Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Fish That Swim

Episode Date: June 25, 2018

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What will you do? LASIK at evergreen.com. Moving 92.5. Rook and Jubal's Second Date Update. The girl on the phone for a second date update today is shocked that a guy is not calling her back after he went on a date with her. Why? Because in her own words, according to her email, she has never been blown off by a guy ever. What? And that's why they call her Sure Thing Amanda.

Sure Thing Amanda is on the phone with us. What's up, Sure Thing? I don't think that's what she said. Hi. Oh, she's fine with it. Okay, I lied. Do they actually call you that? I just made that up. No, but I'm fine with it.

Okay. Okay. All right. Well, I'm just going to call you Sure Thing from now on. So you said that this is the first time you've ever been blown off by a guy and not gotten a second date. Yep. This is the first time. How is that possible?

That's what I'm saying. I don't know how it's possible. No, no, that's not what I meant. I meant, how have you never been blown up? I don't know. Just never had that happen to me before. So this must be a very confusing time in your life, and I'm sorry about that, Amanda.

Tell us a little bit about the guy that you want us to call today. What's his name? His name is Jimmy. Okay, Jimmy. So this is a story. So one morning I was getting coffee before work, and I left the shop, and some guy ran outside after me, and he was like, you forgot this.

And I turned around, and he had a comb in his hand. And I was like, what? That's not mine. And he was like, I know, I know. I just needed something to get your attention. I just wanted to talk to you. Oh, okay. So it was a little trick to try to talk to you.

So he showed you his dirty, bacteria-ridden comb that he had in his pocket. Well, I thought it was funny. It was, you know, clever, whatever. Are you someone who often gets chased down in parking lots for dates? Not chased down, but, you know, guys ask me out. Yeah. Nice. You know, we got to talking, and he seemed cool, and that's when he asked me to hang out.

And I said, well, I have work right now, but he asked for my number, so I gave it to him. And we texted for a few days, and Facebook came, you know, did the background check, all that. Right, so you did your due diligence to find out if he's a perv or not. Right, exactly. So he seemed cool, so we set a time to, you know, hang out for a date and we went to dinner. How was dinner? Was everything cool? Well, everything was good, except for one part that was a little bit weird. I told him I used to be a dancer.

Nice. That's what I'm talking about. Now I know why you're always getting calls back. I get it. Not that kind of dancer. I danced for a sports team. I used to dance for a sports team. Oh, okay.

That's not quite the caliber of dancer I was hoping for. That's what I was going to say. Maybe he's not calling you back because you're not that kind of dancer. Well, but when I told him, he got this weird look after I said it, kind of like you guys did when I told you for the first time. It's understandable. And that's when I was like, oh, no, no, not that type of dancer. I used to dance for a sports team.

Yeah. But then he seemed skeptical, like he didn't really believe me. So I don't know, maybe he thought I was covering up that I really was that kind of dancer. Is that why you think he's not calling you back? Because because he thinks you're a stripper? I don't know. It could be the only thing I can think of. Are you insulted that a man thinks that you are a stripper? No, I mean, I told him the truth. Can I ask you a question, Amanda?

Yeah? You don't sound like you're really that into this guy. Do you want to just do a second date update because he's the only guy never to call you back? Kind of, yeah. I don't blame you. That's fine. I am all for that. It's weird when somebody doesn't, you know, call you back after a date. Yeah, I mean, I don't even need a second date.

I just want to know why he called me. I mean, is that okay that I still do this? Yeah, absolutely. It is. Why don't you tell us how everything ended with him? Well, he gave me a kiss on the cheek and we went our separate ways. Did you make any plans for a future date? No, he said, you know, I'll call you. Have you tried texting him? No, I haven't texted him. Oh yeah. You'd never do something like that.

Well, I'm waiting for him to text me. But maybe, I mean, maybe he just caught on to the fact that you're not really that interested in him. And so he thought, why even put the energy in? I don't care. I just want to know why he's not calling me back. Okay. How long has it been, then, since your date? Since you haven't reached out to him, you're just waiting for him to call. It hasn't been like a day or anything, has it?

No, it's been like two weeks. Okay. Yeah, that's an official blow-off, then. Yeah. This is the first time this has ever happened to me, and I can't figure it out. Okay, well, we'll play a song. Come back, call him, and get your second date update, all right? Okay, thank you.

You're welcome. Hang on. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Amanda. Yeah, greeta, fellas. She's working for you. She wants a second date update because the guy she went out with won't call her back And she is so upset And she's about to take it out for everybody to see Get your ones out Amanda's taking center stage

And gonna show us how a second date update is really done Isn't that right, Amanda? That's right. Yeah. Why am I introing Amanda like that? Well, because she's a dancer. Unfortunately, she's not that kind of dancer. But she thinks that the guy isn't calling her back.

