ZM's Bree & Clint - ZM's Bree & Clint Podcast – October 16th 2018

Episode Date: October 16, 2018

Can Clint do an IronManThe Bisexualor – relationship expertRoss Boss T-Swift quiz DAY 2Birthday Banger!The Bisexualor – Annelise & JadeWe call Jades exNew World wine time DAY 2Insta Fame GameWhy did you call off the engagement?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

ZM! So I understand. Me, on the other hand, positively peaking at the moment. I don't know how much longer I'm going to be here, to be honest. Why? What are you doing? I've just had a message come into my Instagram. From who? Which could change the course of my life. Seriously. You're pregnant. It's from, no, I'm not pregnant.

As in you and your wife. No, that would change it too. And then I'd really have to stay here. Yeah. No, it's from Venkatesh Shrikantan. Not Venkatesh. Yeah. Venkatesh Sri Kantan. And he said... Not Venkatesh. Yeah.

Venkatesh Sri Kantan. No, Mr. Mr. Venkatesh. He's a banker working with the Emirates National Bank in Dubai in the UAE. Yeah. And he says, I write to contact you over a very important business transaction, which will be in the interest of both of our families and our benefit.

That's it. Finally, I've been contacted by a rich guy from the UAE. I can get out of here. You know when you hear those moments where, you know, all your answers come at once? Yeah. I feel like this is your moment. That's it, right? All I need to do is send him my bank account details.

Yeah. I'd send it through right now. I do have to transfer him some money first, though, to get the transaction rolling. He said there's a few account fees that need to be paid. No, that seems standard. Just a couple of grand, though. That seems about right. But if it's a couple of grand, you're going to get heaps back.

If I know Venkatesh, he's a man of his word. So enjoy your time that you've got with me here. If you want to hit the jackpot. I thought you'd be happy for me. I'm so happy for you. If you want to hit the jackpot this afternoon, 4.40. We've got two double passes up for grabs for Taylor Swift. You and three mates could be heading to see Taylor Swift.

It's a reputation world tour here at Mount Smart. All you have to do is out Swift Ross Boss. You need to be a bigger Taylor Swift fan than Ross. But we did learn yesterday that Ross Boss, who is a 38 slash maybe older, 6 foot eight male, is not out to give anyone tickets. Hell no. And he may be the biggest and saddest Taylor Swift fan

in the whole country. And the oldest. That's what stands between you and those tickets. Next, from good fortune to bad fortune, I actually need your help because I've, do you ever agree to do something and then forget about it and then you remember at the last minute?

Yeah, this show. And you go, why the hell did I agree to do that? Every day. Yeah. Well, I've done that. Oh, no. I don't know if I can physically do the thing that I've agreed to. I told you to stop saying yes to all those baby showers.

You don't like it. What? Giving baby showers? No, you don't want to go to them anymore. Oh, yeah. No, it's worse than that. Oh, no. What? Giving baby showers. No, you don't want to go to them anymore. Oh, yeah. No, it's worse than that. Oh, no. I'll tell you next.

Bree, do you ever have those, you know when you agree to do something, in the moment you go, yeah, it'll be great. It's also ages away. I don't have to deal with it. And then when it actually gets here, you just go, why the hell did I ever think that was a good idea? Yeah, it's any time I agree to hang out with you outside of this. Hey. Just kidding. If anything, it's the other way

around. I had a moment before I started this job with you, when I left my last job. God, that's ages ago. Yeah, like the beginning of this year. And I had some time off between jobs. And you know when you do, when you like change jobs or you change relationship or something and you have that moment where you go, I'm going to change my life. I'm going to say yes to everything. I'm going to say yes to all the opportunities and I'm going to,

you know what? New job, new me. I started committing to all these things, booked a really big honeymoon with Lose. But that's pretty standard. Yeah. I bet you don't regret that one. No, I don't regret that.

Started looking at like renovating the kitchen and the house because that's what you don't regret that one. No, I don't regret that. Started looking at renovating the kitchen in the house because that's what you do when you get married. You've been mad keen on looking for houses to buy at the moment. I also started looking inward. Into stripper classes? No, it's more

fitness based than that. But it's on the right track. In March, I agreed to do something with a group of friends and I haven't given it another minute's thought until yesterday when one of the guys in the group

messaged through and said, hey, how's your guys' preparation going? Mine's on track. If you've committed to a half marathon, I'm out. Half marathon? I'm out If you've committed to a half marathon, I'm out. Half marathon. I'm out. I've committed to a half Ironman. That's even worse.

A half Ironman is... Like a triathlon. Yeah. Like a run, bike, swim. Yeah, that includes a half marathon. Can you even swim? I can swim. That's the one bit that I can do.

So that's the leg you're not worried about? That's the one I'm not worried about. Mate, it's probably an open water swim. Do you know how hard? No, it's in a lake. It's in a lake. And I've actually done the swim before. It's in Rotorua.

It's in the Blue Lake where we had Flocella last year. It's in that lake. I can do the swim. I've done the swim before. It's the 90K bike ride and the 21K run. 21 kilometers. That's a half marathon. It's a half marathon and a 90K bike ride.

I honestly could not think of anything worse. Look at me. Look at me. Look at me. Do I look like a triathlete? Actually, don't answer that. Don't even bother answering that. I mean, you're not the fittest looking human, but you don't look terrible.

Ask me when it is. When is it? December 15. Mate, you're screwed. It's in 60 days, exactly. 60 days. People train their whole life to do stuff like that. I've already committed.

So I've already committed to the group. Have you paid anything? Yeah, I paid. How much? $75 entry fee. I'd write that off. It's not about that. It's more about, it's just the three of us.

It's just the three of us. And we were doing it together as a thing. I've got an idea. What? We can find someone that looks a lot like you, but like is super fit. But they'd have to look like me in Speedos. That's the problem as well. That's fine.

We can just write Clint on their back. Anyone who looks like me in Speedos isn't going to be able to do a half Ironman. You've got a good point. I'm not a quitter. This is the thing. I'm not someone who just gives up at the first hurdle. I'm not a quitter. This is the thing. I'm not someone who just gives up at the first hurdle. Yeah, but do you want to die is the question.

