Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero - Why Most People Never Become Who They Could Be
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What's the difference between simple and easy?
Well, simple is straightforward, uncomplicated.
Easy, on the other hand, means achieved without great effort.
The difference between those two words is subtle, but essential to understand.
One deals with the complexity of an outcome.
The other, your will and determination to achieve
that outcome. Becoming who you most want to be is simple. But becoming who you most want to be is not
easy. Just like walking is simple, yet hiking up a mountain is not easy. The procedure didn't change
the context did. So let's talk about context. Let's talk about this cyclical nature of growth
because it's not that most people can't. It's that most people won't.
It's not that most people don't get how.
It's that they don't have a strong enough why.
The path is laid out before you.
You just have to be willing to walk down it.
Will you?
Step one, realize there's more out there.
It's not that what you're doing now isn't amazing.
It's just that yesterday's act of courage is now today's step.
That is quo.
What was the spectacular is now the mundane.
What was once the ceiling you had to jump to touch is now the floor you walk on.
So at the very least, it prompts you to ask, well, what's next?
Simple.
Not easy.
Step two, the acquisition of courage.
Yesterday's courage was a fight.
It took a lot out of you, and it's ultimately what got you here.
But it dropped you at the curb, it waved goodbye, and went on its merry way, and here you are.
You can stay here, a lot of people do.
You can reminisce of the glory days, the old path, yesterday's triumphs, or you can do that
perpetually uncomfortable exercise of vulnerability.
Stepping into tomorrow's unknown, reminding yourself that life's greatest rewards have a hefty
price tag and that price is discomfort. But I've already played this game, one might think.
No, what you did was learn the rules. Now it's time to apply them to a new setting and around goes
the merry-go-round. It might seem like a replication from the horizontal, but here's the secret.
You can't see the vertical. You have yet to look down and see your ascent, see what you're
becoming. Just by staying on, holding tight, just
by believing in yourself enough to begin again, you are fanning those tiny flames of courage
in your soul that wait to be spread like a wildfire. Simple, but not easy. Step three, mistakes.
Now, of course, it's not the mistakes themselves, you fear. It's what you think those mistakes
will mean. Ridicule, embarrassment, lack of direction or identity losing what you have, but here's the
catch. When you realize the upside is greater than the downside, you liberate yourself. When you realize
there's more to gain than to lose, your potential for greatness is born. How does one act on this
mistakes? By making mistakes, by injecting yourself into the turbulence of progress.
Our biology has not yet learned that the uncomfortable thing is the right thing, and that's why you get resistance.
That's why it hurts, and it's why few people will accomplish what you will.
When it comes to your climb, every day is opposite day.
When they run out, you're running in.
When they play safe, you play for the victory.
To become who you might be, you must learn how to get there.
mistakes are your curriculum.
Simple, but not easy.
Step four, trust yourself.
Okay, sure, no problem, easy.
Well, yeah, it's easy when you're getting what you want.
But evolution takes time, and there's nothing quite like giving and giving and giving and not getting.
There's nothing quite like stepping up to the plate again and again and again and bringing no runners home.
So how does one find the strength?
to continue walking up to the batters box?
Well, growth is exponential.
And those swings and misses matter.
The infield singles matter.
Everything matters.
Because it's all chiseling your future self out of stone.
Nothing is dependent on the next at bat,
as much as all at bats in the aggregate.
That's why success is so often considered to be sheer will,
dependent not on the home run, but on the discipline,
the self-belief to keep walking up to the plate.
Repetition and adjustment. Repetition and adjustment.
Repeat and refine, repeat, refine.
Those are the materials from which all things are made.
Simple, but not easy.
And then we have the finale.
The ending, step five.
Celebrate and adjust.
At some point you'll be able to look over your shoulder
and notice something that perhaps you hadn't before.
space space between where you are and where you started it's not sudden but
gradual and undoubtedly with enough persistence it will emerge these moments
they are precious they are times to acknowledge what you've accomplished the
sacrifices you have made they are life's way of reminding you what you are
building and who you are becoming it's a time of celebration every little
win means something every small victory matters
relish in it and then transform it.
Normalize it.
Recognize that that mountaintop is your foundation now.
Your starting point has changed and so have you.
Which means so have your expectations.
With an increase in ability comes an upgrade to what's possible, what's expected.
And look at that.
We have arrived at a new step one.
Realize there is more.
