Aware & Aggravated - 12. Red Flags

Episode Date: January 23, 2022

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Hi friends, this episode is gonna be all about red flags and yes, I have enough fucking red flags to make an entire episode on them. Now these are gonna be random things that I think are red flags. If you don't agree, you're wrong, but you're allowed to be wrong. That's fine. If you do or are any of these things, I don't mean any offense to you. I just probably wouldn't date you. And half of these things are just things that piss me off. Okay? So I have sections for this. I have things people post and do on social media. I have a whole list of tattoos and then I have shit about a vehicle and someone's car. And then I have a whole just list of random ass shit too. And then I have some deep ones. There are gonna be some that are like funny and you're gonna kind of be like, huh?

Like little quirky shit. Then there's gonna be a lot of deep ones. We're gonna get into all of it. Like I have sub categories for this shit because I am so serious. So something I've learned about red flags is there are little things you can look for and spot that reveals how someone's brain works.

So these little things, they might just seem like little weird fucking things that I'm pointing out, but it shows that their judgment is flawed. If they think these things are acceptable, their judgment is fucked and for them to rationalize it in their brain for this to be okay, something's wrong. That's a red flag in itself. These are just things to help you notice. Someone's brain don't fucking work properly. Their judgment is bad.

And also there's some things that scream, no self-awareness. And that is a motherfucking you to avoid. So let's just get right into this shit. And I do wanna start with the category of social media. So the first thing I wanna talk about is people's bios. I don't care if it's Instagram, TikTok, whatever their bio is. If they have their Snapchat username in their bio, they're a fucking whore. Don't fuck with them. They like fucking attention. They like sending little nudie duties on fucking Snapchat. They got Snapchat for attention. No, don't get involved

with this person. I don't care. I don't y'all can get mad at me about that one I don't give a fuck okay? The second thing that goes along with that is their cash app if they have their cash app or their Venmo and any of their bios Get the fuck away from them. Don't interact. Okay, I need to cool it. I'm not gonna be so harsh with my delivery of this shit You know what? Yes, I am. Okay, it's my podcast. I can say what I want. If they have their mental disorder in their bio, no, that screams that they're gonna use it as an excuse.

We, I made a whole episode on this shit. But if someone has their mental disorder in their bio, why the fuck are you bragging about that? Why the fuck are you posting about that? There's a difference between sharing your experiences and what you're going through to help others relate versus using it as a fucking personality trait. And that's what they're doing. I kind of borderline want to say if someone has the rainbow flag in their bio, it's a red flag, but it's not. That's just my personal thing. Like, you'll never catch me with a rainbow flag in my

bio because I don't like to be associated with the gay community I'm gay, but these motherfuckers are embarrassing. They're literally embarrassing. I don't want to be associated So the rainbow flag is fine because I know that we all want to find each other and all the gays Like it's just a good way for people to like find each other. I get it But that's teeterine for me. That's like on the fucking fence for me So something else in their bio If they have ten fucking job titles model singer songwriter actor entrepreneur stock investor broke her like Bitch, why do you have so much fucking shit realtor that that one? Everyone's fucking realtor

If they have like 25 things that they do, that's a red flag. Why the fuck are you doing so many things, one, and two, what are you trying to gain by letting everyone know that you do all these things? Like, is it feeding your sense of being important or what? Because like, that's just, no, I'm not going to be mean, I'm just going to say what these are. A big red flag, if they post anything about their phone being dry if they use that terminology at all Whether they post about it or they talk about it and someone fucking posts about their phone being dry Cut them off block them get rid of them another one if they lip sync But it's wrong like if if it's obvious they're singing the wrong fucking word bro

Like I said this exposes someone's judgment. They fucking had to rewatch that video before they posted it. That's how stories work. You have to rewatch the video. And if someone doesn't rewatch the video, that's a red flag. So if someone can just record something and post it, they have too much trust in theirself. Okay? No, could never be me. But for someone delipsing the wrong fucking words and then post it anyway, babe, what? Just redo it. Redo it and get the words right,

cause you look like a fucking buffoon. Another type of story that's a red flag is a black screen. Someone that posts a black screen or a blank screen with something along the lines of like, they're upset or they're mad or whatever. All that is is for fucking attention. They want people to swipe up and ask what's wrong or ask what happened. I don't like those type people and since I'm on that, the black screen for attention, I'm gonna go ahead and

talk about the people that ask for prayers. So they'll make a fucking post asking for prayers and not say why. Bitch, You are just asking for attention All you want is for people to be up your ass asking why what happened? What's wrong? Oh my god big bitch No, I don't like that. You know asking for prayers itself is a red flag Asking for prayers are not saying why is another red flag? So let's just stack these motherfuckers on top of each other. Your flagpole is full. Okay, next one, if they post pictures of money, red flag, what the fuck is that?

Are we 13? Why are you posting pictures of money? That's embarrassing. And the people that are usually posting pictures of money, it's not that much, it's like a grand, maybe two, three, three, like bitch, if it's not a million dollars cash Don't post shit and even if there is a million dollars cash Don't post that because someone like me now knows the come rob you bitch like don't don't don't fucking play like that

Don't post money do not do that It's tacky and what goes hand in hand with that is posting the picture of the bill at a restaurant Nobody gives a fuck how much your dinner was, bitch. Just pay the bill and tip good, okay? Because you didn't post the tip. I saw you left that out. It's cheap ass. So another red flag, if they only have pictures of their self-posted, does self-explanatory. And also, if they're overly perfect, like if they look like a fucking kind doll or a Barbie doll, like if they're overly perfect, something's off.

And my only problem with looking too perfect is you're fucking stiff. Like to hang out with one of these people that looks so fucking perfect, they're stiff, they're not as confident as they seem. There's just a lot of things to unpack. That's the term. There's a lot of things you can unpack with each of these red flags and I'm not going to fucking do all of it If you don't get it from me just saying it you don't get it, okay, so just

Ignore it. I don't give a fuck the girls that get it get it don't don't don't if you haven't seen that TikTok You don't get the reference, but just whatever the people that get it get it If they post too much of their body and before y'all attack me for body shaming, I'm not talking about body shaming. If someone wants to go be a whore, go be a whore. There needs to be people that make porn because I need something to fucking beat off to. Okay, like, I'm not mad at y'all for posting yourself naked and shirtless and all this and that. Like, do what the fuck you want. I don't care. But for someone like me, it's a

red flag. Why are you showing your body so much? If you're just a normal civilian, and you not and an entertainer, why the fuck are you doing that? Why are you showing off all the goods? Like if I'm gonna look at dating you and you have everything posted online, if you have a picture you're fucking ass online as a guy, I don't wanna fuck with you. Why are you showing everybody your ass?