No, I don't want to die. But I just want to know. And this is where I want to ask people who maybe know on 0800 dial ZM. In 60 days, can it be done? No. No, don't say no because you don't know. Mate, I know you and I know the point

you're starting from. Yeah. But imagine the journey. Imagine the triumphant. Imagine as I'm running across the finish line and Chariots of Fire is playing and I get that medal. I'd probably get abs. I'd probably get abs out of this and then it'd be Christmas and then I could have a really good Instagram game for

summer. I'd probably, like All I'm thinking about is I really don't feel like auditioning another co-host once you die in this. Look, here's the information you need. And maybe you're a specialist. Maybe you're just a very motivational person who's listening, who has some words of advice. Oh, God. This is the stats.

I can swim. I'm not quite at the 2K level, but I could get up there. I hate running. I max out at about 4Ks currently, and I don't have a bike. But could I do a half Ironman in 60 days? That's it. That's it. And we'll base it off this.

We'll base it off the results that come in. We'll decide here and now. Yeah? This will consume your entire life. Yeah, I know. But what if it, you know, get outside your comfort zone, push your boundaries. Why can't we train for like an eating competition or something?

Mate, we've been training for an eating competition for the whole year. Exactly, so we're halfway there. Bree and Clint on Zit-In. I think you've really put yourself in it here, mate. My friend Clinton Roberts has committed to a half Ironman. Yeah. Without any training, there's 60 days out. You say without any training, any training yet?

Yet, yeah. I've got 60 days. You've got 60 days, but. To be fair, in my defence, when I committed to this, I did see it being a full six-month build-up. I was going to change my lifestyle. As soon as we got back from honeymoon, I was going to put down the pasta and start working.

But that's a long commitment. Oh, I know. And I kept putting it off and working. But that's a long commitment. I know. And I kept putting it off until I forgot about it. I'd rather do it this way. What? Where you just have 60 days. Oh, where you just suffer for 60 days. Yeah.

All I'm asking is, can it be done? Can you do a half Ironman, which is 2Ks of swimming, 90Ks of biking and 21Ks of running? Can you do it physically in 60 days and I'm getting a lot of support I am getting a lot of support let me just remind you

that a lot of people are saying that they've done it and this and that, they're probably at a really fit level to start with on a scale of 1 to 10 where would you say your fitness level is right now 3.5 solid 3.5 well I make is right now? 3.5. It's not bad.

Solid 3.5. It's better than mine. Well, I make it to the gym 3.5 times-ish. Do you go to the gym 3.5 times a week? No, that's what I aim for. Be honest. Be honest. No, no, no, no, look. If I do this, if I do this, we'll put a plan in place.

We'll make some provisions. My suggestion was that we get someone that looks exactly like Clint to stand in for you. Well, someone suggested we could do it as a team if you're keen to help. Mate, I think I would hinder you more so than help. A lot of negativity circling around. Let's go to the phones. Amanda, can it be done?

A half Iron Man in 60 days. Nah. Hang on, what do you know? Amanda's a realist. I've done the exact one you're going to do. The Rotorua one? I'm going to die. What did you do? Did you do the half? Yep. How long did you train for?

A whole year. Oh my god! Well, Amanda, I'll see you at the finish line. You just might. And I had a swim instructor and everything. I don't need a swim instructor. I did water polo You just might. And I had a swim instructor and everything. I don't need a swim instructor. I did water polo at school. I don't need a swim instructor.

I also, also I forgot to mention, I forgot to mention that I did five Weet-Bix Kiwi Kids triathlons when I was younger. So. Oh, mate, you're just, yeah, no, you're up there. Suck on that, Amanda. I loved her. Liv, Half Ironman in 60 days. Can it be done?

Absolutely. Thank you. And Liv, where's this in 60 days. Can it be done? Absolutely. Thank you. And Liv, where's this coming from? Yeah, what's your credentials? So I did a quarter last year. Yeah. And I did no training. Wait, can you do a quarter?

Is there a quarter? Yeah. Oh, I'm dead keen for the quarter. Can I do a quarter of a quarter? I did a quarter and I did zero training whatsoever. And I signed up for another one this year. It's been 20 days. Yeah.

And I haven't done any training. Yeah, but Liz, when you say you haven't done any training, how often do you go to the gym? I don't. Oh, girl, you are my fitspo. Let's link up and not train together. Casey. I say good luck to you.

Thank you. I think it meant in a way like you're an idiot. Yeah, pretty much. No, no, no. That's not the way I choose to interpret it. I choose to interpret it

that you have my back, Casey. Oh, not quite. My family's quite into it and we usually for a half would take six months to train and for a full around nine to 11 months. You say your family does them.

Do you guys have a bike that I could borrow? Maybe. You know how expensive those bikes are? Yeah, I do. That's why I'm trying to borrow one of Casey's ones. Ben, half Ironman with 60 days build up. Are we on? It's not going to be pretty, but you can do it.

Yeah. Have you done... I'll tell you further. I used to race as an elite triathlete, and I've got a men's performance company. My wife actually did a half Ironman down here in Wanaka a year after giving birth to our daughter. Oh, my God.

About five swims, six bikes, and about 5K was the running. Yeah, how good. That is incredible. Yeah. If she can do it, if a lady who's given birth can do it, then I can... What have I ever... Maybe you should give birth.

Maybe I will at the end of the half-hour, man. Finally, Kate, just the support I'm looking for. I've got 60 days, including today. I'd have to go for a run today. Can it be done? Oh, I am probably not going to support you on that decision, Clint. Kate sounds tired thinking about it. My reasoning for it,

you say yourself that your fitness level, okay, I'm a personal trainer. So you're meant to be motivational. Oh, look, I will be motivational. Just hear me out here. If you say that you feel like your fitness level is 3.5 out of 10, I mean, I'd say my fitness level is 9 out of 10 of 10. Yeah. That's generous.

I'd say my fitness level is 9 out of 10, and I would still not do it. Yeah, well. Because she hasn't trained for it. Kate, I say you're a defeatist. I say let's train together. Let's train together. And if, I mean, let's train together. And if you do it, I mean, we can put a challenge on.

Kate sounds like she would kill you in a training session. And maybe that's what I need. You know what? I chase the tail. Kate! I am very tough when it comes to training and I've done half marathon before. I've done full marathon before and I'm not a particular, I don't really enjoy running.

I just did it because, you know, something to tease myself. Yeah, yeah. And I took six months so the original plan that you had was probably to tease myself. Yeah, yeah. And I took six months, so the original plan that you had was probably a good idea. Yeah. 16 days, seriously, it's doable. Don't get me wrong, it is doable. No, we'll leave it there.

