Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero - If You’re Waiting for Life to Get Easier, Watch This
Episode Date: May 6, 2026If you're waiting for life to calm down before you start, you might be waiting forever. 📖 Get my Free Ebook While the World Sleeps https://eddiepinero.com/ebook🧠 Join 2,000+ fellow viewers o...n a Free 7-Day Reset https://www.agns.lifestyle/?source=meta🧢 AGNS Code "YWW20" for 20% off http://www.agns.lifestyleIn this powerful motivational speech, Eddie Pinero breaks down one of the biggest traps people fall into: waiting for the “right time” to take action.Because the truth is, the conditions don’t suddenly become perfect. The fear doesn’t disappear. And the moment you’ve been waiting for doesn’t just arrive.The people who move forward aren’t the ones who found an easier path. They’re the ones who stepped in anyway.If you’ve been hesitating, putting things off, or telling yourself “not yet”, this is your reminder: You don’t wait for life to get easier. You learn to move through it as it is.Start now. Even if it’s imperfect. Even if it’s uncomfortable. Because the longer you wait, the harder it becomes to begin.📱 Follow Along:Support the Podcast on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2BLf6pBInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/your_world_within/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@your_world_within📝 Comment below with what's been holding you back as of late. Would love to help you 🙏🙏🙏#liveinspired #yourworldwithin #motivation
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The world isn't going to change.
It's waiting for you, too.
There's an old story about a man who needed to cross a river.
This river was pretty intimidating.
Wide, strong current, at least strong enough to make him pause at the riverbank.
So he stood on the edge watching it, studying it, waiting.
And he told himself,
The day that thing calms down, I'm going to cross it.
When the water slows, when it's a bit safer, when it's a little easier, I'll make my move.
And so he waited.
And of course, that river kept moving.
Minutes turned to hours, hours turned to days.
He'd revisit it constantly.
And every time he thought about stepping in, he'd see that.
current, powerful, still moving, still uncertain, still far from ideal.
So he stepped back, he told himself the same thing.
Not yet.
The perfect time is just around the corner.
Eventually someone passed by, they saw him standing there, and asked, hey, what are you doing?
to which the man replied,
well, I'm waiting for the river to calm down so I can cross.
The traveler kind of paused and looked at the water,
then back at the man,
and said simply, sir, it doesn't calm down.
And that was it, right?
No long explanation, just that, those words.
Emphasizing that the river was never the obstacle, the expectation was.
there was a mismatch in reality.
Now sit with that for a second.
Because this isn't about water.
It's about how many things in life we approach the same way.
We wait for the right moment,
for things to feel stable and predictable and controlled.
We tell ourselves, hey, I'll start when life settles down.
I'll go for it when I have more time.
I'll take the risk when I feel ready.
But life doesn't work like that.
The quote-unquote current doesn't stop.
It's always moving.
It's always uncertain.
There's always a reason to hesitate if you are looking for one.
And the longer you wait, the more convincing that hesitation becomes.
Because now it starts to feel logical, responsible even, safe, practical.
But in reality, it's just a life.
It's just fear that wolf in sheep's clothing.
Because the people who make it across
aren't the ones who found a calmer river.
They're the ones who stepped in anyway,
carefully, imperfectly, uncertain, but moving.
And that's the million-dollar message here, right?
You don't wait for life to settle.
You learn to move within it.
To dance through the chaos, to adapt and evolve.
You don't wait for fear to disappear.
You act while it's still there.
So the question is never, when will this be easier?
It's, am I willing to start even if it doesn't?
Because the river isn't going to change for you.
But you, you can decide to step in.
And once you do, you'll realize something most people never see from the shore.
You don't need perfect conditions to move forward.
What you need is to stop waiting for them.
Find a way.
Because first and foremost, there always is one.
Find a way because you are more than strong enough.
Because anything other than a solution or some semblance of progress means you gave in.
Called it quits.
It's threw in the towel, and giving in is not who you are.
Find a way, because that discomfort today will it becomes our greatest source of pride tomorrow.
The simple decision to carry on or stick it out now is so much more than it appears
to be when underdress.
Sure, it's easy to turn around, but everything, everything relies on your moving forward
into that darkness.
