Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero - Ghost Mode: Disappear For 6 Months & Change Your Life
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Freedom lies in being bold.
Robert Frost.
Something caught my eye on Twitter, not too long ago,
was a headline referencing the boldness of wolves in the wild.
So I clicked it to delve a little deeper,
took me to an article by Emma Maris.
And here's the summary at like a 10,000-foot view.
Okay, basically there's a parasite called T. Gondi,
that infects animals and then causes those infected animals to act bold,
perhaps even reckless in some situations.
And the article states why and goes into some great detail,
but for now I'm going to jump right to a specific point,
because there's a part where the article mentions how two wildlife ecologists,
Meyer and Cassidy, studied wolves at Yellowstone for 27 years.
and upon studying them they find something very interesting
after taking blood samples from 229 wolves
they found that wolves infected with that T. Gondii parasite
that again makes them act bolder
were 11 times more likely than uninfected wolves
to leave their birth family and start a new pack.
The infected wolves were also 46 times more likely
to become pack leaders, which Marist states are often the only wolves that breed.
And so this appears to portray a direct link from boldness to increased social status
and possibly even reproduction rates.
With that boldness comes risk, sure, but with risk comes reward upside.
Now obviously, the day-to-day actions of wolves at Yellowstone is not,
not an apples to apples comparison with human beings functioning in society.
But personally, I can't help but feel the value contained in the case study.
In fact, it was my thinking about it while falling asleep that prompted me to find the article again and share it.
For the simple reason that I know there are places in my life that I can be bolder.
I know there are places in my life where I can dial up.
that risk factor in exchange for results that supersede what I have now. You don't get
more without giving more. And I know there are places I can give more. In fact, I'm
pretty confident there are places every single one of us can give more. See, here's
the thing. Being bold means drastically different things to different people. And it's in
this truth that the magic is found. Boldness
for one person might be completely different from someone else.
It might be more travel.
For another, it might be taking on a project at work.
For another, it might be leaving a detrimental situation.
For someone else, you know, going through a low point or deeply challenging time,
it might be simply getting out of bed.
We are all operating on different planes at any given time.
My bold today won't be my bold next week.
That's just the way life works.
but here's what I do know.
We can all find within ourselves
that courage to be bold in whatever arena we are in.
And every once in a while someone will say to me,
yeah, but Eddie, can't you just be happy where you are?
Why does it always have to be the next thing,
or bigger, or better, or more?
To which my response is, look,
of course we should be grateful for what we have.
Of course, we should appreciate the gifts
and the beauty that surrounds us day in, day out,
because it's there and it's infinite.
But, and you knew there was a but.
Human beings are purpose-driven.
Our happiness is often derived from our progress.
Our journey is the destination.
And we often find when we look around
that we have given pieces of ourselves away,
sometimes without thinking about it.
Perhaps we become stagnant with areas of ourselves that can be elevated, that are destined to evolve.
I love looking back at those courageous moments in my life.
They mean everything to me.
You know, I like to say it's the small things repeated day in and day out that make us who we are.
The vast majority of the time, I believe that to be true.
But those pivotal moments, those opportunities that our consistency creates for,
us. Well, boldness in those instances changes everything. Walking onto a stage when you've never
spoken before, when your body is physically rebelling and you don't want to walk on stage is everything.
Calling you all, packing up and leaving a situation that's no longer in your best interest
is painful, it's instantaneous, but is ultimately everything. Making an investment that you believe in.
deciding to hire someone with incredible vision and talent,
being vulnerable enough to share your thoughts with the world,
these things are risky, they are bold,
but in your world, they are everything.
And so the obvious connection here is our desire to lead
in a world seemingly void of adequate leadership.
It's setting an example.
It's not settling for the ground floor when the sky is the limit.
Yes, on all count.
but it's also leading yourself.
At times we forget just how important that is
that you need to lead yourself to something meaningful.
Significant change does not come along without your initiating it.
No doors open if you don't knock.
The world will only give you what you ask of it.
And I'm here to remind you that asking more of the world
Yes, it's hard, it's uncomfortable.
It requires you to be more today than you were yesterday.
But you are capable of that.
You are bold enough to be that.
Robert Frost says freedom lies in being bold.
I believe that's because in your courage lives the infinite.
Upside so powerful that one simply cannot grasp it while standing still.
So go.
Go find those areas of life, your life, where you know you're holding back,
where you know when your soul you have more to give,
and breathe life into them.
Knowing that sure, in being bold, missing the mark is a possibility.
But in never leaving, it's a certainty.
If you never go, you will never arrive.
So find the courage to ask more of yourself because more there is.
What's up guys, Eddie here.
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Always grateful, never satisfied.
On to the next.
I recently heard someone say,
it's not about doing your best.
It's about doing what's required.
Are they different?
Very.
Here's my take.