Hey, my love handles hurt just talking to you. Watch this space, ladies and gentlemen. We need to take some before and after photos because I'm about to get ripped. Bree and Clint on Zit-In. In the studio at the moment, we have the one, the only, the bisexualer, Annalise.

Hi. Hello. Second to last day. I know. It's so weird. It's all going to be over so soon. Tomorrow, you pick a lover to spend the rest of your life with.

Well, to spend an overseas holiday on. She's been dating people on this show for the last three weeks. She's been dating boys and girls because, well, she's bisexual. That's why she's the bisexualer. It'd be a bit strange if we just gave her girls or just boys. So we gave her both. Yeah, we gave her both.

Yesterday we talked to, and we thought we need to get an expert on to tell us a bit because we've got Jade left and we've got Tom left. Yeah, Jade's here too, by the way. Jade's also here. Hey, Jade. Both of them are feeling a bit dusty. They both had a few drinks last night. We got yesterday on expert hypnotherapist

and relationship expert, Carolyn Crenshaw. She's on the line as well. Hello, Caroline. Hello. Yesterday you gave us an insight into the different love languages and how we kind of give love and receive love. And we talked about Anne-Lise and Tom and how their love languages matched up. Can you just give us a brief overview of the five different love languages?

Yeah. So there's five different ways we show and receive love. One is quality time. So that's when you spend time together. Another one is physical touch. So that's, you know, hugs and probably PDA. Other fun stuff. Yeah yeah playing twister together yeah uh words of affirmation so that's really saying i love you and also kind of complimenting

your partner and paying attention to them you know verbally um and then acts of service so that's doing things for people and then receiving gifts. So receiving or giving gifts, really. You've put Jade through your questionnaire now. She's the last one to go through. Jade, before you find out what your love languages are, how do you think you give and receive love out of those five things? I know I'm not a huge physical touch person,

so I don't expect that to be at the top, but I'm thinking acts of service. Oh, yeah? You like to do things for people and have things done for you to show love? I would say I like to do things for other people. I don't mind if people don't do them for me. And what would be your other one, would you say, Jade? I think maybe words of affirmation.

Okay. Yeah. I'm so interested, because obviously we heard about Anne-Lise's yesterday. What were Anne-Lise's, Caroline? So hers are, number one, is quality time, so spending time together. Number two is physical touch. But her physical touch and words of affirmation are equal on par.

Right. Yes, okay. But they're all kind of equal, really. They're just one point away from quality time. Yeah. Yeah. So it's interesting. Yeah. Right, yes, okay. But they're all kind of equal, really. They're just one point away from quality time. Yeah. Yeah. So give us Jade.

How does Jade compare? Do you have Jade's result there? So Jade's number one is words of affirmation. Oh, yeah. So you were right. So that would actually coincide well with Annalise's love languages. Yeah. And then her next one is acts of service.

And then quality time is actually equal to that. Physical touch is quite low for her. Yeah. And receiving gifts is the lowest. Now, what's important, and I'm only learning about these love languages things now, can people with different love languages still be compatible in a relationship? Can you learn to work with each other's?

Yeah, absolutely. It's just figuring out what your partner's is and making sure that you give them love in that way. If someone doesn't have words of affirmation at all and the other one does, it's like you may not need to be told you look great or that you're loved all the time, but

your partner may. Nothing worse than when you're dating a toucher too and you hate being touched. Yeah, exactly. Don't call them a toucher. Well, when you're dating a toucher too and you hate being touched. Yeah, exactly. Don't call them a toucher. Well, Anne-Lise is a toucher and Jade's repulsed by human contact. No, that doesn't mean she doesn't like human contact

or is repulsed by it or doesn't like sex. It just means that's not really how she shows love or gives it. Caroline, one last thing. Tomorrow is D-Day. Tomorrow, Anne-Lise will choose either Jade or Tom, and then they'll get to go on a pretty romantic overseas holiday together without giving anything away. Do you think that Anne-Lise is more compatible

with one of the contestants than the other? To be honest, looking at these results, they both are good prospective partners. So we nailed it, is what you're saying, Caroline? We picked too many options. Do you want to chuck a cheeky bit in there for tomorrow? You want to slide some money on one of the contestants? Ooh.

No, that'll give it away. She's the expert. No, I won't give it away. I won't give it away. But I think. She's the expert. No, I won't give it away. I won't give it away. But I think either one would be a good partner for her. I think there might be a problem with her and Jade around the physical touch because that's quite a high need for her. Yeah.

But then words of affirmation is quite low for Tom. All right. We'll find out tomorrow. That's Carolyn Crenshaw. We're about to play for Taylor Swift tickets. And if you didn't hear it yesterday, Ross Boss is the one you need to go through to get those tickets. He's a bit of a...

Legend? Yeah, that's what I was looking for. Fountain of knowledge? I think she wanted to say the A word. Disturbing that he's 38 and knows this much? It's really scary. Yesterday, you said we need to put more effort into the opener. So we've done that.

Oh, good. This is just for you. Should we not have put a bit more effort into that production, please? I'm telling you guys to put more effort in now. Okay. I want swishes. Are you ready for it? It's time to out-swift the oldest and the biggest Taylor Swift fan,

Ross Ball. Will that suffice, boss? So, like, you literally used the audio where I said swishes. There wasn't a swish. That took two minutes to put together. There was air horns, which I respect. Oh, God. But no swish.

You are hard to please. And so just one more for next, because I assume you're going to update this again tomorrow. Maybe. Maybe beat match my words to the music. Cool. Thanks for the input. To take you on for four tickets.

This is why he's not usually allowed in the studio. To Taylor Swift is Marina. Kia ora, Marina. Hi, Marina. Hi. Now, do you think you have the knowledge to take down this big loser? Yes, I do. You have no idea how many people are behind you right now.

We really want you to win. We really want you to win. Yes, fingers crossed. I hope I do too. Can we just turn Ross's mic off for a little bit? Yeah. Okay, good. Oh, for the questions.

Can we just scream out the answer? You just scream out your name. Okay, that's all you've got to do. It is multi-choice, but you don't have to wait for all the multi-choice options to be put out there. If you think you know what it is, just go, Marina. Buzz in as soon as you know Marina. Don't let him buzz in before you.

It's Beast of Three, so you need to get two of these questions before Ross does. Good luck, everybody. Bree's got the questions. All right, here we go. Question number one. Finish these Taylor Swift lyrics. You got that James Dean daydream look in your eye.

Dot, dot, dot. Is it A? Because we never go out of style. We never go out of style. Is it B? And when we go crashing down, we come back every time. Is it C? Ross. we go crashing down, we come back every time? Is it C? Ross.

