkit every single day.
Starting point is 00:32:34 And again, had I not had to learn a different way of seeing the world, I wouldn't be here. And my secret sauce is that I'm able to identify patterns very quickly. And that helps my intuition that much more. That's very interesting. The thing that really stands out for me in this conversation is that your weaknesses can very often become your greatest strengths. And I see that time and time and time again when I have conversations with very successful people. It's often what you think might be a weakness. It turns out to be something that really helps you along the way. So very cool.
Starting point is 00:33:11 So I just want to pause and mention that I think it's really noble of you to talk about these invisible qualities. Nobody would know unless you made it public, both your sexual orientation and dyslexia. It's not something you could just tell about a person from the outside. So the fact that you're so open about it, I'm sure it has motivated and helped so many people overcome similar challenges. So you are a true role model and you should be very proud. Thank you very much. So let's switch topics a bit and talk about like company culture, onboarding, employee engagement and things like that. How do you guys typically onboard your employees at VaynerMedia?
Starting point is 00:33:48 I'm really proud of what we do. We take every single employee, whether or not you are the CFO or you are a copywriter or community manager, through a four-day orientation. And you sit with everyone. So we have new starters, we have new joiners every single week. And in New York, for example, we might have anything from 6 to 25 new people join. And you are all of a sudden put into community. and in these four days, you are getting our secret sauce. Subject matter experts from every different discipline
Starting point is 00:34:26 come in and talk to you for half an hour to an hour and tell you what we're about. And so you start to hear how we think about things. Why are we an entrepreneurial company? Where did we start? Why do we see media differently today? Why do we see marketing differently? Why do we have our own production studio?
Starting point is 00:34:46 What do we do in that production studio? And so you're starting to learn a good smattering of things that we do here. You get to meet not only your new cohort, but you get to meet these people that are coming in and talking to you. So all of a sudden you're like, oh, when I pass that person in the hall, great. I remember that person taught me about Facebook ads. And you have an association. And you go to lunch with new buddies every single day. And then the late afternoon, you sit with your new team, whatever that is.
Starting point is 00:35:18 If you're on the client service team, you go ahead and you sit with whatever account you're on, so forth and so on. And so it's really awesome, I believe, what we do here. It's four days, and I've been at many companies. Now, mind you, those companies were publicly owned. But I've been at many companies where you just watch a video from the CEO, and that's it. Goodbye. Yep. And you're like, I am, okay.
Starting point is 00:35:44 Here's your computer. Good luck. Yeah. I don't even know where the bathroom is. And this is just so different. I mean, they get an office tour. They go to our other offices. And so this happens in every office, whether or not you're in the Chattanooga office, the London office. It's soon going to happen in our Singapore office. So very, very stoked on that. And my team oversees that because it is about people and experience. And then we bring in these subject matter experts. And, you know, I'll spend a half an hour with them on culture. and what is a CHO and what do we do and why is it different and how you're going to work with me
Starting point is 00:36:18 and how you're going to work with the team and what do you do if you have a need and so forth and so on. Yeah, and then I'm assuming the people who are presenting about their departments, they're volunteers. Oh, yeah, absolutely. They're volunteers. And it's funny that you ask, I just sent a note out to the creative team today looking for new volunteers. Yeah, it just goes to show the culture because that money company is, you know, people would not, like, I don't have time for that. have time to speak to these new people. Yeah. And, you know, by the way, it's not utopia here. They
Starting point is 00:36:48 definitely go through those groans when I send something out like that. But I just remind them like, well, you started once upon a time. What would it have been like if no one showed up in that room for you? Yeah. You wouldn't have liked it. It's just that's more and more empathy again. Like, remember what it's like. Yeah. So what other activities do you organize for your employees? Do you have special activities for employee engagement that you coordinate? Yeah. So we have these community resource groups or sometimes are called affinity groups or ERGs. And those have been started organically and whether or not that is the Dungeons and Dragons group, whether or not that is the Amigos group that was set up by people that identify as Latinx and do Hispanic marketing.
Starting point is 00:37:28 There's a group for people that identify as black, for Asian, there's the pride group, of course, there's the running club, there's the sneakerheads club. So there are probably 80 different clubs We call them squads that you can join that are open to anyone and everyone. You don't have to just like Dungeons and Dragons. You can go check it out. You know what I mean? We do Wine Wednesdays. So of course, Gary started in the wine business.
