2819 Church - Fruit That Remains | Authentic Weight | Psalm 100:3 | Arik Hayes

Episode Date: June 8, 2026

In this opening message of our NEW series FRUIT THAT REMAINS, Elder Arik Hayes confronts a culture that bows at the altar of feelings while neglecting the honor due to God.Drawing from Psalm 100:3, Matthew 15:7-9, Malachi 1:6-8, and Jude 1:24, we are reminded that honor is not emotional, it is predetermined. We cannot separate honoring God from honoring His Word. In a generation driven by individualism, disciples must bury honor deep in our souls.The question remains:Will you honor God, or will you honor your feelings?

Have a seat, beloved. In the presence of the Lord. Yeah, we've been having a good time all day today. Know what I love about this good time? Have you ever been in the world? There were always side effects to their good time. Now we can come and have a party in the Lord, and it's edifying to the soul and spirit. No side effects.

We have good fun in the Lord. Yes, ma'am. Good Holy Ghost phone. No shame, no condemnation, no bondage. freedom, edification, increased knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ. That is our portion. Amen, beloved.

Amen. Welcome to 2819 church. Beloved, my name is Eric Hayes. I'm one of the elders here. Thank you. God bless you. God bless you. I love you.

Amen. We are a church that is absolutely a house of prayer, presence, and proclamation. I want to welcome our online community, the digital disciples. Those that may actually have traveled in. We get at least a couple of you guys that are in the building. Those that are driving us or actually joining us across the chat during the live

stream. We want to welcome you. And last but not least, we definitely want to welcome the unbeliever in the building. Yeah, clap it up. Why do y'all make a fuss about the unbeliever? Because the gospel is about the unbeliever. And God himself is concerned about the unbeliever. so much so that he sent his son to die on a raggedy, rugged cross for the sins of the unbeliever.

Check us out. Even those who won't believe he still paid the price. Who wouldn't serve a God like that? This is a place you could absolutely belong before you believe, and we welcome you. This is the time that we customarily give honor to the pastor of this ecclesia, Philip Anthony Mitchell. No pressure, beloved, just want to give you the opportunity. If that's in your heart,

your opportunity to share that. Amen. For the scripture say, we should give honor to whom it is due. And I believe if you continue to fight your flesh and bow before the Lord Jesus Christ and steward a revival and love your wife and each one of your children and ring your own sin out and pursue holiness and purity over decades, over decades, I believe that that is to be be honored. So we want to honor him there. As a church today, we're starting a brand new sermon series title, Fruit That Remains. Fruit that remains. We walked through all of Matthew over three plus years. We walked through the first two chapters in Acts. And this summer we'll be discussing virtues that we think are biblical to expect to see in the lives of believers that walk hand in

hand with the Lord. And I've been given the assignment and the privilege to deliver the first message of said series today, and it's been titled, Authentic Weight. Authentic weight. Please allow me to pray for us one more time as we dive into the Word of God. Holy Father, we've seen outpoints all day. And God, we've already thank you for what you've done in worship. As we transition to the Word, we still want to see your glory.

Still want to see your grace, God. Help us align with what you've said in your Word. Help us be malleable, God, and not be stiff-necked people. That we would hear your word and align by the power and privilege of the Holy Ghost living on the inside of us. Right, God, I want to finish this assignment in faithfulness, God, and purpose for you love your children that are listening now. Those that are live here and those that are streaming. Have your way in me, God. I seek to decrease.

that you would increase in this moment, that you would continue to have your way. You've already started. We ask you to continue. It's in Jesus' name we pray. You mind hanging out with me, Frank? I appreciate your family. Thank you.

If I'm honest, and I believe I can talk to you like we family. I usually do. Is that all right? All right. This is easily one of the most difficult preaching assignments I've ever had. Right? I mean, preaching, I think, probably in an official sense at this church, Before when it was Victory Church ATL, I think it was sometime in like 2000, maybe 17.

And this is tough because it's actually easier to talk about what this value or Christian ethic is not. It's easier to look at the opposite or the antonym because it's much more prevalent in the world and unfortunately the church. Right? Let's discuss it together. Let's reason together. You let me know if it's true. It's easier to see the degradation of people, people being degraded. It's easier to see disobedience.

