Your Favorite Thing with Wells & Brandi - Too blessed to be stressed

Episode Date: October 13, 2023

Surprise, surprise... Wells had a great time at his bachelor party and will in fact be attending more in the future. Also, he painted his studio wall all by himself and had an aggressive interaction at the paint store that he updates us on. Your hosts then dive into a Bachelor in Paradise episode 3 recap (BUT DON’T WORRY: Wells has provided a timestamp to skip over this segment for all you BIP haters. We heard you!) Wells added a very special “men are garbage” sound for Brandi to his soundboard, and shares another classy sound suggested by one of you. Enjoy!  Don’t forget to rate, review, and follow Your Favorite Podcast! Plus, keep up with us between episodes on our Instagram page, @yftpodcast and be sure to leave us a voicemail with your fave things at 858-630-1856!  Thanks to our awesome sponsors for supporting this episode! Check out these deals just for you, YFTers:  Prose — Go to Prose.com/yft for your FREE in-depth hair consultation and 15% off your first order today  Factor — Head to FACTORMEALS.com/yft50 and use code yft50 to get 50% off  Nutrafol — For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code YFT 

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The mate was a mighty sailor man that skipped a brave venture. Five passengers had sailed that day for a three-hour podcast. A three-hour podcast. The host started to forget about all the things they wanted to talk without the help of Wells' editing.

The podcast would be lost. The podcast would be lost. What up? I just got back from a bachelor party. I talked about it last week how I just don't want to do that ever again. But I take that back. I had a lot of fun. So I'm glad I did it. But it takes a lot out of you, you know? And now I'm back and I'm feeling better. Hope you guys are doing pretty well. Yeah? I don't know? Okay. I went and read some fuck you very muches. I realized that not

all of you are super pumped about me doing BIP recaps. And I saw someone said, hey, can you just give us like a timestamp when this is over? And then we'll just go to that if we're not into the BIP recap. And yeah, totally. I will do that. I will add that in. I will do my best. And yeah, I realize that some people are like, you know, they know me from the show and they still watch the show and like that's their thing. And then I realized that some people don't give two flying fucks about that. And I also understand that. And I actually, if I'm being honest with you, I celebrate that. I feel like it's expected of me to talk about the show that I'm on, but I think the split 50, 50, I think there's a lot of YFT years there that are out there that like the recaps. And there are a lot

of YFT years are like, fuck this. This is not what this show is really supposed to be. So totally get it. Like I see this, um, forever stoner fan, five stars. Thanks for that. Uh, wrote YFT should be about YFT. Why are the entire episodes now turning into a batch recap? I love the podcast, but lots of us don't watch and want the YFT we love and know back where you guys actually talk about your favorite things. Still love both of you. We'll forever be a loyal listener, but let's tone down the recaps, please. Totally. I get it. I understand. And then someone bring back the tab. Five stars. Thanks for that. Please add timestamps. I love listening to Wells and Brandy, but I don't keep up with The Bachelor. It would be very helpful for us non Bachelor fans if there was a timestamp in the episode description to fast forward through

Bachelor Talk Love the Show. I will do that. I will do that for you. That is good feedback. All right? So yes, I will do that. Should we call the brandi? Let's call the brandi. Should we?

Should we call her up? Let's do it. Let's call her up. Let's do it. Let's call her. Let's call her up. Your wall wasn't. Let's call her. Let's call her up. Your wall wasn't green last week, right? It was not.

It looks so good. You like it? I love green. I do too. Do you like it with the white trim? Yeah, it looks nice. Yeah, so. You know what would also look nice is if you painted the trim a darker green.

Yeah, I don't have that much time. I did two walls. I feel like you do have time. Oh, no. Oh, no. Let me tell you something. Strike is finally ending and now it's just like a flood of things I have to do now. Is it really?

Yeah. Do you want to hear my schedule this week? Yeah, I do. I want to hear it. Okay. So, let's see. I got back yesterday, which was Monday, right? Bachelor party. Today, I had to record a podcast at noon. I went and worked out. I had a fitting for a photo shoot that I'm doing later this week.

Then I had to get my hair cut because I've got a bunch of stuff this week. Then I had to get my hair cut because I've got a bunch of stuff this week. Then I have this. Then tomorrow I've got press all day from 10 AM to 5 PM. I'm zooming or I'm in a car going to different sets. Then Thursday, Sarah and I are doing a shoot. That's all day. Friday, I have a meeting with this production company that I've totally forgot about but now that the strike's over I have to go do that and then I came off Friday I'm Saturday Sunday I do have free and then Monday all over again the entire week is booked out and then the next week is booked out you're like you sound like Kim or whichever Kardashian is like i'm just so busy like no boo wednesday vegas friday

cryotherapy on sunday none of those things are in the things that i suggest that i said in the same realm no haircut gym photo shoot with my wife well the reason why i get the haircut is because i have the press and then the photo shoot. I noticed you have some scruff happening as well. I haven't had time to shave it. It's all going to shit. Is it? Yeah, all going to shit.

