Young and Profiting with Hala Taha - Tom Bilyeu: The Billion-Dollar Entrepreneur Mindset That Turns Failures into Success | E327
Episode Date: January 6, 2025After his senior thesis film at USC flopped, Tom Bilyeu abandoned his dream of becoming a filmmaker. As he worked low-paying jobs and relied on his fiancée for financial support, he found himself spi...raling into depression and struggling with a lack of purpose. But then, he immersed himself in personal development and brain plasticity research, discovering that effort and learning were the keys to unlocking his potential. As a result, he adopted a growth mindset, leaned into deliberate practice, and overcame self-doubt to become a highly successful entrepreneur. In this episode, Tom shares his journey from building a billion-dollar business to pivoting into the world of media and personal empowerment. He also shares insights into how AI could transform the creator economy. In this episode, Hala and Tom will discuss: 00:00 Introduction to Tom Bilyeu 02:18 Tom's Philosophy on Impact and Purpose 05:08 Balancing Work and Personal Life 07:36 Handling Overwhelm and Prioritization 11:49 Approaching Failure and Learning from AI 16:50 First Principles Thinking 21:37 Tom's Personal Journey and Overcoming Laziness 32:04 Film School and Realizing Limitations 33:28 A Terrible Senior Thesis Film 34:58 Discovering Brain Plasticity and Growth Mindset 36:11 The Loop of Desire Explained 39:08 The Power of Storytelling 43:41 Journey to Entrepreneurship 50:17 The Future of Content Creation with AI 56:10 Project Kaizen and the Creator Economy 01:00:19 Final Thoughts and Advice Tom Bilyeu co-founded Quest Nutrition, a billion-dollar company that revolutionized the health and wellness industry. After exiting Quest, he founded Impact Theory, a media company focused on empowering people through mindset education and storytelling. He hosts Impact Theory Podcast, one of the leading business and personal development podcasts. With experience building multi-million-dollar businesses across nutrition, software, and media, Tom is a recognized leader in entrepreneurship and innovation. He is also the creator of Project Kyzen, an immersive virtual platform blending personal development and technology. Connect with Tom: Website: tombilyeu.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tombilyeu TikTok: tiktok.com/@tombilyeu Facebook: facebook.com/tombilyeu Instagram: instagram.com/tombilyeu Sponsored By: OpenPhone - Get 20% off 6 months at https://www.openphone.com/PROFITING Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.youngandprofiting.co/shopify Airbnb - Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at https://www.airbnb.com/host Rocket Money - Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/profiting Resources Mentioned: Impact Theory: impacttheory.com/ Tom’s Podcast, Impact Theory:  https://apple.co/404gbk7 The Tao of Jeet Kune Do by Bruce Lee: https://amzn.to/3VJCsSA  Top Tools and Products of the Month: youngandprofiting.com/deals More About Young and Profiting Download Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com Get Sponsorship Deals - youngandprofiting.com/sponsorships Leave a Review - ratethispodcast.com/yap Watch Videos - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting  Follow Hala Taha LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ TikTok - tiktok.com/@yapwithhala Twitter - twitter.com/yapwithhala  Learn more about YAP Media's Services - yapmedia.io/
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Meaning and purpose is ultimately all that matters.
If you have all the money in the world,
but you don't believe in what you're doing,
then it will be a very empty pursuit.
Progress is a foundational pillar to human happiness.
The average human is designed to get better.
So if you put time and attention into getting good at something,
you will actually get good at that thing.
How do we push through our emotions to achieve our goals?
I think people should don't let anybody tell you something is impossible unless it legitimately
violates the laws of physics.
You've built billion dollar companies across different industries and right now money is
really not a concern for you.
Money only monetizes once you can only spend it one time but knowledge and connections
monetize forever. As long as you're... then you can have everything you want.
Yap gang, hold onto your screens and get ready for an inspiring and insightful episode as
we welcome Tom Biliu, the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the visionary behind Impact
Theory.
Tom is not just a successful entrepreneur, he's a master at transforming challenges
into opportunities and in this episode, he'll share his journey from building a billion
dollar business to pivoting into the world of media and personal empowerment.
He'll also share his thoughts on how AI could transform the creator economy.
Tom is somebody that I've looked up to for such a long time.
I'm so excited to have this conversation.
He's been such an inspiration to me.
Impact theory is a legendary platform and honestly, like he's just
inspired so much of my journey.
I can't wait for this conversation.
So without further delay, here's my discussion so much of my journey. I can't wait for this conversation. So without further delay,
here's my discussion with Tom Bilyeu.
Tom, welcome to Young and Profiting podcast.
Thanks for having me.
I'm so excited for this conversation.
You are somebody that I look up to
both as a podcaster and an entrepreneur.
You've built a multimillion dollar
and billion dollar companies across different industries.
And right now money is really not a concern for you.
And so I'm curious to understand when you think about starting a new project and a new company,
which are always starting new things, what are the considerations that you have?
Impact. Meaning and purpose is ultimately all that matters.
If you have all the money in the world, but it, you don't feel engaged.
You don't believe in what you're doing, then it will be a very empty pursuit.
And I thankfully learned that lesson when I was quite young.
So yeah, when I had all the financial success at Quest, I knew that whatever I
do next has to be grounded in meaning and purpose just like Quest was.
So my last day at Quest was Monday and my first day at Impact Theory was Tuesday
and just got right back to it
because that's ultimately what feeds me
is that sense of, okay, I'm doing something
with my time that matters.
Obviously I'm very thoughtful to make sure
that I enjoy what I'm doing, even when I'm failing,
that it's a thing that I not only care about
the potential outcomes, but that I enjoy the process.
So you gotta fill your time somehow.
And I'm not a retired to the beach kind of guy.
So impact is to say it in a word.
Yeah. And something that I love for you
is that you've got so many different philosophies
and ways that you live your life.
And one of the things that you've said
is that the most crucial aspect of life
is what you think about yourself when you're not alone. Now, what you think about yourself when you're not alone.
Now, what you think about yourself when you're by yourself.
So there's no one there to hype you up,
no one there to tear you down.
What do you think about you?
And it's normally in that quiet space
that people start beating themselves up
and they don't feel they're living up to their own ideals.
That matters.
I think ultimately we just were hardwired for it.
And so how do you feel self-respect and having self-respect for yourself is impacted by the work that we do and the jobs that we have?
Well, so we are a hungry species. We are designed to pursue. We're designed to grow,
to keep getting after things. When you think about it from an evolutionary perspective,
you would be hardwired to do the things that are going to keep you alive long enough to
have kids that have kids.
And so hard work, contributing to the group, facing difficult tasks, making progress, like
all of those things are hard wired.
So the things that you do either make good on those evolutionary algorithms that you
have running in your brain that say like, Hey, you've just been lazy.
I don't feel good about that.
Or, Whoa, like you really did something and it helped a lot of people.
You're going to feel great about that.
So in that sense, what you do becomes a critical component.
So the way I like to explain it is we are both the shout and the echo.
So we're the things that we do.
That's the shout. And then we're what the world tells us. So we're the things that we do. That's the shout.
And then we're what the world tells us they feel about the thing that we did.
And anybody that thinks that they can escape that sense of like that feedback
impacts me in some way is delusional.
You are going to be impacted.
Now you want to keep it in balance.