Ross. It's B. B is incorrect. I never liked that one the most anyway. Marina, you can have a free guess. You can just say A, B, or C. A? A is incorrect.

That's not right. It means that's a void question? That was a void. It was actually C, and I got that red lip classic thing that you like. Oh, no, I'm just prepared to hold on until the end. Okay, we'll get rid of that question. It's still nil all.

Someone needs to take two questions. Bree, next question. All right, here comes question number two. Kanye West interrupted Taylor at the awards ceremony in 2009. What award had she... Ross. No, I don't know. You just want to win so bad that you're willing to ruin the competition. I thought it was the award ceremony.

It was like the MTV's. It must have been... Oh, no, no, no, no. Music Video of the Year. Was it Video of the Year? I think we want the name of the award ceremony. No, no, no. No, that's... The question was what award had she just collected? Video of the year at the VMAs.

That is incorrect. What the heck? It was best female video of the year. Oh, that's just sexist. That means it's one to Marina. No, it doesn't. Fine, yeah, one to Marina. Great.

So all Marina needs is one more. Question number three. This is so well run, this game. Yeah, I was going to say, you didn't even let her guess. But no, no, Marina, I'm keen for you to have a point. If that's what it takes, this is all on you here. This is how it goes. Question number three.

For the win, Marina, Taylor Swift has two cats. What are their names? Oh, my God. Is it A, Olivia and... Ross. Ross. Olivia and Meredith. Is correct.

That means we go to the tie-break question. Tie-break. Now remember, there are options for the answers. It's up to you whether you wait for the option to be read out, but it could help you. Bree, deliver the final question. For the win and four Taylor Swift tickets Question number four

What is Taylor Swift's Favourite Number Ross For the win Ross Come on it's 13 Everyone knows this It was an easy question

That was such an easy question Like he's not going to know that one I bet he has a 13 tattoo on his lower back. I thought we would be finished by now. No, I'm trying to make it till we get there. Sorry, Marina. Sorry, Marina. You go away empty handed, okay?

Oh, that means we jackpot the tickets to six tickets tomorrow. To be honest, Marina didn't get a single question right. So it wouldn't have been right to give her any tickets. Six tickets to Taylor Swift's Reputation World Tour, Mount Smart Stadium, November the 9th. If you want to buy them, livenation.co.nz. There's only a few left. Ross Boss can't even get the tickets.

He doesn't have that many friends. Bree and Clint on ZM. It's my birthday. It's my birthday. Bree and Clint's Birthday Banger. This is where we take your birthdays and we figure out what was number one on your 16th birthday. First person up to play birthday banger is Jamie.

Kia ora, Jamie. Hi, Jamie. G'day, man. How are ya? What's your birthday, Jamie? 8th of the 4th, 84. Okay, Jamie, you were 16 in the year 2000 on the 8th of April, and on that day, this was top of the chart. Oh, Jamie, tune! Banger. Yeah, banger, all right. You get Madison Avenue,

Don't Call Me Baby. You all right about that? Yeah, man, all good. She was hot. Madison. No, both of them. I think there was a girl and a guy in the group. Oh, that's good. That's going to be really hard to beat. Okay. Jocelyn, welcome to Birthday Banger. Hi, Joc. Hi. What's your birthday? It's the 19th of the 10th, 1973. Okay, Jocelyn. You were 16 in 1989 on the 19th of October,

and this is your Birthday Banger. Baby, if I could turn back time. Woo! If I could find... Wow! Oh, holy moly. Got it perfect. She's just toured the country.

She looks exactly the same as she did when she released this song in 89. Shut up, I'm Cher. Yes, she does. You get Cher if I could turn back time. Holy moly. This is a Whitney Houston-sized juggernaut of a song. Love Cher. All right, I'd say good luck to you, Jocelyn,

but I think more good luck to us with our jobs because I think I know what's going to happen. Unless Amy comes through with a real barnstormer. Hey, Amy. Hi, Amy. Hi. There's no way I'm going to beat that song from Cher. I know, but let's find out.

Let's see, Amy. You never know. You might have a Michael Jackson. You might have a... Oh, I don't know. Come on, Amy. What's your birthday? 23rd of December,. Come on, Amy. What's your birthday? 23rd of December 1997.

Okay, Amy. You were 16 in 2013 on the 23rd of December and this was top of the charts. Oh, no. Really? You get the song from Ed Sheeran that was only popular in New Zealand from Lord of the Rings, I See Fire.

Yeah, you were right. I haven't seen that movie either. What's more depressing, that Ed Sheeran song or Happier? Oh, both. Oh, I don't know, they're both pretty bad. Amy, are you happy to concede defeat? Yes.

Amy, what would you like to hear on ZM this afternoon? Cher. Yeah. Duh. That you like to hear on ZM this afternoon? Cher. Yeah. Duh. That Madison Avenue, just for the record. I love that Madison Avenue track. The Madison Avenue song is great, and I think that's the one that Ross would want us to play.

A hundred percent, but that's why we want to play Cher. Oh, baby. It's Cher, bitch. Congrats, Jocelyn. Here's your birthday banger. Thank you. Yeah, girl. ZM, Bree and Clint.

That's the winner of birthday banger. From Cher. If I could turn back time. How did we get through that whole song without being cut off? I don't know. Have we changed the whole dynamic of the radio station? I think Ross Boss is drunk.

Or gone. Or gone, he's gone home. Someone's texted and said, I have never been so happy to be stopped in roadworks. What a time to be alive. Cher's playing on ZM. How good if she was still in the country too and she just flipped the noise like, oh, bloody hell.

Can you imagine if she came into the building? The Bisexualer finishes tomorrow. Anne-Lise will choose out of either Jade or Tom and you two will go on a romantic trip overseas. What am I going to do once this finishes? I've been vicariously living through Anne-Lise's dating dating life you can focus on your own love life good point um we haven't told you ann leese where you'll be going with your person is that exciting to you like that's really real now yeah it's very close you and the person that you choose either jade or tom provided you don't

do a honey badger and walk out on both of them. Just go on my own. Yeah, what a boring trip. You'll be going to Hawaii. Yeah, girl. What the? Oh, wait. No, don't swear. Don't swear.

I don't know exactly where in Hawaii. I was kind of thinking maybe that. Pretty big deal though. I was talking to Jade about it before and I said, I'm not going to tell you where it is. She goes, bid not be Fiji. So you can see where the bar is set for her, quite high. Jade, would you like to take Annalise to Hawaii?

