Young and Profiting with Hala Taha - Darius Mirshahzadeh: The Core Value Equation | E177

Episode Date: July 4, 2022

How do you make the best decisions, maintain company culture as your business grows, and attract and retain incredible talent? Serial entrepreneur and best-selling author, Darius Mirshahzadeh believes... the answer lies in core values. By properly leveraging and implementing core values at your company, your teams will be speaking the same language, making good decisions, building an awesome culture, and scaling to incredible success. In this episode, Hala and Darius talk about Darius’s unique come-up story, how to build a core value-driven organization, Darius’s six core values, good core values vs bad core values, and the Scale M.A.P. Method. Topics Include: - Darius’s come-up story  - The entrepreneurial lessons he learned from his father  - How his dad’s passing shaped his purpose  - Experience working at the White House  - What triggered him to want to work for himself  - Launching Twin Capital Brokerage - Overcoming failure and pivoting - Building and growing business through partnerships  - Why he decided to step down as CEO of Money Source - On starting his brand, writing his book, and hosting a podcast  - Core values and what they mean  - How to build a core value-driven organization - Darius’s six core values  - Why use viral, sticky language? - A core value-driven organization vs one that has no core values  - Good vs bad core values  - Advice to begin to develop core values - The Scale M.A.P. Method - The Scale M.A.P Bootcamp  - Darius’s actionable advice  - Darius’s secret to profiting in life  - And other topics… Darius Mirshahzadeh is a high-growth CEO, serial entrepreneur, and culture-building mad scientist who was ranked #9 on Glassdoor’s list of Top CEOs of Small and Medium Companies in the US. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Core Value Equation, and the host of The Greatness Machine Podcast.  Darius has led organizations that have won numerous Stevie awards, been named “#3 Best Place to Work” by San Francisco Business Times, and have landed at #40 on the Inc. 500 list of fastest-growing companies.  Sponsored By: Open Door Capital - Go to investwithodc.com to learn more! Jordan Harbinger - Check out jordanharbinger.com/start for some episode recommendations Shopify - Go to shopify.com/profiting, for a FREE fourteen-day trial and get full access to Shopify’s entire suite of features Zapier - Try Zapier for free today at zapier.com/YAP First Person - Go to getfirstperson.com and use code YAP to get 15% off your first order Resources Mentioned: Darius’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Darius-Mirshahzadeh/e/B08BX5N3TD/  Darius’s Podcast, The Greatness Machine: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-greatness-machine/id1555334180   Darius’s Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Darius’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Darius’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/kingdarius Darius’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whoompdarius/ Connect with Young and Profiting: Hala’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/htaha/     Hala’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yapwithhala/     Hala’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/yapwithhala  Clubhouse: https://www.clubhouse.com/@halataha   Website: https://www.youngandprofiting.com/  Text Hala: https://youngandprofiting.co/TextHala or text “YAP” to 28046 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:39 Welcome to the show. I'm your host, Halla Taha, and on Young and Profiting podcast, we investigate a new topic each week and interview some of the brightest minds in the world. My goal is to turn their wisdom into actionable advice that you can use in your everyday life, no matter your age, profession or industry. There's no fluff on this podcast, and that's on purpose. I'm here to uncover value from my guests by doing the proper research and asking the right questions. If you're new to the show, we've chatted
Starting point is 00:01:10 with the likes of X FBI agents, real estate moguls, self-made billionaires, CEOs, and best-selling authors. Our subject matter ranges from enhanced and productivity, had to gain influence, the art of entrepreneurship, and more. If you're smart and like to continually improve yourself, hit the subscribe button, because you'll love it here at Young & Profiting Podcast. This week on YAP, we're chatting with Darius Mershazadeh. Darius is the best selling author of the Core Value Equation and the host of the Greatness Machine Podcast. He's also a high growth CEO
Starting point is 00:01:45 and serial entrepreneur who is ranked number nine on Glassdoor's list of top CEOs of small and medium companies in the US. Darius has successfully grown companies from zero to one thousand employees and nine figures in annual revenue. He's led organizations that have landed on the Inc. 500 list of fastest growing companies and that of one numerous Stevie Awards. Darious has been recognized by the New York Times and Inc. magazine and his business insights have been published in the Huffington Post, entrepreneur.com, fast company, and Forbes to name a few. In this episode, Darious and I yap about his fun and chock full of lessons come up story, and the troubles he got himself into in turning at the White House and as a young entrepreneur.
Starting point is 00:02:30 We hear all about his core value equation framework, including what a good, versus bad core value is, and how to make value sticky or viral within our own companies. We then dive deep into Darius' scale map methodology and we learn his tips for efficiency and productivity like the rule of one org chart. If you're an entrepreneur, employee, or just someone looking to level up in life, Darius dropped some serious business advice in this episode that you've got to hear. So turn up that volume and let's get started. Hey Darius, welcome to Young Improfiting Podcast. Hey, Darius, welcome to Young Inprofit Podcast.
Starting point is 00:03:06 Hey, how are you? Super hyped to be here. You're my good friend. Always happy to have my friends on the show. You are a serious serial entrepreneur. You have so much to say about the peaks and pitfalls of entrepreneurship. And I can't wait to get your core value insights and more information about your skill, map methodology.
Starting point is 00:03:24 So from my research, I found out that you've had an entrepreneurial spirit from the very beginning. Your dad was an immigrant from Iran. Literally the epitome of the American dream. He was an entrepreneur. He had many gas stations, real estate businesses. Did you always know you were gonna follow in his footsteps and become an entrepreneur?
Starting point is 00:03:43 You know, like half of me wanted to do that You know, half of me wanted to do that, and the other half of me wanted to become an actor and a comedian on Saturday Live. Like, if you had asked me when I was 18, I was like, actually, I wanted to be Howard Stern. And so, like, which is not ironic than now I love podcasting, but yeah, no. I was like business and enjoying experiences
Starting point is 00:04:04 with people were like my two things. So yeah, I always felt like an affinity towards, I love making money and I love selling. I was always like the kid that would win the candy selling competitions. I mean, crush those competitions. So for me, starting a business was not this far out idea. That was kind of a natural next step for sure. Yeah, and I think that's a lot different from a lot of the immigrants that grew up in America. not like this far out idea, that was kind of a natural next step for sure. Yeah, and I think that's a lot different
Starting point is 00:04:26 from a lot of the immigrants that grew up in America. A lot of their parents had regular jobs or were doctors or engineers and kind of were told to follow in that traditional path. And so your father, he taught you that you don't make the money selling the gas, you make the money selling the gas station. So talk to us about some of the entrepreneurial lessons that your father taught you that you don't make the money selling the gas, you make the money selling the gas station. So talk to us about some of the entrepreneurial lessons that your father taught you.
Starting point is 00:04:49 So my dad was old school born in 1939 in Esfahani, Iran. His father was a business person, was a really successful business person. He was kind of like 80-d, business guy. I mean, some of it was a victim of circumstances. There was a revolution in Iran. He moved here. He had to absorb his supporters family. Didn't have a great speaking of the language. Although he did get his MBA in the United States, he came here late in life. So for him, like, that's how he had to support his family. And again, he grew up around entrepreneurs. So for him to start gas stations and do real estate and stuff like that was not unusual. My mom was a social worker, which is the other end of the spectrum
Starting point is 00:05:27 who worked for the county, smart lady, social worker, father that's getting up and building his own businesses every day. When you see that, you're like, oh, that's an option. Like going to college, I mean, both my parents are their master's degrees, so going to college was not,
Starting point is 00:05:41 that was definitely an expectation as well. But I remember my dad would always say, like, I'm building these for you guys. And now I had to go to work in the gas station at a young age too. He was like, hey, you're 10? Great, you're going to work. So my summer vacations, and I grew up in an upper middle class, Southern California. So all my friends were like, going to summer camp and, you know, having fun and going to like the water parks and the magic mountain and
Starting point is 00:06:06 Six flags and stuff like that and I'm like legitimately putting on a Texco t-shirt Getting up and going to work at a gas station in the middle of nowhere because my dad's gas stations were kind of outside of LA And in a hundred degree heat Cleaning gas station bathrooms when I was 10. So it wasn't a very glamorous entrance in the world of business. It was like, oh, this is what running your own businesses, but it did teach us work ethic. And I think that's such a big part of being an entrepreneur is not being afraid to go work your ass off. And we didn't, we weren't. And we didn't. Yeah. So your dad clearly was a workaholic. And you say that it led to sort of his early death, right?