You don't want to let that get out of hand where you only live
for the validation of others.
But we are a social animal.
And so you will be impacted by what other people think.
And so something that I know about your journey
is that at certain points in your journey,
you worked really hard, like 120 hours a week at some point,
and you didn't really have so much work-life balance.
So how has your mindset changed
regarding the way that you prioritize work and life?
To be honest, it hasn't changed in a very long time.
And so when I was working the 120 hours a week, which was a couple years ago,
I knew that I was making a short-term error for a long-term gain.
And it really did though get to the point where I was beginning to damage my marriage.
And that's always my barometer of, okay, if my marriage is really the most
important thing in my life, simply because it is yielded the most return on
my investment, then I needed to make a change.
And so at the height of all that, I pulled my wife aside and said, look, I
will find my way back to you.
And it just became about putting business processes in place that I could hand
things off that I wasn't trying to do everything myself.
And so it's like, look, at the same time, it was, it's the period of my life that
I'm probably the most proud because it, if the world was ever going to break me,
that was going to be the moment.
And so it didn't, and I kept pushing forward and I got the business to where it
needed to be, and I got back into the rhythm of prioritizing my marriage.
And so, look, it was not a period without its consequences. But if you're very
cognizant of that, if you engage in my case with both the business and the marriage to communicate,
okay, business, this is what we're going to have to do. We're going to have to get people in that
replace these different elements. We're going to have to create new processes so that this isn't
so manual. And then dear wife, we're going to need to start setting aside some time. I need a couple more months to like really put these processes in place.
But if you can just bear with me until this time, I won't be working these
stupid hours anymore.
And so because I was able to make a promise, make good on that promise, and
then she could see the results that I was yielding in the business.
So it's like through communication, all things are possible.
So I don't believe in balance.
The cheesiest way to say it is I believe in harmony.
The more accurate way to say it is goals make demands.
And as long as you're executing in priority order, then you can, can't have
everything you want, but you can be very efficient in what you get done by just
saying, okay, this is the most important
thing that I can do based on my goals and where I want to end up.
This is the second most important so on and so forth down the list.
And if it's integrated with a marriage and friendship and things like that,
you'll be fine.
But most people and this is really like, hey, dear everybody listening,
if you want to know one problem I see over and over and over is people
allow themselves to get overwhelmed
There is not an amount of things barring a hot war
Where people are literally getting shot and dying around you. There's nothing that should be able to overwhelm you and so
Overwhelm is about an expectation that you are putting on yourself that you can carry an infinite load that triggers a psychological
putting on yourself that you can carry an infinite load that triggers a psychological revving up of you trying to track every variable.
And the reality is that I don't ever get overwhelmed.
Even when I was working 120 hours a week and it was a massive physical toll,
there was never the additional layer of I'm mentally breaking because I just,
it's all about priorities. I have them in priority order.
I draw a dotted line and say the things below the dotted line just are not going
to be addressed right now.
And I'm able to just shut that door.
And what I find is people are not able to shut the door on the things that
exceed the number of hours that they're willing to work.
And so they're trying to track everything, even the things that are
what I call dormant priorities.
And that's the thing that drives them crazy.
And you literally just have to do what's known in behavioral cognitive therapy as
cognitive behavioral therapy, excuse me, as a pattern interrupt.
And so like anybody, I get that initial impulse of like, Oh my God, like I can
feel my brain speeding up.
And that's when I say to myself, I don't do overwhelm and then I do diaphragm
breathing and I slow down ironically and in slowing down
rather than trying to speed up to do everything, it just dissipates.
And I thought this would be something I could just tell people about.
They would adopt it and it would be great.
And I see people get overwhelmed all the time.
I feel like so many entrepreneurs get overwhelmed and it's so true what you're saying.
Overwhelm is a feeling that is maybe not necessarily real.
We can only do so many things.
And so if we just prioritize what we're doing
and set some boundaries,
then we shouldn't necessarily get overwhelmed.
It also helps that you have a wife
where you guys are very communicative about your goals.
You both set out to be entrepreneurs.
You've decided to do things like not have children
so you can be successful entrepreneurs.
So do you feel like the relationship that you chose
with your wife also helps you be a better entrepreneur?
No doubt about that.
My marriage has given me more of everything
that you could want than anything else.
So my wife has certainly made me a better person.
I do not know who I would be if I had not met her.
I met her in my early twenties.
And we've been together for 24 years, married for over 22.
It's crazy.
Yeah, it's extraordinary.
Absolutely.
And having somebody that supports you
and having somebody that sees things
that you would otherwise be blind to,
somebody that instead of getting on their knees
and crying with you when things are going rough, they're like picking you back up
and reminding you who you are and brushing your shoulders up.
My wife has given me the Jerry Maguire speech many times to, you know, get me
back in the game when you're starting to flag.
So that's really been incredible.
Being self-aware and having a partner that is also self-aware and that can
talk with you and lay options out and help you problem solve. That's really the thing that I would give the credit to. And, and so
you don't necessarily need a significant other. It helps. It's wonderful. And I encourage it for
everybody, but I don't want people to feel like that's out of reach simply because you don't have
a partner because it ultimately comes down to what are the beliefs that you hold that are choices? What are the values that you hold? Those are choices.
And if you live by your beliefs and your values and your beliefs and values are
positive and they move you in the right direction, you're going to be fine. Now,
if you have a significant other to reinforce it all even better, but certainly not necessary.
So we were just talking about how entrepreneurship can be a little bit overwhelming. I mean, you were
building a new virtual world, right? That's a very complex thing that I'm sure took a lot of
dedication. There was a lot of experimentation, a lot of challenges, and I'm sure failure along
the way. So as a seasoned entrepreneur who has built many different successful companies,
how are you approaching failure now?
Well, so failure, the only right way to approach it
is to approach it like AI.
So when AI is trying to learn a pattern,
which is essentially what all of us are trying to do,
it tries a thing and it gets a result.
And it's not like, I mean, you can't imagine the AI
having like an emotional breakdown. Oh my God, like I tried to play this video game and it didn't
work. It's like the AI just goes, okay, I'm trying to learn the rules of the game and
I move the paddle this way and I don't make contact with the ball. I don't get any points.
So what if I move over here? And then eventually it makes contact with the ball and the ball
bounces and scores a point. It's like, Oh, okay. I see now I have to make contact with
the paddle and the ball and the ball will then hit this. And so you're just getting what are known in AI as samples. So you try a thing, it gives
you a piece of data. This is a sample. Now, you know a little bit more about the world.
And if people understood that you're running trial and error as a way of building up a
prediction engine so that you know, oh, when I do this, I get this outcome. And that really
is all life is. It's what I call the physics of progress.
You're trying to build a prediction engine so that you know, when I do this, I get this
result.
And I want to go to XYZ goal and I see what I have to do in order to get there.
And I've got such an accurate prediction engine.
I can now do all the things that are going to take me there.
Now you can never be guaranteed to arrive at your goal because the world is just changing so rapidly But at least if you're running this
Exercise of the physics of progress you always know what to try next whether it will work or not depends on a whole host
Of factors, but that is really really useful and and failure is is a necessary part of that sequence
And there's an amazing guy is the largest hedge fund manager in the world
named Ray Dalio.
He's got a great quote, which is,
pain plus reflection equals progress.