Like that's for me. If I'm dating you, I don't want nobody else seeing what I'm dating. Bitch, no. I want you wrap the fuck up like a Muslim wife, bitch. I want you wrapped up. I don't want nobody seeing nothing just your eyes. Like I'm so protective and territorial. Like if someone is showing their body all the time,

why is that the focal point of what you're posting? That's the thing. If it's the focal point of what they post is that they look good shirtless or they look good, almost naked. There's the thing. If it's the focal point of what they post is that they look good shirtless or they look good Almost naked There's a lot of attention seeking there and I don't fuck with that. So if they post some shirtless shit some cutie shit Some here and there that's fine But if it's the focal point of their entire personality online, ah red flag

Okay, this one's kind of funny if they're always doing shit and they never post to their whiff. So if they're always going out to nice dinners or they're always traveling somewhere and they're not posting to their whiff, you know what the fuck is going on. Someone has a sugar daddy. Or they're with someone that's fucking gross. So that's just not really a red flag, but that's just one of those signals to like dive deeper. Get curious, bitch, start asking.

Ask questions, because like, don't put puzzle pieces out, because I will connect them. And sometimes I put them in the wrong spots, but it makes sense and it's funny. Okay, if they have too much designer shit, like high-end designer stuff, if that's the focal point of most of their outfits and their posts, steer clear,

because that's a very asleep individual. I used to be one. I used to fucking think that that was what made you important and that's what was cool. But now I think it's embarrassing. Like if someone is trying too hard to show off that they have something designer, it's gross. I tend to keep talking about Burkins,

but everybody knows what a goddamn Burkin is. When a girl has a Burkin and she holds it the opposite way. Like, you know how when you see it from the front and it's got the little class things and it's got the whole, you know what it fucking looks like and it hangs open, you know what I mean? When bitches are so rich,

they're not posing for the picture to make sure that you can see their bags. Like when girls have Chanel bags and they're not trying to show it off, like if you can just tell what it is, but the bitches that hold the Birkin backwards, like they'll hold the front towards them, you just see the back or the side of the bag. That is the biggest fuck you and I love it.

That is the funniest shit to me and that is the most green flag because they're not trying to pose their Birkin for social media. Green flag, green flags for you. Okay, the next one, if they always post every single one of their thoughts. Like, if they are constantly on fucking Twitter, tweet in every thought that they have, any thought they think if they're posting it, I don't care if it's on Twitter or their story or whatever. Shut up, shut the fuck up.

Like, it's clear you're neglected. Like no one cares what you're thinking. Like every thought does not need to be posted and half of them are embarrassing. So that's just a red flag in itself. Unpack that on your own. Next one. If someone is constantly taking breaks from social media and I'm not talking the person that takes a break

and actually takes a break, I'm talking the bitch that posts, I'm taking a break from social media and posts the next day. Like, bitch, that was a quick break. You're back very fast. But you know what I mean? Like the people that are constantly, I'm taking a break and so toxic. Wait. And they're back on it like a day or two later or that night,

which is funny. I just want to give a heads up to people that do that. No one gives a fuck if you're taking a break from social media. If you don't post for a week, people probably aren't going to notice. Like no one is watching you that fucking hard, and there's so many other people to be entertained by that people are probably not gonna notice if you take a break, you don't need to announce it. So I feel like that's a ploy for attention, and that's why I think it's a red flag,

is when they're constantly saying I'm taking a break from social media, and then they're right back on it. Like bitch, if you're gonna say you're gone for a week, be gone for a week and fuck off. Like don't don't like no not keeping their word motherfucker so keep it okay this one is a very personal one to me and I might I'm gonna offend every fucking gay person that listens to this but this is just for me if I'm interested in a guy, and I follow him, and I see that he follows a lot of other gay guys, I'm out, I'm disgusted, I'm over it, I'm done.

My feelings are hurt. Why the fuck do you follow that many people that aren't me? I don't like that. Like that's just messy as fuck to me, but I get, that's a thing in the community, like all gay's just follow each other. I don't like that. I don't fucking like it. The stereotypical gays that post, likeless every fucking picture and they're just the typical

like circuit gays. I don't like that shit. I don't want to be near it. If you follow too many boys red flag, that's for me though. So if you're a girl and you like guys and he follows too many bitches, that's a red flag. Why you follow so many people that's not me. Like I'm upset about that. Like I don't fucking like this is why I'm single y'all because I understand it doesn't make logical sense, but I can't help it. Like I don't give a fuck. Like as soon as you start to like me, you should be unfollowing every other single person. That's not me. Like every other attractive boy needs to be gone. You don't need, why would you want to be looking at him?

You have me now. You have me to be interested. Oh, this next one's gonna piss you off. People that post happy Father's Day, happy Mother's Day, so they're fucking parents and write this long-ass paragraph and their parents don't even have social media. Like, bitch, you just made this whole Instagram post

for the person that's never gonna see it. How about you go spend the fucking day with your parent? How about you go talk to them in their face and go tell them this personally, instead of making a post, they're not gonna fucking see. And honestly, if you're posting a father's day picture and your dad is ugly, you just wasted my time. Fuck you.

At least give me something to look at when I scroll past your long fucking paragraph. Ooh, one I just thought of off the cuff. If someone has someone's death date in their bio, like RIP, whoever, in their bio, like girl, why the fuck do you need that there? Why do you need that there? Like let's think this through. I get your morning. I get your upset, but like I need that there. Like, let's think this through. I get your morning, I get your upset. But like, I guess I'm just too private about my life. I don't want people to know too much about me. And I'm like, very private. So people that post too fucking much, I'm like, no, me with my whole ass podcast. But people with a death date shit, like, why you got that up there? Like, they're, they're not like like it's okay, you don't have to do that.