Find a way.
Because while we may think we want safety and need predictability, our souls want adventure.
Life's meaning is comprised of the mountains climbed and dragons slayed, so step out of
out and slay your dragons.
Find a way.
Because an evolved self has to be earned.
Keeping promises to yourself is no small ordeal.
Putting your head on the pillow at night, knowing you followed through on who you decided you would be.
That's power.
It creates a trajectory towards influence.
possibility, it points you at the stars.
Find a way because you must reinforce the fact that the world is clay to be molded, not
a checklist.
It's a game, not a chore, a gift, not an obligation.
When you find a way, you become the ruler of your own kingdom.
Look, there exists a way, a path.
That's not the question.
The question is one of effort.
Is there a willingness to move beyond the parameters imposed upon you by others,
by the past, by the thoughts that bounce around in your head?
Is there a willingness to endure duress in the short term?
Is there a willingness to fall down now, to look dumb,
to not always be perfectly packaged or assembled.
Are you willing to endure that in exchange for the infinite?
I remember hearing the mantra,
there is always a way to get to your finish line.
It's not can I.
It's not, is it possible?
No, it's how.
How do I get there?
The dots exist. You have to be the one to connect them. You have to build bridges over the oceans of unknowns. The valleys comprised of the unforeseen. Oh, there is a way. Remember that. Remember that it's not the destination that's in question, but one's willingness to knock and knock and knock until the right door opens.
Remember that you have everything you need, that you are armed with all that is required.
You were made to connect those very dots before you.
You just have to decide what's more important to you.
That feeling of reaching the top of the mountain or the feeling of its shade at the bottom.
What will you give to be more than you've ever been?
Do more than you've ever done.
There is always a way.
Are you willing to find it?
You're one of those media strategy people clicking through slides, scrolling spreadsheets?
Yes?
Good.
This is for you.
Because on Spotify, there's an audience that's different.
Locked in.
Loyal, invested.
They're called fans.
Fans don't just listen to music.
They feel seen by it, like it belongs to them.
So when your brand shows up on Spotify, that's who you're talking to.
to and you're right next to artists like me, Lizzo.
So, are you ready to talk to fans?
Spotify advertising.
You're among fans.
Don't think so much.
You might overlook the obvious.
You might see past all that you've achieved.
Don't move so quickly.
You might overstep the moment.
You might miss all the beauty you're creating.
One can wake up, get dressed,
walk out the door thinking that they're on their way to a someday achievable, brilliant finale,
and simultaneously fail to understand the miracle of the now.
It's in what you're doing now, who you're helping now, what you're becoming now.
Your miracle is now.
And you can't see your impact because it's,
It materializes behind you as your back is to it and you step toward those distant horizons.
There's a direct link between always wanting to be better and never feeling like you're
good enough.
If you don't properly compartmentalize the two, you'll always be chasing something you can't
obtain while you walk right by the brilliance you're piecing together in real time.
That carrot just outside of reach for the runner on the treadmill.
And I'm not saying your goals and aspirations aren't incredible.
I'm not saying you aren't one in a million.
I'm not saying you won't shock, change, add unparalleled value to the world.
No, that's most certainly possible.
But I'm saying you're doing that now, too.
Like right now, you're not on a trajectory to someday be one in a million.
You are one in a million on a trajectory to live life fully.
To further expand, explore as you should.
But let's not lose perspective along the way.
It's hard to watch someone who has changed your life feel like they're not good enough.
It just is.
It's hard to watch something so beautiful.
feel like they must first evolve before they're worthy.
And it's like, sure, I get it.
We celebrate visible, tangible successes,
the innovators and CEOs, world-class talents,
people who have built the present and will build the future.
But notice, there are no ceremonies for the ones who lift others up every day,
who lead by example, who show up again and again
when they're going through their own private.
hell. There are no record books for them. But I'll tell you what, if there were you'd be there,
and if I could remind you of that every day, I would. The small things you do do not feel so small
to those around you. In fact, your mere existence changed my life, and I know I'm not alone,
not even close to alone. It's a tough world we live in.
Tough enough to bring even the strongest amongst us to our knees.
Yet you think you're flawed and insufficient.
I ask, compared to what?