That would be amazing. Yeah, right? Have either of you been? No, I've been to America, but I've never been to Hawaii. I've been and it's awesome. Tomorrow we'll find out who you're taking. It's very romantic. We have a chance for you, like we did with Tom yesterday,

to win some private time with Jade before the elimination, okay? Yesterday, we got Tom to do a quiz on you. He got more than half correct. He nailed it. We just gave you guys some quiet time, some time away from the cameras. We don't even need to know

what you guys went and did for your date. That's just a chance for you to actually try and connect without us listening for a change. Yeah, before you go through an airport with someone because that place is horrible to be in a relationship and be at an airport. Terrible.

Today we're going to do the same thing with you, Jade. You're going to get the chance. Cool, looking forward to it. We've got some Anne-Lise based questions. Before then, do you want to hear how their date went today? Yeah, I'd like to hear. So we sent them out on the Auckland Harbour. They went out on the Explore yachts

and they got to sail around just the two of them with a romantic picnic basket. There was wine. And then they drew each other. Pretty much you guys recreated the Titanic. Yeah. Without the sinking part. That could be tomorrow.

We both survived. This is your whole date in 60 seconds. Jade and Anne-Lise. Now I have a single date with Jade, which I'm very excited about, but I'm not going to mention what it is because she's sitting right there and I really want to surprise her. I'm so excited. I haven't been sailing in ages.

I've never been sailing. Haven't you? There's so much that I'm doing now that I've never done before as well, so I'm real excited. Cheers. Cheers. This is f***ing awesome. That's really late. Yes. I've never done before as well, so I'm real excited. Oh, cheers! Cheers! This is f***ing awesome. F***, that's really lit.

Yes! Draw me like one of your French girls. Draw me like one of your dates. One of your bisexual dates. I think that's about as good as it's going to get for me. I've messed up your face. Didn't make your neck long enough. Didn't bother trying to draw eyes, because I don't think you can with this stuff.

Shall we do the reveal? Mine's very plain. I think it sounds like it has a lot of detail. The shading! I'm sorry! I'm flying! Jack! Jade.

Jade, I'm flying. Oh my god! My third date with Anne-Lise was really good. A little bit romantic. It was really fun. I really bit romantic. It was really fun. I really like it. I think I've set the point now, if I didn't get chosen, I would be a bit upset about it.

I'd be like, oh, my feelings. Yeah, hoping I win. Pretty sure I will. I really have to set some time aside and really think about what I'm going to do because so far this date was great. It really set the bar this time. Uh-oh, did we just hear some real feelings come out? Jade!

Jade, did you just say you actually feel something now and you don't want to get dumped tomorrow? No, I just want to maintain my cold, icy kind of... You had a few venos, didn't you, Jade?

Maybe a little. We're going to give you the chance right now. You're flustered. You're going red. Sorry. We're going to give you the chance to win some quiet time, some alone time together. We'll pay for it. You guys flustered. You're going red. We're going to give you the chance to win some quiet

time, some alone time together. We'll pay for it. You guys can go on a date and we won't record any of it, okay? We've got five questions about Anne-Lise. We've already had her answer them. We've recorded the answers. You just need to get three correct, okay? That's it. Alright.

Nervous. Question number one. Jade, what is Anne-Lise's star sign? Gemini. All right. Nervous. Question number one, Jade. What is Anne-Lise's star sign? Gemini. Anne-Lise, you said... My star sign is Gemini. Hey! That's one to Jade. That's good.

Should we go for question number two? Yeah, let's go for question number two. What does the tattoo on Anne-Lise's arm say? It says girl power. Oh, very confident. Anne-Lise, you said... The tattoo on my arm says girl power. Yeah, girl.

Two from two. Very fitting for this moment. You're doing well. Can I say you're doing just as well as Tom? So if you get one wrong, then Tom will have done better than you in the quiz because he got three from three. Oh, no.

For the win, Jade and some alone time with Anne-Lise. Question number three. What is Anne-Lise's favourite drink? Oh, tequila and ginger beer. Very specific again. Very specific. Anne-Lise, you said... My favourite drink is tequila and ginger beer.

Yay! There you go. Boom. Done. I was nervous about that. These questions are too easy. Do you not want to go on a date with her or something? No. I'll leave now. We're going to pay for you guys to just go out the two of you tonight, okay? Awesome. No cameras. No filming.

Although you can watch the video of the guys, the girls date from the boat. Yes, you can. That is going up on our Facebook page and Instagram. I think somebody was a bit drunk on the boat, but you can watch to find out who you think that was. Had some sea legs. We're not quite done because there's something else we need to do next.

Oh, no, I'm nervous about this now. What was your idea? No, technically it was my friend Alan's idea. Oh, Alan. Up next, we haven't done this on the show before, but someone from one of your past is going to join us. Oh, God. That is an ex of one of you.

Oh, God. Brie and Clint on Zit Im. Let me paint a picture for you right now. The bisexualer ends tomorrow. Anne-Lise has to make her decision between Jade and Tom, who she will take on a romantic getaway to Hawaii. Hawaii.

Which we just learnt about. We thought, because Anne-Lise is kind of like, you know, we're very protective of Anne-Lise. We've gotten to know her over a number of weeks. We really want her

to pick the right person. You've got no idea how many people we fought off who wanted to date you. We got the sixth best and we had to tell the others, Hammer and Tongue. Don't you bloody come near her.

It's our bisexualer. You went on your last date with Jade today and we know that Jade is obviously someone who you really like and she's in the final two and we want you to be able to make sure tomorrow that you pick the right person. And we thought you should get to know a bit more about Jade and the best way to do that would be to ask one of Jade's exes

what she's like in a relationship. Jade, you look very uncomfortable. Oh, I just don't know who it's going to be. How many exes have you got? A couple, a few. How many of them ended on bad terms? One that I know of, but that was a very long time ago. I think I'm okay with most of them.

Okay. Well, if the person on the phone line wants to say hello to Jade and Anne-Lise right now. Hello. Jade's confused. Lucy. Oh, my gosh. Hi. Jade's confused. Oh my gosh. Hi. Hi, Lucy.

I thought it might be you. Hi. Hi, Luz. A sense of relief has just wafted over Jade. Now tell us, when did you and Jade date and for how long?

Hey, Jade. How are you going? I'm good. How are you? Awkward. We dated last year, like probably about a year ago, and just for a few months. Okay.

