Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero - How to Rebuild Yourself When Life Breaks You (Motivational Speech)
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The road to this moment wasn't an easy one.
There were times where you thought you knew, but simply didn't.
There were plans made that drastically differed from the one's fate had prepared.
There were days that made you question yourself, your beliefs, that made you ask,
what is my purpose?
Look, to live is to have felt these things, asked these questions, to have seen firsthand the
discrepancy between what we draw up and how life unfolds.
And I think about this discrepancy often.
The swings and misses, they hurt.
You know, that quick shiver you feel down your spine when thinking about the wrong turns made.
The tugging at your heartstrings when reflecting back on things said or perhaps worse, left unsaid.
It's easy to get lost in that feedback loop, letting the past dictate the present, letting yesterday define today.
But here's what I've come to see as the truth.
To experience the things that make life beautiful, we have to be vulnerable in a way we otherwise
would open ourselves up to an unknown that, you know, we could have skipped altogether
if we really wanted to.
All that pain, all that hurt the past provided could very easily be the reason you shut down,
the reason you play small.
hell you walked through could be your justification for never stepping out into the chaos of life again.
That would at first glance appear to make sense.
Seem ideal, even.
But that pain could also be the reason you look around you and say, after all that,
After experiencing everything life through with me, I'm still here.
And as I stand here now, I'm looking out at an array of possibility that is infinite.
I'm equipped with an understanding and a worldview that was once foreign to me.
I'm armed with the perspective that has changed my life for the better.
By stepping out into the often dangerous, brutal, unforgiving world, I have elevated myself.
And that has made all the difference.
And while it may feel intuitive to run from a reiteration of yesterday's pain, it's wisdom that urges us to instead use that pain as a multiplier.
The key to something more.
Something miraculous.
Not to cower because we once endured it,
but to stand tall because we overcame it.
And that's what we often miss.
We can think back to the adversity, sure,
but we're often unable to see how that adversity shaped us.
Our own strength, it's never going to scream.
out at us. It's never going to let us know it's there. We have to take the time to acknowledge
its presence. We have to peer over our shoulders to see how far we've traveled. We'll always
have obstacles before us. That if we don't stop and assess, we won't see that the obstacles
have gotten bigger. Not because life's gotten harder, but because our own evolution
has permitted us to step into bigger arenas.
It has equipped us to take on larger adversaries.
A simple willingness to be vulnerable
has become the flame that lit up your soul.
So the question is, will you step out?
Will you see that vulnerability,
not as a crack in the foundation
or a chink in the armor,
But as strength.
To love, it requires accepting a susceptibility to being hurt.
To play the game requires an acceptance that you just might come up short.
To bet on yourself means understanding that you might fall right on your face.
To want more than you have now means acknowledging that you might be humbled along the way.
This is what it means to live, giving a piece of yourself in order to acquire that which means the most.
The torturous, often counterintuitive willingness to step out into the darkness of night
when your heart races and your mind moves a million miles a minute, that's vulnerable.
That is power.
and it's an investment in a tomorrow that otherwise would not have been available to you.
You are not your past.
You are the wisdom derived from its lessons.
The courage removed from its trials.
And the hurt, that hurt that was perhaps at one point the only thing you felt,
it's not your reason to shrink into yourself.
It's your reason to step back out.
To say to the universe, I have the strength to again dance with the unknown.
To risk the short-term discomforts that life often hands out like candy in exchange for the chance years from now to look at your reflection and say, I got back up.
I did the hard thing.
I followed my heart.
I wandered into that darkness to obtain the wondrous reality that is for a time concealed.
I did that.
So love again.
Grow again.
Try again.
Build again.
Believe again.
See again.
Feel again.
Step out into the world again.
This is.
is who you are underneath the fear and insecurity,
underneath all those reasons to not go.
There lives the beginning of the miracle that is life.
And it won't be easy.
The timing will never feel perfect,
but the question will always exist.
It will always exist within an arm's reach
of where you stand.
Can you be that vulnerable?
