Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero - Not Easy - Motivational Speech
Episode Date: January 25, 2021Anyone can succeed when things are easy. The question is, who will rise to the occasion when they are not? That is the great differentiator. ...
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What's the difference between simple and easy?
Well, simple is straightforward, uncomplicated.
Easy, on the other hand, means achieved without great effort.
The difference between those two words is subtle,
but essential to understand.
One deals with the complexity of an outcome.
The other, your will and determination to achieve
that outcome. Becoming who you most want to be is simple. But becoming who you most want to be is not
easy. Just like walking is simple, yet hiking up a mountain is not easy. The procedure didn't change
the context. So let's talk about context. Let's talk about this cyclical nature of growth
because it's not that most people can't. It's that most people won't.
It's not that most people don't get how.
It's that they don't have a strong enough why.
The path is laid out before you.
You just have to be willing to walk down it.
Will you?
Step one, realize there's more out there.
It's not that what you're doing now isn't amazing.
It's just that yesterday's act of courage is now today's status quo.
What was the spectacular is now the mundane.
What was once the ceiling you had to jump to touch is now the floor you walk on.
So at the very least, it prompts you to ask, well, what's next?
Simple. Not easy.
Step 2. The Acquisition of Courage.
Yesterday's courage was a fight.
It took a lot out of you, and it's ultimately what got you here.
But it dropped you with the curb.
You dropped you at the curb, it waved goodbye, and went on its merry way, and here you are.
You can stay here, a lot of people do.
You can reminisce of the glory days, the old path, yesterday's triumphs.
Or you can do that perpetually uncomfortable exercise of vulnerability.
Stepping into tomorrow's unknown, reminding yourself that life's greatest rewards have a hefty price tag, and that price is discomfort.
already played this game one might think. No, what you did was learn the rules. Now it's
time to apply them to a new setting and around goes the merry-go-round. It might seem like a
replication from the horizontal, but here's the secret. You can't see the vertical. You
have yet to look down and see your ascent, see what you're becoming. Just by staying on,
holding tight, just by believing in yourself enough to begin again.
You are fanning those tiny flames of courage in your soul that wait to be spread like a wildfire.
Simple, but not easy.
Step three, mistakes.
Now, of course, it's not the mistakes themselves, you fear.
It's what you think those mistakes will mean.
Ridicule, embarrassment, lack of direction, or identity, losing what you have.
but here's the catch.
When you realize the upside is greater than the downside,
you liberate yourself.
When you realize there's more to gain than to lose,
your potential for greatness is born.
How does one act on this?
Mistakes.
By making mistakes, by injecting yourself into the turbulence of progress.
Our biology has not yet learned
that the uncomfortable thing is the right thing,
and that's why you get,
That's why it hurts, and it's why few people will accomplish what you will.
When it comes to your climb, every day is opposite day.
When they run out, you're running in.
When they play safe, you play for the victory.
To become who you might be, you must learn how to get there.
Mistakes are your curriculum.
Simple, but not easy.
Step four, trust yourself.
Okay, sure, no problem. Easy. Well, yeah, it's easy when you're getting what you want.
But evolution takes time, and there's nothing quite like giving and giving and giving and not getting.
There's nothing quite like stepping up to the plate again and again and again and bringing no runners home.
So how does one find the strength to continue walking up to the batters box?
Well, growth is exponential, and those swings and misses matter. The infield singles matter.
Everything matters.
because it's all chiseling your future self out of stone.
Nothing is dependent on the next at bat,
as much as all at bat in the aggregate.
That's why success is so often considered to be sheer will,
dependent not on the home run, but on the discipline,
the self-belief, to keep walking up to the plate.
Repetition and adjustment.
Repetition and adjustment.
Repeat and refine, repeat, refine.
Those are the materials from which all things are made.
simple but not easy and then we have the finale the ending step five
celebrate and adjust at some point you'll be able to look over your shoulder
and notice something that perhaps you hadn't before space space between where you
are and where you started it's not sudden but gradual and undoubtedly with
enough persistence it will emerge
These moments, they are precious.
They are times to acknowledge what you've accomplished,
the sacrifices you have made.
They are life's way of reminding you what you are building
and who you are becoming.
It's a time of celebration.
Every little win means something.
Every small victory matters so relish in it.
And then transform it.
Normalize it.
Recognize that that mountaintop is your foundation.
now. Your starting point has changed and so have you, which means so have your expectations.
With an increase in ability comes an upgrade to what's possible, what's expected. And look at that.
We have arrived at a new step one. Realize there is more. This is the process for capturing that
which life has to offer. If you can fall in love with that, appreciate it, respect it.
simultaneously understanding it's not scary it's dependent entirely on your
ability to push forward if you can understand that there is nothing you can't do
nowhere you can't go simple yes easy no but you're not in this for easy you're
in it for the journey the growth the adventure you're in it because it's not
easy you'll see in time as will the world
That this decision to endure was simply the best one you ever made.
