ZM's Bree & Clint - Bree & Clint’s After Party - 17th September 2025
Episode Date: September 17, 2025If your hair wasn't going grey already, this conversation might get it there heheSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
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Welcome to the after party.
Hello everybody and welcome to the after party with Brian Clint.
Anyone got anything they want to add?
I thought you had something and that's why you were ready to go.
Oh no.
What did you scream at me today?
You're like, leave it for the fucking podcast, you bitch.
And then you wiped her.
I did not say that.
You did, you punched her.
No, there was no punching.
You did kill her a bitch though.
Yeah, you did.
what was that about it was about you and you winging on about your grey hair again oh yeah
I like my white hairs they're not grey they're white all I said all I said was embrace your grace
and I said easy for you to say which is what you reply to everything that I say so that's because
it's always stuff that you wouldn't understand literally Clint here's the thing though I'm not
interested in understanding so we know that maybe you should maybe you should care to understand
hear me out okay you are concerned about your grey hairs i'm not like super worried about
no but you're not willing to embrace them yet no i don't want to embrace them yet i'm not saying i
never will yeah yeah but i'm just i'm not ready yet yeah and i think that's okay
everything whatever you want to do is okay yeah you want to fill your face with botox that's okay
You want to dye your grey hairs, that's okay
If you want to lend me money, it's expensive
You want to pierce your labia, that's okay
Whatever you want to do
But wouldn't life be easier if you just accepted it
And when I hear that's the stage of life I'm at now
This is how my hair looks
It would be like that
But unfortunately as a young woman
Seeing older women
Sorry seeing society treat older women
The second they get grey hair
They're discarded and they're old
Yeah
When women get grey hair
It is talked about
looked at as yuck
Whereas men
It's oh salt and pepper
I like my white peers
I
Oh silver fox
I feel like both of those comments
Come from women
No
I have to disagree
I think it comes from everyone
I don't hear men coming on women's hair
Ever
No but you don't see them hang around
Ever even as parents
I disagree with you
I think it comes from everyone
Right
I don't think it just comes from men
And I don't think it just comes from women
I think it comes from society
I know in my friend groups
of men
not once
have we ever talked about a woman's hair
It's not really
What do you talk about?
Other aspects of their appearance
And physical presence
Absolutely
Like what?
Like the usual stuff
Like what?
Like how kind they are
And
Personality
Their ass
How intelligent they are
Boobes
Yeah
But never they're here
I genuinely
and they cannot remember a single conversation
where we've talked about a girl's hair.
It's because it's covered up.
Like, majority of 30 plus you're a woman die their hair.
I'm not looking to die on this hell, by the way.
That's a great point, Ella.
It's because probably most of your friends
and most of the women that run in your circles
or people that you're talking about
all dye their hair.
I guarantee you, I guarantee you,
let's say a woman that ran in your circles
and let's say she's 38.
Yeah.
If she stopped and just let her hair go grey,
I guarantee you and your friends would talk about it.
Yes or no?
Well, hard to say because it would have to happen.
But...
I'd like to think we don't care.
But what have you bumped into a friend
that you haven't seen for like 10 years?
And she'd gone grey.
Well, it would be the same if I bumped into a guy mate
that I hadn't seen for 10 years and he'd go and grey by that.
Oh, whoa.
You're really grey now.
Yeah.
I'm not even saying this to you more, Clint.
It's just a general thing.
Yeah, yeah, fair.
Yeah, exactly.
And we're just, it's a society thing.
It is.
And how women, when they start to go grey, how it's portrayed in society and how it's looked at versus when men go grey.
It's very different.
Yeah, yeah, sure.
Yeah, totally.
Okay, yeah, I'll accept that.
Will you accept that a lot of that pressure, not saying all of the pressure, but a lot of that pressure comes from other women, though?
No.
No.
It's from everyone.
You're not putting it on each other?
Because you're putting it on yourself.
No.
Okay.
Because, like, I'm not, yeah, what were you going to say, Ella?
No, no, no.
Oh, it's just, this is a different change.
And we don't have to get too deep.
But it's even the perception when a woman goes from women to mother.
It's a different perception and a different change.