A lot of people would have folded a long time ago.
Wouldn't be fighting for a dream or standing for anything.
A lot of people wouldn't be giving so much of themselves.
Again, I continuously run into this question.
Why is it that the ones who are changing the world, not with their social media follower account, but with their actions, so often fail to see their own value?
Perhaps they're using the wrong measuring sticks.
Maybe their sights are set so high they don't realize all that they're making better along the way.
Maybe they don't know that every soul they light up puts in motion a ripple effect, an exponential value add.
But if you just lift your head up and look around, you would see quite the ripple effect.
You would see quite the chain reaction.
You would see that you are not just working towards change.
You are actively embodying it.
Don't be the only one who can't see that.
Why do I say this?
Why spend the time?
Well, because one, I think it's not something we say enough.
The ones who truly change us or make our lives better need to be told that.
There's just something tragic about keeping it to ourselves.
And two, because you don't give yourself enough credit.
You're blind to the path you've traveled and the dragons you've slayed.
I couldn't believe my ears when you apologize for being weak.
Weak?
Weak is retreating.
Weak is being selfish.
Weak is forfeiting your gifts.
Those descriptors are antithetical to who you are.
And sure, we all slip into them once in a while.
We're human beings.
We all endure our valleys of despair.
But to fight with everything you have on your way back up, that is not weakness.
That's courage.
I think our definitions might be crossed here.
See, I'm a firm believer that absolutely we have to be our own greatest critics.
no doubt. But the value in that, the expectation, is that it's coupled with a commitment
to also be our own greatest ally. Are you? Are you your own greatest ally? Because sometimes I'm not
so sure. Do you see how much light you bring to the world? How much better people around you
are when you enter a room and smile, when you listen to them in their people?
problem when you inspire them by making decisions with so much at stake.
When you don't let the hardship of your past keep you down.
And I know how hard it's been.
I'm telling you this because maybe you don't know.
Maybe you talk so much about what the future will be and how big and incredible things will
become that you overlook the parallel world.
you are creating with each step along the way,
a pilgrim, a wanderer in search of an impact
you are already making.
So look, keep your head up
and your expectations high.
You will do remarkable things.
But don't be afraid to look over your shoulder
and see that you already are.
Don't beat yourself up
for not yet arriving at an imaginary place.
while you change the world along the way.
Give yourself the same grace and compassion you would give to me.
Allow that for yourself.
Don't think so much that you overlook the obvious.
You just might see past all that you've achieved.
And don't move so quickly that you overstep the moment.
You might just miss.
just miss all that beauty that you're creating.
This isn't a pep talk.
This is me holding up a mirror so that you can see the value at you to some future self.
You are all the people around you whose lives you make better every day, the lives you touch
by being.
Human beings don't see we interpret.
We don't take in what happened.
we take in the implication of what happens.
Everything in our world is story.
It's similar to the idea of two ideologically different news organizations,
reporting on the same event.
Neither will be completely factual.
They'll both uphold their individual narratives.
They're not black and white.
They're interpreting gray space.
And our individual lives are no different.
We are our own broadcasting channels.
using data to support our individual narratives.
See, we know what the story's going to say
before the story occurs
because we will make it so.
We'll make life fit our beliefs.
That's what it means to be human.
So here's where the value lives in the context of this message
when we find ourselves in a consistent state
of despair or despair.
frustration or anxiety. It's a fool's errand to look for solutions in the external world.
Because everything we find, everything we come across will support our current beliefs,
our current story. That's what we'll keep playing in our heads. And it's why money can't bring
fulfillment and another person can't take you from incomplete to content. It's why status will
never equate to happiness. Those acquisitions are like,
putting premium fuel in a car with a broken engine.
It's just not the answer that we hoped it would be.
To change your world, you must change your story.
Whatever it is that needs to be changed.
The location, the objective, the characters,
maybe the journey altogether, but it's the neural network
behind your eyes that must change, not the detail it takes in.
And so if you feel stuck or feel like where you want to be seems unrealistic, you have to know right now that the very fact you think that way is the problem.
So ask yourself, not your girlfriend or your boss or your neighbor, but ask yourself what a turnaround looks like.
Do you know?
Or have you acclimated to being unhappy?