Starting point is 00:06:48 So when you were 22, he ended up passing away. He had cancer and that must have been super difficult for you at such a young age But it also kind of guided and shaped the way that you thought about the rest of your life and your purpose. Can you talk to us about that? My dad was like, you know, like, there was a huge cultural difference between me and I have a twin brother. So it was me, my twin brother and my dad. And I have a younger sister as well, but in Persian culture, like it's very patriarchal. And although my mom was American,
Starting point is 00:07:16 like my dad was straight up Persian. So he was like, the boys come with me. I toughen him up. The mom raises the daughter, that's just how it is. And that's how it kind of wasn't her family And so I was either working at the gas station or I was working around the house And so it wasn't like this like me and my dad throwing baseball in the backyard I don't think I threw one ball with my dad. It was always business and but yeah, he
Starting point is 00:07:39 Did not take care of himself and when I was 18 he got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and care of himself. And when I was 18, he got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. And by the time I was 20, 21, his MS, I got really bad. It turned into dementia. He loves cigarettes. My dad was like an avid smoker. He ended up getting diagnosed with lung cancer in my senior year of college. And so I saw this person who was a workaholic, who was all about business, who basically by the time I was old enough to maybe have a relationship because again, in that old school culture, you start to have a relationship with your dad like when you're a man. He was downward trending really quickly then.
Starting point is 00:08:15 And it was my 22nd birthday. My dad got diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and we didn't even tell him he had it because he had such bad dementia at that point. And he passed away in August of that same year. So, yeah, it was hard, you know, and there was mixed emotions. It was a pretty complicated relationship with my dad because of how I was describing our background together.
Starting point is 00:08:36 And some people were saying, my dad was my best friend. And I was like, yeah, not me and my dad. I respected him. He was a hard guy and he was hardcore. And so, to lose your dad at that young of an age as hard for anybody, but it just gave me an insight into life's short.
Starting point is 00:08:52 And I had lost my grandmother when I was 14. She was 62. My dad was 60 when he passed away. My mom was 48 when my dad passed away. She got diagnosed with cancer right after that. So by the time I was 22, I had lost my grandmother, my dad and my mom, like, was a survivor of cancer. And so I had said a really different perspective, which was, I don't
Starting point is 00:09:11 want to live a life that's that I just like go work my ass off in then 20 years, 30, 40 years from now I'm done. And it was, hey, how can I live a much more engaged life? And I didn't really understand that then. It wasn't until much later that I realized that that's why I kind of got into some of the things that we're going to talk about around values and purpose and how do you be living engaged life. But for me, that was less than taught at a young age, which is, hey, life short and you need to go and like make it happen and really make the most of your time because you're going to blink and it's going to be over with. Yeah, and we'll definitely get more into your purpose and all of your core values and things
Starting point is 00:09:47 later on to learn more about your philosophy on life, basically. Your later years in college, you ended up working at the White House. You worked as an intern for the Bill Clinton administration. You've got some amazing stories with this internship. It was right up your alley, considering you involved in student government. It should have been your dream job, I think. I could have imagined you taking that path all the way, but it turns out it taught you that you weren't cut out
Starting point is 00:10:13 for typical employment and it solidified for you that you would never again have a regular job. So I'd love to hear more about that experience. Yeah, so when I was in college, I had to work a lot. So again, my dad being kind of a hard-ass was like, yeah, I'm not paying for your college. You got to pay for your own college. And so I was always working and I was always again ambitious.
Starting point is 00:10:32 So I always had internships and I had a really good friend from student government in high school. Our name is Prida Shaw and she ended up, her sophomore year working for the Clinton administration. And I'm kind of like you. I'm like a networker. So I'm like, hey, I want to work for the Clinton administration. And I'm kind of like you, I'm like a networker, so I'm like, hey, I want to work at the White House. I literally like, those are conversations she and I had. And she said, well, all right, let's do it.
Starting point is 00:10:52 And so she had a friend that came into town in LA, we were on the sunset strip, and what happens at the White House, so that I didn't know the time, is a lot of the people that end up working there, they go and intern there, and then they actually take a pause from college and stay at the White House and become staff. And so this gentleman, I don't want to name his name because of what I'm about to say,
Starting point is 00:11:11 but he basically did that. And he comes to LA and we go to this place on the sunset strip, which I'm blanking on the name right now, but Dublin's, which was this famous Irish bar on the sunset strip. And we're in LA and it's a summer going to my senior year of college. And basically, we're there drinking and all these girls come in from where I go to school that were these like really pretty girls. And I'm like, hey, I wave them over
Starting point is 00:11:33 and I basically hook him up with these girls. And so I said, I'm talking him up. I say, I'll give Tim, give him your card. And so anyway, he's like, loves me. He's like, this guy's the best. And so at the end of the night, I said, hey, you him your card. And so anyway, he's like, loves me. He's like, this guy's the best. And so at the end of the night, I said, hey, you gotta get me a job at the White House.
Starting point is 00:11:49 And so he said, listen, you get your application, send it directly to me and I'll get you in. So I had good credentials beyond that, but I worked every angle I could get. I sent it directly to him. I get the acceptance letter from the White House, and I got accepted to be a intern in the office of presidential scheduling from the White House, and I got accepted to be a intern in the office of presidential scheduling
Starting point is 00:12:06 at the White House, summer 2000. So it was quite an honor, and it was interesting to get to be in the, you're in basically the business of running the world. Now, what I realized really quickly was, as an intern, total hierarchy exists in this thing. If your mom is the head of the DNC for the state of Washington, you get to work in the West Wing.
Starting point is 00:12:28 I never met so many people from Arkansas in my whole life, because President Clinton's from Arkansas, so there's all these people who are friends of the family working there. I never, I was in saves, like every one out of every two people. So there's all these people from Arkansas, their parents are connected in politics, and then there's me who has none of that. Arkansas, their parents are connected in politics, and then
Starting point is 00:12:45 there's me who has none of that. And I'm not getting any special treatment and I got some really crappy job. It's actually hilarious. Basically what people do is they send letters to the president of the United States to invite him or her to all their events. So like we get letters from like, little method is church and podunk nowhere is inviting the president to come to their annual barbecue.
Starting point is 00:13:07 Every single one of those requests gets a response. So I was in the office of presidential scheduling, so we had to respond to every single one of those letters. So we read them all, we got a, and then you got to write them. And this is also, this is 22 years ago, so we're in some dots-based system, like filling out these like fillable forms,
Starting point is 00:13:23 and then triple-proof reading it, because you can't have a typo in a letter from the White House and then it goes up to this machine that signs with his name with the pen essentially and goes out. And every now and again, you'll get invites to like from like a print in Africa. And those get escalated. So I'm in this department doing total admin work and I was like, there's got to be a better way than this. So my like business self's like, all right got to be a better way than this. So my like business
Starting point is 00:13:45 self's like, all right, how do I get out of this work? And I figured out that the interns have a president of the interns. And so I run for president of the interns. This is so like me. Like, I feel like we're so similar, but go ahead. And so the it's me versus, and by the way, there's two groups of people in this internship program, a ton of kids from Ivy leagues, Harvard, Yale, Princeton, and a ton of people from Arkansas and then me. And I go to UC and I'm like, I'm smart guy. I probably go to an Ivy League if I applied myself, but I didn't.
Starting point is 00:14:19 I went to UC Santa Barbara, which is like a party school. And I'm there. And it's me versus this nurse. And by the way, I'm graduating college. So I'm a lot of the people are younger than me. So I'm 22, most of the people that are probably 20. So I'm 22, I'm definitely way cooler than the kid I'm running against.
Starting point is 00:14:34 Who's this kid from Harvard? And I just crush him and win. And I become president of the interns. And this was something I'd realized when I was in high school because when I became president of my class and vice president of my school, I got to get out of everything because I was the liaison for the teachers.
Starting point is 00:14:47 And I'm like, oh, this is the way I do. You go become this like student leadership before the interns. And I ended up spending the whole summer putting on throwing parties for interns and social events and organizing them. And it was, it made a really boring job, a really fun job. The part though to answer your question, those as I realized, I was doing this admin work. This is my third internship that I had had. And I call my mom up and I go, mom, I had a realization.
Starting point is 00:15:13 So what's that? I said, I am never gonna have a job as long as I live. And I said, the only way I will ever have a job where I'm not the boss, and let's use the White House, for example, is if I was president of the United States. So it was this epiphany that like, I have to be the boss. And literally in this job in the White House, I said, I would never work for the White House again unless I was president of the United States.
Starting point is 00:15:33 Now I'm 22, you know, maybe I'd take an advice for a role now if they wanted me, but yeah, it was, it was a really eye-opening experience to be at this like top of the game best internship that you could have in the whole world and to say I don't wanna do this. I wanna work for myself, but yeah, it was a cool experience. But there was something else I kind of triggered you to wanna work for yourself. It was something that you did, you almost got fired,
Starting point is 00:15:54 Darius, so don't skip out on that part of the story. All right, look, while this is going on, my dad's sick at home, it was a complicated situation. I had chosen to do this, my dad's sick at home, There was a complicated situation. I had chosen to do this. My dad's sick at home. My family was not stoked that I was at this thing. By the way, they don't pay, maybe they changed now, but back then they don't pay you.