You're doing fine. So you painted this wall behind you? I did myself. Wow. I know. Which the paint store story was interesting. So I go to the Sherman Williams, whatever thing. Sherwin, but yes. Ask Sherman Williams. Sherwin? Sherwin. Sherwin. Anyway. So it's like on Ventura, right? Busy street for those people that don't live in

LA. So you know how like it's a busy street. You can go like in the back and you can park in the back and there's like four spots in the back and you can go in the backs so i pull in and there's like four spots and two of them are for the sherwin sherman sherwin williams thing and then the other two is for like a cake store and yes it says like if you're not parked at the if you're not going to the cake store then we're going to tell you and if you're not going to sherwin williams thing we're going to tell you i'm like what i'm going in there to get a can of paint, and I'm out of here, right? So I park in there. I've never been to the store in my entire life.

So I go in there. They're mixing up my paint. And then all of a sudden, this lady comes out. It's all tattooed. And she's just like, I fucking told you guys a million times. I'm fucking towing this guy. And so the guys come up, and they're like, hey, did you park back there? And I go, I don't know.

I parked behind the store, even though I knew I was in the wrong but i was like i parked behind the store you're like can you go move your car sorry she just gets she gets a little angry and so i so i start walking out so she starts to confront me and she's like every fucking day i have to deal with you guys every fucking day next time i'm towing you and i'm like i'm sorry i've never been here before and she goes it's you have to be fucking blind not to see it. And I was like, whoa, next time I'm towing. And I was like, I'm never coming back to this store again. Don't worry.

But I was like, I'm so sorry. And she goes, you know what? You're welcome. Whoa, dude. You're welcome for what? I guess not towing me. It was so aggressive. This is obviously an issue that she has with those guys that like are in the store, you know, not with me personally.

But like I took the brunt of it. I have a feeling these issues are even deeper rooted than the store. You're a cake decorator. You need to be like a happy person. You know, you can't be going and making cakes with this type of energy. So anyways, it was it was bonkers. So I got this paint. I went with the type of energy. So anyways, it was bonkers. So anyways, I got this paint. I went with the no primer paint.

Okay. Because your boy doesn't want to be painting multiple layers here. Do you know what the shade is called? It's very nice. I don't. I was like, I want a dark green. And they were like, we got this one. And I was like, that's what I like.

I like it. So I'm going to do the entire room. Let me tell you what's happening in my little office, okay? I'm going country club lodge vibe, okay? So I'm getting a Ch the entire room. Let me tell you what's happening in my little office, okay? I'm going country club lodge vibe, okay? So I'm getting a Chesterfield couch, okay? So next time you come here, you'll be sitting in a Chesterfield. That's nice. I think I'm actually going to put my desk over there

and have the Chesterfield over here. New desk is all wood and it's just one piece instead of like, I've got like kind of like a sectional thing that I hate so much. I got a new mic stand that's coming. I might buy a new computer just to make it all kind of like smaller, but yeah, it's going to be very streamlined. It's going to be very professional looking. And Oh, I've got a chest of drawers that I'm going to put over here and then I'll have like all my cables and microphones and all this stuff. So I'm, yeah, I'm very excited about what we're doing here, even though like the YF2ers don't give a shit.

I mean, maybe they do. I don't know. I think they care. Yeah. Yeah. I noticed that our, our real announcing the YouTube channel, it got a lot of views. It did. Did you notice? I didn't because I was, you don't notice these things. I was in Mexico, very blacked out, let's be honest. Well, that's not shocking. I guess I didn't realize some of our reels do really well. Yeah, that's because I post them. I guess so, but not all of them, and you do post most of them. 148,000 plays on the YouTube video, which is pretty good for us.

Did we get 148,000 YouTube views? Because that means I think we got some money coming our way. I doubt that, but that's definitely the best by far that any of our reels have done. Every now and then we'll get like a 45,000 or like a 50,000, but 148, big deal. Yeah, I love that. I love that for us.