It says in the last days, children will be disobedient to their parents. Have you seen that or have you not? It's easier to see numerous examples of disgrace. And in the world, in politics, state, federal, local, and even in the church, it's easier to see corruption. And it's by a long shot, beloved. Like it's not even close. Like you've scrolled, you looked on every screen in your house, on your phone, your tablet, or your TV. You see, just turn on the news.

Look at any news outlet. It's easier to see those things. Those strings are coming in by the billions. And it makes it harder to come up with an example of the thing we're actually going to discuss. And what we're going to discuss today, this Christian ethic is called honor. See, just like there was a moment. You felt exactly how I felt. I was like, I can barely come up with something where universally, I'm going to say, hey, guys, this is what honor is. Let me preach a couple times. I'll give a good illustration where I can liken it to. I'll say similarly, and then I'll say, here's the natural and here's the spiritual. I am struggling with the natural here.

Struggling. There's a couple of reasons that's the case. We in the West have thrown out the culture of honor and adopted the culture whole, whole heart. of individualism. Let me say a little further. So we balk and scoff at the general disposition of honor. Like that doesn't apply to us because we want to give precedence to how we feel about person, place, or thing in the moment. What does it look like, right? Right? We just don't want to say, I'm going to honor.

We want to give an opening. So if we don't like it, we don't approve, you don't do what we want. You hurt my feelings. We want to be in our flesh instead of the spirit. spirit as if we really have a choice, as if we have not been bought with a price. And we want to give the opening to our honor when I feel like it. I told the first experience, man, I was actually fighting with my wife this week. Don't get quiet, man.

Y'all fight with your boyfriend, girlfriend. You fight with your wife. Look at me like that. We know you fight. I do counseling sessions. I know they fight. And I'm not above it, right? Anytime you have two people in a marriage covenant because he awakens things that are not going to be awakened just in Dayton.

It's another level. Married people in the building? It's another level. And we were discussing things because I would love to tell you you're going to be able to discuss something one time in your marriage and it's going to be over. You hear the chuckle? That would be a lie. So we were having a conversation that we've actually been talking about for years, right? And I was upset, right?

And then we stopped talking, and then my wife was just like, this thing, this what made me mad. She actually calmed down before I did. Right? So here she is being all sweet. Talk him out. He said, go ahead and near. Okay, got you. Got you.

Right? So now she's like, now she got a sweet voice. Hey, baby, can we, can we please just talk? I'm like, no, I don't want to talk. Can you at least hear what I'm? No, I don't want to talk. I'm going to talk. I'm talked out.

I'm talked out. No, I don't want to talk. No, I don't want to talk. Don't feel like talking. Anybody ever been there? Then won't talk. Right? But we just finished our spring, a cohort of one accord for those that came through. Right? Right. So that means I was just exposed to the blueprint of marriage. And something in my soul, I would call it the Holy Ghosts, crept up from right here. It was not my idea. And it came up like the Holy Ghost does. And it said, See, you're yelling, amen, because you didn't have to do it. Amen. You don't always amen when God tell you to be obedient. Do you? I got toddlers.

I understand when my toddlers, they throw a tantrum. I'll be doing the same thing. I just don't do it out loud. You need to honor her. So I called her. I didn't try to act like I was all holy. Hello, my love. Co-air of the grace of this life.

Didn't do that. I asked her. I think I said something like, So, and the conversation didn't go amazing either. Right? But I had a choice to make. It's a choice all of us have to do in the West. Excuse me.

All over the world, but we're really bad at this in the West because we don't honor. We choose to honor our feelings. We wake up in the morning and functionally what we do is we bow at the altar of our feelings. Say feelings. Feelings. Should I go left or right? Should I forgive or hold a grudge? Should I walk in my spirit or walk in the flesh feelings or feelings?

Singing worship songs to your feelings. The God of your heart, idolatry, even when you put yourself on the throne. As we jump into honor, honor must first is best when you start out by saying this is going to be disposition of my heart, regardless of how I feel. When you choose ahead of time to honor, I'm going to honor my spouse, I'm going to honor my children, I'm going to honor my boss, I'm going to honor authority, I'm going to honor the pastor, I'm going to honor that elder, I'm going to honor the ministry leader, I'm going to honor the bus driver.