Starting point is 00:16:13 So I'm using like my money I had saved to go to Europe for graduating college. I'm using that to go live in DC and work for free for the White House. So I was already a little pissed off about that. And the one thing you get when you work at the White House, as an intern, is you get a picture with the president of the United States in front of the White House
Starting point is 00:16:29 on the steps of the South one. So it's like a picture that commemorates that you worked at the White House. And it's got to be in front of the White House. Well, they had some sort of staff picnic. And they're like, yeah, you're not doing the picture in front of the White House. What most people don't know is next to the White House
Starting point is 00:16:43 is a building called the Old Executive Office Building, which is actually where almost everyone that front of the White House. What most people don't know is next to the White House is a building called the Old Executive Office Building, which is actually where almost everyone that works for the White House works inside of this league office building. So like, we're going to do the picture in front of the steps of the OEOB, the Old Executive Office Building. I was like, fuck that! So I was pissed and I pulled up straight Jerry McGuire. I wrote this really long email that said, this is unfair. The White House is lucky to have us.
Starting point is 00:17:07 We're not lucky to have them. I demand that we either cancel a picture or they reschedule us in front of the White House. And I click send, I send it across to all the interns and it goes viral inside the White House to all senior staff and everything. So I get pulled aside and now they had heard that my dad was sick
Starting point is 00:17:26 and I think they were cutting me some slack and the sky sits me down. He's like a senior, senior, senior white house like staff member. This guy's like head of some, I think he was head of my department actually. It was the only time I ever met him. So he's head of presidential scheduling for the president of the United States schedule for the whole world. He's like, listen man, you don't know me. I heard what you did. Don't rock the boat. This is a president of the United States. What are you doing? And I held my ground for a second. And then I was like, look, I'm sorry, I apologize. And they basically let me off. And they did, they did not fire me. And I think honestly, the only reason I didn't get fired is because my father was so sick. But I was like, this is such bureaucratic bullshit.
Starting point is 00:18:01 And I ended up leaving a few days later. But yeah, it was, it was really eye opening. I was like, wow, this is such bureaucratic bullshit. And I ended up leaving a few days later, but yeah, it was really eye-opening. I was like, wow, this is like weird, that you would give this big thing to go work for free and not get the one thing you want and have no control over it. And it do all this admin work. And I was at this great opportunity, and yet all I saw that it wasn't a good fit for me.
Starting point is 00:18:21 And at that moment I sat down and I said, I am 100% unemployable. Like I can never have a job. And it was this thing where I was like, if I ever take a job, it'll be to figure out what they do to go do it for myself. And I was 100% convinced of it. And it never changed after that ever.
Starting point is 00:18:37 I love this story so much. And I know I keep saying I'm like relating so much to your story because when I was 22, I was also like president of the interns at a radio station. And also, I got fired. You didn't get fired, but I got fired for putting like a text message and sending a text message to my coworker that got went viral across the station.
Starting point is 00:18:56 And I got fired. You didn't, but we did the same thing when we were 22 because when you're 22 and you're feeling unfair and you're ambitious and driven like us, you kind of just go haywire sometimes and make mistakes. But hey, it taught you that you didn't belong in that kind of environment and that you wanted to actually work for yourself and not work for free and be treated unfairly. So there was some good lessons, I think, that you got out of that. Yeah, you know, also like this is 2000. So being 22, I mean, like, I'm going to go be an entrepreneur in the year 2000 was not normal. That was really rare, right?
Starting point is 00:19:30 And so it was a great lesson to learn, but it was very rare and it was a gift that led me to be able to then go and build. Yeah. And so speaking of that, you built your first business with your twin brother called Twin Capital Brokaryd. And by the time you're 25 years old, you built an Inc. 500 company and you were the 40th fastest growing company in the US. So that's crazy. Tell us about how you started that business with your brother.
Starting point is 00:19:56 I moved back home after my father passed away. We had this event promotion business at TANKT. It was the first business I ever had that lost $100,000, which is like that's a lot of money to lose when you're 22. But I lost that business. My brother was in the mortgage business. So I have a twin brother. I was always kind of like the student leader, Jack, and he was like the troublemaker, but we're twins. And when we were in senior in high school, he got a job at a mortgage company, and he realized he was like a savant at sales. I mean, he was like unbelievable.
Starting point is 00:20:26 And so when I was in college, he kind of was in college, but he was really in sales and he was selling mortgages. And by the time I was graduating college at 22, my brother was making six figures. He was like killing it. And so I was like, well, I could go get a job. I had a degree in economics and accounting and go do that while I figure out my business stuff.
Starting point is 00:20:46 I could just go sell loans. And so I got a job in mortgage, long story short, that didn't work out. I moved to San Francisco. He was down in LA and I pivoted a lot for 23 and 24, but I got back into mortgage and I started doing really, really well. And at 25, I decided to start my own company. I don't know if you remember, there's a supplement company called Twin Labs.
Starting point is 00:21:07 We were heard of that before. It rings as a battle slightly. It's a really popular supplement company. And I found out the guy named it after his twin children. So I was like, oh, I'm gonna name my company after I was being twins. So I named him Twin Capital Mortgage. Now, funny enough is I tried to get my brother
Starting point is 00:21:21 to come join me, but he was making like three times as much money as I was. So he said, why would I leave my job? I'm making like 30 grand a month and you're making 10. And I said, well, hey, listen, I hate your fiance. Number one, and number two, I'm going to make more money than you are. So if I, with a month, I make more money than you do in a month, you have to break up with your fiance
Starting point is 00:21:41 and move to San Francisco, be my business partner. And he's like, we're on. And that was in July or June or July of 2003. And by September, I made, I had a month, that was way bigger than his. And so literally, at the one week, he broke up with his fiance. She hates you. She knew I hated her.
Starting point is 00:21:59 So I was transparent. Within a week, he quit his job, broke up with his fiance, moved to San Francisco, became my business partner. It was amazing. Because my brother, he quit his job, broke up with his fiance, moved to San Francisco, and became my business partner. It was amazing, because my brother and I are kinda getting Yang. I mean, we're both good at sales, but he's unbelievable at sales, and I'm good enough.
Starting point is 00:22:14 I like to operate and build and be a visionary. But when he came, I mean, our business that first year, he came in November, it's when he got there, that year I think the business grossed $300,000. The next year we grossed almost $2 million, the year after that five, the year after that almost 10. And so this business grew 25% and three years. It was the 40 fastest growing company in the Inc 500 in 2007.
Starting point is 00:22:38 So it was an amazing run and I learned a couple things. I learned like find a partner that's going to compliment your skills and really go lean into scaling a business. And for us, it was the business has its own horror story because it was a subprime mortgage lender and it blew up in of seven. So I joke that when I went to the Inc 500 conference, it was in Chicago that year, I'm wearing a black tie and I joke that we were the status people in that conference because I literally was probably the 40th
Starting point is 00:23:05 fastest shrinking company in the United States. I went over that, I think 500 conference. Yeah, it sucked. The business ended up imploding because of subprime meltdown. We went from 150 employees. I grew that thing for myself to 150 employees in three years. And then within 90 days, I was back to 10 employees. Let's hold that thought and take a quick break
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Starting point is 00:26:51 but my business, the mortgage business got crushed. The number of people in the mortgage business that worked in the mortgage business in O6 was 400,000, it shrunk to 100,000 by 2011. Wow. So three quarters of the industry went away. I always said it was, it'd be kind of like, most people don't know this, but I said,
Starting point is 00:27:07 it would be like if I said, hey, Uber, Twitter, Meta, Google, they all got a business. That's what happened to that industry all at once. So it was brutal. I pivoted, like I pivoted for almost five years. I literally showed up to work for five years straight, 07 08 09 010 011, and literally did not get a paycheck. I just cut checks and went to work.
Starting point is 00:27:30 Now, I'd made a lot of money in the previous year, so we used that to survive, but most of it, we spent a lot of it and just trying to rebuild. And it just took a long time, and I was young. The minute I started the business in03, when I was 25, so by 07, I was 27, 28. So this all happened before I was 30 years old. And then I spent my late 20s and early 30s
Starting point is 00:27:53 rebuilding, like figuring out what was next. And I have a friend, Ryan LeVac, who owns a company called the Asmethed. He called me Tenacious D. He said, you just don't have any quitting you. And I was like, man, I wish I did, because that it was probably the most painful five years I've ever lived in business and I wouldn't do it over again if I had to do it I wouldn't
Starting point is 00:28:12 You're saying that you wish that you shut down that company earlier that you just Beating a dead horse basically for five years So no ball romicon says you need to pick the right space to be in, and that space was a dead space, and it was broken, and I just couldn't win in it. But I just didn't have any quit. So I kept fighting for it. I was standing on a broken foundation. So knowing what I know now, there was a lot of time in English spent, and there was opportunities
Starting point is 00:28:40 all around me that I was living in San Francisco. So what was happening in 10, 10, and 11 in San Francisco? Airbnb, Uber, you go down the list of all these amazing companies that were born then, and I'm over here like getting my teeth kicked in in this space that's just demolished. And so, was it the right thing to do? I don't know, hindsight's always 2020, but yeah, like the pain sucked. It just wasn't worth it. I had some amazing things happened to me during that time. I had my first child and I got married and I did live in a great city, but professionally I struggled so badly for so long that it just, it wasn't fun and it,
Starting point is 00:29:16 I think that there's an element of grit to win. Like in order to win, it doesn't always come easy and you have to have some thick skin and you have to be willing to overcome obstacles, but to a point, I was very depressed during that time frame and I just couldn't get out of my own way. I learned a lot about how do you how do you reengage to activate yourself if you get stuck. So I learned a lot about that and the big thing is you have to win a little bit you can't just lose constantly. But for us because the foundation of that industry was broken, it was a ton of false starts. It was like five false starts. I probably started seven different companies then, and I just couldn't get any traction. But eventually, you know, tenacious D worked. We had a really big win in
Starting point is 00:29:56 2011, and then our biggest win was after that in 2013, which is the business I just exited a year and a half ago. Yeah, so tell us about the money source. I want to understand how you ended up creating that business, how you grew it to a thousand employees, how you exited. I'd love to learn more about that. Yeah, so because I didn't have
Starting point is 00:30:15 enough capital and mortgage, you need to have capital to build your platforms because it's not like VC VC use capital to burn your runway to then get to your next round of capital mortgage. You need to capitalize get to your next round of capital. Mortgage, you need to capitalize the platform to go lend against it.