Because during their date, she was like, I'm a dancer. And then he gave her a weird look. Like you always hear when somebody just says they're a dancer. You're like, I know what that means. And then she explained that she wasn't that kind of dancer, but she feels like maybe he didn't believe her. That's the only thing she can think of as to why he wouldn't be calling her back. She did also say that she's never been blown off by a guy before ever. This is the first guy never to call her and ask for a second date.

And that's more important to her than even getting the second date. She just wants to know why this is the one guy who wouldn't call her back. Amanda? Yep. You ready to get this thing going? I'm ready. And if he says something, I'm okay. That's right, she is. Amanda is always ready. Sheila's by the motto, if you stay ready, you ain't got

to get ready. And we're ready for some hot second date action. It's you've been moonlighting as a strip club DJ, haven't you? I want that job so bad. Okay, sorry, Brooke. You were saying something to Amanda before I started the music. Yeah, I mean, if it comes back that maybe he's just been out of town

for the last two weeks and there's a totally reasonable explanation, are you actually going to turn him down at that point? I don't know. I mean, I guess we'll see how it goes. You sound actually pissed that this guy's not calling you back. I am. I just want to know, like, of all the guys that I've dated, why is it this guy that's not calling me back?

What reason does he have? Well, I'm going to dial the phone number right now and get him on the phone and see if we can find out why, okay? Sounds good. Okay. Hello? Hi, can I speak to Jimmy, please? Yeah, this is Jimmy.

Hey, Jimmy, how are you? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. Who? Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning, the radio program. Why is the radio program calling me? Well, because one of our listeners actually emailed us and asked if we could get you on the phone. Her name is Amanda, and you recently took her out on a date. Oh. Okay.

So Amanda emailed us and told us about your date. And she also said she really liked you a lot. And she's wondering why you're not calling her back. She said it's been like two weeks since you guys went out. She's been hoping you would call to ask her on a second date, but she's heard nothing. And she's wondering, is there... I bet she did. Whoa! What did you just say?

You bet she did? I said I bet she did. Why do you say it like that? Well, Amanda is, uh, uh, boy, Amanda is, uh, she's something else. Um, we talked to her just to let you know, we talked to her. She told us about meeting you. I thought it was really cool the way you are. I'm sure she did. She didn't sound like anything that, I mean, you. Can I say she's a real pisser on the air? Sure.

What do you mean by that? Like she had like problems. She's a nightmare. She's a nightmare? Did you say she's a nightmare? She was a nightmare. Why is she a nightmare? Why is she a nightmare? Well, what did she tell you?

She just said you guys went out to dinner and had some good conversation, ended the date with a kiss on the cheek, and she was hoping to hear from you again. That's pretty much it. Yeah, well, okay. Amanda is a very attractive woman, but I could tell everything about her from her food order. What do you mean? Like, she's a vegetarian and you just can't stand those people? Like, I feel the same. Oh, it's

a lot worse than that. What could be worse? What did she do just ordering food that pissed you off enough to, like, call her a pisser or whatever? Well whatever let me give you a blow-by-blow description she started off by asking for bottled water no ice and it couldn't be tap water she explained all this to the waiter why is that so offensive to you, though? Oh, that's not offensive. That was just the opening salvo. All right.

It got worse from there. Then she explained that she had certain dietary restrictions. Like? She doesn't eat any red meat. Okay. No gluten. No dairy. No fish that swim.

What? But crab are fine. No fish that swim? Oh, no crab are fine. No fish that swim? Oh, no. Yeah. I let that sink in. So no gluten, no dairy, no fish that swim. She's a picky eater, obviously.

Yeah. I even asked her, I said, what do you mean fish that swim? Oh, so she. And she made this little wavy motion with her hand, you know, fish that swim. I said, yeah, I know, fish that swim. Don't all fish swim? No, no, you know, there's some little fish that walk around, you know, like shrimp, lobsters, anything with little bitty legs are okay.

Is that just because she, like, has, like, an allergy or something? I don't know. Who knows? I thought you were just saying it, like, as a figure of speech when you were talking fish that swims. I didn't realize that was the exact words that came out of her mouth. No, she actually said fish that swim. You know, I was going to just take it at face value, but she went on to explain to me that fish that swim have a higher mercury content,

and so if you eat fish that swim, you're slowly killing yourself. You sound really upset about this. I wanted to eat a whole fish right then. Okay, so is it? All right, so she's a picky eater. I've never heard the fish that swim thing before. Why not go out with her on a second date, though? Is that the only bad thing?

Wasn't that enough? I don't know. It's a high-maintenance issue. Can I ask, because I'm just curious, what did she end up ordering for dinner? I don't know. Some sort of salad? Of course.