And, like, Clint, you're a father.
I don't think it, like, there's too much of a perception change.
Yeah, it's not all that different.
At work, at home, whatever.
Uh-huh.
But even just like women aging in whatever way that looks like,
there's this thing that happens
and everyone like is conscious of them
ageing. And I think what it comes down to
is if you if you talk all
like looking at comments on social media
especially like someone that's in the public eye
over the years and to be honest I'm very lucky
people like I'm you know
I just block people straight away and it doesn't
like but over the years if I can think about
any comments that I've had directed towards my
appearance whatever that might be
it's never been from a woman.
Okay.
Wow.
For me personally,
I'm not saying that that is across the board,
but any nasty comment that I've ever had about my appearance,
I'm not saying like other stuff,
but about my appearance,
has, I would say, 99% of the time been from a man.
Yeah, right.
So then you do get conscious of it, you know?
It just happens because it's like people are commenting on it.
Oh, yeah.
Not saying you, but like.
Yeah, I'm just saying I'm not, I'm just adding that to this conversation as my personal experience.
Yeah, totally.
Yeah.
And I can't, I can't relate to that.
No one ever comments on my appearance.
Yeah.
As much as I try to get them to.
Right.
I think it's just, I think it's just, um.
Isn't it interesting though?
I take your point.
You know what I mean?
And I back down.
Isn't it interesting, the grey hair thing, it's where it's acceptable for men to go grey.
interestingly it's not acceptable for men to die their hair
so if a man starts dying his grace
then you talk about him and you go
oh my god such and such as dying their hair
I think it's when yeah they die it too dark
yeah yeah yeah like even like so it was quite
interesting to me over the last Christmas
when I spent time with my parents
and my dad I was talking to my dad
because his mustache is gone grey
right like fully grey
he's still like he's gray on the sides but still has you know a bit of black hair up the top
yeah but he said to me he's like oh I really miss my darker mustache yeah my darker mustache
not his hair as much but he's dark mustache and I said oh I'll die it for you and he said oh no
no your mother tried to do that and you died it way too dark and it looked crazy and I had to
shave my mustache off anyway I said to him no no no we'll do it properly and color match and yeah
And anyway, I did it so I didn't fully block it out and just did like pieces,
but it looked really natural.
And the confidence I saw in my dad from just having his mustache died,
like he was walking, he was a foot taller.
Yeah.
You know?
And it was really nice.
And I think it's hard for men because I think some, yeah, you're right.
You see it and the guys who get the hair transplants and stuff too.
Yeah.
Not as much anymore.
Because the transplants are good now.
No, no, no.
I mean, you see them get their confidence back.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
And I say, like, I'm not judging anyone that wants to do so.
It makes you feel good.
I'm not judging either.
I watched this video of this guy, and he was young.
He would have been like 32 on Instagram last night.
I didn't know the guy.
It just came up in my reels.
And he was showing the process of taking off and re-gluing his toupee.
I was like, whoa.
I follow the toupee queen.
Have you seen her?
Yes.
And all she does is she puts in, they're called hair systems.
Yeah, right.
Yeah, and so she has to shave the hair.
Yeah, he showed peeling it off, scraping the old glue off his head, shaving it down,
cleaning the glue off the toupee, re-gluing his head.
He did the friar tuck shave because he still had lots of hair around the outside.
And then glued his rug down and then reset it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's cool.
I really like those videos.
Yeah, I'm obsessed with them.
Yeah.
I watched it and I think about how hot my head gets in a beanie.
True, actually, wonder how breathable is.
I actually don't think it would.
The glue, though.
But the technology would.
Surely there'd be, like, it would breathe.
I don't know.
The glue is like when you get PVA on your hands?
That's true.
Do we ask that tomorrow on the show?
Do you wear a toupee?
Are you running a rug?
And have you got a sweaty dome?
That's funny.
That's good content, man.
Interesting, though.
Good chat.
All right, guys.
Time to go.
I feel so mature when we do that.
What?
adult chat.
Yeah, it's good when everyone can have this say.
No one gets angry and people listen.
I don't think Claudia said a single word.
I got bored, sorry.
You're not bored!
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