Have you even asked yourself what happiness looks like?
Or is your personal broadcasting channel so hell-bent on ensuring your life outlook stays the way it is that it's not even paying attention to the data it takes in?
See, I believe wholeheartedly that the first step in any facet of transformation is remembering that you have control that things in your life that bring you down or hold you back can be changed.
In fact, the very things working against you can work for you, but you have to be aware.
You have to think about it.
Now, I'm not a believer in magic, right?
I don't think you sit back, say, I don't want to be unhappy ever again,
snap your fingers and smile until the end of eternity.
But I do believe that once we're aware of our manufactured shackles
and our self-imposed limitation, we can start chipping away,
doing the one, two, or three small things every day,
tiny swings at the tree until it falls.
Right?
If it's, I'm not happy with my work life.
Well, what is a better situation?
look like? What bridge is that gap? I'll wake up 20 minutes earlier on weekdays and master Microsoft
Excel. I'll send one message on LinkedIn asking an expert about the field I want to move into.
I'll read 20 pages a day in a book related to business. You think those things are small? See what they
look like compounded in a year. Not only that. This is the most important part. You are taking
the power back. You're taking control.
And that's what feels good.
That's where we get our identity.
You get a little disappointed at how you've let your physique slip when you look in the mirror.
Don't be sad about it every day.
Again, ask yourself what the inverse looks like and start doing small things.
Subtract one sports drink and add one green smoothie.
Double your water intake.
Do a 10-minute daily workout on YouTube.
Like the pieces are out there.
And to find yourself again is to realize that they're out there.
Realize that you're playing a movie on loop in your head that isn't right.
It's just not you.
And well, what movie do you want to be playing in an ideal world?
Scroll through the library, find it, click play,
and start doing the small things that make it real.
There's so much power in progress.
I've seen this unfold in different areas of my life,
but particularly as a writer, as a speaker,
it's like you identify who you want to be.
You start making tiny steps,
and after a while, you're surrounded by the change that you've created.
How can you not believe something that you're starting to live?
It has to become your identity,
because it is you.
It's around you.
You breathe it.
So look around and run.
realize the malleability of your situation.
And if what you find is not you, good.
Here is your opportunity to tear down the old and construct the new.
You can do that because you have control.
Because it's within your grasp.
So start the new movie, the new story, make yourself
the hero and set out to find yourself again.
You weren't put here to live in the shadows of life.
To exist beyond the sun's grasp, to stay on the outside, looking in.
No, you weren't put here to live in the shadows of life.
It's important to remember the difference.
between now and forever, the distinction between today and tomorrow, because from time to time they look deceptively similar,
especially when we inevitably find ourselves in the darkest of times, when despite our best efforts,
our world is reduced to shadows, void of hope.
When tomorrow and today have merged into one endless entity,
It always seems to be in these times.
That we forget that right now is just a moment,
not an assigned permanent,
but a bridge to something great.
As Victor Frankl says,
if there is meaning in life at all,
then there must be meaning in suffering.
We all suffer.
We all hurt.
We all go through periods of time
where we can't see or hear or feel anything
beyond the darkness we find ourselves in,
But it's there.
Darkness cannot be defined without light.
It's in the definition.
Darkness is a partial or total absence of light.
They need each other darkness and light.
The one thing that can bring darkness to its knees is out there, everywhere, all around it.
And if there was ever a reason to be hopeful, enthusiastic, if there's ever a reason to believe,
It's that a new life is always a light switch away.
It's that darkness is as temporary as the day.
And the antidote requires only that you believe it to be true.
Only that you find the resolve to reach one foot out,
to remind yourself of the sun's warmth and the infinite beauty of a world beyond this temporary darkness.
Because you weren't put here.
to live in the shadows of life,
but to reemerge,
like a rocket through the Earth's stratosphere,
to swing from star to star like life is a playground,
and you make the rules.
And I think when we look back,
we'll be nothing but grateful
for those times of darkness.
They, in a sense,
prepared us for the road ahead
by giving us what we need most.
Perspective.
Life lessons a roadmap to follow
because you don't appreciate the light, the sun,
the clear blue skies, the wind on your face,
the sound of the waves, the chirping of the birds,
no, you don't see the beauty in any of that
until even if for a moment it is taken away.