Doing your best has an emotional component attached to me.
It's subjective.
What exactly is your best?
Well, it's a story that you tell yourself.
A narrative, opening the door to limitation.
I've always found that when we put our backs against the wall
and venture into scenarios where it's essential that we get something done,
we somehow always find a way.
When we leave no plan B for ourselves,
we are required to make Plan A work, and so we do.
It's a testament to both the resilience and power contained in the human spirit,
as well as the reality that we can astound ourselves
when we're unwilling to take no for an answer.
That it's not the resources that are the problem.
It's usually our unwillingness to move forward into the dark,
are hesitants to try, explore, test, build, and rebuild.
Actions that are surprisingly unrelated to one's best
and have everything to do with accepting nothing less than an identified outcome.
One of the reasons I fell in love with the sport of running
is because it reinforced this notion in my life.
It became the template with which I could repeatedly amaze myself.
I talk a lot about earning confidence.
confidence, and oh, how I earned it.
Step by step by mile by day by day, in the sun in the rain, in the desert, in the woods,
through city streets, all over the country and the world, I came to understand the relationship
between the turbulence of now and the satisfaction of later.
It was on those days that pushed beyond my usual level of comfort.
when that cloud of pain and agony would hover over me.
I couldn't even really point to where my body hurt.
It just all seemed to come together into this one giant hell,
and to learn that I could not only endure that,
but grow in those moments.
To see myself rise above any preconceived notion or understanding of best
in order to defeat my demons,
conquer the day's objective,
It changes the way you see yourself in the world.
Now, could onlookers be tempted to call these self-created goals arbitrary, even unnecessary?
Sure, and I get why they would, but I'd also completely disagree.
Those days were a master class in doing what is necessary.
Realizing that when you shut your rational brain off,
and don't give your mind a chance to talk your body out of it.
You can see just how powerful you are.
You realize that story of your best
is nothing more than a house built on sand.
Life is not about that story you've told yourself.
It's not about your personal records and peak performances.
What you think you can do or how far you think you might be able to go.
It's about not stopping in the moments
when it hurts.
Doing what is required, a decision that compounds over time to create what was once impossible.
One of my favorite quotes is by Admiral William McRaven, an absolute hero of mine.
Funny enough, he says, if you want to change the world, you must be your very best in your darkest
moments.
And what a beautiful idea to rise when life presents its pure.
periods of turbulence.
And sure, it may be a matter of semantics, but in those moments of darkness, I think of
your best, not in the traditional sense, not as a personal metric, but as a willingness to
do what must be done, a removal of the spotlight from you altogether and instead pointed
directly at the road ahead, at the task at hand.
When you choose to make the journey, not about what you can and cannot do, but instead
make it about what must be done, the universe, as Paulo Coelho has so elegantly stated,
conspires to make it happen. I think back to my journey and at so many periods my best
wasn't good enough. I was so lost and so overwhelmed that the only thing I could do was not stop
moving. That was my superpower, simply trudged through the fear of things falling apart,
the nagging pride and hurting ego.
And what I learned was that life is no different
than all those miles I'd put in running.
How I felt what my previous capabilities were,
what I deemed my best to be.
It was all noise.
It was all irrelevant.
What was required was that I move forward
through the chaos and to something better.
And so I did.
And in your world, so can you.
The stories we tell ourselves are so powerful and in many ways valuable in our journey through life.
But there's one narrative that eliminates the necessity of so many others.
You can get to the top of whatever mountain you are seeking to climb so long as you do not stop.
So long as you let go of the limitations tied to your quote unquote best
and instead do what is required to get there.
You'll see how adaptable and transformative that best really is, how it's a lagging indicator.
It will take time, but you're capable of being patient.
And it will have its moments of chaos, but you are capable of weathering those storms.
It will present obstacles that leave you unclear, uncertain, sometimes unprepared,
but you're capable of picking your head up and moving through that hate.
What you know of yourself now is a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of what you're capable of doing.
And how far that goes will be determined not by putting a stake in the ground and calling it your personal best.
But as Emerson has said, by hitching your wagon to a star and pulling yourself towards its light a little bit.
Brown has said, you don't get what you want in life, you get who you are.
If you put the man together, the world responds.
You build yourself up, evolve, life around you will transform.
Someone once asked me on a podcast episode about imposter syndrome, why I think it's actually
a very positive thing.
My thinking is imposter syndrome is a side.
that you're in an arena somewhat foreign to you.
You're trying something new, playing the student.
Anytime you do that, of course you're going to feel out of place.
You have to.
You don't grow without putting yourself in an environment
in which growth is possible.
We have to shake up the old in order to create the new,
and it's that process, to Les Brown's point,
that makes us who we are.
It creates our reality.
Jim Rohn has said something similar in that it's not what we have, it's what we become.
Having something is one thing, sure.