This is the process for capturing that which life has to offer.
If you can fall in love with that, appreciate it, respect it, while simultaneously understanding
it's not scary, it's dependent entirely on your ability to push forward.
If you can understand that, there is nothing you can't do.
Nowhere you can't go.
Simple, yes, easy, no.
But you're not in this for easy.
You're in it for the journey, the growth, the adventure.
You're in it because it's not easy.
You'll see in time, as will the world, that this decision to endure was simply the best one you ever made.
We're going to talk about keeping your head in the clouds and your feet, simultaneously managing the big picture and the big picture.
small stuff, non-stop belief that things will work, that there's an answer, that you're ultimately
going to get there, and that you won't quit until you do, while also being brutally honest with
the facts on the floor, the reality around you. A lot of times I think there's a tendency to
conflate positivity with the detachment from reality.
But they're very different things.
You need them both for success to unfold.
You need the big picture and you need the minutia, the steps, the little things that add up over time.
In the book, Good to Great, Jim Collins calls this the Stockdale principle.
Or Admiral Stockdale, I think at the time Commander Stockdale was shot down during Vietnam.
He was prisoner of war for over seven years in Vietnam,
and it was just obviously a brutal experience.
And, you know, one of the things that helped him survive
was being painfully pragmatic,
while also knowing in his soul, right,
with every ounce of his being that he would ultimately get out,
that the men he cared about and helped so much would ultimately get out.
And so when Jim Collins is interviewing him, he says,
Admiral Stockdale, what differentiated the ones that made it and the ones that didn't?
And the answer is incredibly surprising.
He says optimism because the people that were overly optimistic said,
we'll get out by Christmas.
And Christmas comes and they don't get out.
And then they say, okay, we'll find we'll be out.
We'll see our families by Easter.
And Easter comes and they're still there.
Okay, maybe next Christmas.
Next Christmas comes, nothing changes.
He says, those are the people that died of a broken heart.
There was too big of a gap between the reality,
the components needed to progress the way they wanted to progress
and the way they were thinking.
You have to be willing to look in the mirror
and diagnose a situation.
You know, that's applicable to business.
It's applicable to your personal life.
dream big step small believe but act be cognizant of the world around you the reality that that you're living in
you can't change something that you don't understand intrinsically you can't progress if you haven't
analyze something and this is not about your capabilities this is never a call to doubt yourself
It's to be strategic.
This is just saying that you need to understand the reality so that you can improve upon them.
If you want to be the next Michael Jordan, that's a huge ask.
That's a lot.
It's possible.
You can do it.
And you need to believe with every ounce of you that if that's what you want to do,
It's a pursuit, you know, worth taking.
But you also need to know what it means to be Michael Jordan.
You got to understand the commitment.
How he sacrificed relationships.
He sacrificed, you know, his friends, his love life.
He got up every single morning.
All he did was basketball.
How he took thousands of shots a day.
how his mentality and his aggressive behavior, right, his mindset, the way he looked at life and approached
life on and off the court, it required that he was so intense and so obsessed with winning that
some people couldn't handle it. It meant that everything stopped except being the best.
That's a big ask. A lot of people can't do that, don't want to do that.
But that's what it takes.
And to think you're going to be Michael Jordan without understanding, one, the commitment that's required and how you stack up, it's going to be in vain.
I remember the CEO of the company that I work for right at a college, he used to say, look, you have to be able to be honest and say when your baby's ugly.
Look at what you have and be able to draw a line from where you want to be.
so you can fix it.
So that's the point.
If you can juggle those two things,
you'll be unstoppable.
Unstoppable.
If you can be the one to trust yourself enough
to know that there is a big picture,
you will pursue it relentlessly
and you will get there.
If you can take that
and you can marry it to the little things,
right, to the awareness,
to promising yourself
that you will continue to analyze, assess, and do what needs to happen on the ground,
that you will be realistic, you will be pragmatic.
When things fail, you won't sugarcoat it.
You'll dive in.
You'll look at why it failed.
So that you can pick up those pieces and build something stronger and continue to build and continue to build.
Stack and stand on what you've made.
Those are the people.
that change the world.
Those are the people that get things done that get results.
Glean big, steps small.
See you tomorrow.
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Are you one of those media strategy people?
Scrolling through spreadsheets, searching for an audience that pays twice as much attention
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They don't move on, they manifest.
They're not a demographic group.
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You're among fans.