Can you be that courageous?
And not just when things are going well,
but amidst the turmoil, the chaos, the self-doubt,
when your memory only wants to play highlight reels
of where things went wrong, where you swung and missed,
would you choose to see those moments,
not as the chains that confine you,
but as the strength that elevate you.
Will you be vulnerable enough to give away some of you
in order to expand and transform all of you?
Here's to going even when you don't want to go.
To moving forward when you're uncomfortable,
to stepping up when you're fearful.
Here's to courage.
I was talking to a friend of mine earlier today
about understanding the difference between two things.
On one hand, the fear that presents itself when we're growing, leveling up, right?
Like we've all felt nerves before a big event or an important life change, things like that.
Then on the other hand, the emotions that arise when we start to feel like something isn't
right for us, similar discomfort, but not quite the same.
We feel nervous or uneasy because we know we're misaligned.
And where we landed in our conversation was that when you were on the edge of that metaphorical clip
and your body's pushing back, your heart's pounding, your mind is racing, you're nervous, you're fearful.
The question worth asking is will I be disappointed in myself if I don't go through with this?
Will I be letting myself down here by turning back?
You have to jump into the future and imagine, you know, future you sitting at the table reflecting on us.
this. If you see yourself as regretful, wishing you pushed through, then it's not an alignment
issue. It's a matter of courage. And when you think about it, it usually feels obvious looking back.
Like, I can easily recognize in hindsight the things I stopped doing because they weren't aligned
with who I wanted to be. When you stop doing the wrong thing, it feels like a breath of fresh air.
Like a step back to leap forward. Those decisions create a more.
life. But those times I stopped because, you know, I let the moment get bigger than my end goal.
Those times I caved and decided I didn't want to pay the price solely because of the temporary
discomfort. I remember those two. That's a different feeling altogether, a not so good feeling,
as we all know. Jim Rohn says it like this. There's a pain of discipline or a pain of regret.
choose your pain.
One of the things that makes life challenging
is that we have to be open to some level of discomfort in our lives.
That's just what it is to be human.
Now our power is that we get to choose where we let that pain in
and what it means, what it will do for us.
Will it be the type of pain that grows us
or the type of pain that reminds us what could have been?
I really think most of the time we stop,
not because the path was wrong.
for us. But because we somewhere along the way forgot that most of life's best experiences and
circumstances and opportunities come with a hefty price tag, they demand a lot of us.
And in those moments when the lights shine the brightest, when we feel the weight of the
world coming down on us, it's easy to misdiagnose that discomfort as a stop sign. It's like, oh, I feel
alone, I feel unsure, I don't have any validation, my pride hurts, my confidence is shaken,
whatever it may be. These things just, you know, even as I'm saying them out loud now seem
awful, when in reality, they're just the cost of admission. Right? It's like you have to not know
before you can ever know. But try telling yourself that as you're wandering around feeling nothing
but pressure, right? It's a different story altogether. It's a challenge.
But here's the good news.
It's a challenge you're capable of handling and overcoming.
Life is about stepping into things we don't feel ready for, and then learning repeatedly
that we can piece together the knowledge along the way.
It reminds us that fear is going to show up regardless of what we do in life, but to grow
into the people we are capable of becoming, we have to understand that fear is in its own unique
way an invitation. The discomfort doesn't mean something's wrong, often the opposite. It's letting
you know that more is available, that you are right where you need to be, but you have to change
in order to become worthy of what's on the other side. Life is not safe. Life is not safe.
saying no, it's merely demanding of you courage and courage you have.
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What is defeat?
In other words, what does it actually mean to lose?
My buddy sent me a post today from X that said simply,
until death, all defeat is psychological.
Why?
Well, because if there is air in your lungs, there's an opportunity to find a solution, to move forward, to connect all those dots that will ultimately change your life.
But here's the catch.
This is the part that I think we often miss.
We think defeat is something life gives us.
It's stowed upon us by the world.
It's a letter we get in the mail.
when in reality it's much simpler than that.