They know that you miss them. Okay, my final one for social media is someone that sends too many fucking DMs. If I send someone a DM and they do not respond to it, I'm not sending them another one. Okay, if we've had conversation and you're not, like I'm not gonna double message you fuck you and also If I'm messaging someone I Don't know and have not talked to before like if I'm trying to slide in someone's DMs Which is very rare it is a big thing for me So if I slide in someone's DMs and like 24 hours has gone by and they haven't even seen it like I'm still in their

Requested I unsend it. Fuck you, you're not getting that up right on me. You're not gonna, I know you saw it, bitch, cause everybody goes through the requested. I know you saw it. You're not gonna fucking ignore me and I'm not gonna look like no thirsty fuck in your DMs that, no, you don't get to have me

sitting in your DM requests. Sorry, fuck you, it's not happening. But that's how important it is to me. If I slide in someone's DMs, I'm watching for them to reply. So if someone is sending like multiple DMs and they're not unsending their DM that they get ignored by,

they're sending two fucking minutes to keep up with red flag. I hope all that made sense because I just went five different directions, but if you get it, you get it. Oh, one more I need to add really quick about the phone. If someone has a lot of unopened text messages, ooh, I just, I need to calm myself down because this one makes me so fucking mad.

First thing I have to say, it doesn't give you anxious, it doesn't make you anxiety. I've seen all the unopened messages. You like, it doesn't fuck with you. You see the red badge with all the numbers, but I'm talking to people that have like over a hundred, like babe, what the fuck is going on? And some people like to use the excuse, oh it's just a group chat. Mother fucker open it. Be active in the group chat. Why are you in a group chat that you're not active in? You know, Zee bitch, you just reading everybody's messages?

Clearly not, you're just letting it stack up on your phone But I have two like bones to pick with this shit people that have a bunch of unopened texts Because they think it looks cool to have a lot of unopened texts like people are trying to get at them bitch You're nobody, okay? You're fucking rude and nobody actually wants to talk to you because all you do is leave people on delivered So that you can have an extra number on your messages. I don't fuck with that shit. That is childish, and that's fucking ugly

when you look at your phone, and you have the little badge right there. I don't like that. I open my messages when I fucking get them. If I'm on my phone, I'll respond. If I don't respond, it's because I'm not on my phone. I don't care about looking anxious to respond. Like, bitch, if I wanna talk to you,

I'm gonna talk to you. So if I'm on my phone, I'll reply. I don't play the whole waiting game when it comes to messaging Sometimes, okay, I'll be honest Like sometimes I'll do it But most of the time I'm just straight to fuck up like I'll text you if I want to text you And if I'm on my phone I'm responding, but these people with all these unopened texts, you got some kind of fucking shit misfire in your brain for you to think that's okay. It's annoying. I don't like you if you do that.

That's a red flag for friendships and for dating. Don't fuck with nobody. That has like hundreds of unopened texts. They're messy, they're unorganized. They don't care who they're ignoring. They're inconsiderate. They're gonna leave you undelivered. Like, that shit pisses me the fuck off. You leave me. They're gonna leave you undelivered like that shit pisses me the fuck off

You leave me on red before you leave me undelivered you fucking rat If you have your fucking red receipts on you leave me on red. I Don't play with me, which are do all right. You're gonna pretend I didn't see you mess it. Well bitch now I blocked you So did you see that huh? Oh? I do have one more for social media, but it slides into my next topic. So like a vehicle. If someone has too many posts with their car or they post like leaned up, posing with their car, what the fuck are you doing?

Like why? Like post a picture of your car and be done with it. But why are you like posing up against your fucking car and every other picture? That's weird. To me. To me. That's weird. To me, to me, that's weird. Another red flag when it comes to cars. If they have a colorful car, any kind of bright-ass colored car,

a red flag, and I'm not talking about a cheap beat-up car. That's all someone can afford. I get it. I'm talking about a nice car. If you have a normal day to day car and it's a bright-ass color, what the fuck are you doing? And also, if someone has a super nice car, like a Lamborghini Rolls-Royce, whatever,

if it is some bright-ass color, that's a red flag. So the fact that you have a really nice car, people are already gonna be looking. I love a classy-ass black car. I like everything black. I only like black cars. Honestly, I wanna say if you have any other color car than black as a red flag, but that's too hard to do,

that's gonna offend too many people. But I understand like a white black or a gray. I get it, I fucking get it. Maybe like a dark, dark green, a dark, dark blue, anything that's not like, look at me, look at me. So my point with the bougie cars, if you got a really nice fucking car and like people are already gonna look, so for you to go paint it like bright fucking orange or yellow or bright pink,

why are you like begging for attention that hard? Like look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me look look look look look look I'm important look look everybody look I have a nice car look like that's the vibe Your car gives off when you have a bright ass color on a really nice car. That's pick me. That's pick me as Fuck like quit it fucking stop

Honestly in my opinion when you have a really really nice car you have two color options black or matte black That's it everything else is too try hard All our options, black or matte black, that's it. Everything else is too try hard. Oh my God, the next one just made me like, sees a little, if they have their Instagram or social media at, like on their car somewhere, like typically it's on a back windshield. Like there's these fucking faggots in my town

that they're straight, but I call straight men that do stupid ass shit faggets. I call everybody a fagget. That's just a funny word to me. Like I don't use it to like call a gay dude gay. Like I mean I do but like I use faggets for everybody. These straight fucking guys like what their big lifted trucks have their like Instagram at on the back of their window like the back windshield.

What are you doing bitch? Like windshield. What are you doing, bitch? Like what the fuck are you doing? I guess that just goes back to my whole like privacy thing. When I'm on the road, my car is all black. There is no like defining characteristics about my car. It's a blacked out car. I don't like people to know who I am. I don't like people to know like that's me.

You know, I don't like a target on my back, but that's me and my own paranoia. But these motherfuckers post in their app on their car, Red Flag. Stay away from them. Okay, my last one about cars is if someone wears the merch for their car, like a Mercedes t-shirt or a Mercedes hat, or like a Ferrari shirt and a Ferrari hat, babe. Just drive the fucking car. You don't need to wear the clothes too.

Why? That's just so fucking stupid and tacky to me. Next one before I get mad. Let's move on to tattoos. Okay. These are all of my tattoo red flags. Most of them are self-explanatory, but I will go into them.

My first three, they are the absolute fuck knows. It's like a Sagittarius. That's the one sign I will take zero chances with. I don't give a fuck. Like astrology is fun. And Sagittarius is just the one sign. That is my absolute no. I don't give a fuck. Sorry. Like I'm talking about dating. Like friends, fine. Keep them under glass. So my first three tattoos are kind of like that. So I don't give a fuck, sorry. Like I'm talking about dating, like friends, fine. Keep them under glass. So my first three tattoos are kind of like that. So I don't care, there could be like an exception to it. But these first three are my absolute fucknose.