Because if we wait until our feelings give a thumbs up, we will not have an honorable life. And beloved as believers, honor is our portion. Another tidbit. We cannot separate. We cannot divorce honoring God and honoring His Word. Cannot. Or honor God. Well, last time you look at His Word.

Well, last time you consulted Him. Well, last time you pray to ask his opinion before you make the move instead of God bless this mess. Bibles are some of the dustiest books in houses. Even Bible apps are some of the most unused. If you got an Apple, I don't know what they're doing the other one, but if you got up there, that wasn't even a shot. I'm going to get back to the Word of God. I literally don't know because I ain't got one, right?

I don't know what they do on other platforms, but it'll tell you how long you've been dealing with an app. You'd be like a productivity calculation. Go look, pop it up and now. See how long you've been on the Bible app compared to the other ones. You can't divorce it, man. This is the thing. If you heard me preach for five minutes, I'm always talking about my children, right?

I love them, but the reality is, God teaches me through my children. What the Lord has given me as a parent, as a father, as a girl dad, as a boy dad, like he's always presenting opportunities to teach me. Right? And I got boy, girl, fraternal twins. They just turned three, May 14th, right? Amen. We almost out the woods.

I said when they turn four, some of this gray will stop pumping in, all right? This is what I think, okay? Right? And my son, I noticed about December, we were actually in Columbus, Ohio, my in-laws there. And I noticed this boy had gone a little rogue. Like, he's just, he's like, all boy. Like, he want to jump, he want to flip, he want to slide down. Like, he just wants, even when he hugs you, it's a little aggressive.

Like, he's wrestling and hugging you at the same time. Like, he's all boy, right? And we don't want to take that out of him. just want to shape it. That's his thing. Well, they're saying there's nothing, there's no difference between the genders. I think that's a lot from hell. You just want boys to sit down between the ages of one and five crisscross opal sauce for 10 hours a day. And they've actually had little boys actually have surges of testosterone at three years old. Why when he sit down? He has testosterone running through his veins. Go take him out and let him go down the slide 50 times. Then he'll be more apt.

It's not going to be perfect to sit down because he's. He's actually burning off energy. Right? But I noticed him. I'm like, he's a little rogue, and this is how I know he's a little rogue. He would look at me in the face. I mean, in the face, he would do this. The funny thing is he looks just like me.

He would just look me in the face and I'll say I'm over there. I would call him to be over there. He would do this. This I know he knew what was going on, right? I would say, I would call his name, call his name, call his name, call his name. Then I got wise. I said, you need to move on this boy. So then I shorten all that calling his name.

I would call his name like once or twice that I would get up. And I found that when I got up, all of a sudden he became more obedient. All of a sudden, he understood the king's English. And I love him and I hug my children. I tell him I love a man and I kiss a man. And I also are chasing them because I love them. The same way with your heavenly father. He is love, patience, goodness, grace and also discipline.

That's called a good father. But as we were dealing with this, we started to walk things back, and it's gotten considerably better over the last, like, four or five months, right? Because we were intentional. But I remember just wrestling. Like, so there's love them, like, I love them, man. I kiss him, I hug and we play. But something up when he was just being rebellious. I'm like, hey, boy, I made you.

Will you to look at me in my face? Understand what I'm saying and just go the other way with all your two-year-old wisdom. Do you think you are? Give me Psalms 100. Psalms 100, verse 3, reads as such. I'm going to take my time here. Can I take my time, beloved? All right. All right. Because I think this is a good little point right here. It says, know that the Lord, he is God. Why don't I read it like that? That's not a period. That's an exclamation. Sometimes some of our trouble would go away and we just recognize that he is God. You need to know who you dealing with. I'll continue. It says, it is he who made us. And we, are his. We are his people and the sheep of his pasture. I think this is pregnant with a couple of things because it's really being redundant there. It is he who made us. We are his. We are his people and the

sheep of his pasture. Almost like when Christ in the New Testament says like truly, truly and verily, verily, verily, I say unto you. I love the King James Version. It is he who has made us, not we ourselves. Who do we think we are? looking at the command of the living God, not the dead one, right in the face of the scriptures, closing it and say, I have a better idea. Can I tell you something, beloved? I used to think that rebellion was very loud. I had to learn my sister.