You don't learn about life's abundance
until you come face to face with scarcity.
You don't learn to give until you've had your world taken away.
You don't learn to love until you've experienced heartbreak.
You don't learn courage until you've been overcome by fear.
You don't learn to grow until you've been truly stuck.
You don't learn to believe until you've looked in the mirror and doubt peers back.
You don't know who you are.
until you learn what you're not.
See, everyone finds themselves, having wandered into the dark,
sometimes of their own volition, sometimes of fate.
But like leaves changing color in the fall,
the earth on its journey around the sun,
a wave emerging and falling back into that which it came,
it is not an end, but a beginning.
Life's way of preparing us for what's to come,
introducing us to the infinite possibility of tomorrow because you weren't put here to live in the
shadows of life but to emerge from them to light up the world no you weren't put here to live in
the shadows of life when it comes to the almost 8 billion people on planet earth there's
undoubtedly a variance in the resources at our disposal, the influence we have.
What we all share is the ability to rule over our own lives, our own thoughts.
As Thoreau said, think for yourself, or others will think for you without thinking of you.
See, life moves quickly.
And if one is unable to slow it down to examine the world around them, well, they'll find
themselves a cog in the wheel of their own existence, a pawn on the chessboard of life.
Because reality is a battle. A battle of self-interest that requires that we build walls
around that which is precious, that we protected it all cause. Your worldview is the foundation
for everything of value in your life, yet it's constantly under attack. Attack from the negativity
at the gate, the suffering, attempting to breach the walls, the outside influences, praying that
you'll outsource your thinking, that you'll let them rule from afar.
To maintain control over your own outlook, it's no small feat.
It's perhaps the most important battle of your life.
It's the difference between intentionality and chance, the role of the ruler or the ruled.
As the saying goes, if you don't build your dream, you will spend your days building someone else's.
If you don't ask yourself what you want in life, those needs will ultimately be buried under nonsensical obligation that takes their place.
Where there are vacuums in awareness that will be filled, usually not by actors with the same interests as you.
See, mistakes are not the problem.
No mistakes mean you're present, driving towards something, collecting data for this experiment that is life.
It's autopilot that destroys.
Like that frog put in a pot heating up so slowly it never knows to jump out.
The external world becomes its demise.
And this message isn't to instill fear or intimidate.
It's to remind you to ask the question that so few ask.
How is my life best lived and what can I do to bring that to reality?
If you can think for yourself, you're never out of the fight.
If you can think for yourself, you're always a decision away from advancement in the direction of that which matters most.
So trust you to do what's right for you.
In a world where no one knows what they're doing, I can assure you you don't need external endorsements or stand.
of approval. Take Robert Frost, road less traveled by and don't look back. Don't feel remorse.
That's where you're forced to find yourself, to ask the tough questions to embrace who you are.
Because the crowd is antithetical to rationality. Not just because responsibility dissipates.
Not just because human beings become essentially well-dressed chimpanzees, but because
rarely on the micro level is the collective goal, your goal. Have the courage to see that.
Have the courage to understand that life is not an instruction manual.
Everything around you you have in one way or another accepted. And in accepting it,
you have chosen it. By not saying no, you have in fact said yes. So realize that the world around
you doesn't change until your thoughts become the bridge that connects current to future, today to tomorrow.
Until you realize life can't make you a victim or a pawn on its chessboard without your permission, whether implicitly or explicitly.
No, you have the ability to think, control, orchestrate something greater than what's in front of you.
Let today be your next courageous step in the direction of that reality.
Life is delicate to find us as.
easily broken or damaged, fragile.
There's nothing around you that's forever.
There's no permanence in our world,
and sometimes this is a difficult thing to grasp.
Certainly, it's why we long for patterns of consistency
where we can find them.
We do everything we can to manufacture
some semblance of predictability for as long as we can.
doing our best to repress the idea that everything we know is as temporary as a setting son.
I had a family member rushed to the ER a few days ago.
And thank God she's completely fine.
She's back home.
She's doing her thing.
But I can't stop thinking about the call, how it shook me to my core, how my walls of certainty and predictability were breached.