Then the rest are just like, eh, red flag, watch out. Like fucking look deeper into that, you know? So the first three, if they have a tree or forest tattoo and you know what I'm talking about, typically it's on the forearm, like that fucking twilight looking dark, just forest, like it's just trees and it's just black ink. What the fuck are you doing?

That reveals so much about this person, it's self-explanatory, next. If they have any type of clock or timepiece on them, self-explanatory. If they have any sort of compass on them, run. Those three tattoos, if they have any of those, run the fuck away. And if you don't get it, you don't get it.

You're gonna have to go interact with a few of them to understand why I'm saying this. Okay, my other tattoo red flags are praying hands, self-explanatory, across or a rosary. And those kind of tie into the God is greater than me or the he is greater than I tattoo, like God is greater than the highs and lows and shit. If they got anything like that, there's trauma there.

Next, if they have a thigh tattoo and I'm talking the trendy ones from TikTok, like the fucking, just right across the thigh, okay? I'm not talking about like a giant picture that's like their whole quad. I'm talking just a little thigh tattoo that sticks out of these boys little like five inch seam shorts. Like, you get what I mean, the TikTok boys.

Another one from the TikTok trends is a snake or a butterfly. Self explanatory. If they have their birthday or their birth here, tattooed on them, the judgment is flawed. Don't hug them. That's just a weird one to me. Like bitch, you wanted a tattoo that value. Doesn't have nothing to get.

So you got your own birthday. What the hell? Okay, if they have the word loyalty, tattooed on them or the word respect. Oh my God, that kind of goes up there that might be with the three, like the absolute fuck knows. That one might be in there. No, it's okay.

Everyone has a chance except those first three I talked about that one. We'll see. Okay, maybe they did the time and they got it in prison, who knows whatever. The next one, antlers or any kind of deer tattooed on them. And I'm talking about the hicks, the red necks that get that stupid ass shit or like a fishing hook. What? I'm not gonna go further, I'm not gonna bully them because that's too easy. I'm gonna just go to the next one. Okay, if they have some kind of designer brand tattooed on them like Gucci or Versace or fucking Louis Vuitton, what are you doing? What the fuck are you doing? I just keep hearing a Zellia banks in my head.

What the fuck are you doing? Like, that's all I have to say about that one. Like a designer logo or a name, babe. Babe, no, no, bye. Okay, now moving on to my random list of red flags. So these are in no fucking order, no rhyme or reason, just random shit to look out for. If someone uses the phrase or terms, alpha and beta, seriously. Like if they genuinely use those two herms in a serious manner, no, absolutely not. If someone

is friends with all of their exes, I understand being friends with like one ex. Okay, if you're going to date me, you're not going to be in contact with any of your fucking exes. Sorry about it. If you don't like it, leave. Friends with all of their exes is kind of a red flag. You got a problem with like cutting people off and commitment because you can't commit

to leave them behind and in the past. So that's just a red flag for me. And one that ties in with that is someone that has a pet with an ex and still wants to see it. Like if they have split custody of like a fucking pet, that's weird. That's what can stoop it. No, that's a red flag. It's self-explanatory, why that is exposing someone's judgment

as fucked. And speaking of the pet thing, if someone is to and love with their pet, like I, some people are so obsessed with their dog, like they treat it like a human. And I'm like, I love animals, don't get me wrong. I will never mistreat an animal. I'm always for like being sweet to them. I an animal but some people take it too far like some

people are so obsessed with their dogs that like it doesn't make sense to me and that's a red flag like stop it that's fucking weird okay how they treat weight staff or any type of customer service personnel. If they talk down to anyone that is in customer service, they're a fucking piece of shit. If they try to like, if they treat them with anything less than basic consideration and like respect, they can eat a fucking dick and die. Okay, that's my opinion across the board. If a wait staff is rude to me, bitch, I'm gonna be rude back. But if someone just out the gate is rude for no reason,

just because someone works in customer service, that's the worst type of person there is, to be honest. And what ties in with that is tipping. If they tip like shit, don't fuck with them. And I will head back to like the whole loving the animals too much, because I do have one about how people treat animals. You need to watch the way that people treat animals and pets because if something is fully

dependent on them and they act annoyed by it, that's a red flag. If they act annoyed by their pet, if they act like their pet is an inconvenience, knowing that it is fully dependent on them and they signed up for that when they fucking got it, that's how they will be to kids. So if you're thinking about having kids with someone, look at how they treat their pets. Also, if someone is gonna like mistreat or neglect a pet that is fully dependent on them,

that's a red flag, they're very disconnected. If something can't meet a need for itself, you have to take care of it. Like yeah, you can like mope and wine and be up to like be annoyed by it sometimes But if that's like a consistent trend or they're annoyed that the animal has needs They're gonna act the same way with you Next one bad breath. If someone has bad breath, that's not good Like it's not good because it's bad breath. Sure. But the fact that you can't taste it or smell it yourself, like you

just aren't aware that your breath could potentially stink. I chew gum nonstop. Like, I always have a piece of fucking gum in my mouth or I have a pack nearby. That's just how I am. I'm very conscious about my breath. And if someone is not, and like, if someone has bad fucking breath and they're just gonna kiss you, like before I kiss anyone ever, I make sure my breath is good. Like I'll eat a piece of gum,

or I'll take a shot of rumple. Like there's ways to make sure your breath is good, even if you don't have gum or like mint, like bitch, or don't kiss them, or don't get in their face and talk close to them. Back the fuck up. Like someone that's just not aware that their breath could be a problem, that's a red flag.

Okay, remember when I talked about people that have tons of jobs in their Instagram bios? So this isn't about Instagram or like social media. This is just about real life. If they have a lot of LLCs and they claim to have opened a lot of businessess and they claim to have opened a lot of businesses and they have all this shit that they do, bitch, why do you have so many LLCs?

Why do you have so many things opened up? You don't own a business just because you have a LLC. Like you did some paperwork. There's no actual business going on. You don't have a place to work. You know what I mean? I mean, technically on paper, it's like a business. It's a registered business, I get it.

But if you have a bunch and they just have them and they like brag about them, bitch, you're not actually like working or doing anything with these things, you're just saying you're an entrepreneur and have all these businesses. They're not operating, they're not functioning. You're filing zero on your tax returns, bitch. What are you doing?