I thought it was very loud. I thought rebellion looked like this. I ain't doing that, God. I ain't doing all that. No, I ain't doing it like that. No, I'm going to do my own way. All of us would label that rebellion, wouldn't we? But you know what's the more common sign of rebellion?

It looks more like this. No, I'm good. Check me out. You don't even have to say it out loud. A lot of us just say it in our hearts. It looks like this. It looks and sounds like this. You know what that's called?

Rebellion. Look at me. I'm going to save you. I'm going to save you. It's called rebellion. It just looks sweet on the outside. And because many of us don't live with the honor to God that we should our lives are a mess.

Honor is protection. You know who I've seen that from? This is my second time I'm calling her out. Mrs. Jackson, Rhonda Jackson on the prayer team. You are living on stage, but you know what man? She lives in honorable life. She is real big on, what do my leaders say? What do they say?

What do they want me to do? She can have an idea. If she hears something that her leaders say opposite, it's done. I've never heard her arguing her way. with a leader. She may submit her input and we welcome it. But she just lives our honorable life. Clap it up. And I've known her for some time. She has actually had gifts, I believe, as a result of her being honorable. Right? But some of us want the favor, but we don't kill our flesh. That was so funny. Sister, I don't know if that was really an itch or if that was conviction, right?

But all over scratch I had like, yeah, we want the favor of man, but do we want to live the submitted life? Do we want to live the honorable life? Live the quiet life. And we all have choices to make, beloved, just like I did with my wife. I had a choice to make. I heard that from the Holy Ghost through my soul. How often do we brush it off?

We brush it off and then sometimes we run into things and we shake our fist at God, where he has given us in many ways through the Word of God or Arama or leaders input into our lives and we have been rebellious and dishonorable and now we have calamity. And it's not God's will. Some things you're going through is just a test from God. Some stuff you're going through is because you're walking in your flesh and you're in rebellion. You're chosen your own way. And we've been purchased by the precious blood in Emmanuel's veins.

And dishonor should not be our portion. Give me Malachi 1, 6 to 8. This is actually, this is inserted because our pastor thought it would be a good idea to teach us right here. So that's what we're doing. All right. Right? Now, everybody who talks about Malachi, you think of like ties and offerings? Set that to the side.

All right? Look at the heart of the father here. does God speaking. Verse 6, Malachi 1, 6 to 8. A son honors his father and a servant his master. If then I am a father, where is my honor? And if I am a master and he is, where is my fear? Says the Lord of host to you.

O priests who despise my name. But you say, you priests, how have we despise your name? by offering polluted food upon my altar. But you say, how have we polluted you? By saying that the Lord's table may be despised, that you allow it to be despised. When you offer blind animals in sacrifice, is that not evil?

And when you offer those that are lame or sick, is that not evil? Present that to your governor. Will he accept you or show you favor? says the Lord of hosts, look at me. If anybody knew the type of sacrifice that God required, it was the priest. Their whole point was, inspect the sacrifice. Is this worthy? And then I'll take it in. And here they are offering up, it says, blind animals, lame or sick animals. God says, is that not evil? Where is my honor? You wouldn't even give that to a man. You're going to. You're

governor and you offer it to me. Now we move from those sacrifices, right? Sacrifice is the ultimate sacrifice. But over in Romans 12, it says we should live our lives as a living sacrifice. And beloved, I'm asking you to inspect what we're given the Lord. Don't clock out. Don't clock out. We in this together. All of us need to inspect the sacrifices that we're given unto the Lord. And you say, hey, This is a danger. You can say, hey, I'm doing pretty good. And you may be. But my question is, are you giving him what he is due?

Because it's really easy for us to make up our own little rule book about how we're supposed to deal with God instead of consulting him. Can I tell you something that'll mature you? Instead of going to the Bible and the scriptures with assumptions, go asking questions. And this can be a very challenging word because we want to mature you guys. This is a Christian ethic that should be in the believer's life, at least in some capacity. Right? But some of you guys, because we've been polling, we actually do like spiritual formations with different teams and whatnot.

