ZM's Bree & Clint - Bree & Clint's After Party - 20th June 2023

Episode Date: June 20, 2023

One of us has waaaaay too much confidence...and someone else had a sexy dream about a team member. Spicing up the After Party!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ZM Podcast Network. Party after the party after the party. Hi everybody, welcome to the Bree and Clint after party. Jeez, long after party yesterday. Didn't we party hard? Yeah, we partied into the early hours of the morning. Have you taken any more mystery meat out of your freezer yet? Nah.

So we can play the Bree Thomas L What's My Meat game? What's My Meat? Not yet. I will. Don't worry. You guys will be the first to know. The first. Bree's had time to ruminate on her big surprise from yesterday, by the way.

And I think you're feeling more comfortable about it. If you listen to the other podcast, the show podcast, you'll know that to achieve honorary Kiwi status, you have to sing the national anthem at Eden Park. I think me as a person, I always doubt myself, always. Like I've just always been like that. I've always had imposter syndrome, never think I'm good enough, always think I'm going to fall on my face. So I automatically, when there's like a challenge put to me, I'm not the type of person to be like, oh, I'm going to own that.

Or I can do that. Easy. You know, I always just naturally go into, you don't agree? I saw a look. When we put that kilo of steak in front of you that time, I saw this look in your eye that said, look here, steak, you're about to get fucked. I fucking did it too, didn't I?

No, because that's a silly thing. It doesn't matter. Things that matter, like I always just go, oh, you're going to stuff this up. You're not going to be very good. But you won't. Oh, but it's so hard. Like the mind is such a hard thing. Yes, correct.

Like it's such a hard. You're your own worst enemy. You are. And I definitely're your own worst enemy. You are. Like I definitely am my own worst enemy. And often the only person who thinks you can't do something is you. That's the thing. Which I. Not you specifically.

I mean the greater you. That's one thing I've always envied about you though is that I don't think you have as many intrusive thoughts as like what I do. Like I look at you as sometimes you have too much confidence. Like you know what i mean we've talked about this yeah i never thought about that until you guys said i never ever thought about like you're a bit too i'm like sometimes you like you could be taken down a few pegs but then i'm envious of that i'm like i wish i had some of that yeah you know it'd be so much easier are you are you laughing ella just so honest but like yeah but i think clint knows what i mean when i say it i remember as a teenager saying something to my mum because i was doing speech competitions and winning and i know i know

and i'm not cool like well yeah cool yeah. There was like a school choir that I wanted to be in. So I auditioned and I got the solo. What? You can. This is before my balls dropped. And I remember saying to my mum, this is to back up your point. I remember saying to my mum, mum, it's really weird because whatever I want to do, I just do it. She said to me, what do you mean?

And I said, if I want to get something or have something or do something. I just do it. It just happens. And she said to me, yeah, don't say that out loud. Okay, don't say that out loud. People won't appreciate that. I was like, what a noise. And I think that, and I haven't really reflected on it since then,

but those two things are coming together. Who gives a fly? You and I were so different. Like, even as a kid, like, I remember, and I, like, I can even say about myself, like, I was quite a good athlete when I was young. Like, that was my thing. And I remember I went to, to like a state championships in athletics and i uh won the

high jump won the long jump won a hurdle race and then i think like came second maybe in the hundred or i won heaps of stuff and then came second in something and my mom i remember it i was in the car and i was so gutted and disappointed. My mum's like, what's wrong? And I said to her, I was like, well, I wasn't good enough to win everything. I wasn't good enough. I failed. And my mum's like, you just pretty much won everything in your state. Like in all of Queensland, you won in your age group for everything,

but that's what you focus on. Even competing in it is winning. That's the crazy bit. But I didn't realise. That's the crazy bit. Like I never – I'm never good at like living in the moment or just being like, wow, this is amazing or like this is so cool. Like I'm getting better at it.

Like even when – like I'm always like if I'm filming a season of Treasure Island, I'm getting better at like being like this is so cool, like to actually even be here. Which is really hard to do in the moment. It's so hard because I'm just constantly stressing and being like, you're not good enough to be here. You're not good enough to be here. Why are you here?

You're going to stuff up. I hope my kids get my blind self-confidence. I genuinely do. Unfortunately, they're female. Yeah, but they might be. It's more unlikely. They might be arrogant pricks. You don't know.

Do you girls agree that it's more common for females to struggle with that? Yeah, probably I mean, I'm not saying it's just females I think it's across the board But I think, yeah, I think it's Imposter syndrome is like something I only learned like five or six years ago Well, you watch I'm going to raise the most arrogant woman you've ever seen in your life. Good.

I think we need more arrogant women. I would welcome it. I already know which one might and which one won't. Yeah, Tui will be. No, the other way around. You reckon? I think Maggie has all the confidence. Yeah, I do.

But Maggie's young, so she doesn't. Yeah, that's why it's so weird. Why? What makes you think? She's like head first into anything that she wants to do. She doesn't know how small she is. She has absolutely no idea. Oh, but see, I was like that when I was young too.

See, that's that good second child privilege. Yeah. My mum said, she goes, you were batshit fucking crazy when you were a kid. That was me as well. Like into everything, on the bikes, like getting scraping knees, that type of thing. Climb into the highest places. Who's basically four. Maggie, who's just turned two, we'll be like, I won't do that.