Starting point is 00:37:53 So every office does its own version of Wine Wednesday. Obviously in L.A. or Chattanooga, you're driving. So we've modified that a bit. Different offices have mindfulness, meditation, yoga, Tai Chi, depending on, again, what the ask has been, you know, globally. We have a partnership with Class Pass. We use different meditation apps. So there's a lot.
Starting point is 00:38:18 There's a lot of trainings. We have lunch and learns from all of the platforms. We have people come in and help people understand their student loans and all that stuff. So we look at the holistic human being, quite frankly, and find ways in which we can aid and really reach out and touch those different parts of a human. because it's not just when you come in here at 9 and when you leave here at 6. I mean, life is more than the working day. Happy New Year, Yap, gang. I just love the unique energy of the new year.
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Starting point is 00:41:53 I actually was the president of the Young Employee Network when I worked at HP. I started my chapter and it was just so much fun and it gives you such great leadership skills. And it's definitely something that like if you want to be a leader, you're on the younger side. It's a great way to like get exposure with leaders at your company and also lead a group of people with similar interests. So I would definitely recommend getting involved. So how do you deal with an employee that is underperforming? How do you have those tough conversations? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:24 So the way we do it here is a couple different ways. So what we are really encouraging are managers and leaders to have very candid feedback meetings in their one-on-ones. and we use the radical candor steps, the Kim Scott book. I've just vanearized it a bit, but I've taught radical candor feedback training now to every single employee here, and now we're going through it again. And so what we're asking our managers and leaders to do is really find ways to give people professional, kind, very specific feedback frequently, not waiting three months, not waiting until their annual review, certainly as immediate as you possibly can, because people
Starting point is 00:43:10 are looking to develop. Now, if you've ever been in a scenario where you are going and terminating someone and they all of a sudden look at you and say, I've never received this feedback, well, you'll know that that's pretty much the worst thing ever. And I've been in those meetings. And so we never want to get to that place. So we're going to put people on performance plans when it's needed. 30-day performance plans with action steps and you check in on those people and there might come a day
Starting point is 00:43:39 where it's time to say goodbye because that happens, it's a business. And so that could be for poor performance, that could be for other reasons. And what we do on the back end, which I'm so proud of, is that because Gary's network is so vast and so far reaching,
Starting point is 00:43:55 as in those meetings, we know if we're letting go of someone named Sam and Sam happens to really, really, really love video or long-form video, we may already say to Sam in that meeting, you know what, we can get you at least your first interview at Netflix, or we can get you into ABC for your first networking opportunity. So the point of the story is we want people to stay here forever, right? That's just not going to happen. And so we do our best to give people feedback. We do our best to grow and develop them and to really get
Starting point is 00:44:30 them to the level at which we need them to be playing at. Sometimes it happens. Sometimes it doesn't. Got it. Another topic that you're very passionate about is diversity and inclusion. I think that everybody has a slightly different take on that. So what is your perspective on diversity, inclusion, and what are you doing at VaynerMedia to be more inclusive? Right. So my perspective is if you're not thinking about this, then I would shut your doors immediately. I want to get to a place where we're not even using the word diversity, it's just the way it is, which is we live in a macrocosm where there are all different types of people. We need to recreate that in the microcosm, which are organizations. And as I mentioned before, diversity for me in creating
Starting point is 00:45:18 a culture of belonging is the obvious diversity that we're talking about in terms of race, creed, ethnicity, so forth and so on. But that does bring in the scene and unseen hand. that means that we're looking for people that have values that are not exactly like ours. We want diverse thinking. So ERGs are very helpful. The way we recruit is essential. Where we recruit is essential. So not always going to the same school, not always hiring interns that are coming from recommendations because a lot of times that might be skewed. And so doing job fairs, we had an incredible job fair here where Gary, kicked it off. What we did was he spoke for 15 minutes and we had the one club come in and we made
Starting point is 00:46:07 three hires out of that immediately. And we had every single conference room was set up as a speed dating place and then that actual hiring manager ended up spending a half an hour or more with each and every candidate. So it was awesome. And we have to be doing that. We just must be doing it. If you are nebulous about what your diversity strategy is, then people will become agitated and, you know, you're not. And think that it's just you're just not paying attention to it. So the ERGs I was mentioning are really a big part of this right now. And we're just about to kick off some focus groups here in terms of looking at what we want to stand for from a global level now that we are in London four years, we're in Singapore now. How do we speak to diversity when you're talking about it on a
Starting point is 00:46:55 global level, not just New York City or not just Chattanooga? And it just goes way beyond the color of a person's skin. Just way, way beyond. It's about the way people think, and that's essential. Yeah. Do you think that millennials or Gen Z think differently about DNA? I do from the amount of time I spend with millennials and certainly my two nieces that are Gen Z. It's absolutely expected. I mean, in today's day and age, I think that millennials are people that probably don't see color as some of us see color or don't see difference as we see difference. Things are more fluid. And that's incredible. I mean, these generations that we're talking about are changing the world. You look at a tragedy like Parkland and you look at how those kids stood up to our government.