It was this unsettling reminder that life as we know it isn't guaranteed, that things we love
they're not untouchable.
I had to look my helplessness in the face for the first time in a while and realize, well,
just how little of the world is mine to control.
Which brings me back to a conversation I had when I was younger.
I talk about my grandfather often in my work, primarily because of a few impactful conversations
that we had.
And it's interesting to me how relevant they continue to be.
I remember a handful of times we talked from childhood.
And it's like I piece them together retroactively.
Things make sense as I get older and kind of figure out what it all means.
One of my last conversations with him, we went to this little diner called Leo's along the Cape Cod Canal.
And he said to me, there are things now,
now that seem impossible.
But as you grow and you get older, they make sense, right?
Even the most challenging things become manageable.
And I get mad at myself for not understanding the context at the time,
or putting two and two together.
But basically, he was diagnosed with the brain tumor,
and he knew what that meant, right?
And was basically giving me a heads up, like, kiddo, this is going to be tough.
But hang in there.
That was one of the first times I've dealt with loss of that magnitude.
And when you're young, so many things seem stable.
They seem certain.
You don't yet get the fluidity of life.
That stream is moving.
And no matter what, it's going to continue to move.
Sometimes that means it takes you places and presents realities that overtake the map that you created for the world, what you understood, what you hope for.
that little understanding of what life means.
And I guess I wanted to pick up the baton from that conversation
and pass it on to you with maybe a more comprehensive viewpoint.
Because I think contained in those words
is a message so powerful, so important
that we really can't afford to miss it.
It's like, yes, life is unpredictable.
And yes, life can hurt
and humble us and knock down what we thought was certain it can challenge what we believed
and shake our foundations. It can make us feel small in a universe that stretches beyond comprehension.
But at the very center of all of that, we are equipped with something that can't be broken.
The only thing that can't be ripped away.
the sun around which everything else revolves your ability to endure your strength to carry on
to take one step forward whether it feels like you're entrenched in the depths of hell or swinging from the stars in the sky
your resilience your ability to not only handle life around you but rise from the ashes
of its turbulence and its misfortune,
that will never leave you if you don't let it.
Victor Frankel has said,
everything can be taken from a man,
but one thing, the last of the human freedoms,
to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances,
to choose one's own way.
See, life might be more than weak in control or comprehend.
But amidst the might and power of its ocean, our determination is unsinkable.
And believe me, there are times when you hear this and think, well, okay, that doesn't affect me.
I'm good.
I'm doing my thing, right?
Just like I did sitting at that table over eggs and bacon that morning.
And, man, I hope that's the case, and I hope it stays that way.
But life has a way of keeping us.
on our toes, it never lets us stray too far from the realization that to be human is in some way
or another to suffer.
It's inescapable, and that's not to scare you, it's to remind you that, one, storms will come,
and two, regardless of how heavy the rain falls or how loud the thunder roars, it will pass,
and you are strong enough to hang on until it does.
that as you grow and as you evolve,
you become more and more capable of seeing the inevitable,
not as the world's personal vendetta against you,
but as your time to dig deep
and find within yourself the strength and the courage
that was there all along.
And that's what that morning was,
a message that, look, what's coming will hurt,
but you can handle it.
And not only that, every time life brings you to your knees,
you get back up stronger.
That doesn't mean it's easy.
But the point is not that it's supposed to be easy.
It's that you're capable of handling a world that is not easy.
You're capable of navigating a reality that is not simple,
a sea that is not smooth sailing.
You're equipped to handle the complex.
And sometimes that lives.
reminder is the greatest gift one can receive. There's so much I can't control, but my God,
there's so much I can. The reality you have mapped out, the day to day, the things you've come
to know and rely on, as much as we wish they weren't, they are delicate, withering away
with time susceptible to the intricacies, the trials and tribulations of life. But your heart,
your soul, your world within, that is untouchable.
It's the divine, the sacred, it's strength limitless, it's breath endless.
So remember even in the darkest of times, you are the very light you long for.
And as long as you believe that, there will always be a path.
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The saying goes, sometimes success is simply hanging on when others would be letting go.
And that's it, holding on.
I've spent a lot of time focusing on what I need to do.
worrying about what must happen in order to bridge the gap.