Defeat is an internal decision.
Defeat is looking around and quite simply saying no.
It's saying, sure, I could have this.
I know I'm capable of it, but I don't want it.
I refuse to march on.
Defeat is saying the prize or mountaintop or victory.
To me, it's just not worth what it costs.
And when you believe that, that's when you have officially created and allowed defeat into your life.
It's a willingness question.
A how bad do you want it question.
Because here's the deal.
The road to anything meaningful is difficult.
A willingness to pivot, to pick yourself.
up off the floor and continue
into an unknown that, let's be real,
owes you nothing,
well, that can hurt.
That's not a comfortable process.
But the truth is,
it hurts less than defeat.
Waking up two hours earlier
to find a way,
to build yourself up,
to get ahead,
that's far less pain
than looking in the mirror and saying,
yeah, I could have, but I didn't.
I could be there, or at least on the way,
but I'm not.
And it's amazing to be how the mind will rationalize.
We can convince ourselves of anything,
which is great when you're your own ally.
But it's simultaneously devastating
when you're your own worst enemy.
The same circumstance that tells you to go
can be interpreted as a reason to stop.
The brain knows it's been two years
since you started your business.
It knows you've been working on your health for six months.
It knows the process is taking longer than expected.
And so you're tasked with the interpretation of these data points.
How do you interpret that information?
What do you make of it?
I've been at this for two years now.
Think how far I've come.
Think how much I've learned.
I've positioned myself for success.
I'm one decision away from massive momentum.
It's not validation, but continued dedication that will carry me home.
This is the path.
Or is it...
Well, it's been two years.
And if I can't do it in two years, then maybe I just can't do it.
Maybe I should look for something easier.
My pride hurts.
I'm letting myself down.
I look dumb, right?
And the list goes on.
That is the fork in the road that means everything.
That's the maze that few find a way out of.
Not, as previously said, of an inability to find the exit,
but because of a lack of commitment to the twist and the turns.
Is it, I've been working on my health for six months.
Look at the foundation I've built.
When I look in the mirror,
sure, I don't necessarily see the results I wanted now,
but the habits are there.
I've made some progress.
I've lost some weight.
My ability to run has improved somewhat.
Now it's a matter of carrying on to that exponential growth.
And that may be just around the corner.
Or, just as in the previous example, is it, if I can't do it in six months, then maybe I can't do it.
Might as well go back to McDonald's for lunch and ice cream after dinner every night.
It's over.
This is not for me.
You see how both ways of talking are at surface level, perfectly reasonable?
Both make sense, complete sense.
But life is not predetermined.
It's a choose-your-own-ending.
storybook. The story you tell yourself becomes the story you live. And if you hear that and think,
ah, cliche, live news, you're overlooking the magnitude and capability you have with regard to
controlling your life and your destiny. Something like five years ago now, I created an e-book with some
thoughts. And this is one that I continuously go back to. Quote, when I make myself,
the victim, I become resentful.
When I make myself the hero, I become empowered.
With such an array of outcomes, I am forever grateful for the ability to shape my own legacy.
And it's summed up with the quote, if you aren't happy with the role you're playing, change it.
Right?
You don't have to be the one who gives in, who throws the towel or walks away.
There's more around the corner if you're willing to walk around the corner.
if you're willing to find it.
See, we are in life who we believe ourselves to be.
And you can take that greatness on.
You can become the person who looks in the mirror
and sees determination staring back,
sees resilience looking you in the eyes.
You can be that.
You can become the person who finds the upside.
And I promise you, that's an incredibly small group walking this earth.
Most people do the inverse of that without realizing it.
Either projecting their inability to move forward onto the outside world,
we've all heard this, right?
It's her fault, his fault, their fault, my boss's fault, the government's fault.
Or it's simply not realizing that doing nothing is in fact a decision.
When we make constant concessions,
when we think the current moment was fate or destiny
and not an invitation to something better,
we are choosing to be less than we can be.
And so my point here is pretty simple.
Doing things that matter is hard.
