BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko - 67: 5 Things to NEVER Do With a Man

Episode Date: July 1, 2024

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The following podcast is a dear media production. Hello, my little gorgeous spring chicken. Today I'm going to be talking about things you should never do, maybe four, maybe five, maybe six things that you should never, never, never, never, never do with a man that I would never do with a man that you should never do with a man because why would we do these things with a man for a man to a man? It's not a good idea.

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number one, it's not attractive to people who are healthy. It is attractive to predators and narcissists. So when you are desperate, you will settle for things that are less. You will settle for people who do not bring anything into your life. And you will fall for people who are predatory. Narcissists love to be with somebody who they can manipulate, people who are empathic and people who are searching for healing. And if you are in a place of weakness in your current life and you are trying to date, it is not advisable. Get to a place where you are happy and proud of the person that you are exemplifying yourself as the character that you are appearing as, not a victim, not a broken hoof deer lying in the savannah because you will attract that. Also,

So if that does not concern you and you are, don't mind a little bit of a narcissist or a privy to a little bit of a predator stalking out for people who are weak, then I'll put it this way. Nobody who is sexy, attractive, amazing, or nobody in general except for those types, vampiric types, loves somebody who is desperate. Somebody who's desperate is hard to be with. They're constantly clingy. They always want your approval. It is not something a healthy person wants to be with. If you are a woman and you're seeking a relationship with a man, make sure you're not coming from a desperate place. Make sure you're not coming from a place of, oh, I've got 7.5 children and I need

a provider, or I'm 35 years old and I need to get pregnant. You always need to buffer yourself as a woman and a feminine energy woman at that with paradigms which protect you. If you want a man in your life, you should want and need a man in your life because it enhances your life, not because you just can't survive without one. If you're feeling weak and in need of counsel and attention, the narcissist will smell that out. You want to present the best of you, the most resourceful version of you, to a relationship, and therefore attract a more resourceful person. There's a kingfisher on my balcony. That is quite amazing. The best way to do this is write a list of a type person you want, traits, looks, hobbies, 6-5, finance, trust fund, blue eyes, and then write down

what type of person they would want in return, okay? Because a lot of us write these lists till the cows come home about the type of guy that they want. He's going to be this, he's going to be that, he's going to be empathic, he's going to be generous, he's going to be gorgeous, he's going to be all of these things, and then it turns around and you look at yourself and your list of traits and you are not the type of woman he wants. So the second list you need to write is what type of woman would he write on his list of traits that he wants? And now there's a lorikeet parrot on my balcony, okay? I just want you to know that I am snow white in here.

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Create your own universe of happiness and you will attract the man you want. If you want a man who's attracted to desperate women, then go about your bad self and find him when you're desperate. If not, never do that. Number two, never be with a man who pushes you away physically or makes you feel ick. We've never discussed this on this podcast, but there is a biological trait and it has been proven by science again and again. I'm sure you can hear these parrots in the background to know that I'm not lying, but why would I be lying? There is, science has proven that if somebody makes you feel yucky by their odor and scent, that means you're not biologically compatible, even if you're

not planning to have children together because that is what this trait is for. It means your DNA doesn't match. It's still not a good idea to push through and be like, it's okay. He smells like shit, but he's a good provider and he is good looking on paper. Do you know how many men are good looking on paper that I don't find attractive and how many strange looking men I do find attractive? I don't mean in everyday life I find strange looking men attractive. I mean throughout the history of my life I've found men who aren't quintessentially attractive to be attractive just because of, it turns out to be biology.

I don't know. On TikTok and a lot of places there's been this conversation and this rhetoric about a few things. that if he makes you sick or if you often get urinary tract infections, UTIs, it's your body telling you not to be with him and your pH doesn't match. I need you to look out for a man who's good on paper who's you're forcing yourself to be with or just because you've been with him for a long time or you like him a lot. I'm not going to name names, but I did have a partner in the past who I felt that way about. He was just really good on paper, but I was like, I see him more as a friend,

but surely romantic relationship starts with friendships, but every time he'd be like trying to hug me, I'm like, oh God, please, why? Why is this happening? And not in a major way, but like an underlying slight way where I was trying to convince myself that it was a good thing. When another trait is he might find him attractive and all might be gravy, but you start to get ugly around him. They say that you can tell how good a man treats his woman by how good or bad she looks around

him. When you feel sick around him, when you get ugly around him, and by ugly, I mean like disheveled, like not good, your skin is dull, your hair is dull, you're just not it. That might not be the one for you. Follow the ick, ladies, you need to follow the ick. It is the smell, their total package. Like for example, I know this is a bit weird, but with my partner, I don't think he smells. It's like the most bizarre thing. And I asked him and he feels the same. He probably lied to me, but whatever, as if a man would ever tell a woman that she smells. But I just genuinely don't, I can tell, I can tell that he has been working out or sweats, but it doesn't smell to me. Let me tell you, an average person, like when they work out or whatever, an average man stinks to me.