You don't get to brag about that. That's embarrassing. Red flag. So the next one, if someone is a recovering addict and them being sober is their entire personality. That's a red fucking flag. That's the most annoying fucking shit to be around. Because I have friends that are addicts and are dealing with sobriety and all that. And they don't make it their whole personality. If you want an example of this, Jersey Shore, Mike the situation,

how when he got sober, it turned into his entire personality. Everything about him was about being sober, like it's fucking exhausting, it's annoying, shut up. Go find something else to have be interesting about you because I swear that's not the serve you think it is. It's not as exciting and like riveting to people as you think it is.

It might be to you, but everybody's going, and I'm not shaming addicts. I'm not shaming people that are sober. I'm shaming the people that make it their entire personality trait. If you didn't get that, you didn't get it. All right, whatever. Speaking of Jersey, sure.

If someone has not seen Jersey show that's a red flag.. All right, whatever. Speaking to Jersey Shore, if someone has not seen Jersey Shore, that's a red flag. Sorry, that raised me. That show raised me. And if you haven't seen Jersey Shore, that's just a certain element of your personality that's not developed. You're not gonna get the jokes

when I go running around the club. And I'm like, where's the beach? Like out of fucking nowhere and we're nowhere near a beach. I don't want you being like, huh? I want you yelling. I'm a good person. Get off. Get the fuck off.

Like when Snooki got arrested, and she's yelling at the cops, I want you to yell a quote at me back. Like I did ask when I'm not with my friends, who's your fat friend? Like we yell at each other. This Jersey short quotes. People think we're fighting all the time

because when I yell at my girlfriend, who's your fat friend? And the club?, people don't fucking get it. And then show you all back at me. You don't even look at Italian, you fuck. Like, we just Jersey shore back and forth and you just do quotes back and it's so fun. And if you don't have that, like, I'm sorry, you missed it now. If you weren't raised by Jersey Shore, red flag. If whiskey is someone's drink of choice, self-explanatory. If someone cannot take a pill, like swallow a pill, your past 13 years old and you can't take a pill, some character development has been lacked there. Okay. Don't trust that motherfucker. Melamin has been lacked there.

Don't trust that motherfucker baby talk Self-explanatory Self fucking explanatory if you are an adult and you baby talk to other grown-ass people go to hell Go to fucking hell go to the middle of hell Okay, this one's kind of personal, but it makes sense if someone doesn't use what wipes when they shit I do I have it never not use wet wipes. Like if I ever out somewhere and I have to use toilet paper, I'm like sad about it.

That's fucking disgusting. Like use wet wipes, clean your fucking ass. This boy gave me an analogy a long time ago and I've never forgot it. He was like, if you get shit on your arm, like on your skin, you're not just gonna grab some toilet paper, like paper, and wipe it off, and be like, oh, that's good, I just wiped it off, it's fine.

No, like you're gonna wanna wash it, you're gonna wanna like clean it the fuck off. So it's the same thing with your asshole, like it's still skin back there, don't just throw a piece of paper on it, and think that's fine, like, a wet wipe is as close as you can get to like washing your ass, So use a fucking wet wipe.

That's weird. Okay, next red flag. If they do some sort of substance every single day, like they smoke pot every day multiple times a day, they do hard drugs every, that's duh. Like fucking duh for the hard drug. But if they're doing some kind of substance every single fucking day, whether it's their drinking today, they're smoking tomorrow,

they're doing coke the next day, it's like if you're constantly doing something, that's a red flag for me. Like you have no day when you just have nothing in you, nothing altering your mood in your mind. That's, that's weird. That's a red flag to me. You can't sit with yourself.

You can't just be. Okay, next red flag is near and dear to my heart if someone is so happy Like they get in a car accident and they look at it as an opportunity to sue someone and get money If you're not actually hurt don't fucking sue nobody that's some pussy shit and I hate that Also goes in line with this a cop cop collar. If a motherfucker's first reaction for everything is to call the cops, don't come near me. Don't fucking be near me your week. I don't fuck with that shit.

Don't I know cop collar? Okay, self explanatory. So the next red flag kinda goes with that if they're against violence or they're scared of guns. Like if you don't understand that like violence, you need to be prepared for it. Like you can't just be like a powder puff your whole life and just be like, no, you should never hit anyone.

Oh, me going, like violence is bad. Like, bitch, I agree, violence is not good. I don't ever like to have to get violent when I do, but sometimes you just gotta hit somebody. And I don't want nobody around me that's gonna be like, chicken shit and scared when that happens. I need someone that's gonna stand the fuck up and have my back, you know

Like we're not gonna go out looking for fights, but if something happens I need to know that you got me I don't want to feel like I have some like puppy next to me I have to defend in the middle of a fight because you can't defend yourself like bitch You need to be right up there with me. We need to be like in this together I don't need to feel like I have a toddler next to me. I need to protect like be grown. Oh, next one. Someone that does not stand behind what they say. Someone that backtracks when they say something. If you're going to be fucking bold and talk some shit or say something, stand behind it. Own it. If you're going to say some shit, own it because when I get in your fucking face and I tell you

to repeat yourself and you start stuttering, I'm hitting you anyway because fuck you and that goes with talking about other people too like when I talk about people I'm very bold in what I say because I'm never wrong if I say something about somebody and you perceive it as talking shit I'm not talking shit. It's a fact Whatever I'm saying is true or I wouldn't be saying it because I'm not talking shit, it's a fact. Whatever I'm saying is true, or I wouldn't be saying it, because I'm the type person, I will stand behind what I say. I'm prepared at any moment for someone to confront me about what I'm saying.

So when I speak, I'm very like strategic with it, and I'm very sure of what I'm saying before I go run my mouth, because I'm gonna stand there and own it, and if I'm gonna have to stand there and own something, I'm not gonna stay no stupid shit. Like, you know those friends that like talk this and that, and then they get called out by the other friend. I like, no, I didn't say that. Bitch, yeah, I did. And what? I get me and like, yeah, I shouldn't have said it. I feel bad that I said it. But you look like a fucking buzz, though. You

look a clown. You okay? next one is natural long nails. So girls that have long nails and they're their natural nails. Like, you know how they have that like that yellow tint and they're like not clean and pretty, like they look fucking like little witchy finger, they're gross. Like if someone has naturally long nails, ew.