I love that for us. I was telling the YFTers before I called you, I was looking at some of the fuck you very much is on the podcast or on Apple. There were three in a row that were like, hey, listen, I don't watch Bachelor in Paradise. I don't, I want the show YFT back. And then someone suggested like,

can you just give us a timestamp of like when this ends so we can, we can just fast forward to that. So I've made a commitment that I will, I will add in at some point, Hey, by the way, guys, this is,

um, if you want to skip ahead, then you totally can. But, but I do think that maybe we can tighten it up. We can probably tighten up the bachelor in paradise. Talk. Although I got to say for the Bachelor haters out there,

I understand not wanting to watch The Bachelor or The Bachelorette once you've been watching it for so many years, it gets a little old. But Paradise is good TV. I'm really loving the season. Are you? Yeah, I would maybe suggest that people maybe give Paradise a shot if you're kind of over The Bachelor, Bachelorette thing.

I'm with you on that. I think this season is pretty good. I think this last episode was very good. I thought actually episode two was a little sleepy. Okay. I felt like we burned a lot of time on the Hannah stuff, and I'm like, let's get to the meat of it, you know? Yeah, totally. But I thought this last episode is very, very good.

So maybe we should start the show. We'll rip through a quicker recap of VIP episode three. I actually have a bunch of stuff, favorite things. Love that. I think it's you. Okay, great. Bros and hoes, you're listening to your favorite thing podcast with... Wells and Brandy.

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Episode three, Bats are in Paradise. I guess the big news is that Tanner comes to town. And the girls are smitten. Yes, they are. Bunch of smitten kittens. I love it when somebody that didn't have much attention on their season comes to paradise and is a hot commodity. I love that more than anything. Well, he is a very handsome man. I will say that. I always said that when he was on The Bachelorette. He is very tall. Yes. I mean,

they're all tall, but like he is, he's like 6'4". Very cute. So I totally get it. But like the main ladies that are into it are kind of the hottest commodities on the beach in Kat and Jess. I agree. Here's the thing. Jess, you're so freaking cute. I know. And I love your one piece. Yeah. If someone compliments your one piece, you don't need to say that you're bloated.

And that's why you're wearing the one piece. I guarantee you she has watched this back and knows this. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I know she knows this already, but I felt like that was just like her nervous tick that day, right? Yeah. I don't know what to say. So I'm just going to say I'm bloated.

Yeah. I mean, it is cute. But when she does it again, when Tyler, when she does it again, you're just like, come on. Yeah, totally. And also, you don't look bloated. You look like a tiny little thing and you're so cute. Yeah.

So, yeah. So, like, obviously, like, he takes both Kat and Jess. And I will say this just so you know if you're watching the show. He takes everybody. Yeah. We're only seeing him take the two people that actually have a shot at this date i think you know what's interesting is that before he shows up kat and brayden seem to be doing just fine yeah i never got like a vibe of like kat being not super into anything to like

give brayden maybe like some pause right Right. But then obviously when Tanner comes, Brayden starts freaking out a little bit, which is understandable because I think he probably knew that this guy was on her list. Yeah. I think she had said that somewhere early in the season, you know, which is totally fine.

And one thing I would say to Brayden, I see a lot, but I don't see everything is that there's almost like this thing of women can smell when you're not confident. Absolutely. And it's so unattractive. I think that goes both ways. I just don't, I think men don't realize that they have that intuition the way women realize it, but they do do like that's just something confidence is like it's it's so it's like the highest form of currency you can have as a person is confidence i feel like especially when it comes to dating and relationships yeah and i wonder if he had

played it a little bit differently of like yeah go for it have a good time you know yeah figure it out i guess and then her coming back and he was like yeah whatever i don't know you know if you're not into it you're not into it i wonder if she would have felt differently i don't know if she would have but i wonder if she would have i'm going to actually defend brayden probably for the rest of this episode but i will say he does come across as a little whiny and that can be such an easy like, uh, absolutely. You know, I mean,

nobody likes desperate and he was coming off desperate. Yeah. Yeah. And ladies, like, what do you want? Do you want guys to be like in touch with their emotions and being honest and like where their heart and their sleeve,

or do you want them to be kind of assholes? I don't. I want them, I want them to be kind of an asshole. You know, it's funny. Men are garbage. I made that for you i mean they are i made that for you and what's funny is that you what you want brandy is you want men to

walk the fine line between yes garbage and nice exactly and that's an impossibility here's the thing i i like it when guys kind of act like an asshole but aren't actually an asshole. Yeah, but that's fair. I would prefer that over someone that pretends to be all nice and in touch with their emotions and then actually ends up being a fucking asshole. That's what I don't like. Okay. Because there are plenty of those out there. Yeah.

Oh, I'm so nice. I'm so thoughtful. I'm such a great guy. Wrong. Yeah. Oh, I'm so nice. I'm so thoughtful. I'm such a great guy. Wrong. Yeah. I'm a piece of shit. I know, but what you're asking for is just such a hard thing for somebody to do. Is it though?