And why did you guys break up? Well, I moved to Wellington for a job, and so we kind of ended that way. But it was pretty amicable. It was definitely no bad blood. It was kind of like, gotta, gotta go, but we'll still be really good friends.

Oh, but are there still any feelings there then? I mean, it was a while ago, but definitely like, she's totally a babe and like loves spending time with her. We're just really good friends. Right, okay. Interesting.

What would you say, Lucy, is Jade's biggest flaw in a relationship? Well, I mean, it's a little bit of a hard one. I guess, like, when we kind of ended, we were filming, like, pretty early that. But I guess, I don't know, I guess maybe at the start I found it kind of hard to, I found it quite difficult to read. But I guess you could see that that's like not,

like wouldn't have to necessarily be a flaw, but maybe also, you know, a strength if you're into that, like pretty mysterious. Okay. She's a loof. I remember being on my toes. She was a loof.

I remember being on my toes a bit and kind of like, what is she thinking? I don't know. Treat her mean, keep her keen. Well, we did hear her let slip. Yeah, I found it kind of difficult. Let slip earlier today that she really likes Anne Lee,

so that's interesting. We're talking to Jade's ex, Lucy. I want to know, Lucy, what's Jade's best quality in a relationship? I think she's just awesome to be around. Like, she's kind of one of those people that just gives you, like, an energy burst, you know? Like, kind of like when you hang out, it's just like to be around. Like, she's kind of one of those people that just gives you, like, an energy burst, you know? Like, kind of like when you hang out, it's just like you're always kind of laughing,

there's always chat, and you're always kind of just, like, want to go do things. Yeah, nice. Like, one of those people that you haven't talked about before. God, I wish my exes were talking about this. I feel very lucky. Thanks, Liz. But don't you think, and wouldn't you agree, Annalise, that's kind of the vibe we get from Jade already as well, right?

And that's what you've kind of said, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Annalise, no one gets to do this okay you are conference called right now with the ex of your potential next girlfriend no one gets the inside scoop like this what do you want to know from lucy jade's ex do you have anything you want to know i don't think i need to know anything me and jade have talked a lot over the dates and we've actually talked about Lucy before and I've talked about my exes with her That's a good answer

I'm not going into this like I know everyone has a history with people so That's a confident answer I have history with people, she has history with people like I can't change that Okay so what do we want to know Clint? Do you have any advice for Annalise? Lucy?

I don't know I mean I actually only learned that you guys were doing this the other day and I think it's hilarious, good on you both, I think it's so cool and I watched the clip and it seems like you guys have real good connection, really good vibes What about Tom?

What do you think Tom's chances are? Oh, to be honest, I haven't actually watched it because of all of you. Cool, good review. Yeah, like good on you, Dale. Written for you.

Yeah, nice. But yeah, no, I would just say like keep the fun alive, you know? Like I think Jade's a really fun person and a really great energy to be around

and I just say like, you know, try and keep that going for as long as you can. Oh, we should have got the other Rex on. The one who hates you. Okay, Lucy, thank you so much. You didn't have to do this, but we appreciate it. We really appreciate it. Thanks, Lucy. That's Jade's ex, Lucy.

Good luck, guys. It all goes down tomorrow. And Lise has to choose either Tom or Jade. I can't wait to find out who. It'll happen between 5 and 5.30 on the show tomorrow. Brie and Clint on ZM. Brie and Clint's Which Wine Is It? Thanks to the New World Wine Awards,

we get to get pissed on the show. It's a new competition. God, I love this job. I know, right? I know. We drank a whole competition. I love this job. I know, right? I know. We drank a whole bottle yesterday, you and I. We have a glass of wine which will be handed to us. We're currently blindfolded.

What we will do is try and guess the type of wine that that is to win you, Amy, a $500 New World voucher. Amy. Yeah, great, good. Here's the catch. We don't know much about wine.

Speak for yourself. You. You. I knew it was Pinot Gris yesterday. You said to me the other day, champagne's not wine. You said champagne's not wine. Yeah, it's bubbly wine. It's still wine.

Okay. So, Amy, we may have to buy clothes. Each of those clothes costs $100 and it comes out of your $500 voucher still wine. Okay. So Amy, we may have to buy clothes. Each of those clothes costs $100 and it comes out of your $500 voucher, okay? Okay. And we're really going to try, Amy. We want you to win the full $500. I want to too. I trust you guys.

She trusts us. Ellie, when you're ready. I wouldn't, but she does. We will take a glass of wine each. Oh, I can smell it. You haven't even handed it to me. That's a red. Is it? Is it a red? Get that in your nostrils. Can you hear my one block

nostril? I don't know if it's a red. I think it's a white. I can feel it up. Oh, it got right into my nasal cavity. Let's have a sip. Hey, cheers. Cheers. Cheers.

Oh, I can't see you. I can't see where you are either. Okay, ear cheers. Ear cheers. Ear cheers. Cheers. That's definitely not a rib. That is absolutely a white.

What did you, where did you go down the wrong hole? Me no liking. Oh, you don't like it? Nah. So that means it tells me it's either a Savvy B or a Cardonay. You don't like a Savvy B or a Cardonay? No, I'm not a fan. Ugh.

Let me just taste again, though. Mmm. Ah. Yeah, it's definitely a white, and it's a Cardonay or a Sav. This is what I know about Chardonnays. Yes. People call them buttery. They say, oh, is that a buttery chard?

I call them woody. And this doesn't taste buttery or woody to me, which leans me towards a Savvy B. Do you want to actually have a guess? We could buy one clue. I don't need to take the blindfold off. Neither, but we could buy a clue without taking the blindfold off. Amy, can we buy one clue?

You can buy a clue. Okay, I think that's smart. Ellie, for $100 Amy, can we buy one clue? You can buy a clue. Okay, I think that's smart. Ellie, for $100 could we please have one clue? Alright, this wine is known for flavours of butter, vanilla and caramel. Oh, it's a shard. She's a buttery shard. I didn't think it was

buttery. It must be buttery. It's definitely a shard. Ellie, I drank all mine. I thought you hated it. You just scalded it. Can I have some more? Eat any more, Eddie. I drank it all. Oh, you hated it. You just scalded it. Can I have some more? Did he need more already? I drank it all. Amy. Oh, Jesus. Amy, how confident are you if we were to lock in Shard on $400

or do you want us to buy another clue? You sound so confident. It's up to you, really. Mate, I don't want to lose all the money for Amy. But if you're confident, it's a cardi. I'm getting more and more confident with every sip, if you know what I mean. Yeah, where's the... Ellie?