Starting point is 00:30:28 And so I didn't have enough to really do it competitively. So what I ended up doing was doing partnerships. So I did a partnership with this company called Pacific Union Financial in 2011, and we grew it from essentially nothing to about 75 million in revenue overnight. We had a not a perfect exit from it. We had to disagree with some of our partner there
Starting point is 00:30:48 and we ended up basically getting bought out, had a very short non-compete, took all that capital and went out to go buy a platform, raised 40 million bucks, and we couldn't find the platform we wanted. One of the platforms we were talking to to buy was this company called the Money Source, which was this really small little company in Long Island, New York.
Starting point is 00:31:05 30 employees, a couple million dollars net worth. There was a small little regional lender, and he said no to selling to us, this guy named Stavros, who ended up being my business partner, but he said, well, what if you wanted to do a partnership? I said, oh hell no, I just did a partnership, and I'm not doing another one. But after a while, we couldn't find what we wanted,
Starting point is 00:31:22 we'd go back to him and I said, hey, listen, through the 40 million bucks we raised it, I didn't call capital on it. I just went But after a while, we couldn't find what we wanted. We'd go back to him and I said, hey, listen, through the 40 million bucks we raised it, I didn't call capital on it. I just went and did a partnership, but I made it this like bulletproof partnership agreement so that what had happened in the previous deal wouldn't happen in this deal. And it was off to the races.
Starting point is 00:31:37 This business grew from, yeah, it was like a J-curve. Like we went 30 to 1000 employees in three years. And it's a complicated story, but essentially we crushed it. I mean, the business now is one of the largest lenders in the United States. It manages a hundred billion dollars of mortgages. It's a game changer in the mortgage industry. And we built that from the ground up. I mean, there was something there when we got there. They had their licensing and they were a small company. But there was a company that had grown from nothing to call it 30 employees in 17 years.
Starting point is 00:32:07 And then in three years, it went from 30 employees to a thousand. So that kind of shows you the difference of what happened when we all got together. Yeah. So question for you, you know, you've had many different entrepreneurial experiences. Would you say that you would have been as successful at the money source had you not had those other failures previously? I don't know, it's hard to say. I mean, obviously, you fell till you win, right?
Starting point is 00:32:30 You learn in the process and winning is a failure mitigation game, right? It's how do I reduce the failure to get to the win or reduce the speed or speed from fail to win, right? Yeah, I, we learned a lot. What I learned at the, the win before that, I took that blueprint from. What I learned at the the win before that, I took that blueprint from there and I brought it over to this next place. And there was a lot of pain to figure that out there.
Starting point is 00:32:52 So had I just gone straight there, I wouldn't have known what I knew. But yeah, I mean, look, you either grow or die, right? It's like there's no real middle. You either give up or you keep fighting. And for us, you know, I have no end of fighting me. For me, it's like, I, if I'm not getting what I want, I will obsess about it till I either figure it out or I figure out I don't want it. Right? I'm like, ah, that's what it's going to take for that to win. I'm not doing that. Like, I'll make
Starting point is 00:33:18 that decision, but I won't make the decision of like, oh, I didn't do well. Like, I guess I suck. Like that thought never crosses my mind. It's like, all right, I just don't know enough yet to win. So I gotta go figure it out. But yeah, we figured it out. And like I said, like, you don't build a hundred billion dollar mortgage platform with that literally from startup, like that startup, but from very small.
Starting point is 00:33:39 And by the way, we did a bootstrap. We didn't raise capital. So like, we would go, like once we got it big, I'd be on Wall Street, I'd be meeting with like, JP Morgan and Bank of America Merrill Lynch and all these investment bankers on Wall Street. And they're like, so, so, tell us about how, well, how did you guys raise the capital to do this?
Starting point is 00:33:56 I'm like, we made money. And they're like, how did you do that? I'm like, magic. I mean, what we did is I cannot give you one example of any mortgage company in the whole country that did it the way we did it. It was a cool ride. And one of the biggest tools I used
Starting point is 00:34:12 was building a world-class culture. Yeah. And I leaned into that. In that industry, it was lacking because of what had happened in 07 and 08. It was like a graveyard for culture. And I was all in on culture. So that was one of our secret weapons. It was how do you for culture, and I was all in on culture. So that was one of our secret weapons, was how do you leverage culture and scale systems
Starting point is 00:34:27 and do those best practices that are maybe in other industries are not in this industry. We brought them in and really leveraged that. And that's, this is a great segue to getting to core values and scale map. But before we do that, I was pretty surprised to learn that you stepped down as CEO of this company, especially given all of your leadership background and student government and all these other ventures that you had. It really surprised me that you decided to step down as CEO. What happened? What kind of impacted you to make that decision? I told my partners once I said, you'll never have to fire me. I'll quit way before. The minute I'm not happy, I'll quit. And so, you know, we grew this business to this like massive business.
Starting point is 00:35:08 I mean, the business won all these Stevie Awards for ABA Awards. I was ranked the number nine highest rate CEO in Americanangloser.com in this business. Right, so we had like list of accolades. Business was a private equity business. We ended up buying a bunch of companies. I checked all these boxes on my list
Starting point is 00:35:23 of things I wanted to accomplish as an entrepreneur. My first was I want to build a hundred million dollar company. And how do you want to know how big my company was when I made that goal? How big? It was two million dollars in revenue. And I was like, I'm going to build a hundred million dollar company. And that was in 2010 when I was like failing in my previous company. And I'm like, I'm going to build a hundred million dollar company.
Starting point is 00:35:42 And it took me five years until that happened. So I checked all these boxes that I thought were these like, I'm going to build a $100 million company. And it took me five years until that happened. So I checked all these boxes that I thought were these like, I climbed this mountain that I was like, I'm going to go build a set nine figure company. And I'm going to win all these awards. And I'm going to get written up and entrepreneur. And all these things I thought that mattered. And then I did it all.
Starting point is 00:35:57 And I'm like, eh, it doesn't feel any different. And something happened in that we ended up selling one of the businesses because 2017 and 2018 were really hard years for the mortgage industry kind of like 2022 This is a hard year for the industry right now too and I ended up selling a business and it was in December that year I ended up basically Moving 300 employees to a new company and laying off another 150 and it was the seventh time I had done layoffs because that industry super cyclical. It's really cyclical. You have interest rates will drop 2% and that's why we staffed up so much. And what I didn't tell you is I went to a thousand and then in 2017
Starting point is 00:36:33 when Donald Trump got elected rates went up and we ended up laying off 400 of those people. And then I ended up over three rounds of layoffs and I had done some layoffs before that because the industry so volatile that we're always having to lay off, and I had done some layoffs before that because the industry's so volatile that we're always having to lay off, grow layoff, grow layoff, that's totally normal in mortgage. And I had this epiphany, and I was like, I don't think my core values are aligned with this industry. I'm a person that pours into people
Starting point is 00:36:57 and pours into leaders and goes out of my way, I'll recruit someone for three years to get him to leave to come join me. And here I am, like two years later saying, oh, sorry, I didn't work out. And I was sitting in my way, I'll recruit someone for three years to get him to leave to come join me. And here I am like two years later saying, oh, sorry, I didn't work out. And I was sitting in my car and I had just done this massive layoff sale thing. It was not like a sale where you make a lot of money.
Starting point is 00:37:14 It's like you sell it because you're trying to get people soft landing. And I'm sitting in my car, it's January 9th. This just happened on January 8th. I ruined yet another Christmas dealing with bullshit. And my family is like in some art store. And I'm in my car and I'm just sitting there and all of a sudden I'm telling you, there was no cognitive thing that happened.
Starting point is 00:37:32 This was a, came from my body. I'm a somatic intuitive, like my body talks to me. And I literally threw up the words. I'm an acquit. And I was 40. I just turned 40. And I was like, whoa. Like first I said that and then I was like, whoa, what was 40, I just turned 40, and I was like, whoa, like first I said that, and then I was like, whoa, what the fuck did I just say?