But building yourself up to be someone who can repeatedly go out and get that thing over and over and over again,
well, that's something different altogether.
Are you willing to be that vulnerable?
to start on the ground floor and work your way up.
Because here's the deal.
There have been many times where I knew I had to be more than I've ever been
in order to obtain something I've never had.
And if I aim to live life to the fullest, and I do,
realizations like this will only continue.
Everyone knows it's painful when there's a delta that exists between what you want,
in what you're currently capable of having or acquiring.
That's a tough realization.
And what epiphanies like that tend to do
is leave you with a few options, right?
You can run away or get better.
You can surrender and find something lesser
or become worthy of that thing you want.
Talk about a difficult conversation with yourself,
acknowledging that you're currently not where you need to be.
The ego does not like that.
It's uncomfortable.
It's why so many people raise the white flag and run.
It can be much easier to shake your fist at the world around you
than it is to delve into the one within you.
Joseph Campbell has said the hero's journey is inside you.
Throw off the veils and open the mystery of yourself.
Close your eyes and imagine a world
where you aren't scared to go after what you want.
to grow along with your dreams, your goals, aspirations,
where you walk directly into that space,
your curiosity is begging you to explore.
Where you condition yourself to depersonalize the criticism and failure
and instead focus on the becoming.
That's not some crazy proposition.
You're not being asked to go perform some miracle.
It's simply about giving yourself permission to evolve,
into what you can become, allowing water to nourish the seed that is your soul.
When you look around you and feel the very human thought that is,
I wish something about this was different,
I challenge you to be courageous enough to point in and ask,
how can I make it so?
How can I level up and become the type of person that has X,
that gives why, that experiences Z.
You are capable of filling that gap.
Again, not a negotiation with the world, but an agreement with yourself.
To accept more discomfort in your life in exchange for the upside that comes with it.
There's something to the saying, don't wish it were different, wish you were better.
Because again, it places power and control in your hands to evolve and make it
reality. It's crazy to me how easy it is and because of that how many people complain about
something their entire lives without owning the change. Becoming the person who lives
differently, sees differently, feels differently, it's all there. You get in life who you are
and how incredible that who you are never ends, it's limitless.
If you're willing to push, to grow and change, it is your ticket to the ride of a lifetime.
The ability to find calm amidst chaos is a superpower, finding clarity and focus.
Not when the environment is perfect, not when the stars are aligned.
when your mind wants to wander and your emotions are high,
when the conditions are not perfect,
and your brain starts to rationalize,
maybe picking things back up some other time.
Can you carve out serenity for yourself?
Just enough to do what needs to be done,
because sometimes that is what makes all the difference.
I remember way back now, 2017,
getting out of a relationship, relocating, starting over in many ways, just kind of wrecked.
And for a period, couldn't immerse myself in my work like I used to.
The rest of life felt like it was on such shaky ground that it's like, you know, when everything's shaking,
how do I find this stability to talk about it?
To turn it all into something meaningful.
It just felt impossible.
But I was working through it.
And one morning, I was out on my patio listening to this meditation app.
It was a guided meditation.
And I'll never forget the voice saying,
think of your thoughts as clouds floating overhead.
You're sitting and looking up at them, just watching them go by.
Which means a few things.
One, it removes you from your thoughts.
That shattering in your head is not you,
and you can, in fact, step away from it and observe it.
And two, it kind of diminishes the good thought versus bad thought label.
They're all just thoughts.
And they only mean something if you take them on, if you choose to embody them.
And now this alone is a practice or skill that people work on their whole lives, right?
This concept is just the beginning, but I felt that in many ways it was a light bulb moment.
It opened a door for me.
There was a very practical usage here.
because the easy days are rarely a problem, right?
But life is messy.
The easy days are great, but you can't rely on them, right?
Life is ups and downs.
It's the days that things are turbulent or the other corners of my life are presenting issues, right?
Whether it's people or health problems or frustration or angered something that's occurred,
just human things.
to be able to sit down, open my laptop, and envision it all as little clouds floating overhead is freeing.
It's like disassociating yourself from the baggage.
Yeah, you might be in a storm, but you're capable of creating an eye wall, manufacturing serenity for yourself.
It's saying, no, the externalities do not get to dictate how, when, and where I out.
allocate my attention. It's not about running or hiding. This is about understanding that life does not create
perfect moments. The timing will never be just right. And therefore, we must manufacture our starting
points. We must create the very arenas in which we will perform. And one of my favorite examples of
this was an eye-opening experience for me being sick on the day I'd plan to run a half.
marathon, been practicing, working out for months, right?
Woke up with this scratchy throat and a cough,
and everything sort of devolved into chaos.
I spent the morning constantly reminding myself
that I was operating on an empty tank,
that I was going to be less than 100%.
It wasn't until I stopped talking to myself
and just started running that I saw through the story I was telling.