And we do counseling. I want to say a vast majority of you guys have only been with us like less than three years. Some of you guys actually just got baptized, just got saved, just got brought into the kingdom, just sincerely rededicated your life. to the Lord. So some of you guys have never heard a teaching and honor. And that's okay. This is your introduction. Okay. There's grace for that. Then some of you guys have actually you've been hurt. You've been hurt. There was a time you were leaning into the Lord and something came and like hit you at the knees and now your gunchild was stepping out on faith and giving him what

he is due. And it's affected the level of honor that you walk in with the Lord and also everybody else. And you need healing. And I'm saying, beloved, don't walk wounded. Seek him for healing. Some of us actually, we more interact with God as servants of God instead of children of God. Servants align with works. Children align with grace. Now both serve in the kingdom. Right? But as a servant, you're less likely to even think that God wants to heal you. You just think he wants you on the battlefield. He just wants me working. And he does. But as a father to a child, he wants you whole. Our father wants us whole. And if you've been just dealing with scars of life, go before him for healing. That is his desire. And there's some of you guys, You just need a reminder. You're walking with honor. You just need a reminder to keep going.

And then last but not least, beloved, and we love you. Some of you guys are arrogant and prideful. The very thought of actually consulting God before you make a move, you scoff at that. Well, I have a better idea with your two-year-old toddler wisdom. I got my life all planned out, do you? You didn't even make yourself. I know what's supposed to happen. Oh, you formed the worlds, didn't you?

All this eternal wisdom. You've been saved 17 months. You just got that. And you refuse to fight your flesh and consult God first before you make a move. And first of all, you probably are just running your head into brick walls. And that's protection. Last thing you need is a bunch of success at doing that. And I'll confront you.

Quit snubbing your nose at God. Honor him by reading the word. Honor him by being in community. Join a squad when they come open. We're working on it. Okay? Join a team. They're open now.

We do growth track. Go out and do outreach with two or three people on your row. We put these things in place because we love you. And we know you need godly community. But you have to humble your... These ain't my type of people. Well, are you saved? Are the people you hanging out with?

Are they going to heaven? If not, why are those your type of people and not the beloved church of the living God? Sounds like you are identifying more with your flesh than your spirit. We talked about what it's not. We talked about what honor is. Let me give you a couple of definitions there.

In the Old Testament in Hebrew, the word for honor is Kabad. It literally translates to weightiness or heaviness. To honor someone or give or God is to give them weight, importance, and significance. and significance in your life. Wait. In the New Testament, in Greek it's tamile. It means to fix a price or value upon something. It signifies holding a person in high regard and treating them as precious.

All right? That's what it is. Now, on your way from what it is not to have an authentic way, true honor, in other words, I want to make sure you do not make a very dangerous. pit stop. Okay? Go with me to Matthew 15, 7 through 9th verse. Matthew 15 versus 7 through 9. Love hearing the pages turn, beloved. All right. This is Jesus talking and he's coming in hot. He says, you hypocrites. Well, did Isaiah prophesy of you when he said? Now, slow down. The next part, the next two verses are actually in parentheses, because he's actually quoting scripture in Isaiah.

It says, this people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me, far from me, far from me. In vain do they worship. In vain do they jump up and down. In vain do they give sacrifices. In vain with lip service, do they worship me? Teaching as doctrines, the commandments of men. Stop. I would call this false. honor or fake honor don't do this even before today if you notice and when we honor pastor phil as we do customarily i say hey this is a time we honor if you would like to honor go ahead and honor them that's in your heart no pressure this is why there are some people do it i don't like when they do it but there's some people get on church stages and if if if if you don't give the response that they think you you know that they want to hear they get mad and they try to bully you from the pulpit. That's all the honor you got for the man of God. This man came here for that. Like, right? Doesn't he deserve more honor? Which may be true, right? But this is the thing.

I can use my authority in this place and try to bully you into an expression of honor, which we will not do. But that's the thing. That's cheap honor. 50% of y'all going to get up just because you don't want to feel bad. That does not mean that you actually have an honor. coming out of your soul. But check me out. The person with true honor and the person that doesn't look the same. They're both standing and clapping, aren't they? And God only cares about the authentic weight, the true honor.