Starting point is 00:37:49 And I was like in shock, and my wife came back into the car and I was like, I think I'm my quit. She's like, are you serious? And I'm like, I'm gonna give it a year. You know, I'm like, I'm not gonna be impulsive about this. Like, I can't even believe I just said this. I'm gonna give it a year. And it was like, God just grabbed me and threw me off the cliff. God was like, you know, get a year, buddy. And by
Starting point is 00:38:09 November, it was, that was about 11 months later. And what year was this? 2019. By November, I was like, I can't do it anymore. I was like, I was a wreck. I hated it every moment. I had nothing to do with even the company at that point. It was just like me being in the space. Like, I don't know, it was like out of body experience. And I just went to New York and I went with my business partner and I said, I called my other business partners. One of my brother, I told him I'm done. And I flew to New York and told my business partner
Starting point is 00:38:37 and like, yeah, like my company had like a funeral for me. Like I did not stay. I left and I was done. Wow. So I stayed on the board. I mean, you know, this is a big company. So I was on the board. I was a board of directors for 70 months. Well, you figured out my exit. But yeah. And you had no plan, right? Like you quit with zero plan. How did you then decide to
Starting point is 00:38:58 pick up the pieces, start your own personal brand, start a podcast, launch a book, all those things. What made you decide to go that path. During 2019, my one respite from obsessing about whether I wanted to stay or leave when I wrote my book. So I was writing the book for fun. So I wrote my book, The Corvalli equation, which is all about how do you build a Corvalli driven organization. But I was like this project that was pouring myself into kind of side project. It was just for fun. I'd wanted to start a podcast. These are all things that like, I'm a super creative person.
Starting point is 00:39:27 So for me, like, but I was not being able to be creative because I was doing, I was running my companies. There was no plan for any of that stuff. November 13th, 2019, I resigned. I went to Asia with a CEO for a mind for Christmas and New Year's. And I was buzzed on Belgium beers in Ho Chi Minh City, Saigon, Vietnam, and I told my wife, I'm like, let's go travel the world for a year. And that was like January 7th, 2020. And I was like, let's go move to Spain.
Starting point is 00:39:56 Fuck it, let's take a year off. Like, we've always wanted to do that. I wanted, my goal was always like sell my first company by 30 and go travel the world. And that clearly didn't happen because it went up into my previous business. At that point, it was like a six and a 10 year old and I'm like, yeah, it's gonna travel. It's gonna go fun. I'll go figure out what's next. And so March of 2020, I had a trip plan to go to Barcelona
Starting point is 00:40:16 to go look at schools and houses and then COVID hit. In the world? Is the world that? Yeah, that might take sabbatical trip around the world, trip blew up. It went away. And so there I was kind of stuck in my house, like everybody else kind of sheltering in place, trying to figure out what the hell I want to do with myself. And I was like, well, I wrote this book.
Starting point is 00:40:40 My book was done at this point. I'm like, I wrote this book. Maybe I should go do something with it. You know, I just took that entrepreneur hustle and I ported into the book and started the podcast. And that's where I spent almost of 2020 was doing that. And the personal brand was just kind of by accident. I love that. I love this story and kind of the lead up to everything. So let's talk about the core value equation. You help companies determine their core values. First of all, how did you first get introduced to core values?
Starting point is 00:41:08 And what do they mean? Yes. So in 06, when I was running my first company, I was getting my teeth kicked in. I had about 40, 50 employees. I was really young. And back then, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, there was way less resources for entrepreneurs. Way, way, way less. Like now, everyone's an entrepreneur.
Starting point is 00:41:27 You know what people are like, what do you do? I'm an entrepreneur. No way, okay. Do you make money? They're like, oh, not yet. And I'm like, okay, sure. So back then, nobody was an entrepreneur.
Starting point is 00:41:35 There was no resources, especially a young entrepreneur. There was very minimal resources. I mean, this is pre-Twitter, and Facebook was barely being used at this point. This is my space times. So just to put it in a context. And so I found this program called Broding a Giants at MIT, which was put on by a guy named
Starting point is 00:41:54 Vern Harnish who has this business called scaling up. And I got it in the program and I was introduced to core values. And I don't know what it was. Maybe going back to this thing with my dad, but how do you live and engage life? Values is a big part of that.
Starting point is 00:42:08 And it just resonated with me. And your three at graduation, we did this exercise where these two founders who had this really successful company in Vancouver called Nurse Nextor, they said, please stand up if you're company has core values. So, which graduation night of birthing
Starting point is 00:42:23 and giants at MIT and everyone stands up, and they say, please stay standing if you know're company has core values. So, with graduation night of birthing and giants at MIT, and everyone stands up, and they say, please stay standing if you know your company core values and come say I'm off the top of your head. Everyone sits down. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I have to be half the room sits down. Then they say, please stay standing if your employees know your core values.
Starting point is 00:42:36 Half the room sits down. They say, please stay standing if your customers know your core values. Everyone sits down. And I'm looking in this room, a 60 entrepreneurs, I mean, some of them like Kendra Scott graduated from this program. I don't know if you know she is,
Starting point is 00:42:47 but she's a famous entrepreneur. So there's a lot of entrepreneurs, like the guys that did like one-hander flowers and rack space. I mean, there's tons of amazing entrepreneurs that go through this program. And they're all sitting down. And I'm like, well, we're all the CEOs. Like, what do you mean we're all sitting down?
Starting point is 00:43:00 Like, that doesn't make any sense. And that was the pivotal moment for me. I realized that like, they say you have to have mission, mission, values for your business, but nobody really knows how to do that. And I spent the next few years kind of obsessing and that what I realized was that building a core value or core purpose-driven organization,
Starting point is 00:43:18 most people just think it's like a box you check. Like it's when you get your, like a thing you do through your MBA program. And my take is, yes, you have to figure out what's meaningful for you and you got to check that box, but you have to design it to be viral and sticking in your organization. During those five years of me getting my ass kicked in business, I spent a lot of time experimenting. And I figured out how do you design values and purpose and mission? How do you have to design it so people can actually use it. And the book is really
Starting point is 00:43:45 a step-by-step manual on how do you build a core value driven organization? Because my belief is that core values of the opportunity to be the language of accountability for your organization. And when it does that, it starts to attract people of like mine and like belief. And again, values are the fundamental beliefs of an organization, the personality of the organization. So, if I could get a bunch of people to show up, who believe what I believe, who talk the way I talk about these beliefs, that I have a much higher likeness of them doing things like working the way I work and carrying the way I care,
Starting point is 00:44:13 all these like soft skills that are so meaningful to execute properly, but people don't know how to do it. So the book is really a step-by-step process and how I learn to do it and how I teach people to do it. Let's hold that thought and take a quick break with our sponsors. Hear that sound, young and profitors? You should know that sound by now, but in case you don't, that's the sound of another sale on Shopify.
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Starting point is 00:50:51 profiting. That's masterclass.com slash profiting for 15% off an annual membership. Masterclass.com slash profiting. I find it super, super interesting. So for me, when I had a company of 10 people, it was super easy to run. You know everybody, you get to hand train them.
Starting point is 00:51:10 But now we're a company of 60 employees at YAP Media and we need things like this, designing a mission, designing core values because I don't even know everybody who works at my company anymore and that's why you need that structure. So I find this super valuable. So one of the quotes in your book that you say is that companies do not have core values.
Starting point is 00:51:29 People have core values. Can you explain what you mean by that? So core values of the opportunity again to become the personality or the language of accountability for the organization. It's not like it's like this thing until it becomes a thing, it's not a thing, right? So what ends up happening is a company like, like Yap Media, you have 60 people and they all have their own individual values. If you don't define what Yap Media stands for and then hold people accountable to it and
Starting point is 00:51:52 create a system where that can scale, what ends up happening is you end up getting this hodgepodge of values. Their values will show up in their actions consistently. Once we pay homage to the fact that, hey, look, if the company doesn't have them, you're going to get what's there just by default because individuals have their own values. My belief is, is like, they still have them, even if you define what you are and screen for them
Starting point is 00:52:14 and make them come to life, but what they do instead is they attach their values to your values. So in core value equation, we say, core values, you need to discover what's authentic to you, discovering your values, you need to design them to be viral and sticky, then you need to roll them out so you need to teach people what they are and doctrinate them into them, and then you need to implement them ongoing, and then you need to measure for efficacy and do that consistently.
Starting point is 00:52:37 And so the process, the book really teaches how do you do that so that when I get that individual that shows up that has their individual values, that they figure out how do they leverage their individual values and we do that as part of the rollout, how do you leverage your individual values to make the company values become more alive and well? And the answer is this, it has to happen organically, but you have to have a process to create that organic interaction, which is essentially what I figured out. Is you got to make it easy? You got to make it organic.
Starting point is 00:53:02 It takes time. Again, you don't learn a language organic, it takes time. Again, you don't learn a language overnight, so it takes time, but you have to create those opportunities and it has to be easy. Really, the book, Corvalue Quarantine walks you through, how do you do that step by step? You have your own Corvalues, you have six of them. Can you talk about what each of them are and what they represent? I ended up in 2019. I ended up getting into this program called Stagen,
Starting point is 00:53:27 which is Conscious Leadership Program. They were a program called Intergal Leadership. And like in my class was the CEO of Whole Foods, Jason and I were in the same class and the CEO Doug who was a former CEO of Crane Barrel. So there's some big shots and there's only 20 of us in the class. It's a one year long program.