And so when you fail, it hurts,
but that sting causes you to reflect and say,
okay, I want to feel this way again.
What did I do last time?
What was the outcome that I got?
Let me change my behavior so I can get where I want to go.
And as long as you don't let that emotionally break you,
then you can hit escape velocity.
So something that I'm hearing you say
is that we need to kind of push past our emotions.
Like we might feel overwhelmed, we might feel stressed,
we might feel like just everything is out of control.
How do we push through our emotions to achieve our goals?
I would say it's slightly differently.
So I think people should distrust their emotions.
So this is where you want to ground in the fact that you're having a biological experience.
And so I'm going to ask myself, OK, I feel some kind of way.
Why do I feel the way that I feel?
If you're really going to go macro, this is evolution only has two levers, pleasure and pain.
Evolution has one goal, to make sure that you survive long enough to have kids and have
kids.
Okay, so I'm doing something right now that hurts, that means I'm doing a thing that
evolution does not want me to keep doing.
Or I'm doing something pleasurable, this is something that evolution wants me to keep
doing.
Okay, now if my goal is not focused on having kids that live long enough to have kids, I
have some different goal, then those emotions might not be what I need to reach my goal.
And this is what I see all the time.
People confuse feeling with thinking.
Don't make that mistake, boys and girls.
Feeling is not thinking.
So feelings are literally a very high bandwidth communication from the part of your body and
your subconscious mind that can read a lot of points of data very, very quickly.
But it's hard to translate that into conscious thought,
into words, even more narrow of a data pipe.
And so you just get a feeling, right?
Tiger and Bush run.
You don't have to think through it.
In fact, you may not even get to Tiger.
You just have a sense, I need to get out of here right now.
You don't know why, you don't know what it is.
Maybe you picked up on a rustling in the bush,
certain way, you know, a stick cracked.
And the same is true in relationships, in business.
You just get this overwhelming feeling.
Now, if in that moment you realize
my life isn't actually in danger,
so the fact that I'm having this really strong emotion
should lead me to pause and go, why am I feeling this?
And if you can pull that very high bandwidth emotion
through that low bandwidth pipe into your conscious mind
and say, oh, this is what all of that is boiled down
to something very simple, which is almost always,
if you're having a negative emotion anyway,
it's almost always an insecurity.
So I'm worried if I don't get this right,
my business is gonna fail and then I'm gonna lose her,
I'm a loser and my parents are gonna disown me me or my girlfriend is going to break up with me.
Whatever.
It's and it's all happening again based on that level of emotion.
If you can slow down and say, hold on, that's overwrought.
That's ridiculous.
This is one of many things that I need to think through.
I can make a lot of mistakes and still be fine.
I do need to be thoughtful.
I need to learn my lessons, but people don't do that.
They get mad and they react mad and then that makes things worse.
And they never take the time to say, why am I mad?
Oh, wow, this is an insecurity, not anything positive or empowering.
This is an emotion designed to mask the underlying thing.
I know a lot of entrepreneurs that are tuning into the show.
Like we're talking right now about challenges, failure,
trying to not trust our emotions, like you said.
And I know that you talk,
or at least in the past you've mentioned before,
you might've changed your approach to this,
but you take a first principles approach to thinking.
Can you talk to us about what that is?
Yeah, and if I ever change my first principles approach,
you should be the first to come punch me in the mouth.
So first principles is quite literally the only way to think.
It is at its simplest.
It is trying to get to the fundamental base reality
that we all live in, which we are shockingly bad at,
and I can explain why later, but the idea is
don't reason from analogy reason up from physics
so the great example of this is Elon Musk saying hey for us to make a
Electric car that is priced to a place where the average person can afford it
We have to completely reinvent the way the batteries are made now when they went around to everybody everyone's just like but this is a cost
Of batteries and he was like well does it violate the laws of physics to
lower the cost of batteries?
It might.
If you go and look at what it costs to get it out of the ground and all that
stuff and to mine it and you may be like, yeah, this is just it and there's no way
to get any cheaper.
But when he looked at it, he realized, Whoa, there's like all these markups
along the way, we could actually get closer to the source.
We can do them for a lot cheaper.
Cool.
Same thing happened to me at quest.
We took our formulation for protein bar to the manufacturers and they said,
this bar can't be made.
And we're like, hold on, does manufacturing this bar actually
violate the laws of physics?
Like that doesn't seem true.
And so we went and looked at it and long story short, we realized what was
happening is because the government subsidized corn, everybody used high
fructose corn syrup
in their products as a sweetener.
It's cheap, it's delicious.
So all the equipment that had been manufactured
over like the last 70 years could be made
with the assumption that all the products
that would run on it would have high fructose corn syrup.
So this government intervention
had all these downstream effects that nobody thought of.
So when we said, well, wait, it's not that the bar can't be made, it's that we would
have to engineer our own equipment.
And so by being willing to engineer our own equipment and becoming our own manufacturer,
suddenly it wasn't impossible.
It was just impossible with that equipment.
And so by thinking from first principles of, okay, this bar only takes a certain amount
of pressure to put down, the bar has a certain viscosity,
the bar has a certain level of stickiness,
so what could we re-engineer on the equipment
to deal with the deviations from a standard product
to our product?
And once you engineer equipment
with those different tolerances,
now it produces just fine,
and that ends up being one of the reasons
that we are very successful.
So that's thinking from first principles.
You're not allowing anybody to hand you a frame of reference.
When people say, think outside the box,
what they mean is you've been handed a frame of reference.
You see the entire world through that frame of reference
and you don't realize it's artificially limited
because it's all shorthand, it's all analogy.
Instead of saying, well, hold on,
this is just how we view the
world.
It's not necessarily how the world actually is.
And so let me, again, go back down to base physics and build up from that.
And if you sell an info product or something like that, start with human psychology and
build up from that.
But don't let anybody tell you something is impossible unless it legitimately violates
the laws of physics.
What do you mean start with human psychology
for info products?
Because I think I have a lot of like
online entrepreneurs listening.
So I don't want people to feel like this is an exercise
where it's like, oh my God, do I really have to go back
to quarks and bosons and all that stuff,
which we don't even fully understand anyway.
So most of the time when I'm running this experiment,
it's for something for sales and marketing.
And so forget all the early stuff.
Just get to how does the human mind operate?
What do people look for in products?
Like what is the truth, the inescapable truth of the human mind?
So like, for instance, people don't make decisions rationally.
They make them emotionally.
I mean, I can just tell you that from the architecture of the human mind standpoint,
that is true.
And so once you get to that, it's like, oh, well, you may want to sell this product on
features and benefits, but it won't work because that's not the architecture of the human mind.
So now instead of like, if you're looking at somebody else in your field and you think,
well, they're doing it as good as it can be done.
Well, not necessarily.
What are they missing in terms of their approach that would allow you to get more bang for
your buck?
If you go back to instead of the frame of reference that they're handing you and go,
what do I know to be true about the way the human mind works?
Now you can do something better.
You can do something different and win because you're
building up from universal truths about how people think.
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So I wanna move onto your personal journey.
I feel like a lot of your philosophies about life
came from your own struggles and learning from them
and things like that.
So when I did research about what you were like
as a child and a teen,
it turns out that you self-describe
yourself as somebody who is naturally lazy.
And I'd love to learn about what you were like as a child and a teen and what kind of
self-respect or lack of self-respect that you had for yourself back then.