Acrylics are fine. I love along acrylic, but you know what I'm talking about? It just gives like librarian assistant teacher Vives and I'm talking unpainted if they're painted they're acceptable sometimes like as long as you can't tell their natural nails You're fine, but the bitches that have like the unpainted Uncapped just naturally long fingernails. What the fuck dude like you that's just gross long fingernails, what the fuck dude like you? That's just gross. I was talking about girls with that but especially guys, if a guy has long nails like naturally, ooo, make sure they're fucking clean

and kept or just get a acrylics, you fucking faggot, just do it right. If you're gonna do it, do it right. Don't do no nasty fucking raggedy shit. Oh and another thing about boys with the whole painted nails thing Guys that paint their fucking nails and I'm talking about the guys that are like masculine I'm not talking about the twinkie little Feminine acting guys like paint your nails. I'm gonna fuck look at your acrylics But these guys on TikTok that I've recently gotten to the trend of painting their nails like they look straight They present straight, but they got painted nails That's not personally for me. I don't like it

But the thing that pisses me off with it is when it's chipped like I said if you're gonna do it do it Don't look fucking nasty if you're gonna paint your nails make sure they look good I don't like that chipped nasty fucking nail polish like ew that's gross Dude you look dirty now you look fucking dirty You thought you were being cute and quirky, which you painted nails bro But now you look fucking dirty and dusty and no girl is gonna want you digging up in her fucking pussy with some chip nail polish No Take it off fix it and make it perfect or fucking take it off

One that kind of goes with this is if someone has no skincare routine. So if they don't have like a certain few steps that they do, even if they don't do it all the time, because I don't do my skincare routine all the time, I don't have the energy sometimes. I just fucking do like a face wash and I fucking throw my shirt on and I'm like enough. I don't tone every fucking night, I don't care. But if someone doesn't have like any sort of rhyme or reason to like a skincare routine, red flag.

If someone wears converse, there are really popular shoe just like vans. Vans are a red flag. No, if vans are butts. Converse, they're not really that much of a red flag, but the all black converse are all red flag. Do not trust some motherfucker that rocks some all black converse. The black and the white, alright, they're doable, but the all black ones, no bitch run for the hills.

Okay, if someone is greedy with food, I'm Albanian, so I'm kind of jaded with that, but if someone is greedy with food, with food. I'm Albanian so I'm kind of jaded with that but if someone is greedy with food, that's not an unattractive fucking shit. Like I want to feed everybody, I want to make sure everybody ate, I'm not a cheap ass when it comes to food. Like I like to just make sure everybody's good and if someone is greedy with food, that's fucking disgusting. I don't like that. If someone cannot hit a beat or if they have no rhythm, I know some people can't dance, but you understand how to like nod to a beat. You can like nod to a beat you're fine. I'm talking about the mother fuckers that can't even do that.

If someone has no rhythm in their body and they can't like bop to a beat even, that's just a red flag to me because it means like they're not in touch with their body. And if they're not in touch with their body, they don't know how to use it. And that goes into my next one. If someone can't kiss, that's a red flag. It means they can't fuck. Because if you can't kiss, you can't do nothing else.

That is the biggest red flag. If someone has no rhythm and or they can't kiss because there's so much disconnection with them in their own body, they don't know how to work it, they don't know how to move it. Like, if you can't kiss, you can't do because there's so much disconnection with them in their own body. They don't know how to work it. They don't know how to move it. Like if you can't kiss, you can't do nothing else. Sorry.

It's the truth. Okay. I know y'all are going to get real mad, but this is just my personal opinion. If someone has a septum piercing or a septum, like the nose ring that hangs like a bull, I'm sorry. We're just going to move past that one really quick because I know a lot of you guys have those, that's just a red flag for me personally because there's a lot to unpack there.

And I'm not gonna unpack it because I don't want everyone to unfollow me. That's one fight I'm not willing to have yet. Maybe in a couple of years when this trend dies out, but right now I'm gonna shut the fuck up on that. Okay, this next one, if you get it, you get it. If someone wears a Gucci belt, and I'm not talking any kind of Gucci belt,

I'm talking the one with the two big gold Gs, right at the front. The little ones are fine, I guess, but if they have the big G belt, if it's a guy, and he is tucking his shirt in, and the Gucci belt is the focal point of his fucking outfit, that's a red flag. That's a fucking loser. If they are trying so hard to show off their belt, that's weird. That's weird behavior. Okay, just wear your

belt and fucking shut up. It doesn't need to be your whole personality for the night. And honestly, that belt is so over with, it's so done with, like it's so far overdone past the point. It's not even a classic Gucci piece anymore. Like, it's just that overdone fucking one, you know, it's like the never full for Louis Vuitton. It's gross. When people see bitches with a never full Louis Vuitton bag, they're not like, oh my god, she has a Louis bag. It's like, oh, she has a fucking never full. Like it shouldn't even be considered a Louis bag anymore. And a Gucci belt with the two gold jeans should not she has a Louis bag. It's like, oh, she has a fucking never fall. Like, it shouldn't even be considered a Louis bag anymore. And a Gucci belt with the two gold jeans

should not be considered a Gucci belt. Like, it's just fucking gross. Like, that's my opinion. I'm sorry if you have one. I used to have one. I would wear it. And I'm only able to speak to you about this because I've been through it.

They're tacky. Okay, now there are three Jobs, I guess you could say that I'm gonna say our red flag if someone is a cop Red flag if someone is a nurse Red flag I know I'm a nurse, but still bitch red flag. I can give credit where credit's due It doesn't apply across the board. It's not fully everybody. There's always a good apple in the bad bunch I'm sure but for the most part, steer clear. Cops, nurses, and military. I said it, I sure as fuck did.

And not all military are bad. Not all cops are bad. Not all nurses are bad. But motherfucking red flag, look deeper with that shit because military boys, every single one of them is emotionally stunted. They're not aware. They're like worse than frat boys sometimes. They're married after meeting a bitch

for two fucking weeks. They always got a must-danger or a Camaro. Like no, just no, no, just look deeper, okay? Cause you might find the good one out of the bunch, but bitch, you gotta hunt for him. Because, uh-uh. Especially a gay in the military. If a gay guy isn't a m-no. Bitch! Absolutely not. I've had my fair share. I have not met a single one. That

is the slightest mentally bit sane. Bitch, no. Absolutely not. If you don't agree with that, that's fine. You can have your opinion in my class. Mine. Okay, so the last few red flags is probably like 10 left. They're going to be a lot deeper. So if his other shit was a little more superficial and on these are things that you're going to have to like read into, if you experience them, first one out the gate. If someone says I love you before three months, red flag. And if you don't understand why you got to go through it. So go have fun. You will end up in therapy. If someone instantly talks about sex, like that is their first approach at you is sexualizing you or commenting on something sexual. That's a red flag. But very, very big red flag. I've touched on this kind of in a lot of my episodes about value and shit.