So I'd rather you sit down. And trust me, it's not about standing up. I'm not trying to make you do that. I'm trying to get a point, right? I'd rather you sit down for eight months until you get a true revelation of what honor is and then one Sunday you say show honor to the man of God God honors that not the fake stuff and you can't force real honor real honor authentic weight is a disposition of the soul that has God involved you with me beloved okay so as I was thinking I feel like the

Holy Ghost gave this to me um there there are two situations I think if you have a desire to have more honor or to have honor altogether. I think these situations or just a revelation of these truths will help you. Okay. So the first one, we're going to go to 2nd Timothy 4-7. Before you put that up, I'm actually going to, you can turn them. Before you put that up, I'm going to give you example, right? I'm not a street dude.

Never claim to be. Not a tough guy, right? The worst I've ever dealt with is traffic court. Never had no sentence, never had no bid. That ain't my testimony. Okay? I have testimonies. That ain't it.

Right? And that's most of us too, by the way. Right? But even with traffic court, you have a slid in there with like a super speed or something like that? And all of a sudden, it just kind of arrests your reality. You become keenly aware of who is in charge in that courtroom. You become keenly aware of who is in charge in that courtroom. You become keenly aware of like the rules.

If you got any sense, you dress like you got some sense, you act like you got some sense, you bring some coins together, you order a lawyer, you don't get up and just run up and say, hey, man, it's time for my trial. No, you do not. And you've even seen it. Like people, you don't say, they have legal trouble, man. And it's a little funny only because we're not in it. Like you've seen the video when they got all the thug in them, don't they?

Right, they're sitting there, 10 toes down, ain't telling nobody. Yeah, yeah, yeah, cool, whatever, whatever. whatever, whatever, whatever, whatever, till they get to that sentencing. And they lay down four 20-year sentences. And you've watched all the thug come right up out of them. Now check me out, beloved. Not everybody's like that. As a matter of fact, we have brothers and sisters that watch us from the pen and from

my hind boss. Right? That's not everybody. And they are our brothers and sisters, aren't they? Amen. But check me out. You get people that have four life citizens and stuff like that. And that's tragic. But that's only earthly. There's an expiration date on that.

I don't care if it is 50, 60, 70 years. There is an expiration date on that. You will actually get out, get parole, or you will transition into sleep as a believer. But there's an expiration date on that. All right. Let's go to the scriptures. 2 Timothy 4th chapter 7th verse reads and I love this verse because it's my actually it's all of the elders it's our definition of success but I want to point out something very important he says this is Paul speaking I have fought the good fight I have finished the race I have kept the faith

henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness there's a crown for us beloved which the Lord, I'm landing here, the righteous judge will award to me on that day. And not only to me, but also to all who have loved his appearing. Stop. If you have any sense, you show honor to the earthly judge. He's talking about the righteous judge with a sentence that will last. By the way, how do you refer to a judge? if you feed upon that truth that regardless of what my emotions are doing this day, this week, this month, this year, there is a date for me in court.

And if I am with them, I will be accepted and my debt, my sentence has already been paid. But if I am not with him, you will be sentenced to eternal separation from him into the lake of fire forever. See, you don't need to get hyped up. You just need to let the weight of the scripture sit on your soul. And we just did 30, 40 minutes of hype. I'm with it. But there's something about just eating the meat of the word of God. And getting the true revelation of the true and righteous judge.

And what he did so you'll never have to be away from him again. And he paid a debt that you could not pay. And if you let that sit on your soul enough, the gravity of that, the weight of that. I believe that the natural byproduct of that is, you don't need to consult your emotions about that on a day-to-day basis. I side of, just thank God that I don't have to go to hell. You made a way of escape.