Okay, so that went in interesting waves.
So when I was young, I felt very confident in myself,
but I absolutely lacked self-awareness of any kind.
And then as I began to develop self-awareness,
I became incredibly self-conscious and very insecure,
and then was afraid that I wasn't gonna be able
to achieve the goals that I wanted to achieve
because I wasn't good at the things I needed to be good at.
And I, at the time, just by default, had a fixed mindset.
So I believe that my talent and intelligence were fixed traits and life was just about making the most of what I had.
Now, the honest answer is we are 50% hardwired.
Like half of what you're going to be able to achieve is grounded by just the hand that you've been dealt.
But 50% is malleable.
And so I started really focusing on the part
that I could change and not worrying about
whatever was hardwired, it is what it is.
And so what can I do with that part that I could change?
And once I started leaning into that,
then it was like, okay, I didn't need to believe
I was special, I just needed to believe that I was average
and that the average human is
actually designed. It's what I call the only belief that matters.
The average human is designed to get better.
So if you put time and attention into getting good at something,
you will actually get good at that thing.
You just have to put the time and attention in. So then it's like, okay,
well my goal makes a demand that I be good at XYZ thing.
Am I willing to go get good at it?
Because I could certainly just assume you can get a hundred times better at
anything. Am I willing to put the time and energy to get a hundred times better
and is a hundred times better going to be good enough?
And if it is, and you're willing, then you go down that path. And if it's not,
you either stop pursuing that thing,
or you find a partner that can be good at the thing that you've decided you're
not going to invest in.
But really getting the lay of the land of how the human animal actually works
was freakishly liberating for me because I didn't have to believe I was born
special, but it was incredibly encouraging to know that I could get
better in any aspect of my life.
I want to dig on this a little bit because I thought this was one of the
most interesting things that I learned about you is that you feel that free will is
an illusion or you've at least said that before, right?
Yes.
Free will is an illusion though.
I mean, is an illusion.
And if you don't believe me, read the book Determined.
It's an unrefutable take.
People will try to refute it, but if you read the whole book,
I mean, he really does attack every answer.
Is that Robert Sapolsky?
It is.
Yes, I had him on the show and we talked about it.
Yeah.
So good, man.
So good.
You've got good guests.
I like it.
I'm in good company here.
So yeah, Robert Sapolsky, absolutely brilliant.
It's just a horrifying truth that we all think we have free will, but we really don't.
But I don't think it matters.
And I think if you let it influence your life, it will drive you crazy.
You need to act as if you have free will.
It's the only logical way because here's why that matters.
Even though we are automata that are just responding to things, we do respond to ideas
and we are changeable and we are changed by
our surroundings. This is why culture just keeps getting better and better and better
because as we learn more, we're able to do more, but there is no ability to escape your
biology. It's just not possible. Like even the most monk of monks has not escaped their
biology. They've leveraged their biology in a pretty fascinating way, but they have not
escaped their biology. And so just as nobody biology in a pretty fascinating way, but they've not escaped their biology.
And so just as nobody can will themselves to fly,
they cannot will themselves to think a thought
that they've never thought,
if they could, then I would say,
please solve quantum physics
because that's in need of a solve.
And if they then say, well, but I'm not smart enough,
it doesn't have to do with free will.
Yes, it does.
You're just telling me that you're limited by your biology,
which we already agree on. So I wouldn't spend a lot of time Yes, it does. You're just telling me that you're limited by your biology, which we already agree on.
So I wouldn't spend a lot of time there, but it is true.
Yeah.
So basically what you're saying is that
even though there might be biological factors,
environmental factors, like our own personal history
that impacts all of our decisions,
we have the ability to change.
We have the ability to improve and things like that.
Yeah. I was just
gonna say when I talked to Robert Sapolsky, he was really adamant that like nothing is in our
control. And he basically was saying that, you know, if somebody is poor and poor 20 years later,
it's not their fault. If somebody is obese and cannot lose weight, it's not their fault. If
somebody has a drug addiction, it's not their fault. It is their biology. It is like out of
their control. Like basically saying that anybody who. It is their biology. It is like out of their control.
Like basically saying that anybody who's successful
is basically lucky.
And to me, I was like,
I don't know if I necessarily believe that.
I feel like everybody has the ability to change.
You do have the ability to change.
The question is,
do you have the ability to direct that change?
And I think he is correct.
I know he is correct that we don't,
but here's the catch.
That idea is a worse idea for knowing that people
will respond and change based on ideas.
So it's one of those, it is true,
and I never fight against anything that's true.
But part of the reason I don't bang that drum a lot
is that it's just not a super helpful idea.
So I have a goal and that's human flourishing to get to human
flourishing. You have to pursue fulfillment to pursue fulfillment.
You need to act as if you can change your circumstances and make your life
better and make the lives of others around you better.
And if you go down that path,
you will feel better about your life.
And if you don't, you won't.
Now, it is just true.
I can't stop myself from saying that.
I am hardwired.
I've encountered these other ideas that make me want to say this, but great.
I'm still going to act as if I'm in control and it makes my life better.
And so I have a rule.
I only do and believe that which moves me towards my goals.
I'm not trying to create a false picture of the world.
In fact, I'm trying to get to ground truth.
However, I know that humans are ridiculously bad at identifying what is actually true.
Therefore, I have to steer by something that I can tell and that's effectiveness.
So how useful is an idea in getting me where I want to go?
And if I, going back to one of your earliest questions,
if I want to feel good about myself when I'm by myself,
what do I need to believe in order to do that?
And so even though I know I'm just responding
to my environment and my biology,
that's not a good overarching narrative
because it demotivates me.
And so it's true, I just don't think about it.
I think about things that motivate me.
And that has led me to where I want to go.
So free will is an illusion, but we need to act as if we're in control and operate from there.
As long as you understand need as it relates to, it is a more efficient way to get to the goal I have stated, which is human flourishing.
But if somebody has a different goal, then it may not be as necessary.
Like obviously for Robert Sapolsky, he's got a goal that's more in line with being,
he would probably sum it up as a moral, compassionate being.
And so he, to him, it is a moral violation to hold people responsible
for their lot in life.
Whereas for me, it is a moral violation to let people responsible for their lot in life. Whereas for me, it is
a moral violation to let people roam around the streets, attack people, even
though I'm like, sure it's not your fault, but I don't care. You can't roam
the streets hitting people. So everything is an echo of somebody's goal, whether
they realize it or not. Makes sense. Okay. So you were saying that you're naturally lazy and you've been able to create a
billion dollar company with quests.
You've built impact theory.
How can other people who might feel like they're naturally lazy, that they don't
really feel like getting out of bed, but they still feel ambitious.
What are some tips for them?
All right, I was just talking about this
on my Twitch gaming stream this morning.
So, okay, it goes like this.
First, you need to know exactly what your goal is.
You need to care deeply about your goal.
Like you have to really want it,
and you can run something I call the loop of desire
to reinforce that, but you have to know what your goal is. You have to really want it and you can run something I call the loop of desire to reinforce that but you have to know
What your goal is you have to really want your goal
Then you have to make sure that you're doing the things that are causing you to actually progress towards that goal
Tony Robbins talks about how progress is a foundational pillar to human happiness
Anytime you see something like that, you know, you're tapping into those evolutionary algorithms that are running in your brain
You know, you're tapping into those evolutionary algorithms that are running in your brain. So it just feels good. And then on top of that, this needs to be something that you have a really
strong why that you're doing this. So I'm doing this to help these people is going to be the most
universal why there's a group of people you care about for whatever reason you care about them.