And the one about dating apps just trust me. It's a red flag. I'll do a whole episode on hookup culture. That's going to come soon. And I'm really going to dive into that. But just know if someone's first fucking like interaction with you is sexual. Steer clear. Okay, if someone's first fucking, like, interaction with you is sexual steer clear. Okay, if someone doesn't have an iPhone,

I saved this for the serious section because that's kind of serious. Like, Android's, and anything that's not an iPhone, they just look messy. Like, I'm sorry. Like, you're allowed to have one if you like it. My best friend, Genevieve, has a fucking Android and she has since high school.

Like, I have fought with this bitch every year since we were 16 about getting an iPhone. She won't. She just likes her little Android Galaxy, whatever the hell she's got. I don't know the name of it, but I've always been an iPhone person. I like the way it looks. I think it's pretty, but I just don't like the look of Android phones and there's no iMessage, there's no red receipts, there's no delivered, it's just green fucking texts. I don't like the look of Android phones. And there's no iMessage, there's no red receipts, there's no delivered, it's just green fucking text.

I don't like it. And for someone to like that type of phone, their judgment is flawed. I'm sorry Genevieve, I love you, and for everybody else that has a fucking Android, it's the truth, and you know you can't fight it. You're mad because you can't fight it. And don't think I fucking hate you

just because you don't have an iPhone. It's fine. Have whatever phone you want. I just think it's a little bit of a red phone. And of course, I'm not making fun of people that can't afford an iPhone bitch. Don't try to make me a fucking dick. That's not what I'm talking about.

Cause honestly, I wish we could just go back to having razors. Like that was the best fucking phone, little flip phone, a little mind-your-fucking-business, snap that fucker shut when you're done and you're mad that you get to prove your little attitude, snap in your phone, shit. Ah, I wish we could go back to like flip phones.

I swear. Okay, next one. If someone is divorced before the age of 25, babe, whether they were the problem or they dated someone that was the problem, their judgment, if they got married before 25, their judgment and decision-making abilities and skills are undeveloped, not undeveloped, underdeveloped.

Okay, just a red flag. Just keep that in the back of your head. Leo on his podcast saying, if they're divorced by 25, Bing, Bing, Bing, red flag bitch. Okay, the fattest red flag of the mall is if they send you a picture of their self-crying. Under no fucking circumstance, should you ever send a picture or a video of yourself crying to somebody. Now I'm not talking about posting a little story of like you being sad. Okay, do it.

Don't be excessive with it. All right, don't be fucking annoying. But you should under no circumstances ever in your life send a picture or video of yourself crying to the person that made you cry. No, what? Big fat fuck no. If you do that, unfollow me. Unsubscribe for my podcast.

Do not ever, they don't associate. Don't associate yourself with me, bitch. Like none of my followers, actually I'm confident none of my followers do that because no. Like if you like me, your brain works a certain way and we're not sending pictures of ourselves crying to people, bitch. Like that is so embarrassing.

Do you not have any ego? Do you have no ego at all, bitch? For like, you're giving someone that much ammunition on you? No, no, red flag. That's the biggest red flag out of this entire podcast, I think. Okay, this next one is something that makes me cut people off

non-stop and like very quickly. It's sudden and consistency. So if things have been going a certain way and all of a sudden they flip or change it with no explanation, red fucking flag. So if you're texting with someone and you text every day for a week and you text all day, there's like, it's a little routine. Like if you're in a routine with someone and you're doing this and then all of a sudden they stop. They stop that routine and want to act like nothing happened. That's a fucking issue. Like my best analogy is like if you have a gym buddy, so you go to the gym every day with your friend at 10 a.m.

So every day you two go to the gym and you work out together. It's like you've been going to the gym together for a month and you just know you meet at that time and you work out and then you're done. And then one day you show up and they just don't come and they're just gone. Like that's sudden inconsistency.

And then it's like them showing up the next day at 10 a.m And acting like nothing happened Bitch, what the fuck? Where the fuck were you? You're not gonna give no explanation You just want to walk in like nothing just happen like fuck you. No. You're very unaware if someone does that They are extremely unaware sudden and consistency that means they're not unaware, sudden and consistency. That means they're not even aware enough to be able to be considerate of the way that you feel and how it could be perceived for them to just all of a sudden be inconsistent. So, that's a fat red flag.

Okay, my next red flag is something that I do and I hate that I'm about to call myself out on it, but I need to be able to warn everybody, but it's going to bite me in the ass with the people in my life. Once I warn you about it, is if someone is always face timing you, like out of the blue, randomly face timing you all the fucking time. And even if it's not all the time, but they just randomly will start FaceTime in you. They're checking where you're at. Okay. So if you're going to cheat on somebody, you don't want them rolling up on you. So you're going to call them FaceTime and pretend like you're just saying, Hi, how are you? How's your day? Yada, Yada, you're going to have some bullshit conversation. What you're really doing is checking where they at. Are they at work? Are they driving somewhere? Where are they headed? What are they doing? What are their plans? Do you want to mean like you're really doing is checking where they at. Are they at work? Are they driving somewhere?