I think it is. Is it that hard? I don't know. I mean, I think that either you're a nice person or you're a fucking asshole. It's hard to be like, he's a a nice guy but he just acts like an asshole. That's the story of like someone just defending someone

who's an asshole. I don't know. I don't know. I feel like I'm a little bit of an asshole. Yeah. I can see that. But at the end of the day

I'm a nice person. Yeah. It's like I kind of act like an asshole but I'm not. And that's like I'm just looking for that in someone else.

Yeah. Maybe I'm a little bit of that. Yeah. I definitely think so. Yeah. Yeah. You act like an asshole every now and then. I do. Yeah. Maybe I'm a little bit of that. Yeah, I definitely think so. Yeah. Yeah, you act like an asshole every now and then. I do.

Yeah, you used to a lot more than you do now. Really? I think so. What was I mean about in the back? No, not mean. That's a different word entirely. Okay, what was I an asshole about?

I think you just gave off this arrogant asshole energy. Did I? Yeah, but it was a good thing. I like that. So like, I think, I think that's a good thing, but I always knew you weren't actually an asshole. Yeah. You know what I mean? So I've calmed down though. That's that, that's, that's gone away a little bit. Yeah. I think, you know, marriage life has really softened you up. Yeah. Age too.

I'm starting to come to terms with my mortality and I'm really, uh. No, you're just a little softer, Wells. well yeah it's funny my dad's like that too because my dad's in his 80s and like he knows that like the time is near and all of a sudden he's like sentimental and like calling us way too much and you're like what's going on here okay back to the show Jess and Blake are sitting in on a day bed and Jess doesn't know that poultry and birds are the same thing. Yikes. He's like, think about it.

I know. Just a little more. What's going on? Jess is just not into Blake. Which is very surprising because he looks good down there. I like the haircut. He's jacked up. He's chill.

But do you think that she would be more into Tanner? I don't know. I know she really likes Tanner, but I just don't know. I don't know if that dynamic would work either. I wonder how many like serious relationships she's really been in, you know, because she could she really could. I feel like could be dating anybody out there. Tyler comes in. He's the cutest.

So cute. I was so bummed that he didn't take Rachel. I mean, I don't know if they're just like got this like friendly vibe, but how funny would it have been if they like had, you know, a part two story on Paradise? Yeah, I don't know. I think it's a hard thing for someone from their season to go back out on dates with this person. I mean, I can see it. You were rejected.

She picked somebody over you. Like I could see it, but also it would have been cute. Yeah. And it's also like it's their opportunity to like meet other people I was actually really surprised that he didn't take Jess me too but I do love Mercedes and I'm happy that like Mercedes got to go on like a fun date like that yeah and it's funny she said that he was like the top of her list this whole list thing this season is so funny but you know she was like you're my number one or whatever and he kind of said that about her too and i was like that's such a twist like i would have never put those two together and pictured that those two like would like each

other but seeing them together it i it does work they're very cute like i love this for them and mercedes is so giddy around him i haven't seen her like that about any of these guys so far. I almost feel like next season, the lists need to be published. You know? I guess. So like, I can be like, I don't know if, because I think sometimes you're like, you're on my list. And you're like, were they?

Were you? Really? Or are you just saying that because, check the replay. Nope, that was not the original list that you had when you came in here. It'd be funny, actually, if you guys had everyone make the list. And then I know you're doing this like truth box thing next week or whatever. Yeah. But like, like reveal them like halfway through and blow up some shit. You know what I mean?

So obviously Tanner decides to take Kat on the date. And she has no problem saying yes. Like there is. I can't believe that she didn't even speak to Brayden before going. Yeah, it was, it was a little messed up. I will say that. What I think was really not right was when she got dressed and she came down and he came up to her and said, wow, you look really beautiful.

And she just disregarded him i know it was insane i know that you haven't liked brayden very much or whatnot but like i don't know if there's anybody that i don't like enough to to not feel bad for them in that situation well not only feel bad i mean it's just like a decent like a respect thing like it's just decency to like somebody you've been talking to and kissing and like you've got something going with somebody and you're not even going to acknowledge them when they talk to you. And you're about to go on another date without even a conversation. I don't know. I thought it made her look really, really terrible. Yeah.

And I think that she continues to look bad, especially when she comes back to the beach. We'll get there. So they go on their date, whatever. They go ride horses, which is so funny. Finding the biggest bug for her to ride on, to be freaked out by, you know? Also, Bachelor producers. Yeah.