80% of life is simply showing up.
Because no matter what you do, and this is such an interesting truth, it's like, no matter
how much you love what you do, there are days where you just aren't in it.
You just mentally, maybe even physically, you're just not there.
And those are the days when it's most important to start.
And the expectation doesn't need to be the world.
The expectation doesn't need to be that it's something game-changing revolutionary,
but the expectation has to be that you are the kind of person that even when you don't want to,
you sit yourself in front of that computer and you just start typing.
And maybe nothing comes from it, maybe something does, but you showed up.
you know, when it was most difficult, you showed up.
And the interesting thing is that sometimes that situation is exactly when the best stuff comes.
You know, believe it or not, when we don't want to be there, we're really using, you know, all the discipline we have left in our body to make it happen.
Great things come from those moments.
You know, it applies to every single thing we do, like all of these concepts.
You know, we're all different.
We're all, you know, in different worlds with different narratives, different stories, different priorities.
But, you know, that will always be a commonality.
There are times when you don't want to do what you most need to do.
And the ability to...
And actually, I'm going to backstep.
Like, it is an identity thing.
It is seeing yourself as that.
You know, the person that makes it happen.
The person that finds it within the moment.
themselves to show up, to be there, to just do something to get the ball rolling.
Let's look at this one simple, singular concept.
You can always be doing more than you're doing.
Whether you're sitting there or whether you are in a world of hurt, going through hell,
there is a way to level up.
There is a next level.
There's something more.
is the next stair in the staircase. And sometimes we just simply need to be reminded that
because the default is comfortable. Even when you push yourself, you push yourself to a level
you've never pushed before. Well, guess what? The ceiling becomes the floor. Your new normal,
you adapt very quickly. And sometimes you need that whispering in your ear, hey, you're comfortable.
You can do a little bit more. You can always do a little bit more. There's no rule.
that says you can't be one second faster.
There's no rule that says you can't push a little bit harder.
And, you know, that message I keep in my back pocket.
Because every time I draw from it, I improve.
My life improves.
And, you know, if you have aspirations, which I know everyone listening to this
or watching this does, right?
That's why we watch this content.
That's why I create it.
That's why you guys do what you do.
we want more. We know what we can get from life. We know that infinite pool of possibility to draw from.
So why waste it? And the more you get that reminder, no matter what you're doing, hey, there's more in you.
Period. That will never be a false statement. There is more in you.
And I'm really implementing that right now into the creative aspect of my life. I went from one video every 10 days.
to one every day.
And there's a growing pain and, you know, sometimes it's difficult.
Sometimes it's, you know, it's tough to be able to create at that level.
But the reward is through the roof.
And, you know, the change, it occurs quickly.
And I was talking to someone about it and he says, well, that'll be nothing when you're doing three a day.
And it's like, that's the way you need to look at the world.
There's always more in you.
And if you don't remind yourself of that, it just goes untapped.
Like again, I could easily see a situation where I just put out one video a day or one video every 10 days for the rest of my life.
I'd never know.
I'd never know what that other door could unlock.
So whether it's running, whether it's work, whether it's at home, whether it's a relationship, whether it's something you're building,
whether it's something you want to create, whether it's something you want to stop doing.
You can always be doing it a little bit better, a little bit faster.
And that's what this video is about, and I hope you remember that.
I hope this is that whispering in your ear that you need, you know, to remind yourself, hey, you know, I'm operating here at a fraction of what I could be doing.
I'm tiptoeing right now. I could be sprinting.
What's one thing I wish I knew when I was younger that I think people could benefit from today?
What single piece of information could have the biggest impact?
I spent some time thinking about this question and,
The more I think about it, the more the answer becomes incredibly apparent.
It's that you are in control of your own life, your own destiny, your own future.
And when you take accountability for yourself, life changes.
Period.
And if you thought that was obvious, I would advocate taking a look around.
Maybe a stroll through social media, the Twitters and Instagrams and TikToks of today.
And no, that's not the real world.
but it's certainly a microcosm of the real world.
What do you see?
Well, you see chronic blame?
I don't like where I'm at or things are,
so that must be your fault or their fault or someone else's fault.
You see people looking everywhere but in the mirror,
actually seeking out victimhood
because that's what brings the attention.
That's today's currency.
It's much easier to be the victim than the hero,
because being the hero means you have to sacrifice something.
It's people saying the news or some institution or the federal government is the problem.