Do you want another one? Yeah. Okay. Okay, one moment. Oh, no, no, that'll cost another $100. Okay, well... Amy, do you want one more clue or lock-in chardonnay? Do you want to gamble it?

I reckon gamble it. Gamble it? I think so too. And you know how you know it's a cardiné? It hits you on the back of the throat. All right. You're right. That is how you know.

Oh, no, that's because I scald mine. Ellie, for a $400 New World voucher, we would like to lock in a buttery chard. Is it a chardonnay? It's a Sacred Hill Hawks Bay chardonnay. Yeah! Get it in ya! Get it in ya!

Amy, 400 bucks for you to spend at New World. Congratulations. Thank you. Seriously, though, where's another glass? We'll get you a top up, mate. It's all right. Calm down. I'm just saying that I don't encourage gambling, though.

Well, or drinking on the radio. But hey, first for everything. But here we are, Amy. The New World Wine Awards, you can discover fantastic, affordable, gold medal winning wines at New World in stores right now. I love you. I love you, man.

I love you too, man. Hey. Brie and Clint on ZM. Oh my god, I heard she bought all her followers. She would, she's such a bitch. It's time for Bree and Clint's Insta-fame game. A fun game that you can shout at the car radio and play along with us

or the person sitting next to you. Producer Ellie gives us a celebrity and we have to guess off the top of our heads how many people that person has following them on Instagram. I'm just really not in the mood for this game today. Well, you've actually clawed your way back into this a little bit. Have I though? It's 10 games to four. That's a pretty big gap.

10 games to four. There are enough weeks left in the year that you could beat me. Okay, well that gives me hope. Okay, but I think you do need to win today. When you're ready, Producer Ellie, please give us the first celebrity. First celebrity? Lord.

Our national treasure. Good friend of the show as well. I'm pretty, I do love Lord. You do. She gets shout outs from Taylor Swift. Okay. Lord. Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord. So. I do love her very much. Okay. Lord. Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord. So...

Oh, I do love her very much. Surely she has the most out of anybody in New Zealand. I'm pretty confident. At least. She deleted all the photos off her Instagram recently too. You pipe down, producer Ben, in the background. All right, Clint, you've said $17 million for Lord. Brie, you've said $8.3 million.

Lorde has $6.2 million. That's a point to Brie. I mean, how could I go wrong? I'm besties. Can we get Lorde some more followers, please? Yeah, I was surprised by that. She should have more than that. Yeah.

Okay, that's fine. Celebrity number two, Ellie, this is first to three. All right, celebrity number two, Jessie J first to three Alright Celebrity number two Jessie J Oh Channing Tatum's New girlfriend Yep Oh

And you do a great Impersonation of her break Alright I'll be putting up A video of that tonight Chill out Tune in on the old Instagram there

Alright shut up you She will not have As many followers as Lord I don't reckon You know she's kind of Been off the boil a bit Like when was her last song Yeah I don't know. You know, she's kind of been off the boil a bit. Like, when was her last song? Yeah, I don't know.

All right. For GCJ, Clint, you've said 2.5 million. Correct. Bree, you have said 7.1 million. GCJ has 7.3 million. Get in there! I'm obsessed with her, so I'm glad I got that right. This is not okay.

I'm not meant to lose at my own game. Oh, my God! This is... Ellie, the'm not meant to lose at my own game. Oh my god. Ellie, the next one better be like Molokai Fikito or something. Oh yeah, cool, cool, cool. Better not be. Alright.

For the win, potentially. Your next celebrity, Ashley Simpson. Hang on, can I ask why Ashley Simpson? I just saw her in the Eon line today and thought, oh, what's she up to? Ashley Simpson. I used to love a bit of Ashley Simpson. Ashley Simpson.

Up to. Yeah. You know, Pieces of Me. Oh, God. Love that tune. Okay, all right. I have no eye pieces of me. Love that tune.

Pieces, pieces. Yeah, it was great. Is that the one she got caught lip syncing? Yes. Yeah, I think it was. It is, eh? Yeah. All right, Ashley Simpson. Yeah, it was great. Is that the one she got caught lip syncing? Yes. I think it was. It is, eh? Yeah. All right, Ashley Simpson.

Oh, we are so close. How did we get that close? Okay. All right, Ashley Simpson. Clint, you've said 1.2 million. You'll get this. Brie, you've said 1.1 million. Ashley Simpson has 779,000.

Oh, please, sweet there, Brie. Oh, maybe this is where the tables turn. I hate this game, it's cancelled. Maybe. Yesterday, news broke that Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson are no longer engaged. How long have they been engaged for? I've just been trying to work out the timeline.

Because I know they got engaged after three weeks of dating each other. That's so quick, isn't it? Some people do that though. My friend Sharon's parents got engaged after the first date. Really? And they're still married and they've got heaps of kids and they're super happy and they just knew. Yeah, sometimes you really do just know

and other times it's a mistake. From the research I've been doing, the earliest engagement rumour, because they would have got engaged at a different date to when they confirmed it, you know. They wouldn't let it settle together before they go public. The earliest rumour, June 11, which means from engagement to yesterday's news of the split, four months. And I think probably they would have split earlier than yesterday.

Yeah. Obviously. Yeah. So about four months for their engagement, which is longer than they were dating. So well done on that front. He's 24, she's 25. Yeah, I thought he was older than that.

Yeah. I thought he was about 32. Why? Is that, I don't know. I just thought he was about 32. Why? Is that, I don't know. I just thought he was. Maturity or appearance? Bit of both.

Oh, yeah, okay. Yeah. No, he's younger than her. She's 25, he's 24. Because he popped the question. He spent nearly 100 grand on the engagement ring. Yeah, but if you're dating Ariana Grande, you would drop it like it's hot, right?

Yeah. To lock that down. Who do you think called it off? I think she's really struggling at the moment and going through a lot of stuff after the death of her ex, Mac Miller. Yeah. And I think she probably has realised quite a lot of stuff. Yeah. You know, when you go through something like that.

And she has come out and said that she really needs to find herself again. Yeah. Yeah, you do. And that's really needs to find herself again. Yeah. Yeah, you do. And that's what a breakup is great for. Yeah. Tough when it's an engagement though because there's so much pressure and so much expectation and your mum's sending you pictures of dresses and you're already picking out cakes and everyone's going to go,

oh, when are you having babies and stuff like that? And then you go, actually, we're going to break up. It makes it that much worse, doesn't it? It's just pressure. It's pressure on top of pressure. But, I mean, good call. If you're going to break up, do it before you get married. It makes it that much worse, doesn't it? It's just pressure. It's pressure on top of pressure. But, I mean, good call. If you're going to break up, do it before you get married.