Where are they headed? What are they doing? What are their plans? You know what I mean? Like you're checking to keep up with where they're at and what they're doing. So that's just an example. Like if you're gonna cheat on somebody,

you need to check where the fuck they're at. So if someone is FaceTime and you're out of the blue, they could be cheating. They might be trying to figure out where you're at so they don't get caught. I'm not saying always, I'm just saying look at that. Like that might be a red flag. So one of the reasons that I FaceTime people randomly

is I'm seeing where the fuck you're at because I wanna see if you're lying to me about where you're at. So if I just FaceTime you're out of the fucking blue, that's what I'm checking. Because if you told me you were going out with so and so or you were doing something that night and I didn't believe you, whether it's a friend

or someone I'm interested in, I'm calling you and finding out, I don't like being fucking lied to. I don't trust people for shit. So that's just something that I do, is I just face time people out of the fucking blue. It's usually a test. Okay, sometimes, sometimes it's a test with me,

but if I'm dating you or I'm about to start dating you It's a thousand percent a test. I'm not just calling you because I want to talk to you bitch I'll just show up where you're at if I want to see you, but if I'm calling you bitch I'm checking I'm taking notes and I'm checking where the fuck you're at I'm not saying always. I'm just saying look at that like that might be a red flag Okay, my next one is something I despise and it's when someone uses their bad childhood as an excuse for doing some fucked up shit That's not an excuse because you had a hard or bad childhood or because your parents then it love you It's not an excuse to be a piece of shit grow up take accountability go to fucking therapy. Honestly go get you Thinized

Take accountability, go to fucking therapy. Honestly, go get you Thinized. Okay, next red flag, if someone is gonna talk shit about their partner behind their back, and I'm not talking about, they're going to their best friend, and they're confiding in them about something and they're just like venting. I'm talking, if they're with a group of friends,

and they're like, dogging the fuck out of their partner. That's a red flag, whether you're gonna be friends with this person or you're interested in this person. Like, if someone comes to you talking about their partner and they're talking shit, like, dogging them and disrespecting them, that's a red flag. I don't give a fuck what the situation is. Even when you're venting, you need to watch

your fuck amount about your partner. Your partner or someone you should never embarrass. You need to keep their sense of respect and their sense of self in the forefront of your mind no matter how mad you are. Like there's no excuse to disrespect your partner to other people. If they're gonna continue being your partner.

And that's the worst shit. As when someone breaks up, they dog the shit out of their partner and they expose everything they were dealing with and they get back with them. You look like a dumbass, okay? If you're gonna break up with somebody, don't run your fucking mouth about them. If there's any chance of you getting back with them, because then you look stupid.

Sorry. Okay, next red flag. If someone unprovoked, bully somebody. So if you're out with your friend or you're out with your partner and someone walks by you and your partner or your friend just starts like bully and the other person and like talking shit to them That's a red flag you need to check them and you need to leave you need to never talk to them again There's a difference between someone walking by and us like kicking and like talking shit

But it's a different thing to talk shit to somebody and to try and be mean to somebody and embarrass them That's mean. Don't fucking do that. Don't own provoke just bully somebody. You can talk shit with your friends fine Don't do it where they can hear you like be polite and talk behind their back. Okay? Have some respect But be ready to own whatever the fuck you're saying like I said earlier if you're gonna talk shit behind someone's back Be prepared to own it. It's a red flag when someone is just mean to somebody. I don't like that. So one thing that someone can say to you

that's an instant red flag and should throw you right the fuck off is, well, I'm sorry you feel that way. Because that right there exposes that they do not understand why you feel the way you do. They're just judging it. They don't understand it, they don't get it.

Because they're like, well, I'm sorry you feel that way. Like that's dismissive and that shows that there's a big disconnection. They don't understand your perspective. And if they're fine, just walk in away from a conversation, knowing you're upset by something and saying, well, I'm sorry you feel that way. If that's all they have to fucking say, big disconnect,

big red flag, real lack of emotional intelligence and emotional maturity. And if you don't understand why that is so deep, bitch, read a book, read a fucking book, go learn something because that itself, I feel is very self explanatory, but a lot of people say that because if you're telling me something happened to you and you feel a certain way, even if I did something to you and you're hurt by it, I'm not just going to tell you, well, I'm sorry you feel that way. Like, oh, I don't say sorry, we know that, but I'm going to try my best to understand

where you're coming from. And I'm not going to be able to say, well, I'm sorry you feel that way. I'll be able to say, I understand why you feel that way. I'll be able to say I understand why you feel that way That's what you can say that's what you want to hear you don't want to hear I'm sorry you feel that way like that shit pisses me the fuck off I've heard it from every single person in my life my entire life and me and my sister Beja We fucking talk shit on everybody that says that that is the most annoying thing and me and her don't say that to each other Like we have both been spit that our entire life because that's like the biggest cop out. Like well, I'm sorry. Like the person feels like they're apologizing for something but they're really not like, oh, I'm sorry you feel that way. That is

so invalidating and like fuck you. I hate it. I rather you not say anything. I rather you shit on my I'd rather you shit on my chest. Okay, that was a little dramatic. I don't want you to actually shit on my chest, but I'd rather you just not say anything and say, well, I'm sorry you feel that way. Shut that in your fucking dickhole. Okay, a big red flag for relationships and someone you're interested in is if you both can't be upset at the same time. So if you're aggravated or you're upset

and hurt by something and then they get mad, they try to immediately discredit and like discard the fact that you're upset. Like if they can't hold space for you both to be upset, that's a red flag. And I see like one or the other. I don't fuck with that, I don't like that. That translates into so many things and I don't have the time to unpack that. That's a fucking

two year podcast. Another one is this someone treats you bad and then says, I love you. If someone treats you like shit or does something that actively hurts you and they keep doing it and they know that they're doing something that hurts you, they don't get to say I love you. Snatch that word out of their fucking mouth. They're not allowed to treat you like shit and then say I love you, that's not love. And then that kinda goes into my next one

and my last point is if someone thinks that sacrifice is them showing that they love you, sacrifice is not love. And if someone thinks that sacrifice is them showing that they love you. Sacrifice is not love. And if someone thinks that, that is a very dangerous person to get involved with, whether it's a friend or a partner, do not fuck with nobody that thinks that sacrifice means they love you.

And sacrificing what they want is them proving that they love you. That's not love. That's gonna lead to resentment. They're going to fucking hate you eventually. And then when everything goes wrong or anything goes wrong in their life, they're going to blame you. Well, I fucking gave this up for you. I did this because of you. Like it's no. Don't just trust me. Just fucking trust me. If you only listen to one thing I ever say is do not get involved with someone that thinks that sacrifice equals love. That will ruin you. I'm gonna

polish it off there. We had our fun, then we got deep, but I'm over it. Like this podcast has me sweating. I'm fucking aggravated. Right? Like all these things that we just went through. Y'all, you have a new like guidebook for your life now. If you are trying to find someone that's aware, because someone aware I ain't doing none of this shit. Okay. So you're welcome for your new cheat sheet for all the people that you're gonna be friends with or date. Much love, good luck.

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I hope you enjoyed this episode and I will talk to you next Sunday.