And you're pursuing this thing to help them. And now that taps into the evolutionary demand that we have, that
we contribute to the group.
And so if you want to stop being lazy, ironically, that's the sequence.
And then one thing I'll add is you need rules in your life, just so that you can
demarcate whether you're doing the thing that you should be or not.
So the most important rule I ever put in my life was that once I realize I'm
awake, I get out of bed in 10 minutes or less.
And I did that because I would lay in bed four and five hours a day every day.
It was, I mean, looking back now, it's really crazy.
The heartbreak I feel over how much time I lost.
So finally I was just like, this is absurd.
I'm now ashamed of myself.
Shame actually ended up being helpful, but it was not fun to go through. And so once I
finally built up enough shame, I was like, okay, I've the only way I can think to break this is
to set a timer and be like, okay, you have to get out of bed no matter what. And that one simple rule
has been one of the most impactful things in my life. Such good advice. And I know Mel Robbins has
that like rule
where it's kind of like one, two, three, jump out of bed,
talking to her soon.
I'm looking forward to it.
She's amazing.
You're gonna love her.
So let's talk about you joining film school.
So it's no wonder that you've built this incredible
video podcast that has been pioneering the industry.
And film school was really a turning point in your life
where you started to really turn things around
and you got really motivated by being in film school.
But I did learn that you had sort of a catastrophe
in your senior year that really made you rethink
the way that you approach yourself and the world.
Can you share that story with us?
Yeah, well, so the catastrophe was just realizing
that I didn't have talent.
So that was gut wrenching.
So I had a fixed mindset.
So I believed however good I am now
is how good I will be forever.
And that was the mystique of film school,
was like, hey, you're finding the best of the best.
And it was like a whittling down process.
Like, could you get into film school?
That was the first thing.
Because when I went to USC film school,
it was easier statistically to get into Harvard Law
than it was to get into USC film school.
There were just that many people applying.
And so I got in and I was like,
oh, maybe I really am this brilliant filmmaker.
And then you go through these series of classes,
basically auditioning to see if you can be
one of the four people chosen to do a senioring to see if you can be one of the four
people chosen to do a senior thesis.
And I ended up being one of the four.
And I was like, oh my God, I knew it.
Like this is my chance.
Like I'm just everything I've ever wanted
is gonna come true.
I'm gonna graduate.
I'm gonna get the three picture deal.
I'm the next Steven Spielberg.
It's gonna be incredible.
And I mean, I could taste it.
And then I made my senior thesis film and it was terrible.
Just objectively terrible. On every metric that a film can thesis film and it was terrible. Just objectively terrible.
On every metric that a film can be terrible,
it was terrible.
And I didn't think, oh cool, let me break this down
to what are the things that I'm not good at yet
that I need to get better at?
Why was it that the earlier films that got me to be
one of the four chosen, what did I understand
about that style of filmmaking that I didn't understand?
Because it's actually a pretty big leap
in style of storytelling. I didn't understand, because it's actually a pretty big leap in style of storytelling.
I would say naturally, I had an intuition
for silent storytelling that I did not have
once you bring in dialogue and all of that.
But at the time, I couldn't understand that.
I was just like, oh my God,
like I'm actually not good at this.
I thought I was, but apparently I'm not.
And so that was as close to an existential crisis
as I have ever been,
because I thought that was gonna be my whole life,
that was the death of a dream that I had.
I mean, when you're, you know, whatever, 22,
you feel like, wait, my whole life
has been pointed towards this.
I thought this was gonna be the next 60 years of my life,
and it's just dead.
And then you find yourself selling insurance door to door.
So I was like, whoa, it was one of those my,
how the mighty have fallen
because I went from being celebrated at film school,
I graduated second in my class.
It was like, yo, this guy's really gonna do something
to actually hold on, no, embarrassing.
Everybody knew my film was bad.
It was not like, oh, this is me being hard on myself.
Everyone was like, oh God, that was like a train wreck. So it was emotionally devastating and I had no idea what to do.
And then thankfully between Tony Robbins and some stuff about brain
plasticity and which now of course we would call a growth mindset,
but Carol Dweck had not written that book yet, unfortunately for me.
So start reading about brain plasticity,
realize, wait a second, maybe it is possible to change and get better. I start teaching film
and I realized, wait, I'm helping these students make their films better. Why couldn't I help
myself make my own films better? And so then I was like, oh my God, this is a game of skill
acquisition. And so then the things we've been talking about now start coming together as my
belief system. And I realized, okay, wait a second, if I can get better, then this is about putting
time and energy into getting better. And so I just poured myself into that, poured myself into it
from a film perspective, poured myself in from a business perspective. And the rest is history.
My life is what happens when you answer the question, how far am I willing and able to go
if I get 100 times better at a small number of things
that really matter to my goals?
This is really interesting because you basically
got the motivation to get better at film.
And earlier you were mentioning
that this is called the loop of desire.
Could you break down what that is exactly?
Yeah, the loop of desire is really basic. So you are having a biological experience. Your brain
responds to certain things in a certain way. One very key thing to understand about your brain is
you become whatever you repeat because of a process called myelination. So myelination is
the wrapping of fatty tissue around the connections of the neurons in your
brain.
So any emotions you feel, any thoughts you think, they will become easier for you to
think and therefore will be the things you keep repeating.
So the more you repeat something, the more you repeat something.
So be careful what you repeat.
So understanding that, that whatever I repeat is going to solidify in my mind.
So what if I intentionally repeat something positive?
Cool, so let's try that.
Then there is your brain will justify whatever amplitude
of emotion you display.
So if you freak out, your brain goes,
whoa, I guess this really matters.
So I was like, okay, well then if I repeat
a really high emotional state
every time I talk about my goal, would it begin to myelinate
such that now whenever I talk about it, I get that big emotional response.
So at first it felt like I was faking it.
And then six months later, whenever I would talk about it,
I would feel that sense of like passion and excitement.
I was like, I can't believe this works.
So be careful,
cause you can align yourself to dumb things.
So if you pick a goal that's honorable,
that is legitimately exciting to you
and then talk to yourself about it,
what you're gonna achieve, what you're gonna do.
And like with that feeling of passion and excitement
that you hope one day you will feel naturally.
And then when you talk to other people, which is even easier than talking to yourself, same
thing, you embody, embody the emotion you want to feel and do that over and over and
over.
And then at least in my experience, call it four to six months later.
Now you can just be talking about it normally and you get that sense of like, Oh man, this
is really important to me.
This is really exciting.
You're like, wow, it's so crazy because six months ago I was interested,
like it was legitimate.
I didn't try to tie it to like, I really love grass.
Like it's something you already have an interest in,
but by doing that,
now you've got the impetus to gain the skills.
And by having that initial burst of energy
married with getting the actual skillset,
now you can make progress.
And when you're making progress, then passion kicks in.
But you're not going to get to passion until you're actually able to use that skill in
the real world to get feedback from other people.
You are the shout and the echo.
People are telling you, hey, you're improving my life by that thing you do.