And it's hard because ruffling the feathers of the status quo comes with unknowns and obstacles.
It provides a million off-ramps, reasons to settle or turn around.
But to succumb to these outcomes is your decision, not the world.
Life isn't a treadmill with an off-switch.
If your feet stop moving, it's because your brain told them to stop.
So as you make your way into the next unknown,
all I ask is that you remind yourself how powerful you are.
Not because you were granted that power,
but because you have always been that powerful,
an author of the greatest story ever told.
Where perhaps, sure, you can't control every variable that's dropped in front of you.
but you can control what those variables mean.
You can't control all the factors that comprise the world around you,
but you can control where your focus will be allocated
and what you will build with what you find.
Until death, all defeat is psychological.
Until there is no more air in your lungs, stagnation is a choice.
until there is no more blood pumping through your veins.
Quitting is a decision.
So ask yourself,
what do you want to become?
How far do you want to go?
And then commit to the journey of arriving at that destination.
Maybe it takes days, weeks, months,
maybe years longer than you anticipated.
But it will always be true that if you want it, it's yours.
The key is in your pocket, the map is in your hand, and the road at your feet.
Arrival at the destination means giving yourself permission to climb that mountain until you arrive at its peak.
It's not letting go until you take in the view.
The world reflects back at us what we currently.
are, like a giant mirror projecting the movie that's playing in our heads. We lay on the horn in traffic,
not when we're at peace with ourselves, but when we're in duress. We gravitate towards the
negative, not when we're living in abundance, but when we're living in scarcity. We quit, retreat,
contract, not when we're confident in the road ahead, but when we're doubtful, alarmed. In
In other words, we find out in the world what already lives within us.
Life in many ways is not absolute, it's evidence.
It's evidence that we'll use to justify the things we already believe.
Wayne Dyer used to use the metaphor of an orange.
It can be squeezed and squeezed and squeezed, but there will never be grapefruit juice
pouring out of an orange.
No, grapefruit juice doesn't live.
there. You can only find on the outside what lives in the inside. You can only extract from the
orange orange juice. Recently a good friend of mine said to me that they'd like to change their
financial situation, to which my response was perfect. You most certainly can, right? Like anything,
yeah, it'll take work and some planning and some restructuring, all that good stuff,
but you most definitely can.
And his response was, sure, that's what all you motivational people say.
Okay, smart guy.
Now you're an example on a podcast episode.
Congrats.
Why?
Because you want the people around you to realize how much is possible for themselves.
It's not sorcery or witchcraft to believe something better is possible.
In fact, if one doesn't believe it's possible,
they're effectively cementing their feet to the ground,
at least with regard to that particular pursuit.
Let's face it, you don't begin journeys that are not possible.
We don't allow ourselves to do that.
And so to not believe in an outcome
and somehow still wish for that outcome,
well, that's essentially our orange metaphor.
Can't squeeze financial freedom out of a mindset
that only sees monetary constraint.
Believing it's possible,
starts the journey. See, there's so much pragmatism in growth. You know, people talk a lot about
the law of attraction, and yeah, I get it, right? It sets targets. But the picture of, let's say,
a dream house on your wall is not why you'll eventually have the dream house. The picture of the
dream house on the wall reminds you. It helps you believe that you're someone capable of
someday acquiring that house, obtaining that type of success, which results in you, wait for it,
doing things that help bring that to life. It is the doing. But that doing must be connected
to belief. Mid-20s. I was unhappy, wanted more, but didn't really believe myself capable
of obtaining more, right? That was the issue.
Back to the old orange expecting grapefruit juice.
Can't get results in an area not conducive to their creation, right?
It wasn't until I said, you know what, maybe, not definitely, but maybe it could happen.
Maybe I can take control here.
The odds have to be greater than 0%, right?
It's Jim Carrey and dumb and dumber, so you're saying there's a chance.
Yeah, it's like starting out, that's all you need, a chance, the door cracked.
In the beginning, I just needed to convince myself something different was possible.