Yeah. Okay. Yeah, isn't that funny? I think you're right, Claude. I think it is like the second child. I won't do that. My brother was very like, oh, my God, Claudia, be careful. I'm like climbing to the top of the jungle gym.

That's so funny. Honestly, I agree with you. I think it's first child syndrome where they are more cautious. Well, won't next week be a big week for your self-confidence? We're really going to push you outside your comfort zone. Or it could really take a real big whack.

Yeah, it could break you, yeah. It could break me. We'll keep your therapist on speed dial. Yeah, good. Something new to talk about. If you don't If you ever break down though No party What do you mean?

What if I ever break down and I get back on the horse and still do it? Oh that's good Actually if you could do that that would be good for the videos You could work through a break down And still get back on I'm saying if you quit See I don't think I have quit in me. No.

I don't either. Unless I'm forced. I don't either. That's why the bar tab is already ordered and we're good to go. Oh, you don't think? Oh, about me? Oh, that's nice. I think that's a real nice compliment.

Yeah. Can be real bad, though. Can be real bad. Fucking learn when to quit, mate. Yeah, yeah. I'm like, I've done both my my ankles i've had an asthma attack and clint's like i think we should call it and i'm like no we'll still give you the party can we just stop please no no it's about the principle i'm gonna earn the party that should be good okay um any how long's the after party been?

We have a quality Not quantity Yeah no I agree Yeah Yeah So You're about eight minutes Pretty good

Oh that's a short one Jeez that's a premature Party exit Compared to yesterday's party Yeah isn't it Yesterday was a big one But when you're done You're done

You know there's no point You don't want to force it Guys I can add something If you want Just keep pumping away. This is quality. I had a dream about one of you guys last night. What?

A dream. One of us three? One of you guys. One of us three? What was the dream about? We were hanging out kind of at a house on a couch. And then, you know, in real life when you're just like hanging out with someone and you're like, are there vibes?

Are we going to kiss? It was there. Oh, my God. It wasn't me. I know that it wasn't me. It was the vibes before. I reckon it was Claudia. I reckon it was Claudia too.

Was it me? I reckon she's your. Oh, my God, drum roll. We need a drum roll. I reckon Claudia is your lesbian Sherpa. I'm not a lesbian. No, I know, but who guides her into being a lesbian? I know that you're not.

She's not a Sherpa. Oh, fuck, why did I do this? She's not a Sherpa. She's not a Sherpa. It was Brie. No! I'm the Sherpa! Yes!

And do you know what? You kissed me and it was a very good kiss. How have we only talked about this? We've been here all day. Because I was going to save it for the podcast. Oh, so it was good? Good kiss? It was a really good kiss.

It was really good. Oh, that's hilarious. How weird is the brain? It was weird because I woke up next to Raya, my boyfriend, and I was like, hi. You're like, oh, disappointed. Where's Bree? Where's Bree?

That's so funny. Compliment taking, can I say? Sorry, Claude. I'm not a lesbian. You're not a fucking Sherpa either. No, I want to be the lesbian Sherpa. What's a Sherpa? Claude is disappointed now.

Yeah. She's gutted. A Sherpa is the people that help people climb Everest. They are guides. They can help you climb anything or go anywhere. They like show you the way. I was going to say it's like a shepherd, which is your last name. Ella Sherpa.

I know, shepherd. Probably where it comes from. Yeah, probably. Could be. Well, there you go, Bree. Wow, you really did add quality. I mean, I enjoyed it. Sorry, guys.

I'm going to have a dream tonight and I'll report back tomorrow. Okay. About me? No. Dreams are so weird. I have one about you as well. When I first started the show, don't worry, we just hugged and I felt so guilty.

I felt so bad. Imagine if hugging someone was like the same as like kissing someone on the mouth. I know. Imagine if it was. Like we obviously just came up with these things. Like imagine if hugging was like the same as kissing. In some relationships that is cheating.

What? Some people would not be happy if you hugged somebody else. Oh, you should not be in that relationship then. That's ridiculous. And I'm not. I'm in an open hugging relationship. I mean, there is certain. relationship then that's ridiculous and i'm not i'm in an open hugging relationship i mean so there is certain hugs that would be cheating isn't there a lingering hug a lingering hug

like a when you when you sniff their neck what yeah a hug where you grab their bum i didn't do anything joe biden hug joe biden We scraped a titty. Joe Biden titty grab hug. Can we address this? Is it Joe Biden or do you say Joe Biden on purpose? Clint says Joe Biden. Yeah, it's Joe Biden. Every time. You can. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

You don't have to tell her the truth. She's like a four-year-old. We get to tell her whatever we want. I forget. It's Joe Biden. His name is Joe, but he goes by Joe Biden. Joe Biden. It's his nickname.

They shorten it when you become president. It's what everyone calls him. Joe Biden. Joe Biden. No, he goes by Joe Biden Joe Biden It's his nickname They shorten it When you become president It's what everyone calls Joe Biden Joe Biden Every time Joe Biden I love the jokes That you get

In being like Clint It's Joe Biden People get real worked up About it Is it a meme It's just Life is short Just have fun

Fucking people off That's my motto Enjoy the other podcast We gotta go Bye That's my motto. Enjoy the other podcast. We've got to go. Bye.