That thing you do could be podcasting.
That thing you could do could be building a video game like I'm doing now.
It could be accounting, whatever.
But people give you positive feedback.
This is why so often adults are pursuing something
that they first got that positive feedback on as a kid.
We'll be right back after a quick break from our sponsors.
Okay, let's talk about storytelling
because you went to film school,
now you are running Impact Theory, which is a huge platform.
And I know a lot of what you do with Impact Theory is really storytelling to bring about impact.
So talk to us about what you've learned about storytelling, both at school and then, of course,
in the real world, building Impact Theory and how we can use storytelling in our businesses to attract customers.
Okay.
So at Quest, we had 3000 employees and a thousand of them.
I grew up in the inner cities and I thought, these guys are smart.
Some of them smarter than me, but they're not doing anything with their lives.
And when I started asking them like, Hey, why aren't you doing this out of the other?
The answers that came back were just ridiculous.
And so I was like, this is not a intelligence problem.
This is an idea problem.
So I started what I then called Quest University and I was like, let me teach
you everything I know about entrepreneurship.
One, it will just be good for your life.
You can go on and work for any company at that.
Like if you can master the skills that I'm teaching you guys, you'll be able to work anywhere.
Now, my hope of course, is that you stay here because you realize I care about your future more than your own mother,
but you'll be empowered you can go anywhere that you want.
And I poured my heart and soul into it. I came early, I stayed late and we have,
we've had people start other companies that are still running to this day almost a decade later.
Absolutely incredible. I love it the most.
The only catch is it was
only 2% of the people that I brought those ideas to. 98% did nothing. And so I really
started to get obsessed with, okay, what would we have to do to reach the 98%? And I very
quickly realized you have to bypass the logical centers of their brain. You can't just say,
think like this, act like this. You've got to really get into the storytelling of it all.
And I mean, look, when you see political campaigns
and stuff like that, that's exactly what they're doing.
They're telling a story,
stories simplify things and they focus attention.
And that is the magic of storytelling.
This is exactly how humans are able to come together
in these gigantic, flexible groups
with people they've never even met and cooperate, you have shared stories.
It could be shared story of a nation state, could be shared story of a
religion, but you need some sort of shared story to pass on values, to pass
on identity, to give people a unified narrative.
So for better or worse, humans are a meaning making machine and stories
allow you to transmit
meaning.
So they're just a mechanism by which you simplify things enough to extract meaning from.
So we do it all the time.
When we stub our toe on the coffee table, we tell a story.
We're an idiot because we don't pay attention enough to our surroundings and that's what
stubbing our toe means.
Or you could tell yourself the story of, man, I'm so hardcore.
I probably broke my toe just now, but I don't stop.
I don't quit.
I'm the kind of guy that keeps pushing forward.
So it all comes down to what's the story that you tell yourself about that thing.
So it isn't what happens.
It's what it means.
And once people understand what it means, you're telling yourself that story.
Someone may have said it from the outside, but you decided that that's what you were going to repeat. That's what you were going to
adopt. So whether you're a marketer, whether you're just trying to lead your own team,
you've got to tell them a story. This is why every company needs a mission. Your mission statement
is about galvanizing your team. It's about telling the consumer what it means to buy your product,
what they're sort of becoming a part of. And then in your marketing, you want to tell something
that's simple enough that people can remember it like becoming a part of. And then in your marketing, you want to tell something that's simple enough
that people can remember it like it's a story.
And oftentimes just literally telling a story inside of your marketing is one
of the most useful things that you could do.
A couple of times in this interview, you've asked me to tell stories
from my childhood or whatever.
And so we all just resonate to story.
So in the same way that when humans look at an image, we look for eyes when people are hearing, okay, uh,
this thing happened, they're looking for the story in it. And so if you reveal
character through it, if you reveal a moral through it, people are going to
remember it way more than if it's just a list of facts. This is why humans get
so bored in high school history only to later discover through, you know, like a hardcore history episode.
Actually, history is amazing,
but history is only amazing when you tell it like a story.
If you tell it like a story, it's fascinating.
You tell it like disembodied facts and figures,
not interesting at all and hard to remember,
because that's not the architecture of the human mind.
Storytelling is so powerful in business
and personal relationships.
I feel like storytelling is a skill
that everybody could improve and continually improve.
So speaking of stories, I want to hear the story of you becoming an entrepreneur.
Was being an entrepreneur something that you always imagined, or did it kind of just happen?
Well, it didn't just happen, but it was not something I ever thought I would do.
So you heard the story of me graduating film school
and things not going well.
I met these two entrepreneurs and they were bang
on the money and they said, look, you're coming
to the world with your hand out.
And if you want to control the art,
you have to control the resources.
So if you want to build a studio,
you want to tell your own stories,
you should get into business and get rich.
And I was like, oh man, that's so smart.
I can't believe I didn't think about that before.
Brilliant.
And this is like right before the tech bubble burst.
So I was like, oh word, man, I'm gonna get into tech,
take 18 months, build a company, sell it, all's good,
be able to make my own movies.
And that didn't work.
So 18 months turned into 15 years, but it
did work. And so that obviously ends up being incredible. And during that journey, I end
up finding stroke constructing the reason that I was going to make films. So instead
of just doing it because I like stories, it became who am I going to help? Impact theory
arises. It's literally called impact theory because my theory on how to impact people at scale
is through story.
So putting empowerment at the center of it becomes the whole jam.
So I got into business strictly so that I could control my own destiny.
But I learned a very powerful lesson, which is I can guarantee you're going to struggle,
but I cannot guarantee you'll be successful.
And so you better struggle well.
And so I stopped asking myself what I think is the worst question people could ask, which is
what would I do if I knew I couldn't fail? Because failure is the most likely outcome.
So I started asking myself, what would I do and love every day, even if I were failing?
And so that's why impact theory is literally architected from the ground up to be the things
that man, if I'm going to fail at something, I want to fail at this thing.
So that has improved my life immeasurably, but do keep in mind, I'm saying that after
having the gigantic financial success.
So if I had to do it all over again, I would very much go straight into storytelling.
I would not go into business first for sure,
because it really is true that your network
is your net worth.
These are gonna be the people that open doors for you
and stuff, and so I'm having to completely reinvent myself,
meet all the new people, all that,
and it's added a decade to my journey.
So I could have gotten it done a lot faster.
Now the problem is going into business
allowed me to learn all these principles.
So I don't waste time lamenting that I didn't do it,
but I am not somebody who's like, I have no regrets.
Yeah, I would do it differently, but such is life.
So you would have started Impact Theory first
before the software company, before Quest, you would have just went straight to Impact Theory if you could. No, I would have started Impact Theory first before the software company, before Quest,
you would have just went straight to Impact Theory if you could.
No, I would have gone to somebody who was living the life I wanted to live, which would
have been at the time in filmmaking, and said, I will work harder and smarter than anyone
you know.
And all I ask in exchange is knowledge and connections.
So I would literally live in a hovel with five other guys, eat
the world's cheapest food, do whatever I had to do to get by, but so that I could be as
close to that person as humanly possible. I don't want to work for somebody who works
for them. I want to be next to them all the time watching how they deal with the world.