Can we please stop putting fake horse noises in? Everyone knows they're not real. Oh, I don't even know what you're talking about. What the fuck do you mean? All the whinnies and the horse nickering, none of that is real that is all overdub none of it's real it's not believable please stop doing i believed it no it's stupid please stop doing it i my thing would be hey bachelor producers the gopro angle that you have on everyone's face horrible it's just nothing but under chin. Yeah, not good.

There's a lot that could be fixed about the horse scenes and if you need help, just call me, okay? Yeah, okay. You're gonna be the equestrian for the season. Let me help you guys out. But they go and have a beautiful date. It's fine. Like, you can tell that this is who she's been waiting for

this entire time. And meanwhile, Brayden's back there just like, I'm fully pot committed. Like, I hope she comes back to me, yada, yada, yada. We all know that's just not going to happen. In the same vein, you have Mercedes going with Tyler and poor Will's like, motherfucker. I do feel really, for both of these guys,

like their stories are so parallel to me. Obviously Kat comes back. Brayden does a couple things wrong. One is he kind of comes up to her and like asked to go talk. And if I was in his shoes, I would have been stubborn and been like, if she wants to talk to me, she can come talk to me.

But like, I'm not going to look like a, like a bitch being like, can we go talk please after you're like, I wouldn't have done that. Yeah. She goes and she just like immediately cuts it off with him. And here's the thing. Like I was there the entire time.

They were the strongest couple. You couldn't peel them apart. Those first people said that too. A lot of people said that, you know, when they were kind of, when you, they would kind of go through everyone, they'd be like, yeah, Bradayden and cat like maybe the strongest super strong couple like that's what i'm saying for her to have not even spoken to him before going on the date was just crazy yeah and then she was very just just dismissal dismissive of him when they actually had the talk and and he took it he took it on the chin and he was like, okay. And then the thing that happened,

which guys do, I think it was Aaron B and of all people, Sean come over there and they gas him up a little bit. You know, they're just like, that's messed up. That's fucked up. And he's like, you know, you're right. It is fucked up. And like, I'm hurt. And like, she didn't even come and talk to me. Like she, he starts doing the things that everyone knows he was feeling, right? And I absolutely love it because it was the most me thing ever was when Jess pulls Kat and is like, I know. Hey, this isn't going to look good for you.

Yeah. Because that's the thing that I say a lot where I'm like, I can see the forest, the trees in terms of like what this is going to end up, the optics of it are. And like, you just look cold blooded lady, you know? And she just can't hear it. Nope. Like she just, and it's funny, like that's a maturity thing too

of no one likes to get constructive criticism, but you can grow from it. Yeah. But it takes a long time to be mature enough to be like, okay, I hear what you're saying. I hate it, but you're probably not wrong, you know? And then maybe I can do better. And I do think there's a little bit of really, really pretty people get away with a lot of stuff that like normal people don't. And I think that's a little bit of what's going on here. Yeah, I could see that.

So then she pulls Brayden again and fucking lights him up. And the poor guy's, I'm just telling you how I feel. And she's like, you're being argumentative. Guy's like, what? I'm telling you, I'm sad. Oh my God, she's the argumentative one. No kidding. It's such projection, you know?

And it's very obvious. Yeah, and it's like psychology 101. Do you feel a little bit differently about Brayden after all of this? Definitely. And I like Brayden much more on Paradise than I did on his season. I just, you know, on his season, he wasn't very likable, but there's, you know, multiple sides to people.

I get it. Yeah. He's a good guy, but I think he needs to stop being so desperate because I think a lot of women do and will come down and like him and be interested in him. So like, I don't know, he needs to toughen up,

shrug it off. You dodged a bullet, buddy. On next you know totally and then the other obviously big storyline is the poo baby sam hasn't shit in over nine days i wish they wouldn't have made it such a big deal i just i'm like okay we get it like it was a part of what was happening there i so i i can't say that like is it that big of a deal to not shit for seven days? It was nine days when it was revealed to us. Yeah, I think you can have

a ruptured colon. I think things can get really bad. If you haven't shit in two weeks, you need to go to the hospital. Really? Yes, 100%. I guess if you're eating a lot then yeah. You're eating every single day. You know? Tacos every single day. You know? Tacos every single day.

The doctor is hilarious. Well, is he really a doctor? Yeah, he is. He's not like an actor or anything? No, yeah. No, he's the guy that like gives me pills. He had to have been on TV before. He's too good.

Well, he's been on the show before, for sure. Yeah, I'm like, he's too good on camera to have never been on camera. Yeah, like, what's his name? Last year broke his ankle and he was there. Got it. I wonder if Sarah's back. The whole, you have until sunrise to shit, the poo baby clock. Why sunrise?