Starting point is 00:53:44 And we're in the program and this happened by the way, this is February of 19, a month after I said I'm going to quit my job. And we're doing our personal values. And I realized I'm like the core value king, right? I'm starting my, I'm literally that same month writing my book on core values. And I realized I had not done my personal values, which is super weird. I wrote them very quickly because I, it was easy for me because I had experience with it. But yeah, my values, I have six values. I always tell people you get out of five. I couldn't just land on five.
Starting point is 00:54:10 I gave myself six. And so number one's happiness, called heart. So I like to like think of sticky viral language to describe a value. And there's a description of what that looks like for me and for my family. Love is my second one and that is bestos, which is kisses and Spanish. I have the tiger, it's passion. Love is my second one, and that is Bessos, which is Kisses in Spanish.
Starting point is 00:54:25 I have the Tiger, it's Passion, that's my third one. My fourth one is Curiosity, I call it Cinco, which stands for What, Where, Who, and Why. Creativity is number five, and I call that Boom, and my sixth one is Balance, and I call that Movie Night. Yeah, it's just, I always measure myself against them. Again, like, you know when you're going against your values because that's when friction starts to get created, whether in your organization
Starting point is 00:54:50 or in your life. And for me, I'm always I always have my eye out. Like, what am I not living right now that I know I want to live? And I always tell people, core values have to be slightly aspirational. For me, my values that are aspirational are as balanced, like that's hard. And happiness, like, I fight to be happy, I fight for balance. The other ones are a little bit easier, like I'm naturally curious, I'm pretty passionate person, curiosity, again, natural creativity, natural, but happiness and balance, I fight for those a lot. Yeah, I like that you kind of give everything a catchy secondary name so that it's super
Starting point is 00:55:23 memorable. And I think this is super important for organizations because when it comes to building a community, having a common language and things that you guys only know about is really important for bonding. So tell us about why you say that you need that like sticky version of the core value as well. Again, if you believe that core values
Starting point is 00:55:40 the language of accountability, then the language matters. Words matter. Like literally like empires have grown and fallen because of words. I'm reading a book with my son and we're reading actually about the history of the world and we're on the chapter about Islam right now. And you realize that Muhammad basically built an entire empire, the Islamic empire, off of just words.
Starting point is 00:56:01 Like he went on and talked about Allah, right? And I created this entire empire that got all the different tribes to come together. So words are so powerful. That's just one example. There's been empires built on words. Like you look at the United States of America, built on the words of our founding fathers, right? So why would you not pick viral sticky language that stands for what you stand for? Or you could be like everyone else and pick boring words like integrity. It's like, well and pick boring words like integrity. It's like, well, yeah, everyone has integrity
Starting point is 00:56:26 in their core values or driven or, you know, excellence. It's like, well, what's the difference between yaps excellence and the guy down the street? And I'm like, how about just say it a different way? It makes it where it sticks in people's minds. There's a reason people do it in branding and there's a reason I think you should do it in core values, which is like, if it's going to be language of accountability,
Starting point is 00:56:46 let's give them some language to work with. And I love viral sticky language. Yeah, I love that tip. So talk to us about what a core value driven organization looks like versus one that has no core values. Well, again, going back to what you're questioning before is like, people of core values companies don't, unless you create them in your company. So what ends up happening is, if you don't have a core value driven organization, all that is is
Starting point is 00:57:09 me defining what I stand for and holding the organization accountable to it consistently and making it drip throughout the organization. So what does that mean? Does that mean that you're always living those values? No, it means you're always trying to live those values and when you fall off, you fix. So you get back to center, the core, right? A non-core value driven organization is someone that just shows up and does what I call BAU, business as usual. You get what you get. Oh, hey, Johnny over there has shitty work ethic,
Starting point is 00:57:33 but Sally over here has great work ethic. There's a value misalignment, by the way. You think that doesn't create friction? Your team will manage themselves to the lowest common denominator. So if you let losers hang out in your company, no offense losers, but everyone else is gonna be like, well, I guess how long let's losers hang out here,
Starting point is 00:57:48 so I don't have to try as hard. Like they put up with bullshit. And so my belief is, is like, if you have a, let's say your values around work ethic or excellence, but you let mediocrity hang out, well, do you think you're gonna really have excellence happen? The answer is absolutely not. You're gonna have mediocrity.
Starting point is 00:58:04 You have pockets of excellence that happen accidentally or you could do it my way and be super intentional and hold everyone accountable and the organizational accountable to this idea of excellence. And when someone shows up and they can't measure up to that, they get to leave. And what happens then is you have accountability
Starting point is 00:58:20 around those values and the people that love those values they'll be like, hell's yeah, I'm in the right place. And the people that don't are gonna be like, hell's no, I wanna get out of here because they're gonna find out that I don't like this. And it's not to say they're bad people, it's just not the right environment for them. So that's how I characterize it at least.
Starting point is 00:58:39 Yeah, I think those are great tips. So there's some mistakes and some common mistakes that people make when it comes to their core values. First of all, they make them too wordy. They're not simple enough, they're too complex. And sometimes they're too nice. So I'd love to get your feedback in terms of what good core value sound like
Starting point is 00:58:55 versus bad ones. Your organization has a way you guys speak. And there's tough, gritty organizations and there's really like buttoned up pretty organizations. And then there's like a middle ground hippie organizations. Like everyone's, your values are the personality organization. So there's different personalities, just like there's different personalities with people.
Starting point is 00:59:12 So a bad value is one that's not authentic. IE, you say I value showing up for the team and yet you don't and you're the CEO. That's problem. And then my book, I say the minute the CEO doesn't live the values, you just put a bullet in the head of the values. So bad values are ones that aren't true. They're ones that are not authentic. Because again, there's five steps to creating core value driven organization. Discover, design, roll out, implement, measure for efficacy. If you discover and you are trying to please
Starting point is 00:59:40 an imaginary people, clients, team members, that probably aren't gonna be there in the future anyway, because you're out of alignment with your values, then you may pick values that are not authentic to who you are. So I see people do all the time where they'll pick really like warm and fuzzy values, but they're not a warm and fuzzy organization. That's a bad value.
Starting point is 00:59:57 Just say that you don't put up a bullshit. The people like Travis Kalanick, I just finished watching the show, Super Pumped. Dude, that guy, one of their core values was called toe stepping. That was core value number seven for Uber. Toe stepping. Does that connotate like niceness? Hell no, that connotates fucking people up if they don't live your value.
Starting point is 01:00:18 Toe stepping, stepping on someone's toes. Have you had someone step on your toes, Hala? Yeah. Yeah, it hurts a lot. Toast stepping is the number seven value. Well, he ended up creating a toxic culture because of it. But he created something amazing too. It scaled till it didn't there.
Starting point is 01:00:34 So that's a bad value from a design standpoint. And that's actually a perfect example that core values don't need to be nice. Hey, man, if you're a toast stepping organization to say what you are, here's what happens if you don't. Sally, the flower loving hippie shows up, and she sees Travis toe-stepping on Johnny, and she's like, whoa, where do I work? And that's a misalignment. Whereas Bobby, who's a badass, likes to toe-stepping, he's like, oh, cool, we toe-stepping here. No friction. And what I say is, you know, and I do a lot of coaching now and advising with companies,
Starting point is 01:01:05 as I say, for scale specifically, I say, look, scale is a friction removal process. You want to scale fast, remove friction from your business. The way you remove friction is by eliminating problems before they become problems. And what we're talking about right now, core of value is alignment is one of the worst problems you can have in your business. That's where you get infighting and politics and drama and all that bullshit. And I don't want any of that stuff. That's just slowing you down from winning. And so, scale is a friction removal process and it starts with values being aligned properly. Okay. So, here is some advice that I'd love you to give. So, let's say you're a company
Starting point is 01:01:38 like mine. My company like blew up so fast. What advice would you give in terms of the executives at my organization or any new startup to begin to develop their core values? Like what are the first things that we should do to kind of brainstorm and hit the drawing board for our core values? Well, I go step by step through my book. So you need to do the discovery process, which is there's so many different values you can stand for.
Starting point is 01:02:01 So you need to really pick what are the top, you know, three to six, I say, four is the good, I like four to five. This is a good sweet spot. And there's a book called Built to Last by Jerry Poris and Jim Collins. And in that book, they went and studied visionary companies. And they found out one thing. Visionary companies stand for no more than seven and no less than three values. So, and this is studying some of the most iconic companies the last century. So for me, it's, let's pick studying some of the most iconic companies in the last century. So, for me, let's pick the out of that hundred, in my book, we give a list of 105 words that you can, in the book.