Okay? So that is a very important. You need to have the trifecta of being attracted to that person bodywise. And then also soul and mind, the soul, ick is like, you know, when you look at someone and you genuinely, your soul just feels at peace, being alone with them. But the soul ick is like when you don't really want to be around them alone and you'd rather be with other friends. Like your soul's not at peace when you're around them. Like you're trying to look out the window, always trying to get out. And the mind connection is really important when you can just bounce ideas off each other

and it's like a mastermind and it's so exciting. A lot of times the mind dick is like, you're listening to him and you're like, WTF, ick. You're talking about stocks again, I can't, you know. So you need to follow the ick. So number one, never lead with desperate energy and number two, follow the ick. Number three, on two, never create a codependent relationship. It's so hard for us ladies to don't do that. People who can't live without each other. It's Romeo and Juliet love. Oh my God. How good it feels being female and like being in that kind of Romeo and Juliet scenario, we can't live. without each other. You're texting him. He's texting you. You're on top of each other.

Like communication wise all the time. But always, always, always mark my word, men get sick of it. They get sick of it because you start creating control in an environment as a woman. Women who enjoy this kind of like closeness in a relationship are often anxiously attached. If you haven't seen all my anxiously attached content, browse my content, especially my YouTube channel. You will find a lot there. But I'm telling you, if you're going to lead with your anxious attachment, it's going to create a relationship where right now you're like otters throllicking in the water but sooner rather than later he's going to start to run away from you and you're going to start chasing because you're going to crave that closeness women who are in that kind of codependent relationship love to create an element

of guilt they love to lead with those i've had your two children i've had your seven children how could you do that to me i've done this why would you do that i've done that one you could do that one um i've given you my best years all of that kind of rhetoric or or i've done this how could you be looking at someone else, all that stuff. And my question to you is this, those things all might be true. You might be doing all these things for him. And let's take it down a notch. Just forget the children and all that stuff. You're just dating. And you're like, I move cities for you. I canceled my friends dinner for you. I've done this for you. If that is true and he takes it in and he's like, oh yes, I better be with Jessica because, or I better be good to Jessica because she canceled her dinner plans and didn't see her family for

Christmas. Do you want someone to be with you because they feel sorry for you? Is that the dynamic you want, that they feel sorry for you? You don't want to be that kind of like queen, princess, whatever it is that you guys call goddess that he's chasing. You want to be the creature that he feels sorry and guilty for? Oh yes, quick, I better not text any other women because she's given up five years of her life. Oh, alas, what can we do? Better be faithful to Jessica. Do you like want to be that guilt-inducing shrew? No, I don't think so. That even sometimes when you do feel like he owes a lot for what you've done. It's better to swallow that than to exemplify that because if he already doesn't feel that you've done so much and therefore he owes you some kind of loyalty or love or

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You need to really, really, really, really truly, truly respect the man that you're with because that leads to a really healthy, masculine, and feminine dynamic. It does not mean he's going to be rich. It does not mean he's got to be tall. It does not mean he's got to be whatever it is, blue eyes, trust fund, yeah? It's just got to be something you respect. If you agree to be with a partner who is below you in your own concept, you will berate him. You will become a version of a person that nobody wants to be with.

And it is about you. It is about your life story. It is about your love story. So you don't want to be that woman. Be in a partnership that degrades the both of you to unhealth and unsuccess is not the best idea. So you've chosen this man and you do not amplify. each other, which is kind of like, number four, four point to like an element of this concept, okay, if you've chosen to be in a relationship where both of you sit on the sofa and don't

encourage each other and just delve into comfort and ridiculousness and don't have accountability to each other, that's another version. Like choosing a relationship that is below you or denigrates how you look and act and feel in your success is not the one. You would rather, often in these types of relationships, have a Homer Simpson that is loyal to you with a beer belly, then a man who is slightly out of your league, like choosing a man who is not above you in some way and is below you is that Homer Simpson effect where you're like, oh my God, nobody would want this slob anyway. So I will just, you know, he'll be loyal to me. It's from a point of basically you'd rather have a Homer Simpson at home than somebody who

is in any way out of your reach because you just want to, that feeling. feeling of security and faithfulness and loyalty and he's not inspiring you. You are not achieving new things. Sometimes inspiration comes at the cost of slight discomfort or slight feeling of unease, but it's worth it. Are you getting the worse of him because you are scared to push yourself to be with somebody who you actually admire? Lastly, women who are feminine energy and know what they want and are all in their goddess energy never suffer in a relationship. If you're suffering in a relationship, something has gone awry, you need to change it. If it doesn't add to you, you don't need it in your life. That is a fundamental rule, ladies, adhere to it. I love you lots like jelly tots,

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