Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero - From Failure to Success | Motivational Speeches Compilation
Episode Date: December 18, 2020The only way to fail is to stop... Tracks: 0:00 The Power of Self-Belief - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_mPoUWBMf4& 6:55 Loved Or Hated, But Never Ignored - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYy1i9V...Cbys 10:01 Dream Chasers -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z326fHt6w9g
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Every single dream, vision, or idea in your life
starts with a simple understanding.
That it's obtainable.
That you can make it real.
That's the beginning of everything.
Self-belief is the gatekeeper that stands between current and future.
See, if you think of reality as these city walls you're living in,
it's not crazy to think that there are going to be people that only know that existence within the walls, right?
That's what they see. That's what most believe. It's how they live.
It is only self-belief, a confidence in something greater outside those walls that opens the gate, that expands your reality.
And if you don't believe anything good exists on the other side, why begin?
If you don't think you're capable of getting there, why start?
And this formula is simple, right?
Let's not overthink it.
We only move towards outcomes that we believe to be possible.
And that's more important than ability, skill set, strength.
I mean, you name it, believing in yourself trumps all that.
Because the person with an inferior skill set,
maybe an average natural talent,
but they believe in something and they move towards it.
They give everything for this idea.
They know it to be true.
It will always be the talented person that's unsure.
They procrastinates.
It has one foot in and one foot out.
And if you don't believe in yourself,
you're building a city on sand
because I'll tell you what, great things,
they're great for a reason.
They're in rare supply.
They're limited.
which means not everyone can have them.
Which means those who do have them have to fight for them.
Have to deal with being uncomfortable.
Have to give more, sacrifice more,
pay a steeper price than the masses.
And if you don't look in the mirror,
stare yourself in the face and know you are one of those select few,
what's going to happen when life kicks back at you?
You'll fall.
You'll resort back to what you know.
you'll flee the battle for safety, security, and comfort.
But when you know your movie ends at the top of the mountain,
when you know at the end of the day,
you're going to cross a finish line or hold a trophy,
your brain internalizes conflict differently, very differently.
For someone with self-belief, obstacles don't make you wonder
if you should keep going.
Because you already know you have to keep going.
I mean, come on, you haven't arrived yet.
There's still a road to travel.
No, in this situation, obstacles simply prompt you to ask how.
How can I get through this?
And that's a small discrepancy that changes everything.
Because at some point, you'll look to your right and you'll look to your left,
and you'll find very few people get to the how question.
They all stopped at if.
I wonder if I can do this.
I wonder if I'm capable.
Well, they'll never know.
They'll never see that sunset
beyond those metaphorical city walls
because they never truly believed in themselves.
They never opened that gate.
Look, I went through 16 years of education
without a teacher or professor telling me,
Eddie, 99% of life is just believing in yourself
to figure challenges out as they come,
to figure life out as it comes.
That's it.
Only X percent make it through law school.
Only Y percent succeed at this and that.
That's what you hear.
But no, none of that matters.
It's simple, it's simple.
Most of the world quits when things get challenging.
If you don't, if you have the courage to believe in trust in yourself, you'll succeed.
Why?
because you won't stop until you find a way.
That's the power of self-belief.
It's not quantum physics.
It's not complex.
You know, at one point,
I didn't think I could make a living
outside of a cubicle or office building.
Then I saw others do it.
And for the first time in my life,
I believed it was possible.
I changed my actions to support my beliefs,
and here we are.
At one point, I didn't think
certain financial goals were reality.
I didn't know about a free, flexible lifestyle.
I wasn't aware of the type of relationships
that would change my life.
Why?
Because they existed outside those city walls.
I didn't believe they were real.
I didn't believe in myself to create them,
to make them in my own life.
But with the change in belief comes a change in reality.
You will always follow through on who you believe you are.
So let's go back to that mirror visualization.
At some point today, look at your reflection and think about nothing but what I'm about to tell you.
Everything you need, you have.
I promise you, you are equipped to change your life, the lives of everyone around you, and the world in which you exist.
So take that back.
Feel it and never ask it again.
From now on, the question is how.
Your fate is not a coin flip, it's a puzzle.
It's about arranging the pieces.
And those two eyes looking back at you are more than capable of figuring that out.
Ask simply, do you want it?
And if yes, open that front door, take that first step
and inject yourself into a journey that will be unlike anything you've ever experienced before.
A journey where you have the answer.
the aptitude, and now the self-belief.
And when you find yourself in the lowest of lows
or the darkest of nights, find solace in that fact
that that will be more than enough to get you to dawn.
But never simply tolerated.
In life, you can live to chase opportunity,
or you can live to avoid failure.
And there are two very different things.
Rather than pursue, we often avoid, we avoid failure, we avoid criticism, we don't want to ruffle feathers or disrupt.
No, we choose to simply exist.
Never condemned, but never extraordinary, just tolerated.
And it's an interesting dilemma because the best things exist on the extremes, life's fringes.
That's where you find your accolades, your accomplishments.
That's what we celebrate.
It's where you need to be.
And you get there not by worrying about what everyone around you thinks, but by taking your
strength, your unique self holding on and pressing the pedal to the floor going all in.
And yeah, that means suddenly, my friend, you are exposed.
You are vulnerable, you are now out there.
It means those who don't have the courage to chase their dreams, they will find you threatening
and they will let you know.
But it also means that the shackles are up.
The door is open, the light is green and you can build from the ground up, you can build
the life you want.
The finish line has now become more visible than the prospect of falling along the way
and you've granted yourself permission to run through it.
Sure, some will love you for these accomplishments,
some will hate you for these accomplishments,
but let me reiterate the word accomplishment.
Because when you live to be invisible,
it's a term that rarely presents itself, I promise.
Life, it rewards the bold.
Those who are bold in their beliefs,
bold in their actions, their dreams, and their pursuits.
They are not for anyone but you.
And years later, when you look in the mirror, you'll know that you gave every single thing you had to a life that meant something to you.
Loved, yes.
Hated, sure, but merely tolerated, no.
Before you can ever get to where you're going, you have to decide to begin.
You have to acknowledge that what you're chasing means more to you than what you are leaving behind.
And then begins the greatest adventure you will ever experience, knowing that you have turned someday into right now.
That the road beneath you is waving you on, the wind at your back, it pushes you forward.
forward, there are no guarantees in life, but that just might be what makes it so incredible.
You'll only go as far as you allow your imagination to take you.
Whether it's the end of your driveway, or where the sun and the ocean intersect.