That is insanely useful. It's all the in between stuff that you would never even know. It's how a
deal is structured. It's how to talk to somebody who's being a dick in a meeting, but doing
it in a way where it's like, they're not quite crossing the threshold where you can just
call it out. Like how do you handle things like that? Or somebody comes to you and asks
for something that is clearly they're reaching beyond what they have any right to ask for,
but they're kind of in a tough spot and like, do you help them out?
Do you not like all of those things when you're in your early twenties, man,
you have no idea how to handle all that stuff. You might be shooting from the hip,
but you really don't have a sense of how it's all going to play out.
And when you can watch somebody go through all of that soft stuff,
that's next to impossible to teach in a business school, then it's like,
if you can ask the occasional question, like, Hey, I was really surprised the way you handled
that thing. You're normally so hard on people, but you were really nice just then. Like,
how do you know when to be hard and how do you know when to be soft? And if they're a
thoughtful person and can be like, okay, well, let me explain why I was doing this here.
Why I did something completely different here and how I typically will make those decisions.
And then to some extent, it's just seeing the patterns over and over and over and over and over.
But you're not going to get that when you start as a junior, junior, junior,
something in a corporation where everybody's afraid of losing their job
and they're lying to each other and playing politics.
It's all just stupidly nightmarish.
So what I always tell young people is, look, money only monetizes once.
You can only spend it one time, But knowledge and connections monetize forever.
So good.
I love that advice.
So Quest Nutrition is a company that you started as a side hustle
and you ended up selling it for a billion dollars.
So I'm also growing a company called YAP Media.
That's doing really well.
We're the number one business and self-improvement podcast network.
We also have a social agency and it's doing really well.
Let's go.
Yeah.
I represent a lot of top podcasters, Jenna Kutcher, Amy Porterfield,
John Lee Dumas, Russell Brunson.
That's amazing.
That's a stack of really cool people.
I love it.
I couldn't imagine selling my company, but that's because I think my company's
making impact and it's really aligned with my values and my future.
And it feels like everything just feels so aligned and fun for me right now.
But you ended up selling a company that also had a great mission.
So I'm just curious from your standpoint, what made you decide like, okay, I'm just
going to sell the company and work on something new?
Well, the big thing was I only got into business so that I could build impact theory.
So that was always self-evident.
But we had had so much success and my partners and I no longer shared a vision on how to
grow the company.
And so it was like, well, we've been this successful.
So I had been building what's now Impact Theory inside of Quest.
It was literally called Inside Quest.
And I said, let me spin out this studio into a standalone company.
They agreed, spun that out, and like I said,
left Quest on Monday, and on Tuesday was at Impact Theory.
But yeah, that was the whole thing from the beginning.
The guys that I was partners with back then
were the ones that had said,
hey, you're coming to the world with your hand out.
You should get into business.
So it was not a surprise to them.
So it was a very simple transition,
and we've been at this now for almost a decade.
It's crazy.
So one of the things that I read is that you say
that content creation is going to completely change.
You say the world as you know it as a content creator
will end in two years.
Now as a content creator, that's very scary.
Why do you believe that?
So AI tools will make it such that all of the things that we use as a moat are going
to go away.
So it takes a while to master all the tools.
It takes a while to get all the different people on your podcast, all that stuff.
What's going to end up happening is all of this information is going to fracture like
hyper fracture and somebody will be able to have an idea for a video with or without a guest.
I mean, you could post videos of like, here's my conversation, my imagined
conversation with Elon Musk, stuff like that.
And instead of actually needing to get that person on your podcast, you just
have the AI spin up his personality.
You ask a bunch of questions.
And if you do it in a way that the audience finds more interesting than the
next person, then that's going to be what it's going to be. So what's going
to end up happening is right now it's already changed so much. You're so young, you probably
don't have a sense of just how much it's already changed. But like when I was growing up, there
was, you know, whatever five channels and that was it. And they controlled the narrative.
And we didn't even realize the narrative was being controlled. And then as things have gone to social,
now you start seeing things break apart.
Now, when I started podcasting,
people literally like,
Tom, why are you doing this?
It's already played out.
All the players that are there,
that are gonna be there.
It's already decided, man.
It's too late.
When I started, there were 400 podcasts.
There's now 6 million podcasts.
So it is just insane how many more podcasts,
I may have said 400,000 podcasts.
So the world has just changed absolutely dramatically
and that's gonna keep happening
where the format of a podcast itself
is gonna get disrupted by somebody alone with an AI
doing things that nobody's
ever thought of before.
And the difficulty of production, the friction of going from idea to execution is the current
moat.
That's going to go away, which means this will be more like TikTok.
So instead of there being a person that has a podcast, take a Rogan or something like
that, instead of that person dominating the landscape,
you're gonna have like, oh, one of his episodes might pop off,
but somebody else is gonna release something else
that's a totally unique format that nobody saw coming.
And it'll just be like that.
And people will just be scrolling onto the next,
onto the next, onto the next.
And that's gonna happen across everything.
It's gonna happen across video game production,
which I trust me, I have just as much anxiety as you.
But the key is to adopt AI faster than the competition. It's going to happen across video game production, which I trust me, I have just as much anxiety as you.
But the key is to adopt AI faster than the competition.
And then just remember that one, we're moving towards an abundance reality where if AI does
all of the wildly disruptive stuff that people think it's going to do over the next, say,
10 years, it's also going to be dropping the cost of virtually everything.
So everything is just getting cheaper.
Now this takes you into a post-capitalistic society and there are big questions around
what that looks like, but people will have access to the things that they want for far,
far, far cheaper.
Now that doesn't mean people won't find a way to peacock through other means because
we will, but especially when you throw in the mix brain computer interfaces,
this is all going to get real weird.
There are already people that can play video games like proper video games using
just their brain computer interface.
It's nuts.
And you were just saying when you first started 400,000 podcasts and everyone
was telling you there's no chance it's already saturated.
AI is going to make things even more saturated.
So what is your perspective about the increased competition and if there's even a point to
participate, if there's going to be that much competition?
So I think people make a mistake when they do preemptive quitting or preemptive strikes.
The reality is you want to pay attention, you want to be at the cutting edge, you want to be
integrating AI. Right now, AI is a phenomenal tool and it
is a terrible master. So it's not going to be able to do things without humans yet. So
people should be excited right now for this phase. It's going to allow you to do more
with less. And so if you're somebody like you, that's paying attention, you've got a
whole thesis, you know what you're moving towards. AI is going to help you keep costs
down, help you stay really nimble.
Now, if AI starts changing the landscape, then just pay attention.
Like, okay, what do we need to do to stand out?
How do we add value?
And yes, it's going to change things.
And yes, some people are going to get smashed into little pieces, but if you're
really paying attention and if you continue to look at where is the puck going to go, then you'll
be in better shape.
Now I've often made the quip that yes, you should always skate to where the puck is going
to go, but it's getting a little hard now because the puck is teleporting, but it's
the right idea.
You want to pay attention to, okay, predictive engine, where is this going?
What does this mean for content creation?
I think there is going to be that hyper fragmentation.
I think this is really going to be about deep communities.
So part of the reason that I'm on Twitch now
doing my video game streaming is that, yes,
I'm building a video game, so I need to build community
around that, but also historically,
I've built audiences, not communities.
And so this is a chance for me to really build
a deep community where the interactions are very different.
And that's going to be something that AI will have a hard time with just because people know this is a chance for me to really build a deep community where the interactions are very different.