Exactly right, or else it gets messy. Oh, you're messy too, but you save a lot of money. Yeah. You know? Who do you think would be worth more? Ariana. That was a joke. I was going to say.

Like, Pete's great and stuff, but Saturday Night Live versus Ariana Grande. Multi-platinum record-selling artist. Yeah, he's more of a Vinty and Live versus Ariana Grande. Multi-platinum record selling artist. Yeah, he's more of a Venti and she's a Grande. Oh mate. We want to ask this afternoon, have you been in a similar situation? Did you break up while you were engaged?

When did the engagement end and why? Yeah. What's that like? It takes courage. I'll give people that. If you're breaking up an engagement that takes a lot of courage to do that. The weird thing is all breakups take courage. Like whether someone gets hurt in the moment

or not, it's always if you want to break up with someone it's the nicer thing to do to break up with them than to just stay in a relationship and let it peter out into something toxic. It's so much better than staying in it for the wrong reasons. Why did you call off the engagement? Is that what we're asking?

Yeah. Yeah. Why did it end? Yeah. You can call us on 0800DIALZM or you can text us on 9696 and you can stay anonymous if you want to. Ooh, a bit of group therapy too. Ooh.

Give us a... Ooh. Brie and Clint on Zitim. Oh, a bit of group therapy too. Oh. Give us a... Oh. Bree and Clint on ZM. Why did you call off the engagement? Like, what happened? What realisation did you come to? What monumental thing made you go, actually, nah, forever sounds like a dumb idea.

Do you think there's people that, because we were talking about this earlier today, you know if you make like a public... Proposal. Proposal. Yeah. people that, because we were talking about this earlier today, you know if you make like a public proposal proposal, do you think there's people that say yes in the moment and then kind of, you know, backtrack later on? Oh, I never thought about

it like that, but absolutely. It would be probably, oh, what's easier? What's easier? Is it to rip the band off in the moment and go, no, I don't want to. Or go, yeah, and then everyone celebrates. Get their hopes up and then afterwards go, actually. I don't know.

Just because it was in public. Yeah. Let's find out from the people who have done it. Greer, hello. Hello. Hello. You called off your engagement. I did, yes.

What happened, Greer? Oh, we were together for a good couple of years. I think it was about three and a half years. And we were engaged for quite a while. And I'd obviously picked dates and was getting very excited. And we did a whole bunch of other things in the time being. Like, we brought a new, well, he brought a new truck. And he wanted to accomplish some other things in life.

And that was all good. And I supported that. And then it kind of got to a point where I was like, well, hang on. What, you know, do I get anything? Like, what's happening here? The date kept getting pushed out. I think it changed about four times and I just kind of got to a point where I was like, what is actually happening?

Like, do we actually have the same end goal? Are we thinking along the same lines? Because I know what I want in life, but I'm not sure if you're right on the same page just yet. And so I kind of was like, right, I just don't feel like this is, something doesn't add up, something's not feeling quite right. So Greer, do you think he proposed because he thought that's what you wanted? I think he did, to be honest, in the very beginning.

Yeah, I do. I think it was because more of what I wanted. I don't doubt that he didn't want to marry me. I think he did. I just think it was all probably not right for him. And that's where the issue lies. I think some guys do that. I think they go,

all right, we've been dating for a while. Next logical step is the marriage. So I'll propose and that should buy me a few more years. And it's all the pressure of everyone being like, oh, you should be engaged. Yeah, but then once you do it, you should go for it, right?

Yeah. I mean, everyone's different, but so you caught it, Greer. It's not happening? Yeah. I mean, everyone's different, but so you called it Greer. It's not happening. You guys not together. No, so we're not together. We're really good friends still. We still get on.

We still have the same kind of group of mates and stuff, but right now we're just doing our own thing and figuring out what we each want in our own individual lives because it just... Who got the truck? He got the truck. It was his truck. He brought it.

That was his thing. So you really didn't get anything, Greer? No, I left and I left him to have everything because I just, I wanted a family. I wanted kids. I wanted a future with him and I wanted to support it. Yeah, nice. Okay, well, hey, good on you, Greer. And thanks for the call as well. Yeah, so like courageous

to be able to do that. Tracy, who called off the engagement? Me. What did you do, Tracey? Well, we'd already organised the wedding and the date and got to Christmas time and his mother and I didn't really get on that well. Oh, no. And she decided that she wanted to invite these people

that I didn't particularly like to the wedding. Yeah. I didn't think it was necessary. And, yeah, then he was from Sydney and went home over Christmas. Yeah. And then I spent some time by myself and decided that actually that wasn't really what I wanted. What a crappy Christmas present when he got home.

Do you think that's what his mum wanted? Like she wanted to drive a rift between you two and she got what she wanted? Probably. I think she did. Right. But no, it was funny because we'd already booked a honeymoon to Hawaii.

So we actually went on that. Oh my God. Awkward. And how was that, Tracy? It was really good. We had a great holiday. Separate bed, same bed? Same.

Just like one last hoorah before you... Hawaii hoorah. Yeah. Yeah, we sort of broke off the wedding and engagement. That kept going out for a little while. And then, yeah. Yeah. It was done.

Yeah. Well, at least they're still friends. There's a text that's come through. Yeah. I don't know if I should read it out. Should I read it out? Yeah. My dad called off his wedding to his second almost wife a few weeks before the big day

because he met my mum and married her instead. Jeez. What a modern day Casanova. I know, right? Last one. This person wants to remain anonymous. Why'd you call off the wedding? Caught him in bed with someone else. Anonymous. Are you kidding? No, no. It wasn't overly pleasant. Wait, were you on Shortland Street?

I was. Does that actually happen? Do these things? Yeah. Oh, no. So you literally walked in and he was in your guy's bed? Yeah, yeah. He thought I was away at a barbecue at my mum's.

What did you say? At a barbecue? What did you say? At a barbecue? What did you say? Not much. I kind of walked off and... Yeah, you can't say it on the radio. Who thinks they've got time to get one over during a barbecue? And in her bed.

A barbecue could go for anything from 45 minutes to three hours. Yeah, at least lock in a movie and then you know the time frame. He didn't need much to be fair.