And if those things would only change, then we'd be good.
Let me explain why I think this mentality is self-sabotage.
And why I would take younger me by the hand,
and I would say, listen to what I'm about to tell you.
Where you start is often outside of our control.
Let's be real, life is not fair.
We don't all get dealt the same hand.
But this next part, as I once heard Will Smith articulate, beautifully, is the same for everyone.
What you decide to do about it right now is what matters.
And that is the control that we will.
control that we all have. It's not your fault where you start, but it's your responsibility to
choose where you end up. You can shake your fist at the sky, or you can start building a life that
matters to you. It's easy to blame the world, to be the victim, at least in the short term.
But if a fulfilling life is about meaning, about fighting for something valuable, about
evolving into the version of yourself that you always knew in your heart you could be.
You just had to unlock.
See, no one down the road was ever happy with themselves for blaming the world while they
bitterly remained stagnant.
I would say to a younger me, worry less about how you're perceived and think more about
who you are, what you're capable of, because that you can always control.
Stop losing yourself in the news.
whatever the narrative of the day is, that has nothing to do with your progression,
has nothing to do with your very next step.
So sure, be informed, but do more, consume less.
Because by and large, it's a distraction.
And I would say the government, which has become the crux of our discourse today,
transforming into a modern-day religion, look, the government's job is not to give you anything.
It's there to protect what's inherent to you already.
Your right to live life on your terms.
See, satisfaction, it will come from good habits.
It will come from self-belief.
It will come from taking risks and failing and learning.
It will come from the courage to step out into a world that's completely unknown.
It will never come from a self-interested politician or body in Washington, red or blue.
So stop whining about political optics and focus on where your two feet are taking you right now.
Because I promise in the grand scheme of things, that's what matters.
That is your strength.
Expecting someone else to come along and change your life is like screaming into an abyss.
I would say to my younger self, when you start looking around and seeing what everyone else has
and beating yourself up for not being as good or feeling like you're behind.
Look, it's great that their success motivates you,
but dwelling on it won't make your life better.
Life is a race between you and you.
It's a fight between yourself and those thoughts that constantly knock on the door,
looking to settle into your psyche.
If you defeat that demon, you'll be where you want to be.
regardless of where others are.
You're right where you need to be,
so keep your head up and keep moving forward.
I'd explain that to become something more,
to change,
requires a sacrifice that feels so substantial,
so big at first,
that it bullies most people into staying right where they are.
That to become something new,
you have to learn to play the fool,
to get humbled, you have to change your relationship with short-term failure.
And that's not easy.
But taking control of your life is not supposed to be easy.
Only worth it.
They're different.
And I can certainly look back at my own life,
think about the times where I was so busy pointing out
that I didn't even think to point the finger at myself.
I was so worried about life being unfurbed.
fair that I existed in this temporary state of paralysis.
The whole time not knowing that I could have been stepping forward.
Could have been tapping into the single greatest power I possess, control over my own life.
See, every time you feel anger or the need to blame those around you, you're taking the spotlight off of what matters
and placing it on things detrimental to where you want to be,
to your journey and your future.
Even the most unjust, arbitrary things,
let's say you didn't get that promotion you were beyond qualified for,
where you were mistreated by someone,
or things didn't go the way you wanted them to.
You can fill in that blank,
but refusing to blame others
and immediately taking responsibility.
Again, even in a situation like that,
it gives you one of the greatest advantage,
in life. It gives you that gift of control. You can now assess the situation. You can now ask yourself,
hey, what can I do to change this? You can delve into the why, find the lessons and the value.
You can come back and re-approach this thing stronger. Because to blame others, to take on that role of
victim, it's essentially living life in the passenger seat. It might be easy.
It might be less work, less responsibility, but what you never have is control over where that car goes.
But when you own it, when you say, hey, maybe it's not my fault, but look, it's mine now.
It's my responsibility.
The good, the bad, every aspect of my life, it puts you in position to change things,
to take the wheel and reroute to a destination of your choosing.
So that would be my message to the world.
I know it's not an easy road.
I know life is unfair.
I know things aren't perfect,
but the best thing you can ever do for yourself is say,
you know what, this is mine to own.
And I'm going to look around for that light switch
that will create momentum.
That little decision that will get the ball rolling,
I'm not going to sit back, shake my fist, and blame life.
I'm going to walk out that door
and create life.
That's where you'll find
what you're truly looking for.