Why not 8 a.m.? I don't, I don't. It's so weird. It's so weird. I'd be like, sunrise, honey, I'm sleeping till 8. So we'll talk about this at eight i think that it was a cute thing that what erin did oh for sure she was obviously very embarrassed by it i'm shocked she was as confident as she was to talk about it honestly i think we

were all very impressed that she was willing to talk about it yeah i would have been like fuck no you're not putting me on tv talking about not being able to shit oh i know and when they were producers like hey wells um sam wants to come talk to you about something personal i was like okay sure like i can't imagine i'm thinking it's gonna be like you know i'm really i really feel something strongly for aaron but i'm not totally Aaron, but I don't know how to do that. Totally caught off guard with the, so I haven't shit in 10 days. I was like, what? Anyways, I think it's funny. I think you need a little bit of that, especially in an episode like the one that we had

where you just see two guys just absolutely get destroyed. And there needs to be like a little bit of levity, I think. I think it was a somewhat well-balanced episode. Yeah, I liked it. Okay, enough Bachelor stuff? Yeah. Okay. You got some fave things, bro, or what?

Bro, I got at least one fave thing. Okay, give it to me. There's a Netflix movie called Fair Play. Have you seen it? No. Oh, it's so good. I feel like I don't say her last name correctly, but it's Phoebe Divenor, something like that is her name.

She is in season one of Bridgerton. She's in a bunch of things. I'm obsessed with her. She's amazing. It's a movie. It's long. It's so fucking good. The acting is incredible.

I love the storyline. I was just obsessed with it. I would re-watch it i loved it so much let's hear the the synopsis an unexpected promotion at a cutthroat hedge fund pushes a young couple's relationship to the brink threatening to unravel far more than their recent engagement fair Fair play on Netflix now. But the two leads are phenomenal. Their performances are incredible. And the synopsis is a little bland, but like the show is great.

Basically this couple, they work at the same hedge fund or whatever, you know, finance office in New York City, but keep their relationship a secret because they work together. Yeah, yeah, yeah. HR. So it's the whole dynamic of like, we have this secret relationship. Like the thing said, one gets promoted and how that alters the relationship and just brings out a lot of character traits in each other that maybe they didn't know before.

And shit gets crazy and it's just very good. Okay. I'll check it out. Okay. So we talked about it last week. Did you watch Reptile? I haven't yet. So, so we talked about it last week. Did you watch Reptile? I haven't yet. So yeah, we touched on it last week.

I watched it. Tom Nichols is a hard-newing detective unflinching in his pursuit of a case where nothing is as it seems and it begins to dismantle the illusions of his own life. Reptile on Netflix. So it's Benicio Del Toro. It is Justin Timberlake and

Alicia Silverstone. So really good cast, actually. It's a murder mystery. Benicio del Toro is the main detective in it. He's trying to solve this murder of Justin Timberlake's fiance or girlfriend. I liked it. I liked it a lot. Sarah, not so much. She was really distracted by the music in it, which it didn't really bother me. It is a little kind of all over the place. And we looked up who the director was and he's kind of a newer director that really has been focusing on music videos. So it might've explained like why the music was seemed like a little too much sometimes. And like taking kind of a,

you know, a front seat when it probably should be in the backseat. Anyways, I liked it a lot. Sarah was like on it. So there you go. Okay. Yeah.

Loki is back and season two, episode one is out right now the first episode is kind of very odd but like I like what they're doing with it and I'm just like a big Marvel and Loki is it Tom Hiddleston is that his name yep I love him he's very good and obviously

Owen Wilson fantastic wow that's terrible and I'm embarrassed about the impersonation oh you know And I'm embarrassed about the impersonation. Oh. You know what I was thinking about the other day? Huh? Okay.

You know Forrest Gump? You've seen Forrest Gump, right? Yeah. You know, everyone thinks that he's like kind of like mentally handicapped, right? Yeah. Like he's like stupid or something. Um, yeah. Yeah.

Hear me out. Okay. I think that Forrest Gump was autistic. Well, that's kind of what I assumed. Really? Oh, I always thought he had an IQ of like three. No, I always thought he was just on the spectrum. Oh.

Is that not what everybody else thinks? I don't know. It's not what I thought. And then the other day I was watching. Actually, I was in a Bubba Gumps flying back from Puerto Vallarta. And I was watching the scene where he's learning ping pong and i'm like and he's doing it both hands i'm like this is the most elon musk autistic thing though he's a fucking genius yeah totally and it makes sense like he becomes a billionaire and super hyper focused on like

running across the world you know and everything so anyways i don't know i just never thought about that way but yeah i think i think that like he wasn't stupid. He was smarter than everybody else. Yeah. So anyway, sorry, that was a little bit of a rant there that I just put that in there.