Starting point is 01:02:31 If you pick up the book, it's in there. And I highly recommend it, and we'll put it in the show notes. Yeah, so it's in there, there's a guide for this. So we have a guide that we give when you buy the book. And so you just eliminate those 105 words, and you pick your top 15, and you rank them in order,
Starting point is 01:02:43 because values have a hierarchy. So you wanna put them in order order that now you've discovered what are your top five values? What matters most to you? From there, you have to go through a design process, which is making them viral sticky and making them, I have some tests I put them through. Do they stand the test of time? Is there any negativity in there? Do you have product, remove product? So I have a laundry list of checks and balances,
Starting point is 01:03:06 but they have to be designed to be able to scale as you scale. In order to do that, they need to be designed so that they can become viral and sticky. So you go through that process, and then you got to bring them to the team and teach the team so that they learn what they are and create systems for that in the business. And in the book, I talk through stuff
Starting point is 01:03:22 by stuff, how do you do to all those things? Yeah, and I can't wait to take my team through this exercise and super excited about it. So you're known for two things, core values, which we just covered in a lot of detail, as well as scaling businesses. So you have this methodology, the scale map method, map stands for mission, accountability, and performance. So could you go over map and your scale map method and what each section is?
Starting point is 01:03:46 And I can kind of just ask you a few questions about each area. Yeah, there's a word in Japanese called Shibui. Have you heard of this word before? No. Okay, so Shibui means that there is complexity and simplicity. There's complexity and simplicity. So even with the core value equation,
Starting point is 01:04:05 it's around creating something that's simple. I make chronic, come, person that makes things complex. So I have to simplify it or I'll never do anything. And the core value equation is all around, how do you simplify the process to make it work? When I left my business and COVID hit, I was sitting on the sidelines and did my book launch, and then when I came out of that,
Starting point is 01:04:24 I got asked to advise some entrepreneurs on scale, because I was always on the sidelines and did my book launch, and then when I came out of that, I got asked to advise some entrepreneurs on scale because I was always the scale guy. Like, how do you grow your company fast and having grown a company that quick? The first leg of that growth was 30 to 300 employees in 18 months. The next leg, which is crazy, that's a 10X, right? And by the way, when I did that,
Starting point is 01:04:40 we had off the chart record engagement scores and like zero growing pains. And then we went from 300 to 1000. And so this is all around scale methodology. So the other thing I learned and got to play with it during this time was these different scale systems. And I learned something really simple is that you need to have scale systems
Starting point is 01:04:58 to complement your cultural systems. And I always tell people scales about three things. You need to have execution systems, strategic systems and cultural systems. And they need to talk to each other and they need to be simple. And so scale map was really born out of me starting to help other CEOs grow their companies. And right now we have scale map method. We coach right now, gosh, almost 30 different companies. And we teach them the process and really comes down to three things. And scale map itself is the execution side of this.
Starting point is 01:05:25 What is the execution asset that I built in the business? And there's three parts, mission, which is where are you trying to go? And we want to look at that in three different increments, 10 year, three year, one year. And when I would say, what's going to happen in the next 12 months, month by month? What's going to happen in the next three years?
Starting point is 01:05:40 And Len, I just want you to lean into the future and have some faith. And where do you think you take the thing in 10 years? For some people, I say, I want to sell before them. I go, fine, five years. Once I define where I'm trying to go, and I want to look at that in a few areas, revenue, income, staff size, ethics.
Starting point is 01:05:53 Am I building a business that's sustainable? Revenue and income will tell me that. How many people do I need to get them there? And I want to look at that again, 10, 3, and 1 year, and then ethics. Am I creating any future liabilities for myself? Subprime mortgage lending, I created future liabilities for myself, my first business. So I learned you have to be cognizant of that.
Starting point is 01:06:10 Then what we do is we create accountability systems around that. And that comes in meeting structure. So we teach admission, we teach how do you build quarterly plans? And so this is what I teach CEOs. How do you have simple systems to do this consistently? A is accountability. If I build a quarterly plan and I have my mission to where I'm trying to take the business to,
Starting point is 01:06:27 and again, what do I do with that? My team knows what they need to work on, where they understand the priorities, I understand it, it's mapped out, I have a plan to work with. Well, a plan is good as the paper it's written on if you don't have accountability around that plan. And so, A stands for accountability, and we do that in two different ways.
Starting point is 01:06:44 Number one is what we call rule of one or chart, which is who owns what defining who owns what in the business. I don't want overlap laughing responsibilities. I want people to understand who owns what in the business. I want to spell that out and document it. And I want that to be a strategic tool for growth. IE, if I map out your entire organization, what are the top two hires you want to make in the next 12 months? Strategic hires. What are the top two hires you want to make in the next 12 months? Strategic hires. What are the top two hires you want to make in the next three years? Strategic hires. The people you bring into your organization in the next year and three years
Starting point is 01:07:16 leadership-wise are going to define where you go in that time period. But I want to map that up so there's clarity. The next thing I want to do is I want to build a meeting cadence and when I tell people is accountability comes through cadence, cadence comes through rhythm and it's the heartbeat of execution in your company. And we do that through a meeting cadence. And what I tell people is accountability comes through cadence, cadence comes through rhythm, and it's the heartbeat of execution in your company. And we do that through a meeting structure, we call it 1590 meeting rule and 30 every 30, which is your team meetings, your one on ones. All right, you got mission, you got accountability.
Starting point is 01:07:38 Well, what's going to happen is how long you're going to start to get performance metrics. Data is going to come out of the business. Well, what do you do with that data? And so, P stands for performance, and that's looking at the data that comes out of the business. And we do that in three areas. One's a call to five question poll survey, which is me understanding my customer experience
Starting point is 01:07:55 and my team experience. The second is we call three by three KPIs, which is how do you build KPIs that, again, going back to what I said 15 minutes ago, scale is a friction removal process. I want data to tell me what's breaking before it's going to break. So we have a whole system around that. And then last but not least, it's called C3PNL, which is how do you look at financials so they tell the story of growth. And so it's a really simplistic going back to this idea of Shabuwi. Is there complexity and simplicity? I want to really focus on the
Starting point is 01:08:22 20% that's going to move the needle. and I want to get everyone aligned around that and then sit that on top of a cultural asset known as my values. And when you do that, and you grow like crazy. Yeah, I love some of these ideas I've never heard before and I love them so much like rule of one org charts, the fact that everybody knows exactly what they're supposed to do. One person is assigned to one specific task. There's no confusion. That is so important when you're trying to scale a team.
Starting point is 01:08:48 And I love building the org charts for the future because that really helps you understand like how to budget, what hires you need to make, who's going to come into your company and really help scale things. And then your rules around meetings are super cool. So I'd love to kind of get a little bit more detail about that. So you have the 1590 meeting rule
Starting point is 01:09:04 and you also have 30 every 30 rules. So let's hear about those two rules regarding meetings. First of all, most people think meetings suck and they usually do. And so if you have bad meetings, then that means you have bad execution. So if you have ineffective meetings in your business, and we have, we use a tool that we teach in Scum Out called the meeting autopsy, which is you just like kind of doing autopsy of what your meeting is like, and how good are they? And usually people have one or two issues.
Starting point is 01:09:29 They have two many meetings or not enough meetings. And so for me, I'm like, let's just keep it simple. Like the daily huddle is the 15 minute meeting, and it needs to be done a certain way to maximize daily accountability. So the 15 90 meeting rules around the huddle, and then the 90 minute meeting is your weekly execution of your quarterly plan. Like I want to build a plan for the corner and then I want to hold people accountable to it weekend and week out.
Starting point is 01:09:50 And what I do is I look at the business in 13-week sprints. You have 4-13-week sprints that come out to 52 weeks a year. I want every week, every five business days, your team has to show up and say that they are either on track or off track on their goals. And if they're off track, we're going to have a discussion about it. And in my businesses, there is no being off track. Like someone has to have died for you to be off track. So yeah, so scale is a friction removal process.
Starting point is 01:10:14 And what I want, what I teach CEOs and my entrepreneurs that I work with, I say, hey, look, like we want to get really clear on creating a culture of accountability, but you gotta make it simpler. Our Ultra team is gonna, they'll vote with their feet. They'll be like, oh, Hala has us doing all these things.
Starting point is 01:10:27 This sucks, I hate it here. And my perspective is like, no, let's make it really simple. And then they'll get ROI out of it. You will create an organization where nobody can hide. And when nobody can hide, like there will be people that like to hide who will leave. And I say great, Sionara. And the people that don't,
Starting point is 01:10:43 but then there's the other side, which people that like accountability. And they'll be like, hell's yeah, like, Hala's got a great business. I love our meetings because we get so much stuff done and everyone's always hitting their goals and the business is growing and we're getting more organized, not less organized. So that happens because you have good meeting, key, cadence around your quarterly plans and around your daily accountability. The 30 every 30, it's the 30 minutes you need to spend with each team member every 30 days. And I built this framework around, how do you do one-on-ones?
Starting point is 01:11:10 And so I teach that in our boot camp, and then also we have a mastermind, I teach that to that, and I also teach them to my 101 clients. But it's really focusing on the one thing that matters most to your team. And you know what that is? Hala?