I may have got some bill of problems, relationship problems, whatever, but I'll always be with him. Beloved, a lot of stuff that's trouble in our soul. All of it has an expiration date. Financial problems, expiration day. right even marriage stay together honor the covenant when we go to heaven there's no marriage it's expression date mixed reviews on how you feel about it but expiration date no expiration date on the eternal god and the eternal sentence if you let that sit on your soul I believe you'll have honor

all right last one beloved I believe one of the reasons we don't have a lot of honor a culture of honor in the West is because we say a word, but I don't think we really know what it means. And the word is majesty. Majesty. If I call five people right now and I didn't let you all hear the different explanation, I gave you to Mike, I said, explain majesty. Most of us would be nervous. We don't really know what it means. We say mighty, majestic, matchless name of Jesus, but we really don't know what it means.

All right? Let's dig into it a little bit. majesty, the definition. The term majesty in the biblical context refers to the greatness, splendor, and sovereign power of God. It is often used to describe the divine attributes and the awe-inspiring presence of God. The concept of majesty is closely associated with God's kingship, authority, and glory. And even with that explanation, some of y'all, It's not really landing for me.

I'm going to do what I think is going to help, right? So my wife, she's been talking about it and I'm not really excited about it, maybe because of this right here. She wants to go on a cruise. Anybody been on a cruise? All right? You're happy, all right? Cruise ship, have fun, right?

Let me tell them I'm very excited about it, right? One of the reason I don't think I'm excited about it is this. They say when you, at night, you go out there, you know where I'm going. You go out there and you look. And it's pitch black. And there is no land. No land. No sides.

And it's quiet. And that could be scary. As a matter of fact, I was looking up something. I was doing some research where there was a story where a great white shark, they actually believe and there's different, they actually don't know what happened. But like the great white shark, it's like the apex. in the ocean. Right?

Like, it is like the top of the food chain in the ocean. And it's different, you know, I guess, different stories of what happened, but they had put a tracker on one. And then all of a sudden it was going at a certain time. It was going at a certain depth. And then I want to say it actually went down. And then the temperature changed on the tracker. And they didn't see that white shark anymore.

Right. And it's different, you know, opinions on what happened. Some believe it was eating. Somebody said it was reading. Maybe it's got in a fight and maybe the tracker fell off, right? Do you know what the thing is? You don't know. With all of the different...

You don't. You have no idea. You're guessing. I know you're guessing. With all the man's money, all the research, they still don't know all of what is down in the bottom of the ocean. The sunlight only reaches like a fraction of the ocean. Then it gets pitch black.

Even when they send stuff down, if it is not made out of the right material, it'll get crushed by the pressure. And the deeper down it goes, the uglier the creatures get. And y'all, and my wife want me to go out there on a boat and sit out there. And what if something happened? Don't sound too fun, now do it. But you know who is not scared? You know who is not scared of the middle of the ocean? God, the omnipotent one, who established the earth upon the sea.

who speaks and the wind and waves, obey him. I got two things for you. Right. So most of y'all are drank water. Most of you have grabbed like a gallon of water. But water is an extremely heavy substance. Right? I used to hoop back in the day.

Like, it used to have like hoops. And like some of them used to like, you used to like put concrete in the bottom so it wouldn't move. Some of them you could just put water. What happened with the Red Sea? Split and it stayed. Actually, the most impressive thing about that is they walked over on dry land. There was a storm and Christ was asleep in the bottom of the boat because he is peace.

He didn't have to seek peace. He woke up, peace be still. He said, what manner of man is this? That even the wind and the waves obey him. He is majestic. He is not afraid of anything. The demons are afraid of him. If you let that rest on your soul, that there's nobody higher than him, this judge, there is no appeal.

And beside him, there is no other. If you let the righteous judge and the majestic one, if you just let those sit and just weigh on your soul, I believe it will increase honor in your life. And you don't need to be hyped to do it. And let me address the elephant in the room. because honor we believe when you have honor it'll it'll go out three ways again it'll go up with your leaders it'll go side in your marriage and your colleagues in the ministry it'll go down to your children employees or anybody under your authority but I know some of you some of you thought well what if they don't deserve honor I'm in the building I know somebody thought about it