The beginning of transformation and that internal change prompted how I interacted with the external world.
You do things differently when you believe differently.
Or, if you want to phrase it another way, believing that you can bring something to life doesn't guarantee that you actually do.
but believing you can't guarantees that you won't.
And why not stack the odds in your favor?
I often juggle back and forth between the philosophical and the tangible or the tactical, right?
Three ways to do X.
Life hacked to change Y.
Yeah, of course.
Life does in so many ways come down to the tactics, to the how, to the steps.
But does that even matter if you don't believe in the pursuit?
Does it matter what Google Maps says if you never step out your front door?
You have to convince you.
You have to create an environment in your world where change isn't crazy.
More isn't absurd.
It might be challenging.
But it's possible.
And possible is enough.
It is enough to be.
enough to step out, enough to see the trivialities as tools and the resistance as part of a beautiful game.
Remember that the world is a mirror, reflecting back at us our worldview.
We find what we look for, so give yourself permission to look for things that make life beautiful.
Give yourself the gift of believing change.
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One of my favorite thinkers, Jim Rohn, he says,
life doesn't give us what we need.
Life gives us what we deserve.
You don't reap the harvest because you need it.
You reap the harvest because you deserve it.
Because you planted in the spring and took care of it in the summer.
And oh, what a shift.
A hard truth to learn, actually, that the universe doesn't care what you mean.
It's indifferent to you and your wants.
Doesn't care about what you'd like to accomplish or solve.
It rewards the question,
how can I be more deserving of my ideal life?
When you become more personally,
your ability to acquire increases proportionally.
When you build yourself up, the world conforms.
And I remember being for,
frustrated, being in a tough spot and just thinking, why won't the world give me what I need?
I'm down and out. I need some type of guidance, of help, just a break, right? I'm out here
struggling, and it turns out the answer was simple. I had to go manufacture some sort of
momentum. Increase the value that I added to others, improve my skills. I remember. I
I remember, you know, saying, I want a million dollars.
I want a huge personal brand.
And I look back now and it's like, in what world did I think I was entitled to those things?
Because I wanted them?
That's not the way the world works.
I had so much growing to do.
There was so much effort that needed to be exhausted before that was possible.
Now, you identify as that.
Sure, you put the shoes on and you start leaving.
living like you are that, like you're on that trajectory, you believe that for yourself.
But it's understanding that you are creating space for it in your life, chipping away daily.
As you grow, the universe listens.
And it's not that the world is a bad place or a dark place.
The world is a beautiful place.
But to get, one must give.
And so the question remains, what are you giving?
to the world, to your community, to your friends and family. What are you giving to yourself?
How are you making yourself more deserving of the infinite opportunity outside your front door?
It's a question that should be really helpful when it comes to prompting thought, being real,
being honest with yourself. And in fact, one of the greatest advantages one can adopt is instead of pointing
out at the world, right, and projecting blame, pointing in at oneself and asking, how can I fix this?
What can I do? Right? Every single time. Even when the situation was caused by outside circumstances,
beyond your control, even when it's not your quote unquote fault. Why? Well, because you are always in
control of yourself. And when you adopt this mentality, you learn to take accountability for you,
always. You learn not to blame, but adapt. And that is power. Because when it's always someone else's
fault, it's never yours to fix. Someone who refuses to even entertain the victim narrative and instead
seeks to find the value in a given situation. Unlocks the roadmap to becoming deserving of the
world they want. And that's a thing.
That's the control that we forget we have.
We have the ability to look around and change things.
If we're not happy with them, we can adjust them, but we must first own them.
We have the ability to tear down the walls that are boxing us in,
to remove the characters in our stories holding us back.
When you take action, you're building the life you deserve.
When you look around and seek to alter the world.
world as you know it, you're putting yourself in position to receive more from life.
It's a simple lesson, but one of the most powerful lessons out there.
The ideal life, the things you want, the things you hope for, they're not given to you
externally.
They are created within and projected out to the world.
They start with self-belief and manifest into day.
action, day by day, taking what matters and building it, creating a reality.