That's okay. That was a good rant. Yeah. There's a new season of the Murda murderers. A new season? A new season. How many more episodes

can they do on this? Well, that's the thing. It goes into the trial. Okay. And then it's just how the trial goes with Alec Murdaugh. Did he really kill his son and his wife and all this stuff? And it's interesting.

It kind of puts a bow on all of it. So I highly recommend, especially if you were really into of like really into the Murda murders in general. I have a couple thoughts on it. Okay. I still am not 100% sure what his motive was. Do I think that he like did it? Yeah, probably. Like why would he like pretended like he wasn't at the dog kennels, but then they found the video of him at the dog kennels three minutes before what the coroners

think was the time of death so like that I don't know that's weird you lied about it and then he talks about like you know he what was at his mom's house for 40 minutes and he tells like the caretaker hey tell everyone I was here for 40 minutes the caretaker was like she was he was here for like 20 minutes and she was already asleep. He came like 9.30, you know? So it's like, nothing makes any sense. Like you definitely had something to do with it. But I still don't understand why you killed them. Like, was it insurance money?

Like, did they know about like you're embezzling money from the firm? Everyone knows about that now. Were you embarrassed by your son killing that girl in the boat? I just need someone to explain to me what the motive was. And I will say this. Everyone should go watch it. I didn't really give a whole lot because you obviously know what happens to him. Everyone knows he goes to jail.

But I will say this. I think the cleaning lady or the housekeeper, I think she knows more. I think she knows a little bit more than she's letting on. And by that, I mean, when she says, I don't want to answer that question. When they're like, do you know more? Wow. Yeah.

I tell you who I kind of feel bad for, even though like, so there's the other brother Buster, but like, there's like, maybe like the Buster killed that gay guy and they've opened up that case. Remember the hit and run accident? But I do feel bad for, he didn't do that. If he did kill that gay kid and, his mother, his brother all die. And then like three months later,

his dad go to jail for killing them. This guy's life is fucked forever. Yeah. But if he did kill that gay kid, karma, she's a bitch. Have you watched any of Love is Blind? No, I haven't. They released two more episodes and this show,

this season, just gets juicier and juicier. And I didn't even realize like there's like a side of TikTok that just goes in so much more depth

on Love is Blind. I think like it's been known that usually every season more couples actually get engaged and a lot even have a wedding and it's never tele that usually every season more couples actually get engaged and and a lot even have a wedding and it's never televised did you know that no yeah I'm like what the fuck they're like yeah you know it's like a time thing like they only have so much time you know to air episode whatever but like I feel like they waste a lot of time talking about shit when

I would rather see these other relationships happen right it's like crazy especially this season because only two are actually having weddings it's like two is not very many you usually usually have like three or four why did you guys cut this out so there's all of this this conspiracy theory if you will honestly i think it's like i think it has more traction though than a conspiracy theory i think there's like stone cold facts that there's more to the story about why some of these relationships got cut out. So there's this one girl. Her name is Renee. She's blonde.

Very cute. I think I think her occupation always said veterinarian. And I always I remember thinking like in the first few episodes, I love her. I wish they'd show her more. And I just assumed that she didn't, you know, meet anybody in the pod she connected with. No, no, no. She got engaged and was gonna walk down the aisle and this one of these episodes you know they're doing the wedding

dress fittings and lydia is engaged and gonna you know walk down the aisle with milton so she's at her dress fitting and vanessa's all who'd you bring and she's like my my mom, my brother. And then they're like, oh, and Renee from the pods. But what I found out on TikTok is Renee was not there to support Lydia. Renee was there for her own dress fitting and her mom and friends were sitting there. And somehow Love is Blind producers thought they could get away with panning to Renee, pretending like she's there for Lydia while her family and friends are sitting behind her and now everyone's up in arms like justice for Renee we want to hear her side of the story but apparently there's some like crazy shit between her and her and her like the guy the fiance or whatever from the show and from what I understand he's like super shady and I just need

to know like more about it like I feel like this could be a whole nother spinoff about the relationships that don't work and why. Like what unearthed about these people that were so bad that you're not even airing it on television anymore? I need to know. The other thing is like it's Netflix. It's not like it's network television

where you only can do 22 episodes because you have to, you know, make room for young Sheldon's next season. You know, it's like, you can have as do 22 episodes because you have to you know make room for young sheldon sneksis you know it's like you're gonna have many fucking episodes you want there's some shit they don't want us to know and and i think tiktok is gonna find it out yeah yeah okay i'm excited about it did you ever watch the show the boys i didn't i heard it was good though yeah it's really good it's it's. It's about superheroes, but it's like, what if superheroes were just like all of us and kind of like pieces of shit, you know? That's the premise of it.