well if they don't deserve it because some of you guys have actually been abused some of you guys don't have a real happy mother's day you don't you don't you don't reach out to your like that. Some of you guys don't think about your father and it's not it's not a good situation. You've been abandoned. Or even if they were there, they just weren't a great parent or bosses. They just, oh man, like, you're just saying they don't deserve honor. We'll give you what the scripture, what God is saying about that. Go to Romans 12, 17 through 19. This should be the believer's response out of honor to God. Romans 12 chapter 17 through 19. verse verse 17 reads as such it says repay no one evil for evil no one it says but give thought to do what is

honorable in the sight of some no no no no no no in the sight of all verse 18 if possible so far as it depends on you live peaceably with all you know what I love about it The Bible is very practical. Everybody don't want peace. You try to do peace with somebody, and they still got a problem with you. It gives you a caveat. It said, as much as it depends on you, you do your part. And then it calls you, Beloved.

Never avenge yourselves. I'll try to pay back, beloved. Don't do it. I know you're tempted. They may deserve it, but that's not your calling. I'm not saying what they did was right. in many cases it was out and out sin and evil but don't try to pay them back that actually weighs on your soul when you try to do evil you absorb that soul that evil to even give it out now your soul is tainted

by evil and that's not your portion your father has another way of dealing with it he said vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord. Never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written. Vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord. He's not telling you to go be dishonorable. He's saying, give it to me. When you get done wrong, when you get done wrong in any relationship, I don't care if it's here. Church hurt, marital hurt, family hurt, economic hurt, business hurt, you know, we should find ourselves on our knees. The God who sees all and knows all says, give it to me. Much like anxiety, you weren't built to handle that anyway.

And our faith is in him to just keep moving, and the one that sees all and knows all will handle it in his timing, in the way that he chooses to. And I know there ain't a whole lot of claps in this, but this will save you. This will save you many sleepless nights. It can save you hypertension, cortisol going all through your body. It can save you money. It will save you headaches. It will save you stress.

It will save you if we just honor God through His word. Now, did I say it was supposed to be easy? Absolutely. But with the Spirit of God and grace, it's possible. Even if you've got to keep praying and lay it down. You keep praying and you lay it down. You don't pick it up and take it into your own bosom. you'll get burned.

The honorable life is the life of the believer. Honor is a Christian ethic and virtue that belongs in every believer's life in some capacity. Now, you should be walking in more honor 10 years with the Lord than 10 months. So don't stand up and start comparing. No. You go pray. And you say, God, help me. see the honor that you have given me and help me pour that out into other people.

All right. And I'm going to close, beloved, because I believe in Revelations 5, 11, 14, it's a vision of honor. The metatheme of honor goes from Genesis to Revelation. And I think in this vision, this is a picture of it. Verse 11, and I'm closing. This is a vision of John. He says, then I looked and I heard around the throne. and the living creatures and the elders, the voice of many angels,

numbering myriads and myriads and thousands of thousands, saying with a loud voice, worthy is the lamb who was slain to receive power and wealth and wisdom and might and honor. And glory and blessing. Verse 13, and I heard every creature in heaven, and on earth and under the earth and look where it says and in the sea and all that is in them everywhere saying to him who sits on the throne and to the lamb be blessing and honor and glory

and might forever and ever and the four living creatures said amen and the elders fell down and worship. Honor is our end. By your head, let me pray for us. Holy Father, God, I thank you for what you've done today. What you've poured out in worship and word. Help us develop by your spirit and your grace and your power. Develop hand in hand with you.

Authentic weight. True honor. from you and to be distributed among everybody that we actually come in contact with God. Help us do it by the power of your Holy Spirit, God. Help us fight back against a culture in the West that hates honor. Help us shine our light by walking in honor and not picking up vengeance to handle things ourselves. Help us fight our flesh, God, because it's hard.

Help us trust you with the vengeance instead of doing it ourselves. God, I pray that the God, I pray that the flesh, God, revelation of the righteous judge and the majestic one would sit on us. God, helping to sit on us as we leave this experience, as we jump in the car, as we go home, as we wake up tomorrow, as we go about our day, God, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, God help us not forget that there is an eternal sentence given by the righteous judge. And the majestic one is full of splendor and might. And for that, we should give you honor. As my pastor often says, and for everything else, I'm not smart enough to pray.

God, I pray that you would move for your glory and the love of your children, which is steadfast. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen. I love you guys. God bless you.