The world doesn't respond to hopes and dreams, it responds to action.
Because to be deserving is not to want.
To be deserving is to create.
It's to take life in your hands and carve out your own journey.
minute by minute
day by day
be you
always
and you might hear that
and think well that's obvious
that's simple that's easy
not if the world has something to say about it
in fact Emerson is quoted as saying
to be yourself in a world
that's constantly trying to make you someone else
is the greatest accomplishment
it's not always obvious
but rather the subtle erosion of ourselves.
Perhaps not intentionally deciding to wear a mask.
It's never taking the time to examine the reflection in the mirror and ask the right questions.
Losing our intentionality means we end up wherever the wind blows us.
And that could very well be a destination we aren't too happy with.
Now this next part will seem a little trivial and insignificant.
But bear with me, right?
Because sometimes the most important lessons are small,
but they become a portal or a gateway to understand the bigger things, right?
So for me, this started with a black t-shirt.
Walking into a group meeting with some amazing people
from all over the country and world doing different things
and helping people in various ways.
And all of them, as I entered the conference,
conference room, happened to be wearing business casual, which is great, except I haven't worn a collar
in a pretty long time. I've been doing my podcast, recording videos, building my businesses in a black
t-shirt, and so that's how I walked into the room. And I found it interesting that almost immediately
this self-talk emerged. It's like, you stand out right now. They're going to think less of you.
Is this disrespectful? Is this showing that perhaps I don't care, right?
All of these things.
And so I left that day and I sat with the thoughts.
They bothered me, so I wanted to spend some time with them.
And here's where I landed, taking those same points one by one.
Number one, if they think less of me for being me, then that would be on them and not me.
I'd gladly fight that uphill battle to earn people's respect in my authenticity.
Number two, it's not disrespectful because I am happy to be there, proud to be there.
I do take pride in my appearance.
I just do it in my way.
And number three, be you always.
How you show up is what matters.
Having the courage to live in a way that aligns with who you are and what's important to you.
And why do I say this?
Because if we can grasp this idea with something as trivial and as small as a black t-shirt
in a conference room, perhaps we can then push it into other areas of life.
The bigger things, the more important things.
Like who's in that room to begin with, right?
Who are we surrounding ourselves with?
How do we spend our time?
There's two ingredients to this recipe.
One, who am I slash what matters?
And two, how can I position myself so that,
that is the arena I'm operating in.
Sometimes we don't do it because we're scared,
but sometimes we don't do it because we never ask the right questions.
When you can find and hold your authenticity, you feel it and so will others.
The question transforms from how can I blend in and not disrupt
to how can I use the abundance that surrounds me to live a life that's meaningful?
There's a lot of us metaphorically walking around in collared shirts,
when they're not what we're meant to be wearing.
A lot of us asking, how do I not screw this up?
Instead of asking, how do I go get what's mine
and do it in a way that matters to me?
Be you always.
And the closer you are to that, the more powerful you will be.
It means understanding who in your life adds to that
and who in your life detracts from it.
It means looking around and asking,
am I doing this for me or for others?
It's that old airplane mantra.
You have to put your mask on first before assisting others or no one gets saved.
No one gets the value.
In a way, life is a beautiful pursuit of simplicity of really distilling your world down to
what matters and pushing away the rest.
Because like moths to a flame, the complexity and unnecessary minutia finds us.
It latches on and becomes what we carry around.
I better not let go, says the lizard brain.
This is how things are supposed to be.
This is what everyone is doing.
But when you find that clarity, truly capture it.
Yeah, you earn the respect of others around you in that metaphorical conference room.
But most importantly, you earn your own respect.
You, to a greater extent, appreciate that face staring back at you in the mirror.
Right, think about it this way.
They do not build statues.
for those who blended in the best, who conformed.
Right?
No, we build statues for those who had the courage to live in their authenticity,
to do things their way.
Because we understand how unique, how powerful, how difficult that is.
Be you always.
There's nothing more powerful than that.