I separated my reality from my thoughts
and created a space I could thrive.
I remember about halfway through looking at my time
and realizing, wow, like not only am I okay, this is great, I feel good.
I'm going to make something incredible out of this.
Conditions weren't ideal, but that's just it.
Sometimes life asks us to make something of ourselves
and the world around us with less than ideal circumstances.
When things aren't perfect, can you separate your thoughts from the task at hand?
Can you find focus when you're surrounded by noise?
Can you create clarity amidst the clutter?
It's important to understand that life consists of highs and lows.
That is the plane of reality we exist on, and so the question becomes,
During the lows, can we carve out that environment to succeed?
When we want to stop, to turn back, when we want to make excuses, can we separate the thoughts from what must be done, the emotion from the action?
The ability to find calm amidst chaos is a superpower.
We just need to remember to look.
We need to remember that the negative emotions, the negative emotions, the power.
The ideas and the stories are not us.
They are clouds floating overhead.
Step back, observe them, let them go by and understand that now it's time to do what needs to be done.
Now it's time to tap into that potential and that strength that's always been there.
It's always existed.
It just needs permission, not from the external world, but from you now.
They used to separate building up and tearing down as if they were two totally different ideas
rather than one perpetual loop.
The energy can neither be created nor destroyed.
Simply transfers from one thing to another.
We are renting everything in this world, grabbing little pieces of life as we run through it.
And what we leave behind in the rear view has the potential to tug at our heartstrings as we see it collapse into the horizon, sure.
But it also has to.
Yesterday was in its own way the beginning, a nurturing parent, preparing you for the world of today.
pushing you out the front door and maybe you don't feel ready, we never do.
But things have to go in order for more to arrive.
The tearing down is the building up.
I have a significant relationship with this idea, letting go.
I think because it's personally been one of my greatest adversaries.
You know, and the words that escape our lips pull back the curtain.
on who we are. Humans are just projectors with eyes. As my words escape, the hope is something
beautiful will be let in. As I'm sitting here, writing, speaking, I'm thinking about how exciting
the prospect of scaling this message, growing this brand, helping more people, adding more
value, while simultaneously dancing around the terror of relinquishing some level of creative
control with my work. You can't of course grow and still do things how you did them in a
one-bedroom apartment in 2014. This isn't new. They've been grappling with it in
different contexts for years. It's so personal to me but the reality is there's no
gray space here. This situation is clear as glass. You have to let go in order to
acquire. You have to tear down those barriers.
in order to make room for more.
This is and always has been a me conversation.
I'll look at myself in the mirror conversation.
Eddie, what are you willing to let go of
because there are ropes that must be cut?
See, these conversations hurt,
but they are the transfer mechanism to all that is beautiful.
Being self-aware hurts.
But I'm going to go out on a limb here
and assume that it hurts less
than operating in a state of consistent.
delusion. So I offer this question to you. What was the last conversation you had with yourself?
When was your last is what I want and what I'm doing aligned conversation? When was your last?
Am I holding on to too much conversation? Your last, if I want parts of me to be reborn,
am I willing to let the unnecessary things die conversation?
Life is a cycle, and we forget that.
As we get comfortable, as we become accustomed to routine,
it's easy to forget.
Are we shedding the old or hiding within it?
And Gary Keller is one thing, he mentions how a domino
can knock over another domino 50% larger.
So if you were to start with a two-inch domino and keep increasing the one next to it by 50%.
The 23rd domino in the progression would be able to knock over the Eiffel Tower.
The 31st would be as tall as Everest.
The 57th domino would be able to bridge the gap between the Earth and the moon.
See, but it must be understood that it's the 50th.
50% growth from domino to domino that makes the difference.
If each domino stays the same size, you don't get any remarkable transformation.
And in many ways, that's what we do.
We want the moon, but we stay that two-inch domino.
That's my example of holding on to perhaps too many aspects of the creative process.
That holding on prevents the 50% jump.
For you, the journey before you will be a different one with different characteristics.
But the rule is the same.
The old dominoes must fall in order to create something new.
That energy must be passed on.
And it is capable of transferring, this is the important part, to something much bigger than itself.
That's why we allow the old to fall.
It's not that it's valueless.
It's that its value was in setting up the brilliance that now awaits.
You can't be afraid to tear down.
the old, right? We have to seek out that fearlessness that exists within us. It's
crippling our growth, diminishing our capacity to live life to the fullest. That's what's scary.
Protecting that which no longer serves us is what's dangerous. So let yesterday fade into the rear
view. It may hurt, it may tug at those heartstrings, but when you look back years from now,
It will be the reason, the very reason you'll have embarked upon the adventure of a lifetime.
It's what you destroyed that will have opened the door for everything.
Brought forth the manifestation of the beautiful life you ultimately came to build.