And that's going to be something that AI will have a hard time with just because people know on the other side of this is not a person, it's AI.
And so I think there will be some things that people just have a weird resonance
when it's AI versus when it's a real person.
So I'll be looking for opportunities like that.
I'll be looking for places where I want to lean into the humanity of it all. And I'll be looking for places where I want to lean into the humanity of it all.
And I'll be looking for places where I want to lean into the AI of it all.
But because I don't push back on the way the world actually is,
AI is here. AI will keep getting better.
AI may slow down, but I don't think it's going to stop.
So I'm just paying attention to where it's at and how I can leverage it for now.
And can you tell us more about Project Kaizen and how it fits into your vision
of impact theory and the future of content creation?
Yeah.
So it is impact theory in the sense that my theory and how to impact people at
scale is through entertainment.
The most dominant form of entertainment right now is video games.
Also a core part of my thesis is that who I'm focused on is 11 to 15 year olds.
So Project Kaizen is a game.
Uh, if anybody's ever heard of extraction Royale, it's an extraction
Royale game that's aimed at 11 to 15 year old demographic, technically 13 and
up because of SOPA laws, but that's that core demographic that's in what's
known as the age of imprinting.
And so trying to reach them so that we can introduce empowering ideas.
So one of the characters in the game right now,
which is out right now, by the way,
if anybody wants to play it,
it's a free to play game at projectkaizen.io.
And Bruce Lee is one of the characters in the game.
And it's an official collaboration with the Bruce Lee family.
And the reason I wanted Bruce to be our launch partner
was he had a tremendous impact on my life, even though he had
passed away before I was born. But he wrote a book called The Tao of Jeet Kune Do, which was about
his style of martial arts. And some of the ideas in there, even though I didn't train in the martial
art, the ideas were profoundly shaping for the way that I think now about mindset and getting better
and all of that stuff. So we wanted him to be a character in the game who's like our Morpheus or our Obi-Wan
Kenobi.
He's the mentor character that's giving the players advice.
So yeah, really excited for people to get into it.
And then the other part is the UGC aspect.
So players can come in and build their own maps.
And this is the very beginning of a much deeper set of tools that we'll build for players to build their own maps. And this is the very beginning of a much deeper set of tools that will build for players to build their own content.
And you say that Project Kaizen is the blueprint of the creator economy. Can you help explain
what you mean by that and how it could help build communities and things like that?
Yeah. So I think the way that creators need to think is your job is to create a container
for your community to come in and create.
So because I think in IP, the way that we look at it is we've created Project Kaizen,
it's this gigantic sci-fi world.
And inside that world, there's characters and stories and physics, if you will, rules
of the game, the way that it all works.
The conceit of our story is that everything you've ever known is a simulation. So imagine the matrix, but there's no real world. The matrix is the real world. There's nothing else.
And in that story, that means that we're connected to other dimensions and all that kind of stuff.
And that way, as players spin up their own storylines, they can be like, oh, we're from this,
what we call instance, a server instance or a universe,
if you want to think of it in those terms.
So we're from this universe.
These are our people.
This is what our world looks like.
And they can literally build that up as much as they want.
It could be as simple as one little floating island.
It could be all the way to a planet, not yet, but one day.
And then being able to tell their own stories and then giving the community the ability to say,
hey, this person's storyline follows all of your guidelines impact theory. We love it and want this
to be canon in your world. And so when a story meets certain criteria, players can vote for it.
And then if we approve it, then it becomes official canon within our world.
And so our goal is for them, if you know UEFN,
this is what Fortnite's doing, it's absolutely brilliant.
Giving the players the tools from the game
to build their own sort of mini games inside of it.
And so we're doing a very similar thing,
much smaller scale compared to Epic,
which is absolutely gigantic.
But I think this is just the future.
I think everybody's gonna to be doing this.
So it's not like, Oh, we're trying to be some pale shadow of what Epic is doing.
I just think this is the future in the same way that if you were going to launch
a video site, of course you're going to let people upload to it.
There would be no other way.
That is our plan now is to give players the ability to create unique
experiences within our container.
Amazing. Well, it sounds super fascinating and very exciting. And I can hear the passion
in your voice about it. Tom, thank you so much for joining us on the podcast. I was
very nervous. I never get nervous and I was so nervous in the beginning for some reason.
So I just have looked up to you for a long time. So I just appreciate your time. I end the show with two questions that I ask all of my guests.
And this can just come from your heart.
Doesn't have to be anything that we talked about today.
What is one actionable thing our young and profitors
can do today to become more profitable tomorrow?
Always be learning.
Always be learning.
So it should cue off of your goal.
So again, your goals make demands,
but I spend on average two hours a day,
365 days a year every day for the last 15 years,
maybe more learning.
Be a relentless learning machine.
Amazing.
And what is your secret to profiting in life?
So for me, I know that nothing matters more
than reciprocated love. So I make sure
that I put a ton of time and attention into that. And then also I manage my biology. So
I get sleep, I eat healthy, I exercise, I work out, I maintain loving relationships
beyond just my wife. These things are incredibly important. And then if I can really ground
this for people, guys, you have to learn how business works.
Like business has physics.
And if you really want to get good, you need to learn those physics and they are available
for anybody to learn anyone to master.
The game is really relatively simple.
Learn it.
Learn the game.
Do not let yourself get overwhelmed.
Just one piece at a time.
Pick apart the skill set.
Learn it.
And when you say physics, do you mean like sales, marketing, finance, those kinds of things?
Yes, and where it interfaces with leadership and human psychology, yes.
And where can everybody learn more about you and everything that you do?
At TomBillyoo, across the socials, best place is probably YouTube.
Amazing. Thank you so much for all of your time. Really appreciate it.
Absolutely. Thank you so much for all of your time. Really appreciate it. Absolutely.
Thank you.
Well, guys, this was such an important interview for me and I was kind of nervous as I think
you could tell.
I've admired Tom as a leader, as an entrepreneur, as a podcaster.
I love his brain and the way he approaches the world.
And I've just been a fan for so long.
And I consider him to be a podcast king.
And now even though I'm a podcast princess,
I still have to bow down to the king, you know?
Like I was nervous.
And one of the things that I found most inspiring
from today was his approach to failure.
Tom says he tries to approach failure
in the way that AI might do it,
as a pure learning experience.
In other words, you try something new,
you experiment, it works, it doesn't,
and you go back to the drawing board
with that new knowledge in hand.
There's no energy wasted on being frustrated
or getting emotional.
And the key ingredient in that process is failure.
Along these lines, Tom also advises us
to distrust our emotions.
Evolution developed emotions to push us
in certain directions that improve our chances
for survival, for having kids,
but those same emotions can be extremely counterproductive
when it comes to achieving our goals.
So if you're feeling a strong emotion,
then step back and ask yourself
why you are feeling that strong emotion
and whether it's pushing you in the right direction or not.
Tom also believes that we should work on what we can change.
We all come hardwired to be a certain way,
but there's still plenty of room for us
to play the cards we're dealt with
and focus on the things we can change about ourselves
and our circumstances. For example, one of the things that we're most hardwired to be is lazy,
but we can address that and one of the best ways to do that is by tapping into another evolutionary
demand like helping your tribe or your group. Nothing seems to energize us more than pursuing
a goal that is in service of others.
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