Starting point is 01:11:22 What? Themselfs. Yeah, that's the truth. You gotta make it about them. And you gotta what that is? How? What? Them, themselves. Yeah. You got to make it about them. And you got to pour into them. And you got to, and if you do it the right way, you can figure out what's slowing them down. And then once you pour into them through a really nice framework, you can then hold them accountable to what you want them to be held accountable to. But what a lot of managers do is they'll want to tell me what their team is, what's bad news,
Starting point is 01:11:44 or to give them a shit about not hitting their numbers. And I'm like, yeah, like you're just the dad that's over critical. Like nobody wants to hear that, right? So my question is, is what are you doing to make them successful? And are you creating an opportunity and nice consistency around one-on-ones? And one-on-ones is the biggest area. You know, some of my clients that I have 500,000 employees and they have 33% of their managers doing one-on-ones. And I'm like, you're telling me that two out of every three people don't do one-on-ones in your business, you can't tell me that's not affecting your ability to win.
Starting point is 01:12:13 I know it is. So for us, we created a nice system around that. And then what's cool is if you do it one way, then you can hold all your managers accountable to that same way. So you have what's called consistency. And with consistency, you remove friction from the business and scale is a friction removal process.
Starting point is 01:12:30 So that's what you're doing. Amazing. Oh my God, Darius, all this information was super valuable. I feel like there's a lot of things that people can take away, but I feel like there's so much knowledge that we haven't uncovered yet that is in your bootcamp, that is in your mastermind. So tell us about how we can find out about those resources. So you could go to do daireousscale.com. So that's where you can learn more about the boot camp and about the coaching.
Starting point is 01:12:54 That's kind of my give back right now. I love pouring into to CEO's entrepreneur. So daireousscale.com is a good place to do that. You could go to the real daireous for all things daireous and that kind of has the book and podcasts and stuff like that. But a lot of this also is on podcasts. So that's the greatness machine. And on that one, we're interviewing a lot of these experts that have built these amazing businesses. And there's a lot of learning there too. So those are the three places. But all things, the real Darious, that's all things Darious. Yeah. And I'll put all those links in the show notes, but selfishly, I want to understand what can people expect in the bootcamp?
Starting point is 01:13:25 Like what is that like? Oh, yeah, that's like drinking from a fire hose for three days So it's really three days you come in we teach you we do we build your rise targets So we build your 10 three and one year plan We teach you how to build quarterly plans so you can start to do quarterly is the right way in your business And I mean so many entrepreneurs do those wrong. And they build these crappy plans that don't do anything. So for us, it's how do you build like these rocks all to accountability plans? And then we really take you through teaching how do we do the meetings, showing you how to
Starting point is 01:13:54 roll it out, teaching you how to build KPIs, showing you how to roll that out. So it's a three day bootcamp where people leave and they're like, all right, it's a lot, but I have a lot to work with now that I can then, and we show you how do you bring it back into your business. And is it typically like a CEO and entrepreneurs that like you bring your exact team and you do this as a virtual is it with a group. Yeah, it's a group. We do small group. I run it. So it's you get to spend three days with myself, which is always fun. And we do a lot of open coaching. So I mean, I'll do stuff where I just like, you can bring me any problem. And Mastermind, we do that too.
Starting point is 01:14:27 But yeah, like it's you and I let people bring their number two. So if you and your number two, it's small group. It's a lot of one-on-one time. I have coaches that will meet with you before and after and during. And we do a lot of breakouts. It's a workshop. So it's interactive.
Starting point is 01:14:42 There's like, you're working, like there's a lot of interactivity. And the idea is that you're building, you're really building these things for your business that you need to get yourself organized and learning the framework so that you can then come, go back and apply it to your business. Because so many people are just guessing. And the problem I find with a lot of these other scale systems is they're, you know, by the way, like, I didn't make all this stuff up. I did the other scale systems. They're hard. I quit them.
Starting point is 01:15:07 I'm a creator. I'm like, this is a better way at doing it. I'm gonna do this way. And I kept retweeking other systems and also creating my own stuff. So this is all born on the back of other systems that are God bless them. They're great systems,
Starting point is 01:15:19 but this is a better technology from my perspective. Yeah, well, I'm super excited about it. I'm gonna pitch it to my team for us to do the scale map, bootcamp with you, Darius, and hopefully we get to do that. So the way that we close our episodes here on Young & Profiting podcast is we ask the same questions to every guest at the end of the show. The first question is, what is one actionable thing our Young & Profiters can do today to be more profiting tomorrow?
Starting point is 01:15:44 So here's something I tell everybody, and I call my fulfillment formula, which is, and if you do these three things, I think that this is at least what I've learned over my life. I'm 44, so I'm young, but I'm also old, right? Like I'm on the fence. You're medium. I'm medium. Well, yeah, I'm experienced, right? So are you living in your values? So get clear on what your values are. Because the minute you ever feel icky or like friction in your life, it's your rubbing
Starting point is 01:16:12 up against your values. So get clear on what your values are and start to look at them on a regular basis. And so I always say, are you living in your values? Are you working in your strengths? Are you doing work where you are working within your talents? And I like strain finer. That's my tool that I use and I teach. So go pull your strain finer. Go look at your strengths and say, ask yourself the honest question, am I actually living in these strengths? And then start to measure yourself against it if you want. But am I living in my strengths? You're working in my strengths, living in my values, and am I doing it with a high level of awareness? And I have a buddy who, as you know, is Mark Gurgenta, he's the CEO of a company called Plus Plus.
Starting point is 01:16:50 He says, fulfillment comes through, again, living in my values, working in my strengths, and doing it with a high level awareness, and awareness comes through three, four areas. Number one, am I being mindful? Do I have a mindfulness practice? Am I exercising? Am I dieting consistently, eating a good diet? Am I being mindful? Do I have a mindfulness practice? Am I exercising? Am I dieting consistently eating a good diet? Am I sleeping well? So are you getting rest? Are you practicing mindfulness? Are you treating your body like a temple?
Starting point is 01:17:14 Right? Doing the right things for my body. Am I working in my talents and living in my values? And so my answer to your your Yop crowd is if you're doing those things and start to pay attention to those things, the good things just happen. The app crowd is, if you're doing those things, and start to pay attention to those things, the good things just happen. Okay. And our last question is, what is your secret to profiting in life? I think it goes back to what I just said.
Starting point is 01:17:32 I really think it's finding that, that cross-section between what you love to do, there's a word in Japanese called eki-gai. And so it's really finding that cross-section between what do you love to do and what people will pay you for and really going all in on that. And so for me, it's like, how can I do more of that?
Starting point is 01:17:50 I love that. Thank you so much, Darius, for sharing your wisdom and sharing your story. It was super valuable. Thanks, Hala. I love being here. Now, I have to say the energy that Darius brings into everything that he does is so infectious. I felt this conversation feeling very empowered and ready to nail down Yap Media's core values and get our team aligned to that scale map methodology. In fact, I'm gonna have
Starting point is 01:18:13 Darius speak to my leadership team. And when you open up Darius's website, it says in really huge bright font that every problem we encounter begins and ends with core values. It's the first thing you see when you log on to his website. And right there is our number one takeaway from this episode because remember core values help you make the best decisions. It helps you keep a strong culture as your business scales. It helps you attract and retain talent who are aligned with your culture. And you want employees that align with your core values. And as individuals working for companies, you also want to align with that company's
Starting point is 01:18:51 core values. And when both of these things mesh when the people of the company are aligned with the goals of the company, that's where you get that frictionless scaling that Darius was talking about. So let's wrap up with some of Darius' tips on how to create core values that actually work. First of all, you've got to use viral sticky language. Don't use boring vanilla terms. And you want your core value to be something that your team remembers and embodies,
Starting point is 01:19:17 not something that's easy to forget and ignore. So viral sticky terms are super important. So for example, turn fun into, wahoo, or persistence into all in. Something that's super catchy, you want to like have like a marketing feel to it. And you want to keep it simple, shoot for one or two words, know full, convoluted sentences. And also you want to stick to like three to six core values, too many or two few values. They don't have the same pull. And most importantly, you've got to keep these core values, too many or too few values, they don't have the same pull.
Starting point is 01:19:45 And most importantly, you've got to keep these core values authentic to your company. Remember that not every company is warm and fuzzy. And so if it doesn't actually align to your current culture, then people won't buy into it. You got to make sure that you align to the actual culture that is happening organically within your company. And that usually stems from the founders and their energy and the founding team's energy.
Starting point is 01:20:08 And remember, this is the basis of how you work and who you work with, and it also sets the stage for future success or failure of your business. So you do want to think about your core values. So I want to know what your thoughts are on this. If you've been thinking about core values, it just inspired you. Shoot me a DM on Instagram at Yapathala. You can also find me on LinkedIn by searching
Starting point is 01:20:29 my name. It's Hala Taha. And also the best way to thank our Yap team for all their hard work is to draw us a five-star review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you guys take some time to do that. As always, thank you for listening to another incredible episode with Young and Profiting podcasts. And thanks to my amazing Yap team, this is your host, Halataha, signing off. Are you looking for ways to be happier, healthier, more productive, and more creative? I'm Gretchen Ruben, the number one best-selling author of the Happiness Project. And every week, we share ideas and practical solutions on the Happier with Gretchen Ruben podcast. My co-host and Happiness Guinea Pig
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