Starting point is 00:47:48 That is incredible. And of course, yes, in the 60s and you had that generation speaking out. So every generation stands for something. And I believe that the generations that are here today, are looking for purposeful work. They're looking for feedback and growth. They're looking for make me proud that I work here. And all of these things encompass making sure that we're bringing, as I said earlier, the macrocosm into the microcosm. You know, there is such a work life meld now. It's not separate. And so how do you look at that whole person? You have to acknowledge the fact that there is life before and after that eight, nine hour day and that people are getting engaged. Someone's mom is in the hospital.
Starting point is 00:48:34 Someone's cat died. Someone got married. Someone, you know, just ran the marathon. All of those things come into every single person's day when they open the door here. So a hot topic in HR is cognitive bias and like, you know, everybody's having cognitive bias training and things like that. Do you have any thoughts around that topic and is there anything you want to share? about how we should be aware of cognitive bias and what we should watch out for? The only thing I need to share is really the training is so essential.
Starting point is 00:49:06 We all need to be educated and to think that none of us are immune to bias or that I'm immune or you're immune is just really not true. So I think we need to bring more training in. I think it's something we need to do in our interview process as we look at candidates and do our best to see each and every person as equal because really there's no difference between me and you, quite frankly, I'm just older, you know? There's no difference between you and that person. I mean, he grew up in Connecticut and you grew up in Charlottesville.
Starting point is 00:49:37 So that's that part of being empathetic and understanding that we really are the same. We all have the same eggs and we all have the same pains and we all experience very similar joys. So being real about that and then being real with the fact. that we need more training. So what is one piece of advice that you would give to a millennial looking to succeed at work? Well, I have a few different pieces of advice. The first thing.
Starting point is 00:50:05 Give them all. Yeah, the first thing is to what I usually say is take up space, which means I don't be a wallflower. Do not just sit there and be the note taker unless that is your job or someone has asked you to take the notes and do something with them. Don't be a wallflower. That's the first thing. The second thing is ask as many questions and speak up because leaders today need to be listening a whole lot more and they'll listen if you speak up.
Starting point is 00:50:32 The other thing is don't be afraid and certainly don't think that you are dumb. Everyone is figuring things out. There is no one that is smarter than anyone else. I mean, there's this riddle which is who's the smartest person in the room? Everyone looks around. What is it me? Is he going to say me or her? The fact is the room is the smartest person in the room.
Starting point is 00:50:54 So it's all about learning from one another. And be open to that, ask questions, make sure that you're being heard. Add value, obviously. And if you don't know how to add value, ask. That's very good advice. I love that. Like be big, take up space. Don't be a fly on the wall.
Starting point is 00:51:13 A lot of the times, like especially if you're in a company where there's older workers, you might close off in certain situations or if you're in a certain meeting. that has like higher up executives. Well, you're there for a reason. So make sure that you bring your value to the table. So great advice. So, Cloud, this was a great conversation. Where can our listeners go to find out more about you and everything that you do? Yeah. Thank you so much. I post a lot on LinkedIn. I post a lot on Twitter and Instagram. And I get back to everyone that writes me. It might take me a little bit of time, but I appreciate people reaching out. So find me there.
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