But there comes a point
where the difference comes down to what you won't do,
what I refuse to do,
where the true victory will be not in saying yes, but in saying no.
Simply standing tall when the world demands I bow down,
success will be predicated upon where I be.
build and defend my walls, refusing to be intimidated by the road ahead.
I've actually come face to face with this adversary before.
In fact, I meet him almost every day.
And not on accident.
I hunt him despite his strength.
I pursue him, even though he has the potential to harm.
I do this again.
this again and again.
Now certainly sometimes amidst the turbulence, I lose myself.
Forget.
Maybe ask myself why.
What a strange dotted line to sign, right?
Why volunteer to fight this battle?
The questions will bounce around in my head momentarily.
But ultimately, I remember why.
I sign up to face this demon because if I can be
him, I can beat anyone.
In fact, if I can learn to consistently show up and prevail here, the rest of the world becomes
a lot less intimidating.
Little pawns on my chestboard, if I prevail here, I become the type of person who prevails,
period.
There's power in that.
You seek out the monster to destroy.
destroy the monster, and in doing so, reminds yourself that destroying monsters is what you do.
Life is full of them.
In fact, we can't help but come into contact with them as we ascend to greater things.
But those moments end up being much bigger than we may have initially expected.
It's during these confrontations that we map out our understanding of the world.
It's here we decide which rules govern our existence.
See, when we seek out, confront, and defeat our monsters, two things happen.
We show ourselves, one, that we can, and two, that it's who we are.
So, you finish the dance with your demons.
Conquer them, reach your finish line, take off those running shoes decompress, and that's that.
so you think.
But life says, no, not so fast.
It says just because you're not running
or in self-initiated combat
with the monsters of your choosing
doesn't mean they go away.
It doesn't mean life is going to be smooth sailing.
No, sorry, this world is tough.
It's ups and its downs.
And those who successfully navigate its turbulence
must be capable of handling that.
And so the question inevitably becomes, are you?
Are you capable of handling that?
And there might be a world where you're unsure,
but in this world, you've seen too much.
You've earned your confidence.
There was nothing trivial about all those steps
you've taken, all those footprints in the sand, footsteps on the pavement, you weren't learning
to win a race. You were learning to win at life. You were teaching yourself that context aside,
things you don't love will from time to time be dropped in front of you. And when the
inclination is to run or retreat, you won't be lured in by fears false promises.
Temporary discomforts.
Because the world has been dropped in front of you before and you found your way through it.
When life feels like it's collapsing in on you, the walls crumbling down, the instinct is to let all the destruction impact yourself work.
to see it as an indictment or referendum on you as a person.
But no, you've felt the walls crumbling before,
and all you did was run harder.
When it hurt, you rose.
When you were tired, you found more.
Your suffering mile after mile was not an indication that you weren't enough.
It was merely an invitation to be better.
After all, that's how you defeated those monsters time and time again.
So here's to all those monsters we will face in life.
The ones we seek out and the ones we don't.
The ones we plan for and the unexpected, they're all the same.
They all have the same vulnerability, same kryptonite, your mind.
And your exposure time and time again to.
the self-induced depths of hell has made you invincible.
The world only stops people who know no better, who haven't seen themselves brush up against
the demons who stand guard protecting those coveted finish lines, but you have.
And where many bow down and declare their discomfort a catastrophe, you smile to yourself
and call it just another Tuesday.
It's been said that humans always follow through
on who they believe themselves to be.
Well, you have made yourself in your mind
a slayer of dragons, conqueror of worlds,
and that's why those steps matter.
That's why all this matters.
So next time you go hunting
for that overly ambitious adversary of yours,
and you find yourself face to face with him, tired, weak, maybe even temporarily unsure,
remind yourself why you're here.
Remind yourself that each step forward is a proclamation to the world,
that it's not about the here and now, it's about life.
It's about defining who you are and ripping apart the world's limitations one by one.
If you move forward here, you move forward anywhere.
If you stand tall now, you bow to no one.
And when the time comes, life hands you its problems and its obstacles,
you'll stack them up and stand upon them.
And so it's into the darkness of night, the chaos of battle you go,
because that was and always will be who you are.