And so now there's a new spinoff of The Boys called Gen V, which is on Prime, that we started watching last night, which is very interesting. From the world of The Boys comes comes gen v which explores the first generation of superheroes to know that their superpowers are from compound v these heroes put their physical and moral boundaries the test competing for the school's top ranking gen v you know how like in x-men they all go to the xavier school for the gifted yes this is what is happening all these kids are going to this badass school and they've all got superpowers and you can kind of go one of two ways you can want to be like a crime fighting superhero or you can go and be a celebrity like an actor or a singer or a dancer they make jokes

about like you can go on dancing with the stars it'll be fine i'm only one episode in but it's on prime right now and yeah it's it's it's interesting it's a little it's like a little ya of it you know i love that yeah i like way i do too but also like super gory you know yeah uh i think someone sent me this as like you need to make this into a sound a sound bite oh for my soundboard and i appreciate that yeah we can all use more sounds that is good yeah okay i okay, I'll do that. I like that. To whoever sent me that, thank you.

That is good. That is very good. Two of my best buds have music out right now, and so I wanted to support that. Okay. My buddy David Bourne has a new record out. It's so good. It's called Genesis.

There's a lot of songs that I like a lot. I think I still, this is one of my favorite songs that he's just ever done. It's called The Color of the Rain and it's off his new record called Genesis. Everyone go support David Bourne. He's just the best.

They should tell you when you need her that she'll never let you go. He's just the flood. And she keeps falling, keeps falling on my window, on my window. Hey, no, she never looks the same. She's the color of the rain.

All right, it's David Bourne. The new record's called Genesis. Go buy it, support it, stream it. He's the best. And then I have another one. Do you know my buddy, John Wesley Satterfield? I think I've met him before. Yeah, he was at my wedding.

Yeah. I love him. He's so great. He's got some new music coming out. This is a new song called Ghost. Do you want to go out on that or do you have something you want to play? No, let's go out on it. He's got a video out for this, which is

really good, by the way, too. I think I played for you Ain't For Sale, which is going to be on this new record as well earlier, but I do like the song Ghost. You got something coming up? What's going on with you? I'm horse showing this week. Nice. That brings you joy. It does. It's also a lot of hard work. I've literally been there from sunup

to sundown today. I'm tired. And it's day lot of hard work. I've literally been there from sunup to sundown today. I'm tired. And it's day one. But yeah, I mean, the weather is absolute perfection right now in Nashville. And it looks like it's going to stay that way all week. So I am just like too blessed to be stressed. You know what I'm saying? Yeah.

I'm just trying to soak in. Too blessed to be stressed. Yeah. I'm just like trying to soak in. Like a hat or something. Like loving life, you know? Yeah, man. Gratefulness. Live life, love.

Live life, love. Live, live, love life. Live life, life, love, love. Live life, life, life, life, life, life, life, life, life. Maybe that should be the sign above you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. For the podcast now. That would be really funny and ironic.

It really would. Just dance, you know? Just dance. My mom has. It really would. Just dance. My mom has that in her kitchen. Just dance. I hope you dance. Yeah, whatever it is. I'm kind of stuck in town for a while. I'm really excited about it. Stuck, huh? Well, I don't have any travel plans.

Next month, November is the next time I'm traveling anywhere, which is really nice. I need to get centered. I need to get centered. I need to get back healthy. And I just have like a lot of work to do now that we kind of can start going back to work, which is nice. That is great.

All right, YFTers, we love you. We love you guys. And we're sorry if you don't like the VIP recaps. And if you don't, then I'm going to put in a time stamp for you so you can just skip it. You know? It is good this year, though. It is. It's a good season.

It's just good trash TV, you know? And to be honest with you, it could be worse. We could be doing both The Golden Bachelor and... I know. I did start watching that and I do kind of like it. It's great. It's so wholesome. I know.

It's sweet. Yeah. Yeah. All right, YFTers. I know. It's sweet. Yeah. Alright, YFTers, I think the YouTube thing is now happening. I think there's some stuff up there. Yeah, I don't know if there was a hard launch, but there's definitely videos on our YouTube.

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Love y'all See ya later Yeah Bye Bye She's even in this bed Done everything I can To let her let me be

She ain't no ghost how the hell could she haunt me she ain't no ghost she don't even haunt me