With water dressing? You know something about her? Water dressing. So we talked to her about your date and she didn't mention her dietary restrictions but she did also say you're the only guy that has ever not called her back

for a second date. You know that? That's kind of hard for me to believe. I can't imagine all the other guys in her life have put up with that. Oh, my gosh. You know what, Jimmy? Thank you for being honest with us, man. I appreciate it.

No problem. And now I feel like I must be honest with you because Amanda is actually on the other line listening to this conversation. Say what? Yeah, I am here, and I'm hearing what you're saying about me. Oh, hello. Hey, Amanda. I care about what goes in my body, and obviously you don't. It's not high news.

No, I was caring about what went in your body in a completely different way than what you were saying. Whoa, sir. Thank you for taking the words out of my mouth, Jimmy. I was hoping I didn't have to make that joke. You're a jerk. Dude, Jimmy, I will say, to stand up for her, what do you expect? The hottest girl you've ever seen to then go down a cheeseburger?

Thank you. She can't have that body that she probably has and also mow down on cheese fries all the time. Look, haven't you ever heard the phrase, no matter how hot she is, there's some guy that's just tired of her s***? Yes, I have. For your information, I didn't even want a second date.

I literally just wanted this to happen to find out why you didn't call me back, why you were such a jerk. Obviously, I'm the hottest girl that you've ever gone out with. So, that's for you. Look, I'm not going to lie. You're very hot, okay? And I totally sleep with you once, but I just don't want to eat with you again. Oh my gosh.

That leads me to my question. Jimmy, would you like to go on a second date with Amanda? There will be no eating. Oh, hell no. I was going to say, I would pay for you guys to go to dinner, but you don't even have to do that. You can just sleep together once. Not interested either, Amanda, huh? No, I'm not.

Yeah, you're not missing out there, Amanda, whatsoever. Clearly. You know what? You're just a low-class jerk, and you obviously can't handle a woman like me. I don't want to handle a woman like you. I'd rather handle a woman that eats fish that swims. And by the way,

I don't care what you think. All fish swim. Well, this was definitely not a successful second date update, but we can try to answer the question on our text message board

78592. Do all fish swim? Text it in. There's something way more important going on now. Broken Jubal in the morning. Now there's just a big debate on the text message board at 78592 about if fish swim or not. If there are fish that don't swim.

A lot of people are saying dead fish don't swim. They float. That's very true. Some people say starfish don't swim. We're talking about it because of the second date update. If you missed today's second date update, this girl named Amanda went out with a dude named Jimmy. And there was a weird moment on the date where she told him that she was a dancer, and he gave her a weird look because she thought maybe he thought she was a special kind of dancer. But she's not that kind of dancer.

She thought he might have gotten the wrong idea, though, and that's why he wasn't calling back. But we got him on the phone, and Jimmy said he was turned off by her picky food ordering. She asked for no gluten, no dairy, and no fish that swim. There's a crustacean battle that's happening right now. If it doesn't swim, it's a crustacean, according to a lot of people. But lobsters, they swim. They can just push themselves along, kind of. It is a debate.

Apparently, she only eats sea creatures with legs. Shrimps, lobsters, things like that, that don't swim, but I will not eat any fish that swim. And Jimmy thought she was just too high maintenance and did not want another date with her. And you know he's Googling a lot of things about fish right now. I mean, is she even right? What's happening with this fish? But I understand that, you know, not wanting to go out with someone who's that picky of an eater.

You can't ever go anywhere. Or if you do go somewhere, it's just like she's going to order a salad. Every single time. Well, she should, right? If she's that picky, then that's what you stick to. Somebody texted in and said starfish actually do swim. But are starfish

considered fish or are they considered a crustacean? They got fish in the name. Someone says the batfish walks. Yeah, but I think that there's a lot of things with fish in the name that doesn't make it a fish. What do you mean? We are so scientific. It's like, how are we not on National Geographic right now?

Some people are saying lobsters and shrimp do swim. The conversation on the text board is amazing right now. But I don't think lobsters and shrimp are fish. Does a crustacean count as a fish? If it lives in the sea, is it a fish? I don't think so. I think a think lobsters and shrimp are fish. Does a crustacean count as a fish? If it lives in the sea, is it a fish? I don't think so. I think a fish and a crustacean are different. I don't know.

Anyway, all I know is that today's Second Date Update has opened up a whole discussion that I think is very important and that we need to have. Remember, if you want to do a Second Date Update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person that didn't call you back. Moving 92.5. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast.

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And on my podcast, Get Hired, I bring you all the information you need to, well, get hired. Landing a job may be tough, but Get Hired is here for you every step of the way with advice on resumes, networking, negotiation, and so much more. Listen to Get Hired with Andrew Seaman on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you like to listen. The OGs of uncensored motherhood are back and badder than ever. you like witty women, then this is your tribe. Listen to the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast every Wednesday on the Black Effect Podcast Network, the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you go to find your podcasts.